Why don’t men ask questions on dates

[@MelodyMan69]

"Thats enough of me talking about me, why don't YOU talk about me" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ADHJkvsNgsMBbTQe]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Morgyborgyblob]

If I can't get a word in edgeways, I'm going to assume she doesn't want to talk *to* me, but rather *at* me.

[@Wyn-zb7or]

A Woman asking a Man questions denotes interest. If she doesn't do that and talks at you, she's basically using you for dinner AND therapy.

[@dewardroy6531]

Morguborgyblob: ain’t that the square in the middle of the bingo card?

[@matthewnelson5293]

Instead of seriously considering the question, she just concludes that men are at fault, again

[@baldhermit]

Could also simply be that date took her measure, decided to be as civil as possible, but having alreeady decided date #2 is not happening. Because, why is this woman so experienced at dating?

[@Patrik6920]

We do ask questions, if something need clarifications or if of any importance or is relavant to the situation .. we just dont ask irrelevant questions just. ..there is no need to ask questions if she already revealed all the red flags, thers no point, we already know what need to be known...

[@togotfury]

Last woman I asked questions accused me of interrogating her

[@ohnemar4285]

I've learned right in the beginning after a few days, that never ask a girl "WHERE IS MARTHA??!"

[@jacobmcandles1745]

I had a friend of many years I used to ask questions of , she bought me an IPad.

[@bg5215]

I find it hilarious when people say this. Shows they don't actually know the definition of the word interrogating is. No kidding I'm interrogating you. That's what asking questions is.

[@deantodd8103]

Well stop shining a bright light directly in the eyes of your dates when asking them questions! 🤣

[@Ozzy-Mag]

Yeah, I try not to ask standard questions. There is a reddit thread I found with some good ideas for questions that are a bit more interesting & varied but if answered can actually teach you more factors about your date that get answered covertly

[@willsmith9726]

For a woman, "normal" conversation is the way that women talk to each other. Few women know how to converse with men.

[@jonhendrickson1382]

"Why isn't he more focused on me??????"

[@machinemaker2248]

People like to tell on themselves. Let her ramble if she wants, and collect data.

[@Torikame1]

Smart man. Letting her do the talking let's him know what's important to her and whether they are likely to be compatible

[@dewardroy6531]

And whether or not she EVER shuts her pie hole.

[@Sw-nn6le]

Men are expected to initiate the interest, ask her out, pick the place (that has to be perfect for her judgemental mentality), be financially responsible for the meal and activity, drive to pick her up, drive to the places and festive her home, read her way too subtle clues and figure out if she is interested or just wanting a free meal, initiate the conversation, maintain the conversation and make it interesting and then initiate a possible second date. All she has to do is show up so the least she could do it carry the conversation a bit on her own.

[@takumifujiwara4503]

Right? And in return most women today doesn't offer anything more than their hole (and only sometimes). I know it sounds very rude, but that's a brutal truth. I can't imagine how things will change when AI-robot girlfriends will become a reality and women will lose their only advantage, imagine the screaming on social media 😂😂😂

[@LogisticallyMisrepresented]

No wonder men are worn out ! 🐻

[@DeadCat-42]

I'd rather get unnecessary dental work..

[@sibhuskyguy]

another no win scenario for men.... too many questions on a first date and we're too nosy or talkative or seen as interrogating.... too few and we're not trying hard enough or showing enough interest... keep in mind this is a sliding scale depending on that particular woman....

[@peterclarke7006]

Aw, BLESS YOU, cupcake. Is oo having a hard time finding anyone willing to touch your peepee? 😂 Simple rule for dates: it's not a competition. You're not trying to "win" anything. You're trying to meet someone who likes you for who you are and vice versa.

[@leohalivan861]

Not gonna lie, I don't talk much in the first place. I found out a long time ago that you learn more by observing or letting people talk. However, some of the worst dates I've been on are with women who never shut up. Letting people talk is very different from dealing with someone who never leaves room for others to speak.

[@Sergio_Loureiro]

FIXED THE SPELLING FOR YOU: I found out a long time ago that you learn more by observing *THAN BY* letting people talk.

[@leohalivan861]

@@Sergio_Loureiro Nope. I meant exactly what I said.

[@OlujaDoTokija]

@@Sergio_Loureiro Bro, your sentence makes no sense.

[@Sergio_Loureiro]

@@OlujaDoTokija I meant exactly what I said. People's actions and how they behave matter more than what they say.

[@yellowdog762jb]

​@@Sergio_LoureiroYour statement made perfect sense to me.

[@melkerner]

I call it the "verbal steamroll"

[@sneezyfido]

I find that literally anything is a potential mine. Also, essentially any topic I take an interest in tends to be dismissed or condemned for not being a shared interest, or my interest is not fanatical enough if it is shared. Instead I let her show her interests, because profiles tend to be either empty or insincere.

[@Gk2003m]

0:33: some years ago, I ran into a prior acquaintance at a funeral wake. A few people were around her, and she was talking. And talking, and talking, and talking. After about four minutes, she looks over at me and blurts “YOU COULD AT LEAST SAY HELLO!” and then goes on to keep talking. Completely unaware that I had been wanting to actually say hello, but because she virtually never stopped for air during those many minutes there was no opportunity whatsoever to do that. To Cookie: if you are reading this: Hello!

[@randomobserver8168]

The ideal opportunity to respond with, "perhaps if you had stopped talking for five seconds, I would have". Presuming you didn't need to have any future relationship with her, of course.

[@adamgilbert8474]

"I didn't want to interrupt you"

[@yellowdog762jb]

She's probably still talking.

[@MisterMarin]

Because we don't know what is and what isn't "allowed" and / or "appropriate", since that category varies from person to person, and changes along with the person's mood. Better safe than sorry.

[@paulsengupta971]

A female friend of mine figured this one out after complaining about it for some time. She complained that men on dates only talked about themselves and it was a big issue for her. It took her a while to realise that "dates" were actually like job interviews for the men. For the men, they already wanted to "work for the company" so they were trying to sell themselves to the "employer". In an ideal world, things would be 50/50 but we all know that it's women who generally have the say when it comes to dating.

[@thomasdee1980]

I have been on dates were they felt like job interviews (although less fun if you can imagine that).

[@johnrussell5592]

@@thomasdee1980 Yup. With that job, you don't get sick leave, or mental health days.

[@DeadCat-42]

I remember thinking my last date was like a job interview I had to pay for. She insisted on this , no prices on the menus, new restaurant $800 for undercooked salmon, with tip and drinks $1100 to find out she was MARRIED!! I gave up and never dated again!

[@fraterseeker]

@@DeadCat-42 That's why you plan the date and go to a place that won't break your budget. If she refuses to go to a cheap place, then stop talking to her and move on, but NEVER let a woman choose a date location.

[@DeadCat-42]

@@fraterseeker moot point, that was a decade ago and I never tried to date again. Like most of my friends, I've given up. To much effort to be treated as an option.

[@rhettbaldwin8320]

If he's not asking questions, it's because she's talking too much about herself.

[@bugslayerprime7674]

A simple piece of advice I heard once somewhere that I've found valuable: when someone tells me who they are, I listen.

[@djs12007]

So, basically, you just said, "men don't ask their date questions because they don't want to interrupt her"? 😂😂😂

[@tedhenkle]

Spot-on, especially about too many details/too much info. In my toxic first marriage, my wife would call me at work and want a full-blown, in-depth conversation. One that I kept trying to cut short--because I was at work. She'd get mad that I "wasn't paying attention." But if I was able to engage in a lengthy telephone conversation, then she's get mad at me when I got home, because I "wouldn't talk to her," despite telling her we already spoke earlier and I had nothing more to add. I just stumbled across your channel, Lin. Best wishes to you and all your endeavors.

[@BloodyHeck]

What's amazing is that there are also videos of women complaining about men asking a bunch of questions while on a date. Ask questions, she complains. Don't ask questions, she complains. The more I learn about women, the more I like spending time with my dogs.

[@marcus813]

I'm a shy man and I'm often unsure about what's appropriate to ask.

[@redbaron07]

Here’s a good one: “What do your friends come to you for advice on?” Keep it fun and open-ended.

[@robertjones2811]

You are screwed. Men have to be better than women in every way just to end up in the same place. Shy is the nail in the coffin.

[@werdwerdus]

it takes practice. you have to keep trying. you can't improve if you quit.

[@redbaron07]

Also find a female friend to practice on. The best ones are the partners of your male friends, they are much kinder than single women (although they were single once!) Some of them will enjoy being the expert and taking on the "project", just don't take up all of their time or rely on one too much.

[@LanceTobey]

So, she went on a date with a man who didn't ask questions. Here are the possibilities: 1. She completely dominated the conversation talking about herself and the man couldn't get a word in edge wise. 2. She asked the man a lot of questions which required him to respond to her and made it harder to ask questions in return. 3. He found her kind of insufferable and didn't really want to engage. 4. There were long periods of complete silence where he had answered her question(s) and she waited patiently for him to ask questions in return. For some reason I'm thinking that what really happened wasn't option 4.

[@jimmyboy131]

If it's option 4 then it's possible his social skills aren't very well developed. There shouldn't be very many long periods of silence. It's a skill that is learned and practiced, so it will get better the more he practices.

[@yellowdog762jb]

It's usually #1. Which leads to #3.

[@proxymohawk2933]

I was told by a family member that I interrupted her too much, I stopped trying to talk and just strapped in till she asked me something. She doesn’t complain anymore but winds up interrupting me now. She misses our conversations and thinks I’m a “man of few words” now. Meanwhile, talking to her feels draining.

[@georgeeads8689]

We don't ask questions because the woman will not let us get a word in. The woman will not be quiet long enough.

[@mikek0135]

A big reason I don't ask many questions is because I just want to experience her. When I'm just experiencing her, I learn when she laughs, gets angry, what kind of mood she tries to make, and all kinds of things about her personality (which is what I care about). It would take a million questions to find out as much about her as just experiencing her finds out.

[@philipfirks7755]

It works both ways: if she is not asking me questions she is not interested in me either.

[@JackFelker]

I keep the table talk to general terms and listen to what she says first. Then ask about her future goals. That seems to be the point that 99% of the women lose my interest. They don’t want a real relationship. They want someone to support them in the manner they wish to be. They want the Disney dream and are not willing to work for it. That’s when a smart man leaves.

[@Gk2003m]

“future goals”??? Wow, you yourself are treating dates as job interviews. Makes me glad to have grown up when I did. A time when going on a date was about the enjoyment of the experience, when the only agenda was “get laid if it goes that way, if not let’s have a great time anyway”. If I were dating now and a simple date started to sound like a life plan, I’d be outa there.

[@randomobserver8168]

@@Gk2003m Word.

[@LogisticallyMisrepresented]

Talk talk talk,,, men never ask questions - Where's the door.?! 😸

[@UnclePengy]

I'm autistic and ADHD, and if I don't ask a question about something right when I think about it, that thought is lost forever. My late wife used to HATE that I would dare interrupt her in a "conversation", but then be upset with me when I didn't contribute anything to said conversations. Either way, I was being rude.

[@Martin-u2g]

On a date? Like among the masses? Traffic and bad parking? These are not places i like to be, too many things to pay attention to, too much noise, too much people, truth is that il be over stimulated and will come across as being uncomfortable nervous and quiet. I dont like asking questions because I dont like answering questions, treat you the way I would treat myself, unless you engage me in a serious manner about a topic i wont bounce my thoughts back. Il most likely not remember the conversation ten minutes later if its just small talk. I have no such thing as awkward silence. Ffs you cant always talk. And i require time by myself, i dont follow anyone, so by that right I have prolonged conversations with myself, i dont cheat, never have, which has been the accusation for my solitude more than once. The last gf i had was like 11 years ago, I have not touched another person since then, not chatted to , nothing at all. Yeah the guys who are popular af with the ladies are 304’s, like my little brother, i remember when he was in preschool, maybe 5 years old came home from school oneday and with his charismatic grin declared that he has 31 gf’s. I didn’t even know what the fff he was talking about, but that day i became acutely aware that im not like him. All my sisters bridesmaids have smashed my little brother and others who were regular guests at the event, he left with the Event hostess. Everyone loves that kinda guy, they’re entertaining. But thats your incubis right there.

[@eeddsdsd]

The kinds of questions we have are: How much debt does she have, does she budget, body count, how fake is she, can she keep a secret, how much is this woman going to cost me, does she have any honesty. If you ask a women real questions, the odds are you will never speak to her again.

[@dynosophical]

I must be weird on this one. I ask questions all the time and often find that I'm the only one asking them. I have to take the lead for the entire conversation

[@fredcavalcante1887]

Too convenient for them. They're using you as an entertainer they're judging. Stop doing that.

[@MechMK1]

Just from the way she talks, she communicates "baseline hostility"

[@timperry6948]

Because actions speak louder than words. Your behavior matters, ladies.

[@john_in_phoenix]

We are afraid they might answer.

[@PsychedelicChameleon]

Thanks Lin Watchorn, I'm right with you on all your answers. I'd add that men don't want a date to be a dual interview, it's already enough to be a single interview where the woman asks the man a bunch of questions. Men do want to get to know the women they date, but they'd like to get to know her through actions and reactions of the things they do together, not just through conversation.

[@LanggerDangger]

We save our questions to ask the trees instead

[@rdkirk3834]

She's only going to give the answers she thinks will make her look good. He's better off just letting her demonstrate her ability to hold a conversation. He may ask only one question, and how she answers that will dictate for better or for worse whether he needs to ask anything else. The problem is, most women don't know how to maintain or initiate a conversation about anything other than themselves...they expect men to entertain them.

[@MrT13]

It’s actually really simple, yes we just don’t care. How’s in bed? Are you a nice or evil person? That’s literally all we care about. Those two things.

[@ianwynne764]

Hello Lin: Perhaps this woman means that the man didn't ask her about her feelings.

[@michaelmurray3800]

My partner talks without taking a breath. No gaps, pauses etc. I just tell people she has a word quota she has to hit everyday. Occasionally I tell her its a dialogue not a monologue and you need to let someone else get chance to speak too. lol

[@Lib_exorcist]

I’ve been on verbal diarrhea dates. One date told me horrible things that happened to her as a child. First date. I was speechless

[@arbhall7572]

When I was 22. I went on a date with a girl that wouldnt let me talk. I ditched her in the restuarant. Never said goodbye. Just got up, paid the bill and left. Im not sure when she noticed me leave, but she never called or made any attempt to get in touch with me again. So I believe i was successful in telling her i wasnt interested.

[@themasculinismmovement]

I used to ask questions on dates. Just like I taught people to. Because I was a dating coach. I almost never liked any of the answers (which were usually "I don't know I've never thought of that" even for basic questions), and the date usually ended after not too long. Eventually I stopped going on them, and stopped advising others to as well.

[@lovehand9531]

This is so true. My wife will ask me a question, then (without even taking a breath) go on talking and change the subject 3 or 4 times.

[@chewface]

If a man asks questions on a date, she feels like he's "prying" or being "nosy". You honestly cant win.

[@longtailgt]

Or the complete opposite of that: one word answers to any question you ask. You ask her how's she doing or what's up and all she replies is "I'm okay" or "it's good", that essentially kills the conversation right there.

[@montanausa329]

Because they don’t care or don’t want to know the answer

[@s0nnyburnett]

In any case, actions speak louder than words and someone walking down the sidewalk talking to their phone holding a drink with earbuds and sunglasses tells me EVERYTHING I need to know.

[@chrisjohnston3405]

Avoiding being accused of MANSPLAINING or other feminist attack buzz words/phrases! You can learn a great deal about a person by just sitting and watching without engaging in mindless yapping! Women like to talk about themselves and their day….outside that, nothing interests them unless other women say so! Just remember gentlemen, you are NEVER dating a woman…..you are dating a COMMITTEE! It’s ALWAYS group think! Her female family, friends, influencers are strongly involved in how she relates to you! Any negative “vibes” could end your relationship!

[@fredcavalcante1887]

Sad but true.

[@yellowdog762jb]

Good video. 10 Tips on how to have a good conversation with the typical man: 1-8) Two ears, one mouth. Listen twice as much as you speak. 9) Don't bounce all over the place on 5 topics in one minute. 10) Ask him some open ended questions, and then don't interrupt him in mid sentence when he is answering.

[@Yellowspider1776]

Holy Crap So True !

[@gunsrulecommiesdrool]

He heard her voice and didnt see any point !

[@zerstorer335]

Sometimes, it can also be a matter of not wanting to seem intrusive or like they're giving her the third degree. That can get into the issue of, if she automatically offers up all the stuff he might have thought to casually ask, he might feel like he's stuck with only serious questions to ask. And there's also a related question of if you give them something readily accessible to care about? It can help a discussion move along if you leave some low-hanging fruit around and give them time to get to it. (e.g. Did you grow up in multiple countries? Mention it, but don't necessarily go off into an in-depth autobiography so they can ask what it was like living in those countries or if you liked one more than the others.) This can help build up the comfort and momentum when it comes to asking questions.

[@Mike-cn2mt]

She is right, we don't care, until we do!

[@PurpleRobe8]

I was on a date once that was 3 hours long. She talked for 2hrs 45 min of it. Almost non stop. We did not have a 2nd date.

[@dinahnicest6525]

"Women are good at looking good." The answer to every question is whatever makes her look the best.

[@alans.4658]

I was chatting with a nice lady on a dating app. I noticed after a few days that she would answer my questions to her but would not ask anything of me. I split after that.

[@harryboyes2812]

I wouldn't know. I've never been on a date. Everyone I ever asked out turned me down (yeah, I know, that clearly states that I'm the problem, said problem being that I'm permanently stuck at male best friend), and in the end I stopped trying.

[@jacksonblack9408]

Asking questions is a very uncharasmatic way to get to know somebody. It reveals the distance between you, and at the end of the date you feel further apart than at the start.

[@lawrencedobesh776]

Men we are on a sight taking advice from someone who has purple and red hair 😂😂

[@PhunkyMunky10]

Sometimes the best answers to questions are the answers given without having to ask… particularly when you’re listening and observing to get a feel for her. Just let her ramble on and pay attention. Last date I was in before I began dating my wife this girl wouldn’t shut up about her past boyfriends. It’s not unusual for them to give you their resume: people sometimes do tend to talk about their ex but this chick completely trashed every single boyfriend and potential boyfriend she ever had. And I just let her go on because THIS was what I wanted to know: What’s her personality like. And if you don’t know, everyone who has a problem with EVERYONE and can’t stop bashing them… if absolutely going to bash you later on. In this case we got to boyfriend number 8 and I got up, payed for our food and left her there. We had met at the restaurant but even if she had picked me up I would have walked or took a cab or something like that because I wasn’t going to give this woman another minute of my time

[@900stx7]

He doesn't ask questions because she won't shut up long enough for him to talk.

[@Pocketfarmer1]

My grandmothers generation (late edwardians) thought asking questions was rude. One should not interrogate a guest or dinner companion. The point was to contribute to the conversation rather than make the other person uncomfortable with having to answer things. The burden is for each party to bring ideas to the conversation that elevate and amuse the other . This is the art of conversation . By just questioning everything , the interrogator does not contribute . There are times and places for questions and argument (stating positions and defending , not fights necessarily) but beginning dates most are not those times.

[@Nick-ij5nt]

How come all the women I talk to just give me one word responses instead of trying to have a conversation?

[@DarrellWefel-ts2kr]

BINGO !!! You're absolutely right we don't care !!!

[@Variable-2-actual]

I asked my date questions and for every question I asked I got a vague reply or a lie or a misdirection about something going on around us. Never got one straight answer from her. Then she might have insulted me in a different language. It felt like the date was a big joke to her.

[@werdwerdus]

yeahhh i think you're correct

[@dbpool]

fairly good - during a date, for a guy, he's scoping out how long you can rant about something, whether he can stand your tone of voice / attitude / personality... yes, he'd like to ask questions, but more surface oriented, no specifics unless you have a very mutual interest / hobby... he's scoping you out as a human being... and yes, that includes the ability to simply relax and let there be lull's / quiet in a conversation, there's nothing wrong with that. i've known women i can't stand the pitch of their voice (like scratching a blackboard), women that rant non-stop with no real information about themselves.., women tend to talk so much you generally figure out whether they're intelligent or completely vapid...

[@yeahyeahwowman8099]

Ask the same boring questions, "so what do you do for a living."? Questions are never unique or interesting, the best pick up line a girl used on me was just walking up and telling me a joke.

[@pepleatherlab3872]

Talking to men requires a certain method. Try this: Condense everything you want to say into one word, say it, then let silence prevail until he responds.

[@driverr988]

Actions speak louder than words. Why attempt to be part of a single sided conversation?

[@VroodenTheGreat]

She is 100% right, we don't care what you have to say. In fact, it would work better if you learn to shut up and listen.

[@bradleywesterford3587]

all I do is ask questions, since then I don't have to talk about myself.

[@Titon931]

The complete opposite happens on most dates. You ask questions and you get one word answers or just she is not interested.

[@oriraykai3610]

This girl has so much common sense she could be a Miss Manners newspaper columnist.

[@ADobbin1]

because we are just trying to enjoy your company.

[@davidkingsley3244]

Men have been told, that asking women a lot of questions, makes them feel like they are being interviewed for a job, with little interest, in her

[@Ebani]

I'll give you my two cents as a man: As men we don't ask questions bc anything important we might have a question for women would probably lie about, without mentioning that women usually expose themselves anyway if you let them talk long enough, so as a man there's really nothing to ask that you as a woman would actually want to answer bc they're very related to your person (like past experiences aka body count), in the same (opposite) way women would like to ask certain questions even though they're completely unrelated to the person (besides the occupation since women couldn't care less as long as it's a high income)

[@rplewis]

Women on a date either won't stop talking at you long enough to get a word in, or they give one word answers to every question.

[@SnappyPenguin566]

Me, man who has never dated: "This happens? Yeah nerves and all that but there's this "epidemic" of men not asking questions on dates?

[@davidnerswick]

If I ask my wife anything about a show or movie she's watching, 9/10 she'll give me a very detailed synopsis. To the point that, I don't really need to watch the show myself.

[@hyrkanian66]

Some women get us, some don't.

[@hilariousname6826]

I don't know ... maybe because any possible question you could ask is a "red flag" or an "ick"?

[@dhamon-pi6os]

They probably are asking questions. They dont notice a lot of times.

[@nolaspeaker5656]

Men are much more perceptive than they're given credit for! Some things are just obvious and don't need to be questioned.

[@ADHJkvsNgsMBbTQe]

That short clip was enough to tell me that if I somehow found myself on a date with that person I would not do anything to intentionally cause her to talk more than the minimum. The attitude and tone of voice both come across like fingernails screeching across a chalkboard. It’s not an epidemic, except for her, most likely. I’m sure she’s a fine individual, so hopefully she can get some help in alleviating her issues regarding presentation of self. Respectfully submitted.

[@ThePelicular]

How you conduct yourself,the way you talk, if your masculine, do you have grace like virtuous qualities of kindness, gentleness and self control. These things can be observed without prying you open or are you loud and boisterous with a haughty attitude. These things are plain to see no questions asked. You may have demonstrated all he needs to know one way or the other.

[@toddfrank3344]

We'd ask if we wanted to know.

[@rogernagel1041]

No, my problem with some women is the answer back to questions: Yes, NO, Maybe, uhh_uhh, I don't know. I have nothing to work with when I'm answered that way. So I stop asking questions.

[@stevenwalker4923]

Men judge by actions not questions.

[@DrizzleDrizzleNeverDies]

Either 1. Never get a chance to because the entire conversation is on her end and it's "Me, my, our, I, me, us, me, me, their, there, my, our, I, me", or 2. The responses are dry and boring as she's on her phone the entire time, probably swiping for the next free meal, so why bother? 🤷 In point of fact, why even bother dating anymore? Stay single, and you don't have to bother with being the only one even trying to form a connection, fellas.

[@BoMwarriorVlog]

🤔 Hmm... Seems I might have the opposite problem, but I'm trying to ask gals questions to get them to talk and asking in ways trying to get them to ask questions. 🤷 (...and this is just with good friends, I've given up on dating at least for awhile)

[@marek9081]

I have a completely opposite experience. Usually I try to have an engaging conversation and ask girls questions, but they don't ask me back. Conversations with some women are like pulling teeth.

[@Xiuhtec]

Yeah it's hard to know how true what she's saying is without actually seeing a representative sample of the date. Did she ask him any questions? Did she dive right into a trauma dump basically using him as free therapy? It's also quite possible she's correct, but using language equating male behavior to diseased (epidemic) isn't winning any guys over.

[@themblan]

It's because men aren't testing women and seeing if they're good enough for them, like it's a job-interview.

[@bg5215]

Pull out Toby Keith "I wanna talk about me!"

[@maximelecompte4446]

When I was dating (being retired, that was some times ago ...) very often I would ask the woman a question about herslf and she would not answer or give such a vague or irrelated answer she might as well have said nothing. And if I dared ask again, boy oh boy!, who the hell did I think I was, the FBI? But when they ask you a question you better answer "pronto" and not leave out any details ... that is if they let you finish. But you know what ladies? I just loved you, in spite of that.

[@Scarletraven87]

Definetively not curious. MAYBE not curious because doesn't care. Maybe just not curious. But not caring doesn't mean not loving.