turn it around and she'd lose her sh8t

Just reply, yeah all women suck and see what happens

If someone wants to hate me, I will *joyfully* earn that hate.

I can't even get a woman to give me any kind of consideration good or bad. At this point a woman treating me like garbage would be a step up.

Women would have to actually bother giving me the time of day to notice anything about me that isn't obvious. Byt they aren't bothering to do that are they? Ergo I feel pretty justified in assuming women only care about things they can tell without making any effort to actually know a person.

An offhanded heat of the moment comment is never a deliberate test. I don't care how you dress it up.

Also, it’s important to note that what is unusual to you is not necessarily unusual to another person Never judge a person’s activities or behaviors based on your own personality and behaviors We should stop talking about suspicious activities because there really is no such thing as suspicious activities. It is only perspective.

I say it’s none of their business One of the things I hate most about modern society is third-party is getting into other people’s business If it doesn’t involve you directly, then stay out of it.

Every millenial seems to hate their parents. Fucking bizarre

The grandparent did not grow up knowing about "toxicity" and "boundaries." She grew up with the bonds of family. I assure you her parents were more "toxic" by your standards towards her than she was towards you.

In women’s eyes it’s always the man’s fault regardless.

one in a thousand men.....not even a 1 percent. Also, that chick needs to stop testing her donut swallow skills

What’s a “non-man”?

Most people, when first meeting a person, act on a lower brain level. All they have to go off of is what the person looks like and how they act. They do not know their background, only what the person makes them feel. So that's what most people go off of. You only start to get to know the person after a while. Anyone other than the first impression and how they interact with you doesn't matter at first, only later. So "being a good person" means nothing to a person you just met.

That's quite vague, but the logic is this: If a man pursues a women too much (aka more than she pursues him), it indicates that he is in a desperate state, and she is in a dominant state. The woman will perceive it as something that can be exploited, which is a weakness, which she despises. Women hate weakness in men more than men do. It's less about "cultivating yourself" and more about not exposing yourself as desperate to gain her affection. Another things that men can do wrong is to compromise too much, to forfeit too much ground. While yes, it is reasonable to find common ground, however if the man is compelled to do something he dislikes, just to do something she likes, she will like the outcome on the short-term, but perceive it as weakness in the long-term. If the man is a pushover for her, what will it take to have him being pushed over by whatever comes up in life? Women yearn for the man to have edges, convictions, preferences, character - things he likes and dislikes. If he tries to appeal to her, he is not only deceiving her, but showing desperation. Or - in many cases, it's not "desperation", but lying to get her into bed and leave.

I really like your content and I appreciate your wisdom and kindness, but just because you're a wonderful person doesn't mean that there are lots of wonderful people out there. Generally the best advice to give to someone who is in a bad relationship is to get out, and just stay single.

"Testing is for children, grow up" 👍👌😁 Good Work Lin

I can't win, so I'm simply done. I am one of those folks who doesn't get to experience a healthy, nurturing relationship of any kind, no matter what I do. I can't deal with this anymore. I've never been good enough to be loved, so to hell with it all.

Please, please stop saying ´scare´ Men off. It is NOT fear, it is completely reasonable, albeit difficult to articulate, reluctance. How do I say ´you are not behaving in a trustworthy manner´ without the chick going nuclear.

Either he's not ready, or he's been planning a proposal and is waiting for the appointed time and/or event and you're ruining it....

Marriage is a raw deal for men. If she insists on marriage then it is time to walk away. If she is using a public video like this to pressure him into engagement then he shouldn't walk away - he should run and sever all ties to her!

Yes I remember asking myself (back in the day) can I handle 50 years of this?

Admitting you’re wrong is just the FIRST step, then you need to apologise and if applicable make some atonement or other.

Um... from the single male perspective: I give anyone a chance, because, in the moment it takes to see someone for who they really are - you can spend a lifetime understanding the beauty that will always be. Yea I waxed poetic... but seriously be kind to each other you silly people!

Or perhaps he realizes from watching everyone's parents divorce that marriage is a sham of an institution.

Bragging about how much you hate all men just because they're men regardless of their behavior is hate speech and should be called out just as much as any hate speech feminists calling us misogynistic for just defending ourselves it's just gaslighting to excuse their own abusive behavior I mean they rage at incels for "having an opinion" about women actually proving the incels right does that mean we shouldn't call out misogyny yeah feminism is not actually about a quality they're about men needing to tolerate abuse women would never tolerate

Nothing says a totally acceptable "test" like generalizing a whole group of people All because two specific groups that can have overlap are currently socially acceptable to hate and blame for everything

Unfortunately, the guy now needs to walk. The path to come back from this is nearly impossible to navigate. She deliberately put public pressure on him, exposing their private issue with his friends, her friends, his family, her family, his coworkers, her coworkers... that toothpaste can never be put back in the tube. Even if they were to eventually get married, there would always be people out there who would view him in light of this public shaming. Some would shame him for not doing the right thing and forcing her to do this. Others would shame him for marrying her after she did this. This couple will never again be able to be on an even, level, positive footing without this incident adversely impacting it. He needs to walk.

This is why women were getting mad at the #NotAllMen hashtag several years ago.

Non men? You mean women?

I love the way my comments keep being deleted, just because I might be critical of a certain group of people who have two x chromosomes! the same people who claim people like me with Y chromosomes apparently have all the power and privilege! I am sick of the hatred!

I am so sick of misandry!

Hay I agree, when a "non man" (didn't we used to call those women?), Says: "all men are toxic", and expects men to insult themselves just to agree with her, it is a test, but it's not men who're being tested, it's her! the test is, can you behave like a reasonable human being and live with other people? And she fails it badly! I am sosick of women like this thinking misandry is okay! In fact I'm sick of misandry period!

Women want a leader, but arent willing to follow. They want someone who doesnt take no for an answer, but never consider how that would be turned on them. They want a masculine man, but those masculine men are used to getting their way all the time, one way or another. Best case scenario he either will cheat, or pump and dump. Worst case, DV. Feminism killed common sense.

Women only care about money.

obvious creature...

He is way out of her league.

Do blacks not realize that when like , you know, non blacks say "Uh, I hate blacks, blacks are terrible ! Blacks are the worst ! " , That's a test ! That's a test that they're giving you, and you can fail or pass. Failing is when a black person gets defensive and says " Not all blacks ! I'm not like that ! I'm not like that ! " . Really ? Cause you're getting mad at a white person for expressing his / her opinion , so maybe you are like that !

Don’t reward bad women

There is no benefit to men for marriage

Men reason with logic, women with emotion. Pointless argument

We should examine as this can (and likely) also be true in reverse case. That is majority of man do not reward the behaviour that makes good wife. Now considering both of these statements to be true - Can a potential good couple meet each other with any significant certainity (not pure luck and hit and trial) by employing some strategy. That is the qualities which are on display from both sides while looking for potential matches, may not be 1. That visible in the dating pool 2. May change once the search ends We can probably backtrack the behaviour (if we can find history of behaviours of people who are now come under the category of good couple). It'll still be tricky as in societal changes may break the consistency we expect in those behavioural changes across while in search and while in relationship.

There's no Utah accent more distinct than the Span'ieesh Fark accent.

The term is 'pre-selection'

Why should men bother with such trouble?

This video sounds like good advice on the surface, but most attractive women want bad boys, losers, drug addicts, abusers, and every other low life you can think of. Guys, just hire yourself a hot high-priced call girl. You know what you're getting.

Putting yourself first doesn't do much. Nobody notices that.

The women who don't want a good man aren't worth my time as a man.

I've no idea which men have such a false belief. I mean there's no way that's guaranteed, lol.

Women who pull this shit aren't relationship material to me. Why would a woman worth her salt go out of her way to put me in a lose-lose situation?