Why everyone is always obsessed with me

[@hoanghiem8461]

1. Have a vibrant energy - 3:07 - Don't engage in drama and gossips - Don't spread rumours - Just focus on yourself 2. Become comfortable with your emotions and understand what's trying to tell you - 5:13 - Don't watch negative news, videos - Do yoga - Do things you love 3. Don't attach your self to places, people, things,... - 6:31 - Don't define yourself by a relationship, friendship or job - You'll get over quickly if it fades away - When there's no expectation, ther's no disappointment 4. Become okay with people leaving your life - 8:30 - People comes to yourself to serve purpose in your life. When they finish their role, they leave and that's ok. 5. If you become whole, what you want will chase you - 9:28 - Create the avenenue and watch it come to you 6. Start making decisions that benefit you - 10:39

[@aesthetic-girl....]

Thx alot

[@johnarulraj9436]

I really want to thank you for summarizing the video with such articulation may God bless you ✝️

[@SweetVibes777]

Thank you ❤

[@b3-bea4]

This is so helpful tysmm

[@Fariha-j2p]

Thank u a lot❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lexi6797]

Liz: “Do I look good? Yes. We are not going to act like that’s not true”. The confidence. I love it. 😂

[@CajunBoyJake]

Not trying to be negative at all but not going to lie, I always cringe when I hear people say this because I believe beauty is subjective. Just because your beautiful to some people and some other people don’t find you beautiful doesn’t make you one thing. I think everyone is beautiful to someone so every person should feel good about themselves. No one is ugly.

[@tashapatino1663]

@@CajunBoyJake but In that case if everyone should feel good about themselves I think it’s valid for her to speak positively about herself as should everyone you know :)

[@CajunBoyJake]

@@tashapatino1663 I just find the part when she says “We’re are not going to act like that’s not true” cringy. As if that’s a hard fact. Personally, I don’t think she “looks good”, so to me, it’s not true but I don’t (nor does any other human) decide who “looks good”. I can only tell you who looks good, from my perspective. Like I can’t tell you that you have to find me attractive, because I am, ya know?

[@yippehanako]

@@CajunBoyJake there are some basic, universal standards of beauty and she hits them. you're talking about your personal preferences of attractiveness but you can still tell when someone, objectively, looks good even if they aren't personally attractive to you. she's objectively beautiful. there is no point in her pretending otherwise. It's cringy to be like "omg im so ugly omg im not that pretty" when you are.

[@mimimoo.k]

@@CajunBoyJake It's okay if It's cringy for you, but that's not a fact, that's just how you feel because you wouldnt be as much confidente as her. 🤷🏻‍♀️ And, what about that? Like, honestly, why are you trying to drag down someone else selfconcept dude.

[@mafer_mv]

1:38 - Introduction (Why the name "thewizardliz"?) 3:08 - Have a vibrant energy 5:06 - Become comfortable with your emotions and realise what it's trying to tell you 6:26 - Don't attach yourself to people, places, things or situations 8:27 - Become okay with people leaving your life 9:24 - If you become whole what you want will chase you 10:39 - Start making decisions that will benefit you 12:53 - Remove toxic people and be firm about it 13:21 - Prioritize what you want to do 14:34 - Value your time 16:24 - Stop over sharing and become more exclusive 19:10 - Have a life and don't be always be available 19:40 - Start taking calculated risks 21:19 - Go after the things you want and be unapologetic about it 21:41 - Be your authentic self. Say what you mean and mean what you say 23:24 - Don't look at problems. Look at solutions 25:01 - Good intentions will always win

[@mafer_mv]

My fave moments ❤️: 4:14/5:02, 5:21/6:23, 8:37/9:12, 9:35/9:54, 13:44/14:27, 18:24/18:43

[@aw3346]

replying for reminders! thank you!

[@desireemedrano9462]

Thanks

[@moons4363]

Thanks

[@nina-qz6lc]

Thank you ❤

[@msSAN300]

The energy you radiate is everything! There are many days that I feel down, low, old and unattractive and no one even glances at me and people are less kind, to point of being rude. On the days I feel really confident and happy there is a vibe around me that make people stare, smile at me and sometimes even seem in awe of me. I wish I could figure out how to have more influence over this energy!

[@alexandrafernandez3145]

Currently finishing the video, but one big lesson from this is, “If you need to talk to someone talk to a tree!”😂 I love that! Be very cautious who you share with!

[@thirstonhowellthebird]

It’s so weird how I totally over share and get hated on and look a lot like her like we could totally be sisters and so if I really expressed my confidence I would be hated even worse than I am now, so I don’t get it how she doesn’t have 1 million haters I’m hanging clearly around all the wrong people lol!

[@hold.on9]

@@thirstonhowellthebird doesnt everyone have secret haters at least

[@thirstonhowellthebird]

@@hold.on9 I was oblivious to the whole hater thing for a good majority of my life. I just don’t think that way like I want everybody to be happy and do well in life and there was never anybody who I was jealous of or felt “less than“ so I never took into consideration that anybody would feel that way about me. I just don’t understand what causes that. It’s sad because it ruins friendships but I guess you’re right now that I understand.

[@freyat-zy8tu]

My mom always told me: If you need to talk to someone talk to yourself in the mirror

[@Sunflower-uh3em]

Hhhh right ? Yeah trees are so healing ✨️✨️👌🏻🌲.

[@saracrhs]

23:51 this part really stood up to me, i'm currently 18 and ever since i can remember i have this feeling, that i'm here for something big, not to be a celebrity or anything like that, but idk, to be a really good and successful person. i have depression so it's harder to think this way right now, but watching her videos are motivating me to make things work out for me.

[@awesometani8148]

This is your sign. You got this!!

[@saracrhs]

@@awesometani8148 thank you so much 💗 we got this!

[@dynalpb]

you got this chase it❤️

[@goolegsekjgas3118]

why are you depressed?

[@saracrhs]

@@dynalpb ❤️

[@ittsanaa]

i get the whole pretty privelege thing here but she is 100% right about the whole energy thing. There are good looking people who are simply boring and not magnetic asff and then there are not so conventionally attractive people who are magnetic and fun to be around simply because they understand their worth as a person and love themselves. Ofcourse, beauty plays a very important role but it boils down to nothing with the lack of self-respect and self-worth.

[@annmarie39able]

Oh pretty privileged, but a face caked in make-up! We all look good with make-up on. Just look at some of the tutorials on here! Yes some so-called unattractive people are magnetic, others no so.

[@ittsanaa]

@@annmarie39able a good base doesn't guarantee an elevated aura.

[@annmarie39able]

@@ittsanaa What?

[@yasmined16]

Same and I do agree with you

[@charlotte9189]

FRRRRRR

[@uxer-Nimishathakur]

I AM 100% OBSESSED WITH YOU. Thank you for making me level up in my life. You're doing god's work.

[@RtsFps1]

It was a real eye opener when I experienced this firsthand. My coworker was gorgeous. From the tone of her voice, her bright white smile, her stunning eyes. Every time she clocked in, everyone seemed happier. Even ME, my own chest felt warmer. She was literally a vessel of sunshine. I wondered why. A person's energy is like the A to the 1. Both are first, neither second. 1 is attractiveness. If you are strikingly attractive combined with a grounded, genuine personality, when you walk into a room people will feel your aura.

[@JOHN-hp6yd]

Simp spotted

[@itgirl3798]

Well said !

[@localbaddie_8438]

This is sooo true and I need to learn from this.

[@riceg0bblr]

I’m a woman and I feel this way about one of my female coworkers. She’s so beautiful in every way possible it actually pains me to see her sometimes and the fact that she’s such a sweet and genuine person, I’m always in awe of her. Not one person has looked her direction and thought anything bad out her. The only time I’ve heard anything remotely negative was from the men who’ve tried asking her on dates but were rejected. Of course they would obsess over her again shortly after. Ugh to be that beautiful. I can’t even imagine!

[@chickofmusic001]

What obsession does to a motherf*cker 😂😂

[@aksunonair]

The fact that she doesn't care about the hate comments and doesn't filter them out or delete them is simply badass. Those commenters are fighting with a wall

[@wqqsvi]

and that's on period

[@grannyclaire84]

Yuss

[@lovelylanafansweetie4240]

Why do they hate her she’s seems so kind

[@wqqsvi]

@@lovelylanafansweetie4240 ikr? they're just mad that they could never be her ⚰️

[@ChillingOut247]

She is filtering them out though. I don't see any hate comments even though she 100% deserves some for this cringe content.

[@cutiepiebb]

strangers don't immediately take to you because you don't overshare, you have good priorities, and you make good decisions; strangers take to you primarily because you're attractive. your advice is good but let's be real here lol

[@peacefulcreativity444]

Ikr… this video is weird lmao

[@DanieB322]

@@peacefulcreativity444 it’s not weird. You can be as attractive as you want… if your personality, your attitude doesn’t follow… people don’t get obsessed with you. There are billions of pretty girls. And they can’t keep up with people around them

[@peacefulcreativity444]

@@DanieB322 True. I still think the video is weird 😂

[@NotJoegoldberg]

exactlyyy I usually like her vids but this one I dont agree w. she's top 0.1% attractive so obv ppl will be attracted to her it has nothin to do w energy lmaoo

[@NotJoegoldberg]

@@DanieB322 billions? bullshit. there are many normal-pretty girls but actual pretty or head turningly pretty girls are quite rare and will attract attention no matter how their personality or energy is like

[@vanessainsan]

I’m not ashamed to say that I became obsessed with you and your content when I came across your channel! But it’s the good obsession, only good vibes here and sending so much positivity and love 💕

[@v1rtualfa1ry97]

​@dear_mi3961i dont know aswell but try to search on google!

[@justelle6516]

I want to cryyy because I just realized how beautiful life I am creating right now. I love myself so much! Thank youuu, Liz!

[@mimi6760]

111 likes!

[@allisonsalinas1460]

Aw God bless you, cutie❤️

[@kelly.nicole]

Same!!!!

[@tomoriccy1948]

I love how self-aware she is. Her confidence is immaculate. She said it all. Truth!

[@marlanoronha4065]

She has horrendous lips.

[@Trollika_Devi]

Self obsessed*

[@DeeDeeJohn17]

lol

[@fivenode9854]

she is far from self aware, seems like she actually suffers from delusions because if you've ever dealt with psychology, you would notice she's literally just making this all up to boost her ego

[@Carka3457]

@@Trollika_Devi look at her new video

[@isobellaking9283]

Please remember - even if no-one is obsessed with you, you are still valuable 🌞 Oh and it’s ok if you make mistakes, and if some people don’t like you.

[@amiraallawat1701]

Awwww youre so cute thanx you too🥰🤝🏽

[@Spaceghost22]

Yesss❤

[@inactiveuser555]

she's not that cute, she's too shallow and plastic-like.

[@inactiveuser555]

JESUS CHRIST is LORD and He loved us while we were still sinners to die for our sins and be raised from the grave for our justification as the sinless, perfect Lamb of GOD, Who takes away the sin of the world, fulfilling the righteousness that the law requires, which we, sinners by nature, could never fulfill. for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD. however in this present age, we may now be saved by the grace of GOD through faith in Him alone, followed by the act of repentance or the turning away from all of our sins. we must be born again. JESUS CHRIST is the Way and the Truth and the Life.

[@inactiveuser555]

@Scott Scotty man was created by GOD.

[@xoxosaras4288]

liz is practically “the secret” in a form of human.. she understand everything, its just make sense how she attracts everthing in her life with this mindset, mentality and practices ❤

[@asiaiqbal6030]

​@dear_mi3961she wrote a book its called 'the wizard lizard guide to inner healing' or something like that

[@Miiiiaaa]

I’ve started having more confidence and taking better care of myself physically and mentally bc of you. Thank you liz xx

[@zacwindham8048]

Are you fucking serious with this?

[@stories-of-elle]

I feel like she knows something that i don't and im here for it.

[@sydneeeeeeeeeey]

Yes, having vibrant energy makes you more likable as people are getting to know you, but the simple fact is that getting attention and attracting strangers only happens instantly if you're hot. If a waitress is average-looking or worse, even if she has high energy, no one is going to specifically request her or tell her she "cast a spell" on them. Liz is hot and charming (her charm also stems from being hot and an acute self-awareness of being hot), and therefore people are more willing to overlook what comes off as aloofness/assertiveness/self-centeredness. It's simple. Her being hot + seeming emotionally unavailable automatically makes her a high-value chase, hence the "obsession" (which honestly seems like the wrong word to use; I think "attraction" is more appropriate). ----- *Edit* -- Coming back to clarify a couple of things: 1) I'm not saying that people will ONLY treat you well if you're hot. 2) I'm not saying that anyone who isn't hot has less inherent value than a hot person - I was speaking of subjective value when it comes to attraction. 3) I'm not saying that having charisma or a good personality doesn't matter. Of COURSE it matters. 4) People seem to be interpreting what I said as me being hateful, and I would urge you to stop seeing anything that isn't fawning praise as an attack. I subscribe to this channel like the rest of you, I like the content for the most part, and it's fair for me to comment on it. There are exceptions to every rule. Some people are going to have an anecdote about how they used to be ugly, but tons of people still treated them nicely because they had a great personality. I agree that's how it should be. Liz talked about people being instantly attracted to/charmed by her. This is what I was speaking about. Strangers will only do this if a person is distracting to them, for better or worse. In Liz's case, it was probably because she's extremely beautiful. Being physically beautiful is like having really high quality bait & fancy lures when fishing. No, you don't necessarily need it, but it really helps. My point is that yes, keep a positive mindset and keep working on yourself like Liz advises, but also, keep in mind the other factors that contribute to the success of someone who looks like her! Ask yourself, if Liz was American, morbidly obese, had zits all over her face, buzz-cut hair, thin lips, and frumpy clothes, would you still religiously watch this channel? Would you have even found it in the first place?

[@wolfiesasha887]

Nicely said

[@alexia964]

yup. depressed people who are hot still get approached it has nothing to do with “energy”

[@jilianalau]

bro im madly ugly,i just look scary because im introverted

[@justme-w9y]

@@alexia964 exactlyy

[@Beauty_bydeborah]

Exactly. This is not about "energy" or confidence. Attractive people giving advice about this is almost like a joke. This type of advice ONLY works for attractive people like her.

[@MA-rk2om]

“I’m the cycle breaker” TODAY I was saying this about myself to my therapist. Whew!!!! This is SO powerful. I think that is the most powerful motivator for success.

[@EloïseLEPONT]

Liz, you changed my life, you literally opened my eyes with all of your videos. Thank you so so much !!

[@BM-xi4kd]

She’s so unapologetically self-loving in such a healthy way, I love it, such an input, always feel better after watching a video of hers😍

[@highinthesky-2756]

1-high energy, by yoga, 2- detach, you dont chase, you attract 3- do what benefit you only 4- prioritize myself, only the best 5-good intention

[@jerryrodriguez99]

This sounds like stuff Andrew tate would say

[@juanchocorleone]

Some of the things of this list sounds borderline selfish.

[@verbaljudo3173]

You guys are narcissists for liking this comment and you will be alone

[@aryakhadilkar6708]

you can't tell me it's all because of her looks when gorgeous people like khloe kardashian, behati prinsloo and victoria beckham get cheated on and still take their partners back. of course she is pretty but so are a million other people. her whole point is beauty without the right energy is meaningless. beauty gets you initial attention but it gets boring pretty quickly and people won't hold on to you if there's nothing more to you past your appearance; you'll be treated like a picture on the wall-pretty to look at, but nothing more. love you liz

[@AndOreos]

Khloe is disgusting I never heard a man say they find that thing attractive

[@ayamallak2807]

Khloe Kardashian is not gorgeous

[@Allielix]

This is a very wise interpretation of the video❤ I 100% agree

[@gb917]

None of those women are gorgeous though.

[@lauracarter6729]

Khloe kardashian is not gorgeous please be serious

[@growing.flowers]

I am so happy you exist. Your presence is so healing. When i feel unstable, lost, and depressed, I watch ur vids and i feel understood, seen, and grounded. I can be calm! Thank u for being amazing. I wish the best for u and anyone else reading this. ❤

[@youngwolf1009]

You can't imagine how much your videos helped me girl. I will be eternally grateful for what you have done even in my 80s i will remember you cause you literally saved me. I have been through so much shit in life like you won't imagine and people like you are the proof that we can rise and build an amazing future no matter how dark is our present. I'm still struggling but mentally ur videos are really helpful. Best wishes. ❤

[@watermelonsugar6909]

Big big hug. God loves you

[@lakshanyar2194]

222 likes

[@kroixdale5229]

Jesus can free you, he knows the extent of your problems and can give you life everlasting ❤

[@marie7700]

50/50, just being hot doesnt automatically give you this kind of aura

[@elisabethsco]

Stop lying bro

[@memyselfandi5148]

She's so iconic,I understand why everyone's obsessed with her.

[@klarasubliminals]

Like literally

[@Rnbsingerx]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/e53WZGqYpphon6c

[@KydraExhale]

I have literally no idea who this is lol

[@klarasubliminals]

@@KydraExhale shes an icon... she teached us how to love ourselfes

[@memyselfandi5148]

@@KydraExhale sounds like a you problem

[@Annie-oz2ct]

i'm so glad i keep seeing your videos in my reccomendations, like i used to skip over it bcs my attention span is awful but after watching one of your vids, it literally only felt like 5 minutes but it changed my mindset completely. i've been having a terrible month then i remembered your videos exist and no joke, about 2 minutes into the video and i already feel a lot better. you tell me what i have to hear and not what i want to hear, and it's just so real fr. i don't think i can ever thank you enough for your videos honestly

[@kathleenkaleookalanismith8724]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@rizzgodyach]

This woman’s words have put an impact on me. Ive put myself in a position which will benefit me. Im legitimate so glad I came across her.

[@nikolinaajder3063]

I scream out of happiness when liz uploads

[@CedwardHirth]

Same i even told my mom so excited That she published

[@havinkaya5280]

Same

[@femfiore]

Me tooooo

[@solindasol]

SAMZ

[@madalena-]

Sameee

[@veronicah5268]

I love how unapologetically confident this woman is. Edit: the way y'all discuss so much about this only proves her point further, you are obsessed with her. So much you just can't help yoursleves in a good way or a bad way.

[@thrusta100]

Until you take away her fakeup!..🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤮🤣

[@elo8372]

@@thrusta100 This shows how insecure you are and how you hate to see people achieving their goals and being what you can’t be 😹😹

[@Izunia2077]

@@thrusta100 bruhh lmfao

[@thrusta100]

@@Izunia2077 comment I was replying to was deleted! If a man acts like this diva he's a douche, toxic blah blah! But not her apparently! We gotta call out wahmens bad behaviour!..

[@Izunia2077]

@@thrusta100 fr fr

[@Sanriosanx]

The self love to narcissistic tendencies pipeline is very real and one many people today have trouble navigating. I think too many people confuse both…self confidence comes from within, not externally such as compliments from others. It’s being secure and assertive with your actions, thoughts, and emotions. I’m not a beauty but I’ve had people with severe identity issues try to emulate “me” down to mannerisms, clothes, the way I talked, etc., because they simply have no idea who they are and choose not to explore themselves for themselves. Yes, there is a difference between taking inspiration from others and straight up trying to become someone’s doppelgänger. Many people in this world hide who they really wish to be. Self confidence isn’t being the best in the room, being the most beautiful, intelligent, etc., because the truth is there is someone out there who is better without trying. It’s being comfortable with who you are (as stated above) and not needing other’s approvals to live your life as you please. It’s a bittersweet realization.

[@nyxasteria3991]

The thing about "there's someone better than you without trying" is relative tho. I agree with you, and I think everyone is unique and capable of being the best authentic versions of themselves and that should be enough.

[@Sanriosanx]

@@nyxasteria3991 It’s a fact. There will always be people above and below, as odd and ill as it sounds. Everyone is definitely unique and not meant to be the best or worst.

[@lockandloadlikehell]

@@nyxasteria3991 there's always someone out there tougher than you, no matter how tough you are

[@gb917]

But narcissists don't love themselves at all. They are mentally unbalanced and are typically the ones who get obsessed with other people.

[@Jez1963UK]

I know that Liz doesn't read or reply to her commentators, but I'll say it here.... I discovered her channel today and have watched 3 videos (this is the 3rd). Yes, she is beautiful, and I'm a male (61 years old by the way) but I'm here to LEARN from her, because her messages are SO powerful for me. I've got work ahead of me, and that's my mission - to listen to her words of wisdom and to learn, and for me to GROW. I'm no dirty old man, I know my mission and my mission is ME! Thank you Liz for your videos, you inspired me today to delete ALL of my YT subscriptions (from around 680), to just over 50. Your channel is what I want to focus on, your words to me are utterly priceless and I'm a VERY KEEN STUDENT! God bless you :)

[@chandellmartens5401]

I absolutely love your confidence and advice your providing. At the start of the video I wasn't sure but listening all the way through you are very genuine and I appreciated you sharing this, very empowering!

[@Bianca2802]

I don't know if Liz has a high vibrant energy, but she has definitely a lot of energy. This is definitely something that makes someone attractive and attracts people. If you have a lot of energy you can be more successful in life, in love. Because you put this energy into your goals and your image and lookings, so you become a kind of alpha person, which of course attracts others. I like her character a lot, somehow it reminds me of me. My problem is that I always had a lot of jealous people around me who even destroyed my marriage. They couldn't influence me, but my exhusband who is kind of weak.

[@marcelkuhn5310]

Then think about the people who you Surround yourself with. Just Like she Said in the Video.

[@Sunflower-uh3em]

Saaame, lot of jealousy arround me dear, lot of pple who I tought frienfs who I gave them nthg but care and love, were jealous, envious and I had to end it and move on. Have a blessed day ✨️💕.

[@amylenoir345]

me too I just attract jealous people it's so annoying 😭

[@sophierose9986]

liz i just wanna say that watching your videos has helped me so much. i have terrible social anxiety and chronic overthinking that leads me to spend hours to days thinking about peoples perceptions of me. i was so tired of my mind being filled with things that didn’t even concern myself so i went to ur channel. after watching ur videos i just felt this sort of calm in my mind. it’s like you took my thoughts and beat them up so they couldn’t take up my mind anymore. the way u go about life is so inspiring and i make an effort everyday to live for myself and who i am because of u, thank u!🫶🏽

[@xHollow.]

also you: * is friends with the entire school * in all seriousness, glad you've calmed your mind from your "anxiety"

[@fivenode9854]

jesus christ please do not look to this person for help with social anxiety holy fuck, that is the worst possibler thing you could do are you serious? all this girl will do is make you just as delusional and egotistical, which in turn will ruin yor social life as it did hers

[@Mary-gc7tx]

@@xHollow. "anxiety" ? I'm not sure if it was your intention to sound condescending but if it was anxiety is a real and very hard mental illness to live with, you don't know anything about this person's life especially from a KZbin comment so stop assuming and get on with yours because if you have that much time to dictate how their own life is or what they don't or do struggle with is it must be pretty sad. Also while you're at it think about how your words affect other people, keep in mind if you want people to treat you with respect, you'll have to respect them too.

[@xHollow.]

@@Mary-gc7tx Every single person i’ve talked to and 99% of the females ive spoken to claim they have terrible anxiety but are really chill with a lot of people like there siblings type of friendships. i was genuinely happy for the person even little anxiety can be hard to deal with. Also i dont mean to sound rude but i personally dont care about respect if i see fakeness let alone especially if its coming from a youtube comment no offense my views are my views just like how your judging me on how im a terrible person while misunderstanding what i wrote and not knowing a thing about me either. Also i made like 5 or 6 replies throughout this entire comment section and went on with my life im chilling though thanks for the concern 👍

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

@@xHollow. how do you know this person is friends with an entire school tf! Do you even know them?

[@vera.2226]

"if you really need to talk to someone, talk to a tree" LMAOO I LOVE HER.

[@JR-vz3wt]

I agree with everything she's saying, but the fact that she's so beautiful has a LOT to do with people liking her. The same rules would most likely not apply to someone who's ugly - let's be honest. It's also easier to have a confident personality type when you look beautiful.

[@JR-vz3wt]

@@bemnetsisay1876 lol what I said was literally a fact in life. If you think attractive and unattractive people get treated exactly the same in society, you’re really stupid lol.

[@llacekidd]

@@bemnetsisay1876once again she’s attractive so it’s easy for her to say all this lmao

[@ayusheeupadhyay7962]

@@itsethan9141 You're right!! And when we start seeing ourself as attractive we actually start to change and everyone around us start to find us attractive. That's what happened with me, I was so insecure and never appreciated myself and so no one else did, but an year ago I started appreciating myself truly and started feeling attractive and beautiful and you won't believe, people started complimenting me. It's all about mentality and the way we think.

[@itsethan9141]

@@ayusheeupadhyay7962 Exactly, then everyone want to be us, and ourselves would want to be us too, everything it's about ourselves :b

[@foodtaoserviert4352]

if she is attractive you can be it too

[@teenagegirlwasteland4806]

I have conflicted feelings about this… l mean, I agree with the majority of the things she said but there is something off about her that ironically didn’t gave me “high energy vibes”. In one part of the video she said that she would never be in a toxic relationship because she will be with a person that is obsess with her. So she is telling me that while she has the gratification of be adored by her partner because he would be obsessed with her, her boyfriend on the other hand won’t have that adoration in return because she can only adore herself and she won’t obsess about anyone else.. other than herself? I feel that this is unfair for her partners and creates an unbalanced relationship that ironically seems toxic. And also the part that she said that she would cancel on a date just because she wanted to and didn’t care for other person’s feelings just gave me huge red flags. Would she like it if the roles were reversed? That she was ready for a date and her boyfriend decided to cancel in the last minute because he just wanted time for himself? I don’t think so, considering how much she values her time… are other people’s times don’t as valuable? Again, I agree with a lot of what she said and I will stay with that. She seems like she is happy with herself I guess that’s what matters in the end. But I feel that being too self centered is not healthy, this is the first video I saw about her and I didn’t felt attracted to her energy at all. One can be confident and humble at the same time and I think she lacks the latter. She will keep achieving big things, that’s for sure, but I don’t think she will ever have a genuine and deep connection with someone with her fixed mentality

[@cristie7154]

Agree

[@X3S000]

Exactly, she's a narcissist but people are blinded by her beauty. Women especially will defend her no matter what because apparently only an ugly hater speaks the truth lol

[@noormendes8401]

Her love life advices are terrible. She acts cold hearted , normal and human people get lost with love . If you have never put ur ego aside , if u have never been lost and crazy for a loved one then u have NEVER experienced true love . Probably over controlling even in her relationships , I really feel sorry for the men falling for narcissistic women like this ……..😅

[@melussive]

Look, I think it's good that you pointed this out. You are right about the psychology underneath those statements and I love the fact that you somehow tried to light those little bubbles for her to know what else is there to polish. But. She is not a "finite journey". She is still on the go. Acknowledge that too, please. We still have to face a lot of trials and errors until we polish ourselves enough so we can shine our authentic sparkle properly. She says in this or another video that she still goes to therapy and she's building herself up. Humbleness requires a little bit of maturity. And a lot of understanding. A little bit of consideration that the other parts must be valuable in her interactions too. She's at the stage of a little bit of extremity towards the self-centeredness. But in the long run, this tactic also doesn't bring the most satisfaction and the optimum healthy environment. But I mean, we can all understand her. She's been hurt enough. Right now, she's recovering. But she'll be better in time, like old fine wine. She'll get the balance of fine, harmonious living and she'll understand. I totally support her and love the courage she must have for posting videos and trying to uplift us whatever her progress might be in life. Also, she has good intentions overall.

[@cre8tivexchange]

@@noormendes8401 you can definitely see how many of her fans are susceptible to narc control.

[@nrmf]

I remember first watching you when I was depressed and I used to see you as a mentor but as I’ve grown as a person I’ve began to see almost as a friend and listening to you feels a lot more genuine and human in a sense. Much blessings are coming your way and you might already have them but never forget that Liz because you absolutely deserve the world!🤩☺️

[@Rogelio_007]

I used to be equally attractive at your age. I am now twice your age and no one obsesses with me - and it's great. As much as being noticed was a nice ego boost, it wasn't really what I wanted. I wanted to be noticed for being a compassionate, loving person, not a handsome dude. You are on the right track. Keep focusing on the inside, that way when you are in your 50s, you definitely will not care about being noticed and more concerned with making others feel great. Lots of people who look like you do not put that much time or effort into their personality, it's awesome to see you are leaning on your spiritual growth over looking attractive. You are on your way to a very happy life. Kudos.

[@GNICHO]

Just lean into a more mature look and people will be attracted to you tbh

[@Chicoyo21]

I’m a teenager and I want to improve in my everyday life. I have anxiety and depression and I struggle with it. I want to get finally heal and move on. Thank you so much for this. I will watch all your videos.

[@Falkan.]

Hit the gym. It will help more than those double standard videos.

[@Shinkajo]

You don't know if anything she says is true though. It's just one side.

[@Gabiviolino]

All teenagers have anxiety because is a life phase where you start really learning what you like/don't like. Its hard for the mind but what she's saying is basically love yourself first before trying to love others. You are the 1st place in your life and that way of thinking is really goals because no matter what other people say or do to you, if you truly trust yourself, you'll learn from stuff and walk away from bad energy. If you still struggle, you will only blame yourself and thats bad... You should not root for blame, you should learn from mistakes and move on using that to make things better in the future - for YOU! For your anxiety, try those breathing exercises - there are plenty here on KZbin ❤

[@alinamokruv9059]

@@Gabiviolino thank you soo much ❤

[@tco7w16]

Just do things that will make you feel more confident. If you're not happy with your body then working out will not only improve your physical health but mental health as well. If you're not happy about your marks then studying more will give you more confidence and make you feel less stressed. Just remember that you don't need to be perfect in anything but good enough in things that will make you feel confident.

[@effortlesschic2012]

Finally found a channel that resonate with my mind set 🥳 literally everyone around me try to make me feel bad for it & say I think they world owe me something in a negative way! Thank you Liz ❤

[@unheavenmimi9417]

As much as I love your videos , I think it begins with pretty privilege. Of course that's not all , but I think we can't ignore social realities. Energy are a thing and I Believe yours attracts ppl and you have good vibes bc you constantly work on yourself Liz that's admirable. But the first part about the mesmerizing is purely pretty privilege first and you were benefiting from it ...

[@cutiepiebb]

I agree!

[@melc8388]

I dont know who can be fooled by this. We all know its because she is goregous!!!

[@cosmicboy7188]

Anyone can benefit from it with a good lifestyle which she understood and put in the work to have that “pretty privilege” What is beautiful is attractive and anybody can become beautiful with the good lifestyle

[@unheavenmimi9417]

@@cosmicboy7188 disagree. You can’t ignore the problems that society puts us in. And you are proving my point , why working hard to deserve other ppl attention / get beauty privilege ? Can’t we be authentic self without involving physical aspects. Since I’m a subscriber for Liz, according to her older vids , ofc she worked hard and changed her mental state. But she also said that she was always considered beautiful. So yeah, pretty privilege is something you already have or chase for it , that has nothing to do with energies in the first place

[@unheavenmimi9417]

@The_Audacity who said the opposite ? Y’all are not even aware of the world where you live. There’s social realities that are STUDIED. Yes. Your physical aspect can ATTRACT people more easily. Not necessarily make them stay. You are simply obsessed with assumption on us , about low self esteem while I’m being more impartial and not biased by anything such as insecurities that I could carry. Open a book and learn about social science , HERE we like factual things and WORK WITH FACTS and STUDIES ONLY.

[@Mayyaaa002]

Omg I love you. Your videos are the reason why I've been receiving so much positive comments from people around me recently. The energy thing is real. Simply changing the mindset can change your whole life and the way people perceive you.

[@Mariaaaafeyy]

I really need to hear this now literally teary eyes!!! I just gained back my energy because of you because of your powerful words 🥺 You're an angel!!! Thank you so much Liz, rooting for youu! 🎉❤

[@orel8680]

You Are my comfort person. Ty so much for being here with us!!!!❤

[@JaneDoe-tu5fw]

Thank you for these videos, I’ve started therapy and I really see you as a role model. Your a great person Masha’allah ❤

[@greenbananas12378]

Ikr I think she’s Muslim too which is so heartwarming.. for any Muslims reading, focus on prayer, it’s even better than things like yoga

[@vaonamission]

@@greenbananas12378 Really? Are you sure?? 🥹🥹🥹😍😍😍

[@greenbananas12378]

@@vaonamission check out her Instagram highlights, she was reading an Islamic book 💗

[@campurriadas]

@@vaonamission Yes, she is muslim, I've been a follower since a long time and she said that she reads the Quran and it helped her so much to connect with Islam.

[@humaira2347]

@@greenbananas12378 hey whats her instagram @

[@Healinghonies]

So many gems in this video, the way you speak, behave, and think is truly indicative of the level of class and elegance you possess, I’m so grateful to have found your channel

[@hothigherself]

"If you really need to talk to someone, talk to a tree." ok that one got me, lol love you Liz!

[@jginny]

it killed me how bluntly she said it hahahaha

[@chefskiss7392]

I was in a huge depressive slump for the past few weeks since school started, but I found your videos and it motivated me to get my life together, and be real with myself. I had been advoiding the truth about my eating disorder and how school stresses me out, but I am now ready to face it and happier than ever 💕🙏

[@riyak9102]

I hate school.... I feel like that I am not that included in the our friends group

[@chefskiss7392]

@@riyak9102 don't worry, if they don't want you, you don't need them. Cut them out, because if you're staying with htem you're telling yourself that you will never be good enough for quality friends. Treat yourself with luxury, not slander and abuse

[@riyak9102]

@@chefskiss7392 thankkkk youuuuuu!!! Anyways it was comforting to talk to you!

[@chefskiss7392]

@@riyak9102 of course 💕

[@niyduckingsucks3955]

i just want to say, im so proud of you !! you got this, i know how it is, i have an ED too. i have my episodes constantly, and i only recently started getting myself together and i can say it has not been easy. it takes so much strength to face these things that taunt and eat away at us so im really so proud of you !!

[@kaylaopore]

The fact that all your videos are blowing up and you’re ACTUALLY gaining positive things from this, really shows that what you’re preaching is not bullshit 💯 sounds like u just have to believe in urself and learn attraction y’all! 🕺🏾

[@xijip642]

Yesss its all about beliving🥰

[@theaadmi]

The first time I saw the title of this video, I automatically smiled. And said to myself "oh yeah. she's Liz after all."

[@littleseaturtle]

the negative comments lol. you guys could be wizards too but the self hate and limiting beliefs run too deep. hope you guys heal soon. anyways, love you liz!! you are such a positive role model and i'm grateful for you 🤍

[@fivenode9854]

this is not poitive are you braindead? this is egotistical and narcissistic, nobody was/is obsessed with her and never will be. she is just recording her delusions and you all eat it up. its actually quite sad

[@6BEEP9]

Confidence and delusion are very close to each other, men for one often have a more realistic look on themselves, and on life in general.

[@iindierokkers]

you don't have to project it's okay

[@littleseaturtle]

@@iindierokkers i know i don't, that's why i'm not. have a blessed day

[@iindierokkers]

@@littleseaturtle you shouldn't feel the need to defend yourself love

[@officialgift495]

Absolutely agree with Liz. Trusting people is scary yall. Secret animosity is real.

[@blelo9776]

What does secret animosity mean

[@inbloom2300]

Indeed! And it's sad to say it, but it usually comes from the people that are closest to you

[@joakimaappiah-kubi682]

@@blelo9776 I think it's when ppl secretly hate u and hide their intentions and try to gain Ur trust / friendship

[@blelo9776]

@@joakimaappiah-kubi682 ohh thank you! :)

[@officialgift495]

@@blelo9776 @joakima appiah-kubi said it all.

[@MoreThanSomebody]

I've never seen (or rarely) a person talking a lot about their good sides with so much authenticity and true honest visible happiness and not with fear or being like toxic or fake about these statements ❤️ily Liz, much respect to you

[@user-yp2rc3sb1n]

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[@madeleinedelacrypte]

this women has saved my life. not even being dramatic.

[@randyreyes5438]

"if i dont talk about myself that way, then who will?".... that phrase really left me frozen lol

[@RM-kk1nz]

One thing I want to emphasize on that if you take yourself seriously and give so much importance to yourself, others will do the same for you. ALSO DO NOT CHASE PEOPLE. Let them do the chasing and of course that doesn’t mean you neglect them. I used to chase people and care about them more than I cared about myself. Now I don’t do that and people are so obsessed with me. It honestly scared me at first but now I’m like well if you wanna do that you can, it’s not my business. If I don’t like you and you don’t benefit me anyway then I don’t want you in my life. I don’t have free time to waste. How I am right now took me years of pain and lessons. It didn’t just come to me out of nowhere and I have been doing more for myself a lot now. I believe that everyone can do it too. Please learn to love yourself even if it takes a long time.

[@poopbutt6241]

If no one chases, we wouldn’t have relationships

[@aliceduanra7539]

@@poopbutt6241 The point is that the man chases

[@stxrryd]

i think it's important to know that being a physically attractive person is proven to open more avenues for you than being a non attractive person, no matter how outgoing you are. some unattractive people may have a better shot by being charismatic and outgoing, so it's always good to take care of yourself and be your best anyway. as a disabled person who uses a wheelchair, i've always had to deal with stereotypes ever since i was a young child of people saying that i'm too "different" or too needy to be in a relationship with. no amount of being "confident" has suddenly made these people see me as a potential partner. however, if you lower your expectations for what you set your happiness on, your quality of life becomes better. being desperate is not only unattractive but also unhealthy. it will make your life miserable if you tell yourself every day that you're hopeless. that's why it's good to find joy in the unconventional things in life and to put your best self forward. after giving up on conventional methods of dating, i met my current boyfriend and have been with him for over five years. he's my best friend and sees the world the same way i do. sometimes you realize that there's nothing wrong with what you want. sometimes there's something just wrong with what you're doing to get it.

[@misshoneynevercame4832]

Thanks for sharing your story. I've seen a few videos about pretty privelege and as someone who is seen as conventionally attractive I find pretty privelege to be very real. I see the difference in treatment between me and my friends and colleagues in real life. Especially men treat you a certain way based on your looks. I know the most kindest and outgoing bubbly people but others don't want to hang out with them because they don't find them attractive. Sadly that's how it works. I'm glad you have found someone who was able to look beyond your disability and see your true beauty. Much luck to you ❤️😃!

[@pneuma33]

bravo

[@thefatcat87]

Love this ❤

[@ANTILIPSI]

kala esy

[@najianaser6968]

Thanks really for sharing ur story❤but I see that sometimes at least as my exprrience, pretty looks give the exact opposite reaction that you have mentioned, like alot of haters and alot of people who focuse on your small details to critisize and make them big deal like( omg girl you have small lines on your forehead) ,or you look so pale without makeup)😂😅 and stuff like that like it is crazy how they see you attractive and at the same time they want to make sure you feel the opposite

[@ohnanana-ri3pp]

i remember watching this video for the first time and how i thought she was wrong and its just her pretty privilege and i also thought that it would not happened to me even if i do those thing cuz i was very insecure back then. now that i am working on myself and building my confidence . i dont feel that anymore. i just could not see her loving herself bkuz i could not doing that with myself. a true confident person will never feel threaten by someone else confidence

[@BubblesZitumane]

To everyone saying “well of course people obsess with you, you’re beautiful.” Yes to some degree it’s true. But also not. I’m not someone who fits traditional beauty standards (and I was honestly not pretty growing up). However, one day I decided that I am hot, I am now my beauty standard and I am attractive. Everything changed, I physically started looking better. People always treat me kindly and are attracted to my energy. This is not to flex but to point out that, It’s up to you. Your energy, how you walk into a room, your self concept is what makes people attracted to you. You can also literally manifest your looks. You can manifest being attractive. You really can.

[@raidexe]

The only way to “manifest” a change in your look is by working out and eating healthy, plus taking better care of your skin and hair. You can’t change your body only by telling yourself in your mind.

[@skaio.5279]

@@raidexe I think they meant "manifest" as in convince yourself that you can & work on it. Imo.

[@skaio.5279]

I agree. I became attractive once I convinced myself that I am. When I was this shy kid, hiding my face and being all awkward no one complimented me. And once I was like "you know what, no, I'm hot just the way I am despite my "flaws" " I started to feel better and the confidence reflected on the outside and people would literally compliment me all the time randomly. I'm a shorter guy, but after I became more confident some girls assumed I'm way taller than I am, I'm not even joking. It was very strange. Like "How tall are you, around 180?" and I was like "Bruh I'm 173 what are you on, you're like an inch shorter than me." But it's important to be humble because in the end of the day no one is "better" than anyone else. We're different; be humble without pushing yourself down or too high. And work with the good features you have, work-out, sleep, take care of your skin (less is more!) but that's it. edit: I had heavy body dysmorphia as well for multiple months but I REALLY worked on it, features I now find the hottest were before my biggest insecurity

[@saraharabia3640]

I agree with you. I know a girl who is literally the prettiest girl who I was ever around with, but her personality, the way she behaves and talks is so unattractive (because of her negative energy and low-level personality) that I dont really want to interact with her.

[@MB-xv7er]

I hate to be harsh, but you are living in delusion. Love the confidence tho!

[@organic.lifestyle.creator]

Many talk about her physical appearance as her point of attraction and her appearance is a reflection of her energy and choices. She chooses to look like this because she values herself. Anyone can love themselves more and increase their level of attractiveness but you must do the work to get those results.

[@sam_4444]

This

[@thatbitchnoemie]

So if I become confident I'll get an instant brow lift ? Cool, lemme try that

[@organic.lifestyle.creator]

@@thatbitchnoemie doing the work to become more confident Will make you feel better and be more attractive but the key phrase is DOING THE WORK. Sarcasm is negative and won't get you there.

[@lexivivid8073]

Love this comment!!!💕💕💕

[@leyetelleblue6696]

I'm sorry this is unrealistic and selling this narrative is just evil. Of course taking care of yourself plays a major role but let's not act like her genetics doesn't help her tremendously. She's conventionally attractive. Makeup, nice hair, good clothing can only do so much for the average woman that doesn't fit the conventions. I would even say people accept her energy because she's attractive. There are many women with beautiful energy that get overlooked because they aren't conventionally attractive.

[@sophieboulet1106]

I love her confidence so much. I love how she knows how top teir she is. Too often in our society women don’t know how beautiful they are or when they do know and act confident, society tells them they really aren’t "all that". Pls never stop being this confident and cocky liz it’s so needed in our society for women to see that it’s ok to be confident.

[@Mr-Raoui]

You saying she's top tier shows us that you think she's top tier..

[@poopbutt6241]

Yet when men do it we are arrogant

[@harryh875]

@@poopbutt6241 lol you're arrogant when youre not the top 20% apparently you have alot to learn. Look up wheatwaffles and faceandlms. Confident cute guy=confident, courageous. Unnatractive confident guy=arrogant or creepy

[@harryh875]

Lol stfu I'll let Sergi from omegle make you all submit 😂

[@fivenode9854]

theres confidence and then theres having a nasty ego, she is the ladder

[@austinzizzi1142]

The fact that Elvis was extremely handsome didn’t hurt either. He was also talented and a deep passion for his craft, but would not have been idolized in the way he was without his looks

[@JADELAC]

Absolutely correct, the difference between a jim croce qnd an elvis presley can be just the looks

[@Invalid07]

This video randomly played but I resonate very well with your mindset so I actually watched the whole vid. There are not a lot of people with true confidence in the world.

[@frthepeple8815]

"When you chase it means you're not whole." So many inspirational quotes.😌

[@nikkimacg7290]

The video I never knew I truly needed! Thanks queen for sharing your confidence, and wisdom. You are a blessing. Beautiful inside and out and that is truly why people take to you.

[@anukritikapoor]

Whenever i feel lost i just watch her videos and it always works thank you liz for coming into my life.. i love you so much❤❤

[@lauraguillemin3197]

The fact that all the content she shares with us is free is a true blessing

[@Lapinettepetitbébé]

🤣

[@occiferjehons2329]

This is the mentality of someone who will wake up in 5-10 years and realize that they don't actually have any friends, just people collectively using each other.

[@isa-ob7zz]

thank you for this comment 🗿 completely agree, I was striving for this mentality and it made me miserable

[@cristie7154]

Yeah i agree. It didnt give me good vibes. Doesn’t sound natural

[@yaboyjonez9476]

I'm "obsessed" with you in healthiest way possible. Your content is speaks volumes to how far you've come and your sharing your knowledge to help others. "Beautiful" 💙

[@Babselll]

I love this woman so freaking much shes literally my role model!

[@lindokuhleshandu4024]

Having people obsessing over you is definitely a blessing in terms of boosting your ego and a curse, mostly a curse. They become overly attached to you since you are a reflection of what they long for. From what Liz described, she definitely made it sound so cool to be obsessed with in terms of the qualities that make people obsess over you in the first place, but it's not fun when people actually start obsessing over you, especially if you are someone who values their space, like Liz herself. You feel me?

[@Halo4beatsB02]

It's because she's attractive that's it if she was ugly or average hardly anybody would be giving her second thoughts.

[@lindokuhleshandu4024]

@@Halo4beatsB02 her attractiveness compels people to approach her, but her personality makes them want to stay.

[@Halo4beatsB02]

@@lindokuhleshandu4024 nope her personality is not that charismatic I've been around charismatic girls, they act nothing like this.

[@lindokuhleshandu4024]

@@Halo4beatsB02 do you know her in real life or you only see her on KZbin like me? If you've actually been around Liz, then I'd understand your point.

[@Halo4beatsB02]

@@lindokuhleshandu4024 if I were to give you an example of someone charming, think of tyrion lannister from game of thrones. Someone with humor, quick wit, but with humility and empathy and somewhat unsolipistic.

[@shanaz3]

I relate to this. I always get told by people that I have a presence when I walk into a space, and I captivate peoples attention through my energy and words. People love to spend time with me and want me in their lives a lot. It can be tiring for me at times cause I need to find someone who can bring that energy to me as much as I do for them. You are that person Liz. 🎉❤

[@isaoliveira6487]

Pretty privilege. Look, I simply love the fact that she takes time to make videos to try to help people to feel more like her and be treated like her, i think its amazing, with that being said we simply CANNOT dismiss something as real as pretty privilege in the world that we live in, its just not realistic

[@GuyLogen]

@@rose9266x Sure it's not impossible to have people be obsessed with you even if you're not "one of the prettiest people in the world". But it's also facts that pretty privilege exists and more initial impressions are based off looks and mannerisms, especially the scenarios that she was talking about in the beginning where people are like "you've put a spell on us" or "you're so mesmerizing".

[@GuyLogen]

@@rose9266x you said it, not me 👀

[@Luzgoishzre]

@@rose9266x lol you said you were ugly so we agree with you , do you think we are gonna make you feel better about yourself by saying :"no dont say that you are beautiful ", well no if you say you are ugly than you are honey lol

[@GuyLogen]

@@rose9266x I plead the fifth your honor

[@AtlisDe]

@@rose9266x they said even "if" and in quotation marks as in not their words, "not the prettiest person". Nobody can tell if you're ugly or not, so they have to take your word for it 😂

[@Golu-gs7qk]

It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest

[@Erly_AM]

You guys forget she’s very attractive. That’s also an important aspect

[@cgboyio9605]

One of the most crucial over all tbh 😂

[@anniewhereyougoo369]

No, thats secondary.It's about her energy and mindset I knew beautiful woman , which had low energy and semi good looking girls which are surrounded and attracted by great people, cause the frequencies are high 💕💕💕🌟

[@gracewoolfolk2194]

@Annie where you goo Agreed! Some of the most beautiful women I know are the most insecure, then I see not so attractive women with amazing energy and everyone is obsessed with them. It's more about the energy than the looks. Even I notice a difference in the way people act around me when I'm vibrating high versus low energy!

[@anniewhereyougoo369]

@@gracewoolfolk2194 Yes 💕 The lower the energy , the more complicated the life .Thats the wonderful thing in life , you have much more in your hand that you think. ✨

[@travisgaming1942]

All confident people are attractive

[@leticiamelo3159]

Love that fact that Liz just knows who she is! More than being extremely beautiful she is also confident in her personality

[@Tukwotgollette]

Ive been preaching this too my friends so long, and nobody seems to understand. Understand this ITS YOUR LIFE, YOU DONT OWE ANYONE ANYTHING. really changed my life and made me a happier person :))

[@kiaadams104]

is this not common sense...

[@nikitaciudakovas5885]

Bro they're just npcs

[@oscartanyimboh3743]

@@kiaadams104 Not everyone can apply it

[@objectofyourdesire]

@@nikitaciudakovas5885 what do u mean by that

[@kiaadams104]

@@oscartanyimboh3743 yea. true. sad but true. i clicked on this vid cause the chick looked hot... but i need to stay off internet. im starting to realize how many nerds and losers are on here looking for obvious life advice.

[@Maria_14566]

This „if you really need to tell someone talk to a tree“ made me laugh 😂😂😂

[@devonwilks]

i feel like she's underestimating the role of her physical attractiveness lol

[@tikusblue]

Exactly. She fits into all the modern beauty trends. Many people nowadays are insecure & self esteem, and worship people with a certain look. They think that if they look like Kylie Jenner, or this woman that their life would somehow be infinitely better or more magical. They want a taste of that life. And these types of people who are very insecure and a bit distant from reality/out of touch/shallow are the same exact type who easily become obsessive.

[@tikusblue]

It's also interesting that she chooses to befriend and date those people. Either she has a hard time identifying these type of people or part of her is drawn to having this dynamic and enjoys being worshipped by people with a lower self esteem

[@Neil-Aspinall]

Yes she is quite delusional when it comes to that.

[@devonwilks]

@@Neil-Aspinall agreed. she recognizes that men and women are *somehow* infatuated with her due to some rare conglomeration of personable attributes and social intelligence, which of course could be a matter of fact on many levels, she surely seems very pleasant, but it's devoid of reality to not consider the influence of physical attribution in attraction, and she inarguably has perfectly proportional facial features and beauty that exactly aligns with that of the pinacle of western beauty; that surely has to do with why someone might possibly become infatuated with her, especially if they are sexually attracted to women and especially if they haven't had much interaction beyond the superficial, for example a customer interacting with her in a workplace setting.

[@devonwilks]

pretty privilege is a real thing. i think it's very outside of reality and context that someone who is objectively very pretty is stating that anyone can be attractive and an object of one's obsession by simply being able to attain certain personality traits, when objective beauty is likely an overarching mechanism in which attracts many people to her?

[@Zerosk88]

It’s so fascinating hearing other people explain their thoughts. Maybe it’s because she’s pretty and confident? Some people just feel weird hearing some express their inner monologue. I’d rather people not be obsessed with me and I probably do a good job at that. Genuine friends is what I would like, but people who are genuine and have solid understanding is hard to come by.

[@somyanandwani3420]

i’d rather have people not become obsessed w me, that is like SO true. some of us just really want to live an isolated life, by choice.

[@ThePhotoshopExpress]

you're just beautiful, that's it. The first part of the video explained it all. You attract people first thank to your appearance. Your tips don't work on average/below average girls. It is not your energy, you literally told in the very beginning of the video that you work behind the bar and you think your energy is what attracts those men when they enter the bar? Yeah,no. Of course you may be a great person to be around energy-wise, but they don't know you personality when entering the bar, they see your model-like face.

[@l3lackbAI2l3e]

i actually disagree because although yes beauty brings someone in, it will not keep someone for long her personality that they experienced after seeing her is what kept them there. personally from what people say about me im not “so beautiful” and crazy gorgeous but people still gravitate to me despite what many say on how i look

[@ThePhotoshopExpress]

@@l3lackbAI2l3e you missed the point here. I know that it is the character that makes people stick around with you, bit from the very beginning people will not even try to get to know your 'energy' if you're not that attractive. Looks is the greatest boost when just meeting someone, it gives lots of benefits to that someone's perception of you

[@l3lackbAI2l3e]

@@ThePhotoshopExpress i didn’t miss any point, the point just is not true there are many people that i ended up loving that at first when i went to speak to them i didn’t find them attractive. i missed nothing your point just has holes, you may only truly approach people because they’re attractive but that is not everyone therefore that is not a hard rule.

[@Luckyy227]

She’s trying to manifest people being obsessed with her basically

[@ThePhotoshopExpress]

@@l3lackbAI2l3e your personal experience is valid but it cant be applied to the overall situation. Moreover, i dont know what you look like so there is no way of knowing whether people want to get to know u based on ur looks or if you just have the moxie so to say.

[@nadine4097]

"if you really need to tell someone, talk to a tree"😭✨✨✨✨. In love with this mentally 😌

[@usernameurl]

"If you really need to talk to someone, talk to a tree." LMAOOOO

[@Oliviagold__]

😂😂💀

[@KushQueen9]

😂😂😂 LOVE IT!

[@raidakrich6506]

I don't think I've ever seen someone have this much confidence in themselves

[@memyselfandi5148]

One should have this much confidence

[@demo9855]

She prolly a covert narc

[@TYSGHy78]

@@demo9855 not at all Wtf She is very secure in herself and she is in touch with her true self The look in her eyes is my goal coz I hate myself even though i am pretty When i saw the title, i did not even need to watch the video coz I agree Her aura is magnet

[@demo9855]

@@TYSGHy78 lol she’s definitely a narc and knows how to grab attention out of low life’s like u

[@maxpayne4129]

@@demo9855 lol yeah

[@Venusbgirl]

Why is everyone is obsessed with me? Is an affirmation it's an assumption that has hardened to face for you! Just assume that people is obsessed with u and you'll see it reflects on your reality. Learn more about the law of assumptions it will change your life I swear to God! Don't ignore this!!!

[@JeonMishel57]

I can somewhat relate as I do not think like that but others like my sister and some of my friends tells me like ‘’oh you are loved by everyone, everybody loves you, you are the first person here I feel comfortable to talk with, you have friends everywhere…”I don’t think like that I just want to connect with people and I love to be like that.. I don’t know why they say this..

[@notesfromanny]

her channel is like a safe space and it gives me so much comfort, love her.

[@2PAC-96]

simps : wow she is confidence, self-aware the reality : narcissistic, manipulative

[@Faded______]

She is one of the most delusional & self obsessed people on the internet.

[@yupyup1435]

Even better this way.

[@yupyup1435]

Its always the ugliest people to insult the prettiest ones smh And I’m not even talking about physical beauty.

[@kaine880]

@@Faded______ self obsessed? how

[@ilostmyjacket3997]

Liz you are literally the only person i go to for advise! since I started watching your videos I feel more motivated and stronger! so yeah thank youuuu

[@ordinaryshiven]

Same and we all got u as well girll

[@Nick-fk1in]

she's so full of herself. She thinks she's kim k

[@ordinaryshiven]

@@Nick-fk1in what's bad about that, it's just clear we came alone we'll die alone so taking care or ourselves alone isn't a problem lol

[@IntoTheBushSC]

@@ordinaryshiven imagine aspiring to be Kim Tardashian 🤣🤣 woke feminism has really corrupted a large portion of western women

[@aksunonair]

@@Nick-fk1in ok why are you watching this then

[@Angelsubliminalss]

Liz is SO down to earth, she gives me the best advice of my life, really the best person I've ever met, thank you liz:)

[@brezio5251]

no she isnt and you dont know her lmao

[@smithsunleashed]

someone's jealous@@brezio5251

[@puffcinnamoncloud]

I like how Andrew Tate gets praised and looked up to by millions of young men while a young pretty woman gets trashed for putting herself first. Epitome of bias.

[@Mickeymoon-j2x]

Andrew Tate don't have a good reputation either, he is way more controversial than this woman

[@evanbaxter7356]

In fairness most people absolutely hate him

[@sagemae2993]

Praised? Manz is banned everywhere and don’t get to speak through KZbin and most platforms

[@ljason69]

Stacy wake up? Tate received a lot of hate but also receive some support, like what you do to Thewizardliz. The situation is the same. Epitome of paranoia.

[@Bee19207]

Wouldn’t say he gets more praise than hatred though..

[@milabergman6238]

Girly you literally helped me so much. I kept on seeing ur vids on tiktok and I was just automatically drawn into watching your videos. You literally help have a more confident and higher vibration. I’ve gained motivation, balance, and self love. Your literally such a queen!!!

[@anuuushree8670]

I like her and messages she is giving to love oneself value one self out of everyone and etcss but sometimes she sounds really selfish rude and self-centered It just doesn't seem right to me. Is it just me?? 🙄

[@aw3346]

sometimes her wording comes off narcissistic but i don’t take offense to that because i know what she means and where she comes from…

[@Kiki-oo3bw]

nah i think people these days just aren't used to seeing others who are confident, and genuinely content with themselves. So when she says stuff about how great she is, it comes across as selfish. But self-love and true confidence is rare and important and easily misinterpreted.

[@noormendes8401]

It’s what I keep saying to warn people , she’s not a narc but she has huge tendencies , and indeed if she was condescending on weak people they might develop an unhealthy obsession. I knew a person exactly like that who would littéraly use and abuse people with her charm ( think amber head as an extreme exemple ) Liz isn’t a bad person she’s not selfish but obviously she has a long way to go in her communication

[@444_ek]

you just can't bear to see somebody confident

[@upasanajoshi1389]

I can conform this, coz it’s just been 10 days since I have started watching her and Iam literally obsessed with her, the energy and aura this woman carries us something else. I found her on my most crucial period and I am thankful that I found her. Thankyou liz for everything ❤️

[@Artlesbi]

She's so intelligent and lovable. A wonderful person spreading value and so I wish her nothing but happiness and peace. Thank you Liz. I appreciate your content so much. Live your life and come tell us about it whenever. :)

[@marylynn259]

People can at the same time be jealous of you and hate you but still stick around for your looks and energy and for taking advantage of someone. No matter how beautiful, it's not only looks that attract people. People can sense energy, especially if it's good energy, giving, positive, healing. If a good person is attracted to you, they won't be jealous and try to use you. It's the bad, narcissistic ans selfish people that act like they like you for who you are, beautiful and genuinely good, but still stick around to use you, for whatever they need. So Liz, you're completely right! I love to see a good and beautiful person. Just being beautiful doesn't make someone a bad person, pretty privilege isn't the main thing if you're a decent person. Many of confident and pretty girls have the worst personality and it shows actually so never judge by the looks.

[@Max4Z]

enegy this energy that basically you people are talking about personality. yall sound mad crazy worse than those hyper spiritual coo coos

[@lehahiahs]

you dont have to agree with everything liz says, you dont have to follow all her advices like its sacred. When you listen or read to gurus, you must think for yourself too. Take what you need and resonates, and leave what you dont. Or adapt it to your reality. I can agree with Liz in many things, and actually she has helped me a lot; that doesnt mean i have to do everything like her, be or act the same way.

[@nataliakonomi09]

who said you should act the same way as her ?

[@ariostorossi1295]

Guru???????? Wtf you talk about ahahah

[@chouayang81]

Exactly. Take what resonates and leave the rest.

[@Michiko412]

I’m obsessed with this woman. Literally giving out the golden advices. We love liz ♥️