Why Everyone SEEMS To Have More Money Than You

[@DragonKingGaav]

You only hear about the success stories and never the failures. Social media is all about making yourself look better than you actually are.

[@AudaciousBean]

Plastic people living plastic lives, just *fake.* Left it 8 years ago never looked back

[@HPkobold]

True!

[@joeyGalileoHotto]

I agree, and it is disappointing. As a job seeker who uses LinkedIn, I keep seeing so many success stories, but after facing rejections and not hearing back from companies, it feels like no one talks about the struggles. It would be refreshing and humbling to see more people share the tough parts of their journey because that's the reality for pretty much everyone.

[@williamread8186]

I can relate. I have a youtube channel I have been posting to regularly and I am doing horrible with it. Definitely not a success story here.

[@DarrenRivey]

America only has success stories…remarkably different from reality.

[@alissa773]

I just clicked on the video as filler entertainment while I was eating dinner.. I did not expect such a genuine take on life

[@DamonCassidy]

Glad to have been able to provide some value! Hope it was enjoyable to watch with dinner haha! Thank you for reaching out

[@alissa773]

​@@DamonCassidy We are quite different people so it was super interesting to hear your perspective! I hope you feel at peace now

[@scoobyboo8837]

Same I was just getting ready for bed, now I’ve been sitting at my desk watching this.

[@CRUDE360]

Same

[@Frindiegames]

Same...my eyes are tearing up didn't expect that

[@onlycreamofthecrop]

Takes a grown man to be vulnerable like that

[@DamonCassidy]

I’m working on it. Thank you for reaching out, I hope all is well

[@fadedchicken]

@@DamonCassidythere’s plenty of grown men in the world but what you are, is a grown man further down the road of maturity and self discovery than most will ever be. I’m 23 now, just starting my professional career, financial, and personal growth journey. This video has opened my eyes a bit more as I find myself watching more and more of these kinds of videos. Thank you for your contribution.

[@jackkerry4137]

110% 💪🏼

[@crterwil]

I am 60. You are wise beyond your years. I am still learning. So thankful for your posts. Family is real value. God bless you.

[@DamonCassidy]

So glad to hear I am providing some value! I hope you and your family are doing well! Thank you for reaching out

[@JeremySayers38]

Good family is the value not just family. Every family has the losers and keeping them away is the key. Every degenerate came from a birth. So, every degenerate had a biological mother and father.

[@blub3260]

Family or friends!

[@andrewp9811]

I just wanna say, I admire the uncut realness of your videos.

[@Im2good67]

Based comment.

[@DamonCassidy]

Definitely something I value! So glad you enjoy it

[@purplepigeon3826]

I was about to say he doesn’t edit out his mistakes/ mispronunciations. So much respect for this man

[@thinumstoneheart6713]

As someone who is 26 and works in banking, it really does destroy your soul. Great video

[@TERMINATOR101-b8j]

Same with being a delivery driver. Nothing like delivering a huge TV to a busted down house with a BMW on the deteriorating driveway.

[@osamataha336]

I did banking for 9 months, of all the jobs I had (I had 8 jobs) banking was the most soul crushing

[@Eltipoquevisteayer]

But at least you have nice things, and the fact that you are better than most people

[@SLVYER1]

I was wondering why even though ive been working for a decade plus they never want to give me a credit card. I dont have a mommy and a daddy like everyone else and it's made my life hard because they want me to make x ammount of purchases and have my checks directly deposited, and then home renters discriminate. I no longer care, im nearly 30 in a second class citizen because they decided thier children get to fuck up. I dont support the banking system.

[@HyperVegitoDBZ]

What exactly you mean by 'destroys?'

[@MK-jp3fi]

When you base your economics on spending and endless consumerism, it's no wonder our society is like this.

[@greall]

Correct. It's that time of the year now when people will literally be killing themselves to impress others with gifts.

[@user-ue9jq6fp9b]

"I wasn't participating in my own life" is a profound sentence. That was me a long time ago and looking back on it fills me with pure terror. Hopefully someone who needs to hear that phrase does hear it and it snaps them out of whatever trance they're in. Great video. You seem like you snapped out of the delusions that trap so many while you're still young, so keep at it spreading the word.

[@DamonCassidy]

So glad that was able to resonate and I certainly hope it was able to help those that needed it! I really appreciate you reaching out, I hope all is well

[@hanahdha5341]

I was definitely someone that needed to hear all of this. Im sacrificing my happiness to live in a situation where im saving a lot of money but at this point I've saved so much money...what am I saving for now??? I decided that im .moving to a new place to finally have my peace in a few months! After finally finishing school, getting that good job and feeling financially secure I'm going to be able to live a little for the first time in my life !!

[@KikiC-h1p]

But why am I crying? Clicked on this as another general topic of interest and found myself deeply uncomfortable listening to your personal story; I felt like you weren’t on topic, only to realize the depth and wisdom of what you’re saying near the ending. Thank you for providing us with this incredibly special and vulnerable moment. It is simultaneously thought provoking and healing.

[@wmgreen00]

I needed this video. I’ve been finding myself being bitter and resentful and lashing out at my loved ones and others around me. Like you I think it’s because I’m not content with where I am in life. When in reality, all that matters is the experiences we have and the people we have them with. Sure money and material things can be a tool to improve your life. But if it’s at the cost of your inner peace and love for those around you, it’s not worth it. I really appreciate the authenticity of your video as well. It’s been a while since I’ve seen such a raw, real, and human video. I hope your channel continues to grow because the world needs more authentic connection. You’re providing real value to your viewers, take care brother.

[@benjaminaristotleboes3157]

I'm sorry, but in America, you need money to NOT DIE...... And guess what? That amount of money is unknown because health care can literally cost almost any given amount.....

[@wmgreen00]

@ I agree. I mostly meant money doesn’t matter beyond being able to live comfortably and reasonably take care of yourself and those around you. Beyond getting your basic needs taken care of and obviously medical things if necessary, living life purely in the pursuit of growing your bank account is a dull and empty way of living.

[@benjaminaristotleboes3157]

@@wmgreen00 , as I said above, how do we even put a number on that with health care the way it is? We can't.....

[@benjaminaristotleboes3157]

@@wmgreen00 , but, once again, it's the ONLY way to be guaranteed not having to make a choice between being bankrupt or alive....

[@benjaminaristotleboes3157]

@@wmgreen00 , you MUST strive for the Almighty Dollar, and as many as U can get, for the full protection of your longevity on earth....

[@kennyx6796]

took me 32 years and losing both of my parents to figure out “keeping up with the jones” is a life suck.

[@lukasschultz1992]

Love that song

[@user-account-not-found]

Being a dad fixed a lot of the problems I had becasue I started to live for other people instead of myself.

[@IncredibleIceCastle]

What changes did you notice on a functional level, are you more productive or do you have more stamina? I don’t plan to ever have children but I think I can achieve a similar effect working in social services

[@vadim6385]

For me living for myself and not for other people fixed a lot of problems

[@annsanimationaddiction8024]

I think the issue is you thought originally that the world revolved around you. It doesn't take a child to change that mindset.

[@panduvandal]

​@@annsanimationaddiction8024depends on the person

[@danjoredd]

@@vadim6385 there is certainly a balance to be had. Living too much for one or the other will cause problems

[@temismontenegromontenegro9319]

" Be gentle to yourself " .When a friend kills himself we have the illusion we could have said the right word or been there for him. The point is he was determined to do it. I am so sorry for him, but please give yourself grace.

[@ardaybeluday2444]

The thing is not always. I personally was close to that once and a talk to my friend helped me to calm down for needed time. I needed that and i got that. The only reason i'm still alive was that talk. Still it wouldn't be his fault if he had plans. He did not know how close i was.

[@temismontenegromontenegro9319]

@ardaybeluday2444 I am so glad you are alive and well. Life is top precious no matter how difficult it can be.

[@ride4funnomg103]

I remember my parents talking about this in the 70s, and 80s, and 90s. Consumer culture is strong and nefarious.

[@thomascool1335]

without consumerism and stupid people spending on senseless things, the economy will doomed. just imagine if everyone have a food financial literacy and no one spending seasonal clothes and brand new car, instead everyone is investing, it could resulting a recession and deflation

[@adoroselatte]

@@thomascool1335 good point, I was thinking about that for some time.

[@ride4funnomg103]

@ Fair point.

[@thomascool1335]

*having a good financial literacy (sorry for my typo)

[@Anngrl69]

@@thomascool1335 But isn’t that crazy ridiculous? That we need “losers” in order for our economy to keep growing? It reminds me of fiefdoms where the ruling class relied on serfs for labor and income. You would think in the contemporary world with our increases in technology and scientific understanding that we would be able to operate under a more equitable economic system. But no, we still need people to fill the serf role to uphold the winners’ lifestyle.

[@christiancurtiss1111]

As embarrassing as it is, I had to sit down with someone and hash out my finances to see how bad the situation truly was and that I was chasing something I had no plans on being able to maintain but through a job that was destroying me mentally and physically. That was 3 years ago, and I'm now 6 months away from finally becoming debt free so I can then repair my credit. Shits tough but very grateful for the smart women in my life.

[@Dailyfiber_98]

Be proud of yourself man, that’s a big step in life! You’ve done something that most people don’t have the discipline to do.

[@Anngrl69]

Glad you had good friends and support to help you build a better life for yourself!

[@YoureSourdough]

I did door-to-door sales for five years, two of those years was training new sales people. You learn real quick that most people in the nice neighborhoods are house broke. I would be walking through neighborhoods that had $450-$500,000 houses and I would say 10% of them had $1000 of their own money in their bank account.

[@Draggonny]

I live in a cheap neighborhood and most of the people around me are car broke. 80k cars parked outside a 100k house. What makes it extra laughable is that a lot of them are taxi drivers, mechanics, scrap dealers etc. They know those cars lose value the second they drove them out of the dealership. They know which are the reliable models that will run forever with only minor repairs and maintenance but they just had to have the SUV or the muscle car. Meanwhile we bought the same model as the taxis. Good runner and common enough that we should have no issues sourcing spare parts or colour matched panels if needed.

[@DamonCassidy]

Definitely! Saw the same thing

[@zulubeatsprince]

I saw the same thing selling kirbys. Most of those folks got denied on the credit app and i would legit be shocked because the house and cars were all nice and new. I sold to a lady in a small duplex i thought she was poor but was making 12k per month back in 05. Taught me that all is not as it appears.

[@rusty1253]

​@@Draggonny so true man, everytime someone tells me crap like "but i need an SUV!" No, you dont. If you need storage space you go with a pickup, if you have a big family you go with a wagon or a minivan, if you want fun, you can go with a sports car, or any fast car tbh, and so on and so forth... When i think of the SUV i just think its a car thats meant to go on dirt, nothing else, maybe haul out more stuff, but tou can easily do that with many other vehicle types. So i just think SUV's are a gimmick sold to normies

[@Rainbowssugar]

@@zulubeatsprinceI was had an appointment when I was selling kirby and my trainer looked at her home and wouldn’t let me go in. In a previous sales position I was taught appearances can be deceiving Ive always wondered if that woman had the money to buy a Kirby after all…

[@MegaMerlin2011]

Near death experiences will mess you up. I've been there when I went through cancer. Then grandpa passed. Others that I knew with cancer started dropping like flies. After high school, some of the people I went to school with committed suicide. Life is hard. I try to focus on enjoying my life.

[@DamonCassidy]

Ugh so hard. So sorry for your loss but I hope things are going better with your battle with cancer. I believe the darkness makes the light even more beautiful in life. Thank you for sharing this with us!

[@GiveUp1765]

​@DamonCassidy advice to you Damon after watching this video. Please consider picking up a bible if you haven't already. Lot of issues that people have dealt with already and the answers to them found in that 1 book. Also a gateway toa. Personal relationship with your father

[@Ggg-nv5ly]

100%!!! I've been blessed to have a number of near death experiences.

[@dokomir]

I wouldn’t go as far to say near death experiences, but something traumatic that makes you rethink what you value in life is needed for somebody to mature and realize what is actually important and what not. I had to learn that last year at 21, and am very blessed that I will have a whole life ahead of me.

[@jonovaart]

I find myself going into your videos thinking I already know what you're going to say. Every time, I'm blown away with your richly unique perspective that frames the topic in a more meaningful way. Thank you for your honesty, you're helping many people

[@DamonCassidy]

I really appreciate your very kind comment! So glad to be able to provide value! I will also say that your art is truly amazing! I look forward to seeing more pieces you continue to share

[@jonovaart]

Thank you :)

[@crterwil]

Oh wow. Losing a friend so young will change you forever. I’m so sorry for your loss. Prayers friend. 😢

[@DamonCassidy]

Thank you, I really appreciate it

[@omarb205]

I am six months out from completing my medical residency training and your story about your PE was so visceral and so real. I too lost myself during my training and once I started to prioritize myself again not only was I better at my job but I genuinely was happier around my family. Thank you for sharing your story. You are a great person.

[@imjstar]

I really appreciated this video from you. I’m 28 at an all time high in my career. But I live with the trauma of having both my mum and dad die by the age of 25. And that really puts everything into perspective. Life is so short, and we need to try to experience it while we can.

[@DamonCassidy]

Ugh that is so devastating, I couldn’t even imagine that. So sorry to hear that. I hope that you’re able to find some peace, thank you for sharing this with me🤍

[@seanbon93]

i worked at an eyeglass place selling 500 dollar glasses, i was getting paid 18 an hour, now i make money for myself, they were getting 3000 dollars a day from my sales, while i got about 100. once i worked for myself it opened a new world

[@BeyondTheSide]

I look at my niece and I feel the same stirring that you felt. It's like a mild calling to, "do my best so she can thrive" i can only imagine how much louder this voice is for my sister and her husband.

[@DamonCassidy]

Absolutely, such a beautiful feeling! Thank you for sharing this with me

[@colebarreto6516]

the richest people i have ever met come off as a normal person. Ill never forget i met someone who seemed to be a basic late 50s guy turned out to be that he owed a warehouse of cars and motorcycles he was a multi millionaire and only wanted a simple life with a few quality things in it. The two things he told me as advice is (all you can control is your self) and ( the value in experience) just get enough money and knowledge to have experiences and go through the doors that open

[@Raelven]

You've packed several lifetimes into not that many years. Your insight is profound. I've been broke, well off, and broke again. (Currently in the final broke stage lol). I've been happiest when I've had to struggle the most.

[@colinwood8376]

My grandpa passed away right before I went on tour, so I didn't take any time to grieve. It was a day before my tour, and I didn't get a chance to grieve until I was home.

[@ChadingtonElliotSmith]

Horrendous. So sorry man. I was in jail for selling weed when my grandpa passed. 8 years ago

[@colinwood8376]

@ I try to visit him every Memorial Day. I miss him and my grandma dearly.

[@ChadingtonElliotSmith]

@@colinwood8376 go see him this weekend, he would like that

[@thomasordiales5835]

As a 21 year old struggling with figuring out what I even want to be & on top of that, having the pressure of becoming “successful” and “rich” before 25 because social media tells me that’s how it’s supposed to be, this video really hit me. Thank you.

[@DamonCassidy]

Absolutely! It’s definitely hard to navigate this period of time but I really think if you just do your best that’s all we can really ask for! So glad to have been able to provide value

[@connornial8237]

Wow, I really appreciate this bro, our world needs more people like you. Your video reminds me of a quote “Do not pray for an easy life. Pray for the strength to endure a challenging one”. However this quote can be interpreted two different ways. The first way to interpret this is similar to how you described yourself feeling at the beginning “work your ass off, build a brick wall around you and your emotions, so no one will ever be able to hurt you.” Or the second perspective is “lead by example. True strength lies in vulnerability. Embrace your weaknesses so fully that they motivate you to overcome them.” You motivated me to try and become an honest more vulnerable person, thank you!!!

[@saininj]

Stores on Black Friday looked pretty empty, but not empty enough.

[@just_your_localguard9612]

I was out grocery shopping on black friday and it was pretty empty, I was able to get in and out in about 20 minutes

[@Lakishia]

Same I woke up 6am to go grocery shopping and i bought some Christmas decor too. Target gave me $25 off since I spent just above $150.

[@DownHillgamer]

I still saw dummies out buying TVs but there isn't even deals anymore, the shit is always on sale on Amazon now

[@DamonCassidy]

I think everything is done online now, I know some people that definitely hit Black Friday hard. I’ll admit I used it too, got some jeans haha

[@mechamicro]

Black Friday online is killing the vibe. We need to put some deal online and leave the most exclusive back on store. They think its profitable for them. Wrong time

[@teachertracee]

I am a former CPA. I was absolutely stunned when I got out of college and started working with so-called wealthy clients. They had to put their electric bill and groceries on a credit card! Routinely. It was mind-blowing. I left that job and started working with kids. Much more fulfilling.

[@emilyau8023]

A majority of people use credit cards. What is your point?

[@BasilHumke-e1y]

@emilyau8023 their comment reads "HAD to put their electric bill and groceries on credit cards." implying that they don't have enough money in checking to buy groceries and pay electric. implying they aren't actually wealthy. you really needed this spelled out for you?

[@FobosLee]

8:00 - exactly. Never envy anyone because if you want the good stuff they have, you also gotta take all the bad stuff too.

[@martinsmith2258]

This is the most vulnerable and genuine I’ve ever seen anyone be on the internet. It takes a strong person to do that. As a 23 year old man I’m completely inspired by this guy and I don’t feel alone anymore in many of the topics he touched. You’re on a great path that works for you and I hope you stay there man!

[@CalmBeforeTheStorm76]

Damon... I'm 45... You are not alone. Buddy, it comes and it goes. The people... the people in your life... that's the only thing that makes it all better. Try to live your life with integrity. I believe in your over arching goals. I'm about to start working at a machine shop. That's an improvement for me after losing my partner. Buddy, your family... starting a family and celebrating them. That's all that matters.

[@DamonCassidy]

So sorry to hear about your loss, I couldn’t imagine how hard that is! I just keep doing my best day in and day out and that’s all I can really ask for at the end of the day. I hope that you’ve been able to find some peace in your life

[@CalmBeforeTheStorm76]

@ Just to clarify, she got rid of me... I didn't lose her as in death. I'm sorry for the confusion,

[@CalmBeforeTheStorm76]

@ If women watch Tik tok, I feel like it doesn't matter what you do. They'll always think they can do better... I was in the top 10% of earners out here for like 15 years. I just wanted a career change... got distracted trying to help her and her daughter... when she felt strong enough, she got rid of me like some inanimate object...not before showing me what 7 years in an abusive relationship does to someone. It really sucks.... I left her life far better off than when I met her. Self sacrifice means nothing to so many women these days. It's expected.

[@CalmBeforeTheStorm76]

@@DamonCassidyThank you for the personal reply. Life has been so hard lately. Trying to determine whether the person you loved is a narcissist, or you just really loved them despite their flaws, is so difficult. It's crushing... Just be grateful for the love you have in your life... I realize anxiety can make that next to impossible. But, without a partner, I don't care what anyone says, life may be "peaceful", but it is not why we are here. We are meant to bond with another human being, and connect with one another. That's all. That's the whole thing. Remember that, and you'll always have your North Star.

[@senoritaaurora5123]

People also come and go. All things and people do ultimately.

[@ewxlt]

You being a father is the best gift you could ever give to the world. Good on you.

[@anonymooseanonymouse6371]

I clicked on this video not expecting a personal introspective but a more macro look a credit card debt. However, I got much more than I was expecting. Phenomenal video I wish you the best.

[@vijaykrishnan7797]

Same

[@jacobs7424]

Worked in the mortgage industry for my first 2.5 years out of college. Chasing the “inverse extreme” lifestyle to offset some of the rough financial situations I had seen had me overworked and under-satisfied. Forcing myself to take time off, enjoy the little things, and invest more in “me” than in my portfolios was a pivotal point in when I became happier. Great video.

[@kentykent4947]

The clickbait got me but I'm glad I got to listen to this. It had some value.

[@anthonyjudd231]

One things for sure. As a 25yo that relates to everything the homie says, one day I'll be voting for him. This is the experience and representation the world needs, and at 35 not 70. Get someone like this in the DAY we can allow it.

[@anthonyjudd231]

Alr i said this at like 10 minutes in i didn't know he was gonna day it too im not glazing that was my own opinion I just need yall to know this now.

[@ylondes9927]

​@@anthonyjudd231 This isn't glazing, he seems very genuine and smart. His way of thinking makes it plausible that he can not be corrupted.

[@georgerafa5041]

Buddy, you need Jesus. Yes mainstream culture is soul crushing. Making your life about submission to God and serving others is how you become a happy and productive person, because then you aren't constantly worrying about how much money you're making. Obviously you still gotta eat and keep a roof over your head but it's a shift in perspective that sets people free.

[@anthonyjudd231]

@georgerafa5041 this dude is BAKED lmao

[@anthonyjudd231]

@georgerafa5041 god does not care about you and the lack of value in your life has nothing to do with religion. If anything, it has to do with the excess of religion. Jesus would never support pinning people against each other, so be careful before you get banished to your own hell.

[@benjaminfigueroa1833]

I was suggested this video on my feed, and I'm glad I clicked it. There are big changes coming. Hugs from a Chilean living in China. It might make you happy to know that your ideas are getting far.

[@wolt911]

Another Damon Cassidy video requires me to say the line again… if the working class does not unite this country is done for.

[@DamonCassidy]

Certainly is needed!

[@cb2253]

Man I resonated so hard when you talked about the over pursuit of money. It caused me depression and took years out of my life through stress and other ailments. I’m just now getting back to who I used to be

[@mikejarrells431]

Bro. Your life. Your choice. Don't settle (for toxic relationships). Man up (be your authentic self). We got this. Let's go!

[@keegan449]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. I got a lot from this.

[@DamonCassidy]

So glad it was able to provide some value! Thank you for reaching out, I hope all is well

[@集桜満]

This video genuinely hits home for me. Currently 28 with a career as a blue collar, but when I was 21-23. All I cared about was materialistic things and working a bunch of jobs to meet that needs. However, I was not feeling happy, but rather depressed and lonely. Now, I got a pretty good career and just trying to regain those genuine connections that I had given up in my early 20s. As I realized it's better to focus on myself and find my own happiness than to compare my own success to my peers. Great video truly, and you've earned yourself a sub!

[@A_to_Zappa]

As a retired Executive 60 hours per week over 40 years I saved myself with volunteer work (coaching youth baseball and basketball) and hobbies outside of work... Ski, golf, bowl, work on cars, workout, read, cut the lawn... Occupying my mind with activity and engagement eliminated any time wasted on negative thoughts overthinking everything and being everything that "THEY" wanted me to be... Only positive thought will save one from depression and physical ailments... So, now I am just me. That's it. I have a life.

[@Kaiziak]

If you overthink why you’re doing something, you will always be successful in convincing yourself the grass is greener with a new shiny “why”. If you have any sense, you have to suspend your disbelief in order to do what others won’t in most cases. Best to focus on the journey and not question the destination.

[@quadsnipershot]

I work for a company but and we sell to companies that are lease to own. So they buy an item and will but their client on a payment plan of X amount a paycheck, but the amount is insane the interest is at least 100%. Their client will get the loan but we will the item for 500 dollars the lease company will sell it for 1000 dollars but divide it up over 26 paychecks, or no interest for 3 months. Being poor in america is expensive.

[@RandomName0316]

Sounds like Rent-A-Center or Aaron's

[@aznbackshadow]

10:20 debilitated. Make weak or feeble. Unable to take action moving forward.

[@DamonCassidy]

Ahhh!! Thank you, I was flustered there haha

[@aznbackshadow]

@@DamonCassidy yes of course. Great video. 1st one of yours for me. Feel free to ask me anything about pickleball.

[@DamonCassidy]

Will do! Thank you!

[@decoded360]

Hey, this video pulled me out of doomscrolling through youtube videos and is really motivating me to get to work. I've been striving for normalcy, finding happiness in the struggles of everyday life, and I know what I need to do in order to accomplish that. Thank you for the boost of motivation, and thank you for helping me release some emotion I didn't know I was holding onto.

[@DamonCassidy]

I am so incredibly grateful this video was able to do that for you! Thank you so much for sharing this with me. Have been having a bit of a rough day and this meant a lot. Best of luck on your journey!

[@paularkilo9247]

I’m 20. I work at one of the largest credit unions in the country as a loan officer. It destroys your perception of money, people, feelings, relationships and the reality you’ve been painted as a kid. I really appreciate the openness. Years ago, I decided I wanted to have the same goal, to be a father. I didn’t know why or how I decided that to be my life goal. You put it in perfect words. Thank you

[@rlpn91]

Sharing this level of vulnerability couldn’t have been easy. Thank you ❤

[@rottencarrot]

06:00 😶‍🌫 must be that tie of the year where we all reflect on our lives coz we got family and friends coming around for the holidays and overwhelming feelings of unaccomplished dreams hits us as we think they are doing much better than us. Stay Strong! your journey will only get better with self awareness; acceptance and willingness to change it!

[@rottencarrot]

dang! I chocked up!

[@rottencarrot]

I had set a goal for myself and now that goal seems undesirable or even worthless coz even by accomplishing it, I wont be at the status that society expects me to be. By society, I mean the well off family that raised me but I turned out to a total failure; Im not married; a single parent; living pay cheque to pay cheque; no car; no house; no savings. ok... choking up again... I thought this was all internal until the "society" was actively Mean Girling me and that did a number on my mental health. Now I go no-contact and on the pursuit to happiness. I can just get off the pay cheque rat race, then Ill be fullfilled.

[@DamonCassidy]

So sorry to hear all that you’re going through, really wish I could help but I appreciate you sharing this with me. Have to just keep trying our best each and everyday and that’s all we can ask for🤍

[@hech9540]

I quite literally have the same PE story at 26 working in tech for quick promotions. Work for myself today and staying in therapy. All the best.

[@DamonCassidy]

So happy to hear you’re perusing a life for you! As you know it’s hard work and lonely but keep on the path and hopefully we can find some peace. Thank you for reaching out!

[@samanthaporter6662]

I always question how people are driving around with new SUVs and I phones and going on vacation and the only conclusion I can come to is that they are in SCARRY amounts of debt! Must be miserable....

[@cocolove9916]

25:26 same.. I feel your pain deeply.this is how I feel about my sister i’ve always had a strong belief since I was a kid that their perceptions that we hold over ourselves that we let control us and our actions in our day-to-day lives! and I try to remove myself from that as much as possible growing up, even if that meant cutting off toxic family because they let capitalism consume them fully or cutting off toxic friends It at least gave me some peace of mind, and I kept my sanity. mind you I’m only 23 and I’m on my way to try and become a finance pro to find some sort of purpose in life because honestly, I never really had a goal initially I was in nursing, but then I gave up on that now it’s just to have clear mind and sanity and good health as that is wealth

[@bronwynlandis]

Your vulnerability is magnifying how great this video is for me. I’m captivated by your storytelling. I’ve only ever received positive value from your videos and I’m activated by your intellectual arguments and unique perspectives. I’m sorry for the grief you’ve suffered, you’re a very emotionally well rounded individual who has experienced a broad array of emotions and is able to articulate it such a beautiful way.

[@Tuamazing710]

You’re a wordsmith arry’ thank you for this. Some sentences you said throughout the video will stick with me for years to come.

[@Ophanim7881]

I might only be 18, but to hear this truth is moving. If I set my heart on fatherhood now, I'll be set to lead for life. A real purpose.

[@DamonCassidy]

This comment brought a smile to my face! Thank you so much for this

[@livingbeings]

Unexpectedly brilliant video. I don’t even read the titles of your videos before clicking them anymore. I know they will be worth my time because of the mind and thoughtfulness of the author. This one is special though. Thanks man.

[@TrishaCobbs]

I love your awareness, your courage, and your growth . It gives me joy . I'm so sorry you had to lose a very important person in your life . Wonderful story ❤️

[@DamonCassidy]

Thank you very much for your kind words! I hope you’re doing well🤍

[@TrishaCobbs]

@DamonCassidy not a problem. I am and I hope you are as well . I'm subscribed to you now ! Thanks for the wisdom

[@michaelhank4353]

You were lacking what most people do, Purpose or what I like to call the “so what” of your drive and ambition. A lot of youth lack an end state, so they default to societal norms of earn then spend, then make more than spend more. You were unhappy because material things and stock portfolio don’t fill voids, genuine relationships do.

[@sarahmindelli]

This was a wonderful video! Thank you for sharing your experiences. A LOT of what you said resonated with me very deeply. I love that you mentioned your personal goal is to be a father! That is absolutely wonderful! And, having had my 2nd child only 4 weeks ago, I can attest that my children/family are what give me meaning and got me out of the worst times of my life. Also, your video reminded me that I am doing exactly what I’m supposed to, taking care of my newborn baby (because I was feeling guilty for not having uploaded a new video to my channel in weeks). Thanks again!

[@Diquemango]

You’ve quickly become one of my favorite speakers. I always look forward to the next upload. Thank you sir ✌🏼

[@StinzaTubeHD]

Thank you for sharing a very personal story to us.... Idk how to explain it but I needed to hear it today

[@DamonCassidy]

Absolutely, so glad it was able to provide some value to you!

[@minimrmini3287]

Me at 25 seeing everyone I knew in high school traveling the world while I go to work every day🤔

[@DamonCassidy]

I’m right there with you. It’s not realistic what they’re doing in most instances

[@haisee1671]

Hahaha i have a coworker, 2022-2023 flexing photobombs of her travels. Now shes posting, ranting about job search and how broken she was blaming other people for it.. don’t believe everything u see on social media, everyone’s a clout these days. Real flex is confidence.

[@lexcjayy]

Perfect timing is an understatement. I was just crying to God about my current state in life and debating if I should get a new Mercedes because my current one is a 2018 and having issues .. knowing very well I shouldn’t! Again thank you, your life is a true testimony! You inspire me to be my true authentic self

[@bobbystark3721]

This was tremendously candid and helpful. Far deeper than many other videos on this topic. I have subscribed.

[@DamonCassidy]

So glad you enjoyed it! Thank you very much for your support!

[@Noxara]

Having good finance is good and all. But everything I hear is always money and wealth. No passion, just misery and self-destruction.

[@cheyanne2563]

Always shocked you dont have more subs yet. Your videos are always very high quality and insightful

[@DamonCassidy]

I really appreciate your kind words! I hope things are going well with you

[@cheyanne2563]

@@DamonCassidy thank you, and thank you for sharing such raw and honest stories

[@bmxboxter]

This video deserves so many more views. Thank you for your vulnerability and your perspectives.♥️

[@DamonCassidy]

I am so glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for reaching out🤍

[@joshuaklimmek1000]

This is real shit for people who are craving reality.

[@DamonCassidy]

Glad it provided value!

[@garyhughes3001]

I was in finances , had what i thought was 'it all'. Ended up burning out completely, I'm in ok place now. Thanks for sharing.

[@DamonCassidy]

Finances just does something to the soul. Glad to hear you’re doing better!

[@notoriousnitram3996]

I started a cleaning business to help people, my main rule is not working for rich people/landlords/air b&b and its been so rewarding. I love my clients, we have tea and genuinely give a shit about eachother. I've been able to help my community. My friend who cleans in the suburbs never gets tipped, rarely thanked, and almost never paid on time. Yeah she makes $35/hour and I make $25-30 but I get tips, gifts, and healthy relationships I thought I'd never have. I take transit, so she is also paying a LOT more for gas. It evens out to be kind and helpful, in my experience

[@Osarogie112258]

Thanks!

[@DamonCassidy]

Absolutely! Thank you for your support!

[@Sizifus]

Happy to have you in my subscriptions. I have been in a dark cloud lately, bitter and lonely, a lot of things just not working at all for me and I feel like I don't really know myself, and I keep beating myself over and over for every failure I have in work, in my goals, in my relationships. And it's so easy to stay in that cloud, however, your honesty kind of snap me out of it for a moment. Thank you for sharing your authentic self, your goals, your successes, your failures.

[@bluey8302]

I was following and following and when you said "he removed himself from this life" I swear it hit. I was not expecting that at all. DAMN!

[@rapiddave9313]

I think the thing that I like most about your videos, is that you're so genuine!

[@megan9825]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and opening your story to your followers! We should all work on finding contentment with our position while continuing to take step forward. A great life isn’t all about money, or other folks perceptions of our life.

[@DamonCassidy]

Absolutely right! I really appreciate you reaching out, I hope all is well

[@TiciaGerber]

This was phenomenal! You are incredibly wise, authentic and impactful;)

[@DamonCassidy]

So glad you enjoyed it! Thank you very much for your very kind words!

[@Kimchi_brasi]

This was one of the best videos I watched on YT all year. Thank you and stay golden 🤙🏽

[@TheBingusBongus]

I’ll be the first to admit I fell for the clickbait…and I’m all the better for it. I’ve been going through the wringer financially. I started the year with my dream job, making more money than most of my peers, and I lost it all, had to move back in with my family just to keep my head above water. It’s sucked and all I found myself able to do was focus on what I lost. How much things sucked, and just comparing myself to who I was and to my “rich” and “successful” friends. This woke me up. Thank you, Damon.

[@reneevoicebrand]

People seem to remember to feed their wallets but forget to nourish their souls.

[@DamonCassidy]

Beautiful

[@makogoblin]

As much as i agree with everything ypu said. No amount of self love will counteract teetering on the edge of financial collapse.

[@RocBush]

💥

[@makogoblin]

@RocBush ?

[@ryancier]

Thank you for sharing your story like that. We're all human and that made it very real. It makes me wonder if a lot of anxiety and anger is unprocessed or unacknowledged grief. Not all the time, obvi. Your story is thought provoking as much as it is authentic and human. Again, thank you.

[@ardaybeluday2444]

Not being able to breath and survive, it was close. Good that your mother was there. I'm happy you are alive

[@bradgotyoumad]

Great vid man. The unedited honesty/speaking errors really shows your willingness to pursue authenticity.

[@armorbearer9702]

Thank you for sharing your personal stories with us. It takes a lot of courage to tell others about your past mistakes. I agree that taking some time to self reflect on what we really want out of life is important to change society.

[@ChadingtonElliotSmith]

Watched this randomly getting ready for work, ended up staying and listening to the end. Damn

[@DamonCassidy]

Hope it was able to help some before your day! Thank you for reaching out

[@VultureXV]

I have a weird advantage in this social conundrum. I am neurodivergent and was the subject of intense bullying as a kid. I dont _want_ to impress anyone because everyone is awful and doesn't deserve the effort. However, this does create new issues of "I still have minor sensations of loneliness from time to time yet generally see most people as disgusting." Sort of thing.

[@mr.bluenotedoobop]

I did mortgages for a couple of years and I pulled a lot of credit reports. Lots of people leveraged, especially on the equity on their house. I see lots of younger people in the office making $50k a year driving new BMW’s. 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[@MrBokid95]

One of the best and the most valuable video I've ever seen on KZbin! Thanks a lot for being so honest and for speaking your mind.

[@DamonCassidy]

Thank you for your very kind words! So glad it provided value!

[@caylewilson8527]

I just turned 20. Moved out my parents house a year ago. I’m doing well and consider myself “successful” thus far. I’ve found myself also wanting to live for others and public service. Watching this video was something I did not know I needed. You and I are not so different and I feel as though you’re just a little farther down the line than I am. I hope to find that which truly fulfills me, and keep a good perspective on my “life markers”. Is there anything you would have told yourself at 20 (outside of this video)? I don’t want to fall into the same traps I’ve seen so many fall into, and I don’t want to need the wake up call.

[@Parismiami2012]

Your question wasn't directed at me, but I'll answer it anyway. I'm 55 and looking back. I would tell my 20-year-old self not to spend money on things you don't need excessive material possessions just the way you down. Save as much money as you can your future self will thank you for it. And the two phrases of wisdom in this video that really surface to the top.... be kind to yourself and others because you truly never know what someone else is going through.

[@devenchy3k947]

Great video. I feel the exact same way as far as where my focus has been. I'm 27 now, but since 21 all I focus on and talk about is money & self improvement. For most of my 20s I've been in the house, not doing much to maximize my savings & investments. I moved away from home 3 years ago & I haven't had any friends or relationships since. I'm making a choice that 2025 will be my last year of putting success over living my life!

[@PaladioBlaze]

I'm glad that you are still here and you figured it out.

[@alisallamy8650]

Thank you for such a video! I really appreciated the uncut style of such a conversation I felt I was included in...I think there is value in placing ourselves in service and in doing so we often find ourselves and who we really are...our society had changed our perspective of life and made us think higher is more and more is better when at times sometimes materialistic more is often less....

[@86-panda]

W video. I love how you said it so raw and unedited. Acknowledging your own faults and using it to teach your audience is much more impactful than just talking about it. Sub'd

[@hhr1862]

It took alot of strength to tell this story. Thank you.

[@WSWC_]

took a lot to put that out there man. I recently opened a window cleaning company and couldnt be more thankful while remaining vigilant of my..own health. It can be hard man.

[@raschdieek]

I know it's an odd way to phrase, but this and the other video I have seen of yours are absolute bangers. A lot of what you are talking about speaks heavily to the things I have felt and endured in my own life. Keep it up.

[@DamonCassidy]

So glad you enjoy them!! Really appreciate you reaching out

[@miatognoli106]

We want to live a life of luxury without realizing the true luxury that surrounds us every single day. It’s easy to lose sight of. I know it’s a constant battle for me. Thanks so much for sharing :) I appreciate your openness and honesty, and know you’re going great places