Why a Good God Lets Bad Things Happen

[@Odihmantich]

and a thought I recently found very cool is that you are now observing a certain part of the infinite reality in its state that will never be the same and it is exclusive for you now. Nobody will ever again observe what you are observing right now. *ALL THIS WORLD* is exactly like that exactly now and exactly for you to observe a certain (specific for you and nobody else) part of it!!!

[@blank_earth]

I was a child of a narcissist parent, I came from a very difficult life with him, and was homeless with him for a very long time in the past and never had a good home life growing up. I managed to escape him, and had to go great lengths to get away from him. I was lucky to have known the people that had helped me and allowed me to stay with them. I went to go be with my extended family that had found me on the internet. They flew me in first class to go be with them, and I genuinely felt that I would belong with them because they’re my family. At first there was this honeymoon period, they thought of me as a gift from grandma that passed away. But what seemed like a gift from the universe, only turned into something that had psychologically wounded me. I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they seemed to have been to live with, and how strict and conditional their love and regard was towards me. I felt like I couldn’t really be loved or accepted for just the way I am, or that I had to constantly fit in to their idea of how I should live my life and be like to them. I felt like I was some kind of flawed and inadequate kid. I would hear them say things like “but he wasn’t raised that way!” “oh it’s just gonna take time”, “I just think he just wasn’t raised properly” …and it felt like I had to constantly jump through hoops in order to be loved, and if I don’t, then it’s basically ‘bye peace out can’t live with your family’. To this day I feel this deep, inner wound of rejection and unworthiness that I carry each and every day. My aunt would ask this weird question “what are the advantages that you think you have of being here?” but in my mind I’m like ‘I didn’t come here just so I can gain some kind of material advantages, I came to have a life here with my family just like any other kid would with their families, not a quid pro quo’. But I just told her “I don’t know” , and she replied “then why did you come live with us honey?” and she didn’t even have any idea why I went to go be with them, even though she invited me and said “why not come stay here?” I had unfortunately received some invalidating comments from others that I’ve tried to speak to about my trauma, they’ve said things like “why should they love you” and “who are you and why should you be loved and cared for” and another person said “you don’t seem to realize that you’re wanting a warped and distorted image of your family” “you are not your brother you’re not their kid” and I’ve basically been labeled as having some kind of “sense of entitlement”. So for a kid or young person to have an innate desire and need to have a family home or to simply live with his or hers own family they would have a “sense of entitlement”? What kind of cold world do we live in? Isn’t every kid or young person deserving of what I believe to be the most basic, simplest thing that any young person could have, which is a family home, or to simply live with one’s own blood relational family, in a home? With parents, caregivers, siblings, etc? Shouldn’t it be like the norm and standard for every kid or young person? But for some reason, I’m being considered by some people as like bad, evil or reprehensible for trying to have that with my own family? I tend to think if my friends can live with their families, why can’t I live with mine? I once had a former friend who I thought would always be validating of my trauma, but he one time went against me and invalidated me and said; “Well they raised your brother! They raised him and not you so he’s their kid!” and he laughed at me. So whose kid am I? Where does that leave me then? and so after some years later I came to figure out, that perhaps the reason why I was treated the way I was treated by my family, was all because they raised my sibling and they never raised me. I can’t believe that, I went through that whole process, of getting away from my father, and finally got to be with my extended family and my brother that I never got to grow up with since we were born, and after going through such a nightmarish life with a narcissist father, only for it to, pretty much, backfire on me? all because ‘they raised him and not me’. So in order for a kid or young person to live with his or hers own family they have to be born and raised into it? And it’s unfair to me how my brother got to have what they called a “privileged life” while my life and upbringing got robbed by a toxic father. One person on the internet said to me “he was brought up by them and you weren’t so don’t go thinking you could have the same because the world doesn’t work that way.” 😒, in contrast, someone had recognized the validity of how I feel and that person said “you’re story saddens me so much, how on earth could you not be allowed just the same if not more’ 😔. I remember I stayed with a friend of mine and his family because his mom couldn’t sleep at night knowing that I was sleeping in a car in a parking lot somewhere with my father. They treated me as equally as their two boys, I wanted that with my family and my brother. It’s incredibly sad and disheartening to me that, I go to my family expecting all the love and care in the world, only to seemingly be met with sort of the opposite, I just don’t understand that if they can love and care for one kid all of his life why can’t they do just the same for the other? I believe every kid and young person deserves a good home life with their families. But I guess I can’t have that with my own family all because they raised him and not me. I used to envy other kids that had normal family homes, I stayed with some of them, but couldn’t actually live with them or claim it as my home all because I just, ‘wasn’t their kid’. Since my aunt apparently didn’t have any idea why I went to go be with them maybe I should’ve told her that the one question I always asked myself was, how come other kids get to have a family home and live with family in a home and I don’t? They bought a condo and now my brother is living in it for free… I was told that there was only one baby on the table… We never chose our parents… and I never chose this life…

[@densedecisions4568]

2:11 Refusing ( to let go of/block what we are) "viewing through a keyhole" (by inserting a key) to actually open the door

[@unsolicitedtwocents]

nice explanation of the tao...take it or leave it, the flow is

[@middleofnowhere1313]

I've heard all these arguments before and find them completely hollow.

[@JohnnyKarlitch-g8d]

Ah, these almost silent transitions, this minimalist intro music, this talking visual montage!

[@Chaos1976]

I believe everything I just heard. I have experienced ego death and oneness on 5-meo-dmt and it was more real than this agreed upon reality. Before that experience I would never have believed anything in this video. I didn’t learn it from books or videos of others, I learned it from a sacred psychedelic chemical.

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

*Reflection is key.* When you sync your mind with what the Universe is all about, although there are far more questions left unanswered than solidified with answers, at the very least, you're considering the Vast Cosmos as a major part of the equation. You know, in lieu of being limited to banal, temporary, terrestrial concerns. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge; hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

[@Chaos1976]

@ reflection is key. The trip can show you all of this but the difficult part was processing this. Especially since I knew nothing about this before that experience. I searched online for validation and I found tons. So much information about vibrational frequencies and energy and consciousness that I found online that did validate my existence. I was thinking that had I known this before I had the dmt experience it may have just been my mind just recalling what I already knew. But since it was not that and the fact that everything I experienced are known truths already that means that the experience was real, it showed me the truth. That makes it impossible to deny. So what you do with this information after the trip is equally as important as the trip. You have to be able to process it and bring it into your daily life. Change is difficult also. I would like to have done this with a shaman or someone who really understands this to help me incorporate this knowledge. It is definitely not something you do for fun, it was not fun, it was intense and terrifying yet there was peace in that if that makes sense. My ego tried so hard to fight that. It did not want to let go but you don’t have a choice. I think the most valuable lesson I learned in this was to let go. Let go of everything I thought I knew and everything that I thought I was that I am not. To know that the only thing I know for certain is that I know nothing at all for certain accept that this whole thing we call existence is an illusion. And there is a peace in that as well. The fact that it’s ok not to know everything. Not to need validation or to be liked even. Just to be grateful I am able to experience this life in human form and that I am insignificant yet a critical part of the cosmos. It’s very humbling. To be able to experience joy and pain, sunshine and rain, all of the emotions available.

[@tchelaumm]

what about wanting to do something about it? its natural or its just a attempt to control the outcome?

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

Everything is solely and only "OK" for those with coin, connections, crews, clout, computer code, control, corporate communities, and opulent opportunities. But for anyone *without* these eight things, they're sheet outta luck, suckaaah! 😂

[@sentientpower]

Go read about the life of Gautama The Buddha and you'll find that you're wrong.

[@siyaindagulag.]

this better be good ,cos...well, you know !

[@antbereishit]

Anyone else felt like this video was greatly influenced by Charlie Chaplin's The Great Dictator speech?

[@matthiasmlk7]

Ego is an anagram for Geo. It's our earthly perspective. We don't exist as the abstract whole of consciousness. Nothing is okay today.

[@ArtificiallyAware]

Exactly, that’s why I’m suggesting you embrace a universal perspective, not just an earthly one, in order to see clearly. Just as there’s no real division between you and the Earth, the same applies between the Earth and the universe.

[@matthiasmlk7]

@ArtificiallyAware That's not possible though. Only death of the body can separate you from the ego. We are here to experience our unique point of view.

[@ArtificiallyAware]

@matthiasmlk7 There are actually a variety of paths to achieve this while still being alive. I think you might find this interesting: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mXnGl4puac-npNE

[@ArtificiallyAware]

Perhaps it would be better to start with this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqGTgnyohptofNU

[@matthiasmlk7]

@@ArtificiallyAware I understand where you're coming from. It's like Jung says about the shadow. You must face it and become one with it. If you would like to know your ego I would enjoy making a natal chart for you using Sidereal astrology🌌

[@janycebrown4071]

Now is a gift. That's why it's called the present 🎁

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

*Time is the only resource.* 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge; hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

[@Едентийф]

!Anubis😆

[@Noswiatel]

Equilibrium and entropy. Wu wei.

[@ketunpatel4809]

Well looking in your perspective, about rewarding the righteous and punishing the wicked. If only its judged by karma. 2nd perception is punishing the righteous for being good and rewarding the wicked till the Divine time. Why is being righteous or good so invaluable to God or karma or universe. Punishment for being good or righteous is infinite. How forgetful can one be when your mind plays on to you infinite (neuroplasticity), its test or Punishment or lesson of being good or righteous. Wicked gets away for infinitely and keeps doing it. Still karma, universe god supports it promotes it, and its end is in last phase of life, if only it happens this life. So Punishment for being good is infinite. That why karma or god or universe is failing, it has immense time to treat, but human has 70yrs avg till he die. Then he amnesia takes over him, if his dna remember that for he has suffered for doing good, will he continue to be good to suffer again? World is made to make suffering, why do we wish to come again?

[@ketunpatel4809]

Do you really think you are here to experience all rainbow fringes of emotions? Enlist it if you can before you leave this earth. You will never be able to tick suffering, pain, failure s, unloved. Intentionally you cant. You seek only positive side. Picturing and imaginagining are asumtions. Like i am not the mind i am not the body. But till you die you cannot experience it, but its psychology to disengage which is myth. Ask yourself do you want to live your present life experience the same way you are doing now. Or you still hope next life it would be better? If it didn't change in present why do we hope it would change later. Why is population over earth is increasing? Its more and more people are dieing and comming with hope, is it increasing the suffering or decreasing of universal conciousness? Is it unlawful? Is universe supporting unlawful or is it failing. Or is unlawful is what universe is?

[@deborahann9474]

shoot, making this comment alone, by you or me, presents our willingness to suffer, i think we both know the positive and negative implications that could arise, BUT what about the satisfaction we get from being smart lol or simply communicate, how about the good we share with our own thoughts, lol either way we usually choose the thing we want, we justify our wants WHY CANT WE JUSTIFY THE WANTS OF OTHERS. maybe it is the angels asking God to make us, but its really Gods servants saying they are God, omg the stuff that goes on in our minds amazes me good share thank you n God bless you

[@TeddehSpaghetti]

I love that the AI sounds 93% similar to Matt Dillon reading the "On the Road" by Jack Kerouac. IYKYK. (If anyone doesn't know: kzbin.info/www/bejne/anTOhJd3eah2pNU )

[@washingtonthounaojam3767]

ahh 7 the magic number...

[@theghostinthemachine5602]

I don’t think the Zebra getting mauled by a lion has any room for cosmic retribution.

[@DanielMitchell-333]

What about the blade of grass enjoying a beautiful day in the sunshine, not bothering a soul, only to be inconsiderately and selfishly eaten, chewed, mangled by the evil Zebra only to be avenged by the grass-friendly Lion.

[@imrich333]

Did any of you even bother to watch the video, or are these clueless comments just for show?

[@DanielMitchell-333]

@imrich333 no. It was boring.

[@timhenley3602]

@@DanielMitchell-333The clueless comments?🤔

[@DanielMitchell-333]

@@timhenley3602 Do not be like the zebra. Respect the grass, man. 😁

[@qifa_r]

Sufism

[@Madita_nsn]

there is no such thing

[@adcaptandumvulgus4252]

If you live your life accordingly like there was in fact a cosmic Justice then even if you did the right thing for the wrong reason you would still live a decent life that makes other people's lives have a net positive which I see as a win, yeah?

[@deborahann9474]

yes, stand up for the truth n it stands for you ......bringing comfort not of this world, when accused by man.....as long as we KNOW the truth

[@adcaptandumvulgus4252]

@@deborahann9474 well at least "our truth", even if not a universally held truth. Most have their own paths to tread/truth to find, I reckon.

[@DrakeLexx-k2f]

@@adcaptandumvulgus4252 Wrong. Intention is everything.

[@DrakeLexx-k2f]

@@adcaptandumvulgus4252 Wrong. Intention is everything.

[@DrakeLexx-k2f]

Woke World and digital companion s😂 All is grest for the wealthy and those not Woke targeted 😂

[@deborahann9474]

God will use the foolish to confound the wise so unwoke people can be awoke in an instant by God, we should not underestimate the weak as THEY ARE PROTECTED BY GOD a forgotten concept? so when no one is around n one takes advantage n does wrong thinking they will not be caught? well thats not good. as we are setting our own self against GOD Himself!!!!! we also can never fool ourself, and lying in our own mind is a crime against one self, it hinders our conscience, we can make our minds lose the way to trut, as if in a maze

[@DrakeLexx-k2f]

@deborahann9474 Weak humans protected,? No. Not that simple. Sincerer, kind, discerning, 10 Cs obedient the minimal standard, or any Thug Phallic Cult masquerading as anything but a Thug Phallic will reign supreme. Even if righteous, there will often be suffering and privation. Kind hearted and humble spirited the ideal standard, but this is no more than virtue signalling in modernity

[@DrakeLexx-k2f]

@deborahann9474 Weak humans protected,? No. Not that simple. Sincerer, kind, discerning, 10 Cs obedient the minimal standard, or any Thug Phallic Cult masquerading as anything but a Thug Phallic will reign supreme. Even if righteous, there will often be suffering and privation. Kind hearted and humble spirited the ideal standard, but this is no more than virtue signalling in modernity

[@DrakeLexx-k2f]

@deborahann9474 10 Cs is inviolable. All striving aggressively for supremacy, individual access to material resources/young girls. Social capitol and tribal affinity reinforce this striving. Only Woke targeted demographic is systematically deprived of social /tribal affiliation, and with minimal resource support. Antithesis.

[@DrakeLexx-k2f]

@deborahann9474 No Only the righteous 10 C obedient will prevail. All others are condemed