Why Girls Act "Hot" and "Cold" (And What it REALLY means)

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Bobby Rio

Bobby Rio

Күн бұрын

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In this video you'll learn what hot and cold behavior means, how to handle it, and whether or not she's still attracted to you.
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@BobbyRio
@BobbyRio 5 жыл бұрын
If you enjoyed this video, give it a thumbs up and subscribe. Comment below with any questions you have for me about life, dating, or success. I read EVERY single legit comment from my viewers. If you don’t like me or the video, or have a really clever INSULT, definitely leave it, because it guys leaving troll comments cracks me up, and reminds me why I'm so successful and they're not :)
@adrianaugustus1045
@adrianaugustus1045 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Bobby! I appreciate you !
@harrypotty5643
@harrypotty5643 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your info my exact situation with a girl.
@Lucamandosa
@Lucamandosa 2 жыл бұрын
I have a girl, we've crossed the intimacy boundary, but haven't had sex yet. She asked me if she could stay with me after our last date. She got covid, couldn't come. Text her after isolation to come stay with me (she lives 2 hours away). No text back. I left it for a week and half. I reached out to her. She responded positively. Left it after that. Text me randomly a day later, late at night. I left it to read in the morning, by then she deleted the messages. I hit her up about it, she resent me the messages and responded positively. I implied to hang out again. Didn't respond to that until a day later saying she misses me so asked what she was doing on the weekend, she said resting (nothing in other words) I implied I could hang out on one of the days she then said she was busy that day. Now I don't know if I should ask her out this weekend or just leave it. Very confusing as everything waa going perfectly. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
@earthworkslasergrading3031
@earthworkslasergrading3031 8 күн бұрын
😅😅😅 😅😅🎉🎉😮😮Aqualink13579!😮 2:26 😮Aqualink13579!😅😅Aqualink13579!😮 2:33 2:35 2:37 😊
@earthworkslasergrading3031
@earthworkslasergrading3031 8 күн бұрын
😅 2:48 😅😅 😅 2:52 😢😮 😅
@dulenzytv9441
@dulenzytv9441 6 жыл бұрын
Dating a girl now is more hard then a math for oxford :/
@cuchullain27
@cuchullain27 6 жыл бұрын
LOL
@TomDeVito
@TomDeVito 5 жыл бұрын
Dulenzytv Lol the shit I know now about dating I wish I knew 10 years ago. You gotta know how to "Play the game"
@johncole3602
@johncole3602 5 жыл бұрын
You're right dude its like studying to become a rocket scientist. smh
@jeffmyron3640
@jeffmyron3640 5 жыл бұрын
Dulenzytv lmao
@goldabyssinia8007
@goldabyssinia8007 4 жыл бұрын
Maths**
@andreeaciobanuc404
@andreeaciobanuc404 Жыл бұрын
Long story short: there are 2 possibilities: 1. She doesn't like you, doesn't want you, doesn't love you; 2. She plays with your mind to make you obsessed with her, which again is manipulation, a form of disrespect in which she will have the upper hand in the relationship, twisting you around her finger for her own inconvenience. My tip: go for the woman who guys label desperate, the woman who is honest enough and strong enough to show that she is interested. A courageous, powerful woman is able to show love. Those low-worth chicks who play games and tactics are cowards and weak, not capable of love.
@Gbb93
@Gbb93 Жыл бұрын
I agree about the cowardice.
@Nicey90
@Nicey90 4 ай бұрын
Nailed it
@darrylgreer68
@darrylgreer68 5 жыл бұрын
A wise man once said “don’t try and understand women, women understand women and hate each other”
@loveandwar2215
@loveandwar2215 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂true they always competing each other's life secretly.
@Michaelgracon
@Michaelgracon 3 жыл бұрын
Gotta love Al Bundy!
@DecibleRhymez
@DecibleRhymez 2 жыл бұрын
@sanam actually most men get along really well with each other.. we'll roast each other to our faces and compliment them behind their backs. Complete opposite of women if you ask me
@theaquariancontrarian3316
@theaquariancontrarian3316 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@terabyt9007
@terabyt9007 Жыл бұрын
give that man a whiskey
@ThorstenVXO
@ThorstenVXO 6 жыл бұрын
Easy. Ignore that girl.
@Taylorbishopsellshomesfast
@Taylorbishopsellshomesfast 6 жыл бұрын
Had a girl recently act hot or whatever this guy calls it and starting acting cold through text. I'll take Thorsten's advice and just ignore her.
@FofXequalsYnot
@FofXequalsYnot 5 жыл бұрын
ThorstenVXO your advice is GOLD
@mahdman3
@mahdman3 5 жыл бұрын
@PG 719 Yup & that's when you should CONTINUE to ignore her!
@dominics7565
@dominics7565 5 жыл бұрын
Ignore her til she finds a new mind game. Relationships are so overrated. Throwing darts in the dark
@chenugent
@chenugent 5 жыл бұрын
PG 719 thanks for the advice brother. I started to think that I had to actually endure this shit. But I am right for knowing I should just leave
@smoogles.5534
@smoogles.5534 6 жыл бұрын
No more will i ever deal with a girl who acts hot and cold - that is INSTANTLY a red flag, one word can set off the cold button. there is such a massive difference from a girl who will go out of her way and do anything for you to talking to a girl who wants to be around you and then suddenly switches off randomly or is triggered by certain words you say. I feel that is toxic every single guy should stay clear of a girl who constantly does this.
@BobbyRio
@BobbyRio 6 жыл бұрын
yea its emotionally unhealthy to deal with.
@B4_E
@B4_E 4 жыл бұрын
just tell her to fuck off and break her ego
@hennylo68
@hennylo68 3 жыл бұрын
My current girlfriend does this. If I don't answer her question fast enough, she'll get an attitude and start yelling then break up with me. I just leave her alone now and don't chase. She usually comes back a few days later asking why I didn't chase her.
@nflblitz1421
@nflblitz1421 3 жыл бұрын
@@hennylo68 are you still with her?
@vshah1010
@vshah1010 2 жыл бұрын
I love the hot and cold game. It is fun. It's also great because it gives you a chance to get the girl. You have to play the game well. But, a bid disadvantage is that if you miss too many "hot" signals, the girl will ban you.
@c-jayjames7316
@c-jayjames7316 3 жыл бұрын
Actually incorrect, if she has displayed high interest and you keep " doing things" to keep her interested it will communicate neediness and approval seeking behaviour to which she will keep creating more distance. To regain the correct balance of sexual polarity, the man needs to stop chasing and leave her alone and match / mirror her actions. Once she feels you don't give a fuck anymore, that's when they return with more attraction.
@OnderHassan
@OnderHassan 4 жыл бұрын
The best and easiest way is to mirror her actions. If she moves in, you move in. If she pulls back, you pull back. It seems like a game but it isn’t. If you look at it from another perspective, its all based on priorities and self-respect. If someone doesn’t treat you in a way that you believe you deserve, then you will naturally behave in ways that will demand it. Once you develop yourself to the point where you respect yourself, all of this will occur naturally.
@salahbelkhodja3202
@salahbelkhodja3202 3 жыл бұрын
Agree!!!!!
@samuelvelazquez8834
@samuelvelazquez8834 3 жыл бұрын
100% We teach people how to treat us. Respect is earned
@Tgogators
@Tgogators 3 жыл бұрын
In other words, treat her the same way she treats you. If she takes 4 hours to respond to your text, take 4 hours to reply back.
@vshah1010
@vshah1010 2 жыл бұрын
Wrong. "Mirror her actions" is not how you can win the hot and cold game. You should _generate_ another "hot" by showing interest. I have done this with a few girls, and I know what works. I'm not so good on the "bar game", but I am pretty good on the "hot and cold" game.
@OnderHassan
@OnderHassan 2 жыл бұрын
@@vshah1010 Thats a recipe for getting used and put into the friend zone.
@ninja0wnzy0u
@ninja0wnzy0u 6 жыл бұрын
Weird, I only know cold and cold
@haliimmares5284
@haliimmares5284 6 жыл бұрын
hahahahha made my day lmao xD
@ninja0wnzy0u
@ninja0wnzy0u 6 жыл бұрын
Haliim Mares I wish I was trying to be funny 😔😭
@TheDestroyer73
@TheDestroyer73 6 жыл бұрын
@@ninja0wnzy0u lmao well you got to try bro cuz its what i do and yeah i get the hot moments but then they go cold on me
@ninja0wnzy0u
@ninja0wnzy0u 6 жыл бұрын
TheDestroyer73 I try bro, I do. But they’re always talking to someone better when I come around because they never seem interested and then just drop me out of no where lol
@BazzBusiness
@BazzBusiness 5 жыл бұрын
Are you better now ? Is there a change since this comment ?
@E_GIBSON
@E_GIBSON 5 жыл бұрын
Most people , not just women, today are very shallow and narcissistic. They are not interesting or have much to talk about other than petty experiences in their lives or their feelings. Social Media has dumbed people down, they are lacking basic social skills. Adults are acting like they are still in junior high. Don't emotionally invest in someone you need to babysit or has mental, emotional or social issues. It's just common sense. Playing games when you are an adult is just disrespecting yourself.
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Most people? Lol Idiotic, ignorant and beyond delusional! STOP SMOKING CRACK and REJOIN the REAL WORLD
@salahbelkhodja3202
@salahbelkhodja3202 3 жыл бұрын
Bobby, I agree with all the points you mentioned. The elephant in the room that is never pointed at is the hormonal cycle. When women are going through the estrogenic phase of the cycle (end of the periods all the way till about day 18 of the cycle) and then through the luteal phase of the cycle (from day 18 to about day 28 of the cycle), the often display sexual and affectionate behavior. It is often towards the end of the cycle and during the periods when the hormones above drop that they start acting cold and uninterested. I found it very useful to just pay attention to the day of the cycle. I can then lower my expectations and be distant till things turn around again. I hope this helps
@Jvnas01
@Jvnas01 3 жыл бұрын
Thats very true.
@raheemcamal998
@raheemcamal998 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting
@bakwoludovic117
@bakwoludovic117 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@mrsimo7144
@mrsimo7144 2 жыл бұрын
My GF is cold as a freezer at times. It's a killer. But then she comes back.
@devilisbackk
@devilisbackk Жыл бұрын
My gf used to be mysterious....hot and cold behaviour so much.....she never revealed her date of her periods so i normally wouldn't understand and get alert of her mood swings as per her periods.... before i realise the facts, the things gone so worst and she broke up with me multiple times..... 😢
@thecowboy9698
@thecowboy9698 4 жыл бұрын
If you dont want a girl who plays games, don't play games yourself, and do not tolerate her playing games with you.
@kennethravelo
@kennethravelo 3 жыл бұрын
Truly wise words! Amen
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@hsamzsd
@hsamzsd Ай бұрын
disagree, sometimes the only way to cut out the games is to give them a taste of their own medicine
@cousinbenson5329
@cousinbenson5329 7 жыл бұрын
Unreal advice, girls do this very frequently. Treat her mean keep her keen
@BobbyRio
@BobbyRio 7 жыл бұрын
its not about treating her mean... its about giving her uncertainty and confusion she craves
@cousinbenson5329
@cousinbenson5329 7 жыл бұрын
Bobby Rio Exactly :)
@becker2278
@becker2278 7 жыл бұрын
Bobby Rio makes sense.
@ramvinayak5153
@ramvinayak5153 3 жыл бұрын
@@BobbyRio then what to do
@davidwalford3103
@davidwalford3103 3 жыл бұрын
I think this just makes a lot of guys feel that want to give up.
@cricketcricket5547
@cricketcricket5547 6 жыл бұрын
That's way too many head games. Just tell the person you are not interested and move on
@FofXequalsYnot
@FofXequalsYnot 5 жыл бұрын
cricket cricket 👏🏽
@christopherjackson8958
@christopherjackson8958 5 жыл бұрын
Wish it was that simple. When she shows every obvious sign that she was interested and it turns out she wasn't, it confuses me.
@FofXequalsYnot
@FofXequalsYnot 5 жыл бұрын
Christopher Jackson continue then if you like the state she puts you☹️
@christopherjackson8958
@christopherjackson8958 4 жыл бұрын
@MALVINDINHO couldn't agree more. No excuses, just hopefully will get better at recognising when to direct my attention elsewhere. Thanks for your direct response
@mayasarovaram7142
@mayasarovaram7142 4 жыл бұрын
Whenever she is getting cold...it's a heavenly time for me to train my colleagues.. so that's a chill pill
@gordonbecker1456
@gordonbecker1456 3 жыл бұрын
Most of the time they are using you for validation and nothing else
@raheemcamal998
@raheemcamal998 2 жыл бұрын
True
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Idiotic, ignorant and beyond delusional
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 5 жыл бұрын
If they go cold, I walk. Probably wrong but I don't have time for games. All your vids highlight problems but give no solutions.
@paulwoodhouse4757
@paulwoodhouse4757 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, that’s incredibly healthy of you. If you lose interest when they don’t express interest ... you’re taking good care of yourself
@kevinmalone3210
@kevinmalone3210 3 жыл бұрын
If a girl acts hot and cold with you, it just means they aren't worth your time.
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Definitely
@PeterChessPupil
@PeterChessPupil 5 жыл бұрын
You are given the choice of either loving women, or understanding them.
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Idiotic, ignorant and beyond delusional
@thenightprincess1730
@thenightprincess1730 5 жыл бұрын
The reason is she's still unsure her feelings or she's on period
@janedoefishjob9829
@janedoefishjob9829 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I'm only ever cold if I am on my period.
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Lol
@wallyschroeder615
@wallyschroeder615 3 жыл бұрын
Sh*t fellas, I'm in the matrix right now and I'm the little b*tch. I am sprung, this girl is beautiful,smart, and has an amazing personality. She responded well, back to back dates two days in a row, I even went for it on the third day but she said she had plans. Texted she'd love to though sometime...Makeout sessions on both dates, she sent me pics without me even suggesting them. Texted me first. Told me how she talked me up to her friends, called me a "great guy." A week 1/2 later she's gone cold. She texts back right away but the conversations are short and don't feel the same. Something is definitely up. But what? Another guy, I'm being too aggressive, too needy? Gonna take a day or two off from her and focus on me and my life. See how things play out. Usually I wouldn't care and just move on....but this girl is the f*cking bomb 💣. ****Updated 3 weeks later!!!! So, things played out. 3rd 4th and 5th dates went amaaazing. Made love on 4th at her house. End of fifth she told me she "Loved her time with me!" Via text. A few days later she wouldn't answer my texts. So, I texted her what's up? She told me she likes me but doesn't feel same spark. Told me - don't wait for me. Told me she's conflicted, she likes me but is finding her stride being single. Ghosted me. Devastated. Texted her 7 times. No response. Luckily we were still connected on instagram..I posted an uplifting post with a very good pic of myself. She messaged me back minutes later after liking my post. Explained she - didn't want to hurt me and wasn't ready to commit so she ghosted me. Texted back and forth last night, like old times. In reflection I'd say some girls are not in a position to commit. Just give them time and let things do what they'll do. Don't push. I came on too strong. What ever happens from this point I accept. She really likes me but I do not own her heart. Que sera sera.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, another guy. Update?
@voetbalzone6328
@voetbalzone6328 2 жыл бұрын
Update?
@balrajgosain2262
@balrajgosain2262 Жыл бұрын
But my crush totally ignoring me before she was giving attention May be she is attention seeker
@Remember-Death
@Remember-Death Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed your comment. It's been a year, how did everything else play out? Well... I kinda know how it played out, but I'd still like to hear it from you.
@admiralbeez8143
@admiralbeez8143 4 жыл бұрын
Mixed signals? Walk, or run. Life is too short for drama.
@eyephone07
@eyephone07 6 жыл бұрын
Great point about #2. Another guy will confuse the heck out of woman. She'll not want to leave her guy but may want to hear this guy out. The guilt will cause her to pull back.
@Robjohnnetwork
@Robjohnnetwork 6 жыл бұрын
Sounds more like mind games.. no time for that great info!
@sergiolopez824
@sergiolopez824 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly do u and only u
@cadet15
@cadet15 3 жыл бұрын
respectively
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@craigbuckley7603
@craigbuckley7603 5 жыл бұрын
I been out of the dating people loop for about 6 years or so I started my own business and became a stock trader and now in the top 10% by net worth and let me tell you this its easier to become rich than to understand woman and actually form and build a relationship with
@humbertoyepez1543
@humbertoyepez1543 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly. Just drop her and move on. Ignore her. And move on. If someone doesn’t want to make time to see you, forget them. They will make time.
@metalgorilla7865
@metalgorilla7865 2 жыл бұрын
All I'm gonna say is that a girl who acts hot and cold rarely leads to a healthy relationship
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@spartangreg1
@spartangreg1 5 жыл бұрын
Wtf....you made a video to promote another video without even answering the title of THIS video....
@FofXequalsYnot
@FofXequalsYnot 5 жыл бұрын
SpartanG small wonder
@Liftercode
@Liftercode 4 жыл бұрын
I was trying to get a woman, but i gave up due that hot and cold behaviour. I told her to stop talking to me... I feel a little remorse
@llooz2288
@llooz2288 Жыл бұрын
What about now?
@jonjon10.05
@jonjon10.05 5 жыл бұрын
It’s Called Bipolarism
@ElsewhereGuitar
@ElsewhereGuitar 5 жыл бұрын
Yep..lets call a spade is a spade
@TheDestroyer73
@TheDestroyer73 6 жыл бұрын
i noticed people didnt have so many fucking problems dating back in the 90s...now its like algebra2 and shit
@skankalank2000
@skankalank2000 6 жыл бұрын
And women wonder why they're being replaced by sex robots.
@alianaweston2286
@alianaweston2286 4 ай бұрын
That’s basically all you see us as anyways.
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
WTF? Put down the crack pipe
@josephphotography4127
@josephphotography4127 4 жыл бұрын
If she goes cold on u, u handled it by not handling it at all
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@301larussomusic
@301larussomusic 5 жыл бұрын
A women just needs to be a 5 out of 10 and she will have many options.
@SunshineSuperstar
@SunshineSuperstar 2 жыл бұрын
The 2s are flooded bro. It's unreal!
@llooz2288
@llooz2288 Жыл бұрын
You have no idea even 2s or 3s get some attention, guys are too thirsty.
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Lol . Please put down the crack pipe
@abluejayturnedblack7642
@abluejayturnedblack7642 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly why I don't give a shit anymore. The mental gymnastics to maintain her interest. Then even more to maintain a relationship, to eventually losing yourself in the process. Why fucking even try...
@iamu2247
@iamu2247 5 жыл бұрын
In a figure drawing class. Girl asks for Instagram Second day of class. Don't use it, so I just used email for contact because I Don't want to assume to grab number. 2 weeks go by, we chat well in class, and I pick up her art pouch to examine it because it looked cool. I put it back. Next day of class, she tells me not to touch her pouch anymore. She didn't like that. "okay. No problem." I felt kind of bullied, but I stayed in my same spot and didn't talk to her or acknowledge her presence for the rest of class. At the end of class she compliments my drawing. "thanks." What The Fuck I leave class not saying bye to her. I get along with everyone in the class so I'm just gonna sit away from her next time.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 2 жыл бұрын
She's a mental case.
@RandomDude45_X
@RandomDude45_X 5 жыл бұрын
Why do all these vids give zero info except to go here go there?
@Frank-mm7pk
@Frank-mm7pk 9 ай бұрын
Dealing with women is draining. 2 steps forward 10 steps back
@Jbeezy126
@Jbeezy126 3 жыл бұрын
So crazy bc a girl is doing this to me right now but I didn’t know how to find info on it. Then bam it popped up my recommendations
@thetexaschainsaw9366
@thetexaschainsaw9366 2 жыл бұрын
Best way to handle it is to walk away life too short to be wasting your time on someone giving off mixed signals
@jasontsui2256
@jasontsui2256 Жыл бұрын
Very good points indeed. I think some girls like to test you cos they really want to make sure you're the one for her. You just need to be patient and give her some space from time to time but at the same time you can show your care for her. I think many girls like a genuine and sincere guy.
@themachine7557
@themachine7557 6 жыл бұрын
Fake a brake up. She will get hot and mad
@FofXequalsYnot
@FofXequalsYnot 5 жыл бұрын
THE MACHINE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀
@freddyg6940
@freddyg6940 6 жыл бұрын
04:00 that's it right there nothing more.
@SpartanQwop
@SpartanQwop 2 жыл бұрын
So the same thing is happening to me, I have been dating / have gone on dates with her about 4 times now, the first two dates went great, amazing conversation, easy to get on with , (and even made out on the second date,) third date went ok, so she was cold when we met up, but then she got close later on in the evening (made out again), fourth date, again she was warm to begin with, and then we went to the cinema, she acted cold/ distant, then later acted warm and came towards me, then cold again, and then later on acted cold and left me without a proper goodbye, (at this point I talked to her about the way our relationship was going, and she didn't know what to say) , but then she messaged me afterwards saying she wanted to see how our relationship to progress and she planned to meet up again on the weekend. But I'm so confused as to her true intentions and if she actually likes me or not. Any advice? Also, this girl makes the effort to come and visit me (as we live about an hour apart)
@warrenwhite9085
@warrenwhite9085 2 жыл бұрын
You’ve got it backwards. She should be uncertain about your feelings, her wondering about your intentions. You just seek to hang out & have fun, leave it to her to come forward wanting to define & establish the relationship. Put No pressure on her.
@ajaym6795
@ajaym6795 7 ай бұрын
We men have gone through this. We dont need a 2 minute intro describing the problem. We definitely dont need to be clickbaited. Im giving a thumbs down and reporting this video as "Spam or Misleading". That thermostat analogy was awesome. We are not court jesters to keep their interests high every single minute
@alexandrodisla6285
@alexandrodisla6285 4 жыл бұрын
Woman are more difficult than understanding the whole universe. That’s me being nice.
@spacetruckeru824
@spacetruckeru824 5 жыл бұрын
You cannot understand every person you encounter if you did you would be God.
@SunshineSuperstar
@SunshineSuperstar 2 жыл бұрын
You don't have to understand every person you talk to. You just have to be able to understand any person individually over a short focused amount of time. Something which most cannot but hyperintelligent people who have aimed there minds at psychology and/or ate social enough to have met many people. Humans aren't actually all that complicated to be real with you! Come back to me in a year or two when you've met another couple thousand people!
@dr3armer
@dr3armer 3 жыл бұрын
Better advice: talk to as many different women as possible and hope you meet a unicorn that doesnt play stupid games like this.
@glennneutrin501
@glennneutrin501 5 жыл бұрын
Its chemistry.. all relationships happen by chance..you don't have to do anything except get out of the house and do something....and the laws of attraction take hold....positive and negative...its magnitisium.
@ismey7548
@ismey7548 2 ай бұрын
Normalise hot and cold in women. Find the issue within yourself. You are not making her feel safe
@kunasaikumar2473
@kunasaikumar2473 3 жыл бұрын
A 19 Years Girl Blocking And Unblocking Social Media And Ignoring Texts Messages Calls...Infront of me she is showing some attention but out of that she is treating like unkown person.cold and hot behavior in small variant time. So Sir,Is Teenage People Have This Type O Narcf Behavior Or They Are In Confusion State? Please Give Me Your Valuable Explanation...Is this Better to break or continue this type of person ??
@t.o.o.smooth5870
@t.o.o.smooth5870 9 ай бұрын
Either because it's that time of the month or because she's not fully sold on you and possibly entertaining other options.
@CenterStageUSA
@CenterStageUSA 4 жыл бұрын
MEN WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WOMEN, YOU ARE INSANE BOBBY FOR FEEDING INTO A WOMAN'S GAMES AND TESTS, TELL HER TO KICK ROCKS!!!
@BobBaker-v9v
@BobBaker-v9v 2 ай бұрын
Boy STOP SMOKING CRACK and get the MENTAL COUNSELING you so OBVIOUSLY NEED
@tonguewarrior5020
@tonguewarrior5020 11 ай бұрын
Its THEIR way of "testing" the man If you get effected by their HOT/ COLD then ofcourse she will dump you The answer is : *Act UNAFFECTED to her Hot/ Cold mode*
@Electronite1978
@Electronite1978 5 жыл бұрын
A Chick I have met couple of times never really answers my messages or sends them first. Then again calls me at night drunk wants to meet immediately and is willing to come to my place. Wants to cuddle a lot and finally we had indoor olympics.
@joshuathompson269
@joshuathompson269 Ай бұрын
Mirror what she does. If she's cold, you be cold. The moment a girl gets cold, back off.
@fargeeks
@fargeeks 5 жыл бұрын
i get cold responses even from otber dudes
@itsyah
@itsyah 6 жыл бұрын
I feel like the ones that are currently in a relationship are thinking the same as me, like.. "Wow, could my gf of 3-4yrs really be doing these things??.."
@JD-dv9kc
@JD-dv9kc 8 ай бұрын
So someone help me out. Gf of six years, we had a very active sex life and after one large fight, she has now withheld any form of affection for coming up on three months. I've mistakenly chased and begged and it's done no good. This was literally a woman who gave it up anytime I wanted and now, nothing, WTF
@jlcarter723
@jlcarter723 5 жыл бұрын
I simply stop giving a fuck and that worked over anything
@morelions4014
@morelions4014 3 жыл бұрын
Guys that just want women only for one thing are pathetic. They obviously don't care about the woman's feelings and are not wanting to commit to anything serious.
@jamesgeorge65
@jamesgeorge65 5 жыл бұрын
Feminism influences a lot of this this.
@loganpadayachee6048
@loganpadayachee6048 5 ай бұрын
Western value system 😢
@apope06
@apope06 4 жыл бұрын
Im hot and cold toward her. I feel so guilty. I really like her too.
@SuperQdaddy
@SuperQdaddy 6 жыл бұрын
Women don't communicate reasonably..this hot n cold stuff will pass...and so will marriages
@partlysimpson5154
@partlysimpson5154 4 жыл бұрын
No matter how much u try to understand, you never will understand women
@riddlescom
@riddlescom 5 жыл бұрын
What's funny. Is if you were to go out to my club here in orange county . The woman here want you to buy them . You would get shut down so fast. Your ego would be so butt hurt. You would start crying. And go home to Kentucky. Or wherever you come from
@bowenlian
@bowenlian 6 жыл бұрын
I only know wet and wet
@hemanshupansanyia5784
@hemanshupansanyia5784 2 жыл бұрын
I am into a girl, I am trying to get in touch her through phone calls since last 1.5 months but she says that she is busy but never calls back, if i text her she replies back now i want to enjoy this situation so what can I do to coubter the mind games? 🤣🤣
@robbie192
@robbie192 6 жыл бұрын
U didn't say anything bud..just to watch another vid
@anonymousronin7572
@anonymousronin7572 5 жыл бұрын
😆🤣🤣
@rollingtones1
@rollingtones1 5 жыл бұрын
0:53 “Disinterred” means dug up from a grave. I think you mean “disinterested”.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 4 жыл бұрын
Oh God, I hope so.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 5 жыл бұрын
Didn't like this as it just tries to lure you in for more. Told me more or less nothing.
@WilliamBrownson-w2e
@WilliamBrownson-w2e 2 ай бұрын
What if she's ADHD, and that's not even the half of it. On second thought, I'm retired, so I don't really care.
@agent475816
@agent475816 8 ай бұрын
Why do we have to keep playing these games? I’m so tired
@mikeyoung7640
@mikeyoung7640 2 жыл бұрын
This is not true love.
@SunshineSuperstar
@SunshineSuperstar 2 жыл бұрын
Correct. True love is a long forgotten art. The only ones who are still proficient at it are like 2-3% of men and kess than 1% of women!
@galaxy_apollo13
@galaxy_apollo13 5 жыл бұрын
The only thing harder to understand than rocket science, dark matter and black holes are understanding how women think
@gratemusic3008
@gratemusic3008 6 жыл бұрын
So real. Truly appreciate the video. I'm in a situation where I'm all in, and she is too, SOMETIMES...crazy stuff
@BobbyRio
@BobbyRio 6 жыл бұрын
glad you liked!
@brentbradley6711
@brentbradley6711 5 жыл бұрын
88 ways dips into the hogwash scenario, maybe 10 ways. It's like the people that talk a lot that run out of worthy info.
@joang.8735
@joang.8735 5 жыл бұрын
Who would want a guy who analyzes you like that. Did you ever think you were no fun?
@coreyevans7940
@coreyevans7940 6 жыл бұрын
Click bait
@liamlecuteboiii9161
@liamlecuteboiii9161 5 жыл бұрын
And this is why me and my bf broke up.
@raulmejia2066
@raulmejia2066 2 жыл бұрын
great job thank u man
@johnregala2425
@johnregala2425 3 жыл бұрын
404 readermind is not available sir
@BCV.207YT
@BCV.207YT 2 жыл бұрын
What if she look at You
@spiritby6753
@spiritby6753 5 жыл бұрын
What about cold then hot 😂
@lantiguaart
@lantiguaart 2 жыл бұрын
Wack! I leave that's what I handle! A girl that's a truly into you won't have you doing all this shit!
@DREAMBOI402
@DREAMBOI402 3 жыл бұрын
Might as well send her this and ask her which one she’s doing lol
@rascal211
@rascal211 9 ай бұрын
She won't even know which one she's doing.
@GHOST.productions
@GHOST.productions 2 жыл бұрын
For 10 easy payments of $299.99 You can find the reason why women are nuts! 😂😂
@000274400
@000274400 Жыл бұрын
so when she goes hot you should just forget that she ridiculed your body and never took it back lol that sux
@josephuvujich8116
@josephuvujich8116 4 жыл бұрын
enjoyed it... Where did you get that hoodie? ... That's Pimpin!
@andyflew6329
@andyflew6329 6 жыл бұрын
Im going through this shit right now. How do you know this stuff?
@BobbyRio
@BobbyRio 6 жыл бұрын
learned from experience. A lot of guys go through it, but never learn the lesson its teaching them. I chose to figure it out.
@wekings9073
@wekings9073 2 жыл бұрын
Women are more insecure, and they need to be protective of themselves. Don't always blame "hot and cold"-behavior as "game". This guy explained it perfectly! Handle it like a confident man.
@Questlife
@Questlife 2 жыл бұрын
Majority are psychos.
@yasin5832
@yasin5832 9 ай бұрын
You didn’t give the answer at all
@alextheskaterdude07
@alextheskaterdude07 6 жыл бұрын
Cant understand normal thinking
@aceofspades02
@aceofspades02 5 жыл бұрын
"unlockherlegs" lol... feminists might flip back in rage over this.
@hoiliswu6070
@hoiliswu6070 5 жыл бұрын
Yes really women came together
@rompelaeninternet
@rompelaeninternet 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Bobby...I got the scambler and its super great... Do you have some book but for social inteligence or how to be cool in social groups...
@BobbyRio
@BobbyRio 7 жыл бұрын
look for my High Value Man Manifesto. Right now the course is closed. But even if you don't join the course I send out a lot of info on the topic for free.
@alexodutona8758
@alexodutona8758 3 жыл бұрын
Hey bro, I’m wondering if you can help me with a copy of the scrambler, I really don’t have d cash for it
@skiesyvong7262
@skiesyvong7262 5 жыл бұрын
we broke up cuz of that:/
@DREAMBOI402
@DREAMBOI402 3 жыл бұрын
I might as well send her this
@lrh57psi
@lrh57psi 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like alot of work and head aches. Pass!
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