WHY HE DAMAGED, THEN DISCARDED YOU!

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[@sharonb519]

As the saying goes… the reason most of us are in therapy is because of the assholes who aren’t in therapy. 🥺

[@barti6970]

🙌🏻👏🏾👏🏿👏🏻

[@luna84_]

Yes ma'am

[@anniemiller8927]

….. and nothing wrong with those who think they are crazy seeking help, for the real crazy ones don’t even realise they are crazy

[@mastermoonlightvariety]

​@anniemiller8927 Right! We aren't even insane, but they made us feel that way, only to find out in therapy that we aren't getting treatment for craziness, but rather for regaining our peace from crazy people we can finally forget. ❤

[@bizsquare-ys1py]

Love that! ❤

[@anacfonseca8292]

That was me 😢, he made me feel so horrible and minimize all my efforts and destroyed my love for him . Now all I have left is protecting me and my boys .

[@curtishialindsey1158]

Me 2 im so guarded

[@SharelleCountz]

I was on birth control shot with out them knowing they told me I had to have there babies

[@drcrissiefacts1642]

Me and My Boys Are All I Have I already lost one and I don't want to loose another GOD Protect Me I'm so without income and resources Father GOD

[@mcm6563]

❤

[@drcrissiefacts1642]

And HE Has Truly Been Blessing Me!! Moving Forward All I Can Do Is Not Go Backwards Glory To GOD keep Blessing Me As You See Fit O Lord 🙏 I Ask And Pray In JESUS Christ Name Anen

[@deannawells1593]

It felt like he had an experiment of how bad he could treat someone just to see how much one person could take. I feel like he broke me.

[@satanyahenderson6283]

Everything u r saying is roght

[@dharrington7332]

Don’t Give Him That Power Say Like A Phoenix AND STILL I RISE. LEVEL UP AND DO NOT LOOK BACK !!!🥰

[@margueritedrya9807]

​​@@dharrington7332yes!!!!!!!!! Going forward, ladies, let's let go of all our pains and restrictions... Still feeling exactly like you, sister. But not going back.

[@babydii3487]

Never let a person have that much power. There are always flags and warnings

[@jeaneengant6771]

Oh he’s preaching… the one thing I did do.. I walk away and didn’t beg.. I did the no contact.. he thought I was gonna chase him.. NOT

[@laetitiai.5062]

Did the exact same thing sis! We'll be just fine, better days are ahead of us, God has better plans for us in store! Don't know you but feel like I do 😊❤

[@ebonyadams7060]

Exactly

[@babydii3487]

✅✅✅

[@LoveEndures7]

Aww this made me want to cry 😢. I knew I gave so much of myself, I lost who I was..

[@browneyes9507]

Wanna cry Me to and made me mad 😡.. I married him changed his whole life in a positive way and he abused me .. it’s been 5 yrs since I left him.. Derick is deep…

[@Acase1976-gn7pw]

😢 never lose yourself in someone else. I have been there and it’s taken years to get back. Love you, embrace you, celebrate the greatness that is you. Never lose sight of that.

[@barbarabanks5823]

​@browneyes9507 Don't stay mad and don't look back or you'll turn to a stone pillar of salt. Onward and upward❤

[@babydii3487]

Lesson learned

[@wandathomas8962]

He told me that he wasn’t sure why I wanted him. now, I understand what he meant. I’m so glad I went no contact. He didn’t deserve me.

[@ReginaRivas-uj5cl]

I

[@liveandlearn4762]

Felt alone in the relationship and felt he hates me…gave him my all….never again….!!!

[@respecthewoman]

It should be a law for people who want to be in a relationship to get counseling before proceding. Geez.

[@tagridmitchell285]

This literally just happened to me. I gave him everything and supported him in every way then he physically assaulted me and went to jail. The crazy part he blames me for everything and doesn’t acknowledge anything I did for him.

[@JaxnVideos]

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[@sharobb6904]

I love how you continued teaching in spite of all the negative things people had to say about you for falling short, as we all have! That was like telling a parent to give their child up for adoption after making a mistake. You are a great teacher and God has Blessed you with a true gift to open the eyes of others, and no one can take that away from you what God has Given to you. ❤

[@barti6970]

Said well 💕👏🏻👏🏿

[@sharobb6904]

@@barti6970 ❤️❤️❤️

[@rebellious0708]

I cried when I saw this. I felt like you were talking to me. I needed to hear this today ❤

[@moniqueteal7153]

Ignored his Red Flags !!!

[@genevieveogorman]

All the men I have ever know are sabotagers. I never met a problem solver.

[@humblyg1]

Seriously

[@margueritedrya9807]

Yes, it's a rarity

[@trockslaw1]

I! My ex would do these little digs and act like he was playing after I checked him. Now I wonder why I gave that tellitubby my time at all!

[@blisscick]

Yep! It took me 3 of those guys to finally learn they were nothing but selfish reasons

[@LoveEndures7]

And ur right, I feel so feminine now and myself instead of being in my masculine energy trying to hold everyone together.

[@melanieoreilly2565]

I'm hearing you loud and clear, and I'm learning the lesson whilst listening to you and vowing to never go back to being blind again. Thank you.

[@antoinettebulatao2299]

Yes i loved him so much and did everything for him. I am glad i broke up with him before he disregared me. He had been speaking to his ex while with me. I stayed tooooo long.

[@lovelywisdom4494]

Yes, this is my situation now. My heart is 💔 HE told me I wasn't a benefit to him, but he is a benefit to me.

[@tammygarrett8427]

What a mean thing to say.

[@wyattmeeshellie3068]

😢 Same Here

[@jasmineisrael2243]

Yup. My ex said I was lucky to have him. Please, he was lucky to have me and won't ever again

[@Charity-gs7oh]

Yep.....Im there brother. So glad he no longer in my life. But when laid down boundaries Got too close to his personal space and he tossed me 6 feet breaking my back. But My Lord protected me, today I walk, today I love me, today I have Gods peace. Thanks for always....your confirmation on who I truly am....a child of God with love for others 💖

[@dharrington7332]

❤❤❤❤

[@meragar5329]

You are talking to me. Thank you for talking about this!!!!👍

[@dianafisher-greene7360]

I don’t think I have ever come across anyone who understands more than you… every single thing you have said I can relate too!!! You speak 💯 truth!!

[@Bren2480]

Yep. Just found out he was engaged to someone else before we even broke things off. Love him beyond anything and he shattered me. I gave him my all. Was vulnerable, empathic and stayed even though he was 'broken'. He self sabotaged, ran and kept me at arms length. Yet toyed with my head and heart. Left me confused and stressed.

[@marysakal2845]

I give and give, in the end, I'm the one who's terribly hurt. Both had a ton of issues.

[@ramikundalini7887]

Yes I did ... 😱 OMG I spoke life into him, and didn't expect to see that little giving back from him. Sometimes I felt like he was in competition with me, and he will enjoy making me angry. He would say you look sexy when you're angry 😢 and I am still feeling hurt after 7 years. I don't feel that my heart will ever be fully ready to love again.

[@stephainevaughn6252]

Hugs it's someone out there for you

[@MegDD3912]

' What you entertain says a lot about who you think you are ' Love that! Thank you 💚💚💚

[@DunnessaAlston]

Well

[@DunnessaAlston]

Yes

[@DunnessaAlston]

I have to go talk tomorrow's

[@DunnessaAlston]

Thank so much!!

[@Pressure404]

This was me! I cried 😢when I saw this you are definitely talking to me💔 thank you for the truth❤ I’m broken trying to heal..

[@scorpiored3871]

"I" Thank you Derrick .You are speaking the truth!❤

[@rubymccray3864]

AMEN MY BROTHER, I DEFINITELY STAYED TO LONG 🙏🏾

[@createbje8627]

Yes, that's me!!! Sabotage every day in and out, Deliberately taking, hirting, minimalazing, devalue every accept of my life, even when he micromanaged my life tot he core!!!

[@user-mk9sp5my5t]

True facts that I learned the hard way ❗️ The false mask is off ; no contact now , I have spiritual growth and My Sparkle again. . ♥️🌿

[@stacydixson5534]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯I here you loud and clear I swear ain’t even got a table baby I’m so done with these sorry men I listen to mostly all of your videos and I have learned sooooooo much and understand so much more and it don’t hurt now thank you so much for all of your support ❤

[@Justsayin2000]

This is exactly what I needed. Thank you! 💕

[@kimberlywright4988]

I can appreciate this message even more from you because you yourself messed up but you worked to correct it. Thanks for being so transparent. You are talking right

[@shellyzepeda]

The key words is that (He worked hard and wanted to correct it. ) He realized what he was gonna lose her and he turned it around and fixed it❤.

[@Charity-gs7oh]

Yes.... Sabotage every trip we planned together...he sabotage. When I ask for something he does opposite. I tell him I love holding hands ....then he stops???

[@brendadean9291]

You said something that nailed what happened in my 9 year failed relationship. You did not have the impact that you should have been able to have on him but it was because of him. How true.

[@leandraherring1824]

THANK YOU DERRICK I NEEDED TO HERE THIS MESSAGE ❤❤ I PLAYED IT ON REPEAT FOR A COUPLE DAYS,, IT GAVE ME A NEW LIGHT WHEN IT CAME TO WHO I WAS # STRENGTH AND WISDOM ❤💯💯

[@KKP20111]

ANOTHER GREAT MESSAGE, D! 💯 THANK YOU ALWAYS! 🙏❤️

[@desertangelfish140]

Never cast your pearls before swine. The ex gravitated to a female with a meth addiction and has mental health and emotional issues. He said she liked him for him, no changes required. Heartbroken but lesson learned. I relocated to another city for a great job and thriving!

[@jeaneengant6771]

I ignored the red flags.. yup he fumbled me

[@miriammwamkita7675]

This is true and am in it right but am walking out. Thank you for helping me loving me first.

[@melanieoreilly2565]

You are speaking the God's truth. Don't ever stop speaking this truth. You have no idea how uch good you do - the magnitude o it is imesurasble beyond words.

[@jayc677]

I'm recovering from a relationship just like this.....God is so good bc on this healing journey I have loved on me so much harder.

[@SophiaParker-mc3kg]

Every time I listen to you I cry my heart out because he hurt me so bad when I gave him all of me! I just ask god to please give me strength everyday! To help me get through this! And listening to you helps me understand and be strong!

[@cytoriabarlow-thomas2618]

I have been truly damaged and didn't deserve the treatment I received.I just wanted to be treated and loved the way that loved and treated him.

[@margiel2180]

I'm all used up

[@kathyyoung7434]

Truth! Boundaries got to have them.

[@lovelyscorp79]

IIIIIIIIIIII My only regret is that no matter how hard I try I find myself sporadically triggered to tears. It wasnt just him. It was my family too. In less than a year everyone I thought loved me showed me they realky didnt fuck with me. Not the way I rode for them. And me leaving to regain peace meant absolutely nothing to no one. Even years later. How do you motivate yourself to let anyone in at that point? Im distracted in survival mode rn, having no one in a recession isnt advisable. But its all I got to work with. Me and God. And its one day at a time. But without progress how do you heal?

[@notmyname90]

You need therapy, and zero contact.

[@lovelyscorp79]

@@notmyname90 I don't give energy to anonymous trolls. You need Jesus keyboard warrior.

[@nicolestreeter4130]

Thank you for keeping it real for all of us that have been there and dealt with that poor situation we placed ourselves in.

[@AndreaShaw-o7l]

I love you for this message Thank you

[@annvirgo8542]

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and insight and supporting women that has been affected by damaged men who mistreat women them. God bless you.

[@linanegron2772]

I felt this and you right I also felt like he hates me when I helped him w everything and at the end I was the bad person and I know he can be a good person but he needs to help and heal and I wish him the best

[@carinasmithen8177]

My brother you talk truth and real talk I experienced the very thing you speak on thanks so much you now broke it down 🥰👍🏾🙏🏾

[@maxxarlo]

I did nothing but be there for him. He also would give to me so unselfishly. Then he would just push away.

[@TheGiaAllenDC]

I just started listening and based on your tone I can tell maybe I’ll get teary eyed 😢 Or remember the pain and embrace it just to remember the fact that I survived💪❤️‍🔥❤️‍🩹🔥 Forgiveness is truly for your own self healing ❤️‍🩹 Eventually you’ll get to peace ☮️

[@elizabethwerter7171]

Derek you make so much sense. I’ve experienced so much of what you speak about. You are helping me make sense of past experiences. Experiences I instinctively felt were unsettling but I didn’t have the tools to navigate through. This is what you do for me. Thank you. ❤

[@ellawilliams2836]

"I" You described what they were trying to do to me!

[@lucianacabral9399]

Thank you again for your video. From Brazil, feeling stronger! Ģod bless you.

[@michellepellicer8842]

Just the answer to my prayers..

[@RowenglenKennels]

I am so broken 💔 but thank you for your words spot on 😢

[@kheshiavaughn1126]

💯 your speaking the truth Thank you so much Brother

[@pamelafudge3577]

It feels like a knife in my back,and a spear in my heart,matters of the heart ❤❤❤❤❤

[@NLaw-uo5uk]

Thank you for what you do and how you're doing it. Excellence

[@Kathryn_Hale]

Thank you for your words, I needed to hear this message! Taking my time to heal after this heartache….🥺❤️‍🩹

[@sandramorris5607]

You are so so correct. You have extreme wisdom.

[@junesimone]

It's just so hard to hear a good message from the wrong messenger. This healed me tho.

[@carolmitchell4221]

all i did was love him wanted nothing but love back and he was always so mean to me took what i gave him but never did for me , but his next supply gave him nothing and he is giving her everything that i wanted

[@lindakoopman1914]

They like to make you play like you’re married and you’re suppose to act like you are and keep yourself off the market indefinitely. Then they get comfortable without having to make the real commitment that marriage involves. They say you’re the problem even though they have a pile wrecks behind them and never a successful relationship.

[@jenniferhubert4166]

It hurted I prayed an walk away Amen

[@User4god04hate]

Please keep mentioning every one of these life couching mentorship videos has been the truth n reality awareness for me n i thank God bless u again bro luv ya n your family keep teaching thanks again 🙏

[@user-iq5lr8ii5j]

you Are Wonderful and Inspirational And a Blessing for us to make sense of things And to STOP feeling Guilty and to STOP blaming Ourselves as if WE women did something wrong ! Thank You Tremendously !

[@AngelaGrant-uf9go]

My heart is completely done now..49 and menopausal..just tryna pass on some of these lessons to my daughter to save her from going thru the same💚

[@respecthewoman]

Bingo! In Islamic faith its stated that the 'best' of men are those who are best/good to their families. Nothing else. It don't state the one who gives charity, treat his boys out, good with the community, good with studying. etc. I know a lot of people don't show or understand this who claim to adhere to these teachings but there you have it. If he's not good to the people closest to him on an intimate level than he's a waste of time. Rubbish. Just saying to to reinterate what he say 11:38 in the talk. Totally on point.

[@robbiereeveswilliams173]

I never thought about it that way. It makes good sense 👌!

[@YES-xx3sx]

OMG thank you I knew I was not crazy!!!!

[@user-rf4oh3nj7q]

Been there done that very true 😢from Flint Mich keep up the great work your doing brother iiiii

[@debralewis111]

Derrick, you hit it, I, speaking pure truth. ❤

[@daniadani875]

Hey Derrik, just wanted you to know that everything you speak is valuable true and with unique clarity that other coaches don't have. Thank you. Keep it up cause i am sure many people are profiting from your knowledge.

[@CarolCarol-i6i]

❤I was all in and I wanted marriage but he didn't want me

[@barbaraalden6013]

His loss sweetie! ❤

[@isadavila3552]

Speaking truth.. So hard to hear..but so real

[@teeshadyanyaeger3759]

You’re preaching to the right crowd for sure

[@ursulasun5909]

What you said in the beginning of this video was me. I have phone call recording of a communication with him and I don't even want to replay it. How I allowed him to do that.

[@latashahumphrey769]

I went through that in my relationship with my kids dad. I'm questioning i alot now and yes i blame myself cause i don't know how to correct it.

[@LamarVivian]

Whoever you are don't blame yourself for how your kids daddy is pray an ask god to strengthen u an if u a good. Woman your kids daddy. Will fix it by grace of god just pray an keep faith god will. Fix it for u.

[@latashahumphrey769]

@@LamarVivian It was hard for me to see him in that shape but I tried to save him a long time ago I left him and I ask mom last night if I had of stayed with him would he be sick still. I lost someone else to the streets they were going to be ok I was going to see to that I was make sure of that if had of killed me. I told them both I'm going to be here but they chose the streets

[@harrietthe-spy9240]

I needed this so much. 😢

[@helenfisher6642]

Hi, I listened to this and it felt like you knew my story. You totally got it right and made a lot of sense for me to understand. Only just found your talks, very inspiring and real. Thank you Helen

[@dawnstewart237]

You're speaking truth. Luckily I see right through the game and the opponent and after that heart ache I learned not to be anything more than friends. If you make it that far. I also learned to keep my heart open and it's match will find me someday when I least expect it and my heart's match won't want low leve bs, like friends with benefits etc

[@denisemichelle7273]

All this ...I feel better about myself since i understand more now so Thanks for this ...

[@user-px9tl9cj6f]

This is me! I just stay to long. Moving forward one day at a time

[@angelamerchant4160]

Facts.....the word Submit......speak on further

[@AnitaClark-p4t]

I am getting it big brother thanks for keeping it 1000%, I truly needed to be mindful of what's really going on😅

[@amandamurphy7921]

Your so accurate it's like your describing my last 10 years thankyou for the confirmation of what alot of soul searching found it wasn't me it was him all along!!! Free now lesson learnt ❤

[@JaxnVideos]

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[@AnaCampos-yz2rz]

That was mim, i should listen your speaking 4 years ago❤ thanks for your speaking today💯👏

[@janem6688]

Heavy but good. God bless you DJ❤

[@robbiereeveswilliams173]

Great analogy!

[@branditaranto4152]

Makes perfect sense... I've lived it, and it sucks... I tried to see the best in him huge slap in the face....

[@Emily-ed6ed]

Great message ❤

[@user-mp8ms1ix2w]

You are speaking deep truth

[@dorotheawilson5024]

Thank you thank you thank you

[@nedailic2139]

You know women psychology so well, Im amazed.. everything you said is true ❤

[@kerril8068]

VERY HELPFUL AND EMPOWERING...THANK YOU ❤

[@sheilaharris639]

Facts….But it didn’t work because I know my worth. I learned a lot, and I notice it be in the age range from 50 up. They need someone that they can you with