Why I Broke Up with my Last Boyfriend - Dumpling Monster in West Hollywood

[@RainaHuang]

Just to clarify this is the boyfriend before Jun haha I’m still with Jun :)

[@shannonodwyer2353]

Oh good haha 😊 yay

[@eb1912]

I knew it when you said "last boyfriend" Your current guy seems very nice so far🤗

[@linnmen1634]

Your talking about Mitch?

[@glendadalejones3753]

Hell,I’m still thinking Mitch too. Plz clarify dear xx

[@chitruong4503]

Ur looking rounder girl! Be careful

[@jhh-jiynks6568]

i really enjoy the diverse way you go about your videos. theres a dab of personality a smidgeon of humor a tad bit of fashion and a whole lot of .... you being you.

[@tarasilverman5143]

If the guy you're dating doesn't respect his own mother or mistreats her, RUN 🏃 Because you can always tell how a man is going to treat you, by seeing how he treats his own mother. If he treats his mother well, with a caring heart and being respectful towards her, he will treat you the same way in the long run, if he loves you! You deserve only the BEST Raina! I think Jun is a great guy and a keeper! Great video! I love dumplings! Especially the "soup" dumplings! ❤️👍😋😍

[@herbertthewaterrat]

Nope. not really. What if a guys mother is a bi-polar narcissistic energy vampire? Many guys move far away from crazy females.

[@lennielester4552]

How do you NOT weigh a million pounds from all of that food?? I get fat just by looking at it! LMAO 😂😆🤣

[@madisonstoyandresortreview]

I def gained 5lb from this vide

[@davem3618]

The weight all goes to her chest 😎

[@simone222]

I don't usually share personal stuff, but let me tell you Raina that I'm married (married into my 30s) and were it not for my husband respecting and understanding my complex self and need for high independence, I wouldn't have had married him. I function and feel better, and our relationship thrives even if we're a thousand miles away from each other. Anyway, those dumplings looked really nice and yum! Thank you for your sharing your story and for another amazing video. I wish you the best, in life and in love.

[@amritasuresh8158]

Your videos are made with such love! It's so conversational, one feels like one is connecting with a friend...

[@cathygoodlow8697]

I HATE to see you lose the “Grandma” she was so sweet‼️You could tell she L♥️VED U♥️

[@hmh3k956]

I get that you broke up with your ex but you shouldn't talk about his parents business and saying that his family has problems to fix before you went into their lives....Raina EVERYBODY has problems not just ur ex family including you. Let's stick to the title of the video and also there's always 2 sides to a story. But good luck with Jun.

[@paolaroque8447]

Shut up lmao shes just spilling the tea for the mukbang like chill

[@merilynwinter4602]

If you don't have any thing nice to say. Tell me!!!!

[@hmh3k956]

@@merilynwinter4602 how about STFU?

[@danajo2219]

I did it too, I stayed with an asshole because I REALLY loved his parents, I think everyone does it at some point. Your boyfriend now is wonderful to you and for you!

[@seasons1146]

RIGHT?! 😭😭😭😭

[@patriciamartinez5836]

Food looks great. Thanks for sharing a personal story with us

[@Song-fi4rg]

Hi Raina, men tend to mature at a much slower rate than women. Their mom's like keeping them their little boys for much too long. By the time boys catch up with women, they also want to play the field, which is as it should be. The roles we play in life are so much different now, but I agree that if there is too much distance between needs and wants. Might as well just call the whole thing off. I still love you and your videos, keep on keepin on. For me your life is not shocking because I am 68 years old and not many things shake my tree anymore, I just want to be happy and enjoy life. So I wish you much success and happiness.

[@savvymarie7706]

The "hmm. Hmmm. I like them. Hmm" swear raina makes the best sound effects when she eats! 😂😂 so freaking cute!😂💙💜💚

[@user-cz5jw5iz4n]

Hi raina I love your videos so much but I have to say I feel sorry for your ex for getting bashed on a public forum. He might have been immature clingy or the worst bf ever, but maybe some things should stay private. Might be very hurtful for him or his family to see this. This is just my opinion. Anyway I love your open chatty personality and all the best with jun!

[@ambereats4689]

Who cares if his family has issues... or what kind of family structure he has... thats not his fault and shouldn’t matter. The other aspects I get though totally

[@azncandigrl]

I get that it's not his fault but family dynamics does matter to an extent. If you end up marrying someone, you also marry into their family and v.v. so their problems could be yours.

[@ambereats4689]

azncandigrl I understand that view. But in My opinion, if I loved a Man... I couldn’t care less how his family was. I come from an extremely broken home, abuse, drugs... you name it: but my husband didn’t say “ nope don’t want you because your family is broken.” That would be so sad! We’ve been together 11 years so💁🏽‍♀️

[@dianazhere2137]

to each their own

[@nicksmith3746]

I always take into consideration my potential sage's family, because when you date them you date their family as well. So yeah, it does matter.

[@olgasa6943]

All the little things that annoyed her was fixable. But the way he cursed at his Momma!!! For sure that's a Huge Red Flag! My Dad told me one day, "watch how a man treats his Momma, if he is disrespectful and mean to her, that's the way he's gonna treat you too"

[@LancerJak]

The person who made these, a legit artist. Also glad you’re in a happier place.

[@barbaragarner9192]

You mentioned before this was a rebound relationship, from other break up. Always give yourself time to be yourself again. It clears the head and soul. The dumping look great.

[@noragayac1751]

If I was a relative of your ex I'd be pissed off at you for yapping about my family & their issues! Stop talking about your ex focus on your new man, I'm sure he's annoyed with you talking about your ex!!

[@delimawhayop3413]

Sorry to say but i dont think it is nice to talk someone that was part of ur life, esp his family that are private people. .esp not saying good things abt him and his family..do u think it is nice if someone say bad things abt u and u r not there to defend urself. THAT IS NOT NICE!

[@hemiboy4784]

I don't think it's best to talk about your ex and his family to much info 😔

[@rachaelLawrence]

No way! People r asking about him so she’s setting the record straight

[@hemiboy4784]

@@rachaelLawrence all because she she started telling everyone stuff from the beginning so that's why people are asking now

[@rachaelLawrence]

Jay Jordan yeah and??? Her channel she can talk about her life if she wants, that’s literally what each and everyone of us follows her to see what she’s doing/eating If u don’t like it why don’t u unfollow?

[@hemiboy4784]

@@rachaelLawrence i see you just wouldn't care if ur ex put all your business out its the point of respect no for the whole world

[@rachaelLawrence]

Jay Jordan no I wouldn’t! If I was with someone that out themselves out into the public eye, posted videos that I was a part of along with my family and still acted like an entitled spoiled brat *my words not hers* then I’d expect a reason why video, she not been nasty about him, she could have said he’s a prick that thinks the world owes him something plus he’s so disrespectful to his elders I was the only one that showed them respect and yet he blamed it all on the fact his daddy wasn’t around But she didn’t, she stated fact, she was nice, she wishes him well and clearly misses the family but things move on and quite frankly why shouldn’t she say how clingy he was? I mean yeah he was with a queen but he didn’t need checking up on her every minute! Bottom line is that he was too immature for her He didn’t understand her and worse still he took her for granted like he does with his mum and gran, shame they can’t dump him but ya know 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@marieladelgado8933]

I don't do relationships anymore. Maybe I will again, but not for a while. I need to have my own space to accomplish my goals. You gotta do what's good for you.

[@jacquelynn2051]

"If you want to go fast...go alone. If you want to go far...go together. " Jadis, TWD. I'm single for the 1st time in my adult life. At age 46 it is not easy to find my match. Too many men having mid life crisis. Thankfully I am a semi recluse and not very needy. Id enjoy a relationship, but not just to say that Im in a relationship. It must be right.

[@crazyjay1998]

I totally understand! my wife and I have been together for 15 years. We dont call or text each other all day (unless it’s an emergency). She has her freedom and I have mine. Your career requires an understanding partner. I know you will find the right person who will give you your freedom. luv the videos! keep it up!

[@kevinsmith7984]

Those dumplings look amazing. And i would fair to say... If you are happy with Jun, then that's the important factor. Being unhappy in a relationship just won't last. You're a sweet person Raina.

[@seedakhutsuvan9156]

Some like clingy and some don't. Sometimes its good to have that and also bad. I rather have my husband be clingy to me than to someone else. Yes I'm married. Im 31 and hes 25. Been with him since he was 22. I wouldnt trade him for the world. I cant eat dumplings. I dont like it. It dont sit with my stomach. More power to you girl💪💪

[@dryroseyinly7739]

Girl...he forgot that food is love......love is food.....he forgot how to reach to your heart and tummy......lol!.....take care.....💟💟💟

[@katpanda9368]

Your ex sounds exactly like my ex.. talked very poorly to his mom/sister, had really bad anger/toxicity problems in League of Legends, he also ended up being emotionally abusive/manipulative, I'm so glad I got tf out of there

[@cathygoodlow8697]

I know, sometimes it’s MORE HARD to break up with the Family than the “BOY friend‼️There’s the Clue”BOY”♥️♥️♥️👍

[@danielcruso6240]

Each dumpling was for a horrible past ex experience, 😂😂

[@pookpookpook88]

OMG, that's funny.

[@Jess_Warfield]

You dumped a guy in front of his entire family?!? Girl you got nerves! Lol

[@theskyquakewarrior]

Never had dumplings! Looks so good! Good you and Jun found each other. I wish all the best for you guys! 🙏🏻💓

[@TheKat1959]

12:47 The 'green' pot stickers look like delicate leaves. Very pretty. You said tasty too. 😺🍜😺🍜😺🍜😺🍜😺

[@JOHNABLANK]

I love how you can just tell a story (even a personal one), while you're eating, and don't miss a bite. LOL

[@sophialis37]

Hi Raina ....went to dumpling monster today because you recommended them last week....it was great ......I got 2 cards that you left ....you are wonderful ....thanks for the recommendation ...I came to LA for the holiday weekend

[@RainaHuang]

Yayay thank you ☺️

[@Mekanacbf]

"Why I broke up with my boyfriend" Me: aw yes spill the tea. Also my zodiac is the doggo too!

[@EJ-jn3kv]

Omg first!!!! Love you girl! 😍

[@rebeccagilman2020]

Raina it’s 2021. Move on, Let it go! You will find someone meant to be. Learn how to love yourself. ❤️

[@PlantVisionz]

u are very correct to leave your ex because yes it is true. A relationship is about 2 people who compliment each other and work as a team. Challenge Matt Stonie is a dumpling eating contest ;) (Hendrika)

[@sonshinethomas7986]

I want to see that contest too!!!!

[@TheKat1959]

11:20 Nice, casual, savouring meal...Raina's hair is down, hee. 😺🍜😺🍜😺🍜😺🍜😺

[@darlenebrown7256]

I am so glad this showed up for me to see!! I totally understand about him being immature...that is the reason I left my first husband!! I have been with my second for 33 years, and I still visit my ex-family members!! Great video, and yummy dumplings!!

[@DianeC.]

Hi Raina!!! I enjoyed your video today. It was nice hearing why you guys broke up. I was wondering. Life goes on. Hope all is good for you now. Take care. A fan&friend. DiDi

[@arcanepomp33]

I remember when you first started youtube! And im so glad that you know your worth and made the best choices in life because your channel had grown so much because you believed in yourself and your ambitions have taken you far. Keep doing you, and being honest on everything that you eat! I enjoy the raw Realness you give!💖💖

[@arcanepomp33]

Has*^

[@mecrop12]

nothing screams "immature" than eating a plate full of dumplings and saying why you broke up with your last boyfriend...

[@rachaelLawrence]

mecrop12 I think u misspelled “Nothing screams immature than eating a plateful* of dumplings and saying why you broke up with your last boyfriend” than posting “Nothing screams immature than eating a plateful* of dumplings and saying why you broke up with your last boyfriend classes you as more immature than my newborn You my dear are a troll Are you her ex??? Actually nah jokes u couldn’t get near her

[@mecrop12]

@@rachaelLawrence I feel like I had a stroke trying to read your comment. But yes, you're correct I misspelled.

[@rachaelLawrence]

mecrop12 it was more pointing out how immature you were to point it out after calling her immature I guess you’re not into irony

[@djhinrg]

I'm making that sounds when Homer Simpson makes when he eats donuts. I WANT SOME DUMPLINGS!

[@sherrieanorman2816]

Raina, your eye rolling when you said you don't wish him ill... I think you might. Lol. Your so amazing to share your story. Share about the one you don't want to. It will make you feel better. I know what I am talking about.

[@deaneverlean7408]

So people get bad habits or paranoia from having there heart broking. When your in love not just love but found everything you’ve ever wanted and they break you in half, your never the same.

[@DianeC.]

P. S. Good luck with Jun!!! GOD bless you dear girl. Diane

[@Marieta550]

There’s always two sides to a story, humiliating your ex like this and his family isn’t good. First you said you hate him but love his family and then talked about their family problems on social media isn’t cool. If your ex cursing at his mother and disrespectful to her, why is he always so sweet to his grandma on your other video and he looked after her properly. Just saying 👍🏻🙂 but love your videos- Goodluck with your Jun

[@iorilamia]

Why do you care?

[@SN-gb9ip]

Something is wrong with the headphone Audio can only hear from one (my headphones aren’t broken)

[@BigArt1970]

I pointed this out on her last video. Live shots were all left channel, but music put in was fine. I think her camera is set to mono possibly.

[@TheKat1959]

I've dropped mine a gazillion times and hear with both, go fig, lol.

[@Martian74]

She probably watches it back on her iPhone so can’t hear the problem or doesn’t care about her audience. She does say she “doesn’t care”, a lot in her videos.

[@marriedandcrazy04]

A good relationship requires understanding and compromise on both sides. My husband and I have been married for 16yrs, have 2 children (teenagers now) together, and he has 1 from a previous marriage. He met a LOT of my family before we ever met. Lol It hasn't always been easy (we sometimes annoy the mess out of one another) and we have faced many hard times together. But for every hard time there is something to balance it out. Relationships are hard work and, if you love each other, it's worth it. I had actually given up on ever finding a true lifetime love when I met my husband but he didn't give up on me (thank God). Your day will come.

[@nastashiam.]

OMG!!!! I FREAKING LOVE DUMPLINGS 🙀😍 It all looks so yummy, love ya Raina, you're the best girl!!!💙💚💜

[@iowa_diva]

I can’t agree more! I stayed with a guy waaaaay too long because I helped him have a better relationship with his family. He manipulated me sooo bad though and was the most selfish person to this day I’ve ever met.

[@iam00playa18]

Wow. Don't do him like this. You definitely "Rained" on his parade.

[@DbleP111]

I agree, that wasn’t very nice!

[@jkimmie7488]

Mad respect to the growth of your channel and being so real and honest with your viewers. I love getting to know you better however I’d like to caution you be really careful about revealing such intimate details about other people’s drama. It’s best to just say they had drama and leave out the details. I’d hate to think that someone I used to date would spill my personal family drama on their channel after they revealed my identity.

[@theresadale4917]

You'll be okay.❤️❤️💕💕 Being single is more fun.

[@mister1680]

Keep telling yourself that

[@dellasandor4281]

Good intuitive instinct. You have only one life. It should be "right" orrr not "be". (This one might not be either...dont EVER settle for average...better to be alone. But so far- he cool.) Im so proud of you! Go girl...be happy.

[@stupullenchannel3525]

The title .... 😂😂 You are so beautiful!😘😍

[@BELLAPHONTOO]

So glad I'm single so that I can stick to me 'food and wine' pastime without persistent nagging.

[@christiehorton9878]

Yayyy!!!!! im so glad to know your still with Jun😘

[@charmymami1987]

*I think is rude to talk about y'all RELATIONSHIP and personal stuff he says to u* this is probably going to hurt his feelings and 2 wrongs dont make it right raina.... U better than that... Dont lower your standards or charm over anybody ... Keep certain things to yourself and private ... We love to see your eat and enjoy your self i think thats all u owe us not an explanation of your ex relationship ... LET YOUR EX B YOUR EX its (EX-PIRED) already anyways.. ENJOY THE MAN U WITH NOW thats it ... Luv ya 😚❤

[@AgnesM]

I hope he’s not watching this lol

[@rachaelLawrence]

Agnes M if he does he does🤷🏻‍♀️ he will grow and learn to be less selfish and dependent on others I miss ban chan tho

[@patriciam4123]

I Love dumplings!! Japanese, chinese, korean and probably every other dumpling.

[@eb1912]

Wow! I'm the same way. I can't do a clingy person. Some men like to smother you too much. I'm going to need him to have a life of his own. You are smart young lady!

[@EG-kk8qd]

Well he had to know how she is...look at all the thumbnails lmao. And he wanted a wifey not a girl, she just playin him from the beginning plus she probably his first real girlfriend ...HOT ass girlfriend at that

[@maau3495]

The best xiao long bao that I have had was outside of Taipei. The most unusual dumplings I have had were at a dumpling house in Changchun. I had donkey dumplings, called "meat of the gods".

[@erichorwitz5680]

Her slapping slips while eating drives me crazy.

[@AnnieLDesu]

OH. You're talking about your older Jpn boyfriend? I thought you were talking about your most recent one until you mentioned grandma 🙄 is this video old?

[@Nikki_94]

The title clearly says my ''last'' boyfriend, you can tell the video is not old because of her hair

[@jabulaniharvey]

@@Nikki_94 she has flame red hair now

[@benjaminmanzanares358]

@@Nikki_94 I really thought he broke with her, I really thought he could do better. Especially after they broke up she was dating another guy right away.

[@sarbuck355]

She broke up with “June “ yeah and you guys just bought a big bed size.

[@veronicahughes3045]

Dumplings look scrumptious!! I bet you enjoyed them, all!! Sorry for your break -up!

[@TheKat1959]

7:32 I know what you mean. One guy, I loved his family WAY more than him. I still miss his parents, lol. 😺🍜😺🍜😺🍜😺🍜😺

[@achilliaroberso9366]

Oh my these are my favourite dumplings 🥟, yummy 😋. Thanks for sharing.

[@sophialis37]

It's important to be your own person.....just be happy ....love all the dumplings ....nice showing.

[@GirlLovesToGame]

I could eat dumplings for literally every meal 😁 btw, I don't think you were mean or spoke in a horrible manner about him. It is what it is and your a better person after most experiences (hopefully) that goes for everyone. Great video.

[@Blonde4Beach]

Thank you for sharing such personal info! Bob and I think you rock! 😗👍

[@kenny-d3944]

Raina I So agree with you on the Clinger's with no life of their own.....Good for you.. Love your channel.. keep up the great work that you do...

[@maryway2062]

Your Jun is such a nice guy. You deserve him. He really love n support you.

[@Elishajade97]

Raina please can you fix your audio 🔉 can hardly hear lately

[@rynearsoncats]

I can heat videos perfectly, are you sure it isn't on your end??

[@nowkim9554]

@@rynearsoncats My left-side earphone can't get the audio. In other youtube videos, my earphone works perfect. So you know where the problem lies...

[@clearliquid]

i don't hear anything from the left side either.

[@rynearsoncats]

@@nowkim9554 That's so interesting. Perhaps Raina will be able to figure it out, but I don't have any problem. So with some having the problem and others like who don't, Raina can take that info and work with that. Best of luck to those having the problem, and getting a quick resolution.

[@dannyganz08]

I’ve not only never had truffles, I’ve actually never had a dumpling. They look wonderful

[@mister1680]

If you can stand the texture, theyre not that bad. I personally can only eat a few before it becomes too much.

[@lamadrina1000]

Well it looks like he showe his true colors and that's what relationship is about getting to know your boyfriend/girlfriend

[@khamando9692]

Your happiness comes first

[@amritasuresh8158]

Just watching you eat slowly and describing the food, is so satisfying...

[@harmonyjones7912]

Hi boo,dem dumplings look so good.keep ↑ the great work😍😍😊

[@lilykittrie1607]

Ur videos are pretty cool to watch, however, coming on youtube and bashing ur boyfriend is not cool. I don't think you'd like it if he did that to you, hence treat others the way you want to be treated.

[@ajshaka3212]

Man...I want to start a eating vid and talk about stuff. Never a dull moment

[@kilncurvis7057]

I like your camera angle. Those dumplings look wonderful. Pan fried dumplings are good. But steamed dumplings are still my favorite. I wished you could walk around with them in a popcorn cup.

[@kramchand6347]

Very relatable...story on the side made me know you better ♥️

[@felicia5620]

Please fix your audio. This happened more than once. With this video I can't hear you at all, some videos I hear the music but your voice is really low and Some other videos I don't hear you in the beginning but in the middle of the video I hear you.

[@orangepill8480]

The thing with your competitive eating appetite, we can’t tell if your bummed out from breaking up with your bf and taking it out on eating food

[@862brady]

The dumpling Therapy seems to be working. :)

[@DoubleBrownieofRage]

Best line from raina " i don't hate him.. "but i still love his family LMAO" plus i still want to marry you.

[@kevinsmith7984]

Actually Raina..... have you ever considered an acting career. You would be a natural.

[@voltan8814]

OMG id cry with happiness if a place like this was in the uk :D

[@marshahowardperez9843]

So technically you are not like a dog... You're more like a cat... You like the companionship... But you like to be left alone to do your own thing.... Right?

[@markeffend165]

You made the right choice to break up overbearing leads to control and then back to square 1 he needed time to mature and you needed time to grow and build your empire but bottom line Raina his negativity would’ve dragged you down the plus is you’re happier and stronger and still our hummingbird

[@dmac3927]

I still hang out with my ex-wife’s mother, she makes great pho.

[@jeanettegreen3564]

Wow 😳 nice 💯🗣❤️🥃

[@Dan-ph8zt]

Takes two to dance tango No One is perfect

[@sharonwaldron4570]

if. you are happy in your new relationship that's all that matters Raina and I hope you happy cuz past relationship is the past and you should not be talking about old boyfriend cuz I like when you are happy with your new boo😊

[@theresadale4917]

Looks like a boxes full of chocolate. You don't know what your going to get. ( Dumplings)🤣😂

[@1977sallysue]

Thanks for opening up to us takes a lot to open up . I just love all your videos 👍😉

[@mehere8565]

I think he was worried you wanted those dumplings more

[@technoforever888]

Wow, you still rock!!! You have to do the 30 Taco Challenge!!!

[@teknasutra]

Don't give him or anyone free rent in your head or heart. Forgive. No future or past Juan now. Love you babe.

[@ZockRock]

Your microphone ist still broken on the left channel.

[@jaimechomik6250]

Those dumplings look like a work of art! Mad skills! 🤩😍