Why I don’t regret quitting teaching | Advice for teachers who want to quit

[@henley7012]

Quitting teaching will make you happier and give you a real life. Teaching drains your energy like no other job. So many kids are very needy and get little or no attention at home so they seek it endlessly in school..thereby wearing down the teacher so that the teacher has nothing left for her family.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

This! ☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼 “mothering” took up so much of my time as a teacher that I didn’t really feel like I was teaching what I was hired to teach, but rather what wasn’t being taught at home.

[@SA-yi8pd]

Right on!

[@cdheidt]

Teachers end up wearing a lot of different, yet vital, hats. That’s one reason we should be making more. I don’t think the boomer generation realizes that teachers do a lot more than deliver content. Its not like it was in the 1980’s! The kids have changed and so have the policies. You give up your life to do the job.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Yes, even I didn’t understand why teachers always complained about money before I actually became one, but they do the jobs of at least 4 people. Teachers are *SEVERELY* undercompensated.

[@IAteFire]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress and if you have extracurriculars, that not only take time, planning, your own money, maneuvering around red tape and years of learning curve, and all you get in stipend pay is essentially an extra check at the end of the year, it’s the worst slap in the face

[@jessicaherring1507]

Omg. I’m a preschool teacher and I’ve been considering becoming a private tutor. I have no life! I’m always angry and exhausted and overwhelmed. Watching your video has made me seriously consider going it alone. I’m scared but I’m literally dying on my ass right now and I can’t take much more 😢

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@jessicaherring1507 I’m so sorry you’re feeling that way. That’s exactly where I was 3 years ago. I quit and didn’t look back. I won’t say that it’s been easy going it alone, but I can breath again, and I’m not angry the way I was back then. Good luck. I’m sure good things are coming for you ❤️

[@jessicaherring1507]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress update for you! I found out that I’m being ‘observed’ next week as a parent has expressed ‘concerns’ about my class. I give EVERYTHING to my job and feel as though it’s all been for nothing. I feel hurt, angry and I just want to get hell outta there now. I was also told that a more experienced teacher is joining my class as a room leader. I am the leader! And now I have to job share with her. No other room in the centre has 2 leaders. I’m basically being ‘demoted’ without actually being demoted. It’s public and personal humiliation! Looks like my instincts were right. I’m OUTTA THERE 🙏

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@@jessicaherring1507 😮 oh no! I once had a parent sit in during an online session, only to barrage me about how I didn’t know what I was doing because her son was failing- we were into the second half of the year and I didn’t even know what her son looked like because he never showed up for class. She went on to insult me in front of the students. I, of course, muted her, but the students knew what was going on. Just terrible. Especially when admin doesn’t back you up, which is the norm. I hope you’re able to find a better place soon.

[@jessicaherring1507]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress it’s so hurtful and enraging. I’m considering leaving the profession altogether but I also love so much about the profession. Anyways I’m glad to know that there is hope and that I’m not the only one!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@jessicaherring1507 There’s always hope. I’m currently enjoying the good parts of teaching and none of the nonsense of dealing with the schools. Find something that works for you. Keep me posted on your progress! I’d love to hear about it :)

[@adoptinformed]

Love this! I’m leaving my teaching job at the end of this school year. I have been teaching for 11 years, but I’ve been hoping to leave for a while. For the past two years, I have taught part time and built up my business as an adoption consultant that started organically when I began making KZbin videos about our adoption journey. Starting this summer, I’ll be jumping into my business full time! I’m excited and terrified, but hearing how much happier you are is encouraging!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

That’s wonderful @adoptinformed ! That’s very exciting, and you were smart to set yourself up to be able to leave and already have something else to be working on. I wish you the best on that new adventure! ❤️

[@gainswithkathy]

Me too! I’ve resigned and documenting my life after teaching ❤❤❤ I can’t wait to discover the new me!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Welcome to the club @gainswithkathy !

[@gainswithkathy]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress thank you :) it’s going to feel amazing I hope…

[@KJV_bibleteaching]

Finishing my 7th year teaching elementary. I'm leaving the classroom. Too muuuch to handle. Too much work to get students' low scores. Apathy, laziness, can't do it anymore.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@soulwinning_bibleteaching Yes, I totally agree. Teachers have their hands tied in so many ways, and in the long run, that just doesn’t help the students. Good luck with whatever you do next!

[@janetwium6248]

@KJV_bibleteaching What are you doing instead?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@janetwium6248 19:03 I’ve been teaching on a contract basis since I quit. Mostly online ESL.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@janetwium6248 19:03 I’ve been teaching on a contract basis since I quit. Mostly online ESL.

[@YvetteConte]

You can hear the PTSD in your voice. It’s a horrible feeling to drive to work with fear and loathing of the career choice we made that we all thought would be flowers and daisies inspiring young minds. The nuns in the Catholic schools of the 50’s had it right. We’ve let things gone so far to one side kids don’t fear anything. There’s no consequences and it’s often the worst kids get the most positive rewards positive talk and hopes they will try to do better. The endless stories I hear coming from former teachers are even more of a reminder that I did do the right thing leaving teaching.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I dreaded it every day. It has been so freeing to not get that feeling every single day.

[@kaybelletv3659]

💯💯🙌🏾

[@mrs.rogersneighborhood]

You cannot put a price on your happiness.

[@kirstenjohnson_]

freedom! Lol. I sat and had coffee and baked goods with local friends in the daytime. It felt good to remember what that felt like. It's super scary but let's go! I thought about providing ESL online. You'll do great!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Nothing like a good taste of freedom 😌 Definitely scary, but I think there’s no other way!

[@katanaki3059]

The first graduate class I took in 1987 was “Problems in modern Education “. I said hell no and went into nursing instead . Almost as stressful but more flexible and paid more. Still glad to quit when Covid hit. Now a farmer avoiding people

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Omg an entire class 😂 and in the 80s! I could imagine that class now lol and man, sometimes I regret not doing nursing, at least the pay is much better. Haha, I recently told my daughter that I finally understand why people go off and live on farms! Avoiding people is a current pleasure/hobby of mine that I never thought I’d have 😆

[@moniquejohnson2465]

Wonderful, I'm happy for you that you switched avenues and created a new story for yourself! Continued blessings. Your story was heartfelt. I'm a Special Educator at Baltimore City Public Schools. I will be retiring soon after 30 years. You're inspiring. You have peace of mind now. New Subbie!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

That’s wonderful! Congrats for 30 years of teaching and to a new phase ❤️

[@joythompson9530]

Hello! I applied to Baltimore City Public Schools recently! I'm from Virginia. May you please share the demographics and the best schools to work for in that district?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@joythompson9530 Hi! I wouldn’t be able to answer that question, as I live in Texas and that is my only teaching experience. But I wish you luck on your search and hope you find something that makes you happy :)

[@kimdixon3033]

I left at the end of the 23-24 school year. After 10 years. The mental burden is simply too much!!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I’m always impressed by people who stay more than 3 years. It’s not easy. Hope you find what you’re looking for!! ❤️

[@marcmeinzer8859]

I hated teaching so much that the first time I quit I got a job on a seismic crew in Superior National Forest. Then the second time I quit I went to truck driving school. Then finally, the last time I quit I shipped out with the merchant marine to haul ammunition to the Gulf War. Hauling 10,000 tons of bombs through the Suez Canal was a pleasure cruise compared to teaching ghetto high school in Cleveland. I finally ended up being a barber for 20 years. Now I’m retired. Teaching blows chunks.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@marcmeinzer8859 😱 but you went back to it twice after you originally quit!? Sounds like you gave it the ol’ college try!

[@marcmeinzer8859]

it’s always easier to find jobs which require certification if you have the credential such as teaching, merchant marine, or barbering. They’re not even allowed to hire uncertified people. And initially you’re likely to think that it was just the one job that was so bad. In the case of teaching that would be mistaken as they all pretty much make unreasonable demands.@@ProcrastinatorsProgress

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@marcmeinzer8859 That’s true. Needing the certification does make the applicant pool a lot smaller compared to other jobs that don’t require one, so def easier to find a job. I’ve applied to several jobs recently and haven’t gotten any calls. I put in some teacher applications just to see if I’d get called. Of course, I did -_-

[@marcmeinzer8859]

I don’t trust all these help wanted signs. I’m positive that they are only interested in people who’ve never had any sort of a trade or profession. I went into barbering because you can set up your own shop for a very modest outlay especially considering how the average barbershop customer virtually demands that the shop be as ugly as possible so as to ensure that no possible taint of effeminacy attaches to the place so squeamish the customer base is about any sort of pretension. Then also if you want to make any money you really need to set up shop in a blue collar urban slum.@@ProcrastinatorsProgress

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@marcmeinzer8859 Yeah, these employers are definitely interested in people who will take the bare minimum. It’s sad really. I think it’s great you thought about working for yourself though. It’s tough but honestly in the long run I think it’s the best way to ensure the best outcome for yourself. Now it’s time for me to figure out a long term plan :)

[@nataliiabrovchenko9471]

Thank you for this honest confession.

[@aknudsen93]

I've been teaching for 19 years, many of those as a bilingual or ESL teacher. I want to quit so badly. I am in a district that does not have a clue about ESL and a lot of disrespect towards the progrm. Saying this, I have been wanting to quit since the pandemic but was too scared. My anxiety is at an all time high. I decided to start sending out resumes. I got some ideas from a friend who is a former teacher. I'm glad to here that things are working out for you!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Wow. I always say anyone who lasts as a teacher is a very, very strong person. If you want to quit, you can do it! Start getting your ducks in a row. I don’t believe life should be lived in fear. Your teaching skills are transferable to many other roles. Have faith in yourself 💚 good luck 🍀

[@jenniferjones6678]

Same. I’ve been teaching for 19 years and I’m at my breaking point.

[@shelleyfromyard]

I quit “regular teaching” to be a self employed private tutor, going 13 years now. I’ve made more money working less hours and without all the administrative hassle.

[@dannijohansen7508]

I feel you. I'm planning my escape from teaching right now 🙏🏻

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@dannijohansen7508 Good luck!

[@TMeyer-ge5pj]

Totally agree with you about fear. You can't make decisions based on fear or you will keep repeating the same mistakes a lot of the time!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@TMeyer-ge5pj For sure! That, or you will just never take any chances and will surely have a lot of regrets for it later.

[@azizurrahman1091]

Your mental and emotional health is very important.

[@Brainjoy01]

My girlfriend will not quit but its ruined her mental health and our relationship. She got a masters, and quickly realized it didnt help her, but it looks good for the school. She got stuck doing ESL, the 4th graders are so abusive. They stalker her social media, talk about tiktok all day, ask her why she isnt married yet, cuss, tell her to shut up, make her cry. She wont quit because she got this degree after her parents sacrificed. She also made it her personality so she wont let it go because she believes she's a teacher in her heart. I cant recognize her and its been only 2 years. She gained weight and is on so many anti depressants. A therapist even dropped her because he said she needs to quit or she wont expect the issues to stop. She comes home and has to work for another few hours on class for kids who do not respect her. For anyone in education for education, switch to something else!!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

So sorry you’re both going through that. I totally get why she’d avoid quitting due to the effort she put in to get there, but you definitely gotta know when it’s time to just cut your losses. Good luck to you both. Hope she’s able to make a change.

[@royvor]

Gracias por tu video! Yo acabo de renunsiar y sin trabajo. 13 anos como maestra. Lo siento dentro de mi que fue la decision correcta. Me encantaron the quotes que pusiste. Que dios te bendiga. Hay cosas mejores que nos esperan y estas logrando mucho haciendo tu propio negocio y obteniendo tu tiempo y felicidad vale mas que todo. Me subscribi para seguir viendo tu contenido.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Wow! Este comentario me saco de la cama hoy! 😂 Si, tengo ese mal hábito de ver mi teléfono a primera hora 🤦🏻‍♀️ Me alegro que que te haya gustado y espero te hayas sentido reforzada/o en tu decisión. Siempre que alguien me dice que duro tanto en esa profesión (13 años! 😱) pienso- esa persona es muy fuerte! Yo solo dure 2! Buenas cosas vienen. No te rindas ❤️

[@Jane5720]

Having fun until the students show up 😂 I feel very similar to you that I’m exhausted and I’ve lost some of the interest that I’ve had but I’m going to be leaving as well in a month or two and I plan on doing the things again that I used to enjoy doing

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Lol don’t get me wrong, lots (most) of the kids were great, but the few just made it difficult for everyone, students AND teachers, and that just sucked the fun out of everything! Good luck on your journey, and definitely make time for what makes you happy! 🩷

[@patricka2421]

❤ Thanks for sharing your story. 25 yr teacher here. I can't do 5 more years until I can retire. Kid behavior/noise has gotten the best of me, not too mention working closely with a very toxic employee. I am ready to quit at the end of the year... Even though the pay and time off is great, the stress is NOT worth it. Stress really does make you ill. Cheers to you, and that is for the inspiration!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@patrick-Yes, it has gotten way out of hand! My second year teaching I had a cough that wouldn’t go away that entire year. Now, I haven’t been sick since! Good luck on your journey! Life is too short to be miserable! 💚

[@annamariemiller3877]

My husband and I taught for 32 years in Texas. We retired from Katy ISD. After we retired we moved back to Illinois. I’ve been retired for 10 years and felt it was just the right time as teaching has become so crazy. I have to say I did enjoy teaching, but as the politics became so hard to take.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@annamariemiller3877 Oh just down the street from where I taught, CFISD. Seems like you got out at a perfect time. That’s amazing, 32 years! I’m glad you had a good experience. COVID, and yes, politics, has changed things so much. Books being banned left and right, parents demanding more and more and teaching less and less at home. Just too many things.

[@annamariemiller3877]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgressNo kidding. Parents were also just getting more power.

[@mrs.rogersneighborhood]

I am a Worldwide ESL Tutor. It changed my life.

[@kaylahood1000]

I’m thinking about leaving the teaching field. I never wanted to do a job like this at all. I am so unhappy daily. I don’t even have the energy to study for my pre reqs before applying to nursing school. I am having a hard time with getting out of this field.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@kaylahood1000 It’s definitely rough, and so time consuming. How did you get into teaching? Nursing is another hard field, but at least with nursing, you get paid well. Can’t say the same for teaching.

[@moniquejohnson2465]

Thanks for sharing your story!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Thanks for listening! ❤️

[@MeME-u8n7r]

I love teaching however, straight from the start I never wanted to be a traditional classroom teacher in the USA. Initially I wanted to teach abroad and only abroad. While I did sporadically dabble in that for 5 or 6 years, as the saying goes, there’s no place like home. Afterwards, I got it in my head that someway, somehow if I wanted to continue teaching, I would have to do so here in the us and as a traditional teacher too. Very similar to your story, a close friend of mine who I went to high school with, her aunt was the headmaster of a private school in the diocese. She was desperately tenaciously, looking for a teacher, not to mention several other teachers. Like you said your video, BIG RED FLAG! Regretfully, had I known then what I know now I never would’ve entertained that proposition! The school had a turn style of teachers year after year! The aunt of the friend who was the headmaster was a nasty and I mean NASTY starts with a C ends with a T! I am sure you can figure out the rest. I absolutely detest that word. It’s filthy. It’s dehumanizing however sometimes it just fits! Long story short, she was absolutely of no help. She didn’t know what was going on in her school, asking her for clarity or assistance was like trying to get blood out of a rock on top of that, my coworkers and fellow teachers were not exactly authentic or transparent. They made the art of teaching into a cut throat competition. If they could throw you under the bus, they would do so happily as long as it made themselves shine in the process. And this is the type of example that we were supposed to be setting? 🤨 further complicate matter, similar to your situation, the schools location was a very remote drive from where I resided. I would wake before the sun did and if I did not leave work by or before 2:30 PM, you would literally take me two hours and change to arrive home! By the time I did so, it goes without saying that I was physically emotionally and psychologically drained, and the management was not necessarily on my side. Having that for nearly a year, it had pushed me beyond endurance. The principal humiliated me disparage me dehumanized me and completely ripped me a new one for circumstances that had nothing to do with me or out of control. It’s my overwhelming feeling that she enjoyed the trip from the disparaging behavior she bestowed upon her teachers. After that nightmare ended fast forward to more recent times and I still like teaching however, I do not want it in the traditional sense. There is similar to the end of your video and especially with my international, cultural and linguistic background I decided to go into business for MYSELF! 😊 I must say it’s been the best decision, the most fulfilling the most rewarding I could have made. Add to that I am in the process of building a tiny house on wheels so I could be fluid and mobile and not financially obligated to my residence. I can live anywhere and go anywhere. I want not have to worry about it traditional brick and mortar 9 to 5, nor do I have to give up teaching either. I applaud your bravery for doing what you truly felt in your heart a lot of teachers and people in general just put up with and tolerate what they need to maintain a sense of professionalism and other obligations in their life. As a consequence, they miss out on freedom and especially miss out on being happy! You only have one knife to live. Most people do so or live it the way people dictate for them to live it, but sometimes that dictation is not cookie cutter or homogenous for everybody.

[@sarahmiller9458]

Girl! Thank you for posting this video and sharing your story. I am so burnt out and just as drained as you explained ( I work in Payroll/ Accounting ) and wanting to quit what I am doing right now and was considering getting my certification as a way to switch professions. You may have just solidified that Teaching is not the best alternative. I have no idea what is, I want to work for myself but have no idea on what exactly. That whole last section of the video it sounded like me talking about all the things I'm feeling, going through. I'm in Texas too. I am 100% making decisions and staying out of fear right now, I hate it. The feeling of looking for jobs though, I look but never apply something is physically/ mentally stopping me. I wish you the best of luck on your journey and hope we all find where we are meant to be.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@sarahmiller6458 Lots of people want to go into teaching because, on the surface, it’s seems like there’s a lot of perks, well, one really big perk-the time off. Trust me. Any teacher will tell you they’re not really “off”. It’s a profession your WHOLE heart is going to have to be in if you want to really stick with it. It’ll be the only thing to get you through everything you’d be going through, because YOU WOULD go through A LOT, starting with doing the work of at least 3 people, maybe 4. I know some people who LOVE being teachers, but it's because that's their true calling. As far as working for yourself, I feel like accounting is the PERFECT thing! Maybe look into starting to freelance and building up a portfolio so you can eventually only work with direct clients. Have you heard of the SBDC? It’s a GREAT resource that helps you with anything business related. I recommend them 100%. They can help you get started, and it’s FREE! Thanks for your kind words, and I wish you the best 💞

[@jackie_twirlsmarashlian6947]

I appreciate your candidacy. It really sheds light on how many of us put up with a lot in field that isn't supposed to corporate America but certainly runs like it without getting paid that way. I commend you and you will succeed in whatever you do.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Yes, that’s a sham isn’t it? lol Thank you!

[@missyam1448]

I feel so sad by your sharing 😞 that I can even feel your past crying and struggles. What a difficult situation you've been trough. Cheering for you and hope you'll find job that will give you security, contentment, and growth ❤

[@DTMEDIA-ey5hi]

Im at this point. I loathe teaching now and want to leave so badly but I'm the bread wimner at the moment. It's like waking up every morning and going to prison

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

That’s exactly how I felt. Maybe get your resume spruced up and start sending jobs applications to places you might be interested in? Good luck ❤️

[@vittoriaolsen767]

There are so many things… Retired teacher understand your story. Feel bad for you but your courage telling this tale shows your character and self worth. You were right about the red flags. Starting under a pile of others’ false starts is a nightmare. You are a wonderful person and teacher finding your niche! There are return to the workforce classes Stanford has online classes I’ve been to a few of their in person workshops and each time it puts me back on track to new confidence. I would get talked into positions I did not want and now sub a little to add to retirement only take K, 1, or grade 2 or Resource or those levels of mild sped. I would go back for the right position but also trying to save for Italy. You can do anything you are important what you feel is important and you offer the world to your students. There are so many ways and you have already found a few!! Much love and encouragement always!! ❤😎

[@michaelamelton-berry5403]

What year did you get certified? I started alt cert in 2016 and even though I had a B.S. in Math and had taken all the undergrad secondary ed coursework, it was going to be 2 years, a portfolio, and a masters degree before my certificate would be issued. I received a 1 year temporary provisional certificate in the meantime.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@michaelamelton-berry5403 I received my provisional certificate in February 2020. After working 1 year, I received my standard certificate. My program wasn’t very helpful. I got my core subjects certificate only because I didn’t know it was possible to get ELA only. Then I was interested in possibly switching to Kindergarten bilingual, but it would almost be like starting over-needing to pass 3 tests, so I dropped that idea. So many hoops to jump through just to not be treated like a professional in the end.

[@annaclarke7643]

Turning my back on my teaching career, was the best decision, that I have no regrets about. The behaviour of the children got me into a panic. I loved the early years but then the rot set in.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

🙌🏼 🙌🏼

[@PriscilaOnly]

I love that you love cooking and baking. Have you thought about cooking and baking classes for children? My daughter and I are always looking for those classes but its so impossible to find it.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I do love it, but only as something to do on my free time. I wouldn’t want to do either of those things as a job, but I do hope you and your daughter are able to find a class!!! Maybe even take a little trip for one if you can’t find a local one 😉

[@Beargio-cy3gg]

Bruh! I know what school you worked at! I used to sub there! Hats off to you-that school is brutal. Wishing the best on your new career path

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

😅 seriously!? Small world 😭😭😭

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Wait, how did you know?

[@donteatthedaisies]

Relatable! I taught in Htown during the same era. (Had already been at it for 2 years when the pandemic hit so when the spring break rumors started I was like "please God let it be true." 😂) Hybrid teaching that next school year was an absolute shitshow. Teaching was a formative experience to be sure but I don't miss it. Sometimes in my new life I like to just look around my work environment, remind myself of how I'm not teaching anymore, and savor the little things: Getting a coffee whenever I want, going to the restroom to pee whenever I need, doing absolutely zero work after hours, and never *ever* being harassed by children. 😂

[@catherineventure3996]

I haven't got much confidence in teachers. I come from a family of teachers and my own experience of them. I see many serious flaws in their training. I do agree there is much greater stress nowadays. I decided not to train as one. There are lots of perks to being a teacher. The long holidays and I agree they have to do preparation in them. The school trips are expensive and are 25:47 peeks for the teachers as they go free and their families(you mustn't do it too often of course because you will get a reputation). They like to think they are caring and understanding but not one teacher understood my problems, and I was a normal child and my mother was a teacher too. I do accept they have a lot of breakdowns and I am sorry about that and which needs to be addressed. They are not the only with stress at work and they can get jobs in the holidays. They don't do too badly over salaries compared with other people. At one time yhe teachers had free school meals if they ate with the pupils as they were educating them socially! They take over the role of parenting and mothers are undermined. Children are not always ready at five to go to school and are still bonding with their mothers who are their first teachers. There are some good 28:03 I see through a lot of them. They have always whinged. The bank manager to me that my husband 'got a thumping good salary' I agree years ago. Teaching is not a sinecure but I have little confidence in them. I have taught a subject and one of my pupils sang my praises and I was promoted to a higher level. It is a pity I view schoolteachers this way as quite often it was suggested I go into teaching. I don't have this attitude to higher education or adult education and I know schoolteachers who other forms of education. I saw serious flaws in the trainingof teachers and that is why I didnt do it. I don't think 31:52 teachers are trained well nowadays i can still see but the stress levels have gone up unfairly. Many people have stressful jobs with lower salaries. Teachers are too whingey with all their perks and seem to know it all and they don't!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@catherineventure3996 I can see why you feel that way. I agree that I didn’t feel prepared when I started teaching. Then when I started, I didn’t feel supported at all by administration. I would send a student to the office for their behavior and they would return with a lollipop. That type of stuff tends to make it kind of a slippery slope for teachers, where they just try so many strategies and none of them seem to work, or some work but they’re then told that’s not the way they should do things. It’s kind of a damned if you do, damned if you don’t type of thing. As far as the pay, compared to other jobs that don’t require degrees or extensive requirements, sure, teachers make more. But teaching does require a degree, lots of training, tests, etc, so compared to other actual PROFESSIONAL jobs, the pay does not come even close. So for the all the hoops you have to jump through to even qualify to find a job, it doesn’t make it worth it. Especially considering student loan debt.

[@nuhabashir1672]

I just started my teaching and i am regretting it. I want to leave but dont know what job to do

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I’ve noticed that teachers are often pigeonholed. There are so many softskills that teachers have that make them ideal for so many other jobs. It's really about learning to sell yourself, which I still haven't quite learned how to do either. I'm sorry you're struggling. I hope things get better or that you find what you're looking for.

[@nuhabashir1672]

@ProcrastinatorsProgress do you think not going into the job will give the sign that I can't handle it anymore ?.

[@nuhabashir1672]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress I feel demotivated and drained

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@@nuhabashir1672 You mean not showing up? Like taking days off?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@@nuhabashir1672 I completely get that. The was me the entire second year of teaching. I used all of my PTO days and then some. I didn’t care if my check was docked.

[@shaunwalker6651]

I'm a retired Home Health Aide, I took care of more teachers and teachers family members. Some teachers gave me respect and some didn't. My son is autistic and I beg for help for my son one day when I was as working to ladies saw me with my patients and asked me what my occupation was. I told them I was a Home Health Aide they told me that they were a Occupation therapist and Speech therapist I told them I wanted to work in the school system they beg me not to go in the system. I told them about my son and what I was going through with my son. It was told to me if you don't get a good administrator It was going to be hard on me. I love taking care of people. I move from NYC to Virginia and how they wrot my son IEP was sad. Never gave me words to help my son. If you work with different disabilities we do the samething to help your family members to and don't get paid nothing.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I’m sorry you had that experience. It’s true. Schools are just missing the mark, and we could go on and on about the reasons for that. It’s also true that a lot of someone’s experience working in a school depends on the administrator. So many people want to go into teaching/ working in the school system because of the schedule, but that schedule comes at a price.

[@retentiveguy7624]

Great this turned out as a happy ending story. If I could tell you where you might have gone wrong. Number 1 only being in 2 teaching jobs for like 2 years pretty much 1 year each may have scared schools away and also telling your 2nd school you were resigning after semester 1 may have lost you prospects in terms of recommendations. Very possible that since you were a 2nd year teacher lacking as much experience you were glossed over for teachers with more experience. In all honesty the hiring process is dumb and sometimes you won’t get acknowledged if you’ve got all the right stuff.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@retentiveguy7624 oh I definitely thought about everything that could have gone wrong. I didn’t make the decision lightly, but I 100% knew I was taking a risk. I also got my boss’ blessing (he was a prior lawyer who hated it and switched over to teaching, so he empathized with me), so as far as a recommendation, I felt fine, and considering I wasn’t planning on getting another teaching job, that’s why I considered leaving midyear. Also, I had two teaching jobs, but the first one I was hired in February and only to finish off the year. The second one, I was there for two full years. But yes, thankfully all turned out well for me.

[@loribrooks7964]

So glad she got out early! It’s not getting any easier, despite experience. This is year 20 for me. I want out now more than ever.

[@Lions_Roar-777]

What’s messed up is cliquish coworkers who talk about you because you have morales. They tell others how good teachers with emotional intelligence need to toughen up. Yet none of them would last a second if they had to teach an elective class such as music or art where we teach 20-25 kids by ourselves with no teacher aid (unlike them who do have aids). Education has the most toxic gaslit and gossipy environment of adults I’ve ever seen

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Yup. I’ve definitely encountered the cliques at schools as well. However, for me, the adults weren’t a major issue. For the most part, I enjoyed those I worked with, but I definitely understand where you’re coming from.

[@dorianmac7466]

I have encountered cliquish teachers also...The Mean Girls group.

[@YSuperstars]

Great story!! Thanks for sharing, Superstar!!

[@jeannedimon5284]

Adult ESL teachers are vastly needed at adult schools

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

This is true. Unfortunately, the pay is terrible.

[@akme2d]

I left 2021, one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

🙌🏼 🙌🏼

[@byeteaching]

Great video! As a former teacher myself, I can totally relate to these mistakes. It's so important for educators transitioning into new careers to be aware of these pitfalls. Thanks for sharing!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Yes, I definitely don’t advocate for jumping blindly, even though that more or less what I did!

[@AussieCat111]

Wow, your situation sounds a lot like mine. I'm not a mom to human kids (cat mom here), but I own a house in an expensive area and I quit my job teaching (because it was SO BAD) with no real job - and decided to teach music full time, self employed. I had enough students a month to pay half of my mortgage, that was it. A lot of side hustles later, I now run my own teaching organization. It isn't always smooth but I'm making a lot more than I did teaching and am SO. MUCH. HAPPIER. Wishing you continued success!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

That’s amazing!! Sometimes we just have to take the leap of faith! I’m glad things worked out for you ❤️

[@AussieCat111]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress Thank you! I think sometimes it takes things getting just "that bad," to give us that push to do what we love!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Agreed!

[@AussieCat111]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress By the way this isn't sponsored or anything, lol but I'm not sure if you've ever heard of Outschool, I've had a lot of success teaching there online and I'm sure there's an ESOL market :)

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

You know what? I have, and for some reason have just procrastinated on doing the demo lesson! I need to get on that on that. Thanks!!!

[@msliz-bw9og]

I'm glad you are gaining confidence and self- reflection now.. but a strong teaching program should have brought that out of you before entering the classroom. Definitely work on stage presence/public speaking and watch your filler words.... You are already well spoken...just some adjustments. Wishing you the best on your next steps.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Thank you! I agree a good program would’ve better prepared me, and yes! I’m actively working on both stage presence and public speaking! 🤗🥰

[@georginahatch3244]

Great work ❤

[@Meena004-vs7db]

Thank you SO much for this. How are you doing?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I am in a much better place now @meena004-vs7db thank you for asking ❤️

[@jackie_twirlsmarashlian6947]

love the steve jobs quote btw

[@victorialynn6248]

21- 22 school year was SO difficult. I have been teaching online for 2.5 years now but I still want to get away from teaching. It's just not good for my physical and mental health. I'm sort of dreading the 24-25 school year. Yes fear is the reason I'm still doing it.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

It really, really was, and from what I gather, has only gotten worse 😢 Work little by little to get your resume spruced up for other roles. I’m sure you can find something better. Teachers are well-suited for so many different types of roles, but you really have to learn to market yourself. There are lots of KZbin videos that talk about how to make a transition. Good luck 🍀 ❤️

[@szvqorwnpstahskypfwmp9821]

Good for you!!

[@moniquejohnson2465]

You are courageous.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Aww, thank you! 🩷

[@tzapp2372]

Hi. What do you suggest we as parents do when there's a shortage of teachers/ staff in public schools? I'm worried about my kids

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I’m sorry you’re feeling that way. It is a shame that that’s where we’re at with our education. In that case, I’d suggest you ensure that you are very involved in what your kids are doing at school. Ask them questions and look for evidence of their work. Reach out to teachers for quick updates if they’re not already giving you those themselves. Try to stay on a positive note with your kids’ teachers. That is very motivating for teachers-to have parents who care and are doing their part. Ensure that you are guiding your kids on what is expected of them in the classroom and I guarantee they will have a better learning experience. Much of the problems that are occurring is that the parents aren’t as involved and teachers are needing to teach things outside of their content area, such as basic manners. That, for me, was very frustrating. I hope your kids have a great school year and that you are able to relax and feel confident in their teachers and administrators. Good luck ❤️

[@tzapp2372]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress thank you so much!!

[@paramedicchrisbookseries]

My wife is very drained from her work at the primary school she works at, a lot of pressure

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

There’s definitely a lot of pressure coming from so many different directions. It’s hard not to drop the ball or feel like you’re often neglecting other things. I felt like I was giving my best to my students and then coming home and giving my daughter what was left over. Not the way I wanted things to be. I hope your wife is able to figure something out to make things better :)

[@txspacemom765]

I quit and went into the tech sector to teach. I also tutor for reading and science. So much happier and much healthier environment.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I’ve looked into educational tech companies, but haven’t had any luck. Glad you’re in a better place!

[@txspacemom765]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress thanks! Look up STEM trainer or coordinator.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Oh, I stick to ELA! That’s part of the trouble finding something. Thank you, though ☺️

[@txspacemom765]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress What about ELA that is STEM based?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

That, I wouldn’t mind. Seems a little hard to come by, though.

[@JaceTheReaper]

I also quit teaching; thank goodness. I loved at first, but the admin and all the bs behind the scenes made it a nightmare real quick. The kids were great, everything else sucked. I quit June 2024, now I flip houses full time. Not only is it way easier, but I make way more money from it. Don't have to report to anyone either, ever.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Wow! That’s a total change in field @JaceTheReaper ! Were you doing that part time while teaching? Congrats on gaining your freedom!

[@JaceTheReaper]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress yes, was doing it on the side before going into work. Everyday I would wake up @3am to make it happen. At first I was worried about no having a stable income, but quickly as soon as I went all in with real estate, I was making significantly more for less hours of work.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@JaceTheReaper That’s the dream. Reaping the rewards of your efforts, and not having to deal with all the headaches.

[@jeannedimon5284]

Adult school teaching is way better. They want to be there

[@moniquejohnson2465]

Question: Do you provide services for those who want to learn how to speak Spanish?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I do, my professional email is [e-mail] if you’re interested.

[@dorianmac7466]

I read the comments to your video; hard to believe what I read and the comments about your grammar....WOW! These were obviously some of your former co-workers who hate the fact that you made a courageous choice to better your life and they can't.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I’ve come to accept that most people are super negative and like to talk a lot without having skin in the game themselves. Thank YOU for being POSITIVE and SUPPORTIVE! ❤️

[@rsoto4156]

After 21 years teaching with MDCPS l learned that Dade County is the worst to teach for. Take it from me from my experience Broward Kelly Service is a lot better and even way better than teaching for Kelly Service from South Florida. Broward administrators and the school board staff are just a lot more organized and professional. And they don't hire young inexperienced staff members like Kelly Service from Miami does. Since I've been instructing for Broward for the last three years I've seen a huge difference.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@rsoto4156 Yes, I imagine that there are huge differences depending on location, but with the way things are, I hear crazy things from everywhere. I’m glad you’re having a better time at your new school!

[@BarryBrandon-mz7gb]

Many of us are surprised Florida can even staff it's schools.

[@georginahatch3244]

Side by side a Great book for esl

[@Creaserunner]

Congratulations 🎉 I have 3 years. It is so sad that the system abuses both those who see it as a calling and those of us who got into it later. It’s like being in a codependent abusive relationship where we stay for the children. The people in power know that they have a captive audience, and those of us would be teachers, and they take advantage of that. The other issue is most teachers are females and our society as we know takes advantage of that and does not pay females what they are truly worth. I have always asked the question do we really care about the children and our youth? that’s a rhetorical question of course. What is sad is that it’s the children who suffer and it’s really tough for us to see what is going on and no one listens to us and we all know that we will care and take care children. But at some point, the abusive relationship has to take precedence and we just simply need to leave. Anyone going into teaching or thinking about it? I would say no way Until the system changes if I was within 10 or 15 years of teaching, I would leave, but since I am near retirement, I have no choice but to stick it out. I have been over 25 years and the last six or seven have been unbearable because there are no consequences in our schools. This year I had two parents complain that I was being mean to their kids and they had them moved and I was reprimanded. I have been using the same consequence system for 20 years that I got from a master teacher who became a principal. I shared this with my principal and she didn’t care . Congratulations, and I wish you all the luck in your future future

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Yes, unfortunately people with the heart for teaching are taken advantage of. It is indeed quite sad. It makes sense for you to stay-you’re so close!!! I hope it goes quickly for you so you can enjoy your retirement after many years of service :) And you are right. The lack of accountability is just crazy. A lot of these administrators just want to save face, instead of actually teach. Unfortunately, I don’t see that changing any time soon. Thank you, and I wish you the best as well :)

[@ricksanchez2425]

Firefighters make good money been one for 4 years almost definitely recommend fire academy if u are looking for a career change

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Man, if I was younger, I’d be open to the idea of some more training like that, but man, I just don’t think I have it in me anymore. That’s great that it’s working out for you, though! Firefighters are def much appreciated in the community 🩵

[@BarryBrandon-mz7gb]

Impossible to be hired if you are of the "privileged" group. Quotas.....all about quotas.

[@YouTubeGalPal]

I'm so jealous 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Ohhhhh don’t be!!!! There’s so much backstory! Lol but truly, if you wanna get out, start getting your ducks in a row. I’m glad I did. It’s what I needed at the time. Good luck ❤️

[@YouTubeGalPal]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress thank you. 😩❤️

[@sharinaross1865]

So what are you doing now, if anything?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@sharina1865 I’ve been self employed as a teacher since Sept. 2022. So I left the classroom, but I do still teach, but in a very different context. I talk more about it at 19:00.

[@joed2444]

So what job do you have now?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Since I quit traditional teaching two years ago, I’ve been teaching on a freelance basis. Mostly esl to adults, but also to kids, some private tutoring.

[@joed2444]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress Ok. See, I need a viable option, as I am the primary wage earner in my family. There doesn't seem to be a job that matches the pay for my skill sets. I guess slavery will continue.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@joed2444 I am a single mother and pay all of my bills on my own.

[@joed2444]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress How are you able to do that? I am married and we barely make it by on our two incomes.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

Well, it hasn’t been easy. I had a bit of savings when I quit, so that helped me take the leap. Plus I still had three months of pay. I got lucky finding the family I started teaching. That provided me a lot of stability the first year after I quit. From then it’s been about finding more students and keeping them. I’m definitely making a lot less than I was before, but that’s a sacrifice I was willing to make in order to get my mental health back. This isn’t something I planned to do permanently, but more so as just something to keep me afloat while I get my bearings. The sacrifice has been worth it to me, but sacrifice is the operative word. I’ve had to tighten my budget a lot, cut unnecessary expenses and luxuries. That, to me, seemed more logical than staying at a job that paid me more but kept me miserable.

[@marmeedoll]

Get out of middle school. You need a mean streak, and a mean principal, and a nasty attitude. Even then it is marginal, just to survive. Middle school is the bottom of the barrel. 4th and 5th grades are the crown jewels, especially in a small school, best in a rural small school. There, the students are totally different. There, teaching can be fun, even in the upper grades. It is like going to a different country. Stay away from any large schools. Find a tiny school and have fun.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

When I chose middle school, I thought I would be “working my way up” to high school. Meaning I thought high school was the toughest. I was soon informed that I was WRONG. Middle school is the toughest.

[@babyboylovesmusic]

I do respect teachers a lot. However, there is no way it is a sustainable income or even worthwhile to me. I have had friends who were teachers but left the profession. A friend of mine just quit at a private school after 10 years teaching. Teachers are needed because without them there are no other ways for kids to advance. However, I don't think it is worth it considering the fact a person can get a job without a degree and make more money now. I could not imagine putting up with these misbehaving kids, raising these kids, crazy parents, and teaching to standardized testing. Plus, all the time spent outside the classroom and money spent for supplies and classrooms. NO THANKS!

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

100% agreed.

[@RogerMason-o8q]

Your graphics are UNREADABLE! White letters on a white background????😅

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I didn’t feel that they were, but thanks for the feedback.

[@danielgolarz674]

I'm the author of EIGHT DAYS IN AN INNER CITY SCHOOL the out of control OCCUPATIONAL LICENSING for k-12 teachers is chasing off teachers

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@danielgolarz674 Oh don’t even get me started on THAT 🙄

[@danielgolarz674]

I'll just say one more thing. A Harvard mathematics professor would not be able to get a job teaching high school remedial algebra without an ocean of red tape.

[@tiggs5591]

You only lasted 8 days?

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@tiggs5591 two years

[@TLmomofZAHS]

All the best to you and thanks for sharing. You are a good speaker but you used too...many "ands." That would one change could help your students.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

@TLmomofZAHS Thanks! Oh, yes! I am aware 🥹 that’s something that I’m actively working on :)

[@dorianmac7466]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress Please ignore the grammar police. I bet they are some of the Mean Girls you left behind!

[@NerakGreen]

Are you aware that you suck your teeth every 3rd or 4th sentence? There’s a pop sound whenever subtext shows up. I think that makes your teeth sucking every couple of sentences more profound.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

I was not 🥹🫠 but ever since I read this I’ve been paying attention. It’s not actually that I suck my teeth, it’s that I click my tongue on the roof of my mouth 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ShellBAtoms]

I didn't even notice until I read your comment - and then went back to listening to her video, with no problem. I'm too engrossed in her content.

[@dorianmac7466]

@@ProcrastinatorsProgress Again, it looks like some serious haters have made passive-aggressive comments to you...I think they are jealous.

[@AddOneMathTutor]

This will sound brash. It honestly sounds like your decisions around your career and training in education were hastily made and poorly thought out. I can see why you were especially grateful to quit.

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

They weren’t, but thanks for your hastily made and poorly thought out opinion :)

[@marleneschroeder4035]

YOu could tell she is a scammer

[@LizDC]

Thanks for sharing. ❤🫶🏼✨️💙🫂

[@ProcrastinatorsProgress]

💞🫶🏼