Why I have No Friends, No Wife, No Social Life at 41

[@gradpatat4057]

Being alone is not the worst in life. Worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel alone. Rather alone than in bad company.

[@rizenfly]

You are absolutely right 🎯

[@TinaSpeaks]

Truth

[@eddyvideostar]

Dear Grandpat4057. Well done.

[@notyourtypicalcomment2399]

@@rizenflybrother ppl are flawed, we lose ppl that is part of the human experience, however if u still want a wife and a family ntn wrong with wanting that, but just understand that obviously some parts will be rough, ppl are heavily flawed.

[@desireeeeam]

People who make you feel alone…oof. And then you aren’t, but you’d rather be, and every noise they make thing they do drives you insane. I’m so jealous of the actually lonely people; I wish I hadn’t chased affection and attention and ended up…here. I healed too late in life, and now that I’m happy with myself I still have all the messes of the past!

[@alexperkins8361]

Whoever said more money more problems got it wrong... It's actually more people more problems. I'm a single father and every time I let some one in they become a distraction from what my calling is.

[@merfn]

Facts

[@EminentPK-z1s]

Indeed😂

[@BenBisset-yc9qo]

Feel that brother

[@eii8794]

I can relate 100%

[@Tony_Kaku]

Exactly! There are people who always get themselves in messy situations and will always need a favor or money and blame everyone else as the reason. I understand sometimes shit happens but there is also knowing how to avoid those situations.

[@trevagraham1605]

I'm 47, married, I have three real friends, and I don't go out much. People are really just a liability.

[@rizenfly]

I glad to hear that, thanks for listening

[@nowchanlahkesis9691]

Lotta users be the boss of your gifts " never look like your dumb one sec or yeah'''

[@dah_goofster]

They can be an asset

[@trevagraham1605]

@@dah_goofster They can be, but more often than not that's not the case.

[@dah_goofster]

@@trevagraham1605 well if you think about any business that is successful, it’s always a collective effort. I think the trick is to figure out how to extract the assets from each person, if there is any. Might sound psychotic but it’s the reality.

[@RouxBeard]

I'm 40, no friends no family no spouse ever in my life and it looks like we're the new normal in America.

[@wesleywatson9514]

Luck you mate

[@PerryKim-s5l]

I’m right there with you too.

[@wesleywatson9514]

@@PerryKim-s5l peace and quiet is the best.

[@lutaayam]

I have some friends

[@memacharles129]

Yrs, definitely the new norm. Appreciate and love yourself and your own company. Priceless

[@nikkikraus8298]

Being alone and being lonely are 2 different things. Sometimes being alone for a while is the best move on the chessboard.

[@rizenfly]

Yes I totally agree 💯

[@beo_bred1247]

This one💪🏾🔥🤜🏾!!!

[@Mishy555]

Yup being alone and being lonely ARE two entirely different things. People get it mixed up.

[@robinnewton1061]

For sure!!

[@lstruggy]

Yezzzrrr! 🥷

[@john-lacherry]

I'm 81, alone my whole life. I'm still alive and kicking. Only child. I absolutely love being alone. I am my best friend.

[@daneyraju8433]

Are for real bro... or just joking

[@leelunk8235]

​@@daneyraju8433WHY DO YOU CHALLENGE HIM HEFFA

[@rizenfly]

Yes, very encouraging brother thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that 💯

[@leelunk8235]

@@daneyraju8433 ARE YOU FOR REAL

[@pizzahot133]

Rock on!

[@Omar-y9m7r]

I'm 48, burnt out with being socially deceptive, I'm a true introvert, no friends, no close family ties, and no social life. I look forward to work and running errands

[@jaydub7386]

Same

[@deleted5338]

@@jaydub7386 both of y’all would make great volunteers. You bring time and effort to the communities around out. We are social creatures, be careful you are not making excuses, if you feel you are, consider therapy.

[@omarisaac5189]

Wtf!!! You people need desperate help. That is not normal or healthy

[@micro_aggressor]

GYMMMM!!!!

[@merfn]

The same

[@Phoenixat40]

I'm 40 and I have no friends. Life changes and people change too as everyone moves on with their lives. If you're feeling lonely, know that you're not alone. You still have people like us on here.

[@joes4987]

Thank you for sharing, 38, no wife, no kids, no social life, and i truly love my life. Was always a lone wolf, wouldnt have it any other way.

[@lstruggy]

💯🎯 forever 🥷

[@ChrisJWatts504TV]

💯💯

[@AlexanderMatrix11111]

​@rotweilerscholar1181No thanks

[@waynek805]

@rotweilerscholar1181 Too often nowadays, the love is no longer unconditional between parents and their kids. Then there is the difference between love and respect (another thing sorely lacking in today's society). But yes, overall, having kids is important for most of us to get fulfillment and a sense of true accomplishment in our lives in the long run. Plus, with so many people choosing not to have kids, we are facing a real demographic disaster that many other countries are already experiencing.

[@AlexanderMatrix11111]

@@waynek805 So what

[@bigbad123321]

I'm 40 and your story is identical to mine. I joined the Navy though and not Army. Everything else is scarcely similar. No wife, no kids, shy, the few friends I have are all now married and so I don't get to see them very much these days. Keep working on yourself like you are man, I think that's the key. Over the last couple of years I've got myself a Degree and am looking for a better job. I've also lost 120 lbs over the last 13 months. I'm improving myself 1 small step at a time

[@TheClemt33]

Good job sir, don't give up !

[@bigbad123321]

@@TheClemt33 Thanks man, and thanks for sharing your story.

[@robertmann446]

120 lbs are you ok?

[@bigbad123321]

@@robertmann446 Yeah, I was very overweight. I haven't gone anorexic or anything.

[@RetireandGo]

You are making your way and I wish you all the best

[@astrahcat1212]

You're never alone when you're with your mind, soul, heart

[@rizenfly]

Facts 🎯

[@DIXIFREELY]

I've found that living this type of lifestyle is more peaceful and abundant financially.

[@heruthemaster]

Marriage sucks

[@TheCharr1981]

Exactly! You cherish more of your time and boundaries with rejecting most people nonsense, gossiping, mockering and childish behavior is despicable. Most people don't realize that gossiping and mocking people is a sin. My lifestyle is recluse to max.

[@jdocean1]

I have a 16 year old daughter. I’m always broke 😂.

[@TheCharr1981]

@@jdocean1 You have to learn about investing and remain patient for your harvest. Learn about digital assets like XRP, XLM, XDC and Pure Silver on KZbin. I'll tell you one thing most people are condition thinking that once you invest they'll get overnight riches. That's not realistic at all.

[@TheCharr1981]

@@jdocean1 Invest in physical silver, xrp, xlm and xdc

[@J.Strantz]

Nearly 34, no wife, no kids, no social life, my old friends from school/work are scattered around the US, no consistent contact. Thanks for your service.

[@hisham63polaris17]

Since Covid my social life changed

[@David4321-u6r]

Sounds like my life but only a year older.

[@AllergicFungus]

Im an afghan vet. I feel the same way bro! My only friend was a guy i deployed with, we went through some shit together... He ended up taking his own life on july 23, 2019. That really messed me up... Im moving to the Philippines in july to escape this damn place... Not gonna lie sometimes i wish i never signed that dotted line... Some of these folks living in the U.S are just spoiled. So many assholes here its unreal. Hope all is well with you these days... Take care bro. I subbed. 🤙

[@lovethyneibor22736]

hi bro

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening, I appreciate the support. Sorry to hear about your friend, sending my condolences. Stay strong brother I wish you the best on your travels💯

[@Beatles0223]

I'm 48, not married, childless, with exactly one friend. Why do we always have to explain ourselves or feel bad? Meanwhile, the married folks are beyond miserable.

[@sexysportsfan1]

it's not a bad life. I know folks who miserable

[@Ciskuss]

Why only 1 friend? I have friends and work but I feel a lot alone and wrong

[@tracym6652]

I am divorced, not exactly single but I was miserable when I was married. Don't want to get married again

[@ranganathprahlad]

Really marrying in this era would be fault for sure.

[@SmithyWesson]

lmao

[@samanthap.879]

I’m 27, married with a child and over the last 5 years my parents, best friend, best friends mom, and 5 other friends I held dear faded away. I have my husband son and one very close cousin and I am content because they love me. Quality over quantity

[@ShondaD_]

I'm 39, not married, have no children, stopped talking to my toxic family, and no social life either. But it's the best thing for me in this season of my life. I have to take care of my mental well-being. I'm alone but not lonely, and I enjoy my own company😊.

[@bluudynuckles]

being alone is good to help you reflect i know i dont want to stay alone im in columbia sc now where are from/ at i think u can use a hug hehee

[@rickman2267]

Me too

[@Gamer-k2l]

I'm too reliant on my family/ mother that's toxic. I'm currently 23 planning on leaving this environment in my 30s, but I also don't have a social life & no friends, so I can't wait for it, honestly. It's either living in this environment for now or being homeless for me. I don't know how to drive yet, so I feel stuck w multiple mental health/illness issues & no money... But I'm trying it's just feel hopeless sorry for complaining this much I hope you all can understand my situation I'm in.

[@Ty-op5xr]

@@Gamer-k2lgo to community college bro there’s friends there

[@MrRepsMrReps]

@3d...p Start travelling and get into your passions. Family can be like leeches love them from a far.

[@gamesmoney1025]

Im currently 37 and barely have any of that. To be honest Im sick of most people.

[@2PaweL]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@Lonqpress]

💯

[@gamesmoney1025]

Nowadays I barely talk to anybody unless I have to but other than that I keep to myself.... Eversince I did that, I've had a peace of mind. It gets lonely but I'll take that over dealing with drama, stupidity, and disrespect

[@fence22]

​@@gamesmoney1025I know the feeling so well😂

[@inthelight565]

Maybe somebody sick of you to! Get off your high horse.

[@sixslinger9951]

I'm 59, no wife, no kids, no friends, no pets, no social life. I haven't even been with a woman in over 20 years. And the last serious girlfriend was in 1991. You're not alone in this.

[@Elena-n5d]

❤

[@jonathannyamweya4940]

Why have you not been with a women for 20 years?I can understand for being single since 1991, but not been with a women since 2000 is extremely ridiculous, unless you are either experiencing a mental or a medical condition. Sex is good bro both for your mental, physical and stress relieving aspects. Bro, do not live like that since it is not good for your health, especially now you are heading to your 60s. Do not let people tell you otherwise. Stay safe bro.

[@patriciamkandawire7614]

Its not ridiculous ​@@jonathannyamweya4940

[@kdcarter9443]

​@@jonathannyamweya4940😂😂😂 facts

[@eddyvideostar]

@@jonathannyamweya4940 To Jonathanny 4940: Sex stymies spirituality. Sin solidifies stress. One cannot marry without sufficient knowledge only to satisfy silly urges. ------------ Desperation instead of discernment will detract from finding the true religion, where a significant spouse will help solidify a satisfying spiritual path. A spouse should be sought from serious sincere sources: serving the same God.

[@marycrowley1442]

Being betrayed by someone you thought was your friend or someone you thought loved you and would be there for you is one of the worst feelings one can experience. It is a hard gut punch.

[@rizenfly]

Indeed it is 🎯

[@gma729]

Happened to me too Bro. My gf. She went from a Dream from Heaven, to 8 months later xa Malevolent Demon from hell. She literally tried to destroy my life, instead she ruined hers, her New bf bailed her out of jail recently. But she's facing 6 felony charges come August. Good Riddance

[@YeseniaCargill721]

@@gma729 dude you're ex gf sounds like a terrible person who seriously makes someone's life a living nightmare like that she seems like the type of person who has no respect for anyone at all

[@tommiejackson-zd4dl]

Trust me Im living it now betrayal

[@thinktankindi2664]

I used to have a gang of so called friends. They let me down...outright betrayed by a few. I stick with my wife and kids...just casual friendships with a few. I keep some distance.

[@dawrekzorcist3372]

Unfortunately, this is more common than people think.

[@CraigAnderson-h2h]

No way is discovering one's essential aloness unfortunate.

[@unc1221]

In America and it’s unnatural as well.

[@MrSavageDOESITALL]

What u mean unfortunately

[@Mindyourownright]

@@unc1221I don’t understand how it could be unnatural here when everyone is such a fake, one-way, narcissistic piece of garbage in the US. I look forward to my alone time.

[@fufurabumbacka]

Why unfortunatelly? Its graeat.

[@Blu_Grease]

When you’re young, everybody wants to be your friend but when you’re older, It’s very hard to make friends

[@rizenfly]

This is very true

[@OGDelulu]

Bullshit. If you're different or smarter, nobody likes you.

[@thehotboywalking]

It’s not hard. Most adults just don’t go out enough. I go: Scuba diving Horseback riding Sky diving Painting Cooking class Pottery class Jet skiing Gun range Fencing Water rafting Swimming U name it. It’s 60 activities on my list. I meet dope ppl doing them all and almost all of them have clubs you can join

[@dannysummers4591]

@@thehotboywalking most of us weren't born into aristocracy to have hobbies like that, some of us are stuck in the 9-5 grind with limited time and money

[@OGDelulu]

@@dannysummers4591 and some of us, like myself, are so ugly that every time I go out in public, people recoil.

[@mrbojangles7996]

No wife, no kids, sleep great, no stress, no health problems, no debt, no drama, peace is priceless!

[@Donnell-m5x]

Yes it is brother peace is key.

[@mimosahoney5617]

absolutely!

[@vibezlogistics7453]

So u can't find peace with friends and family..come on..

[@MrRepsMrReps]

Traveling will add more joy to your life

[@MrRepsMrReps]

@@vibezlogistics7453 Family can be a great source of stress

[@flashgordo9485]

Im almost 50. Same thing. I just never been happier. No drama, no extra added expenses, no bitching, no disappointments.

[@rizenfly]

😎

[@smallwonder866]

I am 38 and as far back as I can remember I have been an outcast. I was severely bullied throughout school. In my adult life, I was hurt and mistreated by jobs and "the system"...I ended up homeless. By the time I managed to acquire some sort of stability, I was well into my 30s and I just couldn't relate to or trust anyone.

[@magerulz616]

Find a good therapist and start working

[@Raptify420]

@@magerulz616 Therapy is talking to someone who cares as long as he gets your $. Also sitting in a chair for an hour just to talk is the female way of dealing with issues, men are not designed this way.

[@magerulz616]

@Raptify-sh4kt trauma doesn't heal without professional help, talking doesn't solve everything but a great therapist will be much more than someone you just talk to

[@Raptify420]

​@@magerulz616 Talking, giving advice that you can get online for free and charging more than a hooker. Screw that!

[@Jim-x1i]

@@magerulz616 no it doesn't just stop your BS.

[@shawnjackson9337]

I absolutely understand, brother. I’m 53 with no children, no spouse and very FEW friends. IDK how tf I got here but, man…. I’m enjoying it.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate it, wish you all the best 💯

[@daphneytennard3267]

Welcome to the club

[@norgelopez1935]

Smart

[@guerovillalbaso2523]

You work at least?

[@bigbro8817]

If you were really enjoying it you wouldn't be here trying to convince us that you are truth is you need videos like this to feed off of because deep down you're miserable.

[@xBelleNoire]

Everyone isn’t meant to be partnered. If this is truly the life you want, enjoy your solitude. Do what works for you.

[@rizenfly]

Facts, thanks for listening much appreciated💯 will do

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

Agreed. I Had the Worst of The Worst *Parents* One a *Real* Socio-Path. The other one A - 'Psycho-Path' And... *Ex-Navy* Own Sister is *Bi-Polar & A Feminist* Side-Note; All of em' Have 1 Common-Factor ( *Alcoholis:m* ) Me: .... *An Introvert* (That got My education) Stolen By The Parents {-Mūnchen-by-proxy-}

[@Hello_Ladies]

No such things as "partners" unless you're running a business together. A wife or husband is not a partner.

[@ToniTruthArt]

It’s a risk to me now that I’m 36 with no kids only because it’s literally gambling that I don’t get a woman who wants to just put me on child support because I’m a working man and most modern women Love the idea of having a baby because baby fever but discard the relationship.

[@mschoy1597]

@@rizenfly Same. I'm also 41. No Friends, No husband and no social life because I WANT my peace. Friends do NOT exist. Once you do better for yourself, by yourself, they get jealous. Not everyone should be married and social life is a distraction from my focus on Divine Source. I LIKE being alone. I like my walks in the park BY MYSELF.

[@CuttinInIdaho]

Who TF would downvote this? 188 people out there suck. Thanks for the video dude, you seem like a good guy!

[@rizenfly]

Thanks I appreciate that 😎

[@hawkertyphoon4537]

who tf would downvote this... The type of people that Rise&Fly does not need in his life. The ones that should just leave him alone, and i guess they do so 🙂... all is good 😛

[@andreajohnson7955]

Why are you so upset? Ppl are not the same! So if somebody does not think that being alone by choice is the best thing since wrestling, they vote no. Simple as that, no offending words, just other preferences.

[@CuttinInIdaho]

@@andreajohnson7955 Because people like you suck...keep being a loser, it doesn't matter

[@_Eisley]

188 people who have friends

[@williambarber2523]

I'm 56 years old and I have been alone for over six years now and it's lonely but its a lot better than being used.

[@rizenfly]

I hear that brother, Facts🎯

[@angeliachandler1853]

I totally agree

[@versewonderstrikes5353]

🎯How were you being used? Just curious? Were you enabling someone? Were you being lied to. What’s the real story?

[@machida58]

​@@versewonderstrikes5353Humans are opportunistic exploiters. It's a function of intelligence and having a "social" nature.

[@Mighty-VizioN]

I was told that if no one is using you, that makes you useless. The point is to not be concerned about being used. it's a part of life and living

[@rickjay2011]

I'm 39, turning 40 soon... Divorced. No children. Your story is similar to a lot of us guys, who have trusted and been done wrong by friends, family, and ex wives or girlfriends. 2017 was my last relationship and after finally getting tired of being rejected and ghosted, I realized the only love I needed came from myself. I'd recommend reading into the Buddhist teachings regarding detachment. It's a great place in life to be happy in your own company, and no longer dealing with shallow individuals, just looking to suck the life out of you.

[@aaronchapman3]

Yep. 2017 was my last relationship too. After my wife left I just do my own thing every day

[@rizenfly]

You speak so much truth. Thanks for your insight words and for listening. I really appreciate it💯

[@Topsiekku]

Tarvitset Jeesusta et Budhaa.

[@marcusryan9129]

I'm going to check those Buddhist teachings out. Thanks 👍🏽

[@HarryClipzFilmz]

Read a book called the Stellar Man by John Baines. Great read my guy

[@asdfxcvbn746]

"Why I have No Friends, No Wife, No Social Life at 41" --- you won life... stack your money, stay in shape, date at your leisure with no commitment & no kids & enjoy your peace until you die.

[@rizenfly]

Alright Will do, sounds like a plan. Thanks for listening and for the insightful words of advice💯

[@teeaymusik9811]

But aren't we all made to build a family? Thats what im still asking myself.. And i know western women are a too high risk. But i cant get over this thought and i'm 35 atm.

[@MrSamadolfo]

get ur passport and go hit up the Red Light Districts and git u some

[@Jason-ip6wq]

⁠@@teeaymusik9811no, everyone isn’t made to build a family and not everyone wants kids. This is why so many kids aren’t raised right because people think they’re required to have kids, even if they don’t want them

[@lindsay3793]

​@@teeaymusik9811 Sorry you hate us western women.

[@ishimoto1597]

44, divorced, no kids. Happy, healthy, good job, on track to retire, no drama, no arguments, no getting dragged to some social event everytime there's a free moment, no in-laws, no taking care of a kid dealing with that nightmare in 2024, done with everyone. People are poison. Protect your peace.

[@moniquemariemuniz]

This comment section is so kind. Thank you. I turn 40 this week and I am single, no kids and my parents are in heaven. My friends are my 2 dogs and a bunny. They are loyal. I too look forward to work and errands. I think I’m still in shock how unbelievably cruel this world can be. I’ve been severely bullied my entire life but became worse as I grew older. Being alone is safe and can be very fun. Many blessings everyone. Life is what you make it. So make It fun. Even if it’s just for you and the animals🥰🥰🥰

[@rizenfly]

Thank you for sharing your experience, sorry to hear about your parents, sending my condolences 💐 I appreciate you taking the time to listen as well, and hope that great things come your way💯

[@Chris-ln6so]

Such a lovely comment ❤

[@flightkidd123]

God Bless You

[@Corleone007]

you look quite nice :) I would meet you. Where are you from? :D

[@tomjones6630]

That's trauma. Ever consider therapy? Others who are miserable will chime in and say it's okay to be that way. It's equivalent to the blind leading the blind.

[@PeaceNamawejje]

The comment section is therapy itself. Thank y’all for sharing your insights on situations like this, reading your comments has helped me feel better.

[@rizenfly]

I’m glad to hear that. Thank you for listening and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that 💯

[@rogeliomartinez9173]

Uffffff!!!! Best comments,or to be said at the best way,BEST COMMENTORS EVER😊...what a quality on these comments!

[@diobrando-qv3uv]

The reply sections are quite the opposite tho...but that's just a KZbin thing the reply section is always full of very mean and hateful people unfortunately.

[@kimcapaldi9328]

Totally agree 👍

[@freeindeed8416]

Me too

[@sagatuppercut2960]

Dude, I saw your video on another channel. I can sympathize with you. I hope you can find some REAL FRIENDS somewhere in this world. You have kind of personality that most people would like. Best wishes to you, pal. 🍀

[@rizenfly]

I appreciate that bro.. thanks for taking the time to listen and share your kind words. I wish you all the best as well 💯

[@outtahere321]

Thanks for sharing your life experiences. I'm almost 59, divorced after 17 yrs of marriage and have three children. I've been by myself now for 14 yrs. I went through the family court gauntlet and trust me you are better off remaining single, working in your career, saving money and just enjoying your life. We are in the last days where the love of many has waxed cold and it is just too dangerous for men to take the relationship risk in my opinion. God bless you and enjoy your life.

[@rizenfly]

Anytime..thank you for listening and sharing your experience as well, I will take your advice. May you be blessed also🙏🏾

[@tngerman]

damn … my life to a T i’m 62 divorced 18 years 3 kids

[@8corymix8]

Divorced in 04, 1 daughter who lives with me. Never remarried & have no time intentions of it. I work, travel a little & save my money.

[@brandoyouth]

hahaaa..just be scared man..ru intentionaly stupid or is that natural one

[@dubmatic798]

Came across your channel by accident. Thank you for serving our country. I'm 48 black man, have always been a loner. I can be social, hang out, conversate, date, but I've always been more comfortable when I'm alone. I've been in several relationships and literally have seen friends come and go. It all amounted to nothing. Now I'm just at peace. I love my hobbies and traveling and I happen to really love my Job/career. I've gotten more accomplished since I've made the decision to just stay single and mind my own business. Thanks for this vid.

[@TheKingdom-i9t]

Jesus Christ is the only way to everlasting life. He loves you, and He is with you. He will never abandon nor forsake you.

[@rizenfly]

Cool, no problem it was an honor to serve. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience. Glad that you found peace and I wish you good times ahead as well😎

[@ernstthalmann4306]

Stack money and get a Thai wife lol 😆 🤣

[@JeromeBundy]

Stop blaming Yourself!!!I'm the same

[@dubmatic798]

@@ernstthalmann4306 A Thai wife wouldn't be bad at all.

[@wabbit6653]

Takes a lot of courage to open up like that 👍. Most people are fake. As an introvert and older I prefer being alone.

[@TheFirstCalled.60AD]

I had the wife, social life, friends. Now I'm 40 and have been flying solo for the past 6 years and never looked back. Keep on keeping on brother 👍🏻

[@rizenfly]

I hear you, thanks for the support! I appreciate that and wish you all the best as well brother 💯

[@MomentsByMo]

You seem to have a sweet soul... and unfortunately a lot of people take advantage of that. Sorry you went through those experiences. Stay blessed.😊

[@rizenfly]

Thank you for the kind words and support I truly appreciate it 💯

[@kimboofdzners9574]

give them an inch and they will take a mile

[@oldbutbold]

I'm also 41. No family, wife, girlfriend, friend. Life is work, eat, sleep every Mon-Fri, eat and sleep every weekend and public holidays. It has been that way for the majority of my adult years.

[@mikeprice8307]

What you do for saxx?

[@yxkesss]

saxophone ​@@mikeprice8307

[@oldbutbold]

@@mikeprice8307 Nothing of that kind at all.

[@DA-qs4kq]

Online poker a plus

[@mikeprice8307]

@@oldbutbold wow you must want to rip through everything considered a looker.

[@Wuanty]

In the same position at 23. I don’t really care about socializing and meeting new people anymore. I’ve tried that last year and absolutely nothing came from it other than the realization that people don’t matter that much and I’m on my own in this life. I could live in a farm with my animals and be fulfilled.

[@patrickglaser1560]

Get that feed bag son... feels bad seeing these farmers selling land for developers

[@rizenfly]

I feel you, animal give off so much genuine energy and are real at all times

[@Apollothe3]

You’re 23. You haven’t earned your solitude. You have to get out into the world & make something of yourself. The lonewolf thing is a myth that will leave you socially inept.

[@NamesZKP]

@@Apollothe3 Says he's young and hasn't earned his "solitude" then says he's going to be "socially inept." Yeah if you're a gatekeeping pessimist just say it lol.

[@Apollothe3]

@@NamesZKPgatekeeping pessimist? You’re using a word & I don’t think you know how that word works. Socializing in person w/ others is like a muscle. If you don’t use it then it becomes atrophied & leads to social awkwardness & ineptitude because Humans are social animals. Why are you trying to pathologize optimism? Did the lonewolf comment strike a nerve?

[@Vurti0]

Thank you so, so much for sharing. We're different but in the same boat right now. You are brave and an inspiration. I'm 34. Cheers from Norway.

[@rizenfly]

You are so welcome! Thank you for listening and expressing your support. I truly appreciate it 💯

[@samueljava]

I'm 39, no friends, no social life, no wife, no kids, no pets,... and I love my life. Sometimes is hard but it is for everyone. This is a bless my friend.

[@GorryX3]

Giga Hyper Cope

[@WakaFlakaFlame777]

Get a pet homie

[@mdodo2380]

I hope you give to charity

[@Icarus169]

You do you man. Ignore the haters ❤.

[@marsisflat]

@@GorryX3suck a d man

[@yoelquilates]

"Be alone-that is the secret of invention: be alone, that is when ideas are born." - Nikola Tesla

[@rizenfly]

Very enlightening quote, thanks my man!

[@marcoAKAjoe]

Yeah until it gets boring

[@banginzaza]

It's definitely common nowadays. People don't give a fk about how's your day going. Not many hello's and smiles. And some are alone not on phones and internet. All kinds of lonely ish nowadays 😂😂😂

[@lsaye]

i understand what you mean by this, but look at how Tesla's life played out and you will understand that this is probably not the best approach for life. Its great for SOME careers.

[@Yujiro945]

@@lsayewell brother Tesla bro was autistic that’s why.

[@ysho2248]

You dodged a bullet with your Ex. As you said, go inwards and heal yourself. Forget the outside world for now. Learn to love yourself and build yourself up financially, emotionally, mentally and Physically. Don't worry about the future. Take care of the present as it is in your hands and control. This way the future is automatically taken care of. You have a very good energy and the right people will gravitate towards you. Learn from the past. You are still young. Do you for now and trust things can only get better. ❤❤❤

[@johnmcpherson3241]

You are not alone my Brotha!! I'm 45 I'm dealing with the same shit.. God Bless you and keep grinding, fuck everyone else..

[@rizenfly]

Thanks I appreciate your support brother, may God bless you as well 🙏🏾

[@MuzicDude18]

The fact that majority of people can't be alone is scary 😮

[@DevouringWhiteSpider]

If I couldn't be alone I would go crazy. Maybe I am crazy.

[@MuzicDude18]

@@DevouringWhiteSpider Same

[@williamyoung9401]

It's biology. Humans need social interaction like we need food, water, oxygen, sunlight, and gravity. If we're denied it, over time, we die...literally die inside.

[@jpscharged]

It's normal human nature to want to socialize.

[@weirdphax5406]

we were designed to be alone, some people are better at it than others

[@camronmoses8956]

41, one friend (which I'm wearing out my welcome), no lady, no job, no more money, and living out of my car. Literally waiting for my car to be towed any minute. Hungry, but I'm still sober. Crying, but still alive. The tough truth is life sucks. More so for some than others. Being alone sucks. Not being able to trust sucks. Not sure what brought me here, but I wish you the absolute best, man.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that and wish you all the best in your future as well 💯

[@micnorton9487]

Understand brother,, I'm almost at the end of the line here getting kicked out of a low rent apartment by an owner who is a prosperity Gospel phony who wants to make more money off illegal immigrants (which I never have a problem with, people come here to get a better life and they should be able to do that)... I haven't been homeless for a long time, I always worked when I could and treated people well and this is what it got me... And it occurs to me, that these worthless pieces of garbage who screw over other people just to get a little bit more money DO have something coming to them, and if he's going to create a person with nothing to lose, well then maybe he should lose something... It seems a real ignorable way to go out, icing some worthless piece of s*** and then exit stage left myself but I really don't have the energy to go through being homeless again... Hope something turns up for you 🙏🙏🙏

[@realbrother2795]

Call out to Jesus to help you bro he really can help you and change your situation if you trust him

[@D1Snr]

I feel you're pain. It's like hell on earth.

[@daneyraju8433]

Bro your ability to wish him luck amidst all the struggle makes you an angel... shine bright man... you are not alone jesus is always with you

[@technologic21]

I'm 40, no wife, no kids, no social life. My true friends I can count on one hand. People are a liability. Solitude is a hard won ally. I'm very thankful for it.

[@Donnell-m5x]

Absolutely right

[@wouterjansen4176]

❤

[@chris4321das]

"My true friends I can count on one hand" - that's how it is in life. You have that many? I teach my children that you can only have a 2-3 true friends, as friendship takes time and dedication 👍

[@devilsoffspring5519]

Lots of people around is good for hobbyist/enthusiast groups, concerts, sports, and other things that can be social like that. Nobody around is necessary for getting things done. Especially anything creative, you better not have anyone around because they will interfere any chance they get. Songwriting, building things, hell--just fixing your car. People around will interfere because that's what people do.

[@Cookieboy70]

I don't know. I'm in the same boat as everyone else here, no wife, no kids, living my life, etc. but my is in her 70s and she is losing the ability to remember things and is unable to open jars, bottles, etc. So I help her out in most these things. I've also lived long enough to see how big targets the elderly are for family/friends attempting to steal their money in addition to scam artists. I'm living my best life right now and it's a long way off, but I'm starting to think if how long I could actually support myself alone as I get older.

[@raym.7111]

Thank you man , I'm 59 and feel I failed in life , you've done things in life I could only be proud of , and wish I had taken a different path in life . Although I can relate to your situation, it is because of different circumstances , but it equals to the same outcome emotionally , being alone is not a negative in life , how others treat you and judge you is the negativity . Stay strong and stay safe . You are the only person that can look out for yourself, having a partner or friends and being a social butterfly won't set you up for retirement!

[@rizenfly]

You’re welcome bro. Thank you for listening and sharing your perspective. You have great insight, I appreciate the support and wish you all the best as well💯

[@sylvianpententner3051]

Married guy here with not a single friend, zero social life and loving it. Can't stand people, no interest in talking about netflix, cappucinos or sport so I'm happy its just me and my wife!

[@rizenfly]

Glad to hear that bro, I wish you both all the best 😎

[@machida58]

Marriage is the biggest crutch of all time. Lol.

[@sylvianpententner3051]

@@machida58 whatever works for you bro!

[@machida58]

@@sylvianpententner3051 Don't isolate yourself and put all your eggs in one basket. You never know when you will need *some* kind of support network.

[@machida58]

@@sylvianpententner3051 My comments are being deleted.

[@EmmettLBrown2015]

I'm 39 years old, I don't have a girlfriend or a wife or kids or friends and not much of a social life, I work hard and then I go home, I used to feel lonely but then I really got used to being alone and I made peace with it and I find joy and comfort in it because I have nobody trying to hurt me, I can be myself around myself

[@rizenfly]

😎

[@eclass96]

Same here friend...👍

[@allaboutcars4835]

How do you like going to those family events by yourself every year??? Your family is looking at you like, “hmm?” 🤔 💁‍♂️ And your neighbors are highly baffled 🧐

[@allaboutcars4835]

@@eclass96 How do you like going to those family events by yourself every year??? Your family is looking at you like, “hmm?” 🤔 💁‍♂️ And your neighbors are highly baffled 🧐 and look at you with pity.

[@EmmettLBrown2015]

@Randy_Richmond I guess myself, I'll die alone...

[@countpicula]

The algorithm brought me here. Glad you got it off your chest man. Keep at it.

[@jy928]

A few years back I saw I was headed for the same path. So I got a wife and got some kids and now they are my life. Wishing everybody who reads this abundance and prosperity.

[@ming-darhsieh9941]

Same here. Thought I would be alone, but life has other plans. Things can always change.

[@SpenceCurry]

No peace or orosperity eith wifeband kids. Jettison the baggage

[@lonesurvivor815]

Sounds very stressful life

[@DemetriceOwens]

Thanks! Ditto❤😊

[@jy928]

It’s very stressful. It’s the kind of stress that forces to be an adult male, and to be about your business.

[@one7decimal2eight]

There are 5 critical moments that impact a man's life. The death of your father. Getting your heart broken. Being broke. Being betrayed by your best friend. Realizing that no one is coming to save you. I have unfortunately gotten this BINGO, and even before all 5 happened I have been a loner. And as they have come to fruition, I have isolated even more. I love it, really. Ive had enough drama and hardship to last a lifetime. Now, at 45 almost 46 I look forward to my alone time to self reflect and not be sucked into the chaos that being around people brings.

[@rizenfly]

Yes brother, you are on target with these 5 things🎯Thanks for sharing your perspective, very enlightening. I appreciate that and wish you all the best as well 💯

[@maxburn478]

that's sad shit bro... don't let your down. Because all this happened for a reason. And this reason will make you stronger than ever, to help you find your true path, your own way, that one do you need. And it doesn't matter if friend or love gone, it's mean only one thing, they never ever be your close people for real. Everything passing, and what comes around goes around, don't worry about that. Today your on the top, next day your done, that's life and i feel when you come across these hardships, you will be grateful for this times. And you will find your one close man or woman, and it will be forever and it will be better than ever, just never change for yourself and this will happen, once again brother.

[@michaelalonso8852]

Same buddy same

[@tdon39]

Lmao y’all should try alcohol 🍷

[@MhokinMhokin]

4/5. for single parent child mother dying is just as bad. never had my heart broken, cause it had never got that far

[@DJJunkfoodJay]

Same here. No Friends. No Wife. Zero Social Life. And I'm very happy.

[@betht7591]

How?

[@ms.evegene]

😂 y'all stupid lol.

[@victorgrays6708]

I'm very happy to with what ever the most high has for me your health is your wealth if a family happens good but I'm not forcing anything it has to happen naturally

[@pimphandslik]

Are you really happy? Or are you telling yourself that as a cope? You don't even have to reply, that's something you should only answer for yourself.

[@victorgrays6708]

@pimpdoggydogg8670 I'm very happy most my friends died went to jail are on drugs I'm 41 good health decent job with the post office very happy I wasn't a victim to society

[@A_World_Full_of_Lies]

This is me as well. I cannot deal with crazy people in 2024. All they do is judge and hate on each other, They are full of pride and are narcissistic, cold hearted and careless. They hate the truth and will block you for speaking of it. Good for you for being a loner. I too am one. It helps me keep my peace.

[@drunkdrftr]

Yup. Culture wars

[@rizenfly]

You speak pure facts 🎯

[@Purple.1111]

Yesss!!!

[@lebkuchenmann2000]

The worst thing about that is, that I see myself becoming exactly like this, but I lose more and more control over it.

[@Marvinyoung-o6m]

Very well put.

[@Rottweiler300]

I am 19 years old and I have no friends, no girlfriend, only my mom and my sister, it is frustrating at times, at school I was also the odd one out and I suffered bullying, it is difficult to get out of the vicious circle In which you punish yourself for not being like everyone else, but it's a matter of understanding and accepting what happens to us, big hug bro.

[@rizenfly]

Thank you! Yes I hear you brother, hang in there.. I hope great things come your way 💯

[@Oldeagle66]

I'm pretty much the same and love it. I don't have to worry about anyones drama or problems and don't have to share any of my resources. I'm cool being invisible.

[@rizenfly]

Yeah I hear you, straight facts 💯

[@wildwhiskeywolf]

Facts

[@IgorMironov-rq4ye]

I am used to being invisible as well, for years now, just enjoying my peace, and trying to keep sane in this insanity.

[@alcatraz3603]

Bless you man. Everthing will be fine. Your health is more important than anything.

[@moxnix74]

Yes! Good health is true wealth.

[@patvicencio7394]

Im 43,divorced almost 20 yrs ago. Had a messy relationship some years ago. I have been single for about five yrs , alone with no friends. Miss my children and thats about it. God Bless you brother.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. May God bless you as well🙏🏾

[@daneoman1000]

I am in a very similar boat as you, stay strong brother

[@PAT3978]

Very similar to my situation. I’m 46, twice divorced with kids but no friends, no need to impress anyone with BS, only to be there for me and my sons.

[@itzkwame]

You’re never alone. God is with you.

[@rizenfly]

So true 🎯

[@alphasuperior100]

Where's he ?

[@julianthegrappler]

He’s not real

[@theunaccompaniedsenior]

Your "god" is a pervert.

[@frosty8244]

​@@alphasuperior100you have to except Jesus Christ first then you will find God. Read 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 it is the Gospel...... Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6. And God bless you.Greater is he that is in you than he that is in this world.❤

[@LashaThe]

I'm 43 and no friends, no partner, and no social life. After being with someone for over 20 years I found that a peace of mind is so priceless. At first I thought something was wrong with me because I really don't have a life. But Im so at peace with myself and Im ok with that.

[@rizenfly]

I appreciate you sharing your experience and for listening. You’re so right, piece of mind is priceless🎯

[@MM-zj8be]

I will be your friend.

[@MeetMeOutside]

Much respect my friend. Takes some balls to talk about this, you’re a good man, one step at a time brother.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks I appreciate the support brother 💯

[@yokiryuchan7655]

Friends? Social life? wife? WTF are those things?

[@rizenfly]

Hey it's crazy how life can be at times

[@Pazuzu-]

Its a bunch of P.I.T.A. that other people claim "you need".

[@2ndviolin]

It was a comedy series on television.

[@pointuout2020]

Me too!

[@JesusSavesMerciful]

Gifts from God of you are lucky.

[@Housestationlive]

anxiety is the worst kind of pain. fear to die alone has turned real. i didn't get any friend in 40 years and i don't expect my life to suddunly change within the next 5 minutes or the next 5 years...

[@rizenfly]

I agree anxiety is the worst. Stay strong, I hope great things come your way 💯

[@OnlyBanzho]

35 no friends black sheep in family, no kids, no social life, no social media life, too much wisdom. I’m glad you are here sir sharing this with us because you’re doin just fine.

[@vincentkennedymcmahon50]

😂😂😂 what a disgrace

[@OnlyBanzho]

@@vincentkennedymcmahon50 literally what I said lookin in the mirror today 😂😂😂

[@rizenfly]

I appreciate the support thanks for taking the time to listen 💯

[@tashasmith1191]

Same for me no kids no social media black sheep just me myself and I

[@LG-ro5le]

Social media is the worst thing to happen to this planet

[@Plagueis313]

Im 44. No friends, no social life. Just work and home. I always wait for someone to talk to me instead of talking to people.

[@Randy-kc9gs]

45, same thing, dont like to engage.

[@MrRepsMrReps]

Thats good you will attract people in a natural way

[@rserna271]

People never approach first .

[@damon7956]

@@rserna271 They're doing us all a favor.

[@lastxp]

Some 40+ have never even been on a date before. Availability can be an issue.

[@Malaikamuskan-v5z]

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

[@adhamsoliman-ue2kn]

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

[@ejmabrothers6743]

Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

[@יוסימניאק]

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

[@adhamsoliman-ue2kn]

Is he on instagram?

[@ejmabrothers6743]

Yes he is dr.porassss

[@Some_Joker]

I turn 41 in a few days. I have no friends, family, wife or kids. I can relate to you.

[@thedrunkenmaster1787]

I'm 36 never married, no girlfriend, not dating anyone, no kids, full time job as a truck driver, and I'm happy and content with it. I love my peace.

[@RickTheBoss98]

Bro have some kids I say they with slk respect

[@Eagles7sjn]

I’m with you on this, folks are on some other shit right now, I’m good.

[@lasvegasluca9509]

Last year, I was working full time, budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids. Now I learned how to make money online. Now am a SAHM, homeschooling, and making profits every week.

[@michaelandrenio993]

Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.

[@mirabellelia9996]

I’m looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you thing I should be buying?

[@lasvegasluca9509]

Crypto/stock investment but you will need a professional help on that

[@lasvegasluca9509]

She's active on face book @

[@lasvegasluca9509]

Kate Mellon Bruce

[@Biaggiotti]

46, no wife/no kids and living my best life ever. Wouldn't have it any other way. God bless.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for sharing your experience and for listening. I appreciate that and may God bless you as well 🙏🏾

[@Donnell-m5x]

Much respect to you brother I am 41 no wife but 1 child. I have major trust issues so I prefer to be alone as well. Protect your peace at all costs

[@charleybarley7148]

LMAO

[@richy_rude]

@@Donnell-m5x and more importantly, protect your bank account lol. 😛

[@meIanchoIia]

Cope 🤡

[@SweetJustice]

Introverts get their energy from being alone, extroverts get their energy from being in groups.

[@SB-tc2jr]

I hadn't thought of it that way - but you are right! That's why I "need" so much alone time, to reenergize myself. Because people are def energy drainers. Darn EVs !!! They want my blood !!! 🩸

[@rizenfly]

Facts 💯

[@manueladames5835]

​@rizenfly friendship needs time , why not start writing with someone and see how things go, with age our needs change and friends is a word , nay not be spoken lightly, it means loyalty and unconditionally giving love and appreciation to someone without wanna gain anything , especially not financial interests. I also spent lots of time alone, but that is ok, still I am open but with lots of time. 😊

[@philipdefrancisco7540]

Wow...this is one of those "ah ha" moments! I need to steal this to explain to others why I am an introvert! My best friend is an extrovert extreme!

[@wread1982]

I’m 41 and a millionaire never been married and never will, I have no kids. Get into growth stock swing trading if you want to have something fun to do 24/7 researching stocks and making money

[@courtneygostling]

I am 43, no wife, no friends, no dog, no car, no social life - but I have a canoe and a backpack and my axe. I am very happy. And dear Sir, I would love to be a friend of yours you come across like a good, decent and genuine Man. Thank you for sharing, thank you for not giving up. Bless you Sir.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks brother I appreciate that, may God bless you as well 🙏🏾

[@elsynjogu7578]

What you are missing alot😊

[@allaboutcars4835]

First you say you’re happy with no friends, then you turn around and ask this guy if you could be his friend. Everyone really wants to have friends, but when you don’t have any, you try to trick your mind that you’re happy.

[@Popkornsky]

Truly lone viking life

[@memacharles129]

Stay strong you are a trooper

[@MitsuKinG09VIRS]

I'm 34 in the similar boat ..I trust no one , just waiting for my ticket to be punched . It's already impossible to live yet trust anyone in this new world.

[@alexcarino3274]

Join the military create memories

[@mlb7583]

​@@alexcarino3274Bahahahaha Join the military? Bahaha Hilarious

[@alexcarino3274]

@@mlb7583 take advantage of opportunity instead of just doing nothing and waiting to die or punch out

[@ernstthalmann4306]

Brave New World

[@JonBlack413]

@@alexcarino3274he’s 34

[@seasons365]

I came here from Aba and Preach... I just came to tell you that you are better than 95% of the men out here simply because you're willing to communicate your feelings and to talk about your life. I wish I'd met you before I got married cuz STG I'd have proposed to you. Edit to add: I'm sorry the person you loved stole from you. That's unforgivable and ppl say I'm selfish because of my financial views but budgets and savings are really important. Good luck to you. Not every woman is like that, but sadly a lot are.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for listening and sharing your kind words of support. I really appreciate it 100%

[@DQ-md4jk]

I'm currently 35 years old , no wife / kids , no achievements , not rich and I'm questioning myself why do I even exist in this world.

[@rizenfly]

Stay strong bro, you are here for a reason…I hope Great things come your way 💯❤️

[@linfreepeace3419]

Because your parents didn’t have the courage to do what you’re doing now❤

[@KathyJo.]

@@DQ-md4jk you are still very young. You have a lot of years ahead to find your way. Best of luck to you 🙏🏼🙂

[@brendatate4159]

God has someone for you because He said it’s not good to be alone.

[@Aminah6623]

Go out. Talk to people. Don't fear rejection. Don't take everything or yourself too seriously. Minimize expectations. Be in the moment. The best way to learn social skills is to practice socializing in real life with real people.

[@copperridgegrow3940]

I’m 43 and am exactly the same way. No friends, no wife, no girlfriend, no kids, no social life whatsoever. I rarely even go to family functions. I have a couple of business associates I sell my organic produce to. Otherwise it’s just me over here at my little farm left to my own devices. I prefer it this way. I don’t even associate with my neighbors whose property borders mine. A couple from out of state bought the farm that borders mine 2 years ago, I’ve never met or spoke a word to them. lol

[@Manhwa-recapped]

I enjoy being alone as well and haven't spoken to my neighbors in years, but don't you think when you're old and barely can move, an start reflecting, you'll feel lonely

[@rizenfly]

I’m starting to embrace this lifestyle as well, definitely more peaceful. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and listening💯

[@jaym9675]

I'm 26 now and that sounds like a good life to me tbh. Me and my animals on a farm eating good/living the good life chillin

[@RashadJames-y3e]

@@Manhwa-recappedyes I think about me being older at least 7 times a day.

[@lisar.2549]

Wow, how interesting.

[@Winston0Boogie]

I love this dude. This is so honest and the production is very bare bones. Just a guy talking about his feelings and what he's going through.

[@droid4d279]

It’s honestly better to have a small circle even being by yourself is an awesome thing you control your money your time your energy if you want to go out you can do it once a month

[@Sr.Dusty-Leon008-da-III]

Stopped through to show support my brother

[@rizenfly]

Thanks brother I appreciate that 💯

[@pablodominguez8318]

I’m 26, Only Child. Lost my Mother when I was 18. The tough lesson was learning my mother’s “friends” weren’t actually her friends. I’ve reached a point in my life where I finally cut out the negativity & started to see the upside of being a “Lone Wolf”. I truthfully enjoy being by myself & not dealing with people. Thanks for sharing your story. So glad I came across this video 🙏🏻

[@rizenfly]

You’re welcome, I appreciate you taking the time to listen. Sorry for your loss, sending my condolences 💐 I hope that many blessings come your way 💯

[@MuddyZen]

You're okay my dude, I'm almost 50 and in the same place. I think that being here makes you appreciate the small things that are really the biggest and the most forgotten...

[@rizenfly]

You are absolutely right🎯

[@allaboutcars4835]

How do you like going to those family events by yourself every year??? Your family is looking at you like, “hmm?” 🤔 💁‍♂️ And your neighbors are highly baffled 🧐 and look at you with pity.

[@Ciskuss]

How you reached this place of peace with yourself? My mind doesn’t like being single and alone, it judge me all the time

[@24hourgmtchannel64]

I'm 58 and have felt this way all my life and tried to listen to others in my younger years about going to parties and events and being social but always resorted back to my default of being a loner. I tell others who try to tell me it's not healthy that it's just opposite of social people that need to reach out to their friends daily or they get lonely and board with the advantage of not needing someone else to make my day happy. At my age I no longer feel solitude is abnormal as long as one can work, provide shelter for yourself, pay bills and feed yourself, you are 100% normal to be the single with no friends or whatever you choose. I see many of us who aren't social tend to have pets and that's great.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for sharing your experience, very insightful. I totally agree with your point of view. I appreciate you listening as well, and wish you all the best 💯

[@CUNDUNDO]

Life is a journey to be experienced, not a problem to be solved.

[@rizenfly]

You speak straight Facts🎯

[@yannieboi]

I’m 30 and I’ve been there for the past 5 years. Starting to become the happiest loner ever.

[@don.3595]

I'm 41, now single dad after 15 yr marriage and end do to be cheated on as well as loss of friends over time...crazy how the algorithm aligned us

[@chad7694]

You think it's the algorithm but they know your life.

[@rizenfly]

Sorry to hear this bro, stay strong. Yes the algorithm. Thanks for listening and sharing your experience, much appreciated 💯

[@MrSamadolfo]

🙂 dont feel bad, its normal for all of us

[@southsidetherealest2860]

me too take care of my kids pay cs while they living with me still wating to go to court because they designed the system to swallow us up during the process but I wont go down!

[@aaronchapman3]

There's a whole bunch of us, man...

[@martinhodgson1996]

The way I experience it, growing up with a sadistic twin sister. Who has personally targeted me since a little boy. Playing manipulative games by deceiving my father. And weaponising my father against me. Using him to physically assault me because she couldn't. My mum scapegoating me and eventually turning the whole family against me. My life started out extremely over psychological, dark and threatening. Continuously surrounded by people impacting my life without my constant or desire. With no space to authentically find myself. I've grown up into a 43 year old who has over come a lot of mental health struggles, depression, suicidal behaviour. To have a solid job, my own house. Hobbies, my own interests, gardening and wildlife. I have one best friend I see regularly for out door interests and hobbies. Spend most of my time alone. Compared to how life began. I'm now psychologically healthy, enjoying my life for me. Enjoying my interests, enjoying not being abused, manipulated and used. Experiencing happiness and safety. Being able to determine life on my own terms. Instead of feeling my own life is continuously being ruined by the effects of others that I shouldn't even have in my life.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for sharing your experience, I’m glad to hear things have improved. I appreciate you taking the time to listen and I wish you all the best as well 💯

[@Professor__S]

​@@rizenflyincredible how much your story resonates with people in all walks of life. Thank you for sharing and God bless.

[@freeindeed8416]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq]

51, 3 millennial babies, no social life, stay to myself 🙏🏾, mine my business, pray ❤fast, meditate, gardening 💖, listening to good music 🎶 especially gospel or spiritual 🙌🏾🤗 and crochet 🧶 and knitting. This is where God wants me to be, more humbled and at peace. Grateful, My discernment is stronger 💪🏾 My faith is stronger,but still have to work on self doubt 😢 and low worth. I can appreciate the lonely, narrow road but it truly is lonely. I like reading Job ❤ and Esther

[@EPM-b7n]

I have family, wife, daughter, work, resposibility and a damm cat. You have no idea how much I envy your peace, I always find my self happiest when i'm alone doing my thing without any worries. In my life its nothing but stress, problems, spending, and i'm not happy. We do it because they depend on us. Your doing good man, keep it going.

[@rizenfly]

Thanks for listening and sharing your experience. I appreciate that and wish you all the best as well brother💯

[@markpw2613]

Just wish to add to your point. 100% agree. So true in all u say, great comment. However i want to say that if u are lonely by choice its an empowering feeling. If u are lonely because u cant connect with people or have anxiety or some bizarre quirks then sadly it sucks

[@johnaio]

As I read your comment, I got confused for a moment. I said to myself, "Wait a minute.....I don't recall commenting here before" 😄 My exact situation!

[@meneerknak1]

You have amazing genes man you're still looking young and healthy at 41. Relationships tend to work this way, it doesn't always work out and that's normal. Plenty of other fish in the ocean for you to meet. You're using your experiences to become a better person and I can only respect that. Find some hobbies you might like doing. It's a great way to meet new people and make friends or even find a girlfriend.

[@rizenfly]

Lol thanks for the compliment. Your words really lifted up spirits. Things have been tough, butI am trying to keep it pushing. I’m working out more keep my mind focused with self improvement. Thanks for listening and your support!

[@loveinautumn3978]

41 is middle age, people still look young in their forties

[@devilsoffspring5519]

@@loveinautumn3978 No they don't, I started getting an itchy burning scalp before I turned 13. That's right, a 12-year-old kid with a VERY quickly-receding hairline. Fuck Scottish genes. I wish I looked young at 16 never mind fucking 41!

[@axshnjxsn2571]

Hey man. I've been isolated from society ever since junior high. Not a single solid friend, girlfriend, or social group to be around other than various outings every once in a while through whatever job I was working or some event. Just turned 30 yrs old. Of course I have my own issues too, but I had realized back in high school that something just isn't right, or natural with society and relationships. And it's only gotten worse, I can clearly see that.

[@jayrob3]

What part of it all has gotten worse?

[@OGDelulu]

Ive been isolated since elementary.

[@axshnjxsn2571]

@@jayrob3 everything started to get bad about when the pager was just dying off, and flip phones were popular. People started becoming disingenuous, exploitative, and manipulation was starting to become a praised trait to exhibit. Naturally the destruction of trust and integrity was one of the many outcomes.

[@rizenfly]

Yeah like can be so complicated at time, stay strong brother. I hope better days come way💯

[@TallGlass-fh8qf]

@@axshnjxsn2571 I don’t know if you’re interested, but consider studying the Christian Bible about birthing pains leading to the last days (2 Timothy 3:1-5). An example of this would be the increasing frequency, intensity, and duration of natural disasters. Another would be the attempt to better human communication that has only backfired into narcissism. 1566 newspaper, 1822 computer, 1876 telephone, 1886 motor vehicle, 1893 radio, 1903 airplane, 1921 pager. All of these progressed individually overtime, until most of them became blended into one resource. Right now it’s mostly all in the smartphone, but sooner than we know it will all be in The Metaverse. Having all of this at our literal fingertips as early as childhood is too much for humans, and causes us to become self-absorbed. But when motivated by impatience or greed or the pride of life…this happens. Just my two cents. Take care.

[@jhoelvasquezzz]

I'm 21 years old, probably I'm gonna end up like you my bro, but I'm glad there are more people like me, I only hope happiness for all of us, cause our mind maybe put us in some bad place, but that's only thoughts, imagination, life can be more better for us than what we think, take care everyone like us, keep going brothers :)

[@rizenfly]

I hear you brother, stay strong I wish you much better days ahead 💯

[@warriordx5520]

Peace is priceless.

[@rizenfly]

So True 🎯

[@jamesmcglynn5825]

I’m an Irish man man living in Australia,14 years I’ve had my ups and downs like you. After watching your video I realise I am the same as you , I have been let down so many times I don’t trust anyone either . I think it’s a good thing bring on the real people !!

[@CraziFootball]

Don’t be scared to lose ppl big dawg, that’s a natural part of life. We all gotta go. Don’t let it stop you from forming and keeping relationships✊🏿

[@rizenfly]

Thanks I appreciate the encouragement 💯

[@zedbruh7212]

Thank you for sharing sir. This is what we need. Men need to be able to share their feelings and concerns and we should support each other. Dont fall for the status quo. Work on yourself and pursue your passions.

[@rizenfly]

Anytime brother..yes absolutely🎯

[@mementomori6315]

It can be hard out here sometimes. I learned the hard way everybody isnt good people and it took a while to learn that life is spiriual warfare and most people dont look inside. You have your health and peace and sleep with a clear concious at night, your already so blessed on that alone.