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[@Mark23Martin]

My brotha spend all the time that you need on you and your PERSONAL LIFE if stepping away from this KZbin can help do it that sun will shine bright GOD BLESS YOU my brother🙏🙏🙏!!!

[@tjhines09]

Hang in there, Brother! Sometimes things in Life can feel like punishment but it's actually a form of self-development. You got this! 👊🏾

[@OneVeronique]

Happy Solar Return. #69

[@patriciacoutant7553]

Hi Carlos, I stumbled upon your video and I know it was not a mishap. I am 68 years old and Oct9 is my 69th bday! First let me tell you I understand your feelings. You know you’re right life has ups and downs the way we get thru those times is by knowing that God is with us and that He will get us thru what comes our way. He has a good plan for our lives, Jeremiah 29:11, we just need to trust Him with it. Look it’s a bit scary bringing a life into this world! With it comes a huge responsibility! And you seem to be the kind of person who likes structure in their life and may be a bit of a perfectionist! I am too! Give yourself some slack! Pray! Ask God to give you what you need and He will whether it’s to know how to love your baby (which you will the moment you hold her in your arms) and also to give you a heart of grace and compassion for others. Usually where one person is weak the other is strong! You have a bright future ahead of you! God adores you so look forward to all the many blessings ahead!! God bless you!

[@Effortlesseaze]

I know from studying phycology on a spiritual level, studying myself and those around me, sometimes lack of empathy comes from lack of emotional support as a child when you're sad, mad, throwing temper tantrums etc..., but being praised for your achievements all the time. A lot of guardians don't support their child emotionally, tell them to get over it, don't cry, suck it up..etc this becomes a learned behavior, and as we get older we expect other people to do the same instead of processing their emotions to release them, which releases that specific trauma. This is coming from an empathetic person (I was not empathetic before) hope this helps someone ❤

[@krystalmarie5637]

How were you able to become more empathetic?

[@Effortlesseaze]

@@krystalmarie5637 I would say doing shadow work and not disassociating from self while doing it and substaining it thereafter. Doing shadow work connects you back to your true essence, which is releasing generational curses and or karmic debt if we're speaking on spiritual checks & balances. Understanding that your guardians/parents genetically speaking are just continuing the cycle of whatever it is that we suffer with. Nobody broke that specific cycle and I feel through understanding that, and doing shadow work, you start to become more empathetic in the process. A lot of people hold grudges towards their parents or guardians for what they've done, they just don't understand karmic debt & that they have to go through certain things to clear their bloodlines karma. The only way out is through. You have to go through the dark side.I know I got a little deep but I will say this last thing, we mainly incarnated in the earth realm to come back to our true selves and to clear our karma, but as you look around, most people are always trying to escape from their demons(thought forms) through work, co dependency, drugs...etc etc. But to feel for others, you would have to feel for yourself first because everything is always mirroring back to you what you need to work on. Crazy how the world really works.

[@sanrihoe777]

I love the transparency while also keeping your life private. I appreciate how open you are about going to therapy as a man. Conversations around men’s mental health is scarce and I’m glad to see that men have you as a resource. Your daughter is so lucky to have a father that actively works on himself, admits when he needs help, and takes time away when needed. I’m excited to see your transformation in the future!

[@jerrseyy1088]

You’ll see, something happens at 30. I had similar sentiments at 29 and life was doing TOO much. But I swear a light comes on, boundaries get stronger and acceptance of situations and people gets clearer at 30. It’s a beautiful time, literally the rainbow after a shitty storm. Keep pushing 💪🏾

[@RO2.0]

Yeah 29 was ghetto

[@Passportgoat]

ngl this is dope that you're transparent as hell with us. First thing is you're aware of everything so you on the right track. Honestly you're going through the exact journey god wnats you to be on. The sunny side is on the way! continue to stay positive! Life ain't easy at all.

[@dsoulfulone]

Thank you for being transparent. I hope you find healing and wellness. Sending you good energy and good thoughts.

[@QuwainBass-yv7es]

Man I’m proud of you for just speaking. This is powerful for us as men and black men

[@hersoleheat5425]

Appreciate the transparency. Congrats on your daughter and the move. Becoming a girl Dad I’m sure will organically help your ability to be more empathetic, but I’m sure you’ll continue to balance that well with others as you keep growing.

[@projectpushups7256]

I understand bro your a huge inspiration in my life don’t put yourself down to much you a motivator you have got me threw so many things in my life with your videos and I want to say thank you man.

[@altonpeques]

Thank you for sharing this man, I resonate with how you feel and it’s dope that you’re taking control of the situation in the ways you can. Keep growing!

[@iamjholloway]

Trouble and storms don’t last. Growing pains are never fun but will help you in the long run. Your 30s will be great. Digital hugs 🤗 🤗. Thanks for sharing 😊

[@alleviatecalmingrelaxation]

You are an inspiration to me in saving up to buy equipment so that I can start making KZbin, IG and FB content for men’s health content via similar daily life routines to yours. Life is unpredictable, unpleasant and great. A PLETHORA of exotic cocktails if you will. You will conquer. And I believe I will too. Looking forward to learning more from you bro. Your work here ain’t done 😎

[@2cool57th]

Chin up Carlos! I really like this video. I used to be a blk and white type person until abt age 35 when I realized life & even business (has lots of gray areas). I’m glad you developed the discipline of routine but bringing a child into the world is going to require lots of flexibility and learning how to pivot when plans change moment by moment. Keep a positive attitude and enjoy life. #Cheers to your baby girl on the way.

[@orlandophillips5468]

Thanks for your honesty

[@EricLamarc]

I had those exact valid feelings around this exact time in my journey. Hang in there. It builds even a bigger character, tolerance, patience, a new sense of empathy (when needed), and a new level of self awareness.... then you start to gather your full-full-full purpose.

[@SEOwithErik]

Dude, I can relate on sooo many levels to what you have been going through. Honestly, you are one of the people that I looked up to when trying to get control of my day to day life with building good habits. But even having a "good" routine and just going through the motions, we still go through the emotional swings of life that we either deal with or get dealt with. Stay strong brother. Love from Dallas!

[@agentgringo5238]

I hear you...Congratulations ..I know you must be excited on the future baby on the way!Sending blessings to you all. Don't worry about the rest..keep away from the negative. Focus on YOU, your girl and your DAUGHTER! That's TOP PRIORITY! Let GOD KEEP ON BLESSING IN FRONT OF THEIR EYES! Its your life NOT theirs. They don't pay your bills or put food on your table. You do that and more because you have talent, a businessman, smart and we all see that. Block people family if you have to from your social media. They are not worth it. The more they talk, the more you'll be blessed. I wish you the best my man. Love your apt in NJ. Im like 20 minutes from there. Im sure you'll find something great in LALA-LAND😊. I was born in Santa Monica. Looking forward on your next adventure. God bless you always and keep yo head up Brother! Sending mad love and positive vibes!👍🙋🏻‍♂️👍❤🙏🙏

[@jonaslabs]

Keep pushing, bro; it will get better. Thanks for this video g

[@iambrandonscales]

Praying for you bro 🙏🏾

[@Carltube-rr8fq]

Bless you for the honesty my g ❤. Always look up

[@breakfastclubguy]

All good bro. we all go through these times. Us as people have to uplift one another, so you got this, and better days ahead!!!

[@badeyemijohn]

Stay strong Carlos! Take your time

[@Blackk802]

Stay strong bro! Life can be a lot but you will get through it.

[@OsoSoulful]

Sending prayers and positive energy your way bro! Things will get better, best of luck on your move and we will be here when you return.

[@khalilsstories]

Appreciate the honesty fam! Keep your head up …stay strong 🙌🏾

[@Southern_Beauty81]

I pray everything gets back on track. Your videos definitely help me with getting my shit in order. Congratulations on your lil blessings and we’ll see you soon 💪🏾

[@TyriqJ98]

It’s great to see and hear from you on here! I think i actually appreciate the raw video honestly. Sending you and yours prayers Carlos. Glad you know the days will get brighter🙏🏾. Finding out about your daughter on your grandma’s birthday is definitely an amazing sign, so happy for you. I hope we as a community can lift you up just like you have done for us 🙌🏾. Congrats on therapy and your daughter ✨

[@IsaiahRTaylor]

It’s good to see you man and I’m glad that you’ve taken time for yourself. I appreciate your honesty and pray things get better for you , all love man🙏🏾❤️

[@iGotNEXT_Mack]

Happens to the best of us bro! Reset & keep pushing!! Love your content! 💯

[@jaquanshuford]

Praying for you brother keep prioritizing your mental health. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@pesoaresestudos]

Keep going man, just the way you are. You'll make it!

[@apha9756]

You got this, take your time and we will here for you once you get back with the uploads!

[@sjr_33]

You have my support brother💪🏼

[@calvinjohnson0223]

We missed you but we support you. Keep your head up. We understand.

[@faithdobson3983]

It's going to get better! When life is lifing stay positive, pray, and keep going you got this!🙏🏽😊❤

[@rockstarhulk]

good to see you on YT

[@dr.kurtjohnson1791]

Thanks god your okay. Was worried about you. Hope your solid.

[@denzellbutler4598]

Stay uplifted Los you’re truly a great guy everything will work out in your favor 🙏🏽

[@ASneakerLife]

we all just trying to make it right now bro.. it will get sunny! Keep doing your thing.

[@blissfultouchreflexology]

Congratulations again Carlos. Like you said, Socal may be just what you need, as you enter into this new chapter in life! 😊

[@politicasusual9417]

Keep going bro, we all here with you.

[@tamecajones6277]

Congratulations on your daughter! I understand you taking your me time but do not let nobody take your joy you got this and we all have rough times just keep praying it will get better.

[@JuzelHemmings]

Hey , it’s ok to feel this way it’s normal also it’s good to talk express itself like this , hoping u get through even though u will

[@stormiechantell]

things will get better stay positive , god bless you

[@TheUnusualGemini]

Welcome back…it’s refreshing to see you back. Even if it’s just for an unfiltered 9 minute update. “Life has been fucking life!” A word my guy. Much appreciation for the transparency. It sounds like you already know things are going to get back to brighter times…congrats on the daughter, keep it up, take the time needed, enjoy the west coast.

[@scy4c]

This is real for sure. I wish you the best brother.

[@lawrenceshichana]

Man I love your mindset. We're all tryna hack life but brighter days are coming yo. Trust me it'll get sunny & you'll love life more.

[@Tr0ytv1]

Take your time. You will be successful in any endeavor you choose.

[@ShanteyyonikaReviews]

I just saw your KZbin this year. Great content. Congratulations on your first child. I see it as the norm for a man to go through a phase while becoming a father, especially if you're one of those good guys who have a community of people that knows who you are.... some people who were once in your circle would play with your head a little bit because they might be hoping to be the one instead of who you're with. That's facts and predictable when you're in the public eye. You give great content. And congrats to both of you. Choye!

[@AyeAshley1]

Hang in there! Life is tough for so many just pray about and keep those boundaries in place. Y’all’s peace is so important at a time like this. ❤ Congrats on the new baby! This should be a joyous moment.

[@kristinrodriguezrealtordmv3434]

Life be life'in! Congrats to you for taking the steps and going to therapy. That's a major step and growth. Look into Somatic therapy as well. It may be a good supplement to regular talk therapy. Congrats and good luck on your journey.

[@blackjamesbond7488]

I hear your frustration I know what that feeling like I've been through that same phase some people have different ways to go through in your circle that you think that's going to help you sometimes not be the case pray to the man above let him know what you going through the most thing in this world is your daughter and I understand as a father my first child I want everything for but I have so much negative was coming my way I didn't know how to move thought I could talk to someone like my friends but that was no brainer everybody had these opinions that wasn't what I'm trying to hear when it comes to your daughter your first born you want a protector at all circumstances it's called keep on fighting keep on pushing it looks cloudy right now but it have to clear up soon you want a mission and sometimes things with jumping away we just need to learn how to move on the side and get back to it stayfocusd stay prayed up your meditation will show you how to get back to what you need to do take your time nobody don't know your life but you and God sending prayers your way my brother

[@chrisj9090]

I understand. Life can really be overwhelming at times.

[@GeneSypha]

Congratulations having a child is a beautiful thing! You got it bro!

[@bwabymafia]

I feel you in this, life really is awful. life has its really lows and some ups. You will get through this soon.

[@formula1555]

Raw. Love it. Nobody is perfect and you embrace every part of it. Thank you for being real.

[@SLUMPTX]

You’re gonna be a good ass dad man! Don’t over stress it! You got this! Y’all will do sooo great! Sending positive energy your way!

[@benedickaugustin2306]

Be strong Carlos❤

[@Pierre_Sylvain]

Keep your head up Big boy WE ARE with you ❤

[@dionmorehead2911]

I'm praying for peace with you Carlos and also for Gods hedge of protection around you and lead your steps.

[@pukkademps]

I respect your honesty and awareness. You’re going to flourish in LA because you’re your great work ethic and mindset.

[@haaaileey44]

Thank you for being raw. I'm glad you're in therapy it's so beneficial and I know you'll be grateful down line when you see how much more self aware you are. Also, keep God first and everything else will fall in line!

[@Ronice.Chantal]

Congratulations on your daughter! Take it one day at a time it's hard to have success and try to enjoy it at the same time when people want to act fake as well. It will pass like you said it all happened all at once.

[@starabaker]

Love the honesty and authenticity. Hang in there. I hope you can open up and be vulnerable for your daughter. Take care

[@luizdacostaribeiro9168]

I am here from Brazil sending all the love for you. I hope you back to your routine.

[@sulaymanjobe5931]

Welcome back bro

[@dt0924]

My brother I completely understand man were around the same age and I know exactly brother I do man just find that space man just have patience and keep consistent and dont burn yourself out but stay strong my brother you got this

[@Marlonothompson]

Appreciate the honest update. Definitely not the video I expected. Like that you seeking help and anticipating brighter days. Change of scenery can do wonders.

[@BossHogg23]

You got this! Take some time for yourself because when baby girl come those moments are going to come less and life will only get more stressful. Ain’t nothing wrong with speaking out. That’s the reason we’re here. You got us and we got you!

[@michaelday4059]

I can so relate even at 50 years old +....Keep your head up brother......We are all here to support....

[@moniloulou428]

moving is such a huge impact, its very stressful. I recommend the book Power of Now, it might help u deal with all ur situations rn. Good luck.

[@lamar3448]

I APPRECIATE THE HONESTY! And I’ll be honest: I’ve wondered where you've been because I like your content. So, some do consider you and your content. I’ve felt what you’ve described, and I encourage the following: TAKE YOUR TIME, Carlos, take your time, man. There will come a day when you will look upon these times and realize you persevered through what was ailing you, which may be grooming and pruning you to be what you need to be to become your best self. This may also help with you developing empathy as you mentioned, for you as well before giving it to anyone else. Forgive yourself repeatedly, and lastly, hold to self-love more during times too. It’ll tip the scales. Finally, congratulations on becoming a father soon. Enjoy the West Coast, too. Sincerely, Someone who extends 🫴🏾🕊

[@cyrellroberson9698]

Hang in there bro. I can see the anxiety in you. Hmu if you’re looking for a therapist on the west coast. I got you man.

[@JesseW751]

Be Strong Bro.

[@kiekeyz]

This vid is too real. Hang in there brodie.

[@zystrowder12]

Your true supporters will be here when you’re ready bro. Take care of you so you can be the best version of yourself for you and your daughter. You’re human, everyone needs a break from all the bullshit life throws at you.

[@ladyrenaethomasjames]

Take the time to need The real ones in your community will understand. I’m also in therapy because I lack empathy and it’s helping. So there are brighter days in your future where that is concerned. There is a quote that says “Nothing lasts forever” meaning things change. Bright 🌞 days are ahead brother, it may be gloomy but when the lessons from these gloomy days start to unfold you’ll go ahh and it’ll all make sense then. BOUNDARIES ARE IMPORTANT ‼️ I’m staying positive for you and your girlfriend during these challenging times. Love you both 🤎

[@lilperky471]

Love you bro ❤

[@ash_happiness4943]

you have been missed but your supporters understand...❤

[@2881tjj]

I love your videos but you have to go with the flow of life. I’m an artist and I get that. People don’t understand that if your heart isn’t in it, the creation isn’t going to be worth it. Keep taking your time and giving yourself grace through the process.

[@jewelparker266]

Hang in there Bro. You're in a time of transition so give yourself some grace.

[@frankieslight]

You need a break my brother. Creator Burn out. Currently going through the same thing. Stay strong and God speed.

[@shawnhazel4110]

Congratulations 🏆🫡🏆

[@ChelseaAriel]

Congratulations on becoming a father! 🎉 We share the same birthday and when I tell you I feel like ppl misunderstand us so much. To the point where other ppl irritate me 80% of the time. So when you were explaining your story I related to it so much.

[@joshuamay1341]

You got this bro. Keep going dont look back. We're all in this together. And Congratulations on being a father. 💯

[@williamsokpukpara6535]

The Lord is your strength fam

[@dgbydan]

Before rainbows come showers brother. You got this 💪

[@SeeYouOutsideShow]

❤

[@KasePrince]

Jesus saved me whenI was at my lowest I had ever been. Hope you find your way brother, God bless and stay safe!

[@user-tk1hm3cg4z]

🙏🏿

[@tajapickett]

Truth… ❤

[@AA-nj2ni]

To sum up video: Cuz it doesnt pay as well as the other socials 💰 💰

[@lelo484]

Hi Carlos. I know that life may seem bad right now, but it's good to hold on to God and Jesus in such times. Jesus can bring peace within you during stormy days.

[@karabomasimola2412]

I thought you left us.... Bro😢

[@s.a.m-motivates]

I love when people we look up to are able to open up like this, my little take is when you come to the end of yourself is usually an indication that you need to talk to Jesus

[@david_jackson854]

15000 dollars a month, every month, bro paying that amount every month you already have a mansion in Africa. A nice big house in Lagos Nigeria or even in abuja or ibadan . In a nice quiet estate enjoying life . Y'all really need to come back to Africa. Y'all need to invest in Africa. The U.S should be a place where u just go to make money for real. Y'all be living fine in Africa but I hope things get well for you brother ❤❤❣️

[@kamirareed722]

Huggies

[@authentvisualz9278]

I know who can make it get sunny for you the person is JESUS CHRIST trust me I was In this gloomy times but he helped me out thanks and stay blessed sir