Why I left teaching

Talking about why I left teaching. Why I quit teaching and why I quit teaching elementary school. Why I quit teaching is something I never thought I'd do.
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[@ArtistFormallyKnownasMC]

Don’t apologize, we need to hear these stories. We have to bottle up so much. We don’t need cameras in the classrooms on teachers, we need it on administrators and school board members!

[@dskywalker3397]

Truth! Administrators are the problem. They rule with fear.

[@SallieandSamStyle]

Teachers are realizing their worth…never forget how they have treated us during the pandemic…there is not enough teacher appreciation gifts in the world 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@hotmessteaching]

You are right about that.... it's absolutely horrible what we're going through

[@naej.6844]

As an educator, it saddens me how much I resonate with this video! My school district bargained over a 1% raise for us. 1%!!!!!! How disrespectful is that?!

[@hotmessteaching]

Wow. 1% it's insane the way they treat us.

[@victorrivas2350]

@@hotmessteaching our district got a 3% raise. :) or :(, I'm not sure. I'm in the process of doing a Manual QA Software Tester Bootcamp. I find myself just seeing all these pitfalls in teaching now more than ever. Texas is now implementing a new rebranded and restructured STAAR test. I'm seriously flying blind, and sort of have a YAG but, eesshh.... it's hard especially when I'm the only teacher for my subject in my grade level. I hope you all have a safe and sound journey in your lives! God Bless!

[@maxinebellows741]

As a retired teacher of 35 years, I watched this with my mouth open the entire time! You poor thing and those poor kids!!!!

[@hotmessteaching]

Thanks for your kindness Maxine. I'm still in shock I endured all of that. After I filmed this video about 2 days later ... my body went into pre-term labor at 25 weeks. I think my body and baby finally caved under all the pressure. Thankfully my doctor's were able to stop the pre-term labor and I went on to safely deliver my son.

[@maxinebellows741]

@@hotmessteaching I'm so glad you have a good doctor! It was a bad situation and I'm glad you got out of it!!!!

[@suek9610]

It’s time for lawsuits. I am listening to many videos like this. Attorneys- please help teachers to get the attention of those in charge of these districts through lawsuits. This treatment is sickening and is outright abusive. The gaslighting is evil. I retired early and that was 10 years ago and have never looked back.

[@hotmessteaching]

I don't blame you one bit Sue

[@kristalpomerville4673]

As a fellow teacher, I am absolutely livid; I'm shaking watching this. God has and will continue to take care of you. Shame on this school and the entire district. I want to write a letter to the district!!

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you for your encouragement. I'm thankful to God that I made it out..

[@jjc6530]

You can write a letter, 100 letters, it won’t matter, nothings going to change.

[@johnlopez3996]

A principal is supposed to be a master teacher and not a master of teachers. I am sorry that you had to experience such a terrible academic year. It is apparent that your principal lacked empathy and grace for you this year. I would have documented all of those negative encounters and I would have had your primary care doctor or obstetrician write you a note to explain why you were in the emergency room. This way, the folks at your human resources would have understood that you were not abusing your sick days. You deserve better than this. All teachers deserve better than this as well. Thank you for your honesty. I bet Jesus would have started acting ugly if he met your principal. Take care.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much John for your kind words. It was such a bad situation that I'm still healing from, but I wanted to spread awareness to the horrible treatment. I know other teachers are experiencing it as well.

[@coasttwocoasteats]

I feel you. I Resigned this past June 2021 after 10 years because it’s gotten worse and worse every year and I don’t see it improving at all. Expectations increasing w respect and resources decreasing. Physical and mental health problems as a result of extreme stress. Zero respect or honesty from admin. Not worth it. Nope.

[@hotmessteaching]

I wish I could love your comment 1000 times. Yes .. I've experienced all of this. Now as I'm watching the handling of covid unfold again... it's even more discouraging. But I know I made the right choice for me and my family.

[@libertysprings2244]

Similar to the way they treat nurses. If no one comes to the next shift, depending on your state rules, they could hold you hostage making your shift up to 16 hrs long and threaten to pull your license for patient abandonment otherwise. As if not getting to go home to care for your own children isn't abandonment too. "many states stipulate that refusing mandatory overtime does not constitute patient abandonment. In order to safely navigate such situations, all nurses should familiarize themselves with the specific provisions of their state's Board of Nursing."

[@ElovesJ050205]

I cried watching this video, it is so unfortunate what you had to go through. While my situation is not at severe, the lack of appreciation and support across all levels has been the drawing point for me. I am looking into how I can transition out. It is just so unfortunate that this country keeps losing great teachers every.single.day, simply for the lack of opening up and listening to our concerns.

[@hotmessteaching]

😭😭 thank you so much for your kind words. I felt every word of your comment because I can relate so much... there is such a lack of empathy from our society and school leaders. I desperately want things to change because great teachers are going to continue to walk away. I don't blame you. You have to prioritize your health and well-being.

[@2000calleen]

I’m sorry you went through that situation. I went through something similar a few years ago and it was a horrible, dark time in my life. I truly wanted to quit…and looking back at the situation now, I really can’t believe I didn’t quit. I was able to request to move schools..which I did and thankfully ended up in a much better situation but the stress, anxiety, and emotional abuse that I experienced at my old school had caused long term autoimmune issues that I will likely deal with the rest of my life. Teachers give up so much and it’s definitely a fine line at times whether it’s worth it or not.

[@hotmessteaching]

Calleen...I'm so glad you found a place that was a better fit. I'm so sorry you are dealing with major health issues due to the chronic stress. It's so horrible the way people treat teachers.

[@francesharrigan1374]

This video is so hard to watch. But it’s the reality of educators in this country today. Thank you for sharing your story. I am a new subbie. 👋🏽 God has great things in store for you and your family. Be encouraged. 💕🙏🏽

[@hotmessteaching]

Frances, Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. I know that this is the reality for most teachers and it truly breaks my heart. Thank you so much for your support.

[@TheLastOutlaw289]

There’s hundreds of “Why I quit teaching videos” a lot of them are from the start of the pandemic…I been teaching for 2 1/2 years and I am feeling beat up already

[@hotmessteaching]

My advice for you ...decide now if you are going to continue. It's best to get out early..

[@misselateacher712]

I am so sorry this happened to you. It brings back so many memories of teaching my first two years. I pray you have a safe delivery ❤️❤️

[@hotmessteaching]

My first years were rough too, but this one took the cake. Thank you for your kind words & prayers. I appreciate it so much.

[@laceciawilliams2845]

I am so sorry you had to experience that. I definitely agree with you. Teachers have not been treated the way that they should. You are an amazing person and deserve so much better.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. I truly appreciate it.

[@vevp8287]

I'm convinced the American work environment is trash in general. They seem to want to guilt teachers by using the students. The same way they want to guilt health professionals by using the patients. If someone needs a day of, then let them have it! Mental issues, anxiety, depression, and high blood pressure are out of control in America. Jobs are definitely a HUGE reason for those issues.

[@hotmessteaching]

Vev you are absolutely right.. it's so horrible and I fear it's just going to get worse.

[@meghansibert7320]

So sorry you had to experience this!! I know you’re an awesome teacher!! I pray this time away treats you well and it will be a great time to bond with your first born!!!💜💙

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you for that Meghan. So much has changed since we began this journey so many years ago. I appreciate your prayers and I hope I can figure out a tangible way to improve teaching outcomes for so many teachers that are hurting.

[@HappyHolyHealthyLife]

Thank you so much for sharing your story and I'm so sorry for what you've been through ❤

[@thesassymathteacher]

Girrrrl - this is crazy. I’m so glad you are out of this situation!!!

[@hotmessteaching]

Thanks for your encouragement... I appreciate it so. I'm glad to be out..feels like a weight has been lifted.

[@rashidabrown11]

I'm so sorry to hear that you were treated this way. It's absolutely disgusting. In my experience, education in South Carolina has a lot of issues and terrible admin seem to hang on forever. I'm so glad you were able to get out!

[@hotmessteaching]

SC has alot of work to do in order to truly get it right..

[@alexandriaconnor8178]

I’m only half way through your video and I had to stop to tell you how I relate to your experience. On every level. Down to my bones. I’m so glad you’re getting out and I wish you the best.

[@TrishtonCarroll]

Thank you for having courage. Hugs and best of luck to you, the baby and your partner 🤎🤎

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much for your kind words and support.

[@ladylequvia7]

Sis I'm so proud of you and your decision. I'm so sorry you endured the stupidity of that district. Glad that you and your baby are safe. 🙏🏽💜💕

[@hotmessteaching]

I'm so glad we are okay too. Thank you for your kind words and encouragement.

[@bessgeorges3933]

You hit the nail on the head. So many parts of your story resonated with me....

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you for your support... It's definitely difficult.

[@shakeithadurham1824]

This is such a sad story. I'm so glad you made the decision u made. I pray you peace and abundance on your new journey. 💙💙💙

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much for your kind words and support.

[@tjones0991tj]

Thanks for sharing your story and being open about your experiences.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thanks for listening. I appreciate your support

[@daniellelove1373]

All the best on your new journey and congrats on the soon to be birth of your son!

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much! I appreciate it Danielle.

[@Tracie727]

I’m soo sorry that this happened to you. I pray that you and your family are prosperous and will have continued peace. I also quit a month ago for similar reason s and it was the best decision!

[@hotmessteaching]

Thanks Tracie... I appreciate your encouragement. I agree.. we definitely made the right choice.

[@SheedaVision]

It’s so sad that we have to endure this kind of treatment day in and day out. I’m glad you got out friend.

[@hotmessteaching]

Yes it so sad and my heart breaks for other teachers 😢....

[@jasonmathis6976]

I'm so sorry to hear what you had to go through. It's a shame when you have so much love to give those kids, many of whom probably don't get what they need at home, and your care and experience in your craft is ignored by a bunch of micromanagers looking over your shoulder who think they know your job better than you. You held out longer than anyone should be expected to, and in the end, it sounds like you quit your boss, not your job. It did my heart good to hear you are a person of faith and I hope you can lean on that and pray without ceasing. You are a good person, and it is my prayer that none of those people wil take that away from you. I don't know if you've had your baby yet, but I pray the very best for you and your family. I think your husband and baby are very blessed to have you in their lives. Way to put your money away and plan for your future! You will have so much in wisdom to teach to your child. Don't ever lose your kindness and gentle spirit. This country is so badly in need of more people like you! Much love from Tennessee. ❤

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you Jason for this encouraging message. We had the baby in September. His name is also Jason. I appreciate this message so much. God bless you.

[@dolcemusica4832]

This is the first I've heard of sooo many observations! Who was doing them? Principal? 2hrs long?? How is that possible? Did they not have other administrative work to do?? That's insane! OMG.... This is a nightmare school situation! I'm so sorry you had to go through this!

[@hotmessteaching]

Yes it really happened. I wish I was making it up. My principal would just randomly show up in my room and stay 1-2 hours. I didn't always get feedback, but at that point it was overkill. It was a small school but it destroyed my morale. Can you believe this was happening in a pandemic? We were also asked to update bulletin boards monthly..the ones outside of our classrooms in the hallway. I'm so glad I made it out alive. Thank you for your kind words.

[@mretaughtus2152]

Wondering the same thing. If you're in my room for 2 hours, we're co-teaching at that point. Or you're pulling a group.

[@englishwithlena4979]

Thanks for your video, I resonate with a lot of this -- 8 years as well. I just started KZbin with hopes of going in a different direction with teaching.

[@hotmessteaching]

You got this! I hope things work out for you.

[@carriekitchen5796]

Omg the absence thing… they can’t do that! You have every right to call out if you are sick! It does not need to be approved!! You are just giving a heads up. I can’t believe they said that to you

[@hotmessteaching]

It's still crazy to this day that this was the attitude they took..

[@kaytlinrodin1660]

I love your story. I can relate to what it's like to teach in South Carolina. I moved from California to teach in South Carolina and quit in 3 months since teachers are not treated as well as they should be there and the regulations they have when it comes to lessons are too much. I did have a lot of fake support at my school too and was not able to teach.

[@hotmessteaching]

I'm so sorry to hear this Kaytlin ... SC treats it's teachers horrible 😕. It's absolutely heart breaking and something needs to be done.

[@kaytlinrodin1660]

@@hotmessteaching Something does have to be done. I think it's ridiculous on top of it that South Carolina suspends your teaching license if you quit before your contract is up. People shouldn't be afraid to quit a job if they are being mistreated.

[@Ashmuff]

I live and teach in SC near Columbia. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Micromanaging is the worst. I wish all the best!! Find a place that brings you joy!!

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much! I truly appreciate that.

[@eleonoragf2737]

Sweet lady I’m sorry you had to go through that horrible experience. Best wishes for you and your family

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much for your kind words and support.

[@jjc6530]

My friend is trying to find a way to quit teaching. And to find another job.

[@hotmessteaching]

I understand this completely.

[@Lisa_1023]

💔 This breaks my heart 💔. I am so sorry this has happened to you. The insensitivity of your superiors. They're suppose to be helpful and they weren't. Your health, stress level, and sanity is important for you and your unborn baby. You made the best decision for you and your family. Praying for safe delivery. 🙏🏾 I pray for your district and those administrators. I pray God opens doors for you in the educational field. I follow you on Instagram and from what I have seen you are a wonderful educator. Be blessed because you're a blessing to many. 🥰

[@hotmessteaching]

I appreciate your words Lisa. It was definitely such a hard time, but you are so right. I have to prioritize my health and needs for baby.

[@laurawhetstone4128]

2 hour observations?! That is ridiculous. And the way your principal handled COVID is scary and you’re right he didn’t care about your health at all. How awful

[@hotmessteaching]

Laura it truly was a terrible situation. I'm so glad that I was able to step away to heal.

[@tonyacanada]

I am so upset hearing your story. God don’t like ugly. God bless you. So happy you were able to break free. Know your worth teachers. God will provide.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much for the encouragement....

[@staceyc0123]

You should think about teaching ESL online. There are many companies. Pay is low, but there’s minimal prep and no paperwork. No nonsense from administrators, and you work when it’s convenient for you.

[@hotmessteaching]

any companies that you would recommend?

[@everydaynote]

Hey girl just came across your channel, I follow you on IG haven’t seen notifications from you in a while. So sorry this happened to you. Seems like many good teachers are quitting. I just lost my job because of the vax mandate. Keep going! God’s blessings on your journey ahead

[@hotmessteaching]

Instagram has been weird lately as my posts don't reach all my friends 😒. I'm sorry to hear that you lost your job. What state are you in? I appreciate your kind words and support

[@GinaeMaul]

I’m so sorry you had this experience.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much. I'm on the road to healing and recovery...❤

[@Falconlibrary]

I once worked in a school district where I had to take a week off so I could attend my younger sister's funeral out of state. The head of human resources tried to fire me, and even sent me a letter to that effect, but fortunately, only the Board has the power to hire and fire. She retaliated against me in other ways. No one at the district or at my school ever said "we're sorry for your loss". Schools used to be a community, almost like family, and now they are cold and inhumane. That's why I regretfully retired after 32 years, even though I felt I had a few good years left in me. I feel so much better about myself and my life now.

[@hotmessteaching]

Daniel I'm so sorry you experienced this. I agree completely with everything you said. It definitely used to feel more like family, but that isn't the case anymore

[@laroyalspruiell7374]

Also left a middle school in South Carolina it broke my heart but I couldn’t tolerate the toxic environment.

[@hotmessteaching]

South Carolina needs to do better. The way they treat teachers is horrible.

[@alicea5]

…yea. Last I heard they aren’t even hiring teacher from USA. They are hiring people from abroad who will work without complaint. I don’t remember the film but it was a documentary of how USA is making up for the teacher shortage and cost by hiring internationally. And international teachers r willing because the pay from USA although is low by USA standard is must higher than their own country. I am also having issue with my job. Nothing bad about my employer and I am not a teacher. But goodness, I had never been told my leave is unauthorized when I am sick. It is great u left and not stay.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much for your support. I'm glad I left that place too..

[@adventureglo]

I am so sorry this all happened.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you for your kind words Glo.

[@RJN8580]

Dang I’m literally scared!! I’m moving to teach in SC in Aiken County. I was thinking of Columbia SC School District. Wow 😯. Middle Grades English language arts for me

[@hotmessteaching]

You will succeed, but it will be a difficult journey

[@RJN8580]

@@hotmessteaching I appreciate that!!! Thanks for the friendship on IG. I’m going to tour two schools next week to decide which one I would be more comfortable.

[@embodyingmysticalmac]

Hello, thank you for sharing. Eye’m sorry it’s so bad out there for teachers 😤. In future videos do you mind getting a mic closer to your face? My volume is all the way up but eye’m still struggling to hear without headphones.

[@hotmessteaching]

Are you subscribed to this channel?

[@embodyingmysticalmac]

@@hotmessteaching eye wasn't but now eye am :)

[@thekingofthisworld2154]

After 10 years of teaching Algebra I and II, I quit teaching last December. I went into finance in tribal gaming after finishing my MBA. I couldn’t be happier. Everything this woman is saying is spot on. It’s a dying profession. I’m starting to wonder what is the end game to all this.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you for your support. I'm glad you were able to get out

[@emeraldeducationalservices8229]

This is the saddest video I’ve ever seen about teaching 🥺 nursing is about the same

[@hotmessteaching]

It was definitely a sad lived reality. I can't imagine the heavy weight that nurses carry.

[@audreytyn6965]

Oh wow. In no other profession are people subjected to such demeaning observations. Does someone walk into your dentist’s or doctor’s or lawyer’s office with a clipboard and watch them do their job? I still experience so much anxiety over observations that I start shaking and my blood pressure increases… regardless of how it turns out and that’s not okay. I can’t believe you were subjected to so many observations. Your principal should be fired.

[@hotmessteaching]

I agree. I used to feel the exact way you described and even start sweating pretty badly from the stress. I'd try to pretend the person wasn't there, but I didn't help. The principal definitely needs to be fired, but so many teachers were afraid to stand up to him or even ask him why. Apparently, I asked questions instead of blindly following along and that made me his enemy.

[@brandonlightfoot5631]

I’m not even in education, but I feel disrespected, not appreciated, and not valued in the field I’m in, but the way you were treated and especially you being pregnant is just despicable, and unfathomable. My hat goes off to all the educators, and a lot of things need to change so that more teachers can come into the field and retain the teachers that want to leave, and teachers should get a major raise because you all don’t get paid enough for what you all have to deal with anyway, and whatever you decide to do, I wish you well.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much for your kind words. They mean alot

[@learnsmartwithalfred8263]

I feel gal...

[@hotmessteaching]

Sad situation

[@tonyaldorsey]

That school was trash...I'm glad I work some place with a stronger union...we only get observed 3 times a YEAR. I could never teach in the South....I hope you are doing better now...stay blessed.

[@hotmessteaching]

It was so thrash. Where do you teach?

[@gracevalentine1666]

The admin bench is truly pathetic. I’ve worked for 3 “woke” self admitted republicans, millennial aged. One wrote in his dissertation that white teachers should not be allowed to teach in the Southwest due to manifest destiny. That title is available on pro quest - another admin was in the papers for assaulting the supe, in Santa Fe 2015, and another was caught boffing another admin, by a student. These people evaluated me!

[@hotmessteaching]

Sorry you experienced this Grace.

[@toyshiajohnson8604]

Yes 🙌🏽 I’m in VA same here…..23 years in and I’m looking for another job…. I was sick with COVID-19 which I caught at school and they made me Zoom with my students the week I was out…so done 👎🏽

[@boatdoctors]

I had covid for two weeks. My away email message was " my family and I have covid teaching will resume when I return."

[@hotmessteaching]

I'm so sorry you went through this.

[@hotmessteaching]

😭

[@mrs.flores6620]

Wow. Thank goodness your out of there.

[@hotmessteaching]

I'm so thankful not to work there anymore

[@selemawit9411]

You should look at creating curriculum. Maybe you can make a difference more indirectly ! You seem so passionate and smart that would be great

[@hotmessteaching]

Thank you so much for this tip. I'm going to look into it

[@selemawit9411]

You’re welcome :)

[@selemawit9411]

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry to hear this. It’s crazy how abusive admin can be.

[@hotmessteaching]

Yes and it is really sad 😔

[@selemawit9411]

It is. I had a similar experience and I was a social worker

[@hotmessteaching]

Technical difficulties. Unsure of the actual problem.

[@tutor.coach.homeschool.8240]

One more what if... Teachers started nonprofit organizations in each county school system that implemented small class sizes for 2 hours. Involve child care and transportation facilities. Again making small class sizes. 2 hour sessions daily. So you reach 5 students every 2 hours. 8 hours a day is 20 students.

[@hotmessteaching]

I love how you're thinking outside of the box Brice

[@sarahgbadebo9415]

This is awful! I’m so sorry you experienced this! I wonder if there was racism involved, it just sounds like the principal had deep seated contempt for you.

[@hotmessteaching]

No. My principal was a Black man. Everyone is usually shocked when I reveal that detail.

[@jayj4439]

Why do they even require one to get a degree if they're just going to limit the specialists ability to teach in a creative, innovative way?? Especially when data shows their way doesn't work. Makes no sense

[@hotmessteaching]

They don't trust us.

[@97stonealex]

Ain’t no way, you are truly better than me

[@hotmessteaching]

It was a wild experience 😳

[@hayley1868]

Mam today I made a mistake in copy correction. I teach maths. There was a division sum the answer should be 603 as quotient but the child has written 63 and missed 0 . It was my mistake I saw the statement for that word problem and sent a correction mark ✔️✔️ and the parent called me and scolded me for that mistake and told me that he should complain to my principal about this. I apologized sincerely for my mistake and he said it's fine. But I am feeling extremely guilty and scared about this. I am in my first year of teaching. Please mam suggest me what I can do about this...

[@hotmessteaching]

I'm sorry just seeing your message. Mistakes happen. Try not to beat yourself up about it.

[@hayley1868]

@@hotmessteaching thank you mam.... Your input is very much appreciated 🙏🙏

[@MrsReed-lf9iz]

I wonder if teaching for a private school would be different.

[@hotmessteaching]

Unsure. I've never worked in a private school, but in my area the pay is usually lower.

[@munimathbypeterfelton6251]

@@hotmessteaching Yes, private school teachers are paid lower and have fewer benefit$ to boot. And as a private school teacher myself of over a decade, I can say that private school administrators treat teachers just as badly as do public school administrators. Sometimes the students do too! And don't get me started on (some of) the parents! At the end of the day, no matter what school one teaches at, there will always be politics, hierarchy, and other abuse bestowed unto teachers for no reason whatsoever! This is America: where teaching, learning, and education as a whole are at the very bottom of the list of priorities from the federal government on down!

[@jessicalynn4415]

Your absence is unapproved and unauthorized? You’ve got to be kidding me. I’m so so sorry.

[@hotmessteaching]

Thanks Jessica for your kind words.

[@parler8698]

You couldn't pay me to teach in a pandemic. Kids are germ factories. That's outside of the disrespect and lack of caring from administrators you described. 😒

[@hotmessteaching]

Teachers everywhere are experiencing this.

[@janes.623]

Difficult to hear the audio when I listened.

[@hotmessteaching]

Perhaps increase your volume. Thousands have heard me clearly.

[@emeraldeducationalservices8229]

Over two hours????

[@hotmessteaching]

Yes. I kept telling them that wasn't normal. They kept reassuring me it was normal for them.

[@jessicalynn4415]

2 hour observation 2 days after returning from 1 month out due to COVID? I’m so sorry.

[@hotmessteaching]

It was a truly insane time.

[@billba]

Audio is horrible

[@hotmessteaching]

You are horrible