Why I’m Insecure

[@evangelinemurphy1460]

I am so glad we are seeing Jake's personality more, he's a gem

[@DeezN00tz99]

hes such a wholesome boi

[@kab9706]

Jake deserves all of the love and respect

[@pepperment1]

I loveeee himmmmm

[@MelissaMasters]

The way this therapist belly-laughed when Justin hit Chris with “and how does that make you feel” 🤣🤣

[@jennaheck]

LOL jake as a therapist

[@Lipsie90]

Love how the owl is still involved in the podcast. 🤣 Don't separate Jake and the owl please. 😍

[@jeanferrante8401]

Jake's comments were so true. You are always reaching out to help people and I notice and everyone that comments on your videos notice. But I get it. 100%! Also, I'm totally going to use "baffled, gooked and begaggled" as much as I can!!!!

[@alessandravillarreal7131]

Hi Jean it's gooped - the other word is very close to a derogatory term.

[@kenidyreece]

the way justins gf’s name is justina just makes it sound like he made her up LMAO

[@jakechartrand7308]

It is so weird. I mean are you kidding. Justin and Justina?!!?!

[@h8chu]

Your podcast literally gets me through my overnight shifts. Thank you for that.

[@severianna9]

Yessss sameeee

[@minwah1]

All you can do is shrink your circle to the people you are a priority to. It's totally ok to move on. People grow and change. If you feel like just an option, and not a priority, just make them an option and not a priority. No conversation needed. Just a mind shift.

[@francescakirk4349]

Needed thisssssssss

[@frogsandflowerss]

I love Jake and people like him in life. Such an amazing person!

[@contentconnor1454]

we love you Chris thank you for posting these podcasts and making our days better

[@ryanparker8714]

love you chris!! you bring a lot of joy to people with your humor, kindness, and personality. i am so thankful youre a creator 🤍

[@alskdkfjghd]

i know that i express my love and affection for my friends through quality time, so i can get upset when i don’t feel they want to spend time with me in return. my friend shows her love through acts of service. for her, she feels resentment when friends aren’t helping her out without being asked. non-reciprocation isn’t always intentional, so you have to evaluate whether you’re being taken advantage of of if people just genuinely don’t understand how you’d like to receive their affection and efforts. the other thing i’ve struggled with is realizing that some people will just never be great friends and to take them for what they are. one of my longest friends disappears every time she gets a significant other, and it used to bother me a lot. i’ve come to realize that i can’t expect her to be the same friend to me that i am to her, because she never will be. i have learned to enjoy her company when she wants to hang out, and not put my energy into her otherwise.

[@kenidyreece]

jake is so funny haha, everyone in this podcast is but jake makes me laugh everytime bc of how effortlessly funny he is

[@TheEnthusiasticHobo]

I feel like in this episode specifically he just seems to pop out of nowhere every time he talks and it was absolutely killing me

[@karlanizhoni5748]

ikr. jake is so underrated

[@theyJC]

Justin looking at his fake watch at 0:30 🤣

[@taylorneumann638]

Love the openness and vulnerability in this one, Chris 🤍

[@sadly.sarcastic4023]

53:25 Lmao the friendship Chris and Junstin have is so entertaining

[@melissafletcher9475]

I’m painting my kitchen and I’m almost done but didn’t have the energy to continue. But NOWWW I can listen to the new unhinged to help me push thru. Thank god lol

[@tabithass]

56:32 why did the pause send me over the edge lmao

[@ToughLuckHaze]

Honestly there are so many podcasts that start off good then just get really bleak and boring…But YOUR podcast?! You could talk about absolutely nothing and it’s entertaining. You really do have a gift for gab and entertainment, i get so excited every time a new episode is posted.

[@Alexandra-ng1ih]

How Chris felt at the clothing show is how I feel every day with social anxiety lol

[@bigfrankentertainment]

Same Alexandria! I have PTSD and terrible panic attacks. Have to take hella meds just to go out

[@karlanizhoni5748]

same! idk how to stop it:(

[@shelbylorain14]

Speaking of those extraction videos, I have them pop up on my Facebook video spot all the time but it's always these weird ones with like the oddest music and this weird flower frame around it and sometimes the song will change from a very weird poppy love song to some country love song and I don't understand it

[@lilbbillzz]

I love them sm they bring so much light to my little life

[@BeccaGargiulo]

jake making his joke about billing chris for therapy twice because no one laughed the first time :') just want him to know i laughed both times

[@PHYSHY47]

He's such a sweet guy. I would love to hear more from him. He's effortlessly funny and I always laugh at his little jokes 😊

[@AllThingsHouseplants]

Justin: “it’s like losing custody and they send you photos of the birthday” 🤣😭😭😭

[@jen-heartofglass7339]

There is no hope for me, if you're insecure 😭 Love you Chris ❤️

[@ashleyn922]

i look forward to this podcast every week, thank you for being you chris ❤️

[@SerenaC4]

I wish I could be the friend Chris needs during the times of loneliness. I’m very available and usually love giving people attention who desperately need it especially in the ways they need them. I hope they find happiness and if for whatever reason Chris reads this and it resonates with him I’m open. I’m not a social media person but I believe that if you need you’ll find a way to communicate. I feel so much empathy when hearing the way Chris talks about how he feels and I’m sure I’m not the only one who listens and hears the same thing I catch unto. He’s a great soul and I I hope he can have a fraction of the happiness he gives others.

[@JamesJamieJam]

Pls, pls, pls don’t stop making Podcasts! I know it’s a lot of pressure, might seem tedious, and maybe like no one cares but you’re helping so many ppl through daily life by giving them the comedic relief they need, that puts a smile on my face every time I listen. Also, pls stop insulting someone I admire dearly to; you. You work so hard and I just get the feeling you never feel like you’re enough. Newsflash; U SO R! You, believe it or not, are educational and drop dead hilarious! And your natural sense of fashion is a gift! AND everyone has their own sort of problems due to their living situations and just bc you don’t have it worse than some ppl doesn’t mean you don’t have the right to acknowledge your own struggles in life. Truly, Your long time listener/watched of your vids, unhinged sista

[@1.ghostqueen.1]

Fuh! Why does this only have 60k views. Ugh I hope he doesn’t cancel this podcast I love it so much.

[@jadasaccount2281]

Jake >>>>> 🥺 And Chris didn't even appreciate his attempt to help

[@MissMillaMilli]

I appreciate your podcast and literally just every content you produce so much. summer depression is real and this helps and actually bette than my meds.

[@kloesanchez2506]

Found this video was posted just as I got home:) stressful day at work and this was perfect to see. Love you Chris!!!💖🥹

[@pico1753]

Jake talking about his matcha is so wholesome 🥹

[@Kuromichi08]

Regarding the friends not reciprocating, I felt the same at one point, till I took into account that everyone has different love languages and that doesn’t apply to just your romantic partners. Yeah, there may be some that don’t reciprocate at all, but I think that can be blind sighted or misunderstood by the love language of the individual since were more familiar with what our love language is.

[@aliisase3315]

god i feel so safe watching these podcasts

[@lauralellyn5439]

I have a prosthetic eye! They charged insurance roughly $6,000 and thankfully it only cost me $150 after all was said and done (surgery and whatnot)!

[@lilmoneyl5825]

Every time I open KZbin and see a podcast is uploaded I do a happy dance 😂

[@freebird3389]

Not just will it balance out, be careful with how much you give; When people are used to taking your energy and not giving back, it's their issue, but then stop giving out that much energy to see how much will be reciprocated. Give them a chance to show you. Then you'll know.

[@LBELIZABETH96]

Literally my life as a designer is just going “wtf” every 5 minutes. What you are experiencing is normal 😅😅

[@carlywyattbaldwin5040]

The entire pool conversation made me laugh out laugh 🤣 god this was so funny.. Justin & Jake were HILARIOUS this episode!

[@alyssagolden4444]

Thank you for uploading so much content I appreciate you keeping me entertained! you're hilarious, loving the new York street interviews and house updates most! ♡♡

[@iCharlyprime]

Thank you for being you and inspiring everyone that is watching you!! I’ll keep working hard on doing Yt myself so that one day I might be a guest on your show, who knows… ✨😌 Love you!!!

[@savannavimont8063]

Hey Chris thanks for making my day so much better.... currently in rehab and your podcast brings so much light and laughter to my life!!! Love youuuuuuuuu

[@vazquez.conacento]

Chris!!! You absolutely need to do a street interview on the ocean city boardwalk in Maryland. People are goin wild over here

[@juhnimation1738]

Spontaneously crying while eating jerk chicken and watching this video is my Euphoria moment

[@lspiel2537]

thanks for bringing so much laughter to my life ✨

[@mariadelsolar9885]

This was so funny and chill, i love the zoom calls

[@veronicapietsch8017]

Omg more of the Price is Right game please 🤣😍

[@cristenk7230]

We don't have friends either. That's why we're here.....watching the tube

[@pixie9499]

i do hope you see this chris bc this did seem to be effecting you quite a bit. this isn’t about to be some lecture, i just tend to overexplain to avoid misinterpretation. i think something thats important to understand is that not every one of your friends will always be capable of reciprocation and thats totally okay. much like what jake said, “real friends” will eventually show you the same but if you always expect reciprocation you’ll end up with more disappointment than you deserve. it took me a long time to grasp this concept bc i was someone who was 24/7 putting in effort to those i felt weren’t doing the same. it takes a lot of reevaluating every relationship and taking inventory every so often: are your friends as financially stable? mentally stable? shelter stable? if you’re doing something for a friend, there’s a big chance they were probably in need in that moment and most likely weren’t in a place to give back. i’ve also been that person, the friend that can take but can’t give. at my worst mental lows i cant do shit for anyone, let alone myself. again, just something to consider and potentially give some more perspective on the situation

[@AF-zx3uz]

31:53 the camera on the dad cough 🤣

[@melissaanderson8046]

Love when I turn on KZbin and there is a new video!!! Yesssssssss

[@jasminerenick4570]

My grandparents used to raise ostriches and now I have the overwhelming urge to get one from my grandma and customize it for Chris 👀

[@BeccaPatches]

"I don't talk to many people these days" Same

[@ghostangel333]

When my nana died, one of my teachers in college made me send in a copy of the obituary to confirm I wasn't lying.

[@qu33nofthegreen]

Protect Jake at all costs

[@templeshields]

I wish Jake was my dad

[@kab9706]

Chris treats Jake like shit. And Jake is so sweet.

[@MsHappiBunni]

@@kab9706 oh come on it’s just banter. Jake can take the sass and he’s obviously not bothered by it. He raised teenage girls so he can handle it lol

[@kathrynhenry4069]

Chris you picked your nose at least twice in the first 20 mins 🤣🤣🤙🏼

[@courtneyrose8562]

i love seeing y’all post 💗💗💗

[@thecaffinatedthrifter5499]

I was not prepared for that low-key growl Chris made in the sponsor bit in this episode.

[@AllThingsMadeup]

WE LOVE YOU JAKE, SAM, AND JUSTIN AND OFC YOU, CHRIS!!!!

[@katiehaber1687]

when Chris literally thought Justin had a prosthetic eye for a second lmao

[@JuliasMindPlace]

I almost crashed my car laughing at this episode so thanks for this one ☺️✋🏻

[@giordanopaoli9934]

why are weapons more affordable than hearing aids

[@melaniesue]

I can definitely relate to wanting the same energy in return!

[@ninaversluis4242]

“what has inflation done to the tide pods”💀💀💀

[@amyelizabeth7880]

Yay an upload from my KZbin BESTIE!!! loving the patreon content 😌

[@hayleewheelock6708]

I lost it at “& how does that make u feel” bye-

[@junkmoon-]

These zoom podcasts are giving pandemic 😂

[@mangomonet2464]

God bless Jake Justin Sam and Chris for feeding us today

[@beetee8447]

A podcast on my birthday! Happily turning 28 years young today.

[@caylanilisaengels1551]

Chris, you are in a stressful time. Don’t compare your stress or whatever to others! Everyone has their own troubles, no matter “what kind” of trouble it is! It should be about the feeling that you have, and not why you feel it. Hope you’re good Xx

[@itsAriJustAri]

Jake seems to be the coolest and Chris just kinda brushes him off. I’d say take in that wisdom cuz he seems like he’s the good friend that sticks around, that you are looking for.

[@jakechartrand7308]

Well, Jake works for Chris. He is his manager. So he’s being paid to be here. 🕺

[@thebrightest1230]

I mean it’s one banana Michael what could it cost? $10?

[@reewo3015]

Chris is kind of mean and rude to Jake

[@kab9706]

How do we get Chris' attention on this? I've almost unsubscribed before bc I hate seeing him be such an asshole to Jake. And Jake just takes it :(

[@kookykiddo]

yes agree, like every video /:

[@ciderbyte]

He's getting harder and harder to relate to, also. I absolutely love his content because I love his humor, but lately, he's way more bougie lol Idk just my opinion. Maybe Andrew was his rock that grounded him more lol

[@kitabarat1959]

you guys literally do not know the relationship they have lol. chris is jake's client - they definitely have to have a a very close relationship for things to work between them, and chris is literally like this to everyone in his circle. if jake didn't like their relationship, he would simply just quit. its obvious the entire group is very very close and banter alot.

[@kookykiddo]

@@kitabarat1959 this is true but the way Chris treats Jake as opposed to the other two is very obvious in my opinion. There’s comments on like every episode of people saying this exact thing. Working relationship does not equal disrespect.

[@soymarinavenancio]

hahahah justin is the unhinged one in the beggining of the episode: "that's what comes out of cows when they're on their period" ????? hahahah

[@heatherr9640]

Therapy for narcissism ☺️

[@lindseyorellana3809]

I listened to this on Spotify already but why not hear it again a second time while I work 😇😊

[@aleecelagunas2868]

Chris should try and guess the prices of baby stuff.

[@jakechartrand7308]

Sam! I’d respect you so much if you drove an Ostrich. 🔥❤️

[@SabinaThoy]

It’s getting hard in life. You give & you want in return respect you just want things to go right in your life. You know what I mean? At my age 40 I just want things to go smoothly everything is just a struggle for me.

[@donovanosis]

81 pods are $23 in Canada. That was sooooo off.

[@lilly.outson8026]

😂😂😂 When the affects of inflation get put into perspective.

[@georgiamoran5365]

You talking about powdered strawberry milk like it’s foreign is offensive to me it’s literally the only way I drank milk as a child and to this day I keep some in the pantry am I the weird one😂😂☠️

[@mrsfleury52129]

Fucking love you Chris. Keep being the amazing human you are 💕

[@averypoffenberger171]

“that’s the strain bro”

[@tricialankford7633]

My Thursdays are dedicated to unhinged and RHOB

[@halliethomas9904]

its crazy how you feel so insecure in this cause you literally look gorgeous

[@danielledriffill-shelmidin2098]

Give yourself some time you just moved across the country; love the pod

[@sabrinaashlynn3831]

Ya know, I understand your "petty/privileged" complaints honestly. Like you give so much of your time, money, and energy to helping other people with your platform, you're very aware of your privilege, and you've worked super hard to be where you are! You put out genuine content and you do your best to make the world just a little bit better. Plus you're paying all these people to do the house things for you BECAUSE you don't know what you're doing😂 the least they could do is keep track of the vanity you paid so much money for. You do you boo

[@jordanpassalacqua5416]

“Have you ever tasted it” 💀💀💀

[@jeanferrante8401]

Hearing Aids are so expensive. We got some for my dad ... $7K!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF????

[@loudchihuahua]

i guessed the beekeeper suit exactly lmao i’m fucked up about it

[@AAA-jz9rf]

the way justin & sam have identical noses

[@redd1799]

As a hearing impaired person… the joke at 49:00 is DEAD. From middle school until now as an adult, a hairstylist all my clients make this joke. lol just a terrible time

[@TheSuryp1]

I LOVE JAKE

[@jessicahedwall6458]

i feel you big time on the wish people would reciprocate more :((

[@jessicahedwall6458]

also justin is on fire today

[@jadeariellevaughn4695]

YOU CAN NEVER HAVE EXPECTATIONS FOR PPL - REGARDLESS WHAT YOU DO FOR THEM DONT EVER EXPECT SOMETHING BACK, YOU WILL BE DISAPPOINTED - NO ONE THINKS LIKE YOU BECAUSE THEY ARENT IN YOUR HEAD - NO ONE WILL LIVE UP TO THE EXPECTATIONS IN YR HEAD. IF YOU GO FORWARD WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS IN ANYTHING THINGS WILL SURPRISE YOU, AND YOU WONT OVER THINK THINGS LIKE THIS sorry for the agressive capitalization I just wanted to make sure he saw it (hopefully) lol

[@sadly.sarcastic4023]

YAYY I CAN EAT MY FOOD IN PEACE

[@victoriamayrose5219]

the nose picking and earwax 💀💀💀

[@alanna4916]

I literally just sharted when I saw this pop up " uploaded 1 minute ago"

[@jasmineletty]

Yeah I watch every episode but I couldn’t watch the first zoom one 😂