why I'm moving back in with my parents at age 27 (I am lost lol help)

[@rhianedd]

i’m 28 and just moved back in with my parents too, i felt burnt out and just needed to not worry about rent and things for a while. so i’m in a similar situation to you. it’s nice to know we’re not alone in this and it’s definitely not shameful :) ♥️

[@quirinebrouwer]

Ahhh I'm so happy you got to make that choice so you can rest and follow your path! ❤

[@penultimateh766]

"needed to not worry about rent for a while"?

[@rhianedd]

@@penultimateh766 what’s your question?

[@Raven629]

Me too❤

[@tessabergmann]

At 28, I moved back in with my parents to pursue my master's degree in literature and art, to focus on my mental health and artistic endeavours. So I feel you! It is frightening in what feels like going backwards, whereas everyone else seems to move forward. But I can tell, after this year has passed, it was the best decision I have ever made, although admittedly at first I felt like a complete failure. But by focussing on myself and spending time creating and writing, I have created a version of myself I am proud of and stopped giving a f*ck what others might think of me and my personal situation. It may feel wrong and scary now, but from it will flourish ideas and a new perception of personhood. Hope this message helps you feel less alone 🥀

[@emperorpelican8187]

kek

[@matt_lvl1351]

I was a creative trapped in a traditional career for over 20 years. Finally, my wife told me to quit my job when the stress was taking a horrible toll on me physically and mentally. I truly believe your heart knows what you want in the deepest part of your spirit and when you start to move away from that, it shuts the whole operation down, forces you to choose. I’m still figuring things out, and that can be terrifying at times, but the disconnect in my body is gone now. I feel like I am back in alignment with myself.

[@penultimateh766]

Are you in alignment with your mortgage company?

[@Marcus-rg7bg]

I think we're all being sent to safest place possible until these events in the world pass.

[@carajacobs7642]

It's scary how much I relate to your dilemma of having a 9 to 5 for stability vs it being the reason for not being able to nurture creativity and reaching your true potential. Lots of love from Antwerp 💞

[@quirinebrouwer]

It's the hardest thing! Hope you can find the balance and pursue your passions❤

[@Mimoz.]

I'm 27 and feelng the same about creativity/job/finacial independence. Sending good vibes and hoping for the best for both of us 💜

[@quirinebrouwer]

Ahhh I hope your dreams come true as well ❤

[@tonigenaro4541]

I am 27 and after living alone for the last 3 years I am moving back next month. My goal is to find a good job and buy my own apartment which is impossible paying rent and having to work at anything just for that without being really able to chose a opportunity calmly. I think will be better for my overall health. Mentally because I will be less stressed, tired and near my loved ones and physically because I will eat better and have places and time to exercise. It's been I while since i felt truly happy and I hope this change will bring back my joy of living. 🙏🏽

[@60PlusDebut]

Love this, "creative energy being drained at the other job" and to start with, creative people need all of that energy. lovely post

[@milkywaay9]

Screw all that social stigma, I moved in with my parents again and I'm a couple years older than you lol, you're not alone! There's a community behind you and we're rooting for you 💕 hope you find the calmness you're looking for and keep following your dreams/goals

[@quirinebrouwer]

Ahhh this makes me so happy, thank you for your words 🥹

[@like.lauren]

Wow, thank you for this. This is extremely relatable and I appreciate you having the courage to not only create this content but to put it out here for others to see. I too grew up wanting to be a creative but have lived on my own for the past 10 years (also 27) and had to focus on bills rather than the foundation for my future goals. I too am without a job/income and am planning to move back in with my mother. We got this! This is for future us.

[@Octaviacliosisley]

Yes! I am doing this too. And it's a privilege. I owned a home for 11 years. But my parents are older and i want to spend some time with them until i fond a great city to live in. There is no wrong route! ❤

[@kayjmal]

Thank you for sharing this with us! I also had to move in with my mom at 26 for a few months after a breakup this year, and all but one of my close friends who are also 26 moved in with their parents last year. I think it's becoming more common because of the economy and housing market, so try not to be too hard on yourself, because a lot of us are in the same situation. Wishing you all the best in this next chapter ❤

[@quirinebrouwer]

It's definitely something I see happening around me more often as well! We just need to go back to living in communities, haha. Thank you so much! ❤

[@AnaNavarro-wb3er]

I'm 27 too, i still studying...i also live with my mother, and i see sofar have my own independence...i have work i shops, but i need to many hours of studying that i only can work on weekends....I'm also creative....but i can't find motivation at all...still seaching for it! You've been so brave...we feel you ❤❤❤

[@leakecece9693]

Girl I just turn 27 and sad I’m moving back home…. I tried 😢 so hard but can’t afford to live on my own and not able to deal with room mate I’m burnt out I’m so embarrassed

[@Sweetinfernalcreature]

Life isn’t easy but you’re doing a great job! I’m so glad you have a safety net, a place to land and regroup for when you’re ready to fly again. There’s no failure in this, only growth and prosperity! Sending lots of love and positive energy!

[@quirinebrouwer]

It feels like that, I’m very lucky! Thank you for your kind words ❤❤

[@gianlucadelgadopires2882]

Following your dreams, finding yourself in them and literally painting your daily pictures are the essential purposes to strive. Your parents are the best allies in this world, you are lucky like you said because it is a family situation not granted to everyone. Having said that, I know you will rebalance your yin and yang and please share your journey with this crew. Stay strong :)

[@quirinebrouwer]

Thank you so much! I'm definitely very, very lucky and will enjoy this time as much as I can, too! I'll definitely keep sharing my journey here 😊

[@wildrayy]

Oh wow, what you’re saying about creative work and work in general, and your path is so relatable 😫 And I would say don’t be hard on yourself. If I could live with my parents again, I would! My dad passed away this year and it made me look at those years with them differently. The stigma around it is understandable, but also these expectations are so old and unrealistic for younger generations. Wish you all the best!! 💗✨

[@quirinebrouwer]

Ahhh I’m so so sorry for your loss! 🤍 I’m also really appreciating this time with them too, it’s both a special and confusing time. Thank you for your kind words 🥰

[@wildrayy]

@@quirinebrouwer thank you! ❤️

[@MarySietskeBaanstra]

Girl, you are litteraly repeating the same words I have been telling my friends about moving back in with my parents. I resonated with litteraly every word you said so much. Thank you incredibly much for sharing, and it’s so warming to see how so many of us have experienced this step in our lives. Wishing anyone who is reading this, a lot of love ❤️

[@DARK-cb1xk]

After high school I spent the next four years dealing with one major health issue after another and couldn’t work or strend school due to that, on top of that I couldn’t go to school because of Covid and I couldn’t persue my goals because of my health (I wanted to join the army), so not here I am at the age of 23 lost, uneducated, and stuck living with parents. The way my life is going, I probably won’t be able to move out until I am at least 26-27. You are not alone, keep your head up, this is not the end of your life, it is just the start of another chapter. Good luck.

[@ashleydoreen000]

I hope all your dreams come true.

[@DARK-cb1xk]

Thank you And ditto

[@mereldjamila]

It's very relatable what you talk about and brave as well to share your story. I love your content by the way! As a creative myself, I also struggle with parttime jobs and working on my own business at the same time. Office jobs are just so draining

[@quirinebrouwer]

Yes, it’s so hard to find the right balance while hoping for that moment where you can finally be independent 😭 the curse of the creatives

[@lulabelle33]

Your opening perspective on moving house.. or rather what you discovered of yourself while living there as contemplated at this transition...really struck such interior truth of those periods of life. Myself, at 64 years, is much past the threshold you are crossing, but at each passage in a life there are stories of leaving behind and looking out to what lies ahead.

[@Μελίνα-ΣτέλλαΚουφογιαννάκη]

I lost my job, i am living with my parents and i really think of dissacosiating a lot.... I need to recreate my life and recharg my energy.

[@CharlotteD365]

It takes a lot of strength to choose your wellbeing over the expected path. I feel like the time you had in this house, helped you grow and center in a way that you are now strong enough for the next step. Moving back with your parents is an opportunity for your creative endeavors and to deepen the bond between you and your parents. Thanks for sharing and I am wishing you kindness, grace and relaxation in the next steps. Love!

[@quirinebrouwer]

Thank you so much ❤

[@melife3307]

so good. thank you for sharing.

[@overnightgrowth]

Same here, had to move back in at 29. Now 2 years later I bought my own place, still lost but that's alright. It's funny because I'm the same and burnt out yet I'm still going.

[@jennyhernandez6227]

Would love to see a part 2, how have you been feeling since moving back in? Sending love 💜

[@osman732]

So relatable. Navigating work-related anxiety/stress and burnout are incredibly challenging. I'm neurodivergent and the impulse to avoid the judgment of laziness, and the shame about generally 'not having your stuff together', can lead to over-committing and taking on unsustainable burdens. And extinguishing all the energy for beautiful and joyful parts of life. Having the insight to recognise burnout, and the space to step away, can make a huge difference to long term well-being. The financial pressures facing young people today are so different to any recent generation. Previously it would've been possible to balance maybe working casually or part-time, living in a studio, just figuring stuff out for a few years. Nowadays housing costs are so high that it's impossible. I'm worried that the energy/money required to chase the 'milestones' (moving out, advancing in career, getting property, marrying, starting family etc) will see many of our young peers burning out sooner and sooner.

[@ruskakuu999]

This was so relatable bc I'm going through this too right now, thank you for giving me more certainty in this time

[@hallohannah94]

If you made this in hopes to help at least one person, that person was me! Dankjewel! Thank you for sharing. 29 living with my parents to figure out my financial situation too. Still figuring out what I want to do with my life. And could never really put my finger on why I was the black sheep of my family who things didn't work out for. Even after 'growing up.' I also really struggeled with calling myself creative because it conjures images of art, painting, drawing. Not writing, which I love and am good at. Thank you for sharing, It made me realise a lot of stuff!

[@quirinebrouwer]

I’m so glad this video resonated and helped you! Our stories seem to be very similar haha, the ‘black sheep’ feeling is sooo real. I’m sure your path will lead you to writing and creative freedom as well ❤

[@hallohannah94]

@@quirinebrouwer sad and happy we connect in that way. I have all the trust in your process. Self-awareness is the most difficult and important step. I'll be rooting for you for you on this amazing process :)

[@andy381Sw]

I am 25 and just had to move back to my parents, after not getting the few jobs i did training for. I was paying more rent than the trainings were paying me ofc but my parents helped me cover the rent of the airbnbs. But it was not enough. I feel like i failed myself and them. But I also feel that the world failed me. All i got left rn is a plan forward and a Family that provides for me (Sigh ) wish i could have gotten completely independent.

[@melaniedebuysscher2985]

I feel the exact Same way! Had a burnout last year, still don’t feel like I really recovered, quit my job, have another corporate job now cause I’m not sure how to get to that creative and financial independence, really feel the exact Same way! ❤️❤️❤️

[@isa_oc]

It is so true what you said, you don't have to follow society's rules. I've lived with my mom my entire life. About five years ago I became her only source of income. Now, at 27, everyday I have to come to terms with the fact that I have to live with my mom for many more years to come and it's ok, even if it's weird for the rest of the world. Like you, I'm privilegede to have a good, kind, and loving mother. So thank you for sharing this, it helps making this situation a bit more normal. Rest, get the space you need to embrace creativity with a least one burden less. ❤

[@quirinebrouwer]

It’s so great you’re supporting your mom in this way. Everyone does things at their own pace and that’s completely fine. Thank you so much for your sweet words, I wish you lots of happiness and luck on your own path 🤍

[@LitPicksbySarah]

« I Hope I’m not going to have to marry an ugly man » hahahahah that was so funny ❤

[@sweetmarasme]

everytime i hear you speak i'm so surprise at the amount of sentences i could've said myself. are we the same person ? are we supposed to be bffs ? i relate to you so much. thank you for sharing this !

[@efects7429]

Ii saw your apartment, tour this morning and was so excited for more apartment content not knowing this development...i think you have a wonderful sweet energy which will follow you wherever you are...so looking forward to more videos and content regardless...goodluck on your journey!! Looking forward to wathching it unfold! ❤

[@Tangerinetaco]

I’m in a similar situation. I actually wish I did not share this with who I did because some people have really strong, differing opinions on it. From now on I’m going to keep it to myself. Some will judge you poorly on this decision, some won’t. It sucks when they do though. 😞

[@eiwaart]

It's crazy how i feel the stars play the same role for some people at certain moments. I'm feeling absolutely lost right now, i don't know what is next. And it seems that, other souls, souls like, like me, souls i strangely feel deeply connected to, they suffer too. I don't know if it's the planets, or the seasons or any other mystery playing with us, and it's so difficult to keep hope. But we are not alone, and this heavy weight we carry, we fall down one day. Right now i just feel like, who I am, my art, mean nothing to this society. My dreams mean nothing to society. What i've to share is not enough for them. And i feel you in your words. But there is no way that the universe give up on such a rich soul like you, such an artist/poet and just crazy fucking inspiring woman. I still don't understand why society push people like us to burn out. Just because we are dreamers an passionate, we don't deserve to be, and to embrace what we love. It sucks. But this shall never lead us towards a path that is not ours. I feel sad for people who don't have this creative drive like us, this "thing" that isn't even explainable. We must not feel sorry for it. And we will find the way to make it stand. I'm with you.

[@quirinebrouwer]

Thank you so, so much for this comment and your words! "I still don't understand why society pushes people like us to burn out", that really struck a chord with me. There seems to only be room and opportunities for one kind of person in this society, but I feel like change is in the air, especially with so many people sharing their stories now! Hope you can pursue your path and your passions. ❤

[@cozzzybeast]

Change is always challenging, but I can't wait to see your journey. 🎞️🖤 As a 24 y.o. creative person who lives with her parents I can totally relate. Wishing you all the best and remember you are not a failure - it's just a new part of your story that needs to be written.

[@normmansor1313]

Most people follow you for you. You make the content and you can make it anywhere. Change is hard because it's new, it's different. We are creatures of routine and habit which is why change will always feel weird. You'll be fine. And don't worry, you'll never have to end up marrying an ugly man. Before that happens you can always marry me instead 😂

[@LifeWithChelseaAnn]

I just turned 27 and as a creative I’ve been burning myself trying to work this 9-5 that completely drains all my Energy and no being able to pursue my dreams of being a content creator. I’m so scared to move back in with my parents, but they keep promising that I’ll be able to travel more since I wouldn’t have to worry about all the things I’m currently stressed about 😵‍💫😵‍💫 idk what to do

[@katarinateslar]

I just came across this video and omg I am so glad to know I’m not alone. I’m 27 and it’s so hard being an adult. I live with my mum. My parents are divorced and so much things are happening in this world and cost of living is just not easy. I got a new car after covid and it’s my first loan I have to pay off in my life as I needed a new car. I love it. But I could never afford paying a car and renting a place on my own. Work can be hard and deciding what you want to do. I have worked in the administration industry for so long but customer service is mentally exhausting and draining. I hope to do something else with my life but it’s so hard. You want to do many things but not enough time 😂. I don’t have a partner but even then it would be a struggle for anyone no matter if you’re single or not. Social media definitely puts on this persona and idea of seeing people living a happy life when truly it’s not always happy and exciting. Hopefully one day I will manage to have my own place, maybe get married and have kids but I honestly stopped planning my future and thinking of things in my head for my life because it’s not healthy. I’m a big over thinking person and trying to stop it. To everyone who commented their situations and how old they’re. Thank you. It truly shows and just comforts us all together that we’re not all alone. I hope everything will get better for us even if it takes small steps to get where we want to be. Thank you Quirine for posting this video. We need more content creators showing the reality of life behind scenes. Love your content 😊🖤

[@oyeludeaminatyetunde2068]

So relatable. Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@mr.mellow9269]

I’m in a crossroad about doing this as well because of money problems. Thing is… my dad’s house has a really toxic environment and… I seriously don’t think that it’s worth it over some dollars. Still, idk. I’ll just continue watching anime.

[@DidiAphra]

I related to this so much. I love seeing creators be real and vulnerable, so I kind of felt emotional watching this video haha. I’m going through a different type of change, but your story still resonated. I’m 22 and graduating university in a year and have been thinking about inevitably working a 9-5 job-because we’ve all got to start somewhere-and it always fills me with dread but also excitement. Dread in the sense that I will have so little time to myself. Like you, I also break down and burn out when I don’t enough time for doing my own things, especially because I am a creative as well. And excitement in the sense that I will be more financially independent. I say ‘more’ because I’m planning on still living with my parents for a while after I graduate just so I can save up money, because how are we supposed to live on an entry-level salary in this economy???! But your story resonated so much because I feel like I will come to the same crossroads as you in a few years. Do I keep working and feeling miserable? Do I keep letting my job (whatever it is in a few year’s time) consume my creative energy, leaving none for my own endeavors? Even now that already scares me. Even before I began university I felt lost for a long time because I was on a different path than the one that society drills into you. So I am quite well-acquainted with feeling lost, and have learned to be comfortable and even find pride in it. Anyways, I just wanted to say thank you and to share my story too. Can’t wait to see all the content you create in this new chapter of your life!

[@quirinebrouwer]

This society and economy definitely makes it so so hard for our generation to build something up, especially if it concerns following our dreams and passions. 🥲 I feel like this crossroads moment is encountered by almost every creative person in their life, but I’m trusting it will lead us where we need to be. I hope you find your path as well and can pursue your dreams ❤

[@DidiAphra]

@@quirinebrouwer Thank you!!

[@andreeab2008]

I am 32. I and my husband are lucky enough to work remotely so we moved in with my in-laws for a couple of months after the pandemic started, then we continued living with them because we wanted to raise money for our own place (tough economy... our apartment will eventually be ready later this year)! We would actually spend a couple of weeks with his folks, then with my grandparents in the countryside, so this gave us the opportunity to spend more time with our close ones and to go outdoors more often, connecting to nature as well! I am also kind of a loner in the sense that I like to have my own space and intimacy and sometimes I don't function well if I'm not "allowed" to have that but I told myself let's be patient and learn something from this experience while also enjoying this period with our families, maybe we will not have this chance again (once we have our own place and children etc). Sorry for the ramble, I guess the idea is that, as you've said it yourself, this should be seen as an opportunity, not a failure, especially if your parents are supportive of you (you're part of the lucky ones) so I wish you to make the best out of it, you're very talented and I'm sure you'll find your inspiration to pursue the things you love most. Good luck in all your endeavours and all the best, Quirine!❤🤗

[@quirinebrouwer]

Oooh this is so relatable! My parents live very remote too so having all the outdoor space is absolutely lovely. I’m happy you and your husband got this chance to make it work this way. Thank you so much for your kind words ❤

[@joy.fuentes]

i'm so happy for you, and i know it's hard, but you never know what you will become if you don't take the chance. I'm so exited for the new things that are going to come your way. by the end of the video i was thinking, what if a castle is waiting for you and leaving was the only thing stopping you from living in it? just a thought, love you sm

[@kaninhjaerta]

As a creative person who’s struggling a lot with my own mental health I can relate so much. Feeling stuck in life and overwhelmed by the world, wanting to be independent and at the same time accepting the fact that we sometimes need support from others. I’m happy for you that you have such supportive parents. Will definitely miss seeing your adorable apartment but I will still follow for your wonderful content. Wishing you all the best 🤎✨🕯️🪐✨

[@quirinebrouwer]

It’s such a hard thing to find the balance in! Thank you so much, I also wish you best of luck on your creative path 🤍

[@iishiitaaa]

i loved your apartment but at the same I'm very excited to see your room and the decor because i really look up to the vibe that you have pleas keep going at your own pace♥️

[@quirinebrouwer]

Ahhh the room is already turning out so cute I can't wait to share more!

[@mysterycurry]

just got a notice of lease termination with 14 days to get out and im so sad lol

[@shikha5246]

My family is begging me to move back home 🥺. I’m also being priced out of California and moving back home to Texas 😂😅at least I tried but I’m tired stressed out of having to continuously work two jobs..for some jobs, Texas is paying more than the part of California that I’m in…(in cheap part of cali) so it no longer makes sense to stay anymore without any kind of support. I feel like a failure too. I’m 28 years old and I’m moving back home next year :/

[@ОлександраКірунець]

"Scary but good" Thank you for sharing your story with us! Can’t wait to see more outcomes of your creative mind! Sendings lot’s of love💋❤️‍🩹

[@quirinebrouwer]

Ahh thank you so much ❤️❤️

[@yuudai2323]

The beginning of your video had me sobbing only because I'm 27 as well and I just had to make this same hard decision. It's wild to me, to see someone else who is trying to pursue KZbin and has run into the same road block. It's validating and I am so glad to see I am not alone. Even in the comments there are so many people around my age doing the same thing. Thank you for this video, I hope your life's journey keeps going up from here.

[@anaalsan]

I'm excited for you and your new journey! I'm considering pretty much the same thing, but I'm not sure, I admit. We all know you'll feed us with amazing content wherever you are. Wishing you a lot of strength and love!

[@quirinebrouwer]

It's a reallly hard choice, so I get it! Hope you find your path no matter what you decide & thank you so much ❤

[@ivorytower6773]

I'm sure you'll make something wonderful out of this new paragraph of your life! Thanks for sharing this Quirine! Good luck 🍀

[@quirinebrouwer]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@tylerwilliams7161]

Literally related every ur saying ugh!! Yes fresh start is a pos

[@ss0luu]

So how are you adjusting now 5-6 months later? My view of living with parents is not that it's a failure but a blessing. Seems to be a growing trend and so far, not as bad as folks initially feared. Sorry to hear this was not a voluntary decision and your struggles. I hope it works out positively for you and you find your footing in life again. Hopefully, in your own future when you look back at this chapter of your life, you get to view it positively. For what is worth, I am nearing 40 and lived my whole life with my parents. They're my best friends and roommates. We're probably upper middle class financially. We're probably a little weird (Mom and Dad don't even speak the same language to each other but 100% understand one another). And while yes I'm single, I'm also happy. It's not for everyone, I get it. As my Brazilian co-workers put it though, "People in the USA just really like to be and want to be lonely." Not sure where you are but moving out seems very American or Western world at least. I'm rambling like an old man now, sorry. I am that ugly, annoying man people try to avoid so I'll stop. Either way, hope for your success. Hope you and your parents have a pleasant experience in this new chapter of your life. Cute accent. Really heart-warming just listening to you speak somehow.

[@sellemalfoy1965]

now I wanna move back to my parents too😢

[@ciaransunderland]

Wishing you all the best and excited to see what you do next :)

[@MorningsWithMaria]

I finally broke down crying and told my family about how I was stressed about my apartment …. I felt like I was drowning- with my medical ailments and my 9-5 job and fostering a dog and not being able to find his forever home… I felt so stressed & alone. I knew I could tell them and they would help me but I felt so stuck and embarrassed- it finally came out today and I feel so much better … this video and the comments also help me feel better 28 years old btw ❤ thank you for putting this content out

[@aloevera4483]

Thank you❤

[@Beltarot]

I'm New to your content on insta and I'm in love with the vibes, the aesthetic not just of your apartament, you have your own aesthetic and vibes and the are beautiful, and then I saw you started a KZbin Channel 🎉 and I was okey, your content is amazing, the poems, the music, everything, if you keep going, you are gonna be more and more succesful, so Happy about your decision, because it's made from your heart, and for your good 😊 a Leo subscriber 😊

[@quirinebrouwer]

Ahhh thank you so much, that's so sweet! (love me a fellow leo! ❤)

[@ronsdigginthemidwest5502]

Since finding you on instagram I have thought of you as the world’s most beautiful librarian. Wishing you all the best!

[@21genhackers]

keep going queen..

[@AbnegationTranscendental]

I wanted to but my parents said no

[@wittilly]

i needed this video ❤

[@davefisch-y1t]

I’m 30 and feeling the same way a little bit 🤔

[@kelseytaylor6314]

I relate to you too. Paying rent is crazy and it makes you not have time and money to invest in your dreams❤🎉I have a channel too but looking for more recognition

[@quirinebrouwer]

It is so hard to do it all at the same time! Hope it works out for you, too 🥰

[@fleurvanderaa6238]

I am thinking about your moldavite stone. Good luck with this new chapter ❤

[@celinajohnson18]

I’m so excited to see what you do with your space at your parents’ house! I think I speak for many people when I say we are just happy you will have more time and energy to create for yourself and the community☺️Wishing you all the happiness!🤍

[@quirinebrouwer]

Thank you so much 🥹

[@Raven629]

Same like me❤

[@tahaderraji7376]

24 yo and still living with parents

[@Marcus-rg7bg]

Man. Were all getting kicked around.

[@veroniquemusicofficial]

What’s it been like for you? ❤

[@xinyiwang4138]

❤

[@eu_balaena]

It's so brave of you to acknowledge that you need to stop and recharge for a while. I'm sure your content will continue to be beautiful, because i can tell you have a real love for books. i follow you for you as a person, not for your apartment (although it's a pretty addition) but your opinions and recommendations are valuable and i will be watching them wherever you are. Please, don't think that your apartment is more important than what you have to say, it so sad to see so many creative and so smart women think that their hard work and heart are not what makes them amazing. i wish you the best in your new path.

[@irmabronder]

De Amerikaanse droom is niet het pad dat je op moet gaan. Volg alsjeblieft je eigen pad. De wereld wil graag dat je actief bezig bent in de wereld, maar dit is niet ons echte leven. Dit is het leven van egoistische mensen. Het is niet fijn om bij je ouders weer in te trekken. Maar alles wat is gebeurd is gebeurd omdat je leven zo is gepland. Alles wat je mocht willen dat niet is gepland voor dit leven, zal nooit gebeuren als het niet gepland was voor jouw leven. Luister goed naar je lichaam. Je lichaam praat en als je niet luistert je lichaam wil creer diepere ziektebeelden. Het is een sein dat je niet goed aan het luisteren ben en dat je niet op het juiste pad loopt. Eet goed. Planten zijn het beste en wat je eet heeft effect op je hersenen. Dus eet geen dierenproducten, want je wordt meer een dier. Volg wat komt op je pad en wees blij met alles. Je leven is voor jou. Dus leef je leven hoe jij denkt dat goed is. Maak je vooral niet druk, je leven is helemaal uitgepland toen je geboren werd. De ware reis is een reis dat je brengt naar binnen. Een leven dat is anders dan de rest van de wereld brengt mooiheid. Veel plezier met je nieuwe stap op!

[@tinyengine9523]

Isn’t it illegal for them to let you go because of panic attacks?

[@TomWakeman-ul7om]

You mean quitter.

[@hatersgotohell627]

Do you have a boyfriend?

[@TheTrollMastah]

It’s okay I’m 26 and I don’t own anything but a mint ‘63 Tbird and a few nice guitars. I could never afford to move out so, I’m working on that

[@rh6277]

It’s just so refreshing seeing such realness on social unlike most of the content out there that does just induce tons of self-deprecation/comparison/guilt and/or shame - 25 and still with my parents here, trying to support myself as much as I can but it’s such a soul-soothing moment seeing this 🤍 wishing you the best of luck moving forward because it sounds like you’re doing what’s best for you - it can be humbling getting to know the difference between what you want vs what you need and figuring out where to draw the compromise lines in a way that doesn’t jeopardize your soul purpose, and our world does *not* make that easy. But we push through and break the norms best we can Thank you for this ❤️‍🩹

[@fabrizia1511]

I feel you ❤‍🩹 Sending you loads of positive vibes - you have ahead only the best possible outcome