Why I Quit My Dream Life as a Digital Nomad and Returned to the USA

[@TravelingwithKristin]

I woke up this morning feeling nervous about publishing this video… It feels vulnerable to share something so personal but I hope it is helpful for you. Be sure to subscribe if it resonates with you and I will link to my book and luggage mentioned here: Digital Nomads for Dummies: amzn.to/3JLLx5c Suitcase I use: amzn.to/3X9044g Carry-On I use: amzn.to/4dNtPgx

[@christina9238]

havet finished watching yet but than you in advance for sharing. as an American who has filled two passports and lived out of bags for months at a time- ive struggled immensely finding people to relate to. the culture shocks leaving and returning- the feeling of where do I belong?- I returned to the US myself now- but still catch myself daydreaming about leaving everyday. very excited to watch this.

[@AnthonyManzio]

Not married, red flag.

[@SWBfreedom]

Kristen, you are a beautiful woman and I am surprised that you’re not married and have children!! With that said you did what you thought was the right thing to do and you should never have regrets about that!! It brought you many learning experiences and also wisdom!! I would say you are now experiencing what many women do, and that’s the maternal instincts all women have!! There’s no right or wrong it’s biology!! You will deal with these feelings because let’s face it you are highly intelligent and practical!! You really don’t have a reason to explain yourself, just keep following your instincts!! They have work all this time for you!! You will find whatever it is you are looking for!! I wish you happiness in your future!!

[@rwmorrison0223]

Thank you for being willing to be vulnerable in sharing such a personal video. I will retire in about 2 years and plan on a roaming retirement. I continue to think through my options of visiting many countries for shorter periods of time or staying in a location for longer, which I see as an issue of quantity vs quality. Your video provided important insights that will help my thinking as I prepare for the my roaming retirement. I appreciate all that you do for the expat community!

[@stacywilson2199]

I hope you know how precious videos like this are. You are a wonderful, radiant person. Not a traveling machine. Of course, your family comes first. Children grow so fast, and you'll never get the years back. Take the time to soak in every moment of your niece and nephew's childhoods. I bought your book to support you and your channel and hold dear all of your content. Keep going in whatever way that looks for you. Not sure if you are a praying person, but I am. And I will keep you and your family in my prayers. All the best.

[@MrJim911]

Everything you talked about is 100% normal. As we get older our hopes, dreams, desires, priorities all change and evolve. That's just part of life. You've evaluated yourself and decided to make a course change. Good for you! Enjoy this new time with friends and family! ❤

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for your understanding and kind words @MrJim911. I appreciate your support and encouragement as I navigate this new phase. Here’s to embracing new opportunities and cherishing the time spent with loved ones! ❤️

[@oakridgemall-8jl2h9f]

@@TravelingwithKristin *November 5* is just a few months away . . .

[@twistoffat]

Extremely honest video. Family is more important than anything , countries will always be there, people won’t

[@maker-media]

Love this comment. I'm currently at the place where wanting to leave and experience the world is higher on my priority list than the rest of the areas of my life. But the beauty of being human is that we can change our minds if we re evaluate and are mindful of our thoughts and desires. As of right now I want to travel, and I'm excited to experience that. Down the road? Who knows! But I'll decide when i get there :)

[@pamgripp3945]

My goodness! You are such a gem. Your parents must be incredibly proud of you and how much thought you put into your life decisions. I am new to this whole idea and I’m 75. Your kind and cheerful attitude made me feel empowered to expand my world. Thank you and I’ll be diving in to all your videos.

[@deeannadowdle9781]

I'm near your age and I am strongly considering becoming a slow-traveler and expanding my horizons.

[@bessmahaneypilates8638]

I’m just starting…I’m 64 years old. Your videos have been very helpful for me. Thank you. Good luck in your future endeavors ❤

[@anna_m59]

Same here… in SE . best decision ever !

[@photopro100]

Approaching that timeline and glad I started decades ago. I’m sure the adventures that required significant energy and less rest would not be the same headed into the later years. It’s still fun, I just scale back slightly.

[@anna_m59]

@@12567NoYouCannot South Asia

[@elzoog]

You are brave to be starting at 64. Please let me know how it's going.

[@shinyshinythings]

@@bessmahaneypilates8638 Good for you! I’m just a few years behind you, and happy that I’m on a path to making retirement abroad my reality after daydreaming about it for 20 years. Sometimes it fits the old song, “So close and yet so far.”

[@jozsefizsak]

It's always a pleasure to listen to such a kind, thoughtful and intelligent person as yourself. You're part of the world that still makes sense and it means a lot to know you're out there. Be well. 😊

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much for your kind words @jozsefizsak! It means a lot to hear that my efforts resonate with you. I’m grateful for the supportive and thoughtful community we’ve built together. Wishing you all the best and sending positive vibes your way! 😊

[@JLTravels]

Totally resonates! I’ve been a traveler in many styles since 16y/o & now at 71y/o I’m a full-time solo female van-life nomad celebrating over 5 years. Having been thru multiple stages of life, I understand transitioning is normal; it’s the next step to a new chapter! Have fun!

[@SECRETPURPOSE]

That's so inspiring. 71.

[@norwegianzound]

What happens if you get sick?

[@nunuvyurbiz123]

I’m 55 and feel like I’m just getting started! I’m planning on retiring early next year, to travel slowly. I will not have a home base anywhere. Eventually I can see distilling it to fewer and fewer places and maybe eventually stopping somewhere.

[@Stopit77]

Me too! That’s my plan as well :)

[@OkieJammer2736]

YOU GO, KIDS! 😊 Forward. Full throttle.

[@YogaBlissDance]

YEP sounds like a great plan.

[@JzMillinery]

Me too! I am also 55.

[@kahayse]

​@@Stopit77me too! I retire in 4 weeks, then going to Ireland.

[@Pete_Rocc]

Good for you, Kristin!Just know that you're an inspiration to many people out there. I'm not a digital nomad, but I've been 'slow travelling' for the better part of the last decade being a musician in Asia. Keep doing what you're doing. Your voice is needed and appreciated!

[@mmanjin]

Being single, with no children, and no one other than yourself to support makes a huge difference. This is what has primarily allowed you to live as a digital nomad. As you are now experiencing, your perspective on life changes significantly as you age and progress through your life's various stages, and that is normal as everyone experiences that to various degrees. In life, change is inevitable and should be viewed as a positive. Everyone's situation is different; you should always do what works for you. Good luck and God bless you on your next step change in life.

[@monicaroberts4692]

You are such an inspiration on dissolving boundaries and seizing life! Bless you!

[@arthurmontana8791]

"In life, change is inevitable and should be viewed as a positive." The phrase "should be viewed as positive" is inadvisable. As a Family Counselor for decades, I never told a client how they "should" view a life event. My aim was to help the client elicit their own views; positive, joyful, sorrowful, etc. That was half the battle. Thereafter, we could work together to contextualize those feelings in a manner that promoted functionality. However, the Golden Rule for me was that no client feeling was ever wrong. Only the reactions to those feelings could be considered wrong. In this instance, Kristin has publicly demonstrated years of profound introspection. and depth of character, with courage and fortitude, that likely combine to make Kristin the best counselor of her life transitions.

[@alangwhiteTheBoss]

Sounds like cope

[@dbencic]

@@arthurmontana8791 well put

[@arthurmontana8791]

@@alangwhiteTheBoss No Sir! Your remarks do not reflect any "cope". Rather, they expose you as a "dope".

[@NomadElite]

All good things come to an end. You've just entered a new cycle that is more suitable for your current stage in life.

[@jlovel124]

I was a flight attendant for 21 years Kristin so I know and feel what you are talking about. In that time my wife and I raised 2 beautiful daughters who are now just in their 30's Married and one Daughter with 2 kids. I am now traveling along the West Coast with my Wife and dog in an RV and having a great time in retirement. Sounds to me like you have squeezed the juice out of the life you were living and now are in that new chapter. The intense emotions you are feeling that may catch you unawares are great indicators and helpers on your journey of what to do next. I wish you good luck in your journey. I have enjoyed your content so much and wish you the best with what comes next.

[@jamesdellaneve9005]

Sounds awesome. I am retiring in February. I left Buffalo in 1983 and knew that I’d not be back. I worked in Georgia, Connecticut, New York, and settled down in Cali. 40 years now. Cali is declining, but not like Buffalo was. Buffalo was due to macroeconomic issues, Cali is self caused. Talk about killing the golden goose. Even Oracle moved out. But, I am staying. It’s the most beautiful state. Only the cities are crap. I live 50 miles inland of LA and the state is 1,000 miles long. “They” aren’t industriousness enough to wreck all of that. The US is beautiful and filled with wonderful, talented, and nice people. Just not in the cities, which is what is being broadcast around the world. I know people that live in towns where the locals leave their car keys in the car.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, J. I appreciate your insights. Enjoy your travels with your family! 🚐

[@jlovel124]

@@TravelingwithKristin enjoy reconnecting with your family and friends. I hope it is a joyful time for you.

[@SamuelGriffin]

The real America that liberals are trying to destroy. They’ve harmed this country so much.

[@brittanysapology9528]

this is such a great analogy "squeezed all the juice"

[@jasonbeedon9867]

This is one of the most honest and grounded videos I’ve ever heard about being a digital nomad. Excellent. Thanks for sharing.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, Jason. Means a lot.

[@mkoschara]

I don't think of taking a break and pondering the whats/wheres/whys of life as quitting. It sounds more like you need a sabbatical from a lifestyle that can be exhausting at times. My experience was moving back to NC after sixteen years in NYC and expecting to pick up where I'd left off with friends and family. Fast forward ten years and my wife and I have now been living in Costa Rica for over five years. It's been channels like yours that have helped us stay sane during our relocation to "Pura Vida," especially during the pandemic. Te aprecio a ti, Kristin. Please know that you've changed many, many lives for the better.

[@RajDeelish]

Your life and her life are different. You stayed in placed long term and have been about to have a family. Kristin's constant floating around prevents her from all the things she mentioned in the video as well as issues coming up that will arise from old age.

[@mkoschara]

@@RajDeelish I never said or thought our lives were the same. My comment about moving back was meant as "Don't be surprised if the relationships you want to rekindle are different now."

[@lc7169]

@@RajDeelishYes! 💯

[@suzanh7777]

@@mkoschara. For me, it was never the same when I tried to go back to friendships of the past. All of us had changed and the gaps were unbridgeable. I remember my daddy always saying: “Don’t live in the past nor be downcast from it. The future will always be brighter and it’s now where the Almighty prefers you stay. Just learn the lessons from your past.” Wisdom of age, he had the best advice…God rest his saintly soul.

[@sues4432]

Thanks for all the content! Very helpful.

[@karenespig]

Good for you, for recognizing that your needs have changed and for acting on meeting them. They will no doubt change again. Enjoy your new adventure and your family. You have indeed touched on many of the challenges faced by slow travellers and nomads. All the best 🤗

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, Karen 😊🙏 always wise words

[@paris8168]

Hi Kristin, I’ve lived in Orlando, FL for the past 5 years. I’m originally from Turkiye but I lived in the US as an immigrant. I faced the same challenges as you. My father passed away, many close family members passed away and I couldn’t even go to their funerals. I also had a love interest who liked me back in Europe but due to the distance, it didn’t work out. Now, I’m moving back to Turkiye to spend time with my family. I won’t be staying there permanently but I missed them and they need me. I’m still working on the income part as I want to be able to make money from anywhere in the world. That’s the most challenging part. So that we don’t have to work in a certain place and wait for holidays to travel. Sometimes you need to listen to your instincts. If something is not making you happy anymore, you need to change that. Traveling all time is exhausting. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for sharing, Paris. Sounds like you are also following your intuition and doing what’s best for you! Stay strong for your family ❤️

[@jacobsoto7228]

I live near Orlando and I tell you it is getting hard to live here with the lack of jobs and cost of living. I notice how much deforestation is happening here and it is not pleasant.

[@relocatetoEUROPE]

Grab a trend early and then talk about on KZbin as if it's your own brilliant idea. Digital Nomadism sucks .....so let's now do slow travel. When your life is a meme.

[@stephenantonicelli7069]

Nice hear someone that travels with no negative comments about different countries.

[@Constellasian]

Thanks for sharing a vulnerable side. My new chapter in life actually started last year as I'm looking at overseas living for a while. I'm glad you'll still be making videos because your channel helped me gain decent info about living overseas.

[@shinyshinythings]

@@Constellasian I can’t recommend enough getting an actual residency visa in the general area where you want to travel. Then you have a “home base” and don’t have the exhausting realities of having to move every 90 days to somewhere new.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for your kind words @Constellasian! I'm glad to hear that my videos have been helpful in your journey toward living overseas. It's exciting to start a new chapter, and I'm thrilled to continue sharing insights and experiences as you explore your options. Best of luck with your overseas adventure! 🌍✨

[@fosterjillian]

Thank you for being so open with us. I appreciate how real and honest you are. You’re an inspiration. I hope you listen to your heart and do whatever makes you the most happy and healthy!

[@RG-wd6qs]

Your 20 years of experience is extremely valuable to the travel community. We look forward to you to continue to share your experience and knowledge with us. Thank you!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you! Will do!

[@annemariesmith5459]

You don't have to be all things to everybody. People that love you will always support your decisions in life. You are now embarking on a new adventure in one place. Thank you for all of your travel advice!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, Anne Marie. I’m happy to help!

[@StefSharkySchultz]

BLESS YOU KRISTIN! We'll continue to follow your adventures, thank you SO MUCH for sharing! This is SO understandable, and I relate to it in many ways; you are a force to be reckoned with! Continue to stay true to yourself!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much @StefSharkySchultz!!

[@seamusp5991]

Your self-awareness is just part of what makes you a rock star. 😊

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thanks Seamus :)

[@andre1987eph]

Dude. Please dont. You're making us over 50 guys look bad.

[@Pulse2AM]

Such a sweet soul, stay safe out there wherever that is next.

[@nmandowa]

I admire how you are taking stock in your life and can shift perspectives when needed.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for the kind words, @nmandowa!

[@Jonniespeed]

Dear Kristin. I want to thank you for the bottom of my heart for sharing your thoughts, feelings and reservations in such a candid and authentic way. I hope to one day “live“ in another country, but you have made me think about the permanence of it all, and how much that I too will miss my family and maybe miss certain important events. It is a delicate balance of not overthinking and taking a chance. I want to truly thank you for all of your videos as they have been inspiring, informative, and useful. You have truly contributed to the betterment of many lives. Thank you for you, and all you that you give us.

[@jedielder7970]

I've done my fair share of traveling, and I did eventually "settle down," met my wife in a foreign country and started a family. I have moved my family to the US and I'm happier. I found out that "paradise" usually, for me, only feels like paradise for a certain amount of time. It's different to be a tourist in paradise, versus living there. I've also read a lot of stories where people went to retire, hoping for a more affordable and peaceful life in paradise, outside the US, only to move back to the US within a few years or less. What she said about missing family is a big one. I believe another big one is making time for a real, deep and meaningful relationship, having children, etc. can also be important (and difficult if you are always on the move). Life is not perfect... I hope you find what you are looking for. Thanks for all of the videos.

[@kah4325]

Great points. Curious how many content creators get back to the 9 to 5 and earning wages and contributing to retirement plans? Personally, I joined the military young, retired, and now I travel and avoid financial frustration abroad. Not relying on subscribes and likes on videos for paychecks.

@@jedielder7970 back to the Idiocracy....LOL

[@valerierochephoto]

@@kah4325you can do that with a military pension

[@jedielder7970]

LOL, doesn't feel that way to me because I love the U.S. However, I realize that could depend on WHERE in the U.S. one lives. It's my home and nothing else compares in the long run, for me. Also, my focus is being the best husband and father I can be, so I keep busy in a good way (that also means living in a safe city/neighborhood).

@jedielder7970 there are no safe places in the Idiocracy....that's why it's called an Idiocracy

[@VagabondAwake]

Hi Kristin, I loved the vulnerability of today's video about quitting being a nomad. Flexibility and not being tied to earlier decisions or self-imposed decisions is very important. We became different than the other kids because we were opened minded. There is no reason to demand that we remain the same in order to prove we were right about being different. I like the willingness to remain in the question rather than trying to prove the same answers remain unquestionable. Thanks for sharing, Dan of Vagabond Awake

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, Dan! Wise words as always ;) Let’s catch up soon!

[@annthrockmorton1517]

Miami is wonderful! I totally would live there, if I could afford it!! At 74 years old, though, I've sold my house and am heading to Thailand with my cat, for the first-class health care, awesome, affordable Assisted Living options, and someplace where my pension & SS will go much further than here in the USA. AND it's fearless travelers LIKE YOU whose videos have proven to me throughout the years when I couldn't go (due to work) that it's totally doable!! Kristin, thanks a million for all the advice and encouragement throughout the years. You DO YOU, and now, I plan to DO ME! We've got this -- whatever "this" is!! Best of luck to you!! 😘

[@TravelingwithKristin]

You can do it, Ann! 💪

[@mashae.1066]

This is amazing! Good luck with your new adventure 🙂

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Please tell me you've been there.

[@krissyscau7784]

It sounds like you are off on a grand adventure Ann! Good for you. I am 73 and heading back to Europe. I think I might have one 'grand adventure' left in me! 🤣

[@NorthbyNoroeste]

Hi. We here would all like a birds eye view of your experience. Please share your experience I am just now retired at 71 and looking for solutions. Help us imagine this experience

[@lynnhenionandrick4808]

Kristin...This is the first time that I've ever commented on one of your videos. Thank you for being so real and honest. I am so sorry that you're going through a lot right now but often the best thing to do is sit with the discomfort and stay still for awhile as you feel and think about your life going forward. You're awesome! I'm 64 and trying to start some slow-travel in 2025 but I haven't had my own place in four years as I've been doing seasonal work in the US. This has been fun, but I also feel a strong pull toward my own "nest" again where I can have things left there they way I want them. But, alas, I can't afford to both. My very best wishes to you and to your family.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, Lynn. Glad you are here 😊🙏❤️

[@JulieAdventureVlogs-sg7ih]

This gave me food for thought. Made me teary very heartfelt content. Wishing you the very best in your next phase of life. It takes really special people to do the travel nomad lifestyle. Am sure you will make the best decision for you. Stay blessed 🫂😘

[@lindadorman2869]

I’m so glad you brought up this topic! Like you, my lifestyle has changed over the years. From 2001-2012, I was a corporate expat living and working outside the US helping my employer expand into new markets. Then I left and became a digital nomad, working freelance projects exploring global opportunities for other brands until 2015. I came back to the US to change careers, go to culinary school and spend the next 5 years working in the food industry. But during the pandemic, I launched my own US-based company that requires my presence. I always planned to retire and live abroad, but I love what I do and don’t want to give up the extra income. My solution is to keep a low-cost live/workspace year-round in the US and close my business for a few months 2x a year to travel. Since it involves sourcing international goods, my expenses are tax-deductible. I also don’t need to deal with long-term residency/visa or banking issues. I would love to hear from others, especially older singles, who might be considering or already living the same lifestyle, splitting time between just a few countries. Our stories could be a new book or video series idea for you too!

[@YogaBlissDance]

Yes she has a whole new series of VIDEOS she can make on these topics.

[@pat4005]

That sounds like an awesome mix (and balance) of work, travel, discovery and R&R). 👍🏼

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, Linda. I always enjoy reading your comments and insights! Very inspiring

[@shinyshinythings]

@@lindadorman2869 Love your story! I subscribed just in case you make content about your travels. :)

[@jacobsoto7228]

I am not the author of the video but I am going into the culinary industry next year. How did you learn to find work life balance? I am looking for advice on how to thrive.

[@mannydutra9229]

I just watched your latest video for the first time and wanted to say how deeply it moved me. Your openness and the way you share your nomadic journey are truly inspiring. Thank you for being so genuine and for touching my heart with your story. Wishing you all the best.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much for your heartfelt message @mannydutra9229. Your kind words mean a lot 🙏

[@Cindy-xk5vm]

Getting older changes the horizon for all of us.

[@michaelsix9684]

It sure does, and with time you sort out your priorities.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Very true!

[@wildbill6366]

There's older people in other countries too ...right?

[@m532198]

Great insights..I did most Of my traveling (48 countries) after the age of 50, Including living five years in Germany. I understand a bit about missing important events and permanent relationships. Good luck.

[@messyhomestead7320]

I'm curious how you spent that much time in Germany since it's so industrialized-world in its migration restrictions. If you care to share?

[@m532198]

@@messyhomestead7320 I had a job that gave me a work permit. I would consider retiring in Germany if they weren't so restrictive. FYI: A wide variety of overseas jobs are at USAjobs.gov. Search on the country of your choice.

[@user-ze9uy5iq5o]

@messyhomestead7320 *Deutschland

[@m532198]

@@messyhomestead7320 I didn't see my reply to your comment so here it is again, just in case: I had a job in Germany that gave me a residency permit for the duration of the job. I would have stayed longer, but German residency possibilities are quite limited.

[@shinyshinythings]

Good for you Kristin! For being vulnerable, letting your viewers know what you’re thinking, and mostly letting people know that it’s OK to go home, too. The world will be out there when you’re ready to travel again. Wishing you the best!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much! 🫶

[@mymistybreeze]

This is a great point. The same freedom we ramblers love and allowed us to travel so much, is the same freedom we have to stop doing it - however that looks. (I'm also speaking to myself here!!)

[@shinyshinythings]

@@mymistybreeze Yep. It’s much on my mind these days, for many of the same reasons Kristin cites. Family means more and more as the years roll on.

[@LJ-bq9fy]

I wish I could hit the like button multiple times. Really nice video. It must have been hard to put yourself out there and talk about changing life choices and why. I'm not a digital nomad yet, but I've been away from my homeland for more than 2 decades; left family behind and don't know my nieces/nephews..., lost friends but I am quite introverted and care more about my own future/time. Of course life like this is hard on relationships and after a recent breakup, I'm struggling too to decide to venture on solo and start again or settle closer to family and feel the 9-5 stagnancy. Good luck, Kristin! Positive energy sent your way.

[@Goldfinger555]

Thanks for sharing. This is a perfect example of why people love you so much. You are also so insightful and inspiring. At 67, I guess I’m a Roaming Retiree (mostly solo) with USA as a home base but travel internationally 4 months a year. My mantra - Live life living. Best wishes to you!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you! Happy travels

[@marieoliphant8305]

I do the same. Raised my family, worked hard and at 61 I’m now free to travel. Selling everything for a tiny spot to call home in USA near grown kids but traveling about 50% of the time. It’s the best life imaginable!

[@Goldfinger555]

@@marieoliphant8305 You've earned it. Safe travels!

[@TheFroggie66]

Relocation Director here!! Welcome back to your roots! This is just the next part of your life journey. We have chapters. Not just stories. This chapter is US based for you. It will be as amazing, fulfilling, precious as you want it to be. 😊. 58 times around the sun has taught me tons.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you! I appreciate your perspective!

[@TheFroggie66]

@@TravelingwithKristin ☺️

[@geebs76]

On YOUR terms, on YOUR timeline. Yes! I changed careers 5 times and am now retired and living abroad. I had collections of vintage models, electronics, and cars. Over time I felt they were tying me down. I sold everything and am happy living a more minimalist lifestyle. I can live wherever I want whenever I want. But I have very good friends in their 70's that were born and still live in their home town and can't fathom my choices. We should do what is right for us and for some of us that changes with time.

[@jillkraemer1085]

I enjoy comments like This. Glad you're happy!

[@davidrivera2165]

Kristin, please know that there's always a cost to the choices we make to follow our dreams or to comply with society and family expectations of us. You've been blessed with great joyful experiences. Those of us who seemingly sacrifice our dream to built a " normal family and career", often struggle if it was worth it. As someone who traveled to Europe and Latin America during my college summer breaks, never to return due to real-life family commitments, your pain and struggle with choices is shared by us in thinking of missing out. Now, at 64 with three adult sons and twelve grandkids, and a wife of 42 years, who also shared my struggle with the sacrifices she made. I can tell you the emotional and financial struggles are real and often difficult to manage. But when you look back towards the end of your life, you will likely feel and tell yourself: Yes, it was all worth it. Now go on to your next step in life, it will be worth it, Cheers from up the road in Clearwater.

[@dbencic]

I appreciate your comment! Very relatable!

[@michaelsix9684]

you are so right

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for sharing. Raising such a large family must be rewarding! I hope you can fit some travel in as you deserve to enjoy all the hard work.

[@Mary-tx9ug]

@@TravelingwithKristin you’re doing the right thing Kristin. I’m an old lady now who never settled down or had a family traveling and working and generally had an interesting life that I got a lot of satisfaction from. Well, I am mostly happy, I definitely have regrets. It’s good that you’re taking some time to really think it out and make changes as you need.❤

[@williamsadorus7538]

Thanks!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you @williamsadorus7538!

[@11matt11]

Hi Kristen. I spent 20 years travelling and teaching around the world. What a life! This was way before the digital age, where all you had was a dingy old used travel book, and the knowledge of talking to others in hostels, guest houses, and restaurants. What an amazing adventure, Lived in many different countries on 5 continents, and met so many wonderful people and made me feel great about the world - as we are all so connected. Eventually you realize you were so lucky you had that life, but that was best done in your youth, as it gets much harder as you get older. The energy needed to solve the problems just isn't there anymore. Met a fantastic partner after 20, who wanted to settle down in the area I grew up in. I broke many hearts softly, before this because I wanted to continue to travel and do it with freedom. When you go to live in another country, you don't break up as normal, you simply move on and along with a good feeling about the person. In fact, my wife and I had a soft break up, but she kept writing, because she knew I was slowing down and we had this new thing called "the internet". When I went home one day for a sabbatical she came for a visit, and of course she needed a place to crash like I always did... and she never left. Crazy thing is, with my work experience, I started a company that helped match teachers, and schools with problems around the world. Now, I am travelling again, as our children are grown, and I need to connect for work, but almost always with my wife by my side - as she can work online. Only about 4 months of the year now, but our kids come to, sometimes, It came full circle. Key is: Don't give up the idea of travelling. What many don't realize, it's actually a huge difficult skill to learn for most people as you get older. Strangely, a majority of my friends were too worried to do it, until we took them with us and taught them the ropes. That started another company I had for a while. You have an amazing skill. You can always come back and use it for a myriad of things. Good luck.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for sharing your experience. Glad everything worked out for you. 😊 I will keep traveling in moderation ;)

[@HarryOsirian]

@@TravelingwithKristin Everything in moderation, Kristin. I think it's good to press pause for a while until you are able to ground yourself. Don't rush out again because of comments/peer pressure. I like your videos and will refer to them whenever I need a few tips. You're doing Ok, Kristin. Who knows what tomorrow brings.

[@Meandmymirror]

So cool! I’d love to know how to teach English somewhere. I just have a BA in psychology, but have worked as a para educator for 20 years. Suggestions?

[@11matt11]

​@@Meandmymirror If you haven't lived in a foreign country, I would highly recommend the starter countries, like Taiwan, South Korea, or Vietnam. Taiwan is by far the easiest, especially with your degree. Some will get a job before you go, but that usually means you pay a middleman part of your salary for at least a year. My recommendation is to go to Taiwan on a landing visa, (2 months), and check around for a month to see which place you like best, and maybe which job is better. Taiwanese are quite reserved, so the best jobs aren't always posted online or on message boards.... but sometimes they are. I found that most schools are very connected, and the best jobs I got at the beginning was calling an old ad, and asking if they knew any jobs in the area you wanted to teach in. I think Taipei City is the easiest, but there are lots of smaller cities like Taitung and Koashung (still big) always looking for teachers, because everyone starts in Taipei. The small cities and towns can be fun, and more of an immersive experience, but they also can have peculiar bosses, who can be eccentric. lol. But still very safe (almost all school boses are women called "Mamasans"). Taipei is more of a money maker, so it's very straight forward. (So are other big cities). Korea is also interesting, but it is normal to have a job before you go. Vietnam is very open right now, and there some small cities like Dalat and Hue, which are simply fantastic to live in. China is the wild wild east right now, so you can get some fantastic work there, or find yourself in a not very easy situation. And that can simply be the next city over. Taiwan is by far the safest, (One of the safest countries in the world, and much safer than the USA) while Vietnam and China can be variable. All three latter countries do research before you choose to live there. Lots of info online. Taiwan is safe everywhere.

[@11matt11]

​@@Meandmymirror PS. Japan is also great, safe, and cultural, and so is Spain, but both are much more work oriented countries, who also need you to get a TESL certificate and a job before you go. For a more adventurous but on the safe side, and especially if you've lived and paid rent in other countries before, I'd recommend Thailand, Columbia, Costa Rica, The Czech Republic, Latvia, Morocco, and Cambodia. Middle East can be very safe, but we've encounter too many extreme problems there, and don't send teachers anymore. Everything is usually fine, until it's not, then it's really bad.

[@FrostyBear74]

You are an inspiration to so many. I definitely could not live the lifestyle you have the last over the last twenty years. I learned many years ago from travel nursing that I need a home and prefer to take mini vacations. I need some home amenities to recharge and escape. My wife and I are starting some trips to Europe to figure out where we want our home base. We are about to move to Central Florida to establish our US home base and would be interested in becoming a client for your assistance in figuring out our European home base. Thank you for sharing your experiences and being genuine in your videos. You and Samantha Brown have been a big part of my travel goals and journey.

[@jackthe15headedmonster25]

Whatever steps you decide to take next, we are here to support you! Take your time

[@rockyzeender9069]

I hear so much of my past and present in your videos. I'm also splitting USA and euro, retired at 43 and it can bring its own unique challenges. We're all so lucky to have you here!!

[@taki2003]

your life and experiences have prepared you for this exact moment. changes challenge us but also open us up to new experiences and adventures. smile, soak in all the positive energy!! Best to you always!

[@rogerd9150]

First time watching. That video was very moving. Thanks for reminding everyone of what is really important in life.

[@Maestra_D]

So so proud of you and in awe of your bravery. I’ve sensed this coming and am so happy for you. It’s so hard to nurture real roots living on a merry-go-round! You’ve only just begun the next step of your amazing journey. And, it will be so amazing!Blessings. ❤

[@ryk500]

Thank you so much for being so open about your experiences. It is a real treat to learn about your life and hearing about the personal feelings you have experienced. I will always be a hugh fan!

[@42itously]

As a wannabe roving retiree, your insights are most helpful among a plethora of sources. Once upon a time I had the fortune of meeting two locals in Bali. Both had left Bali to explore and both ended up in the USA for a time. Although quite successful in the USA, they returned home to Bali for their culture and many of the same feelings you so truthfully expressed here. Bravo and thank you for sharing! ~ Mike ~

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thanks Mike! I’m glad I’m not alone 🙂

[@ShihanTomCallahan]

you are remarkable. I love your honesty and you being open as you are. I am sure it helps a lot of people. Best of luck with your decisions. It’s a journey and we are always finding our way

[@joshuao7947]

Thank you for sharing your incredible journey with us on YT. Whatever you decide, just know that you have changed the world for the better in a really big way. I have been following your channel for the last few years, and have gotten a lot of personal value from it, even though I wasn't able to travel much recently due to a number of factors. Thanks for being awesome, Kristin❤!

[@jzito9707]

Kristen, you have been so helpful with your videos, and this very personal one was very touching. We all really appreciate what have done for everybody. Life is a bear and we navigate and make decisions every day that affect us both personally and also our families and in your case, extended video families. Always growing, learning, and moving toward the love.

[@seselgroth]

I can see how hard this change is for you. Thank you for sharing your life. ❤

[@nickbali1534]

I am 75 , still leaving the U.K. every winter to follow the sun for 6 months. Firstly, I would highly recommend you getting a Permanent Residence Visa for Mexico, you can start the process in Miami, should be very easy for you. Not a bad idea to have a Plan B ready for the next lock down. They cant stop you leaving if you're headed for a country where you have residency. Secondly, change often makes us uncomfortable, you can't stop your body clock ticking, just be so grateful youve seen and experienced so much of the world in your youth! And now, when in doubt, stay put and wait patiently. Thirdly, I have taken a long time to learn that " Wherever you go, there you are". And so for me it always comes back to " Who am I" and the only answer to that is meditation, the only way. Much love to you Kristen, you are a sweetheart ❤️

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience @nickbali1534. It’s inspiring to hear how you’ve navigated your travels and adapted to life’s changes with such grace. Wishing you continued adventures and fulfillment in your travels and in all that you do. Much love and appreciation for your thoughtful message! ❤️

[@Bethstr]

Well, well said !

[@faraboverubieskerry]

Hi Kristin, I think it is great that you are wanting to slow down, spend time with family and maybe establish a residency somewhere else in the future. I also traveled a lot in my 20s and 30s. Then I started to want to slow down as well. I went back to the US and stayed there for many years. I moved abroad 2 years ago to work remotely and I have stayed in the same place in Croatia this whole time. I had not traveled in a while and some of your videos really inspired me to go for it so here I am! It is nice to get to know the locals and find favorite places etc. I wish you the best in this next phase of your journey. Thanks for all of the really useful info and video content you've shared so far. 🥰😍💖

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey and kind words! It’s wonderful to hear how you’ve found your own balance between travel and settling down, and how you’ve been inspired by the videos. Wishing you continued joy and fulfillment in your travels and new adventures. Thank you for being a part of this community! 🥰🌍💖

[@dericdavila9970]

Your video was amazing and I’m so proud of how brave you are to send that out to the world. I have a strong feeling good things are right around the corner for you. Keep your head up and give the world your beautiful smile always 😊.

[@damienbates]

Yes. For me, having my own family was very important but it requires a serious commitment of at least 20 years. I’m so glad I did it while I was young and had the energy and mental capacity to make it happen. Now at 50, I’m looking forward to slow traveling the world and inviting my kids to join me from time to time to experience it. Best wishes to you with finding someone to share your journey with. I’ve never grown more as a person than when I had a wonderful woman in my life.

[@trainsbuseshostels]

Thanks for sharing and recognizing that times have changed for you and you need time to clarify what is right for you in the future. We all need that at different points in our life. Congratulations on accepting that and expressing it! We all need to listen more to our intuition and heart. Wishing you all the best.

[@michaelmcdowell6792]

Thank You for your perspective on living in these times.

[@HandyDandy4u]

My wife and I are in our mid 50s and your videos have been instrumental in our earlybretirement planning process to engage in slow Travel. Of all the travel channels out there, the thing we have always loved about you is how you bring this human, personal perspective to the experience of travel. This video exemplifies that more than anything else we've seen from you, and we love you for that. Good luck in where your journey takes you and we hope you will still keep putting out content.

[@Awusie]

Thank you for bravely, openly sharing your story and concerns. Really hits home. Keep inspiring and educating us on the pros & cons of nomad life. ❤

[@carolchisholm433]

Thank you for all the advice over the years. ❤. I’m glad you are taking some time for yourself.

[@olschool1963]

Kristin, I can relate, I travled for work, all in the USA between ages of 25-40. I loved every minute of it, but something deep inside longed for my own bed every night, a home of my own , and possibly a partner. When I stopped traveling and built my own house, I was completely fullfilled and content , even though I had not found a life partner. But, having a place that was mine, offered a sence of security that was unmatched, while I did endure some stuggles after having my own home, all of which where intrnal confilcts, once I addresed them and came to a place of peace happiness and joy, I have never looked back. You're certaily one of the most beautiful woman I ever laid eye's on physically, and your spirit and being is equally attractive. Jim

[@floridaadventuremom2064]

I remember reading years ago about a Military nurse who had traveled to over 60 countries, and was asked where was her favorite place she’s ever been. She answered without hesitation, Home. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a home, with family and friends and a place you feel comfortable with. Traveling is wonderful and the 20 years of traveling you did has been an amazing experience I’m sure. But people evolve and change and I find the older I get the more I crave simple pleasures. I know you will find the balance you are looking for. And as for traveling, you could always do the Rick Steves schedule, travel abroad for 4 months, and then come home. No matter what, best wishes to you and your future plans 🙏❤️

[@sonderexpeditions]

I agree. It was travel that made me love my life in the usa more.

[@debbieg8951]

So much wisdom in this video. Thanks for being vulnerable and transparent, Kristin. I always enjoy your insights, and I appreciate how you always acknowledge that each person is on their own journey and their own timeline - there’s no “one-size-fits-all” approach. Wishing you the very best in this new, slow-ish, more relationship-oriented chapter of your life. Enjoy the Miami sunshine, sea, and sand! I’m a south Florida girl, too, and sometimes I miss it so much!!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, Debbie! Hope you are well wherever you’re traveling at the moment!

[@eddieklemm661]

Thank you for sharing. I am so glad that you are able to share this experiences with us.

[@NanasTarotOracles13]

There's no place like home... Peace&Love ✌💗

[@janetpartyka5968]

Where ever that may be. Peace and love.

[@Mr.DJones]

Thank you for your time and posting. I think our society puts too much pressure and emphasis on certain things, making it difficult to decide on what we should do. As long as you are truly happy with your decisions, they are great decisions. And you can change at any time.

[@fastneataverage]

I was glued to this. You described so many of the mixed feelings I have had after lving in other countries for many years. Living abroad has changed me for the better, forever. I love the adventure, variety and freedom that comes with it. I also am someone who values deep connection, friendships and community which has not always been easy for me in a nomadic lifestyle. I have been amazed to hear how you have confronted so many fears that come with the uncertainties of extended travel, and have still stayed true to your values, even if they feel like they compete within you. You live a life that is truly inspiring.

[@dbencic]

Well put

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Glad it was relatable! Thanks for the comment

[@sonderexpeditions]

Same. I had to stop after 20+ countries. It's always been difficult to want so many things at 1x.

[@Throp]

Thanks for sharing. Best of luck with this next chapter of your life. We’ll be here watching, learning and supporting

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much @Throp!

[@aliciachao7490]

How beautiful to be honest and vulnerable about it. On to the next journey🥰

[@daehako]

I've done the slow travel life style for years and now that I'm older I totally get where you are at Kristin. Life priorities change, what's important comes into focus, relationships. Looking forward to this next chapter in your life seeing how it will evolve.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Maybe we should start a club of slower, older travelers haha ;)

[@perrybruce4914]

I'm so proud of you with your journey in life (not just around the world)! You started off wanting to see the world, but it almost seems as if you were "trying to find yourself" and you now realize that "yourself" was in Miami (with your family & friends) all along! Wisdom comes with age and you start to cherish the little things in life. From what I gather from your videos, I think that you've had a bit of loneliness and not "feeling connected" which wound happen when you move too much. I know that you will travel some, but I truly hope that you get what you need out of life at your established home base in Miami! Thanks for everything you do and share with others.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thanks Perry :) wherever you go, there you are (as the saying goes)

[@roofnugs3202]

Onwards and upwards Kristin! Being true to your own integrity is sometimes hard, but in the long run its the only way to go. Best of luck moving forward in your life.

[@Olivesandantlers]

I hope you truly know the incredible impact you have made on so many of us. Honestly, you provided insight and the confidence I so needed to change my life. 60 year old Canadian leaving for Alicante Spain in 19 days. Thank you ❤

[@TravelingwithKristin]

So happy to hear, Leah! All the best in your travels!

[@bryanstoopscomedy8987]

I have seen a lot of your content and I really enjoy it. I hope you find peace on your journey, truly. Revel in having helped many people with information in your content and know there are people rooting for you and hoping you won't be too hard on yourself while you solidify your personal sense of identity in light of the transitions you're making.

[@gefginn3699]

Well said Kristin. This is a great share. It's important to keep in mind that this life doesn't need to follow any rigid structure or scheduled framework. All our lives are fluid and subject to change always. Embrace change with an open and happy heart. Great big hugs to you. 🤗😇💛

[@linda99]

A big HUG to you Kristin. You are loved.

[@tamagastat]

You are wonderful!!! Take this new phase of your life with the same enthusiasm you have all previous ones. Be happy. I wish you the best.

[@nicolas689065]

Thank you for your honesty

[@TravelingwithKristin]

My pleasure :)

[@flax4343]

I've enjoyed your videos off & on for a few years. I like you. You seem very earnest, trustworthy. As the saying goes "Wherever you go, there you are."

[@lc7169]

I have done SOOO Much traveling throughout my 20’s, 30’s, 40’s and now 50’s that I want Nothing more than to just stay put in my beautiful home with my lovely neighbors. I know I will have to travel to Japan a few more times over the next few years to visit my 19 year old son who loves the culture and is attending school over there. But if I never flew on a plane again for the rest of my life I would be very happy. I’m so thankful I did it all when I was young and full of energy versus now having less energy and being adventurous / cautious than I used to be. Travelling and experiencing life in different cultures is absolutely amazing and I highly recommend it. But foe me, I love nothing more than being stabilized and at home.

[@shameemnazeer121]

Thanks for sharing Kristin! I can understand how difficult the change might be. I feel like I’m going through a similar shift in my career. I think we all have to acknowledge that we change and need different things at different times in our lives. Congratulations on all your achievements. I know you will continue to evolve and do more new and interesting things. Your authenticity has always been an inspiration.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Hi Shameem! I just sent you an email today ❤️ Glad to hear that this video was helpful in some way. Thank you for the continued support!

[@untouchable360x]

"You must choose one of two pains in life. The pain of discipline or the pain of regret. Discipline weighs ounces while regrets weighs tons."

[@monibushan6714]

Wow! Love this profound saying!❤

[@FlorensVanSchooten]

Kristin, I felt you in every one of your words. You've inspired me to be a nomad, even though I've only just started, my fears are the same. Thank you for everything you've done for the community and enjoy this time for yourself and your family. I love you and thank you for your courage.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

My pleasure, Florens. Enjoy the journey!

[@kaffir76]

Thank you for being real in a KZbin world. All the best. 😀😀

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for the kind words @kaffir76!

[@barryepstein2816]

Thank you for sharing your insights and journey with us! You are an inspiration and joy to watch and learn from!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m really glad to hear that you’ve found inspiration and joy in my journey. Your support means a lot! 🌟😊

[@00st307-m]

Literally the worst time to come back to the US

[@aleixriberaa_]

Best time, Trump is back🔥👊

[@chazybenton6784]

ABSOLUTELY the worst time to come back 💯

[@truth-alwayswins]

@@aleixriberaa_uh…he does not like you but…congrats on the groveling.

[@timothyclark-sl4il]

we're fucked.

[@MA-yc7pz]

Quite the opposite...you let politics dictate your life you will never live fully....

[@NateInYoState]

@9:00 sorry for your lost! your videos have been helpful. Thank you for your sacrifices. Wish you the best on your journey

[@TravelingwithKristin]

I appreciate that, thank you!

[@MichaelJohnson-mh7mp]

You are a storyteller and a life coach. It is a blast just listening to you. I have enjoyed the travel, I've done a little, but I understand moving wears on you, not to mention creating content.

[@BillPetrovas]

Good analysis - 20 years of experience travelling. What's important in life?

[@derekloman420]

Love this I find simplicity is the best for me lately . I moved back to my hometown in Wyoming and spent the last month in the mountains reconnecting with nature and my roots! Hope you find your balance i know its hard Trust much love!!!!!!

[@ettevaatustproductions6164]

Hey Kristin, my wife and I used to live in China and it always felt unsettled. It was one of those situations where we took it year by year but it turned into over 8yrs. During the pandemic we lived out of our suitcases and ended up staying with a friend in KC, MO for a couple of months and in turn this turned into us living there in that area for over 3yrs. We now live in Bulgaria (an hour away from Bansko) and love it here. We feel rooted and have recently gotten a pet which we've talked about for over 10yrs. Anyways to say all of this is that we've left family behind and have lost family members and gained others. We are now grandparents, but only see our grandchildren about every 2yrs which is the hardest thing about living abroad. Our lives have been a roller coaster and now we are at a stage of saving up money to one day settle down more permanently than we are now. Living in Bulgaria is a slower lifestyle, but it's been such an enriching experience. We love that we know our neighbors, can walk around at midnight and feel safe, and that we can save so much money here. We live frugally with my wife's income as the main income, but we don't need anything fancy living here. Thank you for sharing. I've always enjoyed your videos and the richness of your knowledge about the world we live in and how to navigate the complexities of different countries. Keep your head up and keep looking ahead.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much for sharing. Life is full of hard choices but we’ve got this!

[@mikestout9588]

Sounds like a dream life indeed. How did your wife manage to find a fully remote job? Any tips?

[@ettevaatustproductions6164]

@@mikestout9588 She's a university professor. I worked for a newspaper before it downsized.

[@photopro100]

Nice to see you again Kristin. I came to a similar realization and spend more time with surviving relatives and friends at home. My trip planning has changed from firm plans to built-in flexibility to change anytime necessary or based on mood which is not what I did in the past decades.

[@1thomson]

Hi, Kristin. Like so many others posting here, I've watched and enjoyed your videos over the last few years. I'm not surprised that you've come to this place in your life's journey. It's quite natural to pause and take stock. We all need to do that. And not just once, but many times. It's just the way we humans are. I grew up the son of an American Army officer. We traveled and lived in many different places while I was a boy and, afterward, I did more of that as a young man on my own. But, eventually, I grew tired of it and decided to pick a favorite place and just settle into it. That didn't mean that I couldn't travel when I wanted to, but it did mean that I had a place that became "home". And we all need "home", deeply. My place is in the San Francisco Bay Area. I've lived in a few different places in this area, but I've never moved far to do that. After 50 years here, I think I know it pretty well ... and I still love it. There are other places I could love as well, but this is the one I chose, and I'm glad that I did. You will find your place, Dear, if you haven't already. And you will love it too, warts and all. 🥰 JT

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thanks JT! I’ve started looking for houses so we’ll see. Glad you found a place to call home :)

[@alaenke]

Thank you for sharing this with us. Wishing you all the best as you find clarity on this next phase of your life. 💕

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you @alaenke!

[@BaintonTV]

Kristin, actually very good to see you in this reflective phase of your life. As a fellow writer, creator, and filmmaker, here are a couple of things I've learned after 66 years, being married to an Italian for 40 wonderful years, and being Brit-American by birth: 1) Give yourself permission to daydream; in fact, you should spend at least an hour every morning journaling with a nice cappuccino next to you, sitting on a comfy couch; 2) Something to consider now that you've consolidated your brand under 'Traveling' with Kristin: the word travelling denotes many things, eh? Why limit yourself to just the independent lifestyle when you are now kinda on an entrepreneural 'Traveling' journey...perhaps your music journey could be added to that 3-4 pillars of the story types you present every month, no?...it is in the struggle for success in something new that teaches the viewer so much more, no?; On the relationship side, that's a tough one, as the dynamics between men and women now are quite, sadly, distorted, with so many men, for instance, terrified of long-term relationships; Another factor you need to consider is the 'danger aspect,' which you didn't mention herein, as without doubt (re: the recent uprisings in the UK, for example), this is, in my opinion, going to spread to France, Italy, and Spain, hence why my wife and I are still here in San Diego. Lastly, once the world situation calms down, I would consider a US base and only ONE other European destination (or favorite overseas destination), as it becomes too much to deal with the increasing headaches associated with international travel these days. You are greatly appreciated by everyone here-- and you know how to reach me, if you ever wish to chat. God bless...and looking forward to your continuing adventures and 'travelings' :). Cheers, Stephen!

[@michaelsix9684]

great advice

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you, Stephen! I always appreciate your advice. I also recall we talked about the brand consolidation long ago. Time will tell what happens next. Safe travels!

[@redflamemarketinguk]

Bless you, Kristin. Life is a series of chapters. Best wishes for the next chapter of your life.

[@dohdoh2430]

Travel is fun, but life is about sharing the time you have with people close to you.

[@1lwtcasl]

Fascinating insights into who you are and then who you want to become. Thanks for sharing and stay strong. Your path will become clear.