Why I Quit my "GREAT" Job in Tech

[@DIYDalia]

For a few reasons I feel a bit anxious about this video today. I think it’s because this is a topic I struggled with for a long time and also something I didn’t talk about online. I personally never like to portray a glamour around success or achievement and I feel really weird about explaining anything around that and my past as I did in this video… but I also felt that I had to for the context of this video to make sense and for it to be of help to anyone who is in the same position as I was. For years I felt very alone in this whole journey that got me to where I am today. I felt so stuck feeling so dreadful about my outlook on life. I know there are so many other people who feel the same way and who dream of doing something different but can’t even envision a world where that is possible. That was me. I hope this video helps some of you. 💞❤️

[@mahimabharti5469]

I m really inspired by you n love u. I m a student from India n chose a wrong stream(u know society idolised it) which is not of my interest n I m regretting it...but still thriving to sustain with better position...u really are ossm...jst wanted to convey thanks for this...this was what I needed...which is self motivation. thank you mam ❤️❤️❤️

[@sofierdblog]

Me in a nutshell.

[@BiancaHardison]

Thank you for being brave to share this video

[@whatlolawants2167]

Thank you Dalia, I really appreciate your honesty and opinion.

[@alisonyoung1025]

Hi from the west coast of Canada! I am at a point in my life where I want a change in my career. I love the idea of starting a KZbin channel but I fear that I won't make money or it will be draining or stressful. Any advice?

[@santokki0502]

I echo this 100%. 2 years ago I quit an extremely high-paying job (as VP) from a fortune 500 company because of the same reasons mentioned in this video, despite of stern warnings from loved ones that I am doing the worst possible choice in my life and that some would kill for my role. Now, I live a quiet, simple and extremely happy life in a small farm house and I couldn't ask for more.

[@craftydiysph]

My dream, living in a small farm house with all my cats and dogs. :)

[@evolvo_e4129]

Wow ! Worked in healthcare for 8 years to make my family happy! Finally decided to quit all together in December and go after what my heart set out to do. Family was not supportive at all , looked at me as a failure automatically. Just great to hear others story about choosing what makes them happy and that I’m not alone ! Thanks

[@riannatripp6594]

Good for you. Family are ones who is supposed to be supportive and if they are not their for you what does that say volumes

[@leadicenta6028]

Thanks Dalia for this video. I also worked for Deloittr for 2 years to make my friends and my parents proud of myself. I thought I would have a successful career and have a lot of money. But unfortunately I was so sad at my work, I hated my managers and team members... I felt so bad to go back to work on Monday. I also felt this anxiety when it was Sunday night. I finally quit my corporate job to work as an interior decor expert and I have a decor shop. I feel actually proud of myself and I am happy to work everyday! My parents were afraid of me quitting my job but now they are happy cause they see I'm way more enthusiastic and I feel mentally better. So your story is so relatable to me

[@DIYDalia]

I literally teared up reading your story because I can only imagine how you must have felt being sad at work and how strong you were to believe in yourself and go for something that makes you happy, despite your parent’s worry! And you’ve accomplished so much! I’m so happy for you!!! ❤️

[@blisshayes5320]

Wow! Amazing, how did you get into interior decor without experience?

[@leadicenta6028]

@@DIYDalia thanks ❤️😍

[@leadicenta6028]

@@blisshayes5320 I'm passionate and I followed some online courses to build website!

[@TailorMarieMarrs]

Great video! I quit my “dream career” for my real dream which is to be a stay at home mom. Proud of you for sharing this!

[@DIYDalia]

I love that! 🥰

[@Imthebrownunicorn]

I did the same. I went to college got the degrees and certificates but that did nothing for me! The day I accepted my joy was in being a stay at home mom and dedicating myself to being a homemaker my life changed

[@SoccerDua]

Super relatable. My come to Jesus moment was meeting a romantic partner who didn’t give two shits about what I do for a living or how successful I was. I’ve always centered my identity in success (academic, career), so seeing my worth through my partner’s eyes, which had nothing to do with my job, was extremely surprising and fulfilling. I wish that kind of grace for everyone- surround yourself with solid people with non-brainwashed values.

[@Dogdude2]

Dahlia, I just found you on KZbin last week. I’ve watched a few of your videos. They’re fun and you are talented for sure. But it was seeing this video that made me subscribe to your channel. Thanks for being real, genuine, and willing to share something that rings true for so many. Statistics show that for a majority of the population, since COVID, we (US citizens, especially women) are rethinking what a “good job” (or career) means to us-that our quality of life and joy means more than just our quality of pay. Life is short. If YOU have no one to encourage you, like so many of us don’t, then I can! Or maybe others here on your channel can encourage you too along your journey- others who’ve had their own wake up call and realization of what truly matters day to day. I’m proud of you for sure. You can do it! And THANK YOU for encouraging the rest of us and speaking out about your experience. Not all of us have a platform to talk about the courageous decisions we are making for ourselves, our futures, and our family. Thank you for being my voice when I thought no one heard me or understood me for the last 2+ years. When I heard you speak in this post, so much of what you said felt like you were putting words to what I have felt for so long-but much more eloquently. Keep going! Did you know that to “ENCOURAGE” means to “GIVE COURAGE”? Well, you did this for me with this post…I hope I can repay and give a little back to you with my reply message 🙏🏼💕🌸Gabriella

[@DIYDalia]

Wow thank you so much for your kindness and encouragement it truly means soooo much to me! 💞

[@kailey4930]

While I haven't had this experience in a corporate job, I had a similar realization in academia - I left a PhD program. The hardest part about it was telling my family and some friends, because I didn't want to be seen as a failure, even though I was sure of my decision. It is never too early or too late to decide what you want to do with your life, and being happy feels much better than constant stress, dread, and anxiety!

[@DIYDalia]

Oh gosh - the pressure around education is so real 🥺! That must have been so hard but honestly good for you for doing what was right for you.. proud of you💞

[@kailey4930]

@@DIYDalia thank you

[@Jiesta1256]

WOW! This video made me tear up, it's as if I hear my own story being told, ... except no happy end for me; I never found the guts to quit in time and leave all the stress behind... Now, at 60+ and looking back I know staying in stressfull jobs isn't right... but unfortunately there was no support, no help, no example, no knowledge ... I applaud you for making this video and your explaining in depth the how and why of your choise. I know a lot of young people will be helped by this video to comprehend their situation better to make the right choice and step out of this ratrace... I know I could have used / would have loved such an encouraging story in my time! Bravo girl and I am so happy for you that you quit your job and found the real/right fulfillment of your life! (as English isn't my native language, I hope you will forgive me my mistakes)

[@nuthinbutlove]

Dalia, congratulations! I once worked in a corporate job complete with bonuses, raises, where you could move up (if you were white and male) and if not you were given more responsibility and more money, just not a title. I rolled over one day and picked up the phone to tell them that I wouldn't be there anymore, that they could have any sweaters in my closet, any money I left in my drawer and where it was kept. At the time I knew I wanted be professional musician and although I hadn't even started working locally left something in me knew I could do it. I guess it was because I never learned self-doubt. A few months later not only did I have a local gig but I was playing 5 nights a week in a house band. A few years later I was touring internationally with award winning artists. Belief in oneself is amazing! So glad you found it!

[@randyw4984]

I retired after 30 years from that corporate job! I am grateful for what I have and what I left with, but It was an enormous sacrifice and I too did it for my parents. I was never brave enough to leave and the longer you stay the harder it is. It is commonplace as you say, There is no respect for skill or loyalty it is all about what you did in the moment.. I did not disclose about my ADD either as that would make you the sick fish in the tank and all the other fish would go after you. YOU ARE SMART AND BRAVE. Thank you for this, for all of people who are sick to there stomachs on Sunday afternoon because on Monday it starts again. ❤

[@angelafisher4550]

I'm so glad you made this video. I'm currently working a teaching job that I've had for 15 years and it's getting harder and harder each year. My passion is art but I don't know where to start. I just want to be happy and do what I love!!

[@fyiceo]

Google your art interest...there are A LOT of art tutorials...please follow that passion. You will not regret it...❤️❤️

[@clairevillanueva2393]

Hi Dahlia! Thanks for making this video. I live in the Philippines and earn a very decent amount of money working for a US-based company. Because my clients' businesses are in the US, this means I have to work during their timezone (graveyard). I work from the comforts of my home so one might think that I am really lucky to have these jobs but no. I work through the night and this made me really miserable. I feel like I've missed my kids' early stage because I have to get sleep during the day and work at night while they are asleep. I have just found the courage to quit because it's no longer worth it. No regrets at all. I get to sleep at night, spend more time with my kids during the day, or at least help them prepare for school in the morning. I will no longer sacrifice my health and relationships for a job that will not really have my back when I get sick or grow old.

[@rebeccacampbell585]

Great message! We only have a short time here and we need to think about how we are spending our lives.

[@DIYDalia]

Completely agree! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@phybe_seto]

YES, THIS!!! You're changing things up. Generational healing with scarcity mindset. Keep following your gut, you weren't made to fit in and be the same. You're doing so much healing for yourself and generations to come. Thank you 🙏🏻💗

[@shauniebnaturalista6672]

My last job bonused me $10,000 and then fired me one month later. Not job performance. Politics. That was in 2010. I never looked for another job. Started my own business. We've made $1 million every year for the last 3 years. Do your own thing. Corporate absolutely sucks.

[@DIYDalia]

Omg YES!!! I love a success story! Huge smile on my face! Congrats on all your success!! 🥰🥰

[@positivitylove67]

Dalia - Thank you so much for making and posting this video! You are truly a pure soul on this earth. It's nice when I come across people, who share a similar mindset like mine. May you continue to be happy with your decisions. 🙂

[@yeeeg]

This came at a time that I really needed it, so thank you for sharing your story with us!!

[@tamarinapiccolina7]

Wow needed to hear this so much! Been struggling for a while with this, going back and forth in my head… nice to know I’m not alone. Thank you Dalia❤️

[@dianaduncan4800]

I have a friend who is struggling with this exact situation right now. I shared your video with her. I applaud your courage!

[@alexandraturnbull2783]

Dalia - this video spoke straight to my soul 😩 the corporate world is full of politics and unrealistic expectations stemming from people we don’t really like (often don’t) anyway. All for what is fair and what we feel we need to do to have security. But none of this actually feeds your soul. It hits home because I also feel like I need to reach this social construct of having “made it” and I’m not quite sure how to shake that feeling. So I admire your courage in going after your dream and leaving behind what made you unhappy. And now, selfishly, we benefit from this also 😀📺

[@bbjcassteen4714]

You my dear are a brave, confident, smart young woman who knows what she wants. You are and always will be a sucess in anything you choose to do, and I applaud you in your choice. Good for you because many are and continue to be in the place you once were, and you chose to break free. Be happy and can't wait to see what you tackle next.

[@itsoneAM]

Thank you for the very honest chat on this topic! Everything you’ve shared resonates and is a universal experience. It truly does help listening to someone who’s taking the plunge and started anew

[@cre8myreality216]

Soooooo on point. I don't have a "corporate job" but feel like " o boy gotta go make the donuts again" and feel like my passion for really helping and uplifting people and just being creative with my crafts does not have a chance of growing while I work for someone. I had said years ago "I stopped chasing the imagery carrot, stopped playing the game and now trying to figure out how to do my thang. Your words words were powerful and appreciated. Blessings and much love 🙏🏾👑💞😘

[@Bearfootmom]

Thank you for this video and sharing your experience! It made me think I don't have to go through what "society" think I should do. I stayed home for 12 years with 4 kids, and now as my youngest turned 5, I get these "well ment" comments that I should start looking for a "normal" job. But I feel I should continue to do what I love, which is to care after my family (because as kids get older they still require a lot of time), my house, sewing, embroidery, gardening, etc. Thank you!

[@jacquelinegiesbrecht5801]

You could sell some kids cloth on etsy if you can sew. My mum Was there for her 3 kids and managed the househould much Vetter then others. She choosed her kids and peace before money. That is totally fine. Others just don't like it because they wished to do the same

[@TradeWise1000]

I really liked this video and it hit home. I am currently in “low level” job by appearances and I keep struggling if I should apply for something higher for appearances BUT my boss is great and those are soo hard to come by and I make more than enough for my lifestyle. I decided not to apply for the next level because you have to find that balance and it is up to the individual what that is.

[@JerseyAccent653]

as long as you're happy... why change what you're doing? Unless you start to get bored and need a change it up. lol

[@KaySalgado01]

Dalia! You are over here spitting so much knowledge. Yassss girl!! I quit my job 3 months ago and started a small business. I’m still scared as heck but I’m doing it. Hugs to anyone who resonated with dalias words bc I know I did ♥️

[@MicheleWalkerWebb]

I'm proud of this video. I'm proud you did it. Spoke openly. Freely. With such confidence in your decision. It may hurt those loved ones, but, it's "your" life. When I was in the corporate world it was my choice to keep quiet. I said my Good Morning & Good Evenings only. Did not share a thing regarding myself. I heard them talk about others. Anyway, Dalia, these comments are exciting. You've touched so many. You're followers are now friends. What a feeling. Just so proud that you've reached so many. Much love to you 💜⚘

[@selinacelliers7290]

Your words are absolutely true. Making this video will help a lot more people re think their lives. God bless you.

[@jess2166]

Thank you for straying from your usual content to talk about this! I quit my job a few months ago and am currently regrouping and figuring out what to do next. I was so stressed, taking on additional roles bc of other resignations, my boss was a snake. I know it was the right decision but I do still feel shame about being perceived as giving up or not making my parents proud. It’s really made me think about what it means to be a successful adult. It’s a work in progress. Love your videos and word of wisdom here.

[@GardeniasandGrace]

I am so glad I clicked on this video. Thank you for sharing your experience. You vocalized just about everything I am feeling and struggling with right now. In 2 months, I will have been at my current organization for 10 years. 1st 5 years in 1 position, then promoted to the next position. There is a potential for another promotion, but to a position I do not want, tho it would look good on a resume. It's a struggle. Do I do what makes sense financially and career-wise or do I go with my gut and figure out an exit plan? This video you made has helped me in that decision making process. Thank you again. 💛

[@Liza03V]

You are such a strong and elegant woman. Never go back to your own decisions and you should be proud of yourself. Keep going and just be happy for your self and not for the others. The time you realise that then you are free to bloom. Keep going and I wish you all the best.

[@Ylime00120]

Thank you for this video, Dalia ❤️ I was laid off a few weeks ago and have decided to try to start my own business rather than applying for traditional jobs. After a string of toxic work environments and bad bosses I realized that I'd much rather try working for myself for awhile. I don't know how things will work out, but I'm grateful for role models like you who show people that non-traditional careers are an option. Thank you for emphasizing the importance of happiness within a career! 🌟

[@natvtxn1213]

You are such an awesome motivator! You speak to so many of us. Thank you!!!

[@ladytaurus1188]

My daughter showed me one of your videos tonight ( I love Diy) and now I've been binge watching you, let me say I obviously don't know you, but u are AWESOME and this video hits home on so many levels. You are a pure inspiration...KEEP STRIVING AND MAY U HAVE CONTINUED PEACE 🥰

[@DIYDalia]

Awh welcome to my channel and thanks so much for the kind words!!

[@annaboada1043]

I 1000% agree with you! Thank you for such an honest video, it’s really refreshing to know that so many people out there share same life perspective. You are so brave! Believe it…you are making a difference.

[@nicholaslake5937]

Your description of your Mon-Sun emotional-mental cycle reminded me so much of when I was a public school teacher. Likely because my salary was much lower than yours, and no stock options I'm afraid, I without hesitation made the decision to quit after my 1st year. I bounced around between jobs and can say that I was very happy when I was living abroad and making about 5-10% of what I make now......the happiness came from the lifestyle, the time with friends, the pursuit of personal goals, etc. I echo that while making enough money to support you and your family (if applicable) is essential, if you LIVE your LIFE as your primary focus and then find ways to make enough money while living that life as secondary or lower priority, you are more likely to be fulfilled and happy. My wife recently quit her job working for a big company and a lot of what you said about your experiences apply to her as well. I'll have her give this one a watch to give her a support boost.....not that she regrets leaving.

[@sibylledecarlo7108]

Very important message here!! Oh how I can relate - By listening to your body & soul we can make job changes. People forget it takes a lot of work to do this or manage a great YT channel. I say save money to prepare for any career changes.We are all worth it- Keep going..

[@ccgreen83]

this is so relatable. I have hated my jobs for the last 20 years (10 years at previous job, 10 years at current job). My dream job is to just be a stay at home mom. I’m burnt out, and the pressure of having to work at a job/company I’m not happy at to help provide for my family puts a tremendous amount of pressure on me, and makes my mental illness worse. I have a bleak outlook on life because I dread every day having to wake up and do something for the majority of my day that is so unfulfilling. there is a lot more, but you clearly understand what I’m getting at. at the end of the day making yourself miserable to appease others including family members, spouses, etc is extremely damaging to our own sense of self. I’m glad you were able to start living life for you. I hope I can get there soon. ❤

[@anathen]

I feel seen!!! Thanks for sharing!!! Different industry.. same horrible boss (just one). Glad I made a change last January

[@ericirwin98]

You don’t know how much I needed to hear this. Today I woke up and was so happy and in such a great mood… and then I got to work and it was all taken away from.. almost the second I walked in the door.. I want to leave so bad, it constantly makes me feel like crap, I get all the crappy shifts and feel like people that are older than me or that are newer to the company than me are more of a prototype than I am. I just feel so unappreciated and less than. I want to leave but just don’t know where I would go… I’ve always covered others shifts, pulled doubles. Gone in on days off and worked for over a month straight on MULTIPLE occasions. I just recently called out for the first time since I started 3 & 1/2 years ago because I had an upper respiratory infection and I only missed one shift. I’m not in corporate, havnt gone to college and just don’t know what I can do or where I could possibly go… I’m 23 this is my first job and I’ve worked my way up from the bottom as a busser up to a manager… please if anyone has advice I’d really appreciate. Thanks. ❤️

[@flavarz]

Thanks so much for sharing!!! 🙏❤ i truly appreciate it as i've been mulling it over in my mind how i don't want to work 9-5 for the rest of my days. I want to do something i'm passionate about because I believe you... money can't buy true happiness. A simple life that I can sustain and live sustainably, happy & feeling alive from the inside out. As long as i'm doing something i love... the pressure to impress and make ones parents proud is really true. I feel you! I hope i find the courage to do what you did. You are truly remarkable and inspiring Dalia. Thanks so much!

[@parinita.shetty]

Seeing you struggle through your fears and challenges every day makes one feel that this is normal. Most people go through the same thing and there is no need to feel inadequate.

[@kilamilka97]

Mine was about security. Slogged for decades. I’ve recently started my own business and this vid is perfect because I want to be a good boss. I’m so happy in my job and that’s an understatement. I encourage my children to quit if they aren’t satisfied in there jobs. It’s part of the journey in life I feel. People think me and my family are weird. But we’re happy, mostly. Strive to fulfil your happy place..❤️awesome vid

[@Offthebeatenpath.]

Really enjoyed this! I'm a homemaker and I totally felt what you said about the politics at work! I don't miss it!

[@dhil333]

Appreciate your openness and thank you for sharing it. I quit my job it was hard for me , took two years to work with my mind no one was supportive but I did after two years of struggle inside me. Now I am not doing anything that I wanted to do and I loved to do. During that time I became depressed and Lost all the interests in what I was loving and lost my confidence.

[@maxpay150]

You are so amazing and strong, to find the right way to heal and treat your soul.

[@HAppytobeHer]

Wowwww I felt this sooo much! Only my experience is nearly the same in education not tech 😅 we are worthy!

[@jeaniceanderson]

I have been an LVN for almost 18 years! I'm starting my own business, and I also want to start a KZbin channel. My goal in life wad to get my RN-BSN, and open up a group home. Since last year, I've decided to take a different route. I'm praying that when I launch, my business will take off and I can reduce my hours that I work, or quit. And you're right, it's not about the money. I want to have flexibility to where I can be home more, and have my kids involved in sports, dance and etc. This video came at the right time to push myself even harder.❤

[@andreeatudorache97]

It is so inspiring to see such care for the soul and what I consider a heathy mindset. I could not agree more and this video just attached the words to the thoughts in my head. Wish you all the joy possible!

[@imagemaker8268]

Hi Dalia! I just found your videos today and subscribed. You are super creative and talented! I echo you on the corporate job scene. I currently work at a bank in finance and it is everything you mentioned. Although, my job is not stressful I have been feeling to leave and work as an entreprenaur. I am a creative who went to art school and feel stuck in a 9-5. While I am grateful for a job I know this is not the life I was called to. You inspire me with your courage. I just have to find something to supplement income. I would love to downgrade to maybe Vanlife and then eventually a tiny home. In the words of Bob Marley "Money cant buy life". Yes, we need it but, it doesnt not wake us up everyday. God does and he will lead🙏.

[@cosyapartmentireland6986]

Wow, this video was amazing Dalia. Thank you so much for sharing, so many of us are going to relate! ❤️

[@kimmhclouthier2594]

Good for you for quitting and putting your quality of life first. I sucked it up for too many years and regret not leaving sooner. I took a job a couple years before retirement that was way “below” for lack of a better word. I made one quarter of my salary but had a smile on my face going to work everyday. Mind you sacrifices we’re made but it’s true, money won’t buy happiness.

[@songsongsingasong]

Appreciate this post! Relate 100%, takes a lot of courage to switch!

[@DIYDalia]

Thanks so much!

[@journeytowisdomandwealth2905]

Balance and Peace in life is so underrated I absolutely 💯 love ❤️ this video

[@donatacoombsfarrell3624]

Thank you for sharing, I'm sure this will help people look at life in a different view at times you need someone to say it. It makes you feel not alone and that change is soo possible... xxx

[@whatshellydoes7308]

You have expressed what I believe and how I feel succinctly. Especially, the bits about making "parents" proud and my self-worth. I still struggle with anxiety about financial security and retirement but the absence of the other soul-sucking aspects gives me the opportunity to think about these things more rationally and make better decisions. Thank you so much for sharing Dalia. This is why I love your channel: you're different in your outlook and how you go about your projects. You need to do a Ted Talk. Know that your difference is noted, loved and appreciated. Thanks again!

[@janewong6952]

this is amazing and exactly what i needed to hear. thank you for being so open and posting

[@leilani2258]

THANK YOU for posting this. 😭🙏🏽❤

[@Nina-zv5cg]

From a fellow ADHDer, I love this. I feel like the rigidness of corporate can be so numbing to creative ADHD minds, and I can so relate to the toxicity experienced by many. I am lucky enough to have a great boss for the first time in my entire career, but have the burden of working in corporate and still barely making ends meet... as do many in the current economic climate in South Africa. I do trust that opportunities will arise though. AAAAAND on a more positive note, you should start a podcast! 😁 your voice is very soothing and your ideas are inspiring and intriguing! ❤️

[@cryztvl]

Oh how I can relate!!! The way I just am so tired on the weekdays… I know it’s more than physical exhaustion. The weekend comes and it’s exactly like how you’ve felt… I’ve even looked into IT, so I can work more freely from home, or the park… anywhere. And I’m currently in the medica field making amazing money, with an amazing team at work. It’s just… not what I want to do. THANK YOU Dalia, for making this video! You make me feel seen, and it makes me feel good knowing I am not the only one… ( reading all the comments, 😊❤️ )

[@waves.of.indigo]

I can definitely relate and unfortunately I think a lot of people can as well :( Good for you for doing what's best for yourself!

[@ginagonzalez6547]

Hi Dalia, I'm sorry you had to quit your job. You have so much going for you, now you can start something new. As I told you before, you are very talented. You have a good eye for design and you have managed to do a beautiful job decorating your home. You may pursue this as either a new career or an independent business, plus you have a business background? What more you can ask for. Maybe a space you can conduct your private business. You don't have to make it a big corporation, but something small and quaint. The options are limitless. Besides who knows, if you really lobe what you are doing and you are making so much money, you can hire as much people as you want and tell them what and how to do things and you will only sit back and enjoy life. It all depends on you. Or just enjoy the simple things in life and volunteer if you want. There is a lot of rewards doing volunteer work.

[@HalfInsaneJane]

My husband has been working in a very secure job for the past five years but he stopped learning new things and enjoying it 3 years ago. We have a great house but recently we have decided to move on. We are going from owning to renting and completely moving locations so my husband can chase his dreams and go back to school. We are Nervcited :)

[@JP-xx3lr]

Thank you I needed to hear this as I’m struggling to work again in an office environment. I hope I’ll be able to find something I will love and enjoy .

[@jadeflowersduque]

So funny you posted this b/c I’m in a position right now where people I know, family, etc think I’m making questionable decisions but I’m the HAPPIEST I’ve ever been! If you follow your OWN heart, I promise things work themselves out and you’ll get that true satisfaction and that proud feeling from your own self which is the best person it can come from! Congrats on your happiness! 🥂🥳

[@ayyaz.4864]

Late to comment but I have been binging your Chats with Dalia series (which is a great addition to your channel btw, I'm glad that we get to see more of you and know you better) and man this one really hit home for me. I struggle with working corporate because in my experience and line of work, the 'work life balance' is basically a myth lol. Annoyingly, the jobs that fulfilled me most are the ones that paid peanuts/nothing, which is great for the experience of actually valuing what I do, but we all have bills to pay and that's just not enough. I think there is a big shift in the collective mindset when it comes to work, especially in corporate, and post-pandemic too. "The big resignation" and many people pivoting onto roles that are either entrepreneurial or content creation is a signal that we are exhausted to the bone of chasing this elusive corporate ladder because let's face it, until you get to a certain point in corportate, you really have to GRIND, never mind the cost. Which for me was my mental health, and for what I was getting paid, it simply was does not feel worth it. Thank you for sharing your story, it's your most inspiring yet.

[@DIYDalia]

Thanks so much for sharing this Ayya! Your words couldn't be more spot on!

[@thisthatgrace]

Thank you for making audible the words and feelings I've not been able to. God bless you.

[@SimplyS3r3na]

Yes to all this. Ive done the same and the reflection time, ups and downs during this time has been the best thing Ive every done.

[@OFFICIAL_TRACYLEE]

beautiful video Dalia ... so very true - its best to slow down or go with whichever pace works for you & to always think for yourself & not what others say you should be ! You should do more sit downs

[@katrinacool]

Thank you for this video. I've worked for the federal government, held security clearances, worked in the private sector and worked in higher education. Trust me there are incompetent managers/bosses in every field. Some people realize that their job gets mundane after a while or you get tired of the internal politics and games people play to get ahead. I left the major city for island life years ago and never looked back. Enjoying what you do means everything- stress and losing yourself isn't worth the money. Remember- no one on their death bed ever said they wished they had worked one more day.

[@ParkUna]

Thanks for posting this. I am in between jobs now and you perfectly captured some thoughts that runs in my heads.

[@lesliecayabyab5695]

Thanks for sharing this. I feel exactly the same way…now I can breath easier … I feel u …

[@Mrrp_huh]

Sending you so much support and gratitude for sharing this story. Thanks Ma 💖🤗

[@audreygreen3345]

This felt really relevant to where I’m at this week. Life is short! Thank you :)

[@wombmenempowerment]

I was just watching a video of J. Krishnamurti answering a question about pervasive discontentment ---he described it as a flame inside that we tend to try to put out & put off. However, he encouraged listeners to essentially "let it burn" + motivate you to transform your life into something that brings about the contentment|happiness we want (& more). I believe that is what u have done.. so beautiful and inspiring. This is so profound & I'm happy to know there are brave ppl like you in the world to embody this for us who may feel stuck, disgruntled or unmotivated by the world. XO

[@eb8761]

Omg 100! ! Thank-you for sharing 😊 I definitely feel that daily work day dread, but it's tough when I'm not sure what other options I can do for money and living in Toronto is expensive.

[@OceanChild7]

As one artist said, If you're happy doing what you love then nobody can tell you you're not successful😇 Not dreading your Mondays is so important! I'm so lucky I love my corporate job and I have the managers stats to yours in terms of managers, only one them was kinda terrible and this was the one time in my 10 years in my company when I was thinking about leaving. But I have the other example, my previous job and compared to that even a terrible boss was pretty cool)) Not being afraid to leave, not being a company patriot is important skills but we must learn them ourselves))

[@fairuzaqilah592]

Been there, done that. Thank you so much for voicing out and share your experience. I feel so much at ease knowing the fact that, I’m NOT ALONE. Keep inspiring people, Dalia. Love ya! 🙆🏻‍♀️💕

[@tanyab78]

I had a job working for the State of California and I hated every day of it for 8 years. I stayed so long because my family worked there and the benefits are really good... But I couldn't ever move up. I went to school and became an esthetician. I worked hard for 8 months and did 14 hour days between work/school/ commuting. I finally graduated and I was working part time as an esthetician while still working for the State. I finally quit my state job and was an esthetician full time. My family thought I was crazy. While I was building up my esthetician business I got 2 part time jobs. I was happy and not dreading work every day, even though I was working every day. Well, Covid killed my business and now I'm back working for the state, dreading every day. I'm on meds for anxiety and I'm just going through the motions of life. I'm wasting the weeks away... I'm so thankful you made this video. I feel less alone. Maybe one day I'll have my business back and better than ever

[@estherolawuyi1687]

That scarcity mindset is SO REAL!!! Especially as a mother now

[@victoriagillespie3685]

Thank you so much for sharing. This has been spot on to where I am pivoting in my life. Watching this just encouraged me that I’m on the right track. I absolutely love your energy and all that you bring to the channel. I have ADHD as well and it’s always refreshing to hear you talk about how you deal with it!

[@momentswithyahya4239]

Thank you for sharing. I’m glad you are happier now🙂

[@ericaeschenbacher4921]

So much anxiety is caused by focusing on how things should be rather than how they are. Obviously if you can do something to change like you have, alleviates this tension. But with so many things in life, we cannot control anything other than our own thoughts and perspective on being right where we are and not worrying about other's opinions. Keep doing You Dalia!😻

[@lisagomez6359]

This is spot on, Dalia. I also left a “good” job to pursue a dream of mine. in addition to aggressively saving for years to do it & being privileged enough having a supportive spouse who could also support us financially for a couple months, I learned that I couldn’t attach happiness to achieving or doing something. I thought pursuing this dream would cure everything & was shocked to find that it didn’t 🙃 but I have no regrets quitting that awful job & taking the chance bc I could’ve easily been stuck there forever. Leaving gave me the opportunity to really look at myself and start from scratch to “do the work” on myself. it hasn’t been easy but it was absolutely the right move to figure out what would actually make me happy.

[@estherolawuyi1687]

You are indeed inspirational in so many ways.

[@Kleomenides86]

I just found your channel and this video is so interesting....I personally wouldn't do well in this careeer, in my opinion once I have acheived something, that's it...I don't need to prove myself to you if you won't believe in me, I don't have the time or energy to do that and I don't care...so yeah, I probably would have gotten out once I saw they were not promoting me despite my merit. My father was an engineer at a very famous company in Europe, we live in a small town in north-east Italy: he did what you did all his life, he tought he was making tons of money and getting lots of benefits....turned out all this would have been true if we lived in France, Germany, England or America, mum, me and my sisters could have had all sorts of bonuses and chances, even education wise, but he never wanted to move. When he retired 5 years ago, he discovered he travelled a lot, didn't see any of kids grow, didn't reach the top as he hoped (he sucked at politics) and that, despite earning a lot, he didn't have much anyway due to the fact that here the taxes take the 57% of what you earn in the private sector. He expected to have a golden retirement and tons of money for his hobbies ecc and it turned out he has more than average, yes, and we are very grateful for that, but nothing like he imagined and worked hard for...he wanted to buy a Jeep and a boat, but we cannot afford either, he wanted a Rolex for his 70th birthday (it was his dream) but it's absolutely impossible. I think he overlooked many facts, not only that to rise in position and money you need to get along (or faking it) with everyone, you need connections, money or coming from a very prestigious university where you could have cultivated important friendships (he didn't have any of this and he graduated cum laude but from a normal Italian university). What I mean is, it was absolutely not worth it and now he's quite disappointed and bitter.

[@Aa-ke9pp]

I have been thinking this week if I should take one month off to refocus on my own stuff, businesses, creativity. It’s like you made this for me knowing I was thinking this this week

[@makalsiashepherd3275]

Thank you for so much for sharing your story. It's so nice when people speak their truth.

[@donr7145]

Very proud of you for sharing. I understand 💯.

[@B311A-l5K]

I can relate to this so much. I am in that miserable and toxic job now.

[@monalisa9384]

Td’s very powerful, profound and necessary video. Blessings

[@isadoradurso9491]

have been through the exact same experience, and for the exact same reasons, many years ago when i was around your age. still members of my family feel it was a huge mistake, something irresponsible to do, letting go the safety and venture into the unknown of a creative work and a personal business. It has been tough, more often than not, but I never, NEVER regretted it. And the most important reason for that is that I never again had to pretend all the time that i was something I am not. That is toxic, to the point of totally loosing ones self. I may feel sad, anxious, depressed even, but never unbalanced, never lost. And never hating my life for doing something that practically was not a personal choice but a decision dictated by the need to make others happy. I like you. I appreciate people who manage to really think, to question, to dig, the free thinkers. They are rare today. So many are very smart and skillful but most of them are lost when it comes to the essential, to their real motives. That was a good and useful video, right to the point. All the best!

[@DIYDalia]

Everything you’ve said is exactly how I feel as well! It’s crazy how similar of an experience it can be and how much people are encouraged to just stick with the “safe” path despite being sad and having to pretend to be something they’re not. And I’ve seen many people lose themselves in that. Being a free thinker is one of the best things and I’ve never really had someone highlight that as something they appreciate… Thank you for sharing your comment it really touched me!

[@annwong2724]

Thanks for sharing 🙂 Just sharing my story. I worked and was miserable at my corporate job for many years - but it was not to "feel" successful, to "earn" the approval of parents or family, or to get the fancy car and house. In my circumstance, I felt that I needed to earn a lot of money because my father has low income and is of retirement age with no retirement egg to fall back on, and my brother was out of work for many years. I felt that I needed to make money to support them and myself - roof over head, cars that run and food in the fridge. I've watched a lot of videos about people quitting their jobs to not "chase" material things or approval of others. It seems to me like a privilege to be able to quit. If someone need the miserable job for essentials / survival - they wouldn't quit, right?

[@curtisgrest6907]

Outstanding video, Dalia! You exuded such confidence and I am deeply inspired by you.

[@LUcyaSews]

love this video, I can relate to almost everything you say.. I believe most of people can . ❤️

[@kaylacronk9417]

As a software engineer who works in big tech, I appreciate this so much 🙌🏻

[@DuyguCansu]

I live your channel and your content but this is the best video so far! Thanks for being so honest with everything.

[@DIYDalia]

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[@grumpyschnauzer]

I really appreciate this discussion. Felt this way back in 2015 and I had just gotten married… my husband was telling me to quit and it will be okay but, in my case, I didn’t trust that he would carry me through (whether or not I could) so I felt even more pressure in dealing with the “dread” of my job. Luckily my old job happened to contact me and lure me back (more of a smaller family business). I happily went back only to quit completely 2 years later, separated from my husband and doing freelance stuff. The hard part is what you mentioned… loved ones questioning your decision-making.

[@kailiarcher]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I can really resonate with a lot of what you shared. I love your channel for the regular content you post, but I really needed to hear this video so thank you for stepping out to share something so personal. If anything this has made me an even bigger fan in your community!!!❤️