Why INFJ Men Have No Friends

[@mindscopechannel]

Did you relate to this list? Let us know!

[@malumnexus7919]

Part of the reason I started watching these types of videos, and many others types as well, is to better understand myself and to solve my social problems. Since I found out that I am an INFJ, I have been researching the INFJ archetype, then sharing the videos with what little friends I have, which has in turn improved my ability to keep my friends, despite not seeing them over periods of months to even years.

[@PeterKnagge]

Let's be frank here, _it's not me it's you!_ 🤣 I have plenty of associates, but no friends...

[@mindscopechannel]

@@malumnexus7919 Makes a lot of sense. I bet if other INFJ's took this approach they would hold onto more friends as well

[@clintonb061864]

Do I relate? Goodness gracious me, this describes me to a tee!

[@ernigsunderg4969]

Absolutely yes! I relate to this list. I have no friends. I have a few associates I interact with on a boring, superficial level, but no-one I consider a friend. My brother and sister do not understand me. The times I've tried to share my philosophy with them it was like throwing gasoline on a fire. They've said I was "Of Satan!". I stopped trying to share with them. I do have a cousin I can share with, but I don't talk with her very often. I also have a good wife of 49 years who is empathetic, but she is like a captive audience.

[@JackoBanon1]

As an INFJ I can tell you that we are the kind of people who want to save the world while on the other hand don't want anyone to find out that it was us.

[@Rose_Butterfly98]

On the bright side, it isn't that hard to do that. Just save the world from the threats that governments hide and leave the problems that humans created for themselves.

[@Deckard-tw6jp]

No worries. Neither will happen. You're just a loner. Nothing more. Why aggrandize it with nonsense?

[@adarshmandal1210]

So true

[@chronoorigin1931]

An INFP but still related.

[@049harshrathore8]

Like daredevil👹

[@I_Go_Rogue]

I'm 37 and only recently learned about the science behind discovering personality types. I'm an INFJ male and this video hits home hard. I honestly teared up twice... it was hard never knowing why my every attempt in social life failed. I was just told I was a quiet and shy kid and that's all it was. It never felt right. I wish more people saw this. I'm gonna share it, but I have no friends. Facebook part time friends who never get deleted... your time to shine.

[@Mike_MFn_Jones]

You're not alone !

[@I_Go_Rogue]

@@Mike_MFn_Jones thank you brother. It's good to finally know I just belong to a unique group.

[@klo433]

You are not alone brother, 38 yo INFJ male here. I have friends but I've never had a friend other than my INTJ father that gets me. I'm sorry you've never had that.

[@I_Go_Rogue]

@klo433 thank you bro. It's been a year since seeing this. It's helped put things into perspective. Might watch it again now. Thanks for the comment and I'm glad you had someone around that got you.

[@keysersoze42]

Keep your head up champ, you'll be alright, focus on your goals, live your life to the fullest, do the things you love, the things that make you feel the most alive, don't worry about it, things change, focus on what you have now, embrace every blessing in life, trust me, it shall pass, you'll definitely meet someone that understands. As an INFJ man myself I can relate to what you've been through, I do have a small circle of good friends and many acquaintances, I understand that deep inner feeling of being misunderstood most of the time by your surroundings, mostly being perceived as quiet, reserved, and mysterious, don't blame the others for their incompréhension cause INFJ traits are very rare and aren't common, most people can't relate the your emotions and your character, you feel alienated like a lost piece of a puzzle, the way you can go through this is faith, you should believe in yourself and don't ever blame yourself, it is not your fault, it's just who you are, love yourself instead and have the will and guts to surpass all difficulties and challenges, trust me, you'll be ok.

[@icapitanloco2042]

The best tip i can give to my male infj people is to just simply get shredded as much as possible. Im telling you it helps in so many ways with our type of personality.

[@mindscopechannel]

It would not surprise me if most INFJ Men find themselves in the gym. Aligns very well with the personality type.

[@said1975]

i appreciate that!!

[@JohnDoe-gf5he]

This is the deep and philosophical advice INFJs need.

[@icapitanloco2042]

@@JohnDoe-gf5he Well this may be a passive aggressive response and sarcasm but if you think abt it and what it implies going to the gym, building yourself up, etc etc, this is actually really good advice

[@iquandaley9565]

That's no lie, that really helped me a lot

[@halcyonzenith4411]

It's been a hard life, but it rewarded me with the realization that I don't need permission from other people to be happy.

[@Lazydazey265]

I’m an INFJ female and my best friend is an INFJ male. Sometimes we don’t even have to finish sentences, the other just gets it. We simply understand each other effortlessly. Also, the points made in this video are pretty accurate. I think the only reason an INFJ might not have friends is because he/she just doesn’t want to. We CAN, we just prefer being in our own company rather than in shallow, superficial relationships that have no depth.

[@surefiremushroomsmicrogreens]

Why is he still your best friend?

[@sirdabomb123]

@@surefiremushroomsmicrogreens Yes Marry him already.

[@Lazydazey265]

@DC biased view. Would you risk one of your best friendships for the “love” that’s always temporary? Besides, he calls me his sister.

[@AV-kr6gc]

@@Lazydazey265 Thats true, I have had close female friends that we both didnt want to be in a relationship with. But that doesnt mean we didnt sleep together every once in awhile 😂

[@macmega47]

INFJ here, my female best friend is also an INFJ and we have that strong connection too. It started as a joke saying we're telepathic, but that joke has been going on for almost 3 years now ever since we met, so I think it's real? Both of us aren't keen on maintaining friendships; been a while since either of us felt the need to make friends since we met.

[@jesset6443]

I often wish I had more friends but then I remember they’ll want me to do stuff.

[@mindscopechannel]

Yeah there is that..

[@lllllllllllll31lll]

Haha true, and I ain't going no parties no way

[@lionnonny]

Hahaha

[@ottor-007]

Jesse T My mind caught up to their shenanigans, and my mouth say yes. After that, I fade away from existence.

[@JonathonWood-s8f]

I wish I was able to my friends. Coming Out as gay, than family bringing moved away from which friends that I had. Caused me to restart my process of trying to make friends. I never having a time getting a guy to say yes to me want I asked them to be my boyfriend. Males don't seem to be jumping to knock on me door to ask me out. 🏳️‍🌈🇨🇦

[@zorawar3477]

I am reading INFJ people’s comments and they are so accurately descriptive, never thought id see so many people like me at one place😭

[@SX41799]

Most of them aren't even INFJ. They pretend to be. You would'nt recognize them here

[@akunbora]

as an INFJ with an anxiety disorder. My life feels so empty and uninspiring. But I'm 26 yo now. There are so much floors that need to be swept.

[@mindscopechannel]

You can turn your life into a fulfilling one🙂

[@chiefbeef5590]

If you are 26 years old, then get up! Get up and find you drive You have plenty of time I'm also an infj male trust me dude find a way to connect the world you have in your head with reality! (And that's if you are an infj or infj anyways

[@TheDarkness1]

Because most of the world is dumb AF and take advantage of the kind hearted. I have more fun doing what I love to do than helping people that can't help themselves.

[@corporaterobotslave400]

I also quit helping those unappreciative lost souls who prefer to fit in with stupid ppl. Save yourself instead.

[@james12erby43]

Correct 👏

[@TheDarkness1]

@@james12erby43 INFJ We are the quiet ones Artists and world changers Musicians speaking through lyrics Truth tellers and people relators When the soul can no longer be insulted Gave love, but it wasn't given back Taken advantage of by lost souls Those who wage a vicious attack Take back our true power We are here to set the world straight Done with the toxicity It's all about love, not about hate What you ask, we will give No problem in giving advice If you don't listen and keep coming back Cut you off without thinking twice Shades of grey between black and white And if you fail to understand We won't please you if you can't please us Piss off with your controlling demands You can be you, I'll always be me Don't tell me who you think I am Not in the mood for your judgment My convictions are where I stand

[@derealratos6332]

fr

[@haunterdragon4580]

Amen

[@andrewm4138]

I can totally relate to this. I always preferred to be by myself. As a kid and teenager, my dad would always be on my case about getting out more and making friends. I would tell him all the time that I am happy that way. In school, the kids would pick on me for being so quiet, they would always ask me why I never talk and I never had an answer. I never felt that I fit in and because of that I would keep my distance from people. My sister, who was one grade below me in school, was the total opposite of me (Extroverted). She had so many friends and went out all the time. She would tell me all the time that people would tell her ("Your brother is so weird, what is wrong with him?"), of course she always agreed with them. I was always a sensitive person when others would yell at me and criticize me. (Including immediate family). If I ever would make a mistake causing inconvenience to others, I would feel so guilty, even though I knew it was never intentional. I would apologize constantly. It always makes me happy to help others, especially knowing that I made a difference in their life. I never wanted anything in return even though some people thought I did. I also served 20 years in the military and it was a tough time for me, I sort of dealt with the same issues there as I did growing up.

[@Zokon]

After taking a personality test a while back, it made sense to me but I didn't take the label too seriously as it isn't always accurate and the community tends to be yelling it out because it makes them feel special. But after watching this video, you hit nearly every point and it bothered me quite honestly. Thank you for posting this.

[@mindscopechannel]

Totally understand that. No problem

[@chrisclunan5097]

True, every person is unique so every person who tests as an INFJ isn’t going to fit into the stereotype. Personally, I’ve found astrology helpful as a way to understand the different aspects of myself and what makes me fit into the category of INFJ

[@TheDarkness1]

INFJ We are the quiet ones Artists and world changers Musicians speaking through lyrics Truth tellers and people relators When the soul can no longer be insulted Gave love, but it wasn't given back Taken advantage of by lost souls Those who wage a vicious attack Take back our true power We are here to set the world straight Done with the toxicity It's all about love, not about hate What you ask, we will give No problem in giving advice If you don't listen and keep coming back Cut you off without thinking twice Shades of grey between black and white And if you fail to understand We won't please you if you can't please us Piss off with your controlling demands You can be you, I'll always be me Don't tell me who you think I am Not in the mood for your judgment My convictions are where I stand

[@nicknog00]

Beautiful 🐺

[@TheDarkness1]

@@nicknog00 Thx. Dark Wolf Sitting in the shadows Watching, Observing, Protecting No harm comes to peaceful creatures The cunning eye can sense danger Threats are met with razor fangs Freshly sharpened in preparation of attack Tearing straight into the soul of the unknowing As they are hidden from the rest forest But always prepared for battle

[@GMacII]

Bravo 👏🏽

[@tphongable]

Absolutely love both of your poems. Do you post on IG or somewhere else?

[@babycakes8514]

lol, infp alert

[@AdrianIsaacs]

I'm an INFJ, and this describes me pretty well, with a few exceptions. I would never go to a restaurant and grill the server about the food, for example. I've worked in customer service roles before, and I always got annoyed when people did that sort of thing to me, so I don't want to be that person for someone else. The old soul part is pretty spot on for me. I also have trouble forming new friendships, especially romantic ones.

[@DekkarJr]

Maybe you would have if you didn't work in the customer service industry? Idk my numbers - im the mediator type of personality... so that's why im here presenting an alternate reality to consider ^_^

[@AdrianIsaacs]

@@DekkarJr It's possible, but even if I hadn't, I still suspect it's likely that I wouldn't. Given the situation and the nature of the interaction, I might make some small talk about the food. Like, I might be like "It tastes like there is oregano in this. I have never made this dish with oregano before. I might try that.". That was just an example. Thanks for presenting another point of view.

[@tnix80]

I would if I hadn't been there myself. I get upset pretty easily, especially at injustice

[@winterlows]

YOU ARE NOT INFJ

[@DekkarJr]

@@winterlows Shut up you freak. Stop being a SHEEP and CRAB IN A BUCKET and dragging other people down because you SUCK at your own life. People like you use the internet because you are angry at yourselves. Shut up and apologize to adrianisaacs right now or your gonna feel it. We cannot leave bad behavior unpunished ANYMORE. By anyone in this entire society. So how bout like the rest of us you sit down and take your meds and play ff14 or w/e u do with the rest of us. Get along or get OUT. Is what I say. -The Mediator Personality

[@tldr7159]

These INFJ channels ive seen popping up have been a blessing to help me understand myself and other INFJs, especially INFJ men. I don´t want to put myself in an INFJ box just to say well thats who I am, thats my weaknesses, thats how it is - but rather to try and improve the weaknesses and find a balance with everything. But so many things makes sense from these videos, not just this channel but others as well. A video suggestion idea from me would be maybe a video on how to combat, or improve weaknesses, or i.e how to deal with these common things etc. So instead of just stating things, maybe also videos on how to improve or use these different INFJ qualities?

[@zhu777hao]

Can't agree more👍

[@mindscopechannel]

This was very well said. I am going to look into your suggestion for potential future videos. Thank you

[@GMacII]

I 1000% agree! Ever since learning that I am a true INFJ-T, I can’t stop researching because it feels like I am FINALLY being understood, but I have a STRONG desire to overcome my emotional side as a man. I’m currently on Amazon looking for books that I can put into practice.

[@brandtcarroll9316]

As an INFJ... the Metal community has been a Godsend. It feels like Thanksgiving every time I go to a show, the crowds don't bother me, I just want to hug people. I know by default that there is a deeper connection with hardship, terror, and thorough rumination of difficult topics not acceptable in every-day conversation with a normie.

[@ElPresidenteKhan]

Metal is best. Metal forever!!

[@1594simonsays]

yep been listening to metalcore/hardcore/deathcore since like 2006 and even before that with alternative/punk. music is heavenly to me

[@mitchclifford1761]

I love going to gigs too. Generally stand up the back of the mosh, drink in hand just enjoying the show. What's everyone's favourite bands? I love metalcore. My fav bands are Northlane, Polaris, Parkway Drive, Invent, Animate and ERRA

[@brandtcarroll9316]

@@mitchclifford1761 I've been big on Pharmacist, Haemorrhage and Absent In Body lately.

[@Nini_Peris]

I take the test a few weeks ago and I got INFJ ... Everything's so true what I read about

[@qwerty0yt]

You explained me quite well. I’m always seen as a weary weakling because I have already been that old man since my very first ages. No wonder it’s easier for their lives to cut the links out of me.

[@mindscopechannel]

Well glad you found the video informative, INFJ's are very powerful so while they may see you that way only you know who you are and you can become stronger than all of them.

[@haunterdragon4580]

I felt more mature then my age group to the point I kept wondering if I had that disease that makes you grow old faster. While adults around me were worried about saving money on coupons I was contemplating the meaning of life.

[@youtubestudiosucks978]

@@haunterdragon4580 life is meaningless and that makes it beautiful, an open canvas for you to gice your own meaning too

[@MohammedZadjali]

@@youtubestudiosucks978 as an infj, I would have to disagree. I have been thru some serious social anxiety and depression periods (still 25) that made me look into the meaning of life. Without religion & faith there is no meaning, seek refuge there. It will also teach you that you don't have control, do what you can and let it unfold. I thank the lord for blessing me with Islam, trust me the true Islam is rarely seen and truly followed by modern 'Muslims'.

[@youtubestudiosucks978]

@@MohammedZadjali you're supposed to give your own meaning to your own life so stop trying to convert me. My life is not your life so stop it with your predatory tactics of trying to convert me to a religion that hates dogs, i've seen you people throw chocolate and broken glass in dogparks of all places and i'm not about to betray my baby for some stranger who hates my dog for no reason.

[@hashmathhaja]

I wish more people, especially people who know me and family watch this and understand that there are people like this on earth! Grew up feeling hatred for myself for the way I am. After taking the personality test and finding out I was an INFJ, it gave me a sense of identity but not validation! I wish people understood why we INFJs are the way we are and acknowledge that!

[@lionnonny]

I acknowledge you, bud.

[@halcyonzenith4411]

The ultimate blessing I received from being INFJ is evolving past the need for external validation. What a man never has, he never misses.

[@renza481]

Good luck 2% off the world vs 98%. Still trying to find a place in it all after 27 years. Still overlooked, cast aside and worse. Hope 1 day it gets better for us all.

[@ShinkuGouki]

I used to have over 30 friends in high school. Then it dwindled to 20 in my early 20s. By 26,I only had about 6 friends,my closest ones. One by one,they betrayed my trust or tried getting at my gf at the time or did me wrong in some way. I now have no friends. I thank them for all the great times we spent together but I don't want them in my life. I don't know if I fit into this category but I enjoy doing what I like to do. I realized that the more people I was involved with, the more problems came up. It getting lonely at times and I do sometimes wish my friends would have been better people. I wish them the best but I'm moving up in my career and don't have time to socialize anyway.

[@mindscopechannel]

Understandable. You have a strong mindset which is good

[@haunterdragon4580]

Very very similar happened to me too

[@thewatchtower8330]

The INFJ doorslam. Right?

[@drivventodrumm1]

I’m going through almost the exact same situation, and am happier in general

[@tehsensei]

Jesus, man. Described me to a tee, especially the part of feeling like you missed out on partying when you get older. This hits too deep lol.

[@zs_flowers99]

We are unique guys...being an INFJ is really hard 😅❤

[@masonhall2981]

As an INFJ, joining the military was one of the best things I could do for myself. It gave me a surefire way of having social connections, plans, dreams, and purpose. After retaking the test I actually scored higher as an extrovert. Now I am a ENFJ.

[@winterlows]

You’re not a fucking INFJ lmao

[@jonvia]

Feeling misunderstood is the story of my life! Whether its talking to a family member honestly and they take offense or its having serious conversation with a friend and it gets heated, being misunderstood is so annoying. Glad Im an INFJ though because I love my alone time and since Im a songwriter, I need that time alone to focus and produce the best music possible.

[@mindscopechannel]

You're definitely not the only one who feels that way.! Also love seeing people talk about the positives of this type. In my opinion the positives of being a INFJ significantly outweigh any negatives.

[@ernigsunderg4969]

I can relate to what you say. I am unable to talk with my brother and sister, et al. in a meaningful way. I do have a cousin who is open. Not sure what her personality type she is. I know she is different from her brothers and sister. I think she and I had some familial relationship in a previous life. She understands me. Even if she does not, she is very respectful and supportive. Being misunderstood is frustrating, lonely and annoying.

[@ernigsunderg4969]

George Harrison was an INFJ.

[@brennenhrebeniuk9661]

When you start your typology journey at 18 identifying with the XNTP archetype and after 4 years of obsessive contemplation, maturity and meta analysis you found yourself indulging in balance and fully taking action on the jungian ideal of integrating the shadow and superego. I am finally aware and working towards the Superego of the XSFP in me and aspects of the subconcious XSFJ and not forgetting the unconcious XNTJ in me in a pursuit of all encompassing holistic balance. Its very alienating and any time I explain these concepts im seen as sacrilegious amongst my family and wife for legitimately affirming the unity of God as love not just fear or division. Its very difficult to have the understandings only to be told by people that I sound crazy or to far out there. It is now that I am working on my emotional and Physical unity to integrate my Se and Fe to better all of mankind in everyway possible by being an example of Love.

[@TheBobbyjuba]

I remember reading extensively about INFJs after finding out I am one. I recall seeing something along the lines of “An INFJ is capable of getting a stranger to completely open up to them about something they’re going through and the INFJ can learn everything there is to know about this person in one conversation, only for the stranger to realize they don’t know a thing about the person they just told this information to”. I love getting to know people one on one. I am not a fan of groups but people can be quite spectacular when they feel comfortable showing their true selves. It makes me feel good that people tend to enjoy speaking with me, especially about things that are troubling them. Though it does make me sad that the active listening I do isn’t often thrown back my way. I think that’s a big reason why INFJs can be a bit hard to understand… because you just haven’t taken the time to really get to know them. You merely saw what they felt was necessary for you to see, essentially what they wanted you to see and know about them.

[@mindscopechannel]

This makes complete sense, thanks for the perspective

[@theisheep2676]

This sums up my whole life. I'm a month away from turning 19 at the time of writing this, and I seriously regret isolating myself from the rest of my peers at school for from the ages of 13-18. How much I wish I could rewind time and fix it all again, and have a brand new fresh start.

[@tigermcflash131]

8:48 Life is so much better when you do what you want to do, alone, not what others want you to do as part of a group of so called 'friends'. Though it takes some time to learn and accept this, ultimately it is so much more rewarding. Being INFJ is a true blessing, and we are lucky people! We really are!

[@Rutger360x]

I am an INFJ with NLD (nonverbal learning disorder). I got a hit to my head twice when I was a child so there might be some brain damage there. I have always felt very lonely and never had any close friends. I only recently discovered that I want to help people or provide a service and would like to make a change in the world. So, I never felt truly happy with what I was studying or with my job and I get fired or I leave my job most of the time. I try to pick my friends wisely because most people just drain my energy or don't really care for me anyway. But when I do find someone that I actually like I often become too attached and try to use them to soothe my loneliness. They then feel that and go away. Especially with girls, this is a big problem. I have never had a girlfriend and often I wonder why anyone would want to be with me anyway. My parents always told me I need order in my life and in the past, I might have been better at planning my day but now I don't plan anything anymore. I have been traveling and working around Australia for the past 3 years, so all my structure and routine are gone. I have no fucking clue what I want to do or where I am going let alone that I have a 3-, 5- or 10-year plan for my life. I feel overwhelmed and stuck. Most of the time I engage in escapism and feel guilty about it afterward, I am sexually frustrated and think about death a lot. I try to look for help but I don't know where to begin or who might actually be able to help me. I need a psychologist who specializes in these topics (INFJ, NLD, neurology).

[@mindscopechannel]

You're going to get through this, all of these struggles and hardships will make you stronger than everyone around you. It's easy to see all the things that go wrong or overwhelm you but it will all work out. Given how you've explained this, its understandable why you feel the way you do. I know other people in the same situation but are scared to tell anyone. While you might not see it this way just you writing this comment is helping people and making a change as others who feel similar won't feel so alone. I've seen this first hand that things often get worse before they get a lot better. So keep pushing on and If you feel you need a psychologist I'd just start with finding the one that sounds closest to what you described and start there. While they may not be totally familiar with INFJ and NLD they will be familiar with what you're going through. If theres anything I can do let me know:)

[@ohno6325]

first, it's ok that you feel how you do and it will get better if that's deep down what you truly want and are committed to taking what necessary steps are needed to "get better". similar to a drug addict(or really any addict) when trying to get/stay clean, if there's a small part of them thats not ready to "quit"(a lot of addicts say they want to quit, but then don't, not because they didn't want to quit, but because they wanted to quit less than they did use) , they never will no matter who offers help, no matter how many times they try. only when they are 100 percent ready and willing to quit because theyve absolutely had enough and want change more than anything else(including using) will they fully commit to the paths laid out for helping people quit, do they succeed. obviously, there's exceptions to that, but in general. (hopefully you make the connections I'm getting at there) also, video gaming yourself only sounds easier than what it would/will take to pull yourself outve depression an find meaning in life(something only you can determine for yourself), and the last thing anyone who is depressed wants to do is make things harder for themselves. when you've been driving on a road with potholes for a period of time, you're gonna need to repair a couple tires, maybe even rims and suspension, before it feels smooth driving on a normal road again. also, even animals in a nice fancy cage will attempt to escape.. it's part of nature to when feeling trapped. don't be so difficult on yourself, life already got that part covered lol but, for real though, legitimate help is there when you decide to crack the window and peer out. I recommend. the breeze feels nice. :) idk the specifics with your life, and mental thoughts, etc.... so don't take anything I'm saying too serious or personal... just throwing out what general advice/perspective I have. I hope things get better for you. stay positive friend :)

[@winterlows]

Your not a fucking INFJ lmao

[@laconsuela69]

This was super validating. I can't believe how spot on this stuff is-like the sensitivity thing, or the intensity, honestly all of it. Sometimes I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Like I'm the only one seeing what I'm seeing. I really do have a hard time making friends not because i don't go out or socialize - i actually am a great talker. I just don't feel the connection. Luckily I have one great friend who has been with me since I was 7.

[@mindscopechannel]

Glad you found the video to be accurate, theres a lot of other people here who have similar situations/feelings as you

[@Rogue_throttle]

Same here. I'm not struggling to get friends, it just the connection is not there.

[@NukubiMusic]

After taking the myers briggs test a few years back i came up as an INFJ myself. I would say that this video is roughly 90% accurate. I'm not too sure about other INFJ types, but i've personally never struggled making friends. Of course i only have a few out of the many who really match my wavelength, however the 'difficulty making friends' thing has been more true for me in my romantic relationships than anything else. I would also advise anyone taking personality tests to do the big 5 personalities. The two provide a much more nuanced report of you the just the one.

[@chrisclunan5097]

I’m also an INFJ, I’ve made friends easily but I haven’t had success in having a deep connection with those friends. I also find it confusing as to how to be around acquaintances and people I am friends with on a more surface level

[@mindscopechannel]

Thanks for sharing your perspective, I’m sure many others have similar experience

[@NukubiMusic]

@@chrisclunan5097 Hmm, I would say try and identify those out of your friends/ acquaintances who are the least effort to be around, and then try make a conscious effort to spend more time with them. Because I understand that unconsciously that may just not happen lol

[@Klewie]

INFJ here, very lucky to not be part of, what seems to be the majority, of INFJ's who struggle with creating meaningful friendships/relationships, and if I can do it, there's hope for you bros!

[@mindscopechannel]

Truth 🙌 thanks for adding this

[@JackoBanon1]

I'm an INFJ man with an ENFP wife and thanks to her I now have a small group couples that I would call my friends because my wife also included me when she plans social activities from the beginning. Before I met her I spent most of the time home alone or went hiking or to the gym alone and didn't have any desire to make new friends. Sometimes it''s to much social activities for me and my wife gets annoyed if I tell her that I would just rather spend my evening with her alone but all in all we benefit from each others different personalities.

[@yewniii5356]

@@JackoBanon1 i relate to this bc my boyfriend is an INFJ and im an ENFP lolll ive read that INFJ(male) and ENFP(female) are one of the most compatible personality types in terms of synergy and how the two personalities work extremely well together/balances each other out

[@BashaerB-h2c]

Same can be said for INTJ females. We don't fit in our gender stereotype unless we actively decide not to be ourselves. I can heavily sympathize with INFJ males and hope we can find people that appreciate us for who we are.

[@teh_Hiko]

My partner is an intj female and my best friend an infj male. It took me a while to sort it but I agree. Those two both seem to be the gender polarities in myers briggs.

[@halcyonzenith4411]

There are people who appreciate our abilities... I call them clients 💲💰

[@BashaerB-h2c]

@@halcyonzenith4411 Lol no doubt people appreciate us in the workforce for what we can do for them, but I'm talking about romantic/personal relationships.. it can be very hard.

[@BashaerB-h2c]

@@teh_Hiko Nice to hear and I'm glad it worked out!

[@halcyonzenith4411]

@@BashaerB-h2c It often works for me the same way in relationships. I offer a niche product, while not everyone wants it, those who do will pay top dollar because you can't find it anywhere else.

[@Intuitioncalling]

I’ve just seen all of your INFJ videos. After watching them, I must say that you know us quite well. Good job 🎉

[@mindscopechannel]

Thank you, we took extra time to make sure our information is accurate.

[@franzjosefmueller-alban509]

It’s quite simple, the moment we realize that the one and only best friend we need is… ourselves we ( me & me ) are more than enough . Would we love to have a real honest and understanding significant other ( male o woman ) which we can build a friendship ? Yes !!! The problem is to find someone out there that have the same intelectual level… that I found to be almost impossible. Also… since the meteorological rise of social media I’ve got the feeling that 90 % brought out their narcissistic / egocentric nature to the highest level I have seen/feel in my entire life so thank you but no thank you . When one learn to love himself, we are happy alone. Best regards to you all

[@mindscopechannel]

Lots of good points here, thanks for sharing this perspective

[@mattdonlan7745]

I'm not sure I totally agree with the statement that it's hard for INFJ's to make friends. I don't really crave friendship the way most people do. I'm usually pretty excited when I meet a fellow deep thinker, but I'm just as happy thinking to myself most days. Friends are great when they come along, but I've never gone out looking for them. On another note, being an HSP is a pain in the butt for men! I've spent my whole life trying to overcome many of my HSP traits before I even knew what a HSP was.

[@MusicfromMarrs]

I think our current social structures contribute to this. There aren’t a lot of community activities in which people like INFJs can hang on the fringes, connecting with like minded people.

[@lionnonny]

Great business model idea..

[@rft1509]

I'm as INFJ, my problem was never making friends, because people where attracted to me because of my energy sometimes and my quietness and deep looking personality on other times, and because I try always be good and honest to others, and many value that. My problem was always maintaining those friendships, because either I'm not always around to catch up or i struggle to keep having interest all the time and it feels always like extra energy usage. My advice to other INFJs is to make friends through activity and hobbys, because you always feel easy to talk about that thing and it draws motivation out of you, second, find one friend only because of his light heart, those people will be highly attracted to you and you will be super loyal to you, because of your good heart and charisma in the real situations. The last point, i felt it deeply as I'm in my 27th year and feel like missed out on many things and didn't get real grasp on my teens, but I'm trying now at that age to open up more to people and share more. You can't be a teenager again, but you can still have the child inside you and try to find fun and laughter in everything you do. I'm feeling like going to another level of my life, keeping the qualities of my personality beside being more public and appreciating of other relationships and personalities. Hope my all other INFJs fellows are doing good and find the best way to feel comfortable with themselves and others beside knowing where they're going with their goals. ✌️

[@DekkarJr]

People don't value honesty and goodness anymore in society a lot these days tho ya knaw mean :/ " You can count your true friends on one hand in life, and the hand can make a 0. " - my dad lol XD

[@winterlows]

YOU ARE NOT INFJ

[@rft1509]

@@winterlows why is that?

[@jithinjs8708]

👍

[@steveleeart]

In the last few years I’ve shared more through my writing but it’s not easy, and sometimes I overshare. And then, often, I don’t share everything. Sometimes I’m just sharing what’s on the surface. The goal pursuit thing is true. I remember I set aside friends and even my girlfriend when I was focussed on trying to oust a group of people who had taken control of a nonprofit association we were a part of - this group was basically lining their own pockets. At one point it felt like they’d won but I was determined not to give up.

[@marklabuzzetta8977]

Wow, this is pretty accurate. A few things I don't feel align, but overall correct. It's comforting reading all the comments of "us". My circle of friends seems to dwindle as time goes on, and have always felt I'm at a different stage as everyone else.

[@mindscopechannel]

Glad you found it to be pretty accurate. Lots of other infj's feel similar to you

[@marklabuzzetta8977]

@@mindscopechannel well we are a special group..😁

[@Jarrow13]

It's pretty accurate. One thing I've noticed as an INFJ (A) male, I tend to have very good and meaningful relationships with INFP's, it's also the people that understand me better and I understand them very well. I tend to bump heads with INFJ (T) females as I'm very opinionated and would call out their flawed logic in their ideals. Profiling folks is something I tend to do but will look at their actions from a "why" they behave a certain way. I'm one of those, if you rub me the the wrong way in our first encounter, I write you off just then and there. First impressions is the make or break for me. I don't show emotions as it's something I will deal with on my own and in my private time when I'm in a rational state of mind, traumatic events I'll apply reasoning. For me to compromise is a "tongue in cheek" for me, meaning I don't approve but I'll accept. Big social gatherings drain me, so I will go do the dishes just to disconnect for a while. I'm pretty much at the point where I don't really care about searching for people who understands me as I do my own thing in life and I do like to have full control over my own life.

[@mindscopechannel]

These are some important traits to have as an INFJ in my opinion. Thanks for sharing this

[@angelfigueroa6907]

Dude, this describes me so well. It's crazy to wrap my head around

[@Diegoelchapin]

I got my degree in Psychology, I did get heartbroken by a female who was a lost soul at the time and i have been told that i light up the energy in the room when i walk in or that I am the life of the party. Its been hard making friendships, I made a couple and really valued them thanks to me moving alot. Its kind of all clicking now that I could be an INFJ

[@GlacialScion]

Look into the creation of and methodology behind MBTI before deciding how you feel about your label.

[@DonTrump-sv1si]

I can confirm. Im 46 and have zero friends. Id also add that we are more ambiverts then total introverts

[@coldxsushi]

I'm an INFJ, and 2 months away from becoming a registered nurse. Pretty happy to see Florence Nightingale being an INFJ.

[@mindscopechannel]

Thats awesome, congrats🙌

[@gabegutierrez21]

Is nursing worth it brotha? I heard its a stressful career for introverts like us? I was considering going into nursing

[@coldxsushi]

@@gabegutierrez21 oh definitely, nursing is like the swiss army knife of healthcare, we can go anywhere, from easy to hard. There's gigs for nurses that doesn't even require patient contact. Where INFJ strive the most are in mental health clinics, we're great listeners and usually those places are low stress. You're not even allowed to wear uniform in psyche facilities, just normal street clothes to match the clients/patients. I'm considering getting into psych nursing, or rehab. Some gigs can be 1 on 1, compared to a floor nurse that may have 4-5 patients per nurse. It's rewarding, you can leave the job anytime and find a new specialty, and you'll make big bucks no matter what. If you need to take out a loan, this is one of those programs with a high return, you can literally pay back your loan within 2-5 years with your first job. I say try it out, shadow or volunteer, see how you like it :) biggest job security job, and very rewarding. I know INFJs have it hard to find purpose in the world, leaning towards healthcare will help unlock a lot of your potential! Good luck bro!

[@coldxsushi]

and just a little more background on me, I went from film major, digital art, martial artist, massage therapist, now EMT and next step is RN. I've been in school since graduating high school (18 years in college, I'm 36 now). I've changed my paths many times, just know your lifes purpose and keep striving in that direction! :)

[@gabegutierrez21]

@@coldxsushi Thanks brotha for the encouragement! This really inspired me to pursue what I was meant to do :) Keep up the good work man and I hope you succeed in your endeavors

[@dnicej1293]

Myself and my fiance both tested as INFJ. The only thing that I know as true is that we crave, pray, and wish to make an impact on the world. We hope to help others. We want to provide aid to the less fortunate. We are taken advantage of... more than anyone else.

[@thewatchtower8330]

I really struggle with this, from time to time. I need time to reload after social interactions, to be at my own, in my own world (of thoughts). It's difficult for me to keep social contacts with friends, but also with my parents, who ask me why it's been so long again I came to see them. It then makes me feel guilty, because they are good people and I hate to let them down. I know I cause disappointment. In those moments I really feel bad, but if I force myself to have those social contacts anyway, it feels forced and not like myself.

[@vishaloc8092]

Am 27 now. Its very hard to choose a career as an INFJ.... its not all about money, job satisfaction is utmost priority. Job which should provide Mix of humanitarian + communication + independence will work. Any suggestion from anyone ?

[@yarransmyrell1112]

So much easier to connect with this video than other poeple.

[@stardustsimulation]

Spot on but there never has and never will be any FOMO here. Due to being able to see the nuances of partying, drug use, and other mainstream activities like those makes one definitely lean more toward avoiding it. I can see what it does to the future. I could care less about being accepted. I feel my masculinity is intact. This has even stirred not only resentment from others, but strategic maneuvers from others to hurt me. Socially and financially. I have put up healthy boundaries with assertiveness and healthy firm personal boundaries which makes weaker people feel inferior. If those weaker people see some sort of opportunity to maneuver something against you to set you up in order to feel better they will. Most everything in the video is spot on though.

[@popkhorne5372]

One of my favorite types, as an intp. Strangely, despite the sheer difference in functions, we have a lot in common.

[@mindscopechannel]

As we've been making videos on both types I've noticed that INTP and INFJ share a lot in common! I could see these personality types getting along very well in real life.

[@str8profit81]

Didn’t even know this was a thing. This just popped up randomly on my feed, I always thought of myself as someone who lives in a world where only I understand myself. I’ve been called a introvert but never done really any deep research and stuff like this I just live my life, want my peace, and working towards my goals.

[@skinnylegendz6940]

Man I've hated myself for so long, I thought there was something wrong with me, I guess there kind of is. Please don't hesitate to message me friendo's, I love you all, thank you for this video 💚💚

[@goodlearner5867]

some of us still hate ourselves

[@skinnylegendz6940]

I wonder what it's like to communicate with humans and not scare them off with extreme awkwardness lmfao, I can dream.

[@goodlearner5867]

@@skinnylegendz6940 i thinks for days and approach like weirdo my God when i,ll feel normal

[@skinnylegendz6940]

There is no normal for ppl like us, you have to make your own personal little happiness and normality

[@goodlearner5867]

@@skinnylegendz6940 my God sometime i feel like i,m cursed soul. too many questions pops up in my brain 🥺

[@1992chevalier]

I have done the test four times in the last 10 years, getting always INFJ as a result. I am a male, 30 years old and I have just never managed to fit in. I am nothing special and the most special one you'd ever seen. Simultaneously. As a child I was deliberately avoiding other kids and was spending all times with playing imaginary roleplays alone, or talking with adults. As a teen, loneliness stroke upon me and made me suffer for approximately 15 years. In the beginning of this calendar year, after having been experiencing yet another severe disappointment, I kind of gave it up. I am not longing for finding that Little prince&Fox-like friendship anymore. I am still needing it, but I have accepted the fact that it might never happen to me. People will always find me odd. They do accept me, some of them like me too, however I am nothing but a question mark.

[@Dynamic256-ORIGINAL]

True I cant make friends People make me the friend 🗿

[@gjersdalen]

I can relate to point 4, 5, 6, 7 & 8 starting from 3:25.

[@winterlows]

“1% of the population are INFJ” The entire comment section: I am an INFJ

[@SX41799]

I hate it. I fucking hate it. Many test results told me that I'm INFJ as well. But i don't trust them. And many people who pretend to be INFJ, have more friends than Elon Musk has money. And they're not as emphatic as they should

[@winterlows]

@@SX41799 yup this comment section is plagued by this. Because you take some 10 question test some dork made online doesn’t tell you what “type” of person you are, only you truly know who you are.

[@jdunk6652]

Feel like this video was made for me! Thank you so much for making this. It really spoke to me

[@mindscopechannel]

Your'e welcome :)

[@STERNWAERTS]

it's utterly hard having an infj personality combined with male sex, high iq + eq, hypersensitivity, childhood trauma, a general disgust for modern life, society and the ways of the world plus a general and life-long lack of people among family, friends and acquaintances who are similar or at least understanding and supportive. now imagine living rurally where there's basically no chance getting to know people you could actually "click" and be friends with. regarding the actual topic of the video: i have one real male friend left, a lot of people know and like me, and a lot of them want to have me as a friend. but most relationships just drain my energy and simply bore me (i have lots of interests and hobbies that crave attention); i need meaningful, deep, valuable stuff in my life.

[@DiegoBR]

Be rich and use your money to help you out. You will be able to live where you want and live your hobbies with more freedom.

[@bogusmcbogus2637]

A dog. A dog will never let you down. They will tune into you when you're having a bad day.

[@STERNWAERTS]

@@bogusmcbogus2637 i know, i know. but i can't have a romantic relationship with a dog, can I? I need a dog and a soul mate who too enjoys the quiet life and has just as few friends as I do. some day

[@thoudiscorddisruption7549]

I'm always prone to bullying. I'm sensitive. I'm shifting my ability from talkative and silent. They find me edgy. They find me unworthy. They do not belong me.

[@djay6651]

Apparently, I'm in the INFJ sphere. I can definitely relate to the secretive aspect. I'm extremely secretive. When I speak to one of my few friends about a subject, I only want that person there. I don't want an audience. I can also relate to having trouble finding people who understand how I operate. I have one friend that I have a lot in common with, and she understands me better than my wife does.

[@mindscopechannel]

Is your friend also an infj?

[@djay6651]

@@mindscopechannel I couldn't say. I'd be pretty confidant in saying she doesn't care about that stuff, tho.

[@haunterdragon4580]

Having an easier connection to the person you're not with. You secretly wonder if you should be with them or someone like them instead but repel the thought of it.

[@ohno6325]

slippery slope my guy

[@winterlows]

Your are not INFJ fkn idiot

[@derealratos6332]

I dreamt my old friends whie I was in rem sleep between 5:30 am to 8:00 am this morning. I felt like i slept alot, woke up fresh n i thought my dreams were real life. It dawned on me that I dont really have any friends anymore. The one or 2 I thought I had dont even message anymore...

[@mindscopechannel]

You dont need them then, if you're an infj then you're strong and can stand alone until the right people come along. You'l find your people🤝

[@thatsjustmytake]

I had to Google what INFJ stood for. I had no idea this acronym existed. Every point this video mentioned described me in exactness. No wonder why I only have 2 friends and why I reject invitations to weddings, birthday parties, sports gathering etc. The perfectionist part in me is what my coworkers have a hard time understanding.

[@mindscopechannel]

Yep, everything you said totally aligns with INFJ.

[@henryjohnson859]

So what does INFJ mean?

[@lionnonny]

@@henryjohnson859 Introverted, INtuition, Feeling, Judging

[@winterlows]

you ain’t INFJ LOL

[@thatsjustmytake]

@@winterlows you are right. You've known me for 40 years, you can tell by a simple text.

[@QorvoAttano]

I honestly feel that last bit about missing out on things as a child and then returning to them as an adult where your friends are in other aspects of life, is backwards. I had an extremely easy time making friends in my youth and I did a hell of a lot of partying as well. Now, I'm 24 years old. I dont go out, I dont socialize unless its on the internet, I dont crave bars or parties, I just want whats best for myself and my family - safety and comfort. Of course this is subjective but I'm just speaking from my own life perspective. I also value trust to an extent where it actually prevents me from wanting to make other friends as I havent established any sort of trust with a stranger. Dont get me wrong, I'm still very well versed and speak to people but its all surface level now. It would take a special person for me to trust and open up to if they were not my friend before or if they are not online and I have the luxury of turning it off whenever I want. I just want to re-ignite past relationships with people i've already established that line of trust with.

[@mindscopechannel]

This makes a lot of sense. I feel like out of everything on this list thats the one part that seems to be the most debatable. Many INFJ's do experience that backwards as well, just depends on their experiences growing up.

[@janisilverlake0783]

OMG am I you? hahaha. Same age and scenario.

[@mrztempo4315]

hahaha same thing in my schools and collage days i had a bang now am 26 still feels i can have it when ever i want.🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MrgLoRybLue]

@@mindscopechannel Mind explaining this point further? I am trying to understand this, cheers.

[@mindscopechannel]

@@MrgLoRybLue In response to number 8 from this video. Some INFJ's feel they missed out on the partying/going out phase so then they try to do it when they're a little older but most others have moved on from it at that point. However, theres also other INFJ's who did party earlier in their lives and got tired of it quick or never cared as well so they dont feel like they missed out. I hope that makes more sense. It is a little difficult to explain but essentially just listen to the part of number 8 about the INFJ missing out and then consider that some INFJ's dont feel like they missed out.

[@FieryRed19]

Oh man, this relates to me completely. The lone struggle is so real.

[@eveilstien865]

So how then are we supposed to choose careers? My only difference is not literally being future oriented, but simply going off of intuition. Despite having had a sense of what to do, i always seemed to fall short and caught in the chaos called circumstance. Plus not being outgoing makes the arts field hard to navigate.

[@mindscopechannel]

Many INFJ's find that pursuing their passions and entrepreneurship fits them very well

[@rainmaker1461]

Entrepreneur. It has been so much better in every facet than being an employee.

[@TwoTrakMind]

Man, this was so affirming to me. As an INFJ male, I relate to the majority of the characteristics on the list and it feels really good to be understood.

[@jamesrutter4100]

Wow every INFJ in the world all on this site amazing 👽

[@Stress_._Free]

@@jamesrutter4100 😂

[@Richie_Godsil]

I took an MB test for psychology in highschool and got an INFJ, some of the facets discussed in the video still rings true but not so much other anymore. I haven't taken one since cuz I feel like I'd meta-game the process a bit and it wouldn't be a great reflection. I'm a little curious though

[@ianlacey]

If I'm comfortable without friends, is it a problem?

[@Zokon]

Unfortunately, I'd say it is. We don't want to get too comfortable. It can lead to insanity.

[@hanskazan7403]

It's not a problem at all

[@GrizzlyDancosse]

This explains alot about me I didn't know this was a thing until today.... thanks for this info...

[@mindscopechannel]

Glad we could provide some insight

[@IcePakOG]

This sounds like my life experiences.

[@mindscopechannel]

Must be an INFJ then

[@Farawayaz]

As an infj man, this comment section is my safe space of rare like minded people 😂

[@Writergirlk]

I'm an INFJ female and I relate 😂

[@mindscopechannel]

Understandable 😂

[@haunterdragon4580]

I like your name 😂

[@nialhorizon2261]

most relatable video ,thanks for explaining me more!

[@LuisKnight]

As an intj I could relate to some of these points. I have a best friend who is an infj and two more intj friends. I think as we grow older we become better more well rounded people. My infj friend has a good amount of friends and so do my intj ones and myself. But I could tell the friends we make are usually the type you know would die for you and you would die for them. They are deep relationship that seem to last a lifetime.

[@gizzach977]

I am INFJ and have gotten a lot better at being comfortable around others. But at the same time it is still struggle to maintain relationships

[@thewatchtower8330]

For me that's the same. It's easy for me to make connections, because I am empathic and can adapt myself to others in the way they appreciate. I used to lose myself in the process of doing that, but now I manage to have those interactions, without being unfaithful to who I am. I am also a good listener and give people the recognition they seek for. I very easily understand people in their thinking and feeling, and that helps to say the right things at the right moments. However, that takes energy. After interactions, I need time to reload myself. And I need time for myself, being at my own, with my own thoughts. And then sometimes problems start, because people expect you to see each other more often. They felt like I understand them and want more of that. But I don't feel the same, so I reject invitations and I am not eager to invest too much energy in the relationship as they would like to have or expect. Then relationships fade out sometimes, which I on the one hand regret, but also sometimes feels as a relief. Sounds familiar?

[@dangercovey]

INFJ "MEN" including Elenore Roosevelt and Florence Nightingale. I guess it really is rare when you can't find actual men as examples.

[@TheDarkness1]

🤔 What do you consider a man?

[@iamrubenmes]

I noticed this. Rare indeed.

[@TheDarkness1]

There are quite a few rock musicians that are INFJ. Truth with feeling and a message, but often mistyped because we are chameleons.

[@thewatchtower8330]

ML King, Gandhi and Hitler were INFJ men too, I thought.

[@mackieincsouthsea]

Defo feel like boxes can be restricting without reason, definitely got attacked by this video!! 😆

[@johnking2740]

While this video hits all points, the answer to 1 of the riddles 'The Chicken or the Egg' is easy - it's the egg, when the reptiles ruled the lands, they laid eggs, including the flying reptiles and their cousins the not quite flying reptiles which became poultry . . . which lay eggs. The main question of if INFJ men have no friends is incorrect, we have plenty of friends, every day we are swamped with our friends, the only difference is they tend to not show themselves when other people are about, and not for shyness either, our friends are unique to each individual, they just cannot interact with the real world like we hope they could.

[@mindscopechannel]

Thanks for adding this

[@CHSN-1]

I dont have friends because i dont want any. I honestly cant stand most people

[@AVIVAFilms]

😎Like Us INTJ'S! Maybe its the Introverted Intuition which does it. Yes, Introverted Intuition leads to so many of us Ni types being Misunderstood.

[@mindscopechannel]

This is true, the introverted intuition is definitely very relevant

[@bobjoatmon1993]

Hummm A few years ago I tested at around 60 years old and was told that I was INFJ but it didn't make my life better to be defined. I have found a sort of piece after a lifetime of soul pain not fitting in. It's painful to be so empathetic and caring yet no one cares back and you live a life of loneliness... But I adapted and now I'm more comfortable alone. I think I am comfortable being a MGTOW now (Men Going Their Own Way) as I no longer deeply desire female companionship, trying and trying to find the one who will understand and love me. Instead I have found internal happiness, by NOT trying to tell people (and not connect with them AND bore them too) about how the world really works, interesting technologies and the great future the human race has if we'll just get our act together (and I'm not an ecofreeks, I believe the solutions are MORE understanding and more new technologies) I've finally reprogrammed myself and turned my back on "the human race" and now I do what I want, when I want, eat what I want consume what I want and don't have to consult with those around me (and with no female companion to check with) for consensus it's actually peaceful. The urgency to fix things in the world (and other people's problems) has finally 'evaporated' and I feel wonderfully selfish as a good thing. Because of my personality I was very successful in earning a nest egg and now I have so many cool man toys and time to use them. So if your young and suffering from being INFJ my advice is to recognize you'll never be happy until you give up trying to have that friends and family ideal and accept that you ARE and ALWAYS WILL BE standing outside the candy shop looking through the window and just reprogram yourself to find internal satisfaction in your accomplishments. It will take years but the rewards are worth it. Be selfish without guilt because few if any care about you, they will not recognize what you do because THEY are selfish and will reject you as an odd duck as long as you keep trying to show them the world outside their bubble. They simply aren't worth the effort of your "light" trying to illuminate the world for them, since they don't have their right kind of 'eyes'.

[@mindscopechannel]

What cool toys do you have?

[@bobjoatmon1993]

@@mindscopechannel a 1980 Gulf Coast 29' sailboat, a Piper Arrow airplane and a Subaru BRZ w/ Edelbrock eForce supercharger and $$$$ of other upgrades (as excellently tuned by DD Performance Research of Sealy Tx, great track and daily driver), I also scuba dive, hunt hogs frequently and occasionally jump out of perfectly good airplanes. Up until a couple of years ago I raced a bike too but age has caught up with me on that one, haha

[@Ki30]

I like the part where he explains what an INFJ is before going into the video about infj people 🥴

[@pritpalsingh3609]

I was very skeptical of me being INFJ during the first half of the video as being INfJ it is my nature.But when it said at 3:50 that INFJ are drawn to art philosophy and psychology,the heavy subjects I threw my phone away for a while.I tried to change my nature and personality but something always seemed off and I always felt like faking myself.I just accepted it for who I am and accepted the fact that I would if I find someone would find them rarely to talk about my feeling and thought.I just talk shallow now .

[@JKRuc]

This video perfectly explained me 😅🤦🏾

[@mindscopechannel]

😅

[@ZGinPHX]

All of these are true for me and have gotten much more apparent and impossible to ignore as I’ve aged into my forties. I’m much more alone as a result but honestly I’m a million times more stable and fulfilled.

[@mindscopechannel]

Its interesting how much better INFJ's thrive when alone compared to some of the other personality types.

[@lyledeyounges1276]

Mmhmm interesting, interesting... *my god, there's a lot of aspiring actors out there!*

[@TheDarkness1]

I've only aspired to be me. Couldn't act if I tried. Not a fan of wearing masks.

[@lyledeyounges1276]

@@TheDarkness1 good for you, really - I am referring to all that stock footage though

[@RSebastian97]

As an infj I know and agree with everything mentioned, but it would have been much better if some valuable tips were given on how to work on it.

[@iamkonrad26]

i cant disagree on this. all of it is me .

[@coreybrown4921]

INFJ/ Aquarius/ childhood trauma. Glad there are others

[@lextor4712]

The "NF" gets created through childhood trauma. In any case, the work (books/audiobooks) of Alice Miller can be a blessing if you're interested to dive deeper.

[@techvirus]

As INFJ, I just wanted to rule the world

[@mindscopechannel]

Make it happen🌍

[@techvirus]

@@mindscopechannel thanks, your support is very important to me

[@justinengland9814]

I am only learning about this INFJ concepts recently. This is a good opening video and I can relate to this, also the Incel concepts are very interesting.

[@juvaungriffiths5232]

Damn, most of this video describes me 😂

[@Horror-Man]

I am literally ALL of these except for #2. Can't make plans for the next week let alone the next 5 years.

[@mindscopechannel]

That one really varies. Some are totally with it and some not at all

[@ernestdrozdz1889]

Jesus, my life in a nutshell xD

[@SleepyMontana]

Facts ...

[@keatontaylor7081]

I am an INFJ male, I do have friends but even then I feel very out of place and not fully understood. It is very difficult at times but I have learned that I will likely remain alone with no one to fully fill my cup even though I fill everyone else's around me.

[@Sedite]

I thought this video was gonna be bull crap but it did resonate with me on many levels :) thank you

[@mindscopechannel]

No problem :)

[@MA-naconitor]

I think this is true for both INFJ and INTJ men. I’m myself INTJ, and can relate to this a whole lot

[@ottor-007]

I am trusting of others and am friendly towards them. I have high expectations for them to return that sort of kindness back. I don't like being alone or ghosted for days. I tend to return favour back to them, the way they treated me. I turned bitter as days goes by, mainly because online friends ends and can't get actual friends irl. I close up my windows and put up barriers so that I won't get hurt ever again, and having no one to disappoint nor them to me. I am a disease and a curse. Life is cruel, and so I've become.

[@ARsuffix]

Damn, feel like I relat to almost every one of these traits down to a T! It can be so hard to feel understood and be seen as I am - almost all of the people in my life just seem to be in a different place in their lives. Seeing this helps me feel not so much alone on some level. Thanks for uploading!

[@winterlows]

Your just a loser you ain’t INFJ 💀