Why Isn’t This Girl Married Yet?

Another young woman has gone viral on X for expressing her frustration about being 29 and single. Some people are making fun of her, but I can feel the pain and frustration coming through the screen. The best we can do now is just try to change course for the next generation.
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[@mystkl]

The first red flag is her posting her meltdown on TikTok.

[@asparrow9876]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌

[@chilliciouspatrioticmeatlover]

I agree with that sentiment

[@jcarp8471]

Her second is admitting she has a therapist. Always throws up major red flags.

[@Rockoblocko]

They tell on themselves, just sit back and listen.

[@godfatherezio]

TikTock user is an immediate rejection.

[@ConnectionKiller]

Women: "Men, you suck and we hate you, leave us alone" Men: "Okay, guess we'll head out" Women: "I can't believe you've done this"

[@tallgoofyb]

“How dare you!”

[@rajpatel8988]

why is bret reading it like ya that makes sense 🥺

[@jovannicorona9804]

Lmfao couldnt have said it better bro

[@ConnectionKiller]

​@rajpatel8988 yeah and it kinda sounds like she agrees with it

[@therationalistparty9742]

Poor girl missed her chance being brainwashed by feminism.

[@Jaredpoth]

Man that one girl talking about men being ugly and not having anything to offer and that we should probably be more like Disney characters is... Really out of touch.

[@defeqel6537]

some women have a very difficult time understanding that they aren't princesses

[@billusher2265]

they will act baffled men don’t want to commit than point to things like that as reasonable, imagine committing to someone like that.

[@David-tp7mc]

(doctor)

[@larry5272]

She wants to be a princess but doesn't want to act like one.

[@JohnDoe-nm5le]

It's literally why many men check out. Imagine being married to that.

[@chaphil1]

She said even her THERAPIST told her she's doing wrong.

[@death_anima]

It doesn't matter who tells you the truth, either can be a scientist with 20yrs of experience in human behavior or can be your best friend, if you are a foolish and victimist, everyone is wrong except for you.

[@joaquin67]

And women complain about men not going to therapy. Not listening is the same shit lol

[@sakurazukamorisubaru]

We don't know what the therapist said tho. Maybe it was something about "love yourself first" or "focus on self-improvement" which clearly doesn't work for her.

[@JustMeeZZ]

Nothing wrong with working with (key word is working) with a good therapist.

[@aetank_yyteawu3436]

The part where she says “I need…” she briefly stops and realizes she can’t say man because it’s not part of the plan. So instead of man she proceeds to say love. It’s like bruv, you have love from your family, friends, dog, and hell maybe even your therapist. It’s hilarious how today women struggle so much with saying “I need a man”. I have never heard men say “I don’t need a woman”, although they are saying “I don’t want a woman”. Which in my opinion it’s worse because the only need they would have is the need for s*x since they don’t actually want one. Sad future ahead.

[@SirSwash]

If she thinks most men are ugly then her standards are too high. Most men are average looking by definition, average isn't ugly.

[@WestCoastAce27]

Exactly. The Bell Curve. But women only look at the men in the extreme right side. Even the women in the fat part of the curve themselves. Surveys show women say 80% of men are unattractive. Men - more logical - would say 50% of women. Which is correct.

[@MichaelVavor]

Fr. Most men are average looking, but average can be insanely attractive. Just like a lot of women. A "mid" girl isn't a bad thing lol.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

She would be average too if she take off all the makeup and turn off that filter. She has that filter set so high she looks artificial.

[@earthstar7534]

Legitimately ugly people are pretty few and far between. I think I only know one or two truly unfortunate looking people that didn't encounter some horrible accident and those you can't count.

[@M3xS4NGR3Azt3k]

They should just become scissor sisters and date each other

[@clave7203]

Ah yes, as a man, I’m ready to be blamed in some way for this.

[@rattales58]

Brett: “they blame men…” Me: “of course” 🤦‍♀️

[@jamese3169]

We're blamed for everything else. I've told my wife I don't k ow who she's going to blame when I'm dead and gone.

[@Diametricallyopposed00]

Nope, it’s women. It’s feminism. It’s ruined the west. 💯 I’m a woman. 😂

[@rivkyweber9374]

@@jamese3169 probably some other guy.

[@jimpanse1638]

Even if im across the globe overseas on the other side of the fing planet: Im to be blamed... 😂 well yes i somewhat suck at life and im not confident about having someone comit to me at all... i would very much like to find a partner and marry her but i think no woman would want me so im out of the dating pool 😂

[@alcredeur]

My generation was basically encouraged to "grow up" before marrying and having kids. The problem is that getting married and having kids IS PART of growing up.

[@user-pz7tf1cj2y]

And generally, the "growing up" that is recommended is the complete opposite of actually growing up, so then ya gotta make up for that lost ground to boot.

[@harsectinal]

Nailed it.

[@e_gerardo]

Is it necessary to have kids and form a family to grow up? Sounds more like a cultural obligation.

[@MainframeSupertasker]

there's a billion problems you need to solve after marriage. solving problems is growing up

[@mkrstn]

Well said

[@annonymouslibertairian9120]

Ladies. Don't call it "settling". Call it "developing a realistic view of where you stand on the dating market, and understanding the pool of men that are avaliable to you for more than sex."

[@ShaferHart]

This. In reality they aren't settling, settling implies they could get better but willingly chose worse when in fact they could not get a better mate.

[@shoopdawhoop8730]

Any woman who claims to have settled has in reality been settled for in my eyes... If you have such a shit character to say that about your partner you sure as hell don't deserve him.

[@zayinseven7923]

its the "Mirror mirror on the wall" telling them that they are NOT the fairest one of all and they HATE IT. So instead they PROJECT that hate and call it settling. the person they've "settled for" is the mirror of themselves and they can't handle that reality.

[@Mina-hm2og]

We have an expression in my country for settling "Putting water in your wine", and thus it being diluted and not so tasty anymore. I do not believe in settling in your relationships. I do believe though in a)recognizing that by not doing so you may end up without a relationship ,and b) taking responsibility for your actions and not blaming others.

[@shoopdawhoop8730]

@@Mina-hm2og Excuse me?! are you hating on what we call "Weinschorle"?! It's nice and refreshing!

[@nicholewilde4750]

Also, I have heard the “don’t date until you’re 30” from parents, professors, teachers etc, my whole life. Maybe we should stop telling young women that.

[@user-te2ef2jc6d]

You can't do that

[@ftwan5277]

There's a reason why they're saying that. Young people are too dumb to take such responsibility of marrying and having kids. Also my auntie had a child at 40, here is the normal age cause people are healthy and fertile longer than Americans so marrying at 30 is the norm as well

[@latashalea944]

You’re absolutely right and if you think about it, a lot of young women (mostly around 21-35 and probably older) are being mothers before they are wives. Now let that sink in. It’s very sad.

[@bugstomper123]

I agree with this! Growing up, a lot of people said to put your career first and all that. Granted, having a stable job helps with a lot of things, but it shouldn't be such a priority that it prohibits you from finding a spouse

[@Noin007]

@@ftwan5277 "Also my auntie had a child at 40" This is a prime example of using an exception to try to prove a rule. Don't be daft.

[@nathandrake1447]

Breaking News: Women Are Single, Experts Say It's Men's Fault

[@theboywonder3011]

You probably found the next big news title

[@dnagremory5626]

It's crazy not one single one wants to take accountability.

[@Googleistheantichrist]

When women find 80% of men unattractive, it’s obvious that it’s the man’s fault 🤦‍♂️. He’s a godly man but he’s short, no good. He’s an excellent provider, but he’s bald. Obviously worthless

[@johndeaux3703]

Breaking News: Men Are Single, Women most affected

[@yaboyjosh3023]

This is just our monthly reminder

[@BirdHouseBirdy1]

I am 100% Noelle here. Or at least I was. Dating was rough, I had no choice but to pursue a career. Even some of the "red pilled" men I dated shamed me for being a virgin and wanting to be a stay at home mother. I finally found the one at 28. I was devastated that it took that long and I didn't have kids in my 20s. But this is the life that was given to me and I will make the best out of it. I love my husband and am excited to be having our first child at the end of this year.

[@breakpack]

That is crazy they shamed you for being a virgin!? I have mad respect for that! I honestly do not want to date a woman that isn't a virgin. I have not disrespected my potential future wife by laying with another woman, so I want that same core value from her (if I ever find her). Congrats on your first child!

[@arturoromero3166]

Know that you are many a man's dream woman.

[@misscleo_]

Girl same. I still get so much shit for still being a virgin at 29, almost 30... Being introvert makes it worse. The guy I dated when I was 25 called me old virgin and acted weird around me. I tried and tried to date but met so many toxic men. I know I have met the one when our eyes can say "We've met in a past life, and I'm glad we met again." kind of feeling. I have no choice but to live the life I have right now.

[@joshw3010]

Congratulations on your pregnancy! 😁

[@richardy2071]

no red pill man would shame you for being a virgin and wanting to be a SAHM. I call BS

[@JakeFilkeystudios]

I’m a single man. I live in California , about 80 miles from the Bay Area. I’m healthy. Mentor kids. Good with money. Built a beautiful life. But, anytime I’ve invited different women into my life-they bring chaos. Or, they are not ready for a union with a man. I’ve heard a lot, “You know, I’ll never cook for you” or “I’m not changing for anyone” or “I’m not going to be your slave” or “I’m not going to let a baby ruin my body.” One time I showed up to take someone on a romantic date. She was wearing a hoodie. I was clear that the Resturant had a dress code. Her reply, “This is me. I’m not going to change for anyone.” An obvious test to my fortitude. She’s still alone to this day. All these women went to church. A few months ago I went to lunch with a woman that liked me. As we talked she said this: “You know, I’ve thought about you and I. I think I could really be a help to you. But, you’ll never domesticate me. I can’t have children. I’ve worked really hard in my career. You’ll always have healthcare. But, I’ll never leave what I’m doing for you.” It was one of the strangest conversations. It reminded me of the 80’s movie “Cherry 2000.” I asked, “Is that your offer. I’m sorry, but that’s not what I’m looking for.” This is a common experience not just me. I’ve spoken to much younger men who are currently having the same experience. I know women are saying these things on camera, but what they are doing in real life is very different.

[@miguelben610]

Passport, Philippines

[@jurassicthunder]

cons be like: man up and marry these 304s.

[@Kmb33831]

That is CRAZY!

[@ntxawmyaj347]

Wow, seriously ..? Don't get me wrong, I can see women saying those things (not fully realizing what kind of impression they are giving by saying such things). Women only say those things to mean "I do not want to be taken advantage of". It's not that she doesn't want to marry, have kids, etc (unless she truly/unmovably states it's not in her future plans). Some women probably would change their minds if they truly knew they had a strong, dominant man that could convince them they can be a good caretaker/leader in the home.

[@elaineweaver12]

I’m so sorry for what is going on around you, and I commend you for still pursuing love!! As an engaged woman, if I know one thing about love in this broken world, is that it must be pursued in the way God intended it to be. So continue to pray and seek the Lord first, and he will reveal your wife to you! Love and patience through the Holy Spirit will be your guide through singleness and courting and marriage. All you need is one 😊😊 God bless you, Jesus loves you!! 🙌🏾

[@bravowhiskey4684]

“Stop telling me i’m wrong!” No.

[@gtrdxz]

Me Too'ed a little too close to the sun

[@lawrencetalbot8346]

Stop blaming men for everything. Once again Brett says men are the problem/“being trolls” for pointing out the obvious and says we should have pity on these women. These women A) did it to themselves and B) constantly blamed men for their problems, even now. How about learning some accountability instead of blaming “men” for everything wrong in your life.

[@EastsideSILENCER777]

@@lawrencetalbot8346 PREACH BROTHER PREACH! Brett has no accountability and still blames men for female falters.

[@balitangkamatis]

you're wrong for not saying you're right.

[@noname-xu7fi]

Why would a guy buy the 1 woman when he can have them all for nothing.

[@oopsagain1surname]

Just because a young woman says she is ready for marriage does not mean she really is.

[@kelsiebell1710]

I love this! So being ready for marriage and desiring to be married is different. I'm 19 and I'm engaged I've learned everything I can about marriage and what it takes to make it work. So has my fiancee. We have talked to many couples who have been married for a long time. Being ready isn't something that you can be until you have that person by your side because you could know how to be married but do you know how to be married to that person.

[@anastasiya256]

@@kelsiebell1710 that’s a different stage… I’m not sure if you’re confusing the two because you don’t know what it’s like to be ready to be married in general, since you’re still young… By being ready for marriage in general, in my understanding Brett is referring to what she said about being certain in your core values and goals for life. But the caveat is that people’s core values and goals for life can actually change over time 😅 oops! That’s one of the main reasons why people end up getting divorced, from what I’ve heard. People just grow apart, become different persons over time, instead of growing together.

[@kelsiebell1710]

@@anastasiya256 I'm not confused both of those ideas can be considered "being ready" what I said was not wrong and neither is what you said. To be honest many women are not ready for marriage in regards to core values neither are a lot men. But at the end of the day I am a big believer that you can grow together as people. And if you both grow in seemingly different directions that's not always a bad thing. And marriage is about working through that and choosing to love that person. Many many many people seeing growing in different ways as a bad thing but it isn't always.

[@user-sj2ok4yk5e]

🕯️🧘🕯️ Also just because a man' wants to stay married and.keep the family together it doesn't mean she does 80 percent proves this according to the stats

[@gwynnapnudd702]

She's going to make some man really unhappy. Just look at all the goop on her face. What if he tries to kiss her and gets poisoned?

[@Americanpride555]

“Women refuses all men. Here’s how it’s actually mens fault.”

[@aetank_yyteawu3436]

As a man I accept the blame. I have “NO REGERTS”… 😏

[@DangerZone200]

@@aetank_yyteawu3436 i agree i rather be blamed then be married to one of these tarts! now thats the real nightmare 😱

[@MyRomulos]

Basically the video. 😂 Here are women behaving like men wondering where real men are and why they aren't around at 29 and up. 😂

[@zrugel]

how monumentally infuriating 😂 I'm one of those guys that's been looking, hunting, praying, begging for a wife or girlfriend and I can't find a woman to give me the time of day. this has been my life for over a decade. I get her frustration but I don't think men are the problem.

[@miguelben610]

Get your passport come to the Philippines. Change your life. Just make sure you choose the right one. There's lots of choices

[@zrugel]

@@miguelben610 though I already have my passport, and have nothing against passport-bros... I don't think that's for me.

[@miguelben610]

@@zrugel I thought the same thing when I was about 30. Had a friend who went to Vietnam and wasn't careful and got hooked up with a bad relationship. But if you do it smart come to Southeast Asia just for a month. You never know till you try it. I guarantee you it's a life changer. Worst case scenario, you'll have a nice Beach vacation with lots of pretty girls checking you out

[@asparrow9876]

@@zrugel I would bet my life savings that one day, most likely very soon, your mind will change on that..... Every man I know who said what you said did and moved eventually.

[@mebeangela]

american girl with a filipino family here-even us american born filipinos know how to study hard, work hard, and run a household. i had to basically raise my past boyfriends-how to make an egg? how to do their dishes? do their laundry? set up a doctors appointment on the phone?no, men aren’t 100% to blame but i’m finding parents aren’t parenting their children to be self sufficient and responsible adults. maybe it’s the childhood trips to the philippines that showed me how good life is here in america and humbled me since i realized the sacrifices my mom and dad made to raise me here. chores as a kid taught me responsibility and living at college taught me how to be self sufficient. i’m 29 and not married. it kills me to be 29 and not married since i want kids. i own my own house and car, went to college, and am debt free. i’d happily sell my home (or in this economy rent it out) and move in with my husband in our dream home. i love know how lucky i am yet i’m so annoyed that all the boyfriends i’ve had in the past were just…boys with no life skills. girls that have their lives together need a masculine man to bring out the feminine because it is there but when boys are not rising up to be real men with basic life skills, it’s hard to be feminine. it’s hard to see a future with boy that blow their money on bs. it’s impossible to see a future with someone that can’t get off their parents phone or insurance plans. it goes both ways. not just women but also men and it all comes down to how people were raised.

[@IMDunn-oy9cd]

She should marry a bear.

[@theboywonder3011]

Problem solved 😌

[@theAzeo]

True

[@JohnSmith-ks5xw]

grizzle grizzle

[@Darkkent83]

Yo 🤣😂🤣😂 FACTS

[@devilgames2217]

🤣👍

[@daunyel-san]

You said it yourself. You built your life "for yourself." Lesson learned.

[@alexdromero13]

Exactly. No one wants to be an afterthought. Family men will build a life for their future wives and children, whereas modern women build lives for themselves it seems.

[@victorcates9330]

I'd assume that every relationship has an element of compromise and needing skills for communication and problem resolution. As a dude, I can't speak for other dudes necessarily. But I don't have my stuff together. And I'm prepared to admit to a teensiest level of (deep seated, soul-crushing) insecurity. If a dude's thought process is "what can I offer her?", then it seems possible that some dudes might look at your perfect life and feel unnecessary. Liking everything to be just so might also speak to control issues. With me, if I ever did manage to find someone then... first everyone should panic because it's definitely a sign of the apocalypse, but I'd need to make peace with someone else being present - and likely listening to music that I find to have the musicality of caterwauling.

[@lawrencetalbot8346]

Exactly and then she goes on to say us men should be feel bad for these women who became girl bosses. No. That is not our fault they bought into that narrative. It was not us men pushing this. These women only have themselves to blame and other women aka feminism.

[@Tiasung]

@@alexdromero13 Yeah, and women still talk about ''equality'' to men. If they actually wanted to be equal they'd try to build a life for their future husbands and children.

[@davidcox3076]

@@alexdromero13 and for their 23 cats.

[@JACKWEASEL]

I got married 12 years ago and I did not understand what my parents meant when they said it will be the hardest thing you can do but if you do it right it’s also the best thing you can do. Work hard at your marriage like you would a job or education and it will take care of you. I hope everyone is having a good day!

[@stayathomemess]

She wants "love" for her own selfish reasons. She isn't mentioning anything she'd have to bring to a relationship. She doesn't have a clue what work goes into a relationship.

[@benjaminp9628]

So glad I met my wife in middle school and married her right after college. Saved both of us from a lot of years of bs.

[@nelacaro57]

That’s awesome and sweet!

[@kni9ght]

Good for you guys, making a life where I can get mine

[@Rojin_04]

​@@kni9ghtoff the internet for one....(I hope you do find someone who's right for you^^)

[@kni9ght]

@@Rojin_04 me too and same to you

[@zionhorne9807]

This is definely refreshing, I’ve been with my bf for a while now, and we met in 7th grade, I’m hoping we stay strong as well ❤

[@meleebrawler6462]

Hot take: If she wanted to be married, she would have been married by now.

[@LeroiAlbertpremierdunom]

Exactly. Maybe some women will take longer to find a husband because of bad luck, but it's not hard for a woman to get married to a good guy.

[@michaelkelleypoetry]

As a single man myself who thought he would be married before he was 30, that's an unfair statement.

[@o.fm.a5573]

Well I'll be damned, does ir work that way for the common men?

[@EYExINxTHExLENS]

Yeah that's not true. There's too many factors to list that makes that an unjust statement. Most people who get married before 30 now divorce, or worse.

[@theAzeo]

@@michaelkelleypoetry your not a woman its different for you my guy.

[@Jordanthecool7]

I agree. As a guy I also gotten the same advice to just “ focus on yourself and the right person will come around “. For some reason people just assume that you can just easily meet someone without actively looking. This type of advice in my opinion is one of the reasons why you see so many young single people . That alongside other things like people only talking about negative things of the opposite gender , ect.

[@marianaquintanilla1603]

I agree with you, but to me the man should observe the women in his sorroundings to see if one stands out to pursue. In the case of women, to me at least it's hard to make the first step as I would wait for the man to do so. Plus I'm always at work, so we will see if I end up married or not, The Lord will tell in His timing not mine. I would advise for you to have girl friends that are older than you to "be comfortable" around the opposite sex and the right girl will eventually come up, at least that's what I would like to think. Best of luck!!

[@Jordanthecool7]

@@marianaquintanilla1603 thanks for the advice 👍💙

[@Jonathan-hx6oy]

My experience has been the best relationships in my life happened organically when i wasn't "looking" every woman i pursued thru dating means turned out to be dumpster fires.

[@flobba123]

I've been single for 31 years. I feel like a lot of women have too high standards. How am I supposed to afford 2 houses and 3 cars when it's impossible to even find a job?

[@anastasiya256]

2 houses and 3 cars?? 🤨 only gold-doggers would ask for that… why would anyone need more than 1 house to have a family….

[@hammerbro2125]

Thank biden

[@MomoAfterDark]

Women don’t ask for that lol. One car and one house is fine

[@PoeticJustice05]

That's a crazy exaggeration. I think if you haven't been able to find someone for that long it means you should've looked in the mirror a long time ago.

[@diamondthree]

​@@MomoAfterDark still too much in 2024. Single white men can't afford houses anymore.

[@Cliffy_Boy]

I wanted to be a husband and a father so badly that I lost 106 pounds, read TONS of books, meditated, worked on my emotional intelligence and self improvement, all to be told I'm too ugly for my goals. That's what men who try deal with.

[@AnnaWestfalia]

I'm sorry for the struggle. Please, don't give up. Many women are shallow and focus on looks, but not all. If you have good character and a warm personality it's a matter of showing up enough. Seriously, when someone who's beautiful on the inside gets a chance to shine their personality becomes them in the outside somehow and they become the most attractive person. Kinda like the girls who are gorgeous on the outside, but later reveal how wicked they are on the inside. They are no longer beautiful but repulsive. Just Said a prayer for you. ❤️

[@realIronKnight]

I’m 19 and that finding that someone has just become a distant dream. Doesn’t help by the fact that people in our generation just flat out suck; everyone’s so glued to their phones and so focused on themselves that it’s hard to connect anymore when I feel like I’m one of the only people who still has hope and confidence for themselves and my own dreams. As much as I’d like to find a girl to share my dreams with, unfortunately that’s just not happening lol.

[@niallk9336]

@@AnnaWestfalia Thoughts & Prayers™™

[@niallk9336]

@@AnnaWestfalia Thoughts & Prayers™™

[@tonydiesel3444]

Looks an height are 1# sorry

[@richardople]

Back in 2004 I began talking to a girl on the phone for the first time, we were slowly getting to know one another. During that call my mom called on the other line and broke the news to me that my father passed away. After hanging up the phone with my mom, I let the girl know what had just happened. She did something that no other girl had done for me ... She asked me if she could pray for me. At that moment I knew God brought someone very special into my life. That was back in 2004. We're now in our 40's ... I'm 44 and she's 42. We've been together for almost 20 years and happily married for 16 years. Together we've built our life, our home, supported each others careers and dreams and most importantly we've been blessed with two beautiful daughters. She introduced me to God and that was the best gift of all and I will love and cherish her for the rest of my life.

[@mrs.garcia6978]

❤😭☝🏻

[@yessir8805]

Sound like a real millennial. Damn our generation still had a little morals.

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

She’s a rare one.

[@amgineco]

may OUR FATHER in HEaven, in the NAME of Iesus, Bless you and your Family !!!

[@nleigha]

Amen

[@brandonyzaguirre1476]

I’m 29, going to be 30 in September. Never been married or on a date and I’m happy to be single.

[@Shinning_Ella]

I'm 25 and same as you... Men only want free sex and they're not ready to pay even the least... I can relate to every single woman in this comment section...

[@brandonyzaguirre1476]

I forgot to mention that I’m also autistic. I want a wife who is an honest Christian.

[@ceu160193]

@@brandonyzaguirre1476 Well, good luck. I am 31 and in basically same situation. Dealing with people by itself is enough headache, dealing with someone emotionally unstable is instant deal breaker.

[@DangerZone200]

@@Shinning_Ella im a man and i dont want free sex easy women are bitches, also paying for sex is called prostitution which is a red flag for being in a serious relationship you might wanna change that about you it will lead to nothing but darkness and loneliness

[@MegaMie77]

@@Shinning_Ella "Free sex" as opposed to what?🤔 Oh wait, you added pay even the least, I catch your drift. Do you queen!!

[@kdani4777]

If you are 29 years old, your life has not “turned out” any certain way. Your life is developing, and you are still young.

[@timjones1583]

The WALL is undefeatable, she is 1 year from 30. Her sexual market value will nose dive. Hope she likes cats.

[@tann_man]

not if you're a woman who wants more than 1 or 2 children. You have less than 6 years to meet, vet, marry, and conceive with husband before your pregnancy is clinically considered geriatric.

[@kdani4777]

@@tann_man children aren’t for everyone

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

“Geriatric pregnancy” doesn’t mean much if you’re healthy, that’s just a term. Women throughout millennia have birthed healthy babies well into their 40’s. I’ve known people who birthed 10 children in between ages 27 and 41… or 5 children after age 35. I know, it’s crazy. But to say it’s impossible is silly. I’d say a goal of 3 children in your 30’s is not illogical

[@timjones1583]

@@user-lt1jd1ye3v False,,,,any pregnancy after 35 is high risk!!!

[@user-os8up4pc7s]

There are men out here who feel left behind, but we usually out here grinding out a blue collar living and not getting anyone willing to reciprocate

[@YorktownUSA]

Oh yeah, and the college "educated" corporate bitches won't look twice at us. It's fine though, less hassle.

[@EastsideSILENCER777]

I salute you sir.

[@Purple.mtn.Laurel]

I feel left behind and I work a blue-collar job as an auto mechanic and I'm a woman. Maybe not a very average woman, but sucking it up and focusing on the important stuff (like making sure I can put food on the table for me and my cat 🤣) is the mature way to handle it, probably just not the man's way to handle it.

[@Luke13579]

@@Purple.mtn.Laurel Men don't normally go for women in blue collar jobs because they are usually masculine

[@scottcrabface5662]

I also think it's important to understand WHY these men have left the dating pool. Men also want to find someone but women have been told that most men are ugly and not worth giving up what they want for.

[@joncarbone]

Women need to understand how much peace is valued. She's attractive so my guess it's her attitude.

[@multivariateperspective5137]

Exactly…. Not looking to be tormented and and being on the end of the whip of her emotions

[@nunosanches3693]

you probably guessed it right, just look at her gestures, she is clearly a feminist

[@theboywonder3011]

Well she's more "I , I , I , ME , ME , MY , MY "

[@winoodlesnoodles1984]

No. She doesn't listen. She lists so many people that have given her good advice and she freely admits that she refuses to listen to them. She just won't listen. Thus she doesn't have relationship and communication skills. She is pump and dump at best. To be fair, she is so damaged and is so full of drama, that I wouldn't even pump.

[@blah6883]

100%

[@sazahmed4225]

Here’s some harsh truth men and women of the internet. No one is entitled to a relationship or lasting love. Not everyone is going to get married or have a relationships. Who’s to say she’s not having one night stands on the weekends? Love yourself and do you, stop trying to live the same lives as your friends.

[@reclusefaerie017]

💯

[@Rocknhoundog]

Based facts bro 😌

[@HerpMcDerp89]

6:10 That long post on X is a prime example of why I, an almost 35 year old man, no longer actively date anymore. If I happen to bump into a woman and we end up hitting it off that's one thing, but there are WAY too many people (both men and women) with way too shallow standards. I'm done wasting my time on women who are just as shallow as men but insist they have some sort of moral high ground.

[@Rabid_Bonsin]

Met my wife as a Highschool Sophomore. Married her 10 minutes after I turned 18. Celebrating 10 years married in a few months. I am SO GLAD I do not ever have to date in 2024.

[@rcg224]

happy for you ❤ cherish eachother forever .

[@angryflowerchild7849]

I feel this comment I married my highschool sweet heart 7years ago this summer and we talk all the time about how happy we are we met so young so we didn't have to deal with what ever is going on with dating right now. Shiz is wild

[@kaonohiaukai4369]

I hope you still date your wife

[@KGChaos]

Wait so your wedding was at 12:10am?

[@BlessedBeesHomestead2019]

Yes! I was a sophomore in highschool and my husband had graduated the year before. We knew each other already, but we started hanging out the summer before my sophomore year. (Before people freak out TOO much, I was a year behind 😅) we've been together for almost 8 years and married for almost 5. 3 kids, 4 and under 🥰

[@melaniehancock2210]

I got married at 19. My husband and I have built our lives TOGETHER. Now 11 years and 4 kids later, we are happy, settled, and never really had a life outside each other. WE are set in stone, plural. Why people have been advising others to set their lives up completely alone, I’ll never know. It all seems extremely selfish to me, and now look where these poor 20 somethings are. Miserable and alone.

[@catherinewetzel417]

Good for you! We didn’t get married quite as young as you but 10 years in July, 6 kiddos and still going strong. We basically were up together from our early adult years to now. 😊❤

[@edwardsantoyajr6322]

That is the life❤❤❤ bless that marriage with many more yrs to come and many healthy kiddos,,, I'm single lol I put a strain to society lolol you peeps keep it going lol ❤❤

[@adararelgnel2695]

I got 4 kids in just over 3 years. Lol. I live in chaos right now, it is the most fun I've ever had in my life!! 4 kids aged 3 and under!!

[@jennifertwede7142]

Yay!! It only gets better😃 I got married at 19, have three kiddos, and we just celebrated our 31st anniversary! I couldn’t have said it better myself👏❤️

[@BikesandMusic]

Ladies, you give real men hope that there's still decent ladies out there. Thank you.

[@Maarks91]

Brett cooper: Women wants to get married! Also Brett: You cant excpect women to settle for anything but the best type of man!

[@aishisufuyu5961]

You misundrstood the stats. All of those men aren't exiting the dating pool, they just can't find any women who are interested them.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Really? I wish what you were saying is true but as a 28 year old girl idk. All women truly want is marriage but it seems like every guy only wants a hookup. That’s what dating apps look like anyway but guys are too afraid to approach in person.

[@aishisufuyu5961]

@@user-lt1jd1ye3v There are plenty of guys who are either too nice, not as confident, or not good looking enough to even have the chance to hook up. They never get a chance because girls just aren't attracted to them. Most women don't truly want marriage. The stats show 80% of divorces are initiated by women. They're not willing to work through issues, or they just get bored and leave.

[@user-pz7tf1cj2y]

@@user-lt1jd1ye3v Your environment is going to affect what you have to choose from. From what I've seen, ultra-urban environments will have much less quality choices than Suburban and Rural areas. You also need to be conscientious of ALL men. If you see someone you are interested in and he keeps to himself or his friends, he could just be shy. That isn't to say every one of them is a loveable scamp who just needs a chance to show himself (there are some real troglodytes who I wouldn't wish on any woman) but I think there's a favorable ratio of shyguys to dungeonoids.

[@user-fu6ql2yg5w]

I disagree, most of the decent hard working men that I know of don’t even try to date casually… I’m talking mid to late 20s regular gym goers in decent careers… they’ve either had a bad exp or two and sworn off to getting out of the country or something along those lines… the good men and good women are bearing the brunt of this dating market

[@witnessfox3509]

I really don't get people who post their breakdowns online for everyone to see. I get annoyed when a website asks for my phone number and yet some people are comfortable posting their life story for the whole world.

[@the1972bulldog]

At least you get to see them at their best 😂😂😂

[@sakurazukamorisubaru]

I'm quite private myself, but I assume they reach out to people for comfort or solution. It's not that scary if you are not alone, also someone might know how to solve your problem or shares similar experience.

[@user-jv5pp8pv9l]

​@sakurazukamorisubaru They just want attention. If you're truly reaching out, you go to people you know. You don't post it on social media.

[@spencerd8504]

"get annoyed when a website asks for my phone number" same.

[@BoMwarriorVlog]

​@@sakurazukamorisubaru I think you're on the right track. My first impression of this video Brett is sharing is it's a cry for help. 🧐 I have lifelong MDD and it's incredibly frustrating to know what you want to do, know what finishline you're striving for, yet feel stuck because the options you've tried in the past didn't work. Yelling into the void for suggestions (mixed with a little comforting motivation) is all such a desperate person can think of. 😮‍💨 The mind is clouded by stress and warped by worry. Therefore a voice from a kind stranger who can have a fresh perspective is the prayer I've had at times. ...For myself for now I've settled for a few friends to talk to, and in the past few months God's blessed me with that at least. 🤷

[@ashtonback1713]

29 male here, my single life is peaceful bliss. Whenever I’ve tried relationships I’ve been absolutely rolled over by young slags in their ‘prime’. I’ve not experienced a true relationship and yet I’ve been left repeatedly heartbroken. Modern social media and feminism has destroyed the mind of the young woman.

[@PatronHall]

This is what women don't realize. They are in competition with peace and peace is kicking their collective ass.

[@PatronHall]

@@QNK591 We understand that not all women are like that. The issues is that the culture went too far with divorce law and #metoo. We warned ya'll to reign it in and keep it fair and due process but too many women wanted to get the bag. Now many women are entitled and those that aren't don't feel comfortable differentiating themselves in society. It's not that every women will ruin you, it's that every woman can, and if she tries, society doesn't gaf. So much easier to manage peace on our own until this situation hits rock bottom.

[@L4A1D1Y]

@@PatronHall😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@anastasiya256]

@@PatronHall I think there have always been these “lone wolf” type men who just don’t want the “drama” typically associated with being married / in a relationship with women…

[@anastasiya256]

@@PatronHall also, in regards to #metoo, the ideas of consent have gone too far, as Jordan Peterson points out… consent has ruined sex 😂 🪦

[@sparty837]

It is pretty simple, in her early 20's she prioritized job and money over finding a partner. The problem is when you have been a "me" too long, it is impossible to be a "we", you lose the ability compromise when you live by yourself too long (that is my reality).

[@BrianRetro]

Who the fuck cares? I'm 45 and I'm single. Does anyone care? NO!

[@CooliWurscht]

Guys, a girl invited me to her church and i plan on asking her on a date. Wish me luck Edit: I have known her since September 2023, when we went on a school trip sailing a week in the Netherlands, so she isn't somebody I don't really know.

[@alissakain9302]

Good luck! Praying it goes well!

[@BPMEmmelia]

GOOD LUCK!

[@asparrow9876]

That's a reformed 304.

[@carpentermic1]

Make sure she's not a born again.

[@Alison2436]

good luck!!

[@josephbenz4913]

She spends the entire video comparing herself to others. She doesn’t want a relationship. She wants to win. She wants to get someone as good or better than her friend’s fiancés/husbands. If she does get married, it will end in divorce. Women like her will never be satisfied.

[@M16-bf4ku]

true. Women often subconsciously compete with their peers. This is the reason they want bfs who are taller, richer, etc. than their friend's bfs

[@huffepuf3066]

True!

[@user-te2ef2jc6d]

Idk, my wife friends envy her that we still together and don't argue... People say I'm a catch, but I'm not a Chad or alpha in any means... I was surprised how people look on you, if only you try to be little tactile in public with your woman. Other women go crazy looks if I touching my wife hair or randomly massage her shoulders for 3 seconds, and it's just my hands live their own lives...

[@debbie7259]

@@user-te2ef2jc6d Exactly! My husband is definately NOT a Chad! 5'3" and is shorter than me. He doesn't go to the gym and doesn't make 6 figures. He's definately a regular guy from everyone's perspective, but to me he's the most hansome I've ever seen! And, yeah, he's a catch because of his character and integrity. Also, the fact that he only had a girlfriend 14 years before we met and he didn't sleep around was very attractive to me. When we met he was manly in the sense that he didn't play games with me. He knew exactly what he wanted. And we were honest with each other about family, having kids etc. from the first date.

[@brianthesnail3815]

Yes, I think you hit the spot there. Whatever happened to just falling in love with someone you can build a life with. A lot of these videos sound like people looking for a job promotion and being unhappy when that dream job doesn't appear.

[@clubedejurupari]

All those women are approaching 30 years old or past 30. They didn't wanted no man to "spend life with" 10-15 years before when they were 18, and they surely had many opportunities. Only now they realized they want it. Curious isn't it?

[@JaimeJDoesStuff]

It's very difficult for men to feel sorry for modern women when we've been told for years and years now "we don't need no man, men are useless, men are creeps, just leave us alone, etc." and guess what happened? Men respected their wishes, listened, and this is the result. That's why a lot of men feel like they can't win either way and they're just opting out. We do what you ask and we're wrong? If we are persistent and don't do what you ask we are also wrong.

[@billusher2265]

They are either incapable to understand it or unwilling to, either way it’s basically pointless to lay it out, they will never acknowledge it.

[@mroeplz]

If you actually add value to a woman's life, they won't mind you being in it.

[@Livvypie]

💯💯

[@Joe-qm4yv]

@@mroeplztell that to Tom Brady

[@MarieAnne.]

@@mroeplz As a woman, I can't say I've seen much evidence of this with younger women.

[@thunderbird982]

The men that are leaving dating are not leaving because they don’t want women, they are leaving because women don’t want them.

[@nunosanches3693]

80% of man are invisible to them, i know this becouse im one of them, and i get rejection after rejection and im not even ugly probably a 6/10, and guess what if they knew how big my bank account was they would probably beg me to date them XD

[@rajpatel8988]

but ones that are in are mostly fucking around so what difference does it make ?

[@wizeguy2388]

BOOM THIS. I'm a 5'4 man, not white, not rich. I am godly though. I wonder if her eager-for-marriage friends are still interested knowing this...

[@gwennvy]

No, it’s because they can see through your personality. I know you’re not a good person because of your previous comment where you won’t date anyone over 25 but want a wife and kids. (And you’re 30…)

[@bebdaumon3948]

@@nunosanches3693 same...lol however, I am happy being single. I have friends that are married some got divorces and their woman like treat them like shit. They make them do so much not just work but a lot of work and still don't recognized that they're doing a lot and don't need to be yelled at or argumentative.

[@mav4516]

I do t want a girl who’s built her own life, I want a girl who wants to build a life WITH me

[@katwaugh1686]

True. She is essentially asking for a wife to slip into her life, not a husband to build a new life with.

[@mittengrandma807]

I agree. Unfortunately, both men and women have been badgered into not marrying young. Parents say, go to college, get a good job, buy a house, yada, yada, yada. Under the guise of not struggling. But the struggle is what binds a couple together! I wish more couples would get married younger and STRUGGLE!❤️

[@crismotionproduction3519]

Until the divorce

[@isaiasherrero7889]

exactly!

[@joser_1295]

Facts

[@saulshelly6174]

I’m 23 and single and by no means am I physically Unattractive even though I’m a devout Christian man standing at only 5‘6“ in height. I personally don’t want to be married because I more prefer my alone time and my own personal space. The only things I need in my life are God, my friends, my family, and my pet dog that’s all I need also as sidenote, no offense to anyone, but I find women to be too needy and diva like

[@bf3ram]

As a short and ugly guy i used to be mad about it, now i see it as a blessing.

[@minademar]

I was married in 27. I had so many fears around it because I came from a broken family of divorced parents. But I knew I have the MOST incredible reliable mature man in the world, I took a leap and boyyyy was it worth it ❤️ If you are afraid but have a good man by your side, it may be your sign to go for it

[@sarah1957]

Absolutely agree!

[@rcg224]

that's right. happy for you ❤

[@BenLWolf]

Begin the count down to divorce, boys. I hope he has hidden bank accounts.

[@uchi9]

I can very much relate to your comment, I'm very happy you two have each other.

[@Ross-px9iy]

Married in 27 sheesh your either 120 years old or a time traveler 😂

[@JamenLS]

Honestly at this point, the damage has been done. Feminism destroyed EVERYTHING

[@devilgames2217]

It freed us men.

[@chilliciouspatrioticmeatlover]

​@@devilgames2217 so that we can do our things when we want and where we want without anyone telling us what to do.

[@balitangkamatis]

@@devilgames2217 I second that. The holy trinity of essentials for blokes today; work, gym, videogames. black myth wukong baby

[@devilgames2217]

@@balitangkamatis That one looks like it's gonna be great.

[@sebastiansuarezcruz]

​​​@@balitangkamatisthat sounds like a nice life free of stress, outside of work. For me, my holy trinity would be work, martial arts, videogames or watching Netflix and/or Hulu.

[@Love2DrawManga]

I had really bad social anxiety that made it so I didn't join the dating scene when I was in my early 20s. I kept waiting to become the "perfect person" one that didn't have anxiety, that was strong and could do things on her own. I felt like I needed to have all my stuff together before anyone could love me. But when I was 26, I joined a dating site and after talking with many guys and almost giving up I found my husband. Through our relationship I learned that my anxiety doesn't make me unlovable. Since the beginning my husband was always supportive and understanding of my anxiety. With him by my side I have done so much more than I ever thought I would, it's amazing how having someone to be there with you can help so much. So, to the person reading this, yes, it's good to work on yourself, but you don't have to wait until "you are perfect" to start dating. 💖

[@DessMelissa]

Shame I couldn’t bring myself to watch this the day you posted it, but it hit a bit close to home as that was two days after my 29th birthday. This stretch of dating advice videos are perfect and so so good, thanks for making them.

[@FernandoCruz-np9ev]

She’s that type of girl that rejects every Guy who asks her out

[@flacsmada]

100 percent

[@SaxaboomJamz]

Yup

[@samuel-west]

There are at least 5 guys (that she my or may not have friendzoned) that know her that saw her tiktok and proceeded to punch a hole in the wall

[@Scorpiotwinnk]

Because 90% of men are red flags and hate women😂

[@pridefall3304]

@@samuel-west if they proceeded to punch a hole in the wall, then she was right to reject them

[@that1guy568]

It takes two to tango. I’m 25 and I have had one date in going on five years now. And it’s not to the lack of trying. I want to sympathize with women. I want a wife, I want to give someone a home, children, and the world, but all I get is “you’re a great guy and I see you as a friend.” I’m not going to force a woman to do anything. So I’m stuck.

[@1libra.]

I feel that, granted I'm only 19 and headed on a mission trip soon, but its hard even at a university of likeminded people because its just hard. even when nothing should be in the way. And trusting in God's timing is hard too

[@sara_sofia_1984]

I feel for you. One thing that very few people are talking about is that the most important factor in physical attraction for women is pheromones. Pheromones are determined by genetics - we are attracted to a compatible genetic match - which is rare. So my advice for men is to keep meeting new women until you find someone who feels that strong pheromone attraction towards you. It's a matter of statistic probably to find that person, keep trying, don't get discouraged ❤️

[@tomliemohn624]

I'm there.

[@spiff1]

because youre lame bro

[@skinnyguy7773]

Yep they are all waiting for hot guy chad

[@trini_staple]

She said it herself. All her friends prioritized their boyfriends, fiancées & husbands. She prioritized herself & getting her life so she can say I have this and this & now I just need this. She's not looking for love, she's just looking for something to check off a box. Typical modern, independent women. You made your bed, now fluff your pillow, pull the covers and lie in it.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Just admit you have no empathy bro. People aren’t allowed to be imperfect?

[@lecomtedemontecristo8451]

When they say, it all depends on men or blame men, I instantly think, "ok women, you've had your chance, now shut up and let men take it from here". Let's go back to traditional roles and end of the story. If you want feminism go on, but don't cry about choosing to be miserable and go against human and animal nature.

[@ninahowell6550]

She said she's happy but then she breaks down. Honey, I don't think you're happy. I think you've tried to convince yourself you are. You might need to think about someone other than yourself. Start there. Guys don't want someone that only thinks about themselves.

[@Rojin_04]

That's the entire reason true love is hard to find these days. True love is sacrificing for the other person, and the narrisicit people these days can't stand giving something up for someone else.

[@itznoah-live6881]

Nah not fair, somebody happy can have periods of sadness and vice versa. A moment in time is not their entire life

[@msovaz77]

You can be a happy person and still be frustrated. Come on

[@ElenasDad]

If this was a man crying in his car about not finding a women, he would be clowned all over the internet.

[@JagerTRL]

​@ElenasDad Exactly! We just take the beating, have a beer with a buddy and move on. Simple as that 🤣

[@JadoreLulu]

I’m 37 and my issue was anxiety and depression. I didn’t believe I was good enough for anyone. I was convinced I would never marry and end up alone. Finally decided to seek the help I needed and lo and behold less than a year later I ended up meeting the love of my life and now we’re engaged.

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

Awwww. May God bless your marriage ♡♡ Good for you

[@AnnSmajstrla]

Are we the same person?? I’m 32 and didn’t meet a quality, marriage-material man until I was 29. And by marriage material I DO NOT mean “rich,” “hot,” “tall,” etc. … I mean a man who actually treats me like a human being, who doesn’t see me only as arm candy and a thing to fulfill his physical needs. This comment section is sorely lacking in empathy. The notion that women have it so much easier than men when dating for marriage (keywords: for marriage) is simply not true. There are so many guys out there who treat women terribly; and contrary to popular belief, you can’t always immediately tell them from the actual good men. Anyway- I’m so happy that you found your fiance!

[@TheDreamchaser2016]

​@AnnSmajstrla most women have marriage material men in the friend zone because they are not "hot", "tall" or "rich" enough

[@alexsanderivan6511]

God bless ! Very happy for you

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@@AnnSmajstrlaOr, you were attracted to bad boys when most fertile, had your epiphany phase as time was running out as most women do, now in your post party phase years, found the sweet reliable guy you ignored for years and now you're pretending all of the men are awful and you found something precious now. Rather than you chased terrible and finally gave the sweet guy a chance. No wonder men have opted out.

[@hannahseale9954]

These girls experiences & mine are so different, it’s strange. I’m 28, married with 3 kids, a degree & a career. Even before my husband & I started going out though, I never dated anyone randomly but still had a few long term relationships since I was 18 & genuinely tried working at each one… maybe I’m wrong but watching these videos makes me feel like everyone is just stuck in this swipe left/swipe right culture that isn’t healthy. No one is going to be perfect, but that’s why you need someone who balances you out. They’ll be strong where you’re weak & vice versa.

[@chrisn1710]

You get what you get, and you don't throw a fit. Welcome to "equality."

[@maiaatkinsschalchlin2075]

I found my husband online at 27. We were both pretty "set in our ways". It turns out when you are both humble and looking out for each other's best interests you both change for the better and create something amazing that neither of you could have imagined. 💕

[@cdgmalone]

I got married right out of high school and so many people gave me a hard time about it. We’ve been married almost 20 years and it’s been so nice growing up together.

[@richardy2071]

she's 29. She had 9 years of riding the cc and she could've picked any of those guys. now she's living the consequences of her own actions

[@yatessixecho1]

This woman only thinks about herself and won't listen to anyone. It's so hard to imagine why no man wants her. With her attitude, she deserves to be single forever.

[@artawhirler]

No man wants to be an extra in someone else's movie.

[@anony213]

Even women feel the same way

[@TumiYukii]

yet you want her to quit her job, stay home, have your kids, clean your house, cook your meals, and be the extra in yours lol

[@erdal0]

​@@TumiYukiienjoy being single then

[@rodspoonskimble161]

@@TumiYukiiwives do that my guy. It’s not that crazy. Women want men to provide, protect, settle, etc. we all have to make sacrifices here.

[@lidiagizaw3828]

women arent ur extras either

[@sorrykhary]

At what point do you ask "do men want what I am offering?" or "why are so many men checking out of dating?"

[@theAzeo]

Woah are you asking them to take accountability?

[@WestCoastAce27]

This. While women will be upset that we’re using the ‘product’ and ‘marketplace’ references… that’s what it is. Or we could go with sports/competitions… and she’s just losing. We men learn about losing early - these women have had it so easy their whole lives. When tough times and setbacks happen, they crumble.

[@houseofhas9355]

Reflection. How are you mate!

[@asparrow9876]

STOP NOTICING PATTERNS!! WHEN IN DOUBT, JUST BLAME MEN!!! 💁‍♀💁🏻‍♀💁🏼‍♀💁🏽‍♀💁🏾‍♀💁🏿‍♀

[@newdivide9882]

Having hung around mostly female spaces for the last few weeks, I can say your second question is my biggest takeaway. Women won’t ask why men do what we do or think the way we think. They’d rather invent reasons that somehow make them victims. Even of men alone in their rooms minding their own business. And yeah, not all women do this, but A LOT on social media do

[@daryontube]

9:00 Brett, that’s exactly why, usually, women tend to marry men at least a few years older. It’s that simple. Almost no 23 year old guy is ready for marriage, not gonna happen, not now, not ever.

[@alexbickers8388]

I know exactly how she feels and can relate, I feel so sorry for her and just want to give her a hug.

[@survivor-3572]

She Probably rejected all the stable guys for being too boring.

[@Knlght0fZero]

I believe it's more likely that from her point of view those guys didn't even exist. They are invisible to women like this. Her swiping left on 100 guys didn't even register in her brain.

[@armaan8463]

Or not having a lot of 💴

[@tritan130]

Or short

[@juriagagarin]

Im 25 years old an have given up completely on Dating. I would love to marry someone and have children and the whole thing. But after spending some time in the dating pool it just takes a toll on you and it is just a more quiet and calm life and ao far im fine with that.

[@DisneyFan-eg3oz]

Don’t give up yet ask friends if they have friends that is how I met my wife of 30 years join a class or club trying a local dating app but go very slow ask a lot of questions. Do not look in a bar or nightclub They only want one thing and I am sure you know what that is all the best! David

[@lqstar]

I met my hubby at 19, he was 24 and this was in 2009 when the economy was going to sh*t. Neither one of us was looking for anything serious but it quickly did. He didn’t have much money that wasn’t what I was looking for. We clicked and I told him I want to be at stay at home mom. He work his *as off to become the man he is today and be able to provide for our family. Women today want the whole package at once and make the mistake of not growing with someone. I would be happy with my husband if we were poor - which we were for the first few years. But the love he has for me has pushed him to be a great provider and I still get my best friend who I love and grew with. We need to bring the Skater Boy song back. Good lessons to be learned.

[@rcg224]

skater boy ? 😂

[@barrettorth8413]

@@rcg224 The song she's referring to is "skater boi" by avril lavigne

[@addiebillinghurst2012]

It is GROWING together. Ten years married here and the ups and downs have been crazy, but it brings you together more. You certainly don't marry the whole package immediately. What a privilege to be able to see your spouse grow, or your spouse to see you grow!

[@user-sj2ok4yk5e]

🕯️🧘🕯️you are a very rare woman' and your husband is very blesses 🙏because woman today' feel entitled to having there 🍰 and eating it to

[@landonolson2068]

I broke up with my girlfriend of 9 years at 31 years old. I was so nervous to get back into dating because i wanted someone as free as me (no kids, no divorce, no baggage etc.) It just so happened that I got back together with my highschool sweetheart after 15 years apart and she had the same world view as me so it worked out so perfect.

[@begreat1542]

The once a month, " i can't handle it," is just PMS ladies

[@oogaboogalou4521]

"Stop telling me I'm wrong!" Says the lady who openly admits she is clearly wrong about everything.

[@TDOTSE1]

😂😂😂😂

[@alandrian]

Yea its really bad when its not just one person telling her she is wrong but everyone.

[@joimumu]

Then she complained that her friends are happily married but she doesn’t want to do what they did

[@bethlochrie5639]

I do feel for her. I had a horrible marriage in my early 20s that lasted only 6 months. I vowed to never marry again. And I lived a great life for many years perfectly happy. Then out of the blue I met the perfect man for me in my mid 40s. We have now been married for 7 years and I couldn't be happier. I am so blessed. I never felt sorry for myself. I never cried in my car. I never envied those around me. I trusted in God. And at the right time, I met the one man He had picked out for me. Live your life with happiness and love. You are right where you should be! God bless ♥️

[@mikebalentine]

This is why in the past male family members would vet the man because the data is in, young women do not choose well. Societies where this is the norm almost all marriages are successful.

[@mr.fettesq.7705]

I'd have to agree that young women are bad at choosing men. Which includes letting go of the good ones.

[@jasono2139]

Funny how "trusting in God" magically "solved" your problem... I guess God just "oopsied" that first one? ...nevermind that God doesn't condone re-marrying except for "death do you part"... ... but DETAILS, amirite?! 🤷

[@nariman7458]

In mid 40s? Do you even have children with that man? What's the point in it for him?

[@ErezElene]

​@@nariman7458Are you saying that men only marry in order to procreate? Children are great and all,but that just sounds like a birthing fetish or something. Marriage is between a man and woman who love each other first and foremost

[@ashleyhenson290]

I got married at 19 and my husband was 20. We started dating at the end of 10th grade. We just celebrated 20 years of marriage and I pray our daughter has a similar path. Nothing like building a whole life together starting from your teens. Every single thing and we have is a result of working together towards a common goal and life for ourselves.

[@endofexistence]

I'm done. I'm tired after 2 marriages... they are innately unhappy, ungrateful and entitled creatures. When they notice being unhappy at various intervals, they act out and expect their husbands to take it. I just want peace. My life has always been blessed... the only unhappiness I've encountered has been caused by them. I'm out... and it's great.

[@Anony-mouse638]

Jesus loves you, I pray you have peace and feel loved forever in life ❤

[@DangerZone200]

my advice for you would be work on yourself now read a book, get a hobby, workout, learn a new language, meditate theres plenty you could do with your freedom you just gotta take the plunge to do them because wether you like them or not the experience is worth more then any lover especially with women now a days

[@jeffsmith2283]

The phase "work on myself" has become the red flag of red flags for me. There is a direct correlation between how messed up a women is and how much 'work on myself', 'finding myself' etc. she has done.

[@S2k_GRsti]

Correct

[@mo.ka.9661]

So a woman should just never improve herself?

[@joeyvandermolen]

Yup!!! Seems the more they work on themselves, the worse they are as partners.

[@mioszduby2842]

Generally, the more self-centered you are and the more you're thinking about how life is treating you, the more unhappy you become.

[@TVClaireBear]

You gotta learn how to love yourself first before you can love others

[@GiasJulii]

Ok my big issues with the women's statement she's reading is this. They first assume all men to be the same and lump them entirely into a group. I have 5 sons from 40 to 31 (ones adopted before anyone ask) and they are all different, so how are 150 million of us the exact same when my 5 sons are so different? Next, they say the women have fewer good guys to choose from. I am sorry this is princess mentality, you see it all the time, 5's thinking they are 10's. The woman that was saying that about men being unattractive I would bet is never seen without make up and full glam yet wants to slam men for being "ugly". The whole "queen" mindset is one thing that really turns so many men off. You are not a queen you are not a princess you're a woman with flaws just like I am a man with the same. Another thing they kept bringing up was "not making enough" I am sorry I never dated a woman in my life that I asked her what she made before the date. Personally, it's the person I am dating not her bank book. My fiancée makes more at her job than I do mine almost about 50% more. I also have an Army retirement that we don't touch, now this woman would look at my checks now and go uh not enough, while I am putting away almost 3 times what I earn each month from my Army money. So, in short that "ugly" book she so quickly wrote off may contain the most beautiful poetry ever written but she won't know because she didn't like the cover.

[@bjay347]

🙌🏿👍🏿💯

[@chilliciouspatrioticmeatlover]

Ya nailed that on the head really damn well. I could not have said it any better.

[@dcarvalho6144]

I agree. They have stupidly high standards, and like to pretend that what they ask for, is basic stuff. When height becomes a deal breaker, or how much money you make, or whatever stupid criteria, it clearly is a problem with their standards. It's one thing to have as a requirement, being attracted to the guy, it's another when they nitpick on everything, and are expecting straight up perfection. That statement had one thing right, women get their standards from princess movies, but also from social media, romantic comedies, music, and so on. It's a fantasy that sets them up for failure, where they have this primary requirement to find a guy who is pretty much a "prince".

[@dirtyace1668]

Very well said! Totally agree.

[@taryndancer29]

Yeah exactly like there's lovely and not so lovely in both genders. I've met great men, I've met crappy men. I've met great women, I've met crappy women. Generalizing is never a good thing.

[@Lem0nsquid]

I like the part where they said, “men take more than they have to offer.” What the hell are we taking?

[@fobosydeimos]

They're talking about the part where women are expected to give their life to protect their husband and the part where the woman has to be the main provider in order to be liked.

[@whateverthefuckiwant4289]

Yeah, honestly shut up. I know just about zero men who actually gave up their lives to protect their wives. Zero. And yet you always use it as an example. And I know around 100 of women that gave up their careers for kids. Guess what? The men had kids plus the career and many times they decided to get divorced. The women walked away with shit.

[@DangerZone200]

you taking bed space these women want you to sleep on the floor like a fucken animal

[@ufokemo]

No Bret. Don't try to blame men for women 'not finding men".

[@Antr707]

Her preferences: 6'0" 6 figures 6 pack abs 6 Infinity Stones

[@simdal3088]

"6 Infinity Stones" you killed me 🤣

[@asparrow9876]

6 Pokémon 6 .6 inch rod 6 extra lives

[@asparrow9876]

Soon it'll be: 7 Dragon Balls 7 Chaos Emeralds 7 Chakras unlocked

[@trickyric67]

Guaranteed.. I know a lot of guys who are in great shape, make good money but are under 5'10... dating apps do not work for them at all.. simply because they are not tall enough for the majority of women..

[@MercenaryCookie]

😭😭😭

[@heybrowhatup]

Is she trying to stay unmarried? This is an advertisement for men to stay far away from her. She also looks like Rachel Zegler.

[@beliber6681]

Shes j sharing her issues. Ik oversharing is prolly not the best idea, but its such a common thing nowadays w social media, ppl dont even think twice about doing or seeing it. Also w a topic like this, she might want to share her experience to help others.

[@JBMorris9]

"... she also looks like Rachel Zegler" 😂😂😂

[@jpt610]

​@beliber6681 yea but there's still ways to communicate your point without sounding crazy. She sounds crazy.

[@hoopandhands3328]

@@beliber6681 Actually it's been said that if a guy finds out that a woman, especially grown ones like 27+ have tiktoks, they generally react negatively and move on. Theres hundreds of women on there complaining about that very thing.

[@asparrow9876]

And now it's on the internet forever

[@ikaruga24]

I am slightly older at 42 and i wholeheartedly feel for this lovely lady. I know she has some questionable things she is saying but to me she sounds absolutely genuine and is not interested in selling her tik-tok channel. If i am not correct then good for her, she had me fooled. For most people nowdays dating is incredibly expensive. US is definitely better sure, UK where i am currently living the whole thing is a joke. I wish her the best in finding what she is looking for and hopefully she focuses on somebody with true character and personality rather than material shit.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Thank you for being nice unlike all these other unhappy men blaming her and chastising her for being a human

[@KurNorock]

She's not married because she's not a wife. All wives are found. If she's not married it is because she's not marriageable.

[@taraosborne4559]

Women have been falsely told to build an independent successful life instead of being encouraged to find a good supportive man. I’m teaching my daughter both. But tell her most important to find a good partner to build a family with. Family is far more important than an employment title.

[@alandrian]

Men have said the opposite but are called misogynistic for saying it. Now being called all sorts of other things because she listened to the other people. The most ridiculous thing is women constantly say what men want and other women listen but if a man says what he/we want he is wrong and or evil.

[@Ribbitplease]

Why can’t you do both? Imagine if you don’t build a career for yourself - and you get married with a man who completely shatters you. Then what? You’ll be living on the streets. With a career, at least you have a safety net to fend for yourself. Can’t believe this needs to be explained to people.

[@Ribbitplease]

@@alandrian what? You’re blabbering.

[@Locksden]

@@Ribbitplease It's a valid view. No one will object to your assuming the worst as a life strategy. But on point for this video: you have to plan for the consequences of your decisions. Time cannot be reversed, and _"there's no cure for regret"._

[@Ribbitplease]

@@Locksden Exactly. You have to plan for the consequences of your decisions. What’s the worst that can happen in both scenarios? 1. The worst that can happen if you marry but don’t have any career to fall back on is: you end up completely shattered and heartbroken, alone, and left out on the streets with nothing and no money to fend for yourself. 2. The worst that can happen if you do have a career but didn’t find a partner is: a financially ok life, but feeling lonely. You could also have a cat or dog. I encourage young women to look for a proper man to spend their life with. But it shouldn’t come at the expense of not having a net to fall on if the worst happens. Why are we encouraging this for young girls and making it seem “trendy” to focus only on getting a husband claiming having a career was a “falsely led life”? Everyone SHOULD have the ability to be self sufficient and independent.

[@Nabinut]

It's hard to feel empathy when it's the same thing every time. Woman complains/cries on camera talking about how bad it is being single. But never admits she might be the problem. It's always other people, It's always other men. It's always society. Nothing is ever her fault.

[@nathaniels9141]

Its hard to feel empathy when you know what all these women's reaction would be if a guy made the same video and said the same things never taking any accountability.

[@asparrow9876]

@@nathaniels9141 This....

[@addictedtovideos6756]

That crossover bit was really funny 😂😂😂

[@jamiereekie9342]

Says women's standard aren't too high *demonstrates their standards are too high.

[@aj897]

She rejects multiple guys for various reasons, stays single in her 20s and wonders why she “can’t find a man”…… I don’t feel bad for her in the slightest.

[@marienmorand]

Thats her right to reject men if she is not attracted by them. Do you know how annoying it is to be hit on by nothing guys when you are pretty?!

[@TheUnkindness]

@@marienmorand Poor baby, you're blinded by your own privileges. You're right, it's 100% her right to reject men. It's also 100% her responsibility if she's still single and unhappy about it.

[@stop0p]

They didn't say anything about that​@@marienmorand

[@mikezerker6925]

She had many chances that she just threw away. Like the response at 6:06 says; she THINKS she has normal standards, but its the dating pool of "ugly immature men that don't make enough money" that's the problem. She of course is Ms. Perfect!

[@jont560]

​@@marienmorandSweet heart, men ain't hitting on you. And you aren't one of the pretty ones. Nice try, though 🤡

[@scu8ast3v3_88]

I’m a 35 year old man. Never married, no kids, veteran, good with my hands, great job that pays very well, own my own home, car, two dogs. I can’t find a feminine, fit, friendly, godly women that wants to be a wife and mother. The dating world is screwed and there is a generation of lost souls that are going to be very lonely.

[@purplered-eq5of]

Indeed my friend. Stay strong!

[@miguelben610]

I can't say it enough. Get your passport. Get out of the US. Find a traditional woman who wants to have kids in a family gio in The Philippines

[@MomoAfterDark]

Go outside the country.

[@Lilacskynile]

I'm from Sweden, feels the same over here. 24 years old and therefore, gen Z. Please, apologizes from me, for my whole generation of women 😅

[@jimbohi3648]

Exactly what I did bro getting married in Tacloban on August 23rd ​@@miguelben610

[@guadalupebuenrostro2965]

I said to myself months before Covid Lockdown, I want to fall in love, i want a man that respects and cares for my well being. I was 32 he was 35, both single, no kids, no divorces. Just ready for the next chapter in our lives. However because I decided and sought love i also made changes in my personal behavior and shifted beliefs that made me realized that growth and changes and acceptance are the keys to happiness and love. ❤️

[@mansimen]

I've asked all of my female friends to introduce me to some of their single friends, and there's always a "Well, I'd rather not because of... bla bla bla". And I know that I'm dateable and there's nothing wrong with me, but they do keep "gatekeeping" their friends. And well, it's hard to deal with this as a male as well in certain environments.

[@andrewhunter596]

I don't know guys, this whole video still kinda sounds like women are "asking" men to fix a problem they made.

[@user-rx3xl7zn1u]

There's a whole lot of narcissism and a complete lack of self-awareness that maybe they aren't the "wonderful catch" they think they are.

[@peterrogers7800]

Bingo. Like her friend said “ lack of good men in society” it’s just all down to men

[@mo.ka.9661]

​@@peterrogers7800don't you say the same in reverse?

[@peterrogers7800]

@@mo.ka.9661 do I? When was this?

[@stevec3526]

Very true.

[@russby3554]

Funny thing is, men I know have the exact same experience. I had the same experience until i randomly ran into the woman I'm now dating. Men feel like they can't talk to a woman without risking harassment claims. Men are vilified for being too manly but are ridiculed for being too feminine. And when a man gets hurt or reaches out, so often he's slapped down and told "man up." It's not a one side issue here. I've heard every single one of those pieces of advice and my responses were the same. But with the culture the way it is, I don't see things improving.

[@Swearengen1980]

It improves by not being a bitch and letting the minority of women on social media emasculate you or change your attitude. Men let themselves be emasculated by this nonsense. Men in real life don't get accused of harassment for approaching a woman, that's tiktok bullshit. Most women are flattered. I'm a redneck currently living in a life wing University town so my odds of approaching a person with values was low. Sometimes I'd do it while wearing boots and an AR-15 or Redneck Nation shirt....and no one was ever rude to me, nor accused me of harassment. Repeating this BS narrative that social media pushed as a way to continue to divide us and turn men into pansies worked. You are correct about the "man up" thing and it's not healthy. Dax's song "To Be a Man" can be strongly accurate, to a degree.

[@RoseBaggins]

Yeah, I agree, I think it goes both ways. The gender war did its job and has separated men and women, making each other seem even more alien than before. Thus making it harder for those who are seriously looking to get married.

[@russby3554]

@RoseBaggins and the question is: how do we heal that divide? Can it be healed? I was watching Louder with Crowder the other day and something he said was he held the door for a woman just trying to be nice. She smiled and thanked him and he mentioned that depending on where he is, it's a 50/50 if the woman will say thank you or "I can do it myself!" It's sad how a simple kind gesture to a stranger can now be seen in such a negative light.

[@RoseBaggins]

@@russby3554 just like everything that has been built, it will take time, determination, hard work, and perseverance. And one interaction at a time. I am one of those women who say thank you when the door is held open for me. In fact, I quite like the gesture, but then, I am an old soul of a romantic. I will admit I have picked up some bad habits over the years that are hard to break, but making progress. That's all it is, one step at a time.

[@russby3554]

@RoseBaggins I've been seeing a girl for just over a month now. The first few dates I brought her flowers. She was so surprised by that and loved that a guy would just bring her flowers on a date.

[@crappyfellow]

Until someone stops the free reign of Family Court, men will avoid marriage and women in general. Nowadays, only 6.5 men in a thousand get married due to the following scenario: (1) man gets married, (2) wife refuses to have sex, (3) wife racks up huge credit card debt, (4) wife stop contributing financially, (5) wife stops cooking & cleaning, (6) wife cheats on husband, (7) wife files for divorce and takes the house, cars, savings, and kids, (8) wife falsely accuses husband of abuse and he no longer can see his kids, (9) wife poisons kids against the father. What man in his right mind will sign up for this?

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Why are you creating an imaginary fiction? It’s so sad.

[@user-fu6ql2yg5w]

@@user-lt1jd1ye3vyou clearly haven’t spoken to enough men… just drop into some vid about parental alienation and read the stories… I’m pretty sure you’ll learn the reality… it’s the main reason y men don’t wanna date

[@noinflouencer]

Desperation never gets you anywhere

[@skyraider1656]

I feel so sorry for this woman that it hurts. My late wife and I were married at 20 and 21 respectively. We built a life together that was very rewarding and happy with three children. I lost her 15 years ago and though I still miss her, I have been able to find love again even at 78.

[@chumdog6060]

As people say to men when they say things like this you're not "entitled to a relationship"

[@DayumDavey]

Me and my girlfriend got togetter when we we're 19 and 17. I am 30 now, 11 years later. My full adult life i've spend with this woman. We build our life arround eachother. With eachother. If I would end up single for whatever reason, I would never enter the dating pool ever again. Because I would never be able to recreate this bond. I really feel for all the single ladies and men that got "left behind"... I wouldn't trade this life for anything... This woman sounds like she's all "me me me i i i i" but its the pain speaking. Just imagine being that lonely..

[@buzztrucker]

"I'm so sick & tired everything right now" Third World Country citizen: "Hold My Beer"