Why Living Alone Can Teach You More Than Any Relationship

Why Living Alone Can Teach You More Than Any Relationship - Joe Dispenza Motivation

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@darrelljones4070 Ай бұрын

In 2018 I broke off my engagement of several years, I had a deep desire to be alone ! I had been doing meditation sense 2007 Nov. But my partner did not, in 2021 the covic pandemic started ,and I was forced to be alone. Know friends, family or relationships. My mind went crazy, with so many thoughts ,today there is just peace inside. I could not have reached this state, being involved with people's drama, you focus will turn inward, being alone ! With others, you attention is outward, and looking for approval, love, like, a reaction, and you attention is focused outward. This change can only happen in aloneness, silence, and stillness. Excitement just feeds your ego ,and keeps ,you seeking more of it! This video is very important, and revealing, to explain what happens when your alone ! Good luck!

@amandamartinez4346 Ай бұрын

You will know when your ready by how you feel. When your feeling joyful and full of life and in love with yourself, then you will attract others with ease to you,without trying,it just feels easy and natural. It feels good to spend time with others just because it's fun and adds to your already joyful experience, instead of feeling like we need others to feel happy or whole. We have everything we need already within us! ❤ hope this helps!

@ingadevogel8295 Ай бұрын

Yes, at some point , you will attract someone who has wholeness in themselves. Someone who also haves already the best relationship with Self. Then it can Be a Higher conciousness relationship isn’t it..?! Having a relationship like that would be amazing to. Being together with someone like that is sacred And , yea,, after All we are sexual Beings. All the time having intimacy/sex with self, hm 🤔 Having a friend with benifits? But at the Soul level? Hard to find… What are your thoughts about this?

@pamchesler242 Ай бұрын

@@amandamartinez4346 yes it helped a lot and for some reason I already had an idea that this was the truth that I will just know when I’ve healed enough that I could manage even thinking about having a relationship. It’s very similar in a strange way to when I lost my 14 year-old dog in 2021 and it took me quite a long time before I even considered adopting another pet For me, this is a grieving period of a long life full of trauma and dysfunction and knowing that at the time, I believed it because I didn’t know anything differently, but here I am three years into awakening, and I feel like I’m writing the core of it, but not to the point where I don’t feel shaken by it I just feel like I’ve no idea what is coming next. I try really hard to just stay right in the moment I have to continuously actually speak to myself when I start to get a lot of chatter going on in my mind. That is a tough habit to break, but it can be done.

@pamchesler242 Ай бұрын

@@amandamartinez4346 I agree it’s like for me if I’m physically sick the last thing I wanna do is walk out and pretend like I’m having a conversation with somebody while I’m feeling well it’s the same thing with when you’re healing. You are so filled with emotion. You’re doing so much shadow work. I don’t have any more armor at this time to deal with other people in the form of a intimate relationship or even a close friendship until I start to build up my own armor meaning I need to build more strength so that I can deal with having these relationships. It’s not that difficult to understand. I used to feel the opposite that if I had relationships, then that would fulfill me oh that is so untrue. It’s the exact opposite. You’ve got to build one within yourself that doesn’t happen overnight. It takes quite a while depending on how long that story that didn’t serve you went on and for me it was a good 50 years I’ve only been working on myself for three. There’s no time clock on this. I’ll know inherently when I feel strong enough within myself to be able to have a relationship, but that other person my only condition is that they have done the same this way we’re not 2 half people entering into relationship. We’re too whole people entering into a relationship all the things I never had communication feeling safe supporting one another all those things I want. I can’t have those unless I work on what’s going on with me and the other person also would have to have done that as well. Otherwise, there’s no way it could ever even have a chance of working.

@Henri377 Ай бұрын

Hey Hey, yes!

@dacat8171 5 күн бұрын

Naaah, you are wrong. The pandemic changed many of us. There is no such thing as attracting someone with a good mood. People who enjoy peace do their own thing and hardly interact with others. As there is no interaction how will the person attract another person?

@hakukuze7947 Ай бұрын

I read “When Nietzsche wept” years ago and in it there this great line about conquering loneliness before getting into a relationship as relationships are a sign of fear of loneliness, that’s why we see so many failed and unhappy marriages. It was a journey but I love my solitude and not sure I want to ever give it up.

@Nancy2551-g6i Ай бұрын

Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.

@ToniaYung Ай бұрын

Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.

@Nancy2551-g6i Ай бұрын

It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?

@ToniaYung Ай бұрын

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@ToniaYung Ай бұрын

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@Nancy2551-g6i Ай бұрын

I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤

@westernnut8407 Ай бұрын

The phrase "you're not the person I married " comes to mind. When you're in a relationship, there's someone expecting you to stay the same old you.

@user-mi6pq2uu9s Ай бұрын

Codependency makes your mind lazy, insecure, and emotionally unstable. Those who fly solo have the strongest wings!

@jhansigrandma Ай бұрын

You couldn't have said it better!

@Snapsta123 Ай бұрын

Hell yeah

@Henri377 Ай бұрын

I agree

@ElmwoodParkHulk Ай бұрын

Awesome information, been MGTOw monk for 20 years , enjoying my best life . Wish all peace , Love and Joy .

@Henri377 Ай бұрын

🙏

@brave101 Ай бұрын

This man is speaking facts!!! I experienced exactly this...he is spot on!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@8888-9 Ай бұрын

I agree with the info , some thrive, and some people who are very old do not know how to be fulfilled alone. Quite sad. Socializing even when content alone, may be triggering and challenging.

@pamchesler242 Ай бұрын

This is also very true. There was no way that I could regulate my nervous system or feel calm or heal unless I was entirely alone and at first it was unbelievably frightening because my mind was busy with the chatter of others energies as you say, but the question is that we are still social species and we need connections so when do you end that isolation period where you’re trying to heal and you need the quiet of that space and when do you go ahead and know that having other connections is also just as important?

@lve1258 Ай бұрын

you can build in short, little coherence techniques and ways of centering yourself. We can rewire our minds to feel safe and balanced in the company of others. I don't think that we need to be alone until we reach a certain level. I think we need to be alone sometimes to meditate to strengthen ourselves.

@marypelliott Ай бұрын

I'm having a terrible time with grief. I loved my partner but was also addicted (I'm realizing after listening to this) to the feel-good chemicals which came with our relationship. Three months after his death, in addition to the grief, I feel like an addict in withdrawal.This is rough.

@lve1258 Ай бұрын

I think the point is meditation is essentially being alone with your own experience and learning to manage and become strong without being dependent on anyone else. To me this resonants. When we can generate our own elevated emotions, balance and regulate our nervous system we can face all of lifes challenges and situations much easier. Being able to regulate your system even when in social settings etc...means you are relaxed and alert, and can think more clearly about the best response that will strengthen the relationship vs. harm it.

@dandrea8209 Ай бұрын

I appreciate what you have said! Everything you have state is exactly what I am experiencing. We have been programmed that we need people and it is human nature to have this need and desire. I have found me by practicing these techniques, and I don’t have those needs and desires of wanting those connection I am actually enjoying nature and loving me. I still connect with others but I am okay if I don’t!!! Hard to explain!!!

@Henri377 Ай бұрын

Beautifully said

@Henri377 Ай бұрын

Thank you for this very important message 🙏 8:22 , from my innerstanding the body is not a machine. The body has intelligence intertwined with our intelligence, it is not separate as the term machine implies (to me). 9:10 , this is powerful , thank you. I don't know if you are interested in feedback , I find these "unconnected " graphics cheapen the experience of the message . In deep gratitude 🙏

@barbarayoder9107 Ай бұрын

Where is the explanation on how to do the special meditation?

@susancollins337 Ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏 ❤🙏❤️🙏❤️

@mtnpfi Ай бұрын

From which workshop/digital source is this, please?

@adrianaburger514 Ай бұрын

Thank you !!

@honoreejennings1998 Ай бұрын

Love your content!!❤️

@enso3555 25 күн бұрын

I haven't seen an actual interview of Joe Dispenza talking about being alone or solitude.

@claudelebel49 Ай бұрын

Powerful

@ClintonMoore-d2b Ай бұрын

Ai or not its pretty amazing

@DalePickett-d7c Ай бұрын

What is meant by "energy field?

@majesticmish2337 Ай бұрын

The energy field is like your life force energy field around you ✨ I think lol everyone has one and the planet ....

@cynthiacarver7611 Ай бұрын

This all sounds good but man we’re born to cohabitation and to totally separate one’s self isn’t healthy. Be careful learn your best way of living. No person can make you happy the happiness comes with being content in who you’re and where you’re at. Not leasing people. God is your answer to true happiness and contentment.

@lve1258 Ай бұрын

"God is your answer" yes!!!! Being in communion with the Lord teaches us to look to him for our comfort and joy...and in our appreciation of him we bring up these feel good neural pathways. Then we spread this love to others instead of needing this love from them.

@lindaross9709 Ай бұрын

Your “god” has nothing to do with it. And who are you to make the judgment that living alone is unhealthy?

@cynthiacarver7611 Ай бұрын

@@lindaross9709 My God has sustained me in the past 15 years I was just turning 50 and my husband passed away. I’ve lived all by my self since then. And it it weren’t for my faith and reading the word on how to be content and know no one can bring me joy that is my mindset that will have to change. This is one of life’s most difficult lessons. I may live alone but I do find happiness and joy especially when I’m serving/helping others. And sharing my story helps others. This is joy and happiness and inside my heart is full of love and compassion to reach outside of my comfort zone. And learning to forgive and walk away from toxic life styles. Has brought happiness and joy to me.

@JanaESilna Ай бұрын

He is talking about 20 min a day. Not your entire life. That is less then most people spend on the phone daily. What he illuminates is a powerful tool, up to you to use it or not. No judgment necessary.

@RPK1633 Ай бұрын

I think everyone should know that this is NOT Joe Dispenza and he would not suggest that living alone is preferable.

@roxinante8345 Ай бұрын

He's not suggesting anything. That's your interpretation. He's explaining how living alone can be incredibly beneficial and beautiful. There are a lot of people who prefer solitude, especially after dealing with people for too many years.

@jasongarlandmusic Ай бұрын

I don't think Joe Dispenza said any of this. It sounds like an AI clone of his voice. Which explains why we never see his face.

@carolynk6 Ай бұрын

Regardless, there is wisdom.

@westernnut8407 Ай бұрын

After reading your comment I listened carefully. It sounds to me like someone took multiple Dispenza recordings and ran them through an audio editor like DESCRIPT. That would explain why there are no pauses, the voice is fast, and there are audible edit cuts. The sequence of ideas jumps around as well. At times it sounds like he's wrapping things up, but goes off in another direction. I do, however, think everything said is in line with quantum theory and very useful.

@victoriamorales7952 Ай бұрын

It doesn’t change the fact that what’s being said is true . Don’t lose sight of the message and wonder away from it focusing more on the sound . You’ll lose the whole message

@pamchesler242 Ай бұрын

@@victoriamorales7952 thank you I don’t have to respond with the same thought lol of course it’s his words. They do this with a lot of spiritual teachers on KZbin. I’m not quite sure why it bothers people because it’s still their words that are spoken so what difference does it make how you’re listening to it? Well, I’ll tell you people have a lot against AI on Facebook with images and here with the way things are spoken the more you fight the more it’s gonna bother you because AI is here to stay

@susanp.collins7834 Ай бұрын

Its certainly not his voice.

@darrelljones4070 Ай бұрын

I'm 2018 I broke off my ingagmen