Why meeting women in your social circle sucks

[@anastasiosparissis9997]

Approaching inside your social circle is indeed risky, it can label you as unattractive to all females inside this circle if you get rejected by one girl. It has happened to me and never really succeeded in getting another girl within that group.

[@stefanv9660]

It's called poisoning the well. I agree with you.

[@Masculine-dating]

That’s it bruz , touch one , touch all.

[@kostasgoulas3625]

cold approach works for sure. i have a huge success indeed

[@Bullet-Tooth-Tony-]

Online dating is just the path of least resistance, as a millenial i prefer meeting women outside.

[@Stassis]

There is more pressure with social circle game.

[@Deb_deCoder]

Great advice.. never cold approach within social circle.. if wymn in social circle approaches then fine otherwise nope

[@RealTroyFrancis]

Exactly!

[@JodyForbes]

I'm the same vintage as this bloke. I remember this type of social circle crap being prevalent in London in the mid 1990's when the pub and club scene was at its zenith. There was always a group of about 8-10 people male or female, work colleagues or associated in the same areas of London. Generally attractive people. Always overdressed by Antipodean standards. Nobody seemed to be getting any and most of the English lads seemed reluctant to try, at least within the group. Lone wolfing it was a successful option in the UK, but it's important to note that, it has a higher success rate if you're doing it in a country where you are the outlier from somewhere else. Everything this guy says is true though, we as men have got lazy and we don't hunt and gather like we used to. The social circle is a high risk, low percentage return play. Why bother? The cold shot is the way to go, that social circle stuff is tedious, especially as you get older and you understand the false dynamics of the whole scene. I had an Aussie mate that had an adaptive version of the same thing. He likened it to targeting wildebeest that were lagging behind the herd, or didn't appear to be comfortable in the middle of the herd, he would then separate a couple of them from the herd and take one down. I have to say he was highly successful and to be honest he didn't even like the social scene that much. Didn't even really like drinking. He went out for the sole purpose of closing the sale. Don't hunt on the same savannah, the herd will recognise you and close rank.

[@Newcitymastery]

Yo! We should hop on and do a video call about this. We’ve got some pretty interesting beliefs we agree and disagree about on this.

[@TC-yx1qt]

Women have to make the move first in a obvious chasing/sexual way....which is the exact opposite of what women normally do. Women almost never make the first move.... especially in ways that 99% of men will notice. And purposely getting into her friendzone, then trying to get out of it by letting the girl make the first move in a way where the average man sees the signs and closes the deal is such an extremely low chance of happening in the real world Social circle game is flawed in every way. Daygame is by far the easiest, quickest, and best way to get dates.

[@Krelian4400]

Warm approach in general is overrated and risky as hell.

[@x97s]

I prefer cold approach !

[@JoeMercersWay]

"Social circle game" only really works on a new social circle, akin to a cold approach. Once you've established a non-sexual, platonic, friendzone social circle situation it's not worth the effort. Tied into that is girls actively seeking out access to a certain social circle to gain access to a particular high status guy, but again that's a new social circle.

[@stefanv9660]

What about approaching at the gym i go every day, for years?

[@RealTroyFrancis]

Bad idea

[@Masculine-dating]

You and Michael sartain should debate about this bro . That’s all he teaches . I’m with you on this one . Social circle game is a lot more work .

[@RealTroyFrancis]

I’m not sure it’s worth a debate. His approach works very well for him, and it’s valid, it’s just you’ve got to put in a lot of time and prep work. Plus I’m not really talking about his way of doing it in this video.

[@a55tech]

how much he charge for bootcamp?

[@redtiger7268]

It ranges. I have seen him charging anywhere from $3k to $10k for a 3 day course. I think he did a 7 day once but I don't follow him Troy to closely.

[@a55tech]

thx bro. That some crazy pricing lol.@@redtiger7268

[@portman8909]

LOL@@redtiger7268

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

Cold approach sucks and only works for guys who have no standards. Attractive women are always taken, so approaching them doesn't make any sense whatsoever.

[@RealTroyFrancis]

‘Always’ Ok bro. You have data on that? 🤣

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

@@RealTroyFrancis Actually, yes I have data on that. I am a researcher who studied cold approach and the relationship status of highly attractive people. A: In my cold approach experiment with very attractive women, none, 0% of the about 400 women I found and approached were Single. There wasn't even the famous exception of the rule. B: In an online study people should identify the relationship status of the three most attractive women they know personally. Of the over 600 women identified in the study, again not one woman was single. Highly attractive women are ALREADY TAKEN. qed Again : Men who are successful with cold approach are only successful because they have no standards. Simple. Nothing wrong with that, if those women are good enough for you, great, go for it, but it is utterly useless for those men who have higher standards in women. It is what it is.

[@redtiger7268]

@@ProfWho-ut5he I work as a bartender and I have data that says the opposite. A good percentage of women how drink at the bar and are 6/7/8s are single, or at least tell me they are not in a relationship. Could be lying to me to get extra attention or free drinks but this demonstrates that in my experience your point A is not true.

[@aquiatic]

@@ProfWho-ut5he and how do they end up taken in the first place, genius?

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

@@aquiatic They are taken off the dating market in early adulthood, of course. I made interviews with over 200 of these highly attractive women. Basically all of them got into longterm relationships or marriage latest at age 23, many were already married at 18 or 19. That's why for men who love very attractive women it is dangerous to wait to long to find a life partner. At some point all the good women are off the dating market.