Why men DO NOT like their girlfriend going out!

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[@whatever2ND]

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[@AlanPorteracp403]

What timestamp?

[@abbyxiong3931]

​@@AlanPorteracp403 You can see the timestamps on the link.

[@AlanPorteracp403]

@@abbyxiong3931 That's what happens running on just a few hours sleep. Thanks . 👍

[@QYXP]

Why does Brian wear a "7" on his collar?

[@dougiedouglas3528]

304s delusion

[@sardomarcrowe5723]

Straight to the gaslighting "insecure"....

[@allaroundcomedy3971]

Not what gaslighting means

[@thewallsspeaktome3507]

SIGN language

[@bensheard3969]

​@@allaroundcomedy3971 it's a form of gaslighting dumbass. Instead of arguing a point, convince someone their perspective is emotional and not based in reality, then finally try to shove your opinion down their throat. This is textbook gaslighting

[@allaroundcomedy3971]

@@bensheard3969 "Is it because it makes you insecure?" Is absolutely not gaslighting. People started using that word a year or two ago and it's always misused. That quote has nothing to do with diminishing validity of thoughts, or perception of reality, memories, or sanity. In other words, why on Earth would someone question their own reality if someone asked "Is it because you are insecure?" Gaslighting would be if they told him his opinion makes no sense and accused him of being insecure. Simply asking the question doesn't fulfill any requirements of gaslighting. People should realize that there are more than 2 types of logical fallacies and they can't all be categorized as "gaslighting" and "strawman." Depending on what was said before this clip, her response would be considered ad hominem or possibly a red herring, if anything at all.

[@bensheard3969]

@@allaroundcomedy3971 I'm not wasting my time reading all of that. Its a fucking word it's really not that serious

[@unknowndrummer3229]

The fact that you have to spell it out for them is terrifying enough

[@Mehhl81]

Sub 80 iQ

[@Patson20]

Because most women have no empathy

[@avryhighguy]

Even after spelling it out they still don’t get it😂😂😂

[@mortontony1]

Critical thinking has never been a trait historically given to women.

[@alexander5207]

The only reason they "understand/agreed" is because people are watching. After spelling it out for them if they didn't get it people would think they are dumb. But if it was just you and a girl alone she'd just pretend to not understand and label you controlling.

[@tymoney4695]

When they all said “no”, Brian should have responded with “why? Is it because it makes you insecure?”.

[@jeremyrouthier4806]

While I agree with you Brian doesn't stoop to petty responses like that. At least, not that I've seen.

[@thedeependrap2135]

@@jeremyrouthier4806yeah, and even if they were petty, they would be more to help them see truth rather than to have a comeback. Even saying what OP said, with the right tone, could actually be beneficial. “Why? Is it because it makes you insecure, or is it because you care about your man, and don’t want him in this situations?” But you’re right, absolutely, he typically is not petty by any means.

[@Sean-zz2lj]

The truth is that it does make men feel insecure but thats perfectly ok and these RP guys need to start accepting it and stop being ashamed. If your girl is out partying you damn well should feel insecure in that relationship because she is out looking for an opportunity to upgrade. One thing I've about women that are very happy with their boyfriend is they would rather be doing anything with him than be out in the streets and clubs being hit on by random guys, when a girl truly loves you ypu slmost have to encourage her to try maintain her friendships

[@jeremyrouthier4806]

@@Sean-zz2lj this is absolutely true

[@dgonzalez5047]

I was waiting for that 😂but then the little boy started talking

[@rexvictorhardrada]

I like how they always try to disguise their unloyalty as your "insecurity". Any secure man would have a problem with that.

[@Jack-hy1zq]

*disloyalty

[@rexvictorhardrada]

@@Jack-hy1zq thank you

[@samwilson9518]

@@Jack-hy1zq😂

[@denilla8034]

I disagree. Maybe it's because we're old and we've been together for many years. No one owns anyone and it is insecurity if you can't handle your partner going out without you. Or a lack of trust. When either of us is out, the only message we receive from the other is "Are you ok?". The only fear we have is for safety, not loyalty.

[@thespian44]

Narcissist move right there

[@deezayum]

“Potentially better looking than you” I think that made them insecure 😂

[@dobesnation]

They showed up insecure. That’s why she was getting off on the prospect of a man being insecure. Bcuz that’s where she lives.

[@billybob7891]

yep that helped them process it

[@AsurmenHandOfAsur]

Yeah they all started to squirm when he said that!

[@Samsungsamsung-ec5gl]

There's always someone who has more than you and someone who has less than you. No need for the temptation... the grass is green where you water it. Your comment shows how toxic you are.

[@johncap6495]

Esp the ugly one her whole body did 180 plus girls still get x10 the opportunity of this false scenario

[@c-r3187]

Sounds like those chicks are insecure.

[@ramzankadyrov6035]

Boom

[@chuckdthefirst6698]

Yup they need to tart themselves up just to impress a bunch of randos.

[@daleford8621]

They sure were fast to get that worried look on their faces.

[@johnroberson3895]

@@daleford8621 eggzactly

[@RootzRockBand]

Letting your lifetime partner go out to go drink and party is letting them be in an insecure environment. Once your girl starts drinking, she changes her personality and her inhibitions go down, then all the male sharks see her as fair game if you are not there to protect her, horrible things can happen. Sometimes you have to set your boundaries and explain it’s for the benefit of the relationship. If you have to step in an say “no, thats not going to work for Me or us, and this is why…”

[@paulofaquin]

Women's logic: every bad thing I do is your fault, you are insecure.

[@denilla8034]

Going out alone or with friends is bad? Are we assuming that they only go out to cheat? I'll never be someone's chaperone. If I can't trust you, there is no relationship. Period.

[@markvilstrup4121]

​@@denilla8034you can't trust someone who goes out to places only made for hooking up. People don't go to clubs for the great music or low prices on drinks

[@FlawedSinner]

@@denilla8034if you can't respect your partner's boundaries, there's no relationship either.

[@denilla8034]

@@FlawedSinner Of course you should respect your partners boundaries. But if I wanted to lock my partner up and never let them out without supervision, it's time to buy a dog. I don't understand the ownership mentality, or the lack of trust. I mean, let her go. If she cheats, move on. I'll never mess with heroin, no matter how many people try to give it to me for free. Temptation is only temptation if you already want it. You can't tempt me or anyone else if they aren't interested in what you're selling. You know what I mean?

[@FlawedSinner]

@@denilla8034 foolish mindset. If you don't hold your partner accountable, they will never grow, and you will lose a part of yourself, which is to say your dignity will be lost. Alternatively, do not entertain people who spend their lives in the gutter.

[@SerangelROM]

The way she said "does it make you insecure?" she was 100% looking for a reaction. Women like that are the worst people in the world.

[@seeks6272]

Yeah she’s the type to say dudes need to talk more and be emotional but as soon as we want to talk and be soft it’s oh you insecure or soft

[@tylerwest9962]

IDK, they're pretty bad, but have you ever watched bodycam videos?

[@SerangelROM]

@@tylerwest9962 the ones where they claimed he was a good boy just trying to get to the store and it turns out he just robbed the store and pulled the gun he robbed the store on police and gets lit up?

[@tylerwest9962]

​@SerangelROM youtube keeps deleting my response. Lol. Yeah, those for sure, but if you just watch a dozen of the bodycam videos, you'll see what I mean.

[@KayWhyYes]

The second they pull the insecure card just dip out. ✌️

[@bebz0513]

Cause it's true and it scares you? 😱 😆

[@FK-AIPAC]

@@bebz0513 🤡

[@bebz0513]

@@FK-AIPAC you not omega if you insecure 😀

[@MikesLifee]

No you go hire a female crackhead to beat the shit out of them or a female down head to shank and with her fucking needle, she'll have fucking herpes for the rest of her life.

[@ejb992]

​@emeterio maldonado riddle me this chum: If a dog takes a giant runny dump with the consistency of melted rocky road ice cream next to your chair and you decide to get up and leave are you leaving because you are "insecure" or because that shit is absolutely revolting to every one of your senses?? I don't know about peanut brains but I'm checking out because the behavior displayed by that statement and these 304s overall behaviors are disgusting.....

[@alexp7274]

"Contradictory" is the polite way to put it. Hypocritical is more accurate.

[@darrellfrench3992]

A little contradictory was the termed used should of just told the bimbos exactly what's what offended or not

[@0giwan]

Came here to say this.

[@citizenx9149]

He even said "a little" before "contradictory" lmao, it's a straight up double standard is what it is

[@lancy9110]

Retarded is more accurate

[@sapiomancer]

I prefer "duplicitous"

[@DaanyielEvans]

"Insecure", is like their get out of jail free card

[@Zomboo]

Perfect example for why women need a leader.

[@OliverJacobsen777]

Perfectly example of why they didnt have rights untill 1915. because women dont think.

[@camaycama7479]

Well said brother

[@theastuteangler]

and a kitchen. and a leash.

[@mistuhgee]

Women fall back on "insecure" when they want to do whatever they want.

[@joshualocicero6799]

😂 he started talking about insecure thoughts though so she was right hes an insecure dufus

[@TheCyberguy101]

They use the word so much it's starting to lose its meaning. I heard a girl once say he took me to McDonald's because he was insecure. BY THE GODS she thought it meant a person wasn't secure financially 🤣🤣🤣

[@joshualocicero6799]

@@TheCyberguy101 there might be more attractive women hitting on him is insecure thinking

[@jasonrustmann7535]

It's all they know, they can't actually think, they can only parrot the buzzwords they've heard from tik tok/Instagram "girl bosses". A better comparison for them to understand is ask them how they'd feel of their man went out, and spent all his money and attention on other women. Sense those are the only reasons they get into relationships.

[@joshualocicero6799]

@@jasonrustmann7535 you just created a red herring and ignored the fact the host proved her right

[@GetYourForksAndKnives]

“Insecure” is a 304’s favorite word to use whenever we set boundaries. Stay Strong Kings, and never settle.

[@kimmogensen5390]

wtf is with this king stuff? isn't iit enough to be a man?

[@billytheconqueror5803]

​@@kimmogensen5390it is a way of boosting confidence to fight back against evil feminism

[@kimmogensen5390]

@@billytheconqueror5803 it's wigger talk. It's how ppl who have no pride in their history or ancestors talk... And it's really sad to hear

[@IsaiahZay-mm5ez]

@@kimmogensen5390any man who knows exactly what’s wrong and does their best is a king (same for the girls a little different but yeah)

[@dixie_normus9781]

As soon as I hear that word the conversation is over and I'm out 😂. I am not entertaining some gutter slüt thinking she's gonna manipulate me

[@ianmunro770]

Any time a man sets any boundary, the stock response is that he's insecure.

[@MegaJacko4]

They are confusing jealousy with insecurity. Jealousy is a perfectly natural thing to feel even if you have a healthy, great relationship.

[@raccoonpeddler6730]

a big part of being in a healthy relationship is trust if you trust your partner you shouldn't be jealous. the part thats wrong for me with clubbing in a relationship is why would you even go to the club if not for flirting ?

[@ewjomega2596]

Accountability is a woman's kryptonite, logic is her archenemy, and deflection is her ultimate defense.

[@nacholino2231]

That reads smooth as butter

[@deang8910]

Well put. I mighty steal this in the future.

[@MaxPower-zl1lc]

🎯

[@randomhuman2595]

Low IQ quote men will make excuses and dodge responsibility as much as women do.

[@SyrPipeOrg]

Nailed it! 😂

[@dinoworld112]

All you have to do is flip it and you win most debates with women

[@ryancharlton1124]

Bingo 💯 Girl saw me watching manosphere content n called me out on it but the second I brought up Cardi and Meg she moved the goalposts smh

[@keithsurdyke2535]

Flipping the script makes them at least recognize their hypocrisy but not too sure if can win an argument with some women.

[@gussampson5029]

​@@keithsurdyke2535 It's incredibly rare to see a woman argue in good faith. So, no. It's not really possible.

[@whocarescrapsa]

I am really disappointed that they can't flip it and think before speaking. Ex said to me, "It's nice dating tall guys, but it's not everything." I replied with,"It's nice dating smart girls, but it's not everything!". She freaks out saying "what kind of a man would speak to his girlfriend like that?!". Her statement was a compliment, and mine was an insult, apparently. Sometimes, they play dumb.

[@section8usmc53]

​@Femto Then she's not worth being with. Another bullet dodged. Another problem that rose to the surface.

[@Panwere36]

"You're just insecure" is the 304's deflection of both responsibility and hypocrisy.

[@miklovelva6092]

If you have a hang-up like this and your girlfriend calls you insecure, she is manipulating you

[@hanzbrixx6672]

"Is it because it makes you insecure"? She thinks she actually said something.😅😅😅

[@DrDomich]

She did say something though. It does makes us insecure. Insecure in our own ability to keep her and to compete with the overflowing influx of ever more attractive guys. Insecure in her loyalty and commitment. They just realized that scenario would make them insecure just as easily, so they're no better. It's just that they never thought about it that way, because they don't have to fear that, because that's not something that women normally do, they don't behave so sexually aggressively towards men.

[@DrDomich]

However, the answer isn't to control her or maybe even to break up with her. The answer is to face the situation and realize when we're young it's ok and normal to weigh your options and find out what you really want and need for yourself, along with discovering yourself and building yourself up, so one day when you enter the relationships you can be at peace there. Along the way, as a bonus, you also get the ability to recognize the person who went through the same procedure and came out the other side.

[@hanzbrixx6672]

@@DrDomich , She either wants to stay, or she doesn't. Will Smith and Johnny Depp have shown us EVERYTHING we need to know. You can build a kingdom around them. They will still lie against you. They will still embarrass you with public statements about the thug rapper or actually have an affair with their sons friend. What should the rest of us hope for? They will either stay loyal or they won't. " Been through a process"? How about no? Either you're a woman who is trying to get what she doesn't deserve, or you're a naive, thirsty man who has to learn the hard way. Yes, I'm insecure about putting a 100lb chimpanzee and a kilo of cocaine in my house and leaving for the weekend. That's not going to end well. "The process" proves she's disloyal or a black hole for attention and drama. You don't let that tornado into your trailer park.

[@hanzbrixx6672]

@@DrDomich , Yes, the answer is to break up. You don't try and hold up the whole table while they think about holding up their end. When they see you are willing to hold up the whole thing, why would they? The more you explain why they should, in the finest, most eloquently stated logic, ever known to man, they start walking away from the table. Cry and beg if you like, they might come back after another Chad rearranged their guts and put a bun in the oven. The sooner you figure out that if they want to, they will. The more pain you'll evade. If they don't get off their ass and meet you half way, smile and wave politely and release them back into the wild. I'm not insecure when I won't drive a car with bald tires. I just know something bad is going to happen.

[@hanzbrixx6672]

There is no control when there's a wide open door, right behind them. They have their options. If you sincerely don't care, whatever. If it matters, you avoid the need for a discussion by never asking for exclusivity. It's their job to ask. If you want it, you start restricting your time for them. They will either ask, or look elsewhere. You know everything you need to know. Bullet dodged. If they ask, you make your requirements. "I don't date women who go to clubs with their girlfriends". If she concedes, if she doesn't, if she concedes, then reneigs, you know everything you need to know. To do any of this, you need to be SECURE in the facts that the world will not fall down on you, you'll be ok and you'll eventually replace her.

[@Pepper_Jack33]

“Their hypocrisy knows no bounds.” Doc Holliday

[@dont.ripfuller6587]

*my But your point still stands. 😊

[@MJ-mw2ce]

I’ll be there, Huckleberry.”

[@jajabor6357]

"Western hypocrisy" is more suitable

[@YoKKJoni]

emotional damage.

[@rodhardwell2395]

😂😂😂😂 love that movie

[@northwoodsgrills86]

They are so clueless it they don’t even recognize the contradiction

[@Lightfoot-pe5gj]

This really shows that a person with the discipline and morals deserves great respect.

[@blackurustrikes2328]

One of the guys should have ended this by asking them: "Why would you not be okay with that happening to your man? 'Does it make you INSECURE?'"

[@bradykeckin7160]

Excellent point.

[@McKavian]

I have to disagree with the last line. Not because it would be incorrect, but because it would be sinking to their level.

[@davidjones8942]

​@McKavian I disagree, it is not sinking to their level if you ask them what they just said. It makes them take accountability by allowing them to feel what they make men feel all the time. If instead of asking them if they were *exactly what men are* they asked something similar, but not the same, then it would be sinking to their level ("tit for tat" instead of a teaching oportunity)

[@AsurmenHandOfAsur]

Spot on! Always throw THEIR words back at them!

[@blackurustrikes2328]

@McKavian - Women often use "insecure" as a way of disarming men of rightfully critiquing their misbehavior. I say why not neutralize the affects of their weapons by having them fired back upon them?

[@CDRFINANCE]

They know the truth, and they hate it

[@rexhargrove5172]

Yep, “girls night out” was always my invitation to take off.

[@the-neo]

What is wrong with a girls night out?

[@menopillion9853]

If they didn't have double standards, they'd have no standards at all.

[@psillywabbit420]

Its insane how these things need to be explained to them

[@wesleywashington1251]

The woman that has an online presence has all the power in the relationship. They'll constantly be comparing who they're with to the men who pursue them on the internet. No man can relax at this point.

[@hedonismbot3274]

It is like they never thought about ANYTHING

[@frostythejoeman74ify]

​@@wesleywashington1251single men can!! 😊

[@Fiero425]

Sometimes it willful ignorance while the others are just plain dumb as a bag of hair. ;-)

[@CharmPrinz]

Dumb womans world

[@popsxgames]

"It makes you insecure"...Gaslighting 101.

[@JeffKay-wu8jd]

Insecure is a cheap way for women to attempt to win (though by using the insult it’s an instant loss) an argument. The moment you throw an insult you’ve already lost the argument.

[@chrisfisher4503]

It's called hypocrisy ladies, look it up.

[@CutterDriftwood]

Damn they were actually getting visibly angry! The moment he said "some of which are more attractive than YOU" they all lept back in their chairs!!

[@ChrisWilliams-lf8ex]

Well, yeah. Unwritten rule among women (especially young ones) is, "men are never supposed to admit that there are women they find more attractive than them, even imaginary hypothetical women."

[@TreyPuga]

Arms crossed 🤣🤣🤣

[@jlogan2228]

Women hate when you remind them they aren't special

[@GoAwayBrandon]

​@@jlogan2228The princess complex

[@BENNO117]

It never ceases to amaze me how literally everything needs to be eplained to these women. They can never think critically for themselves

[@RandoManFPV]

The funny part is even after this clip they still in their heart just think men are insecure and that's why 😂 they are reatarded through and through, top to bottom.

[@Gunpulsion]

This is the most truthful statement I've ever heard about this

[@stephengamber7000]

If girlfriend is hanging out in bars, sounds like she's looking for someone else.

[@MikeTheD]

Or at least see them, absolutely. They think they can just sorta half-fantasize and lord knows how many drunk women lied to themselves like that and cheated.

[@IsaiahZay-mm5ez]

Yeah my wife said she won’t go to no bar without me 😂 when we go she just stuck to my hip

[@ghostwarhammer007]

Meeting a girl at the bar, dont expect quality, just quanity

[@americalee1187]

Helloooooooo

[@MrEinfachso123]

What is wrong with you people? 😂😂 So nowadays you can't go into a bar anymore?? You try to keep your girlfriends locked at home because you're scared she's gonna chest. Great relationship. 😂

[@KrakenLegz]

If she says your insecure, you just made her feel insecure.

[@bakarspecialboy8816]

The response is simple and clear. If your partner has the principle of loyalty and adheres to human morals and honesty in his actions, he will never fall into this. If you prevent him, this means that the trust factor between you is weak. Let us create another scenario and use the same theory as you. What if you work in a remote place and Your wife is far away from you and sees you from month to month or more due to the long period of work and the distance, and your (neighbor) or (your brother) or (your friend) is more attractive and beautiful than you and knows your wife and comes to visit the house to see the children and help. So, will you stop yourself? From work because you are afraid of marital infidelity, or will you force her not to leave the house, close the door, and put a special guard so that she does not cheat on you!? Think about this, my friend. Therefore, your insecurity is very high, so a relationship that does not contain trust is a very failed relationship.

[@salty3069]

​@@bakarspecialboy8816trust in the age of social media lol nah

[@cameronlook7823]

⁠@@bakarspecialboy8816here is just fact, someone who respects you or the relationship will not do things that would otherwise jeopardize it. If you want to act “single” you can just actually be single. Men with self respect will not and should not tolerate their female partner entertaining or making themselves accessible or available to other men.

[@Taelyr]

Projecting is a very common thing I’ve seen lots of bad women do.

[@Jashuatadglock95]

@@bakarspecialboy8816bro stop there is no reason for anyone who is in a relationship to advertise themselves to horny single people trying to sleep with them all night are you dumb

[@crustydownunder]

If a woman wants to be around other men and alcohol, she's not interested in a relationship, she's looking for a way to raise her status. She's not worth the heartache.

[@user-fp1ou4ho8j]

It's a major gaslighting session

[@invictusbp1prop143]

She really thought she had him cornered with her brilliant point, smugly stating "is that because you're insecure?" Then in just a few seconds all that smug confidence disappears...

[@bakarspecialboy8816]

love how he creates a scenario to justify his invalid point.The response is simple and clear. If your partner has the principle of loyalty and adheres to humanism morals and honesty in his actions, he will never fall into this. If you prevent him, this means that the trust factor between you and her is weak. Let us create another scenario and use the same theory as you. What if you work in a remote place and ur wife is far away from you and sees you from month to month or more due to the long period of work and the distance, and your (neighbor) or (your brother) or (your friend) is more attractive and beautiful than you and knows your wife and comes to visit the house to see the children and help. So, will you stop yourself from work because you are afraid of cheating, or will you force her not to leave the house, close the door, and put a special guard so that she does not cheat on you!? Think about this, my friend. Therefore, your insecurity is very high and yes u are insecure so a relationship that does not contain trust is a very failed relationship.brian is easy to debate.the problem he is inviting a lot of low IQ girls.destiny always destroys him

[@lonniemonroe2714]

Yup. Saw that. Visible retraction. Could see their cheating little minds turning. The thought never dawned on any of these "ladies" that they could be replaced. And should be as soon as possible

[@stevec9972]

Wife has never cheated in your scenario😂 Not being stupid enough to risk your girl going to clubs etc a bit different Of course there is an insecurity part to it.

[@DeathPorky]

​@@bakarspecialboy8816 so you're saying both of them are insecure?

[@TheVillainInGlasses]

​@@bakarspecialboy8816The same destiny whose wife left him for a twink? *That* destiny?

[@kickballjedi]

It's funny how easily these women are tricked into admitting their own hypocrisy.

[@HankChang]

not really a trick to use logic...

[@gunblazingmutant]

They're not being tricked they're being called out on their ignorance.

[@danielsterling4918]

​@@HankChang they're so intentionally delusional that you'd basically be tricking them into using logic.. "How dare you make me unknowingly oust my own hypocritical beliefs that are based on the double standards of modern feminism!!" -- said 80% of the female population of America

[@ajroc1393]

The double standards man it's so frustrating

[@dastubeurt6316]

they say insecure like its shameful. everyone has their own issues and your partners job is to help them not make them worse.

[@EllandRoar84]

They don't want to admit that no matter how good their relationship is, they will always be on the look out for a potential 'upgrade'

[@AnushkaSingh-nn4dg]

That's not true usually men do this. I had already experienced it.

[@EllandRoar84]

​@@AnushkaSingh-nn4dgwell why didn't you tell us sooner?! The entire world view would've changed if we just knew your own one time experience 😮

[@MaximumKarma]

​@@AnushkaSingh-nn4dgit's VERY true. Your inexperience/delusions are showing.

[@AnushkaSingh-nn4dg]

@@MaximumKarma bro I'm from India in India most men think they own the world and can treat women like so called shit

[@Ebani]

​@@AnushkaSingh-nn4dg Yes the 1% of men that are able to obviously will, problem is you're missing the other 99% of men 💁‍♂️

[@stringtheoryguitars4952]

“Some of which are more attractive than you” LOL! They were squirming like sardines

[@UncleKai263]

They all had hot flashes when he sad that....

[@whitworth5s248]

"B-b-b-but all women are tens!" they were all thinking in insecure synchronicity.

[@stringtheoryguitars4952]

@@Justynufbass BOOM! Roasted!

[@LibertyOrGTHO]

They almost rubbed their combined 2 brain cells together here.

[@woodchopper7962]

It's a boundary, there is a difference between boundaries and insecurity.

[@catoeide9185]

The panel got checkmated😂

[@bloodaonadeline8346]

they always do because women are delusional, they don’t see how easy they have it.

[@donalddavis7423]

Ultimate way to win an argument with a woman. Describe exactly what they are doing to you being done to them and suddenly they understand.

[@quitinfolkes4639]

Sorry, they don't want to understand.

[@libra8993]

Or describe what she’s doing to you but swap it with a dog… most times she will laugh in your face because she immediately realizes she wouldn’t even treat a dog like that

[@user-ru1iw7rt2j]

The look in her eyes when she says that makes you insecure

[@LelaRolon]

The issue isnt going out alone - is the person accepting drinks, flirting back, drinking to the point of being wasted and if anyone being in a relationship allowing themselves being "stolen" then they dont respect the relationship.

[@farrahirrgauss2599]

When a girl throws the insecurity issue against bf's or spouse's legitimate boundaries: you can bet all your fortune that she is being DUPLICITOUS

[@notashipotecarias8709]

304 .

[@bradykeckin7160]

Bonus word! Well played sir.

[@JustinAdamson270]

Not a boundary it's an insecurity

[@DarvakSondrath]

​​@@JustinAdamson270 listen to the video again, he logically explained why men would reasonably be concerned with their female partner frequently going out, clearly showing the double standard. It's not insecure to refuse to take risky gambits and to not willingly choose to allow yourself to fall into disadvantageous situations. For example, I wouldn't forgive a partner who knows their clothes get loose when they become inebriated, but chooses to get drunk anyways, resulting in them cheating on me, but blaming the affair on their intoxication. By chosing to place themsleves in the situation wherein they will likely cheat, they are by extension, choosing to cheat. Or at the very least, allowing themselves to be open to the opertunity to do so. Recognizing and avoiding such scenarios is not called insecurity, it's called intelligence and security.

[@JustinAdamson270]

@@DarvakSondrath no he didn't

[@benjaminmoline5176]

Couldn't have said it better. Now they understand the torture.

[@adamlevai2956]

No they dont 😂 they are too stupid to understand.

[@HaIsKuL]

You wish. They understand nothing.

[@benjaminmoline5176]

@@HaIsKuL ignorance is bliss. They will connect the dot the hard way if they are intentionally closing their minds to this logic the men are trying to present to these women.

[@nicolausranker8521]

They have to throw out cards like the "insecurity card" because they have no other good basis for their side of the argument otherwise.

[@michaelenglish839]

It has EVERYTHING to do with insecurity, definitionally. Not all insecurity is born of paranoia.

[@downburst3236]

It's not insecurity. Men value loyalty. If she goes out to get hit by other men, she is not loyal. Real men leave her and move on.

[@eddiOrtiz]

That's what I did. Threw her out and never looked back.

[@trini223]

If a woman wants to cheat on you she will. Doesn’t matter if she never goes out to any clubs and just stays home with you. If women want to cheat they will find a way so just because you have a woman that doesn’t go out and party doesn’t mean they are loyal. There are plenty of women who never go to clubs and still cheat. I would also argue that if you have an actually attractive female it doesn’t matter where she goes if she’s in the club or the supermarket she will get hit on there’s no avoiding it. Why avoid a place because you could get hit on there when u could literally get hit on everywhere. I get hit on in the Mfing McDonald’s drive thru, gas station, at safeway, should i start avoiding these places too? You remind me of a quote i saw that said “men hate parties without women, but hate women that go to parties” and it’s so true. I’m sure you would and many of these dudes would never go to a party that had no girls, that’d just be soooo lame right, but then you’re gonna hate on girls that do go to parties, but u want them there when you’re there? Thats just as hypocritical as the women in this video. Don’t get me wrong these girls are stupid but… so is the argument you and the guys in this video are presenting. i don’t party and I’ve been in a committed 3 year relationship so i don’t really relate to this convo and maybe that’s why because I’m an outsider i can see the blatant hypocrisy from both sides of the argument. I also hate how people get so concerned about what people do in relationships. Every relationship is different with a different set of boundaries. You and your partner need to decide if it’s okay for you guys to party and go to clubs or not. Some couples are okay with that and that’s great! Some couples think that’s wrong and that perfectly okay too because it’s a boundary they set in their own relationship.

[@MayorMcheese12]

No it just means you have trust issues

[@mindesbarrera1748]

@@MayorMcheese12 it’s can be either or but at the end of it all, it means they don’t respect your boundaries and then you as a person. Point blank (man or woman)

[@automatedimagination]

Women behave simply on their sensational bliss always compensating for their insecurities, girls just can't understand basic principles of decency that's obvious to a man if they don't have a lead to follow.

[@gretchengrant9573]

If you want to go clubbing and you're in a relationship. You're not ready for said relationship.

[@treecanopy]

unless you're a DJ

[@actiondefence]

Or you like clubbing. Going clubbing doesn't mean you are looking for a new partner or A ONS. People finding you attractive and trying it on with you, chancing their arm, doesn't mean your are going to sleep with them or run off with them. If you don't trust your partner to leave the house without you and not go and have sex with someone else then you shouldn't be in that relationship or possibly any relationship. I'm 47 now, wish I'd learned this 30 years ago..

[@TJM052291]

My girlfriend and I like to go out drinking and dancing together. Not many clubs around us, but it’s the same principle.

[@gretchengrant9573]

@@TJM052291 I meant going separately, like the video. I'm glad you guys enjoy the night life together.

[@ryvulet8639]

@@actiondefence if u think that peopel go to the club for just dacing lol

[@unoriginalcreator4902]

"Does it make you... insecure...?" That side eye!

[@MatthewIsMatthew]

Says he’s not secure. *Creates the most insecure hypothetical scenario he has in his mind* 🤨

[@adambell6181]

The way she asked that question was demon like... super toxic!

[@johnanderson591]

😅. I saw that too

[@spencergsmith]

You know the old saying: if it weren’t for double standards, they would have none.

[@loviejohnson876]

Ooooh...FACTS upon FACTS upon FACTS.

[@mercytoday]

Immediately hit people with the ‘does it make you insecure?’ Nice move

[@dionmcintosh9554]

The fact that these women can grasp a simple concept like "respect" is a major issue

[@CurbkidClothing]

She thought the “insecure” line would win here.

[@richardremick1639]

It’s a dealbreaker because you can’t be trusted and women sleep around behind guys back all the time

[@lildel7698]

Yep I hooked up with a married chick once now I have trust issues

[@richardremick1639]

@@lildel7698 all I takes is one time man. You should not have slept with her but it wouldn’t have mattered. Maybe you didn’t know she was married. I don’t even need to know the details. She’s a cheater and our perception is altered Once a cheater always a cheater. I’m with you man.

[@abdullahnaeem7275]

@@lildel7698 shitttt dawg your giving me trust issues as well

[@xFersureMatt]

@@lildel7698 yep.. I haven't hooked up but have been pursued by married women.. and women who have boyfriends. Safe to say I definitely have trust issues now. I just rather not risk that for myself. It isn't worth it.

[@richardremick1639]

@@abdullahnaeem7275 I’m a brutally honest guy and the other pleasant fellows are being honest as well and just stating facts. We aren’t trying to ruin your perspective or how you feel. It’s unfortunate that women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands I’ll never understand why but it happens. We all have just been through some crappy situations unfortunately.

[@mmmar7317]

They have like 3 insult going around in rotation: 1) Insecure, 2) Incel, 3) Insecure

[@princemakaveli7558]

LoL these girls be calling security as insecurity 😂😂.

[@michaelzona9880]

Excellent presentation of the issue. When Brian flipped the sexes the girls were not ok with their guys out partying and getting hit on

[@captaindred342]

even tho that hypothetical fantasy situation could never really happen to a man. But it's the reality every single night at the club for women. 😂😂😂😂 you can't make this ish up man!!

[@dilipanthonypinto1620]

Hypocrisy is a perfectly normal right for THEM….

[@HomeinHI]

I wonder if the hypocrisy is due to ignorance, or if they’re just playing dumb.

[@brandonlantier]

@@captaindred342 Of course it could, there are women that act like men and use their money to hookup with good looking men, its just not as common as the opposite.

[@captaindred342]

@@brandonlantier so uncommon you could not fill a whole nigjtclub up with them. So no, it couldn't happen. stop cappin.

[@Candyandxhem]

Double standards are a red flag

[@paulcerny3805]

NO ITS A NUKE YOU ARE SEEING run gump run jimmy run RUN RUN FAST AS YOU CAN

[@tornadotom2390]

They will never accept responsibility

[@devlinallistair-zx5by]

I can here the jack-in-the-boxes playing in their heads.

[@rick4electric]

Self absorbed! Until self is threatened! Then everything changes!

[@modsquad8u]

The old double standard. "It's OK for me, but not for thee"

[@desmotanker]

Rules for thee but not for me

[@TLPWRlifter]

I can't believe they didn't see themselves being set up. The lack of awareness is actually impressive.

[@badpop987]

That lack of self awareness is actually common.

[@TLPWRlifter]

@@badpop987 I don't know maybe it's because I'm a debate bro and I'm always looking five steps ahead to see where somebody could intellectually put me in a corner but It's just baffling with these people literally can't look one move ahead to see that they're putting themselves in checkmate. Because God knows they aren't doing it out of intellectual honesty

[@badpop987]

@@TLPWRlifter well said.

[@BillyMcfutures]

Anyone in a relationship that is dealing with your girl wanting to go out all the time show them this!!! I wish in my last relationship there was so much content like this because it would've saved me so much time and energy

[@Hinatachan360]

Loyalty and respect should be mutual.

[@ewetoobblowzdogg8410]

"Sure honey, just go on and go... permenantly."

[@prestonakins1532]

They enjoy asking if something makes you insecure, probably from their own insecurities

[@TobiasTheWolf]

Why do they always use the same arguments of “insecurity” as if it’s some kind of get out of jail free card?

[@Teed227]

“Insecure” nah we know what women do when they go out😂

[@kevingutierrez9388]

They have like 3 responses to every issue/point and one of them is ALWAYS "you're insecure". Often preceeded by the classic "I feel like..."

[@ryanr9792]

😂😂

[@kyle4975]

That’s misogynistic don’t forget that one!

[@blazer41647]

I like that this dude takes the time to respectfully explain things to them, so they can better understand a mans perspective

[@clemroma5985]

When it is to their advantage they say men are insecure, BUT, when the other way around they say "NO".

[@TheGoodTrader35]

Lack of parenting and accountability

[@KillaK78]

I’d love to see a rebuttal that didn’t rely on emasculating the man by saying they’re insecure

[@bensheard3969]

The point is they don't have one. These shows can get annoying because they border on exploitation of young women by making money off of their ignorance instead of trying to have an actual conversation. It sounds extreme but considering these guys should have integrity and actually try to help better the dating market it's irresponsible to get in these stupid arguments and waste everyone's time

[@mikehoncho5360]

@@bensheard3969how are they not? They help shine light on the problems in the dating marketplace. Yes, they rarely have a eureka moment during the show, but that’s mostly due to their need to be correct and emotional justification for their ideas. Even if he went out of his way to phrase things in the best possible way (which he often does) they would still disagree.

[@bensheard3969]

@@mikehoncho5360 because they have 20 something women on whose brains aren't finished developing and have been turned into jello pudding from giving so much brain. Hey I'm all for exposing feminism and female entitlement but it's disingenuous to call this a real panel/debate it's just entertainment and clickbait really

[@section8usmc53]

​@@mikehoncho5360 Right. These shows are doing a service to men and women. There are a few women that will see things like this and have that eureka moment. There are definitely men out there that are simps or just horrible with women that will be helped by these shows bringing these things to light. There's a disturbing amount of women that think like this, and guys need to know it, and so do women, because self reflection isn't great with women these days, unless it's 100% positive.

[@delix8869]

@@bensheard3969 these shows are needed cause it highlights that the main problem in the dating market for the past couple decades have been women. It’s woman’s fault that we’re in this mess as it is.

[@niklazz7037]

She's got that bullet in her pocket ready to fire every time someone bring a valid point. She's probably used the "you are insecure" line more times than she can count.

[@brianevans673]

She got frontended when she realized life is a two way street

[@JoshuaLatino]

“Insecure” 😂 that’s there favorite word. Get away Jezebel.

[@nateone6632]

Women gaslight before they ever conversate because they know we're already right if we're telling them "your man wouldn't like you doing that"

[@bakarspecialboy8816]

I love how he creates a scenario to justify his invalid point.The response is simple and clear. If your partner has the principle of loyalty and adheres to humanism morals and honesty in his actions, he will never fall into this. If you prevent him, this means that the trust factor between you and her is weak. Let us create another scenario and use the same theory as you. What if you work in a remote place and ur wife is far away from you and sees you from month to month or more due to the long period of work and the distance, and your (neighbor) or (your brother) or (your friend) is more attractive and beautiful than you and knows your wife and comes to visit the house to see the children and help. So, will you stop yourself from work because you are afraid of cheating, or will you force her not to leave the house, close the door, and put a special guard so that she does not cheat on you!? Think about this, my friend. Therefore, your insecurity is very high and yes u are insecure so a relationship that does not contain trust is a very failed relationship

[@bobbyb1233]

*Converse

[@lindsayellerbeck9257]

“Women” don’t put all of us in a category as “ gaslighters“ very misogynistic

[@lindsayellerbeck9257]

@@bakarspecialboy8816YES!!

[@Crimsoncheetos]

I love it men are "insecure" bc they don't like it but revealed to the other side they INSTANTLY say no lmao

[@propitiated4]

The level of intelligence and reflection these woman have, "is it because it makes you insecure?" Goodness.

[@carlyg7322]

Because their just girls.

[@nalissolus9213]

They are trying to exploit a mans desire to be perceived as strong. You have to do x in order to avoid this undesirable label that I will put on you if you do not comply...basically.

[@libra8993]

What’s even funnier is someone out there taught them to say that, they didn’t even come to that conclusion on their own. Literal programming and propaganda

[@patty1578]

Great point!. Thank you so much!. If your committed you don't go to bars & parties.

[@DrMathOfficial]

Agreed!

[@BANDERSJR]

A night out for an occasion (birthday, bachlorette etc) is fine. Just because "girls night!" is definitely a strong indicator of lack of commitment.

[@DrMathOfficial]

@@BANDERSJR Incorrect, 1 time is NOT "fine". Either it's a problem, destructive and unacceptable, or it's not. Stop thinking you can play around between the two and not sustain any adverse results. It's like saying "punching an innocent person in the face regularly is a problem, but doing it one time/ one night...is fine". Or: Cheating, done regularly is a problem, but one time is fine. Or: R*pe, if done regularly is a problem, but one time?...it's FINE! No, if the person is doing something inherently immoral, harmful, destructive, unacceptable....ONE time, then that's it. A man/ woman of high quality and faithful, wouldn't even have the DESIRE to do it one time, nor would they be willing to disrespect their mate and relationship to do it one time. And that includes bachelor/ bachelorette parties, "girls night out", etc.

[@pranavk281]

Sounds like a miserable relationship where you can’t party no more by yourself

[@DrMathOfficial]

@@pranavk281 "Partying" is 100% a single persons activity, hobby and desire. The things that you're seeking and getting from "partying" are absolutely, 100% incongruent, in conflict with, contradictory to, and oxymoronic regarding, being in a relationship. And when people who are in relationships, still desire to and engage in "partying", it's always a 100% guaranteed sign that they're a cheater.

[@Sandeagledhorn]

Some people can go out & stay faithful. Shocking!

[@SouthSideChiTown]

I love how they go straight to the patented "insecure" shaming tactic....

[@paulgabler1476]

Brilliantly made point . Top marks. I’m so sick of promiscuity in women

[@Mobius118]

*so sick of promiscuity I got u bro

[@ChivoCCK805]

I’m sick of men committing adultery making all of us look like dogs. Both sexes need to be held accountable

[@ThePurpleLilly21]

And in men too, promiscuity isn't better in men too.

[@theviolator1703]

​​@@ThePurpleLilly21 False equivalency. Being a promiscuous man is hard and takes a ton of effort. It also makes him more attractive. I say that as a man with two exwives who revealed themselves openly to me. Lying to me won't work. I know, so don't bother. Being a sexually promiscuous woman is easy and makes the woman less attractive. It increases risks of future adulterous behavior and destroys pair-bonding potential. It also increases risks of single motherhood, destroying her ability to devote time to a potential new partner (of quality). Men know all of this paragraph both instinctively and logically. This is the female version of creepy. The internet has destroyed your ability to gaslight. We men speak of our experiences now, like you always have with other women. We see through you. Adapt while you still can.

[@paulgabler1476]

I’m that case I’m glad to reveal I’m actually a virgin awaiting the sane… I hope!!!

[@Ozhaawashko]

“Does her going out make you insecure? 🥴” No, you going out needing constant attention from others is insecure.

[@RR-et6zp]

yeah women look for securirty

[@VincentADK]

It's certainly a deal breaker.

[@garrettlentz1886]

Going out clubbing etc. has never been my thing. I love being introverted. 😂

[@grandparedpill2695]

You could see how uncomfortable they looked when the scenario began to play out in their heads.

[@libra8993]

Because in their heads Prince Charming was the man they were Imagining, not some average guy they some how ended up with that they don’t respect