Why Men Don't Approach Women?

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The Black Culture Podcast

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@Corkfish1
@Corkfish1 3 жыл бұрын
It gets to a point where being alone is better than the negative energy and drama that women seem to exude. It can be tiring.
@healthiswealth6237
@healthiswealth6237 3 жыл бұрын
Most of them ONLY offer sex. That is all. Once you hit it a few times, most become super annoying.
@gregnz1
@gregnz1 3 жыл бұрын
Prostitution is legal in my country New Zealand, i can also order Pizza and Beer to be delivered, =its better entertainment for my hard earned income at $27 a hour.
@paulcooper5748
@paulcooper5748 3 жыл бұрын
👌
@MrDonny27
@MrDonny27 2 жыл бұрын
Just get escort
@keithjackson2035
@keithjackson2035 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a black man and I can tell you that black women didn’t want me when I was broke. They wanted everything already established. I was 19 😂😂
@TheWillie35
@TheWillie35 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@Setsotama
@Setsotama 3 жыл бұрын
When Society has approved the idea of dogging men, treating them like 2nd class citizens and legal troubles a man could find himself just by a simple greeting, men's hesitation towards approaching women becomes clear
@tonycostello3872
@tonycostello3872 3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@someguy53299
@someguy53299 3 жыл бұрын
Men: what's mine is mine, whats yours is yours. Women: whats mine is mine, what's yours is mine.
@taylorkerr4415
@taylorkerr4415 3 жыл бұрын
You forgot something: if you cross me, I’ll end your career and throw you in prison, and everyone questioning me will be labeled sexist.
@davidarbelaez4395
@davidarbelaez4395 3 жыл бұрын
For one. Many women are staring at their phone 24/7 with ear buds in.
@philyeary8809
@philyeary8809 3 жыл бұрын
Yep. Deal breaker. Kids, cats, phones, men fall underneath those in a ladies "priorities".
@georgeedward1226
@georgeedward1226 3 жыл бұрын
Because they don't want to wind up in a Me2 situation would be my guess.
@metalmagerin3
@metalmagerin3 3 жыл бұрын
Notice how not once in this video did the word "Love" come into play. "Should a woman give it up on the first date?", there was no "If she loves you" or "if you love her", it was all put in terms of opportunistic cost. "I should get SOMETHING for the effort I put in." Women love opportunistically, and it's women who are raising men nowadays in single mother households. So men have started loving opportunistically now. "It's not worth my time and investment." That's all. Why spend $200 on a date when I can spend $200 on three separate video games- ten if I have Steam- or a new Nintendo Switch Lite or a book or 50 beers at the club?! Is 20 minutes with a woman and the risk of being saddled with child support for the next 18 years worth more than a Nintendo Switch for the next 5 years? I think not. Loving someone to love someone is dead.
@TheBlackCulturePodcast
@TheBlackCulturePodcast 3 жыл бұрын
That was well put brother
@redpillaware5101
@redpillaware5101 3 жыл бұрын
When it comes to allegations of sexual harassment, men are always assumed guilty. The difference between sexual harassment and flirting is based solely on whether the woman finds the man attractive.
@vanshookme6531
@vanshookme6531 3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said…A female colleague was happy flirting with me (and suckling on my lower teat after work) but the other guy who wasn’t the best looking bloke was told off for harassment.
@jesseseonza2929
@jesseseonza2929 2 жыл бұрын
That is the way it is. True
@armandelezi8449
@armandelezi8449 3 жыл бұрын
Yesterday i saw a Chad getting rejected.... By an average chick...I'm like ok i better sit my ass down 😂
@microa9764
@microa9764 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@kato2493
@kato2493 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@breakingrick778
@breakingrick778 3 жыл бұрын
Thats Gold, brother.
@albertnile6778
@albertnile6778 3 жыл бұрын
even chads get rejection...its over for us normal guys...lol
@prioris55555
@prioris55555 3 жыл бұрын
@Kyle Billie girls standards ... ted bundy meets them all
@GlenLaConey
@GlenLaConey 3 жыл бұрын
Because there's nothing to approach. 😕
@stevepeterson6070
@stevepeterson6070 3 жыл бұрын
If a classical handsome man approaches a woman she says "Hey there." If an average looking man approaches a woman she yells "SECURITY!!!!"
@chriskell4019
@chriskell4019 3 жыл бұрын
I don't hate women. I did do a cost-benefit analysis of dealing with women and found it just isn't worth it. Again, I don't hate them. They just don't seem to offer much other than manipulation and anxiety and stress. I don't need that in my life; there's too much of it as it is. So, I wish them well, and plan on continuing to spend my life as a gender-separatist. Life is peaceful, and no, I don't get lonely. I have a frame of reference. Loneliness, at its worst, is less stressful than dealing with today's women.
@louisaklimentos7583
@louisaklimentos7583 3 жыл бұрын
Men won’t approach women because of fear or rejection and fear of sexual harassment that they maybe accused of .
@Brian-cb2vc
@Brian-cb2vc 3 жыл бұрын
Plus prostitutes have gotten way cheaper over the long run, look better, throw it back better and treat you WAAAAAY better. And you don't have to do the whole bs song and dance. Tbh that's probably why it's illegal, birth rates would plummet at light speed and the nuclear family would vanish over night.
@chasing_dragons
@chasing_dragons 3 жыл бұрын
Men don't approach because they are mean. The variety of risks involved outweigh any benefits. Women make the rules a losing game for men even when he is receiving a benefit, he is paying for that benefit whatever it is.
@jeromebarry1741
@jeromebarry1741 3 жыл бұрын
Old white man just subscribed.
@MikeSmith-fe3ng
@MikeSmith-fe3ng 2 жыл бұрын
Women treat different men differently. Women make rules for the betas and break them for the alphas or men they're really attracted to. Men need to stop putting women on a pedestal and gaining their approval (simping).
@robertofiad8373
@robertofiad8373 3 жыл бұрын
It's not that we're not approaching women. It's a case that we have written off Western women as a category of suitable candidates for us to mate with. More precisely, we've dismissed American women, women we come across when we're still inside the United States. We're relocating more, we're seeking women in Asia, in the Middle East, in Eastern Europe, in Africa, in Latin America. Note that when I mention the women in the Western world, I mean women living in Australia, New Zealand, the United States as the worst of them all, women in Canada, women in Western Europe, women in Scandinavia. Allow me now to help men understand the logic behind my reasoning. When I say dealing with Western women is a bad mating choice for us men, I'd cast the blame not so much on the women themselves, but rather on the more and norms of each of the countries that make up the Western world. The cultures more than the women themselves are the bull's eye of the blame.
@alexpriceonline
@alexpriceonline 3 жыл бұрын
Everything I’ve been saying my friend.
@JohnSmith-pl4sf
@JohnSmith-pl4sf 3 жыл бұрын
You guys made some very interesting points! I hope i see more videos like this
@TopFlightSecurity415
@TopFlightSecurity415 2 жыл бұрын
Too many mixed signals and games ...i lost my patients for it
@philyeary8809
@philyeary8809 3 жыл бұрын
That dude going on about some churchy girls being straight up hoze has truth. Ask me, I know.
@proverbs3133
@proverbs3133 3 жыл бұрын
I like this channel. Let me go check out the archives. If you continue with topics like this, easy 100k by early 2022
@TheBlackCulturePodcast
@TheBlackCulturePodcast 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, for the kind words please check us out and we definitely have more content coming 🙏🏾
@Brian-cb2vc
@Brian-cb2vc 3 жыл бұрын
Prostitutes are cheaper than dates, and you get to skip all the BS in between. Plus the prostitutes look better, throw it back better and treat you WAAAAY better. Average street tang you meet at the bars etc.. are just waaay more hassle than they're worth. But that's just me.
@weeevan3078
@weeevan3078 3 жыл бұрын
Ok I dont expect sex on the first date but I planned the date, I drive/pick her up, I pay, I protect her and provide a good time. And in return she does what exactly?
@decadesmusiclover
@decadesmusiclover 3 жыл бұрын
Allowed you to pay for the entire date😂😂😂 Ask a woman of interest if she'll go dutch date with you. If she disagrees don't bother with her. She's illustrated she's selfish and cheap. If she's really interested in you going dutch wouldn't be an issue.
@hadesdogs4366
@hadesdogs4366 2 жыл бұрын
Because society is catered and based around women who In three words can destroy a man’s life or even kill him even without any evidence HE RAPED ME! And with those three words without any evidence marks a man for life but if a man says those exact same words and even with evidence such as video or photographs the man would be ridiculed and shamed or just simply ignored, also how is it that a male teacher who has sex with a ten year old is considered the worst human being, but when a female teacher rapes a six year old boy that teacher still gets to keep her job, and not just that but in court even with protection such as a condom or prenuptial agreement, a woman can destroy everything that man has worked so hard to build, his house would be stolen, his kids even if they were from his last wife would get taken from him, child support where they strip him of every single penny he has, and as soon as he does any overtime, he child support goes up by three times and women are the ones who file for divorces70% of the time
@stevenmiller7267
@stevenmiller7267 3 жыл бұрын
My fellow people.... he Nailed the Importance Check List.... we are ALWAYS LAST OF IMPORTANCE.. Always 😐
@TheBlackCulturePodcast
@TheBlackCulturePodcast 3 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS
@claytonbigsby9673
@claytonbigsby9673 3 жыл бұрын
I have more success writing my number down in a piece of paper and just give it to them…the last few I dated was that way….approaching is a waste of time.
@stevenmiller7267
@stevenmiller7267 3 жыл бұрын
Well good for you brother.. at least you got the call.. I've done that a few times and I had to make sure my phone still had a charge..lol Lmbo. Strikes lol
@Lightningslick
@Lightningslick 3 жыл бұрын
No woman is ever obligated to have sex just because a man pays for the evening: Fist, second, third ...date. However, why not just spend the minimum, e.g. coffee and a walk in the park, until you two "get to know each other better". Or, she can pay.
@prioris55555
@prioris55555 3 жыл бұрын
the park is a perfect place for a fabricated me too incident lol
@Brian-cb2vc
@Brian-cb2vc 3 жыл бұрын
Or just skip all the BS song and dance and pay for tricks. They look better, they treat you better and in the long run you get more bang for your buck (pun intended).
@cenk.toplar
@cenk.toplar 3 жыл бұрын
I can not stay one of those videos here on youtube where dating coach women teaches men confidence or seeing men being dead nervous around women. I have no idea what is this whole pedestalzation mindset ? Make your own money , invest in you and stay away from modern females because ... JUICE IS NOT WORTH TO SQUEEZE !
@Wong-Jack-Man
@Wong-Jack-Man 3 жыл бұрын
For me I’ve learned to value my well being and playing the numbers game where I have to accept a large proportion of rejection to being berated in public to risk of being accused no longer interests me.
@djeanpierre
@djeanpierre 3 жыл бұрын
Good job, guys. I made a video on this topic a few months back.
@TheBlackCulturePodcast
@TheBlackCulturePodcast 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much brother if you don't mind drop the link so we can check it out
@djeanpierre
@djeanpierre 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheBlackCulturePodcast kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJSZiZiLo6xogNU
@healthiswealth6237
@healthiswealth6237 3 жыл бұрын
Here is the thing...Most. woman RARELY find a man that they are attracted to. On the flip side, MOST men RARELY find a woman who is attracted to HIM. So, neither woman nor men is really winning, UNLESS you're in the TOP 10 percent, or less, of men, then you have your pick.
@djeanpierre
@djeanpierre 3 жыл бұрын
This is true. Most men operate from a QUALIFYING paradigm while most women operate from a DISQUALIFYING paradigm. Meaning, most men look for reasons to keep a woman around while most women look for reasons to get RID of a guy.
@OneHitWonder383
@OneHitWonder383 3 жыл бұрын
Why men don't approach women? This has happened to you? *_Me Too!_*
@rafaelcoria8553
@rafaelcoria8553 3 жыл бұрын
Ur rite my brother from another mother 👩
@ThousandMask
@ThousandMask 3 жыл бұрын
Because they are girls not women 🤫
@DestroAzureDx
@DestroAzureDx 8 ай бұрын
Realistically I agree with him, second date is more realistic for most men. Some don't even get that, if you don't or she isnt at least showing interest in it just leave.
@rafaelcoria8553
@rafaelcoria8553 3 жыл бұрын
Way 2 young 4 me I'm 41 and 👎no way I'm going out with a with a 21, lol jajajaja Tyrone dats freaking hilarious
@JeromeGardiner
@JeromeGardiner 2 жыл бұрын
When start all relationships. Say you are at a party and you are introduced to a pretty woman. Do I approach her or do I walk away? Men wait for a signal, a smile, eye contact, maybe she touches his arm as he walks by and says something like," I like your jacket." Once the signal is read by men, they are more comfortable to approach them. Women need to learn how to flirt. Feminist see flirting as selling out.
@danwallach8826
@danwallach8826 2 жыл бұрын
It's always an analysis of risk-reward. A man must play his cards close. You should only get into the game if you can afford the losses. Keep your resources. Don't lose.
@vincelorino4394
@vincelorino4394 3 жыл бұрын
investment/return. end vid there.
@neuroleptika
@neuroleptika 3 жыл бұрын
Focuse on your fitness, mental and spiritual health, your money. I swear beware the insanity holes.
@sgvproductionz2979
@sgvproductionz2979 3 жыл бұрын
most women are taken
@charles-ul9uo
@charles-ul9uo 3 жыл бұрын
masterclass.
@Elisa-du6hh
@Elisa-du6hh 3 жыл бұрын
As from a woman’s perspective we like to be chased by men. If that guy doesn’t talk to me why would I want to like him. In life we may not always win but at least we try is a true winner. How would you know if you don’t even try? There’s no harm in trying what if she will like you back? What if she waiting to be chased. You wouldn’t know the true answer until you try. Well if I’m wrong then at least you try with no regrets and happily moving on. If that chick is all about dressing up with fake eyelashes, make up contour, fake body parts ect.. then you’re going for the wrong woman! The men out there my advice is go for someone that has inner beauty as well as someone you are comfortable with. As she age her beauty would would fade away and what matters most is the personality, the characteristics traits, common values, moral values, and the communication that connects between the both. These are long term qualities that are worth in a woman to invest for. Isn’t just the shell like you don’t want to wake up and seeing everything was fake and say whoa who’s she ? Same person? 😂
@danielsnook5029
@danielsnook5029 3 жыл бұрын
There is no 2nd date, they just getting free food.
@silentgiant4995
@silentgiant4995 3 жыл бұрын
Get your passport gents...
@markusgarcia4136
@markusgarcia4136 3 жыл бұрын
Great podcast
@TheBlackCulturePodcast
@TheBlackCulturePodcast 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother 🙏🏾if you haven’t already it that subscribe button please
@markusgarcia4136
@markusgarcia4136 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheBlackCulturePodcast done…
@realbradautry
@realbradautry 3 жыл бұрын
Women want a man not a husband.
@zerocola75
@zerocola75 2 жыл бұрын
Yea a remember a date wit one girl... so this is so true... she won to know all about me and a ask her about her live copal of normal q. and a get noting. She dm me first so a gave her a shot. And she was like yea write me keep me entertainment. but playing like she won a friend only (she try too use me for attention ). So a test her and she fail so a cot her off because a didn't get noting in return no answers ... Know your wort King. Give them so much how much the give it back. Women must shove first interest (looking too you, smiling, body in ur direction and then if she its jour type u show it back).
@wescarr1526
@wescarr1526 3 жыл бұрын
Read Men On Strike by Dr Helen Smith.
@kylekelly4979
@kylekelly4979 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha 🤣 this was funny, but so true with a lot of women.
@KennyPeeples
@KennyPeeples 3 жыл бұрын
What is the name of the young lady on tik tok
@TheBlackCulturePodcast
@TheBlackCulturePodcast 3 жыл бұрын
When I run across her profile again I’ll put it in here for you
@drtobse2639
@drtobse2639 3 жыл бұрын
Ssiiimmmmppp
@rafaelcoria8553
@rafaelcoria8553 3 жыл бұрын
Marinate good 👍 1 my brother
@gnarfgnarf4004
@gnarfgnarf4004 3 жыл бұрын
Playback speed 1.5
@Ben256MB
@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын
The reason why men don't approach women in real life is because their scared of rejection! That's just the gospel truth ! As a man why should you be be scared of rejection because anything you truly want in life there's always a risk of failure . Like I have always said if you holla at a chick and she's rude as hell that woman has poor social skills and she's already angry with men . Before any men get married he must be in a relationship with a woman for at least 5 years!
@evos469
@evos469 3 жыл бұрын
It's not even the rejection it's the extra on top of the rejection
@1murkeybadmayn
@1murkeybadmayn 3 жыл бұрын
you're a boomer, aren't you? lol this is a different time, there's way more than just being rude bruh.
@Ben256MB
@Ben256MB 3 жыл бұрын
@@1murkeybadmayn That's the main reason dudes don't approach dog!
@WisdomandFolly77
@WisdomandFolly77 3 жыл бұрын
Approaching women is dying out because women have been modernized. We are equals now, therefore it stands to reason that old, archaic modes of thinking are losing steam(such as men’s traditional roles in dating). Women and men are both going to have to adapt to the current paradigm.
@anthonymcghee1548
@anthonymcghee1548 3 жыл бұрын
@@1murkeybadmayn nah all this me too shit is an excuse . The average dude with a net worth under a million and not hitting on an subordinate need nit fear some me too shit . Knock it off. Also the average chick isn’t gonna get you arrested . Lmfao lame shit . I get it thjugh . It’s a great excuse to cover the fact that it’s easier to just swipe right on a chick instead of walking up and trying to figure out how what to say .
@davidchung2203
@davidchung2203 3 жыл бұрын
The truth
@Rothinger
@Rothinger 2 жыл бұрын
Coz they dont want to be pepper sprayed and jailed xxxdd
@danielacosta2155
@danielacosta2155 3 жыл бұрын
oye i Couldn't even if i Tried? that's just Not my Stee-lo buddie(.WW.).......................?
@yahvelnek
@yahvelnek 3 жыл бұрын
Women want more. We deserve more. We want it all. You men are smart enough to know this. We can do better than Mike, Tyrone and Kevin. We want Roman, we want Thor Man, we want Roc, we want Idris.
@angrybadger616
@angrybadger616 3 жыл бұрын
And what do you bring to the table that the man builds and sets for you? Just you? We can do better than just you.
@MinnieMouse-hb3bc
@MinnieMouse-hb3bc 3 жыл бұрын
Oh... So u are speaking for all men all over the world.... What a nonsense? And u are married so know nothing about dating scene...😂😂😂
@plutostarr8605
@plutostarr8605 2 жыл бұрын
444 likes while watching this it’s a sign for me
@realbradautry
@realbradautry 3 жыл бұрын
Women want a man not a husband.
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