Why Men Fall Harder for Women Who Let Them Go | Jordan Peterson’s Insights relationship lesson''

[@Kmahersh01]

My ex didn’t spend any time reflecting after I left our 4.5 year relationship. He just moved on and found someone new. He did drive by my house for 8 months after, even though he was dating her. I realized if I had stayed with him, it was going to continue to be a stagnant relationship going nowhere. I was just a security blanket to him, and once I left, he found a new security blanket. 😂

[@Icequeenisback]

I just walked away from a relationship wherein i still love him but i have to let him go. It hurts but i have to do it.

[@orianam9835]

I have been there. Most painful experience so far. You got this

[@lizz9840]

same here.

[@anna-mariagriego8585]

Did the same right now.. he thinks I'm selfish because I won't give in to his physical demands while we still aren't in a relationship after 6 years. And no super bowl together, that's what started all this. Never have done super bowl and valentine's day, either... He thinks I ask for too much.

[@MsRandieK]

Ditto … I said do not contact me ! He’s honoring that! I’m writing out my thoughts when they pop in my head ! I do great until I hear a love song! I’m still very much in love with him. Day 16 💔

[@mycupisfull]

Always glad to hear the words of Mr Peterson. ❤

[@faithing88]

Just walked away from a 6 year relationship it hurt at first until i shifted my mind and looked myself in the mirror and if he doesnt want me its ok, whats not ok is me crying over someone who is ready to lose me when I refused proposals from other man, rejected my ex trying to get back with me and I rejected him cos i loved him. Well i love me now, he get go to the nearest cliff im WALKING AWAY 😂😂

[@vukicaveselinovic5260]

Bravo,bravo, bravo Dr Peterson !!! Thank you.👋

[@paulaford8658]

I was happy to leave he took me for granted!

[@conniesagredo5316]

I hate that we have to play those games I just want them to appreciate and love me

[@Ji_jee]

Really great video. Ive just walked away . Difficult but ultimately win win..... If he levels up great, if not great 😂 such a freeing feeling when we finally reach this point. Love to all including him 👌🏽🙏🏽❤

[@junehansen5220]

This will change my life! Thank you Jordan!

[@paulaford8658]

You're right sir!!!

[@blossom6473]

Yes the great paradox, I was always available now he needs time alone and will ring me when he's 'ready'. I've reached out twice via text but never again 😢

[@danilaroche1156]

It's never a good look to pursue a man. You will feel humiliated & he will resent you.

[@danilaroche1156]

Don't be sad. You will soon be clear if he's serious. I also encourage you not to give a man your heart & body if your not married.

[@blossom6473]

@danilaroche1156 thank you 😊... I agree totally with your advice, they change when you do

[@yofam581]

@@blossom6473both men and women change when they are having sex outside of marriage

[@lede1810]

Don’t give your time to someone like this. Move on and value your time better with the next person. Any more time spent with this person is wasting time to heal yourself and find a better person

[@paulaford8658]

You're so right sir !

[@paulaford8658]

Amen !!!!!

[@paulaford8658]

You are so right sir! I left him I call blocked him ! He's mad !

[@BBsweetiepie]

And when he must deal with his own mortality, the same thing happens. If he was ever at any time in his lifetime , complacent about the relationship. I know because I had always been there for him until the end. I’m rewarded in a way, but there’s no reward like hope and the fulfillment of that hope in love. 😢❤❤

[@jane178]

This sounds like Chris Matthews who was on MSNBC. Oh, how I miss his show on MSNBC.

[@nightjalia]

I need some advice here, I loved a man for 4yrs in long distance relationship from a different continent, he is now asking me to leave my good job and country and go stay with him, I’m afraid if he dump me after , should I leave him and continue my life or I should go stay with him? So confused

[@IntegrativeMedicine2024]

If you don't go to try you will have all life regrets for not trying, so...decide!

[@edenlass9062]

Do you BOTH value his current job, status, situation and country higher than yours? Generally things work out better If the man makes the move. However, if he is willing to look after you for 3-4 months while you find your feet and you like where he lives then why not get a temporary work or visiting visa and try it out. Then return to your home country and discuss citizenship options should you return to his country on a more permanent basis? It could be a really good opportunity for you to explore a new country/culture and broaden your horizons, especially if you can expand your career elsewhere. Your company might be willing to take you back after a three month sabbatical if you go speak to HR and go about it the right way. Explore your options.

[@gailwagner4316]

I'm currently leaving a 14 month long distance relationship but in the same country Long distance rarely works. I only recently found out he has a wife. God revealed the evidence to me. I would say making a move to another country is a huge decision I'm assuming you know everything about this person I thought I did...I was wrong

[@MariaSchaefer-g8s]

My Man and I still keep communication. But, I cannot go with him. I need to go back to my country and go to work.

[@wildtainaspirit]

this doesnt work with dismissive avoidant men.

[@kristinapruett8917]

It doesnt matter if they neverbreturn

[@orridgenalcurlsncoir9253]

Fall? Fall?? You mean they become obsessed with the one they did not get to conquer and completely destroy!! Kmdrt. Demons don't fall in love!

[@kenm116]

looks like AI

[@lucianafasani]

It is AI

[@sonofhibbs4425]

@@lucianafasani most Peterson videos these days are.

[@edenlass9062]

I was wondering about that. Too much of this stuff around. Apparently AI can now do podcast style stuff now too. Imagine wasting time listening to your favourite podcaster have a conversation with someone that never happened? It's just weird and intrusive. I don't care what an AI algorithm thinks someone would say. Thank you for saving my time (I'm only 1 minute in).

[@paulaford8658]

I don't understand why is so angry!!!

[@Adorabellydancer]

Well too bad he lives across the strt and i cant really be too far away. 🤦‍♀️ Def astarted to not value me. I heard this video too too too late all the wrong moves have already happened....

[@paulaford8658]

He is so mad thanks for telling me ! Good bye !