WHY MEN FEEL THE NEED TO HUMBLE WOMEN THEY ADMIRE....

[@chellebelle3686]

He was a joke the whole show. He wasn't there to date anyone. He was there to impress the other men.😂😂😂

[@marinaavant]

Accurate

[@FEVERDREAM889]

So true! He sees women as part of elevating his status symbol to impress men. That means talking down to us. He's probably on the DL for real. He doesn't seem to want a lady partner at all.

[@paralegalkc]

🤡ass

[@terry_eLLe]

That part. He’s on the wrong show, because he also gives off snow bunny vibes too.😂

[@OrganicAlumination]

He's gay. He'd play feel more comfortable being a life coach for women but being in a relationship with one of his homies

[@amazinggrace313]

I would have never given him the satisfaction of telling him I thought he was handsome . His arrogance is disgusting

[@So-fi29]

Never compliment a man's appearance, that's the fastest way to turn him into a princess

[@OrganicAlumination]

He would be too draining to be in a relationship with anyone. What he would age a woman that was with him so fast. Any woman would avoid it like the plague

[@dclarke1896]

I’m not sure why he’s so arrogant. He acts like he’s the only doctor on the planet.

[@Ms.AllSunday930]

I bet he loooves hearing himself talk... Those people are the worst to be around ...

[@come_on_barbie_123]

NEVER ...ever ..ever!

[@objectiveintuition77133]

a gay man chased me doooooowwwwnnn’d to let me know he’s gay.. 😑

[@bharris4517]

Did you clap for him? LMAO

[@objectiveintuition77133]

@ nah I just made him my little gay slave… but that’s another story Oh so you wanna be gay, I’ll show u a gay 😹😹😹

[@nd2663]

awww sis lmbo

[@Th3lite]

😂😂😂😂

[@sarah-janepryce821]

@@objectiveintuition77133 Crying at this comment 😂😂💀

[@Cassieveee]

It’s him trying to humble her in the soft spoken voice for me 😂

[@NatzTalk]

Say that!😂😂😂

[@justinebailey5333]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sadetucker2094]

That's that tactic they use to try and work you up to yell and act out of character, but she didn't fall for it, so he kept digging and digging.😂😂😂😂😂 Good for her for keeping her composure, cause I know she wanted to knock him upside his head.....

[@monejohn9973]

​@@sadetucker2094also nagging where a man talks down to you so Subconsciously, you'd want him and try to fight for his affection.That's exactly what he was doing, and although she should have cursed him out and walked away.She didn't entertain him and that's why he kept getting madd because it didn't matter to her how he felt and that triggered him.😅

[@Usermx2005-.]

Most of the young BLK Men are interested in dating other men!

[@lotuscsancharatv3704]

YES THEY ARE.

[@justinebailey5333]

Yassssssssssss

[@breighh]

No lies detected.

[@julesb2415]

But they will never admit it

[@Becauseimher]

Trueeee

[@YoutubeTeasipper7856]

Crazy how men think that they can limit your options, but mostly likely, they are the lower option for U.

[@shani.ninety]

Right 😂

[@ireflectmydestiny2629]

I opened my phone to be able to reply to you, as a woman I approve this message! ❤ 👏 🗣️

[@roseq536]

Had this guy tell me he needed to humble me…I laughed in his face to asked “why date me if I need to be humbled? My confidence is what attracted you to me. Perhaps you should raise your ambitions to meet my standards before it’s too late”…left him that same week.

[@vashtikelly6837]

WHEN YOUR TOO MUCH FOR A MAN LET HIM GO FIND LESS!!!

[@mskabue]

Preach Sis 🗣️

[@roseq536]

@@vashtikelly6837 absolutely! Word around is he STILL thinks of me after all these yrs….oh well🤷🏾‍♀️

[@dumpmail-xz2qp]

He was clearly provoking her because he couldn't handle getting rejected and just walk away. She dodged a toxic one

[@mskabue]

This one is a dangerous insecure mess....

[@PhariseeJohnson]

That’s my ex

[@Akburns93]

If he's this rude to a stranger, imagine how petty he'd be in a relationship.

[@tamekadavis6641]

Ladies ! run fast and don't look back. Never allow abuse..

[@dclarke1896]

I’ve have had so many men try to humble me that I lost count. I’ve even had a guy say to me that he wants to tear me down. It’s crazy. These days I just want to be alone.

[@ericabelcher8760]

Ijs!!! There are too many to count that are running around here unstable, unhinged, need therapy, have unresolved issues, just plain SICK & DEMONIC!! I know that sounds extreme, but I'm serious! A lot of them label just women as being crazy, etc. But there are too many who need to go seek professional help! Smh 🤦‍♀️

[@spacetrebuchet6853]

Adults don't let other adults just say any old thing to them, they silence the bullshiters.

[@queenla227]

I find it hilarious when some men think that their profession is their character. The two are VERY different. Also, “Doctor Elam, how did you acquire…” No one is asking you that on a date. In fact, it is one of the topics of conversation that some men will not engage in because they think you are trying to gauge his wealth and be a gold digger. There was no winning. Chaos dodged! 😂 He, also, seems like the type to believe that because he is not raising his voice, he is not insulting.

[@shanyamclaughlin8083]

He is very passive aggressive. Telling her she basically brings nothing to the table. A woman aka your mother was your first teacher. Women are not doing this in 2025. When a man asks what you bring to the table say your time. We all know they do not go to other men to emotionally dump on. We are their safe space. You are going to have to bring more than just money and that ego sir 😂.

[@yahphey444]

Classic traits of an abuser and NPD, she dodged a bullet

[@sminno]

Funniest thing ever!!!!! My friend was told she's not that special. She said "AAAAAWWWWW that's so sad. Hold on I got something for you." She went to her cousin that had a baby got a baby bottle and gave it to him in front of his friends!!!! He was so embarrassed!!!!

[@audreydoyle5268]

Boss!

[@Ree-m5p]

Hahahahahahaha that’s pure GOLD!

[@amazinggrace313]

What’s the point of asking a girl out when these dudes are hell bent on not getting a second date ????

[@roosaas]

Perhaps it’s not the women they’re after…. There’s many men struggling with their sexuality and can’t admit to themselves what they are. They’re on the DL. They force themselves to date women, but see men on the side. I’ve heard plenty of these type of stories from women to know that it’s a thing, that happens quite commonly.

[@chenellebeautytv]

🎯

[@Cjax504]

The best gift to have is self awareness prior to dating. That will save you every time

[@NatzTalk]

Ann Anne this!💛💪🏾

[@lf3554]

@Cjax504 It's the bees knees period!!

[@bm5_5_5]

You’re so right! This will protect you from low quality experiences.

[@julesb2415]

Or just don't date because men deserve nothing

[@tarshaledwards7468]

These fools wants their egos stroked

[@Friendofdarknesss]

Men’s egos are more important to them than life.

[@jdglen24]

They try to humble you by giving you whatever they feel like they want to give you.. that’s bars and most of the time they aren’t giving you nothing worth a damn.

[@francesq6592]

When these “men” ask yall, “well what do you bring to the table?” instantly reject them and remind them that, “I can provide for myself, I can even please myself, I got my own car, even have my own house, my own business, take myself out to nice restaurants, buy myself luxury things. You see, I can take care of myself but I’d like to have someone who can COMPLIMENT my life and bring peace and looks like you’re NOT it, you’re not about to take advantage of me. Bye!” In other wards what we bring to the table is that we can do our own thing and bring ease to the right man. We’re also a portal who can bring life into this world. We offer a deep kind of love acceptance and loyalty that most men can’t even begin to comprehend. Also a man’s quality of life increases with marriage. We are the ones that have a higher probability of needing to sacrifice. That’s why we don’t pick the “what can you do for me” ass boys. I’m glad I don’t have to deal with that.

[@lf3554]

okay!! 👏 👏 👏

[@ReneeHarris96]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@NatzTalk]

Say this!!!

[@karlagonzalvez4703]

That question is do annoying to me I think I would instantly be fed up and just walk.

[@winning3329]

​@@karlagonzalvez4703 women are the ones who should be asking a man what he brings to the table and not men asking women. They have it backwards

[@GoddessAmara8]

Never go out of character for any man unless for ultimate clap backs. The second your body cringes take yourself out The conversation.

[@sylvieroche9364]

The ONLY good reason to be in a partnership is to lift each other up. NEVER allow anybody in your life who isn't uplifting you and who you do not feel the desire to uplift. Cut out ANYBODY who is "humbling" you : they are always only losers unable to better themselves.

[@Islandgirl_18]

That first guy wasn’t he something like 37 talking down to a 19 yr old? If he was the guy he thinks he is he’d be sparring with women in his age range not a teenager. It shows he can’t go up to the women on his level so he wants to groom and humble a 19 yr old into submission. Your career is what you do not who you are so him being a dr means nothing without proper values, morals or respect. as a woman who is his age he came across as silly and immature and lacking in substance.

[@la6136]

Doctor is upper middle class. It isn’t even rich or wealthy. Not to mention all of the student loan debt they are definitely middle class. I don’t understand why some women are impressed by that.

[@nmc1859]

He was mentally abusing her right there. It was so awful

[@bottlesofchris]

Yup he was disgusting and wanted to assert dominance but he was trying so hard that it became unbelievable. The young lady handled herself well

[@julia1j1j1]

That man is a narcissist, a cockroach of society, who needs to feed on others energy because he is totally empty inside.

[@Seia894]

In my early 20s I had so many men humbling me when I look good and have a great career. They want you to have self esteem. I think it’s a jealousy thing. It’s childish and gross.

[@lynny75831]

The lady with the light eyes and the braid bun......What a gorgeous lady. Absolutely stunning

[@gia4822]

omg that first guy is sooo catty i would have left i can recognize hateful energy in a smooth tone. somebody hurt him. Why would a woman want to help you with your finances??!! I thought we was interested in love??!? I can tell these angry faces are not worth my time. @ 20:22 That situation reminds me all the time of Shanquella Robinson. We need to watch who we have in our circle.

[@bubblesactivated]

I would not have kept going back and forth with him. I would have moved right along and he would have been talking to himself.

[@vlk818]

From my experience, it's not just men who do this. Other women do this to me at work as well, particularly white and neurotypical women.

[@Tdawglove]

lol I’m black, neurodivergent and conventionally attractive and I know EXACTLY what you mean. The way men do it is more insidious though bc they will actually enter into full blown relationships with you while hating you😂.

[@julesb2415]

Yes but women do not have the privilege and untouchability that men have. They think they can treat you like that because men have treated women like that since the beginning of time and stupid women tolerated it and even chased them, so they think they are the prize. Men are no good and the women that tolerate them are just as bad maybe worse because they are male centered.

[@monejohn9973]

​@@Tdawglovenah women are just as bad because they be enemies yet calling you a friend.....

[@kumikor3392]

Why do these men keep talking as if their words are gold or have substance? His impatience to belittle her was astonishing. She has nothing to offer you? Alright, then get to movin. Bye 😂😂😂 Why should anyone take this long to yap about nothing???

[@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven]

He is gay

[@Ms.K_LaTrailera]

The guy at 3:26 is speaking 💯 FACTS. Trying to humble you= abuse in my eyes, walk away for good. Stay safe out there, beautiful ladies.

[@runningfromabear8354]

They're not "humbling" women. They're degrading women. I'm so glad my husband was never like this. I dealt with men like this when I was a single woman and I am so glad I listened to my mother. Don't argue with them, just move along to someone who will build you up to their level, not drag you down to theirs. He was trying to sound like he was going to build her up. But he was insulting and degrading her in that first clip. People who build others up around them, don't need to drag others down to make it happen.

[@Desirem56]

Asking if he has good relationship with his Father since he knows so much would shut this discussion with these type of BM. She men sound like straight woman "what can you do for me" is wild.

[@Afitz4420]

it just shows how they feel about themselves, and the work they need to do

[@CookinwitKC]

Yes, that is exactly what I was thinking

[@OrganicAlumination]

Him saying that she can't teach him anything is not of the lord. You have to listen to the way men are programmed when they talk. A grown man can learn something from a baby. A person can learn something from studying plants animals the weather... You're supposed to learn something new everyday until you die like you're never supposed to stop learning . He's one of those people that will be elderly talking about you can't teach him nothing

[@chayes3862]

It's not humbling, it's insulting... dudes like the fist one pass insults without knowing you to chip your confidence and see what level of abuse you will accept at first meeting. Usually they know they aren't on your level or they haven't the skills nor desire to compliment a women, those types want to break you because of someone in their past or presently around and ignoring them. Also the same ones lacking the balls to stand up to the men/women/parent that hurt them

[@dollhouseq1530]

Not him leading with she can't help him financially smdh Is his career failing??? She is super young, and would not have what he does...with his old ASS😂😂😂😂

[@ladyjpolite]

Exactly. Why did she need a lecture? He's a dentist, not a therapist. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@andijonesgrif]

That first guy was hilarious. I bet he goes around making people hate him wherever he goes.

[@julesb2415]

Be thinks he is the prize so bad, no wonder he is single 😂😂

[@jodiburnett6211]

“Adults Have Conversations.” I’m going to laugh at that first clip forever. ❤😂🎉

[@NatzTalk]

8:25 this! Sounds like a Narcissist like my ex. He tried to humble me after he complimented me A LOT in the beginning. Then it was insult after insult after back handed compliments! 😭

[@PhariseeJohnson]

Mine too

[@zeldaxoxo6539]

I had an ex try to humble me so bad that he complained that one of my eyebrows was higher than the other. He said “ that’s a hot picture you sent me , I wish you really looked like that” I said, it’s a Snapchat filter it is me as a cartoon, but it’s still me. He said yeah but one of your eyebrows is higher than the other, my eyebrows aren’t like that. He did so much more, that was the most ridiculous thing he said.

[@Ceilingkatwatchesus]

Ooohh he’s a narcissist to the core. Most doctors, lawyers, etc. are.

[@thiccredgyal3404]

Many of them are cluster Bs

[@theehardpill]

She talked to him WAY too long. When dhe said "next" she shouldnt have allowed him to continue speaking. Okay, you're not interested, NEXT.

[@mskabue]

I thought so too

[@jahsdiary]

Also I’m a slim black girl and I had this guy keep telling me once I have a kid I won’t have a nice body anymore,who said I was having kids 😂

[@sagba947]

Well I have had 2 and still slim my nurse complimented me after birth on being snatched😂

[@VAE1986]

Men have treated me like dirt so much so that I no longer date, and I'm celibate. I pulled back because no one deserves me. I never thought anything was wrong with me. I always knew there was something wrong with them instead. The one thing they can't do is humble me. I am almost narcissistic with how highly I think of myself . It's impossible to humble me. I know that they are beneath me . This goes for women who talk shit too . 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@la6136]

It’s not narcissistic to have high standards and boundaries. That is what women should do! We are conditioned to think we need to be humble and selfless because that benefits selfish people who want to use us!

[@sabri1913]

The way to win is to also show narcissistic traits. It is what it is

[@Vavavoum-gr8]

I like my man with a healthy self esteem but I also like men that fawn over me and are very aware of what a prize I am and let’s me know it. If a guy starts playing push pull games with me. It’s a no! Am gone.

[@Dominque-se5dx]

PLEASE tell these MEN to be good people!! Instead of just encouraging them to be rich. A rich man with an awful personality sucks.

[@joycejoy4119]

Problem with women they listen to XY too much😅 Talk less listen less when it’s not benefiting you 😢

[@womeninhistory-f2r]

Not that first guy wanting her to admire him by asking him a bunch of questions 😂😂😂 Sir, she said next. Who needs to keep talking? Why he fighting it so hard?? Lmao

[@Faithandseekerofchrist]

If they talk about women's body count, making disrespectful comments about women and her hitting the wall after 30 RUN! 🏃🏻‍♀️

[@mskabue]

RUNNN for the hills 🏃🏽‍♀️💨

[@devinemindz]

That first dude will be single forever 😂 men that want to humble u are jealous of you 😂

[@PhariseeJohnson]

That’s my ex. I swear. I left his ass and he told me I lost everything. How? My friend told me to come back to state until I get on my feet. He living in a hotel? I move in my townhouse in a couple of weeks and I transfer my job - drove myself here. Where he lost his car to a title loan and living in a cheap hotel still with no car and catching rides to work. He also compliment me but degrade me at the same time. I had to go- couldn’t take it no more

[@ebbietee98]

😟 first man was crazy!!

[@OrganicAlumination]

It doesn't matter how much money he has, he was fishing for an emotional response. He's a narcissist. And I really hate that that woman had to go through that because she's a beautiful woman and she seems like a very nice person, and black women always have to kind of like have thick skin and put up with somebody coming for them like literally trying to make them cry on purpose just to gas like them and it's just... Like I don't know why he's satisfied from hearing himself berate a woman that way

[@shakirasmith6454]

Omg this! The disrespect we go through on a daily business 😩😑.

[@SalsaCharms]

Don’t argue, don’t explain, don’t engage. Just leave them where they at🤗 If he’s simple minded, leave him to his simpleness. There you go, it’s that simple🥰

[@alabaster2163]

Men hate themselves. You dont love yourself and do this...

[@ebonyqueen6155]

Keep it coming Sis!!!! The world of Women need this content!!!!! Yaaaayyyyysss!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@NahmelSimmonsBey]

He's trying to convince his family of why he needs a man instead

[@Helloo_oo]

I told a baby daddy that i don't deal with men with kids,,,, and i guess that hurt his ego. Cuz in return, he told me if the dating market doesn't work for him, he'll go back to 1 of his Baby mammas!!! He told me this on our date! Like i showered, got ready so that he can sneak in a rejection😂😂😂

[@sylviaj270]

I have dealt with that several times. I realize now that it was supposed to make me question myself. At the time, I told them that dealing with them was a degrading experience.

[@txspacemom765]

How does humbling equal a great relationship? You are treating her like she is second string and want her to feel wonderful? You are more worried about your image than worries about your relationship. Sick. In public, my ex tried to humble me because he was mad because I had a greater level of success than him. IN PUBLIC! I was under the idea of my success was our success, but he couldn't handle it. Done.

[@julesb2415]

Insecure men project arrogance because they don't know what confidence is.

[@azizabahati7037]

I agree what he shared in that small clip. He made some good points. Planting a seed.

[@leafyveins4985]

First dude is real creepy.

[@etaokha4164]

Even the other men looked at him like bro what are you doing?? You came here to hurt a womans feeling. Thats why the other men looked at him in shock . His extremely immature and needs constant approval thats why he mentioned ( why didn't you ask me how i got to where i am)

[@a.d.b535]

My ex BF criticized everything from my hair color to home decor. He referred to me as a Princess and wouldn't compliment me, so I'd compliment myself in front of him. He'd tell me not to let my head get too big to get through the door. Yet he'd use my job as bragging rights with his friends and those he knows. It was all about him. I left him 4 months ago and see him doing the same old thing while I'm expanding my social circle wider and higher. I'm no match for his insecurities. Oh, and I attracted a high quality man once I moved from the rut I was in. Looking back I actually suspect that he was secretly gay, and I was cover for him and his close close buddy. Took me 2 years to figure that one out. New bf compliments and encourages me. No insecurities there.

[@verdancyhime]

This is the problem. I'm attracted to shy men. I'm attracted to lots of other traits a lot of men are insecure about.

[@rossothecrimson7]

😂 I dated men that had way more than me, and they STILL hated me for whatever reason. I could work on my cars, I can make costumes, etc. Im just not super money motivated and got with them not knowing anything about their financials. Im getting money motivated now because I realize what a trap it is for women to not be making good money. But wild how jealous they would get, despite them being more successful than me financially!😂

[@ZandraSoSmiley]

Thanks for the video

[@mskabue]

My pleasure 😌

[@kimberlymatthews4480]

I remember when my ex husband told me my body was no longer on trend 😂😂😂 bc I was thick and slim thick was in now lol women are spending money on surgery to get my natural body type 😂😂😂 Im thinking I don’t think people got the memo did you send it out 😂😂😂😂

[@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven]

My ex tried all that nonsense... talking about do you want to be alone for the rwst of your life and this chick does this or my mom does this... I told him the door is always open, let me know when youre ready to leave...dude was still there five years laters...

[@DJWakening]

1 _ God doesn’t make mistakes. Thanks for putting this video together

[@mskabue]

My pleasure! 😌

[@nsubuganagadya4921]

Atleast she tried to reason him and give him the next, this man though, what the hell....

[@blaznphoenix8013]

That guy is trying to gaslight the lady.

[@British_Cocoa]

Even if you date your class and spec the man can still try to humble you

[@sophiesticated3968]

It’s even worse when you’re pretty smart kind funny ambitious confident disciplined educated and independent

[@debdeb9880]

I Love Her ENERGY SHE SAID GOOD LUCK TO THE OTHER GIRLS🤣🤣🤣 Next

[@Prynne-iu1uv]

I'm the most admired woman of them all. I'm #1. I'm the best. The GOAT. I am successful. I'm the best at being humble

[@aliens_did_it]

I am very glad I watched this video. It gave me a new perspective in different situations I've been through in life. Thanks! I really needed this. ❤

[@etaokha4164]

Enemies of progress

[@knowledge.is.power333]

Humblong dont work on me because im confident in who i am lol. If i sense someone trying to put me down i become even more arrogant and overly confident just to irritate them 😆

[@shani.ninety]

I do this too it works a charm to men and women 😂😂🎉

[@bottlesofchris]

I dated a young man briefly. After our second date which was casual but more dressed up for us cause we were both gym rats. He had so many compliments about how I looked but ended it with he didn’t like my hair verbatim “his waves were better than mine” I don’t take things like seriously so it didn’t stick but he proceeded to play childish games and I put 2+2 together that he was covertly abusive

[@SJPina77]

I wouldn’t have entertained him that long. As soon as he started I’d be like thanks bye and keep going

[@TheRealCatali]

This is so true!! Let this be an example!

[@aishalewis9068]

Never date down

[@GB_008]

Everrrrrrrrrrr❗️

[@yahphey444]

15:00 Exactly! Period. Point blank

[@Justdontcare-j9o]

He doesn’t know enough about her to say she not there yet. Talking all around her. What a gaslighter! What is his status in life? Is he educated ? Is he a homeowner? Does he have a job? Never let them take over the conversation with when belittling is involved .

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

The audacity on this guy 😂😂😂😂😂 What a bum.

[@veggiequeen2738]

Humble= Belittling

[@annetallegrand5656]

Only narcs do this it’s not even a thing among normal men.

[@adithalee8660]

On the comedy show 3rd rock (I believe it was) there was this obese older mail man and he was in love with this tall lanky blonde woman(she was brilliant brain wise) so he would do things to make her think she was inadequate in everything b/c he didn't want her to go anywhere except be with him and he didn't feel good enough about himself or that he deserved her. Because she looked like this tall beautiful model female compared to his short dumpy self. And she'd always dote on him and talk about her horrendous look and how sex and hot he was and every woman wanted him. Which was hystericall funny. So I think men do this when they're in awe of you and want you as a wife but seriously feel they don't deserve you b/c you're too good for them so they have to humble you to rationalize and justify why you two should be together and that means being on your level or higher then you to feel like the man and make you dependent on them. I noticed how he appeared to be fearful and anxious when she rejected him and was about to move on. So he started another argument to get her attention. They're still the same boys they were in elementary school who would have a crush on a girl and pull her pigtails or play fight her and act like a frenemy and always try to hang around her. Dote on her but then yell at her or try to fight her or control her. It's in their nature. 🙄

[@shayemoore]

It's not in their nature. That's an excuse women give to justify the bad behavior of dusty dudes. Any woman who allows a man to lower her standards is indeed a fool.

[@petrasworld913]

That's how it works in the movies but in real life it's clear they didn't have parents that taught them how to treat women and all people actually.

[@MarzanaChango]

the thing is these men get that behavior watching other women beat up other women with opinions on how they think they should be or look when they are not even the real statue of what a divine woman should be the end

[@ishtarprescotto4831]

This is so true omg

[@Chelzebelles]

Shreeeeree is WRONG The most I have been chased, has been by DL guys

[@ladyjpolite]

Preeeeach! 🙌

[@stephaniewencek6618]

He is a user

[@NahmelSimmonsBey]

I stand corrected ppl do get it

[@prettytings8216]

He he is crazy 😊😅😅😅

[@TheRoyalElect1]

He is 🌈

[@jahsdiary]

I never said I was perfect in third grade I chipped my 2 front teeth playing at recess and the main thing people come for is my teeth like idc I love myself I accept myself

[@TheRoyalElect1]

He just spoke curse upon her

[@MarzanaChango]

I would have never even gave him the argument when he has a spicy lisp what is up with these dudes I read straight through that they do things like that because they know they don't make the cut and are insecure so they want to make you feel as if it's something wrong with you so they don't feel bad that bad about themselves

[@PassionateFlower]

14:51 REAL TALK💯

[@phiakate]

Bongo dude 😂