Why men LOVE women who DON'T try hard

Relationship Advice & Dating Advice. Relationship Advice for women so you can understand love in the modern dating world. This is dating advice for women who are struggling to understand how a man thinks and what he wants from a woman in their relationships. I will also break down how to create desire in a relationship with a man so that he can chase after you and you can have the relationship you want! How to become an attractive person that attracts other high-quality potential romantic partners into your life. It's so important to understand that attraction doesn't just consist of your physical traits but there are also plenty of mental, spiritual, and energetic traits that also play a role in someone's attraction to you. How to position yourself in the right way in the modern dating world so you can have access to as many men as you want and build the relationship of your dreams. Not only do we discuss outward techniques and strategies but we also talk about many mindset changes that must take place for you to see real changes in your dating life. We discuss things like manifestation, the law of attraction, affirmations, and the law of assumptions as just a few of the many tools in your toolbox that will help you have the love life that you desire! There are also so many aspects to improving yourself and taking accountability that also play a role in getting the love you feel you deserve. We don't only focus on how to be better for men but we also learn how to be better for you. The better your life is, the more whole you are, the more confidence you will have, and the more attractive you will be to everyone around you. I will use my experiences in the dating world to help give you relationship advice and dating tips to get the type of love you seek!
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[@2000Ns7]

Prediction: this account is going to grow big🎉♥️

[@user-fr9ns7mh6f]

Actually shocked he doesn’t have more subscribers tbh

[@hawanatujobe1111]

Ikr...this guy's so good 😊

[@Olz937]

Hopefully the low level males don't find it

[@NathalieLiu-g7s]

agree

[@tmarie9413]

🧢

[@shellyshellz581]

If a “mature man” really likes you all this doesn’t matter ❤he’ll still like you

[@tmarie9413]

Exactly

[@lililalova9973]

not true :D no matter how mature, if he is desired buy a lot of women and he has a lot of options, it always matter!

[@seen007]

The point is MAN ... man is man and that's the fact

[@Hellthee]

@@lililalova9973that is a factor yes

[@Hellthee]

Yeah “mature”, the most rare breed in the men industry 😂

[@sherylcastro5688]

I appreciate you so much. I am healingggggggg❤❤❤❤❤ No more scammers in my life!!!

[@lizaarts9862]

Take a step back, take several steps - walk a mile backwards 😂😂😂😂

[@rainetravels1410]

😂😂 We met walk a mile backwards😂😂😂😂

[@JlynneBenson]

Too many back and forth games I'm too old for

[@gloriamoulopoulos2925]

Thank you for saying this! I've been telling other women this for years and they think I'm crazy or corny. I always let the man court me and do not make it easy for him in the beginning. I agree with most of the things you're saying.

[@bahamagal4702]

Your channel is informative and I love the delivery 🤣

[@CC-pu6qn]

I just kicked my husband out, we are separated and he is doing more. The thing is that’s not attractive. When a person is nice it’s classic take for granted.

[@TheMoonlightMage]

When I left my shitty ex, he suddenly begged. lmao, at that point, they're not wanted anymore

[@Navyblue0785]

​@TheMoonlightMage congrats you can now had it to your resume "got my ex to beg" 👏👏👏

[@girltalkbeauty]

So true the guy i liked I did to much for and my emotions was not in check definitely pushed him away lol

[@ceridwynnhaven6236]

& they say men aren't complicated ha

[@chm1466]

Exactly this!!!!!!!👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

[@S-jy4fd]

This is the best channel I have ever come across, so much gems. You’re so smart and articulate ❤

[@venusis9117]

A mature man got mad because i didn’t chase him. He blocked me. This is not true when dealing with sick people. Just be alone.

[@ameenahhightower7608]

Hey Tomisin. I found you or you found me? Romantic huh? Lol.. I was watching Stephan.. u know about him.. he talks about relationships... I fell asleep, and when i woke up you was on my T.V. I started watching you and I was like!!!!! I LOVE THIS!! SO IM SOOOO SUBSCRIBED NOW!!! 😅😅😅😅 ONE THING I HAVE LEARNED.. RELAX AND DONT PUT PEOPLE ON A PEDALSTAL!! NEVER LOVE/LIKE ANYONE MORE THEN THEY LOVE/LIKE U!! FAIR EXCHANGE NO ROBBERY!!

[@heyitsshay6058]

I've been waiting for a video like this!!!! 🙏🏾

[@massmediamanager9443]

I am a master of creating mystery abd attraction in a man BUT! But- i still do call then out on "what is happening between us, what is your plan" when time comes. At this point i don't care about losing mystery because it's a turning point - I sacrifice my attrativeness and become demanding, sort things with him, if he is not diving into relationship completely, i walk away and then distances does the dirty work for me. No contact then creates mystery.. I honestly think that being stuck in mysterious ways is only good periodically

[@hannahrial2820]

"I am sensei" lol

[@HER_DEKAAN]

This is really great advice for discerning when a man really wants you

[@TheMoonlightMage]

It's funny cause when a man doesn't put in effort I'm out

[@nancykajoka1385]

Learning him. That's too much work!

[@jaythomas89]

I needed to hear this 😩

[@Sleekoprah_]

Thank you so much for teaching me❤❤❤

[@Machezhi]

Thank you so much for the efforts you put on these videos for us, the insights are incomparable. Please do a video specifically on questions- right and good questions in detail please. 🙏 thank you

[@apryllmarie1596]

Doing less has never done much for me

[@lunalawless1845]

It’s like the bad smell factor. I like how you made a reference to a free iPad. So easy to understand that way!

[@AngelaFrench-n8n]

This is so deep!! I needed this!! Thank you ❤

[@NannyDivaLiscious]

Ya know Tomisin.........T my brotha........it's something about when you say 'JackHamma himself inside you" makes me feel so lowly and ashamed cause that visual is soooooooo hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Looooove you❤

[@Jazzi_Jeff]

This man cooked so hard. Straight facts.💯💯💯

[@FreeCongo27]

You are the bomb!

[@Basedbeauty3]

Can you do a live about how to recieve compliments & continue to stay mysterious ?

[@MR-fl6ul]

just smile a little and continue conversing. occasionally say thank you!!!! omg! really?!? 😊.

[@SiSTARWande]

You went hard

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

Vice versa

[@lizzyav2555]

oh wow. is thats why men chase me? because i absolutely don’t do anything. im only motivated to do anything for my own happiness financial security health and preservation.

[@dorkygirl97]

Can you please give advice on how to know when and where to say what. I know people dont remember what you say, they remember how you make them feel. I'm autistic and really bad with this.

[@MaryAkpan-z4o]

I'll believe it defective

[@michellebrown3107]

How can I make sure he continues to pursue me when I sit back and not take it as lack of interest? Where is that balance of reciprocating and being in receiving energy? Or is there a time frame?

[@Sillyshianne123]

tbh, I haven’t had Snapchat for 8 plus years, what do “people really use it for”????

[@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven]

Prostitution

[@jessicacarbajal4703]

This is gold

[@tfushtfushtfush]

Thank you !!!!

[@Navyblue0785]

Take a second and ask yourself: Although all this information is good to know, do you think this will help you develop a long term relationship with a top tier man or are those just tactics to maneuver through toxic short term situationships?

[@GoodVibesAffirmation]

Timestamps?

[@Roseberrylove]

Like ur shirttt!!!🦋🤣💕✨✝️🎀🤍

[@natalianatalia9579]

Sheesh he knows what he’s talking about !

[@tmarie9413]

Or she’s genuinely a giving person & don’t feel any anxiety. You can have a stance on men without making complete guesses on what the woman is feeling or doing. Also using a woman is a garbage man anyway 👎🏾

[@DR---]

The problem isn't that women try too hard. The problem is women lack empathy and have no idea what men want. Women keep trying to attract men by acting like a provider and don't seem to understand how emasculating that is to men. Men want a nurturer. Nurture means teach which is another word for guide. Men want a woman who will guide the relationship by telling him what she wants instead of expecting him to read her mind.

[@gok655]

Well I get a text saying I'm not ignoring you clearly they where. TOTALLY will totally ignore him now I DID TEXT HIM BACK NO REPLY so friend zone if they are lucky. players club when they are not the player we become one when we not they become the player is it not just so like that al the time yeah ignoring them should do the trick

[@Navyblue0785]

I love how people think man and woman dynamic is a + b = c. Do this and he will do this lol. Might work for a dog

[@ednacohen9909]

do you on call coaching ? this a a special case

[@HQ-S-11]

👏

[@FertileG]

But does work in an established relationship

[@lizaarts9862]

Omg youre such a nice person

[@Laila_Voice_AsMR]

But this doesn’t apply to all men, he’s generalising men are all different in thier own ways .

[@ladydonp1636]

Hello

[@JulieMorales-z3w]

Here

[@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756]

Wahahahahah this was so good

[@positivel5530]

Who is this Sheera person he keeps mentioning

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

🎯🎯🎯

[@vonettawills2928]

What about if you are 6 years into the relationship and he stops making the effort.

[@divinenone]

Pull your energy back and focus on yourself.

[@aagueye]

Mirror his behavior and if he ask you if there’s a problem you say no. Take twice more care of yourself, put on the effort, put some makeup on, smell good , look sexy and find a new activity, go see your girls and decenter him .. and see magic happen 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@tmarie9413]

Tell him what’s wrong and if he does nothing or emotionally hurt you again. LEAVE…

[@rosewatersweettea]

Start ignoring him, do your own thing.

[@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven]

He got comfortable..leave. ive learn this after eight years, they dont get better they get worse.

[@dukatimachiavelli813]

It don’t work for me they just leave me alone 😂lmao

[@HannahBanana_XO]

❤️❤️❤️

[@breezysgirl8314]

Your amazing

[@crypto2276]

❤

[@Highlove96]

You could've worn any nice T-shirt but you chose disrespect. It's interesting how it's always the same religion facing these weird behaviours. Try and do this with another religious figure 😅... You wouldn't dare would you?

[@jessicahitchens6926]

He is the West why would he wear a Talmudic /Mohammed Tshirt? Where does the modern day media originate from yes that's right the West....Which group runs the media 🤡💀

[@Coach_e13]

100

[@jessicahitchens6926]

So the young one from the army is the man in the relationship 🤣 My God no proper role models in childhood. Tragic.

[@aquariusense]

not a "eightsome"😆🤣

[@f.m.8999]

You are doing the devil's job for women thank u

[@Savedbygrace44]

Unsubscribed bc of the shirt:// like

[@TheMoonlightMage]

Lmaooo

[@ninijaiani5510]

Can you please stop drinking water when you’re in chat? This is disrespectful.

[@escalante8160]

He’s giving some amazing advice. I don’t think it’s disrespectful. The world doesn’t revolve around you lady… get a life 🙄

[@Olz937]

Please shut up! Nothing wrong with drinking water. Must he choke from a dry throat?

[@kays3599]

lol WTF?

[@Olz937]

You are frustrated by your life, lady lol

[@AnaM-fv2wq]

You are competition ? anyway if not grateful as you should instead of rude actitude ,go other place. I'm fine with anyone drinking wherever. What his saying is true I'm grateful.

[@pamelalopez23]

Dammit, I love you! ❤😍 So thankful I found you! ✨🤍

[@bibibamusxx]

I really value your knowledge and enjoy your content. On the other-hand, you seem to place a lot of value on huge dump trucks. I guess it’s a preference of yours but it seems to be a main attribute when you speak of beauty. Lol no, I don’t have a huge dump truck and I’m blessed with my looks but I can see how your constant attention to huge dump trucks could be misguided to people with low self esteem and body image issues. Thanks for what you do and how many gems you share with us 🌟 ✨🤌

[@S-jy4fd]

That’s definitely not what I took from what he says at all as a girl who doesn’t have a dump truck either but is still considered conventionally attractive. He is just highlighting that many men of this generation are completely enamoured by dump trucks and thus explaining to us that it’s not what gets us loyalty, faithfulness or love and that many men are still going to love us just the way we look.