Why Men Unplug; Dead Beat Dads, Equality, Single moms, Alpha Males

🎙️🎧 Welcome back to our Podcast! In this episode, we delve into some thought-provoking topics related to modern society and parenting. We're honored to have with us Jacob Aliet, the profound writer of the game-changing book, "Unplugged."
Jacob takes us on a journey, discussing the sociological concept of why some men 'unplug' and the complexities of their relationship with society. We delve deep into the sensitive issue of Dead Beat Dads - a candid discussion about responsibility, societal perception, and the impact on families.
Switching gears, we explore the world of single moms, admiring their resilience, strength, and undying spirit in the face of adversity.
Lastly, we take a scientific detour and touch upon the topic of ovulation. Why women look for the alpha males during ovulation.

[@omondiantony1207]

Mr. Aliet. you are such a GEM! very rich in knowledge and wisdom. I endorse you to be maendeleo ya wanaume chairman for 10years

[@TheJagero]

Glad you enjoyed the episode

[@esthernjenga9117]

Best conversations Jagero… I love your work , as a woman,Jacob has made me understand myself and I would recommend women to start listening to what men are saying for the outcomes they want.

[@annem963]

100% correct, women want men who are leaders, better than them in all aspects, physically, financially, intelligence etc. Otherwise there will be no respect/submission.

[@TheJagero]

Relationships can be built on many things, and what works for one couple might not work for another. There are plenty of strong women who are happy in partnerships where they're equals, or even the primary earners.

[@edobwoy]

​@@TheJageroThat is misleading. Jacob focuses on majority cases and not minority or individual cases. Nothing is 100%. My late mother became a bread winner and my father never told us until we were older. We NEVER experienced it because she new her role as a wife. She gave our father most of her salary to run the family. It so happened our mother graduated and joined UNDP through women career opportunities. Meanwhile, our father was lecturer at university so she quickly out earned him. Now at 34, with my wife and daughter and I can tell you very few women from my past relationships experiences, female friends and co workers I know would do what l my mother did. Our father was very strict and we saw him being the main voice in the house. I will teach my daughter early to understand the consequences of becoming a feminist woman verses a traditional minded woman and guide her to get the right man because I learned my mother was a minority case.

[@ashtonventures2454]

jagero jacob and andrew kibe should come and give men a lecture make it happen those two are the last last honest men alive

[@TheJagero]

We'd love to chat with you more bold conversations. We remain open to such discussions and collab.

[@MirriamMuthuita]

Nop kites thinking differs from aliechs

[@sarahmunga]

This is a great coversation. We want leaders, its hard to remind a man that he needs to lead. leading in all ways

[@TheJagero]

Whether it’s in the workplace, community, or personal life, effective leadership involves inspiring and guiding others. 🌟💪

[@marthaharriet1706]

Love and admire Ndiko so much! Happy to see him here A lot of information unveiled that’s true from women’s perspective But also for men also, Thank you for yet another good conversation @jagero

[@TheJagero]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We're happy to hear you found the conversation insightful. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more valuable content.

[@rosemarykamau4515]

I had started to hate Jacob from his interview with Lynn but i have realised he is saying things as they are in real life. Just that we don't like hearing those bitter truths of value declining with age. Kwanza am in my early 30 s , single with no offspring and the issue of egg quality declining is scary.

[@johnambuchi9110]

Waaaaaau! Jacob really brings out unique dimensions of life

[@isaacarona]

great work jagero a good guest he has been Aliet

[@TheJagero]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We're happy to hear you found the conversation insightful. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more valuable content.

[@owinoomondi9589]

raw, entertaining, enthralling

[@cleopatramansa6228]

I am a woman and i like female bosses. There're more understanding than men.

[@TheJagero]

That's a great point! Strong female leadership is definitely inspiring. Have you ever had a female boss who you learned a lot from?

[@africacorporatetrends1]

Thing is we are with the same women at work places and they don't like their female bosses, whats your point?

[@shirshavitalis8639]

Great content!

[@Duncan_Maina]

Very deep man conversation. I like it. Keep it up.

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for listening

[@charlesmaina2573]

This is good content

[@Lolekulaizer-b9t]

Hey really learn. I'm in Tz, how could I get that book

[@obellhumphrey8813]

Lovely, very intriguing.

[@TheJagero]

Many thanks!

[@hyllarisymon5511]

great conversation

[@TheJagero]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We're happy to hear you found the conversation insightful. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more valuable content.

[@komododragontrades]

IS THIS AFRICAS ANDREW TATE? 🔥🔥,, great

[@TheJagero]

Perhaps. And thank you 🙏

[@gudosilva3492]

Insightful, more of such content Jagero

[@TheJagero]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment. We're happy to hear you found the conversation insightful. We appreciate your support and look forward to bringing you more valuable content.

[@dolphina-pearl]

Enlightening, thank you!

[@TheJagero]

Glad it was helpful!

[@TheJagero]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@lillianwaweru5475]

The generalization is off-putting.

[@TheJagero]

Thanks for your comment! I value your feedback and will keep it in mind for future content.

[@charlesmaina2573]

Just because there are some exceptions,it doesn't mean the principles are wrong. It's seeing the world for what it is.

[@africangirl189]

True kwanza hapo kwa ovulating i disagree 😂 kabisa

[@okellonjaramba9412]

The best show of the Year.

[@MurithiMitu-xv6vk]

Great

[@TheJagero]

Thanks

[@ICTProfits]

DNA testing should be made mandatory before issuing birth certificates. Lets fix this situation.

[@TheJagero]

Did you know some countries already have procedures for requesting paternity tests after birth? It's a good conversation to have.

[@TudaOchieng]

This is exactly what I have been saying DNA test should be mandatory in hospital so that both parents can know if that is there child it will also stop hospital from exchanging babies

[@WangariAt30]

I want to disagree with the guest 35.00 Because: That's how the patriarchy works like that. It makes women seem unable and incapable. Women are " left behind " in the workplace because of this.

[@awinobrenda9619]

The biggest challenge is that he's read a lot. And read old research. Such a stereotypical way of thinking is the reason why our society is still left behind with a lot of imbalance. Human beings evolve over time, both men and women have evolved. The guest's way of thinking only shows that there is still a lot of work that needs to be done

[@TheJagero]

I hear your point about how societal expectations can sometimes hold women back in the workplace. There's definitely truth to the idea that some outdated beliefs about gender roles can make it seem like women are less capable. This can be a big factor in why women might be overlooked for promotions or opportunities. I would argue that it's not women who are being left behind, but rather that workplaces need to do better at recognizing and promoting talented women. What are your thoughts on how we can challenge these stereotypes and create a more level playing field?

[@edobwoy]

​@@awinobrenda9619men have evolved? 😂😂 men are still expected to be head of the household, pay majority of the bill in the household, buy plot and pay most to build a house, pay dowry to marry, continue to approach women. So you are totally wrong. He made you FEEL uncomfortable and clouded your logic. Women aren't virgins now, they pick and choose who to sleep with then, they take children to day care because they go to work, employ a housemaid for household work etc. Its women who have evolved while required men to remain traditional. Plus, women have become superficial...fake hair, fake nails, fake eye lashes, makeup etc

[@peterkimarimwangi4148]

This is a man talk, good job Jagero and Aliet. Here in 2025

[@joelonyiego4935]

Raw😂😂😂😂

[@TheJagero]

Glad you enjoyed the episode

[@luisokech8912]

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[@JustCiku]

Aliet, pure gold❤ so much wisdom. Love him.

[@TheJagero]

Thank you