Why Mid-30s Birthdays Are Still Worth Celebrating

Ohhhh the challenges and joys of being in our mid-30s. Despite the ups and downs, we decided to throw ourselves a fun and memorable birthday party, a dinosaur piñata, and enjoying a cake above the clouds. We rediscover the simple joys of life and remind ourselves that happiness is a journey, not a destination. Get 70% OFF on your next Huusk knife by clicking huusk.club/2Fo....
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Who are we?
We are Adam (North American) and Bernardo (Brazilian) and we are husbands whose paths crossed back in 2016, when we both still lived in Brazil. Since the very beginning, we shared a common passion for travel and nature, which has only grown over the years and led us to this unexpected journey on KZbin, which has allowed us to connect with an amazing community that we’re beyond grateful for. “Go out and make memories” is our motto of living and a constant reminder for us that true happiness doesn’t come from the material wealth we accumulate, but from the memories we create and share with our loved ones throughout our existence. We invite you to join us in our crazy journey in life and hopefully we can inspire you to go out and make some memories on your own. Welcome aboard! #2foreigners

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

We’ve fallen in love with this new knife that helps us a lot in the kitchen and while we are camping. Make sure to go to huusk.club/2Foreigners to get 70% off on your Huusk knife. This is a special video for us. We find bad that we weren’t able to celebrate our birthdays this year so we decided to plan a special birthday party for us so that we would have a fond memory of our birthdays this year. We just didn’t know it would turn out like this.

[@Chihiro_eilish]

❤️❤️❤️

[@susiew.9012]

Hi guys glad you're having a great birthday again. Sometimes in life fun is put on pause so that we can get the crap out of the way. Give yourselves a break you have to have a few downs so that the ups can be enjoyed so much better. By the way I have those knives and trust me they are phenomenal, I've had mine a couple of years now and they are still sooo sharp! A lovely fun vlog guys, til next time love and hugs 💝🤩🏳️‍🌈

[@noobking9438]

I like chopping too....i felt so calm jkjkjkjkj

[@RBS_]

***WHOOO-HOOO, YOU GUYS!*** (11:02) "🥳" ...ha-HAAA!! ...well, I tuned in for a "SO2F" vlog, and I got a Series EPISODE, complete w/ angles, shots, lighting, scenes, fonts...I WOULD'VE said 'acting', but, it's your lives...SO, may I say THIS... (cont.) ...Your 30's do NOT 'su-ck'; It is the transformative Years in Ones' Life, and it shows how much your are NOW ready to settle down, stabilize your union, & to decide and prepare for your future(s) TOGETHER...We NEVER 'figure it out', we ADAPT, and, you "MEN* are now realizing that....in your THIRTIES.... We all watch you, because we are seeing the GROWTH of you Two, individually & collectively; "Husband & Husband" are already over that hump, and your union will be just as strong as theirs, because of it..... ...But, still find time for your individual traits, which also help your Union, which will only strengthen...SO, Thanks for the Love (8:24), the 'slips' (19:04), and, the RUMPS (7:02) ...nice to see SOME things don't change!! "😜" ...ha-HAAA!! ....Keep makin' those memories, we'll be watchin'!! ...TOODLES!!

[@susiew.9012]

@@RBS_ Amen to that.💝

[@thedurtfamily]

Who else thinks Bernardo and Adam deserve ALL the birthday wishes to come true??? Sending y’all love. 💖

[@tyronecrew7821]

Me, they are a great couple and they love each other. All the peace and love to them both

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

You’re too sweet guys, thank you to your family. We hope you all are doing well and staying healthy. We’re sending you all a big hug ❤.

[@michaelrodriguez9145]

Totally agree with you guys

[@vikasseth7974]

Me, they are really a wonderful magical couple,all best wishes to them for there happy life ahead, it's always nice and cheerful to watch them in their videos. Love you loads!!!❤️

[@scottpella7021]

My two favorites on KZbin! Happy Birthdays and many more to come.

[@enzomthethwa5861]

I love that they don't need a big group of friends to enjoy celebrating their birthdays. They are content with each other. 🥰🥰🥰

[@austin1975b]

❤

[@movieprod]

Whenever I want to smile, I watch you two...lucky to have found you! Now, Bernardo, your editing is brilliant - I am retired from the Directors Guild where for the last 45 years I've directed Episodic TV and Movies and I cherish your beautiful instincts. Your camera work and music choices guided by your tender heart is extraordinary...and I should know as I've literally worked with hundreds of editors. It's my hope that one day KZbin will present awards, you should get the KZbin Emmy - oh yes, and Adam is good too!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow! What a beautiful comment from you John, thank you so so much. It is our goal to win an award of some kind for our KZbin memories. There are some awards for KZbin so we will keep our fingers crossed :). Thank you for being here with us and for supporting our work and love.

[@movieprod]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners Love !!

[@juhamiettinen6261]

They are absolutely fabulous 👍 they make me smile too 💪

[@fxbear]

You guys remind me so much of my husband and myself. I lived in a cabin in the mountains and he just showed up on my doorstep during a storm. Happiest 15 years of my life. Not without its struggles. The first 4 were my getting through cancer and his getting through meth addiction. Once we survived that, we felt there was nothing we couldn’t get through. He had been sober 8 years when we were wintering in Tucson. Someone offered him coke and he slipped. The coke was cut with something. He died that night. I didn’t leave our cabin for 3 years and gained 70lbs. He wouldn’t want me to suffer as I’ve been. Watching you reminds me of what we had and my life is not over. We never missed a day looking into each other’s eyes and saying how much we loved each other. That’s one comfort I’ve had, knowing how much he loved me. You are so lucky to have found each other. Cherish it.

[@carnivoresarefreaks7868]

Wow.That's so sad.I'm surprised you didn't get a reply from Adam and Barnardo.What a terrible thing to happen.You loved one another so much.Take care of yourself.Try to find happiness again.xxx

[@Moregun619]

Can I confess that i watch your videos EVERY SINGLE DAY ever since I found out this channel.. i mean., sometimes i even repeat the ones i watched already..you guys are so sweet and show me enough reasons that true love exists ❤️ sending warm hug and lots of love your way.. y’all my favorite I SWEAR.. much love guys 🇦🇪

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow Junaid bin Laden, thank you so so much for watching our videos and for leaving a sweet comment. We are so glad to hear you enjoy our videos, that makes us smile.

[@Moregun619]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners getting your reply means alot 🥹🥹that makes me love y’all even more now Bless you guys!❤️ when ever i watch your videos.. i smile I bet everyone does that too. You guys are amazing

[@shaunberg976]

Adam and Bernardo you deserve all the love in the world, may you always be happy💖you guys

[@davidlogan4329]

Totally agree.

[@reemalhameli4563]

I just found your channel and I've been binge watching your videos for the past 3 days. Been having a tough couple of weeks and I'm at the brink of a burnout but I gotta say..watching your videos has really brought me peace and calmed my anxiety. Wishing you both a belated happy birthday. May you both always be happy and healthy. Thank you 💕

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

What a beautiful and kind comment Reem Al Hameli, thank you so much! We hope that this comment finds you well and that you are feeling a bit more calm. We're sending you a big hug.

[@reemalhameli4563]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners I am truly touched & choked up that you responded to my comment 🥹 reciprocating the warm hug & hoping I could meet you one day to properly thank you for being your wonderful genuine selves & sharing your lovely memories. Sending you both lots of love ❤️

[@JasonB95]

You guys outdo yourselves with every new upload. You are more than just You Tubers at this point. You are Grade A cinematographers. I have so much respect for your efforts. Thanks for sharing another masterpiece with us. Greetings from Guyana. ❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Jason, your comment means a lot.Thank you so much for watching! Big hugs ❤️

[@surajbaraniya6099]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners so very very nice video brother

[@carlosdegodoy1022]

That's it, Jason. The guys outdo themselves with every post. Sometimes it seems like there is a third person doing the shots, an experienced director.

[@surajbaraniya6099]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners so very thanks brother hii bro please me whatsaap number sent me brother

[@michael6185]

Beautiful video. Memories are made from the "little" moments. Like, swinging at a pinata in the middle of a forest and hiking above the clouds with your partner. You are both very deserving and lovely human beings and are a good match for each other. Happiness to you both ... always.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Well said! We had such a great time recording this video. Happiness to you as well! ❤️

[@surajbaraniya6099]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners so very beauty video brother please me whatsaap number sent me brother please

[@surajbaraniya6099]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners brother please me number sent me bro

[@giannishen]

Every segment of your life is warm and beautiful, thank you so much for sharing! 👍🥰🙌 With infinite blessings, happy birthday! 🎂🎁🎈🌹❤🎉

[@vladimirchorchordin5615]

Guys, what I see in all your videos, is your love for each other. It's in your eyes. So nice to see it.

[@JulandP]

Seeing this video made me happy. Im now in my mid 40s. It seems as we get older with added experiences in life we can be set too much in our adulthood. We need a brake from that and what a wonderful way both of you went about expressing the lighthearted youthfulness that is within. It made me want to feel as free as i did when in my youth. Great video!

[@cristianperez5452]

Aside from celebrating your birthdays, it’s also good to celebrate your growth and your experiences because they are worth celebrating. Happy Birthday 🎊

[@Enri45100]

The editing is fantastic. It's like a professional movie.

[@tanjaschwarz4845]

Alles Gute zum Geburtstag! 🍾🍸🍸🎂🌹🌷IHR SÜSSEN! 🐭🐭

[@arthurhorne6491]

Most beautiful video !! With two most awesome loving souls together !!! Remember God put you two together to help other people with rhe same problems !! God Bless you 2 Adam and Bernardo !!! ❤❤❤❤

[@ManiKumar-kb7vn]

What else anyone needs in life..... Pure , selfless bonding .... You guys are inspiration

[@jarvisbutler4739]

Happy birthday never forget to stop and live in the moment.

[@liesbethrensen8212]

I just returned from Phoenix after spending a wonderful week with part of the Steps- family. And this video is a beautiful end to this special holiday. We made memories, ate s’mores!!! (Loved it😋) seen a lot and talked a lot. This all thanks to you and Darlene of course. It is good to see you make this special memory… to see so much love between you is heartwarming. This video is very special to me! Big hug and lots of love, Elisabeth🥰😘

[@chriswalton6899]

this was such a beautiful video, so happy you gave yourselves a birthday celebration to remember! love and warmth to you both! 😃💜

[@jessicashlager7193]

Happy birthday Bernardo and Adam! You are not ever too old to have fun but sometimes it just takes a reminder and a plan. Love the pinata, hats, & candle!!!

[@a.j.stauft1779]

Omg , boys you deserve and require happiness, love, intimacy.. nothing matters but each other😚💋💕

[@tampico333]

Hola, buenas noches, felicidades, se aprecia con afecto lo que hacen, es un buen ejemplo de la estructura de vida con todo respeto, muchas gracias, se aprende mucho con ustedes, yo particularmente comparto mi vida con mi pareja y hemos crecido

[@AlanSloan88]

You're never too old to have fun, especially when it's with the one you love. Big hugs to A + B ❤

[@timothykandel169]

The filming captured both the playfulness of your birthdays and the splendor of being above the clouds and away from earthly issues, problems and life questions. Thank you for sharing this ethereal birthday party! Love you both: Happy Birthday Adam and Bernardo!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hey Tim! Love how you interpreted the video in such a deep way. Thank you so much for always being here with us. Take care! ❤️

[@hamishmacfleetwood5229]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners Hello im gay when does a guy come to me?

[@aif3301]

Hey guys! I'm from Rio Grande do Sul (BRA) and I just want to say how much your relationship inspires me. I'm having a hard time and those words at the end of the video means a lot to me. I wish you a long, long life together. Happiness, health and a great new cycle of life for both of you. 🍀

[@EricT3769]

Boa sorte para você cara.

[@carlosdegodoy1022]

Hi, Arthur. Nice to know you’re from Rio Grande do Sul, a lost place the world knows nothing about, in southern South America. RS differs from São Paulo, Rio, Bahia, or Minas Gerais, which have an identity in some rare spots on the planet if any. But RS exists, and there you are, following the guy’s memories. But as a Brazilian, Bernando is aware of RS and would certainly show his empathy if he were to read your comment, something a bit difficult among hundreds of others. I have commented on about twenty of their videos, but the boys must have read only two of them, not out of disregard but due to the number of subscribers captivated by the quality of their posts and by the charming humbleness of the couple. Go on making comments and engrave RS on the map. I believe that one of the statements at the end of the video that stirred you was Bernardo’s affirmative sentence when he says: “One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in the past couple of years is that I get to decide what my own version of happiness looks like.” He meant that it is up to him to determine what is relevant and on what foundations to elevate his life to satisfy the very needs that beat within him. It's not anyone else's concern. Hard time? Who doesn’t go through that? I don’t want to underestimate yours, for our troubles are always the most unbearable in the world, for they’re ours, and only we can deal with them. A&B’s memories have been a source of inspiration for many who follow them and sort of therapy as examples of ways (courage, willfulness, and boldness) to resort to for warding off suffering. Tell the guys about you the way they’ve shared their “hard time” experiences too. It helps smooth our pains.

[@EricT3769]

@@carlosdegodoy1022 Written very well. Great sentiment.

[@EricT3769]

Isn’t Porto Alegre in Rio Grande do Sul? I’m trying to teach myself Brazilian Portuguese, and the program I use, Fluenz, is taught in the first two levels by Sonya Gill, who visited the city and talked about the accent there.

[@carlosdegodoy1022]

That’s right, Eric. Porto Alegre is its state capital. It’s a city of 1,500,000 inhabitants with particular idiosyncrasies if compared to the rest of the country. Perhaps the heavy Hispanic influence has given the state its own characteristics, and so has the massive presence of Italian, German, Polish, and other immigrants. These groups sought out this southernmost area due to the climate similarity to their places of origin. Brazil is known for the ease with which its people establish friendships and closeness with acquaintances. It is certainly not this that would give a sympathy award to the circumspect natives of Rio Grande do Sul. This self-containment is perhaps a heritage of the state's more recent European colonization in its history. Brazilians themselves usually say that the "gaucho" is closed in on himself and arrogant. Maybe; I’d rather say that once the caution and mistrust of the first contact are gone, the "sul-rio-grandense"(*) becomes a solid and faithful friend, not a fickle one. The peasant guasca(**) is usually like that. The metropolitan regions are more cosmopolitan, where one may find a variety of behaviors regardless of the country. (*) Inhabitant of the state of Rio Grande do Sul (**) A redneck; the same as gaucho, but more rude and busy with the work of the countryside and with the animals; by extension, devoid of social refinements. Here is an enthralling dissertation by Ondina Fachel Leal you may download. It depicts a sociological portrait of this biped that populates the pampas from Patagonia to Rio Grande do Sul: lume.ufrgs.br/bitstream/handle/10183/69822/000024763.pdf;jsessionid=7D9CE4DBF4E52BE5281F1F97EE16ADC4?sequence=1 *_Note of a catty-dirty-malicious mind like mine:_* The title of the V chapter of this weighty and puritan college writing of patient research, academic analysis, and worked out with great care and nicety of detail doesn’t mean what it seems to mean… although it means it at first sight, at second sight, and at third sight. After all, it suggests significantly venerated in the macho popular culture of the self-respecting authentic gaucho, whether in the cold pampas or China's Gobi desert. Porto Alegre is not a special spot; it's like thousands of cities in the world, neither better nor worse. If you dream of going there someday, don't expect to find a Dubai-like jammed with stunning architectural buildings or religiously well-behaved citizens. Now and then, it may suck like a kind of Bangladesh. Some stuff about the city: www.iheartbrazil.com/things-to-do-in-porto-alegre-brazil/ So you’re studying Portuguese. Studying a language without much teaching available on the local market and with few people interested in it isn't something easy. When such an offer of Portuguese learning does exist, the tongue is the European Portuguese, in fact, the Portuguese of Portugal. The Portuguese spoken in Brazil is not available because few people in the world realize that, even though the country had been a colony of Portugal, its language has a variegated phonation and its own particularities not found in other countries of Lusitanian heritage. Although they are the same language, the big difference is the phonetics. There are differences in modulation and rhythm of speech. The grammatical structure is the same, but in semantics, some care has to be taken to avoid ridicule or puns. Even in Brazil, because of its extension, these differences are vivid. It has been said in Brazil that the ugliest accents are those of São Paulo, Rio de Janeiro, Bahia and Rio Grande do Sul. Of course, this was said by someone who is neither Paulista, Carioca, Baiano, or Gaúcho. In any country where there are many accents, none of them is right or wrong since it supplies the needs of relationships, coexistence, and all individuals do communicate with one another. A standard would have to be defined to filter the "wrong" ones. This standard would be a mere political-administrative decision without any philological support. It would be something as postulating that the correct Latin today is Romanian. Spanish, Italian, and all others of Latin ancestry would then be impugned. Every language is in permanent change. It is like in geology: where there is a calm sea today, there will be a mountain thousands of years from now. Any being who lived through this span would not perceive the movements of change, and the landscape for it would always have seemed static in its place. Ugly for each of us is what is not a mirror. The tendency of separate - not necessarily isolated - human groups is that they develop their tribal lingo oblivious to the irritation of grammarians, who want to freeze what is dynamic. Communications today, such as radio, television, and the Internet, have immense power to standardize the language but are still far from reaching everyone. When they do, the result may not be the desired one. In Rio Grande do Sul, the informal verbal person of address between family members, people of the same hierarchy, or intimate social relationships had been the second person singular TU. Nowadays, the plural person VÓS is almost used only in epistolary or literary contexts, gospel writing, and novels about royalty. It applies to one or more persons. Spanish, French, and German (DU) preserve this personal pronoun. I find it profoundly beautiful. However, the prolific literary and television publishing production of Rio and São Paulo was like an octopus. It threw its tentacles all over the corners of the language-Europeanized south, hammering out an amalgam of incorrect verbal inflections. Pronoun TU, the vernacular jewel of Lazio's last flower in Brasil, was sentenced to shame and death. What exists today is a messy mixture of TU and VOCÊ, where the gauchos use TU in the third person verbal desinence, that is, the same morpheme for VOCÊ, saying and even writing things like TU É. TU FOI, TU COMPRA, TU COMPROU, TU LÊ, TU LEU, QUE TU COMPRE, QUE TU COMPRASSE, PARA TU FAZER, QUANDO TU VIER when it should be respectively TU ÉS, TU FOSTE, TU COMPRAS, TU COMPRASTE, TU LÊS, TU LESTE, QUE TU COMPRES, QUE TU COMPRASTE, PARA TU FAZERES, QUANDO TU VIERES. It sounds painful to the ear. In this case, it was not the shallow sea that became a mountain in thousands of years but a few minutes-lasting tsunami that shipwrecked a linguistic monument. As I said above, languages ​​are dynamic. Based on this, what is a blunder today may be the norm tomorrow. All this blah-blah-blah was because you said that you are studying the Portuguese spoken in Brazil. Great! Don't give up, no matter whether it is just for pleasure with no practical goal. Read good authors (the classics); the web can contribute a lot.

[@jeffsanders4562]

🎉 Happy Birthday Guys 🎉

[@tomkuwahara188]

Happy Birthday again!!!! You just proved that having maybe not a perfect birthday/childhood doesn't mean you can't have one now. Wonderful to have both of you doing the narration; more of that please!!! And the scary part where Adam started to slide down the rocky hill with the panic in B's voice did get me. So glad you could get out and just have fun complete with dino hats and dino pinata. Thankfully no bears or cougars along the way. Keep doing the silly and as well as the serious. Lots of love.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

So true Tom! Now we have the power to give ourselves some of the things that we might have missed in our childhood. Gladly we finished the hike safely and didn't have to use that bear spray. 😅 Lots of love your way! ❤️

[@jokesdaily6051]

You guys deserve all the positive happiness and joy 😊

[@pppmanly]

Happy Belated Birthday, guys! 🎈🍰 This video should win some sort of KZbin award for outstanding editing, inspiration, pathos, cinematography, narration, music choice, etc. It made me laugh, think, shed a few tears, and so on. Well done!! 👍🏽👏🏽🏆

[@julianignaciomurillo]

I can tell you guys that have the most important by your side, you have each other. I'm sure it's very true

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Muchas gracis Julian. It's always a pleasure to see you in the Zoom chats.

[@julianignaciomurillo]

@@Stepsof2ForeignersSomeday day I will talk to you guys in the Zoom chat. I am still learning to speak English and improving my hearing. Abrazos y besos

[@ronaldsherley4743]

I’m glad you made the effort to celebrate your birthdays even if it was over two months ago. You both needed to get away from all of the stress you have had and do something fun. You both are so lucky to have each other and I want to wish you many more Happy Birthdays together!🎉❤😊

[@RichNDNGuy]

The concern and fear in Bernardo's voice when Adam fell ❤

[@deibyrosales9810]

Good morning, surprisingly, I will remember something quite a bit forever. We celebrate with smiles and joy the new goals to be achieved. Congratulations, blessings for you and for both of us, go ahead.

[@bryanpartin1830]

Best wishes, always remember it could be worse, keep positive.

[@tstieber]

Okay I haven't watched the whole video since I know my husband's going to watch it too so I'll save it for later, but just getting a few minutes into it, I can totally understand how easy it is to neglect yourself and take time for the fun things that make life special, when you're going through the stress of figuring out where you're going to be, having to do the routines of work, all that stuff that's pressure and doesn't put you in the mood for the things that matter. Maybe channels like this are actually really good and that they go both ways, viewers find inspiration from you, but they also remind you to keep finding yours. I can definitely say that in our mid-30s, we didn't have things totally figured out either. We were dealing with that last big recession around 2010, we had bought a bunch of real estate that we couldn't afford, our business was really really slow, and we could barely afford to go out to eat with friends, some of who were raking in tons of money while we were playing musical condos, renting out our various properties to whoever would rent them and then living in whatever was left over, and that wasn't all in the same city. So every few months, someone would be moving out of one place and we would have to go back there, fix up everything, live there for a little bit, and rent it out again. We didn't want to foreclose on these properties and did whatever it took but it was extraordinarily stressful. In 2013, my husband, who was was born with genetic lung disease, ended up at the hospital with the flu, and it took him 7 months to feel like he was recovered. He was 39 at that point. And the economy still sucked. The following year, we decided to make radical life changes, we adopted a dog, realized we wanted and needed a house with a yard, we were able to sell all of our properties one by one for some decent profit and bought a crazy big house that was totally underpriced and that we could never afford again, and we put all our eggs in that basket. And we we're so happy to be settled in our forties, not having to wonder what was ahead all the time and just having adventures for fun. It's given us this amazing sense of peace instability. And all it really takes is to be settled in a place that makes you feel like home. At the same time, we watch so many of our gay couple friends moving cities and houses all the time, and honestly I don't think being uprooted all the time is good for the psyche. In other countries, people put down roots and get settled in places for a long time, and then they go travel to other places for variety, and I think that's so much healthier. The only tough thing is finding those personal connections that really mean something. People are always over scheduled, working too much, and once you do find really good friendships with people, some of them are bound to move away again, and you have to find new ones. Even if you stay in one place, maintaining really solid personal connections is always a work in progress. No matter how hard we try to control it, life will always be dynamic and never completely static. But it's nice to have a balance of those things we can count on and those things that keep life moving and changing and interesting. Anyway, so sorry to ramble on and on, hopefully seeing our perspective and knowing that it's totally normal not to have things figured out at any particular age and that other people didn't have stuff figured out at 35 is helpful perspective for you guys. The most important thing is that you have each other, that is the most important anchor in your entire life, more than career or finances. Through all ups and downs and stresses and triumphs, my husband and I have always been at each other's side, and every day it's a day we can't wait to wake up to. Keep making each other your biggest priority, make each other laugh, be playful, be sure to call each other cute names, give each other kisses and hugs, and flirt with each other. Everything else will eventually fall into place, and even when it does, there will probably be other challenges ahead in the future. Hugs to you from Tom and David in San Diego.

[@platoman214]

A masterful comment.

[@tstieber]

@@platoman214 aw that's so nice of you!

[@jadesolich8589]

Such an amazing inspiring comment that it's helpful alot even if I'm only 20 lol!

[@jamesgraham9369]

Great advice Tom

[@tstieber]

@@jadesolich8589 I just noticed your comment, I'm so glad it meant something to you. Take care!

[@josuetespan5352]

El sentimiento que transmiten es inmenso. Gracias por compartir sus momentos vulnerables, sus experiencias y sus momentos no tan buenos, por ser ustedes. Los amo chicos, les deseo todo lo bonito del mundo. 💕

[@diegopacheco2107]

Representatividade é tudo. E vcs são uma inspiração. Conteúdo leve. Divertido. Imagens lindas e muito 💘 amor!!!!

[@deanr3417]

Exactly! Happiness is your own definition! No one else’s life needs to dictate what you should want or strive for in yours! Great takeaway message guys ❤

[@sammyh333]

may they all come true

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you Sam :)

[@alfashop9238]

Perfect couple.......i hope ur life full of joy.....

[@rodrigoa5108]

Feliz aniversário pra vcs! É sempre uma alegria assistir um vídeo de vcs. Que venham muitos outros aniversários pela frente, com muito amor e felicidade!!!

[@brianfrank7022]

Happy belated birthday to you both. Thank you for another wonderful video. Wishing you guys the best. ❤️

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How sweet Brian. Thank you so much. Glad you enjoyed this video.

[@susanthaweerakoon7819]

🎉

[@monk3yboy69]

I think you two boys have an amazing life and have created the most awesome memories. You will treasure them forever no matter what happens. Watching you two boys in your domestic setting reminds me so much of myself and my partner. We have been together 26 years and it’s still going strong. Yes , there will always be times when you think life is getting away from you or you are not allowing time for each other, but you’ll realise just having each other and being there for each other is a blessing in itself. It’s always difficult to see how good you have things when life is going on madly around you. It’s great that you can see that and then step back and take time out. But you boys have built something really special and that will keep you strong no matter what life deals you.

[@SandraRegina-tl2be]

Olá, tenho tanto carinho por vcs, sua história mexeu comigo desde o início, quando assisto a algum vídeo anterior, na mesma hora penso, já estive aqui com vcs, minha admiração pelo Adam por ter passado por momentos tão sombrios, sou tão feliz por ter vcs em minha vida, bj grande Bernardo, vcs são os maridos mais amados 💙🧡❤️💛💚💜🥰

[@sammyh333]

beautiful short story film ;ots of love

[@alexandremarcal6853]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Uau, que vídeo maravilhoso!!! Feliz aniversário meninos, que dias melhores viram, que a felicidade e esse espírito divertido seja constante na vida desse vocês.... Obrigado por fazer a minha vida mais feliz com o vídeo de vocês... 🥰😍😁😘🎉🥳🎂

[@rickwallace4226]

Happy birthday guys,,, Rick

[@leoguntang1213]

I Love you Always Bernardo and Adam 🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗 Love Always From The Philippines 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🥰🥰🥰 You are both Incredible 😍😍😍😍❤❤❤

[@tomobrien9483]

Happiest of birthdays wishes to you both 🎂. Remember, no matter how old you are, we’re all still kids inside, just matured. 🤗❤️

[@ksagg2008]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this ! What a great video and I loved how you guys "honored" the child within. That is SO important. HUgs to you both, Patreon Kevin

[@geekphysique4564]

I agreed that as you get older that you eventually forget how to be a kids, how to have fun or simply just take a moment to loved one self. We live in such a fast pace society that is constantly growing, evolving, that at time it so difficult to keep up with all the busy noise of being an adults.

[@denisecraps5650]

This was definitely awesome & “Always Remember To Go Out & Make Memories & Totally Celebrate Both Of You All Special Day.

[@andrzejmaranda3699]

Stepsof2Foreigners: VERY INTIMATE video!

[@janpena5073]

I am so excited! Discovering your lives is a wonderful thing, you are an inspiration to believe even more in goodness and love. I admire and appreciate you so much. CONGRATULATIONS!!! for all the birthdays, for life. A big hug from Cuba.

[@gustavoserna6315]

Thanks for sharing, nice place.!!!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much for watching this video Gustavo.

[@anisskhoukhi5350]

I love both of you 😍🥰

[@joejohny5853]

You guys will be amazing parents for sure!!

[@robertbeining141]

Not only should you allow yourself to relax and have fun often, but you deserve it and it is vital for the nourishment and growth of your souls. Life is tough and honestly, I will be 60 at the end of the month, and I still don't have life figured out. So, I learned awhile back, to just try to enjoy the journey and the answers will come through experiences. I say, always be good and kind to yourself first, then you can do the same with others in the world!

[@mikekelly1151]

** I loved this video and the format. Especially the outtakes of Adam and Bernardo as kids. Such a special glimpse into your childhood lives. This was the best birthday present you could give to yourselves. Having fun like kids. You need more of this in your lives. Always wish I could be there with you both. Happy belated birthday. Love you both! ❤❤🐻🎂**

[@hugochanel6517]

Guys your editing skills got so much better!!😮 I am half way thru the video and I feel like I am watching a movie!! Good job!🎉❤

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow, that is a huge compliment Hugo, thank you.

[@surajbaraniya6099]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners so very beauty nice video brother hii number sent me brother

[@bobrown2901]

What a great Birthday celebration!! My favorite was hiking thru the Bear neighborhood. 😫🐻 I'm so sorry to say I'm busy next year when you celebrate. I'm happy to see you had some fun finally, and can't wait to see how you continue having fun. One very nice thing was all the kisses! Love you both and thanks for making my morning better. XOXO BO 💙💜

[@kanatx]

Beautiful video! That last shot is Best Cinematography Oscar-worthy!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much! We were so excited that there wasn't any wind for us to fly the drone.

[@wonderbeau]

Greetings from Canada. Your post make me get goose bumps. The song that come to mind is Go Rest high on that mountain, son your work on earth is done. Bless you both.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow, your comment gave us goosebumps and a smile, thank you. We are sending you a big hug from the US. Stay warm.

[@Shadowshard73]

First, the video is amazing. Visually and emotionally just stunning. Secondly, you are both so lucky to have found each other. Individually you are wonderful men but together you are beyond what words can describe. You are growing as both individuals and a couple and the love you share remains a light in this dark world. Much love sent to both of you and happy (un)birthday to each of you.

[@denisekoch3139]

Another great video. Happy birthday to you both. I sometimes wish I could go back to my 30's and do some things differently. Enjoy your youth as it passes in a blink of an eye.

[@bobrown2901]

Very true, youth is gone so fast, when you turn around you're in your 70's. 😃😵

[@yonekitamoto4849]

E hoje, conhecendo um pouco mais da vida de vocês .. Vocês são maravilhosos, únicos !! Como não amar essa união, encontro de almas .. Apaixonadíssima por vocês !!!🤗💓💞❤❤.. Ps. a paisagem acima das nuvens, espetacular !!! Happy Birthday, Happy Life, Adam&Bernardo !!!!!!!

[@josemiranda7161]

Happy birthday to you guys. Thank you guys for such a beautiful way of showing that you can love and face the obstacles of life together. You are precious human beings. I follow you since the beginning and forever. every time I enjoy more of your experiences. Thank you for sharing them and being examples of love and support to follow. I love you very much. Louisville Kentucky

[@TimeForNature1]

It's so important to keep your inner child alive and well!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

You are so true. We are working on that.

[@marcos-ll2yr]

Parabens Bernardo. To aqui há anos, fico feliz que vcs continuam firme e forte juntos. Abraços.

[@dancallido8311]

Happy birthday 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@orlandobautista2848]

What a Beautiful Mountain View, Hello 🤗 Filipino Fan 🇵🇭 🎁🎂🎈🎉

[@Chihiro_eilish]

you guys always make me happy 🙂❤️

[@rosagonzalez1544]

Simplesmente maravilhoso meninos! Impressionante como vcs conseguem superar tudo e se manter juntos. Se amando e sendo cúmplices um do outro. Inspirador! E vcs têm razão, esse vídeo é precioso. Só posso agradecer a vcs por nos mostrarem vossas vidas e pelo menos pra mim tem sido sempre muito muito bom assisti-los.

[@MarcoWuppertal]

Seriously, you‘re Movies are a work of art. You can be so proud of you and you’re work!!! Love you ❤💙💜💚💛

[@samma995]

Oh , guys, this video was so lovely. Happy YOU! 😍😍😍

[@PolrisTired]

Woah this video feels so cinematic and it's so well recorded. Wonderful stuff! My bf recommended this channel to me and now I looove your videos! Nice to see you both happy :)

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How sweet, thank you so much for joining us and tell your bf thank you :). We hope to see you here in our next video.

[@PolrisTired]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners Thank you! I did tell him. He's a huge fan of the channel and when I told him you guys had responded to my comment his response was "Thats so crazyyyyyy ksjodnaofnzojfg" haha. He was really excited, though he wasn't sure what to say to you guys but I can confidently say he loves the content. You two live the wonderful and wholesome life we wish we could have (school and other factors get in the way rn), and we're both grateful to have found the channel! :)

[@jadesolich8589]

Happy Birthday to you both!!!! I've been watching you both for 2 years now and have left comments on some of your videos! This video absolutely made my day today after a hard day at work; I worked a double at Chilis and it was rough. It also makes my day everytime I see one of your videos! Love from Texas and stay safe when y'all continue to hope for my comments and I love you both so much even though I don't know you both personally except through your videos lol!! :) ;).

[@dumper2dust]

happy birthday from Indonesia! keep on being a blessing for lot of gay/queer people!

[@rogerjboulanger4151]

Another great show. You guys are perfect together. Enjoying all your shows and great commercial.

[@mateomoreira8009]

Happy birthday to you both! You're incredibly inspirational and I can't wait to see all the wonderful memories you will make! LOVE YOUUU ALL 🥰🥰❤️❤️

[@1251miriam]

Hermoso video y que lindo recordar la infancia ,me encanto el paisaje y el Cumpleaños 🎂 Dios los siga bendiciendo y ustedes sean cada día más Feliz, los quiero muchísimo desde Chile ❤️❤️🎂🍰🎂❤️🎂🎂❤️❤️

[@dugald56]

You look like very handsome unicorns in the opening sequence! It’s so nice to see you again. As for having your life sorted in your 30s, I’m 66 and still have no idea. I think that’s true for everyone; but most people mask or deny it by being ’busy’ all the time. Relax and don’t sweat the small stuff. And take time to notice. It’s not always easy, but do it so it’s not forced on you as it was on me (in my mid-40s).

[@tidy]

Age is a state of mind!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

So true Tidy!

[@kelmittj.rodriguez9539]

I love your videos, never change the way of your love of each other. Many blessings in your relationship. Big huggs for both of you. Greetings from Puerto Rico

[@SirLOUIEGEE]

Stay safe and healthy. I'm always happy to see all your videos. That's why I will be very sad if you will stop downloading your videos. All I know both of you make me happy every time I saw all your doings on your videos. I love you, guys!😘

[@aldairesnunes]

Não teria lugar mais lindo e fantástico para se comemorar uma aniversário. Daqui deu pra sentir a sensação de liberdade. E também amo sentir isso. Vida longa a vocês e que os obstáculos da vida sejam apenas mais um desafio para crescer cada vez mais. Grande abraço.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Oi Aldaires! Aniversário acima das nuvens, sem preocupação com o as questões cotidianas que se passam lá embaixo... recomendamos muito! Um grande abraço e obrigado por estar aqui!

[@bobbymack4577]

Happy Birthday Adam and Bernardo and so much more 🎉

[@fritzrathmann7318]

Happy birthdays, guys. It take time to find out what's important to you in your lives, but you've got each other and that's better than any big house, 2.5 kids, pets, whatever. What a scare when Adam slipped and fell, but scariest for me was that cliff you were sitting on the edge of when you were eating your cake. I was shaking the whole time. I don't do heights well and I wasn't even there! ;-)

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you Fritz! You're totally right, we have each other and we're so grateful for that. The hike was a bit scary and standing on those rocks above the clouds was pretty intimidating, we are not gonna lie. 😅

[@that1monk]

It's always super fun to watch people who are in love and are also best friends. Thank you for sharing. ❤🌈

[@patrickcoupaye8170]

Joyeux anniversaire 🎂 à vous deux et encore pleins à venir. Très belle vidéo et que d amour entre vous. Bises de France

[@stevec404]

OMG - That picture of you sitting on a hill above the clouds...!!!

[@corinnetuc-perissie3105]

Bonsoir à tous les deux et merci encore pour ce beau moment de vos anniversaires ,c'est vraiment une idée très originale, un moment pour vous et un grand moment de partage mutuel!!! Je n'ai pas voulu voir la vidéo de suite car ensuite j'ai trop hâte d'attendre la prochaine vidéo!!! C'est toujours un moment de bonheur!!! Vous êtes vraiment super tous les deux et tellement complices également amoureux!!! Bisous +++ et bonnes ballades avec les toutous promeneurs!!Prenez bien soin de vous+++ je vous aime!!❤❤❤

[@briankelly85]

I hope your birthday is more than epic, although you’re pretty epic all year long!

[@marchall5173]

The beginning narration from B just set the perfect tone for this beautiful little mini movie. All the feels for sure. So glad you *finally* got to celebrate both of your birthdays. It was perfect. And that view above the clouds...priceless. Much love to you both. - Marc ❤

[@secranb]

I’m loving this mountain man papa bear vibe I’m getting from Adam!

[@frankwilkins9284]

Thank you for sharing your laughter and happiness with us. It doesn't matter how old we are there is always a kid within us. Much love to both of you!! Looking forward to many more of your videos, love you both!!

[@tazmanbkr]

I was concerned when I saw the title of this video as I would hate to see two of my favorite people be down on life. But as usual your video was inspiring and uplifting! In the end you both realized that you have a wonderful and beautiful life together and only you have the power to decide if this is what you want your life to be. Happy belated birthday to both of you and keep moving forward. You both are special! 🌈❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳‍🌈

[@winnieyang8776]

Happy Birthday to both of you! Above the clouds and childhood memories is a very special way to celebrate birthdays, especially the water guns fight was so much fun. The view from the top of the mountain and the sunrise was spectacular! But Adam scared me when he fell! I like what Bernardo said at the end of the video, "I get to decide what my own version of happiness looks like." 👍 Thanks for sharing a funny birthday with us! 🥰

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hey Winnie! So generous of you! ❤️ Yeah, Adam's fall scared me a lot and for a split of a second I thought of the worse. Thank you for always being here with us! 🥰🥰