Overcoming Relationship Challenges: answering your difficult questions

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Who are Steps of 2 Foreigners?
We are Adam (North American) and Bernardo (Brazilian) and we are husbands whose paths crossed back in 2016, when we both still lived in Brazil. Since the very beginning, we shared a common passion for travel and nature, which has only grown over the years and led us to this unexpected journey on KZbin filming these memories which has allowed us to get in touch with an amazing community that we’re beyond grateful for. “Go out and make memories” is our motto of living and a constant reminder for us that true happiness doesn’t come from the material wealth we accumulate, but from the memories we create and share with our loved ones throughout our existence. We invite you to join us in our crazy journey in life and hopefully we can inspire you to go out and make some memories on your own. Welcome aboard!
00:00 Intro
00:57 How it all started
01:57 The biggest changes in ourselves
04:29 Our return to Brazil
05:32 We are leaving Maine
06:22 Our embarrassing encounter at Anitta's concert
07:35 Thank you Ekster!
09:03 Jealousy in our marriage
10:42 Adam's drastic hair change
11:59 Our purpose in life
13:04 Bernardo feels lonely
14:26 Taking care of our bodies as we travel
15:43 Expanding our family
16:39 Opening up about Bernardo's past
18:10 Most memorable moment while traveling
19:10 Being discriminated for being gay
20:35 Challenge videos? Too old?
22:00 Our biggest passions
23:52 Keeping our individualities
26:16 Marital problems
27:29 Describing the special proposal
28:57 Piece of advice about our relationship
30:25 Come hang out with us!
31:02 1 million, here we come
31:53 Funny outtakes

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hello everyone! We hope you're doing well. This is definitely a special video to us so we hope you enjoy it. We went through 13 of our external hard drives to find some of these older videos. We have to thank you for submitting us some wonderful questions. We sit down and answer some of the questions you sent us to celebrate our 500,000 subscribers. We kind of had a tradition for every 50,000 subscribers we would do a sit down question and answer video. We apologize we couldn't get to all of them but we kind of saw a pattern with questions about our relationship, expanding the family, mental health... etc. We will be having our next Zoom chat with our 'Steps Family' on April 22 and 23 so if you want more information about that just go to our Patreon page at: www.patreon.com/stepsof2foreigners. Happy Easter and love you all. See you very soon. A+B

[@RBS_]

...WHOOPS, You GUYS! (32:02) ...not only we got a Q&A, we got a "SO2F" ANTHOLOGY!!! ...ha-HAAA!! ...WHEW, I'm pooped, 'cause I was with You Kids the whole WAY! ..ha-HAAA!! ...This was a VERY informative piece on a (Married) Gay Couple that allow us to view their "World", and also, allow us to leave comment...SO, I'd like to add this, if I may..... ...I am pleased that you Two brought up the need to re-evaluate your "individuality" : I know being Married means to share, communicate, and LOVE, but...it is also ESSENTIAL, to have "moments" for yourselves, AND a 'circle', outside of one another...how can you come Home to share what happened in your 'Day', if you're always together!?? ....I feel Sir Adam may have a seeped fear in "individuality" meaning, "alone".... and, may have a fear of 'Nardo creating his OWN 'individuality, and bringing another "Titty Boy" into the fray....OR, that the faraway places keeps 'Nardo away, from 'everyone'.....🤨... ...Now, I know I'm on the outside looking 'in', but it's YOUR roads, to travel.....find time for YOURSELVES.... you'd be amazed at what One can find, when they bring new talents to their partner.... yaknowwhutImean!?? (25:43) "😛"...ha -HAAA!! ...AND...you still didn't tell me what happened to 'Nardo's Speedo collection! (13:20) ...ha-HAAA!! "😆" ...Keep makin' those memories, and, WATCH IT! (33:16) ...HA-HAA!!

[@mehranayub3767]

Yea I really like and enjoy it stay blessed love from Pakistan ❤️❤️❤️

[@luismiranda768]

Hello baby. 😍😍😍

[@joaoborgesh]

❤❤

[@davefrommelbourne1237]

It was nice to reflect back on your past years. I still recall the first video I saw and yes it was one of your ‘cringeworthy’ ones but one of my favourites was “Toothbrush, toothpaste, toilet paper holder…” lmao. Keep on striving and thank you fellas. 🦘- I put the kangaroo emoji because they can’t move backwards only forwards, so let’s get you to 1 million.

[@sinepar7130]

This year we are celebrating 21 years together with my partner and I must say that communications, sex, financial stability and compromises are the ingredients that make our relations to work. Well done guys, love every single video of you!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much for this comment Sinep. It makes us feel less alone :)

[@donaldedmunds6760]

You are exactly correct. We too love traveling and the memories help when you are in a difficult patch. Love = friendship. Keep the heart alive!

[@nstreet_photography]

The courage to share this with over 1/2 million people. That is amazing. I hope you both stay safe, healthy and keep laughing.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you for being here, watching and commenting. We are so grateful for this platform and the wonderful community on here. :)

[@Iyoh101]

Bernardo don't make me cry! That message about finding your confidence is so beautiful!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much, Lebo! Glad that that message resonated with you.

[@kewalpatil]

Adam (& Bernardo) you really have helped me through this channel. You said your purpose in life was to help people; you have achieved that in some way with me. I can’t even pinpoint in what way you’ve helped me but just like friends just by being there you’ve helped me. So thank you both for that!! I haven’t been able to have a fulfilling relationship (romantically) and I’m well past in my life but I have been living that part by seeing your videos so it means so much for me!! 👍🏽👍🏽🙏🙏🙏

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

You just made our night K P, thank you. We sometimes talk about how crazy our KZbin journey has been and how grateful we are that we get to continue our passion with filming and editing. After rehab, we sat down and talked about where we wanted this channel to go. We knew we wouldn't be able to film and edit a video every week and the stress that it put on us wasn't healthy. We realized that this is our creative outlet and we just need to have fun with it. We are so blessed to have this type of outlet where we feel seen and heard. We didn't have that growing up and now to have half a million people hearing us... that just brings us a lot of joy. We are so happy to hear that our videos have helped you in some way. It is people like you though that allow us to continue to create which allows us to go deeper into who we are so we have to thank YOU. We are sending you a big hug.

[@kewalpatil]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners thank you and big hug from me to both of you as well!! 🤗🤗

[@joelmamariaespinola7934]

Oi

[@donaldedmunds6760]

You guys are so lovely! My husband and I have 44 year together… it’s hard, but we find communication and celebrating our differences give us success 💗

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Donald, wow, congrats to the two of you! We hope we get to 44 years one day. I believe we won't have KZbin then but we would have 1,000,000 by then (haha). Thanks for your comment and making us feel less alone.

[@stevenf7591]

Congratulations to you both. We’ve got 39 (in July). What you said about communication and celebration of differences help us as well. We try to remain 2 distinct individuals and be one team. I can’t be my husband and he can’t be me. And together we help each other, support each other and thereby, love each other more deeply.

[@Amar-mz7wp]

Literally thought of you guys today... Happy Easter to you both! Hope all's well 😊

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How sweet Amar, we hope you're doing well. Happy Easter to you as well :)

[@ACPitt]

I’ve been a fan since 2017 . You have actually responded me back in several comments that I have left in your videos. 💗 I am glad to see you both grow throughout this platform. God bless you.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Alex, we appreciate that you've stayed with us all this time. That means a lot to us. We so desperately wish we could reply to every single comment and you might know that I (Adam) actually did that when we first started. I felt such extreme guilt that someone would watch our video and then take the time to comment and I didn't reply back. It made me feel sad. I have learned that I'm sure this wonderful community would want me to take care of my mental health before commenting to everyone. Just know this, we try our best to reply to as many comments as possible :). Thank you for being here!

[@ACPitt]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners First and most thank you for replying. I always feel extra special when you do. Especially in knowing the amount of subscribers that you both now have and you chose me. I have seen both of your journeys blossom together so beautifully. Even through all the lows in your lives, you’ve maintained strong and gotten back up. 👏 I admire everything you guys do. It takes a special someone to do what you do. Putting out your own personal lives for the world to see is hard. As a fan, you guys uplift my spirit and continue to bring me joy. I will continue to be here! Sending you lots of love and best wishes. 🏳️‍🌈🥰

[@dustyaugust]

I am a gay man and I struggle with BPD, PTSD and other mental illnesses from my ex religion, genetics, growing up in an area that still has a LONG ways to go with the LGBTQ+ community, abuse, etc. I just want to say I really enjoy your videos because you two are honest and "down to earth" so to speak. You have talked about the hard times as well as the good times. What makes me so happy to watch your videos is that you give me HOPE!!! You make me realize that it IS possible for me to find a beautiful man both inside and out! I am also so proud of you both for sticking together all these years!!! I want the VERY best for both of you! You truly are amazing! Thank you soooo much for your videos!

[@bachtng936]

You will find someone buddy. I hope the best to you!

[@dustyaugust]

I appreciate that my friend

[@katieevans3896]

Dusty u shouldn,t be struggling even if people don,t agree with your life style it's your life love yourself that's what matters I am a straight lady but your life is just that your I hope u can fine peace within yourself because that's what matters from katie

[@jiormoral1577]

Hi dusty, Merry Christmas ⛄🎄 Ahm, what does it mean BPD and PTSD?

[@jiormoral1577]

By the way from the Philippines ❤️

[@doctornebula]

You guys are already fulfilling your purpose. The creativity, the incredible beauty you share, and you also teach people how to love. Such sweetness. Such love. Thanks for sharing your lives.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

K H, how sweet. I guess you are right but I (Adam) would like to feel it more. Kind of like Dr. Solomon is for me... she can see how much better I'm doing. I would like to see that as well. I don't know if that makes any sense, haha. Bernardo has been teaching me throughout these years on how to love... I'm still learning. But as I know, it has to start with me.

[@seestarlk]

I’ve been here for the whole 5 years. My son past away in a car accident in 2017. I used your videos to get myself out of my head, if that makes any sense. Especially at night. I kinda lived life through your videos for a while. By the time I could function on my own (mentally) I felt like I was part of your family and followed you ever since.

[@geogent6655]

When you mentioned climbing to the apex of the volcano, I can imagine that you had the same elation when my brother and I climbed to the base camp on Mount Everest.The sense of accomplishment, the wonder, the strength I gained in myself that I, could now, do anything I put my mind too. It was hard, damn hard, but having my brother with me was the most comforting thing I've ever experienced, that we had each other's back.. and we did it together.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

George, what an accomplishment and I'm sure it felt exactly as you described. Filming adventures like that can be tough because it's really not the same watching it vs. participating in the hike. When we reached the top, for those minutes... time stood still and we could just forget about the past and just stay in the moment.

[@terrylgeorge]

You’re both a joy to watch. I love hearing and watching how you support each other so beautifully. You’re really a dream team 💙 love you guys x

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Terry. We thank you for your question :). It made us laugh when we read it.

[@tomobrien9483]

I really have no words, other than I enjoy watching you guys, through the laughter (you’re funny), and the heartaches and tears. Keep being you! ❤️ Happy Easter 🐣🐇

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you so much, Tom! It was such a mental work seeing all these videos from the past 5 years of our lives. So many great moments, but also some hard ones. Happy Easter! ❤

[@jessicashlager7193]

I love what Bernardo and Adam are sharing about where they were as people 5 years ago and where they are now. It brings tears to my eyes because I can see the confidence and the growth and the willingness to share more now than in your clips from the past. Thank you so much! Love you guys!!

[@sarahhayslip1793]

You are my first and favorite couple to follow. I fell in grandmotherly love with your very first video. I really missed you both. I'm so glad you're back. I'll watch any content just to see you both. Much love and prayers for your futures.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Sarah, you're too cute. Thank you! It's so nice to see we can attract all types of people here not just the LGBT community. We are so grateful for you and this wonderful KZbin community, because of you, we're able to explore our creative sides which were uncovered more through KZbin. Big hugs to you.

[@sarahhayslip1793]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners Awe, you made my day.!!!

[@InternationalBrit]

Thank you for the wonderful insight into your characters and life. A relationship takes time and work. You guys come from different cultures so you will have different opinions and viewpoints. It’s natural! You guys have come a long way in five years...reaching a million subscribers should be easy!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

International, thank you for your comment. Yes, a relationship does take some time and work which we are in for. The aspect of coming from different cultures plays into this as well which I think we didn't know how much it would factor in (Adam typing) but you are right. Thank you so much for being here with us.

[@isaacopoku8136]

It's a huge thank you to the two of you. You first of all helped me through your channel believe in love again and to open up to new experience. Here I am in a stable relationship for sometime now. You had a hand in this and I say thanks a million.

[@keithreynolds3801]

Congrats on 1/2 Mill! You two have been an inspiration and an enjoyment over the years. Your purpose in life: Be happy - always, make others happy whenever you can. You guys are my heros. Thank yoy.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Keith, wow, thanks so much for your comment. I definitely wouldn't say 'heros' that feels like a lot of pressure but I'd say we are just sharing with this community what we have learned. We are so grateful for you and this platform that allows us to be 'seen and heard' something we so desperately wanted as children. WE are in this together and WE will continue to grow together.

[@keithreynolds3801]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners never, ever want you to feel pressure from being a "hero" but you guys are! Hero - outstanding achievements, noble qualities, courage. Damn, you guys rock my boat! Keep on being you guys! I hope someday to be able to meet you two and shake your respective hands - it would be so great!

[@morganessen-moller1605]

First of all CONGRATULATIONS to half a million subscribers!!!. You guys have such big hearts and you shine like never before. You inspire with your love and your videos and photos. Looking forward to everything you will create and where life will lead you. Sends lots of love and positive energy. Hugs, Morgan❤️

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Morgan, thank you so much! You've been with us for a while and we have to thank you for your kindness and generosity. You're a kind man and we hope to visit your country soon.

[@morganessen-moller1605]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners You guys❤️The funny thing is that I dreamed that you and Steps Family visited Sweden and I was your guide..but then things happened in the dream so when I woke up I was so angry at Adam (maybe I tell sometime ha ha) ❤️

[@TheGor800]

I always enjoy your post; especially those when you two are candid and honest with your followers. I’ve ALWAYS appreciated this quality in the two of you. Congratulations on reaching such a milestone in followers. Love to you two

[@elitettelbach4247]

Belated congrats on 500k! It's always so nice to hear from y'all. Thanks so much for sharing

[@brianhaynescopeland3208]

Thank you as always for this informative update!! Whether or not you reach a million. Your union, documenting development journey, is a positive influence and inspiring to us all. Especially, if we too, are a work-in-progress! Have no fear! Together, you will achieve your goals & continue to create beautiful memories…Onward & Upwards!!🙏🏾💞✨💯

[@cesarpoleo917]

Loved the video guys!!! I always watch your videos for feeling better and with a fresh renewed energy, you're so amazing both and your History has inspired me a lot since I discovered you, thank you for sharing your life with us, you're so loved by me and the rest of your community no doubt, big hugs from Venezuela!!💛💙❤️💛💙❤️

[@jerryv.1]

You two are amazing people 🙏and this channel of yours captures your last more than 5 years of life. Of course, not everything, but the places you visited, the celebrations you held, the time you spent together, this is such a diary of your steps, the steps of two foreigners. 😉 From the bottom of my heart I wish you many more years together and great videos. And maybe - one day - one million followers on YT. 👏👏 Greetings from the Czech Republic

[@CianeMibs]

No doubt, your channel is one of my favorite ones! When I see a new video come up, I want to watch it right away! I really love your honesty, your advice, your way of living life... enjoying nature, each other's company and life together! Thank you for sharing such beautiful moments with us: your audience. I feel very honored to have found your videos 4 years ago! I am a big fan of your KZbin content. Please, take your time to live every single moment of life but also please continue to share your story/experiences with us! Every video of yours make me reflect on how I am living my life and how I am connecting with people!

[@CianeMibs]

Abraços do Brasil

[@SocheathSunRetouching]

The challenge ones are my favorite videos from your channel. Athough the serious ones are creatively beautiful- the challenge ones makes me feel like you're my friends being goofy and it brings back a certain humanity- light - laughter- it honestly brightens my day... and I kinda go back to watch those.

[@rodrigoa5108]

Faz algumas semanas que encontrei o canal de vocês, tenho que admitir que amei todos os vídeos, já assisti a todos e já não via a hora de sair um vídeo novo! Muito obrigado por compartilhar suas memórias e toda essa jornada de crescimento. Feliz páscoa!

[@timothyalberts5512]

So wonderful to see you again! Adam, you always lift me up...just by being your sweet self. Bernardo, I love watching the photographic images that you capture...you are truly an artist! Much love to both of you!

[@andreaciavarella9428]

Thank you for sharing. It’s heartbreaking that of all the places you’ve traveled and all the different places you’ve lived, you experienced the most discrimination in your own home town and especially from you church. You guys are great.

[@juliusdixon898]

Great video guys, I’m so glad to be apart of this community that you both have built and I’m so thankful❤️❤️

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Julius and so glad to see you in the Zoom chats. You always bring a smile to our faces.

[@jeffgelbaugh9355]

Hey guys, Have been following you for awhile. Love both of you and how you have grown. It is nice to see a couple who just record their real lives. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

[@mikehisey2631]

Your channel got me through Covid Lockdown. Love you guys. "It's a cushion" "It's a pillow"

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Mike, so happy to hear that. It was a rough time for most people so we're glad our videos helped you through that difficult time. I'm standing my ground and still saying it's a 'pillow'... Adam replying :)

[@JoseRodriguez-fx7fb]

Another great video! You two are helping so many young couples by sharing your stories. I often felt sorry for Bernardo and wonder if he ever thought about what he got himself into, but I see how much you two love each other so much and how much you two support each other. Thank you!

[@harrybutler1828]

Super good video guys. I have been watching and following you guys right from the beginning. I loved you both in the beginning and still do. I'm so proud of how Adam has progressed and Bernardo, you are a saint. A lot of people, men and women, would not have been as supportive as you have been. I will continue to watch you as long as you continue to make videos. Love you both a lot. Stay sweet.

[@thiigas]

Rapazes, quanto tempo..haha vcs são incríveis e adoráveis, gratidão por compartilhar conosco um pouco da rotina de vocês.! Um Salve pra Brasília (DF)🇧🇷

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Muito obrigado!! Gratidão pela incrível comunidade que temos aqui no canal. Saudades de Brasília. Um grande abraço!

[@Mihavetz17]

Adam and Bernardo, your honesty and vulnerability in this video really humble and impress me. Your mutual ability to express the realities of your life together means a lot to me since I have been single all my life, and, of course, never experienced the challenges you have faced so courageously and honestly. I have always been moved by your videos from your life in Brazil, travels to vacation lands in the Far East to here in the US. Thank you and God bless you.

[@craiglaforest]

Another moment where I sit and love listening to you both. Thank you for your honesty and your great relationship. Sending love from Sydney, Australia. Craig

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Craig, we have to thank you so much for being here with us all the way from Australia. It's because of people like you that we're able to continue to explore our creative sides.

[@Thomas-ft1hy]

You both are such an inspiration! ♥️

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How kind of you to say that Thomas, thank you!

[@angel-sh9bq]

I love your videos from the first time I met them, my first impression was of two gay guys doing crazy things and loving each other very much. now see two married gay men, much more aware of their realities, much more mature in their relationship. I think that few couples are currently preserved, but I think that happens when you think that everything will be perfect, something that is not so. Living as a couple is not just sex, parties and trips. It goes further, it is empathy towards the realities of who I have as a partner. I love their change, they look so serene and calm. ❤❤🌹

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Miguel, what a beautiful comment you left on this video. Thank you so much for the kind words. Our relationship has certainly evolved in 5 years and we're excited to see how it will be in the next 5 years. We thank you for watching this video and for being here with us.

[@steevjaems1807]

What a journey... thank you, guys, for sharing with us all so openly, with humour, insight, and personal growth. From the first time that I watched your videos, I have appreciated the honesty and realness that you both bring in showing us these experiences and life learnings that you have been through. You make such an impact on so many lives, and I think that is already a fulfillment of your destiny to some degree... I know that you still have so much more to inspire us with, and I look forward to all of those future memories, as you go out... and make them.... ❤

[@mikekelly1151]

* Wonderful Q&A. I really liked the questions, and you did a great job answering them. The bloopers at the end were priceless. 500K and counting to 1 million. Congratulation on helping so many people with your videos. I wait patiently for each one and they just keep getting better and better. Love you guys so much and send you all the energy you need to continue this journey you have started. Big Hugs to you both. *

[@chackokoduvathara1177]

Congrats dear ones! Continue with what you are doing! Continue just being you, exactly like this! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@holmes22100]

I'm glad that you two are doing well. Seeing you two together and happy makes me feel that I can find someone out there and not have to feel alone which I have been doing for a long time. I just hope I can find that special person to share my life with the way you two have been fortunate enough to be together with. Take care of yourselves and continue to enjoy life.

[@denisecraps5650]

With these questions & answers you both are definitely honest & genuinely real & that shows how from you both have come & can’t wait to more video soon.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How sweet Denise, thank you. We have to give credit to the people who asked these questions... we just answered them. We thank you so much for being here with us.

[@Mike-xc7gi]

Happy Easter to you both. I enjoy watching your videos. The both of you have helped me a lot over the past year. Thank you for that!

[@genevievelabieniec8218]

Thank you SO much. I found your channel in 2019, when my mom was very sick in an assisted living facility and I was her primary caregiver. I had lots of time to watch your videos-- and I did. I've watched some many times. Traveling with you while unable to travel myself was an experience I willl always keep close to my heart. My mom passed on 1/21 at 83. CONGRATULATIONS on 516,000,000 subscribers. Love from Ct. 😍 Ron L.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Ron, what a beautiful comment and we're so sorry to hear about your mothers passing. We are glad you found us and glad that we can take you along while we travel. Thank you for watching our videos because it's people like you is the reason we can continue to follow our passions with videoing.

[@WDrafa-el]

Hola Adam y Bernardo, disfrute del video, me divirtieron, hicieron recordar de sus travesías y conocerlos mas a través delas preguntas presentadas. Ustedes son una pareja que quiero mucho, verlos superarse me da felicidad. Que sigan bien es mi deseo.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Muchas gracias, Wilson. Nos alegra que hayas disfrutado el vídeo. 😊

[@johnindy7164]

Trying to recall how many years I've been following you - guessing at least 3. Anyway, totally enjoy your continued honesty, vulnerability and humility as you share your lives and thoughts! Great video, as always. Many thanks and my best regards!!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

John, we remember your screen name so I (Adam) feel like it's been quite some time. Thank you so much for commenting and being here with us. It's because of people like you that we're here so thank you. Big hugs sent your way.

[@farlley2474]

Esse canal traz cultura,diversâo, conhecimento, experiencia de vida e exemplo de como dois homens casados podem viver de forma exemplar! São inspiradores....obrigado por nos brindar.

[@mauriciochinelli9834]

Concordo plenamente com você, mas é isso que falta na nossa comunidade, pessoas como Adam e Bernardo mostram que ainda há luz no fim do túnel. ❤

[@farlley2474]

@@mauriciochinelli9834 com certeza! E nao patifarias como vimos por ae

[@alexandremarcal6853]

@@farlley2474 👏👏👏👏

[@SandraRegina-tl2be]

Eles são incríveis ❤️💚💓💜💙🧡💛

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Muito obrigado, Farlley! Que gratidão por todos nossos seguidores do Brasil. Vocês são demais! Muito obrigado por estarem aqui. ❤

[@greentrees2111]

I thoroughly enjoyed this video🙏 I feel like I can relate to Bernardo in terms of always feeling like my role in a relationship is more of a supportive role. I tend to put my needs in the back burner. I began to tear up (yet again) when Bernardo teared up the beautiful day Adam proposed to him🙏 thank you for this video and 1 million subscribers here we come 👍🙏☺️

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Green Trees, we're so glad you enjoyed this video. I feel like a lot of people can relate to Bernardo's story. Just as he's done with me, he's had to put his needs aside I'd say in the years of 2020 and 2021. He's now understanding himself more which is beautiful to watch. Thank you so much for being here!

[@andrewharmon9518]

Sou um grande fã chinês vosso e tenho vindo a segui-los há cinco anos, desde 2017. Realmente impressionado e tocado por cada um dos seus vídeos. Obrigado por me abrir os olhos para as infinitas expectativas e possibilidades para o futuro. Em 2019, entrei na universidade e optei por me formar em português, sempre ansioso por ir ao Brasil e ver o lugar onde a vossa felicidade começou. E agora já o fiz! Estou a estudar em São Paulo, Brasil, e espero que se mantenham sempre positivos! Certifique-se de que acredita: há pessoas em todo o mundo que o amam!

[@wmichaelh29]

You two guys are so enjoyable to watch. I always say that before love comes respect, consideration, admiration and support. Good foundation you have for one another. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

[@chrisosborn6304]

You guys have been helping me out to be a better me and a better person for my partner, god bless you both 🙏🏻

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

What a beautiful comment Chris, thank you. I (Adam) have learned a lot these past couple of years so glad we can help you and how to treat your partner. Big hugs to you and keep it up.

[@donniewilson3166]

Love watching you guys ! Love seeing the world thru your eyes. I always look forward to your videos. Happy Easter !

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Donnie. We're here because of people like you, so thank you. We hope you had a nice Easter.

[@harrietcarr307]

Such a great video, guys! I loved the clips from past ones and recalling where you were when those clips were filmed. I think you will get quite a few more subs because people will want to look at your earlier videos to learn more about your lives together. Great answers to these terrific questions! I learned some new things about you both! I’d like to encourage folks here who watch you regularly to join the Steps Family on Patreon. We have made many life friendships on the Facebook group where we all regularly connect. We have more content from A and B and a zoom chat with them once a month. So join us and join in the fun we have as a group. Great video guys! ❤️🥳 Love from your NC girl, Harriet

[@bobh5087]

It's always fun to get together with both of you. You always bring smiles....

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Awe, thanks so much Bob! Glad to see you here.

[@tomaustin4526]

Thank you guys for sharing your life with us. It’s entertaining and very helpful relationship advice with examples that helps get your messages across. Things that we all need to work on and think about. We all have so much to be thankful for. Wishing y’all much happiness, success, love, fun times and safe travels ❤️👍😊

[@fscott32]

This was SO sweet and open of you you guys to do; Loved it!

[@ryanblack2986]

Wow, congratulations guys, you deserve it! Now you guys should celebrate. All your hard work is paying off. It would be a bit hard for me to share my most private and intimate moments, the struggles and the triumphs. I watched your very first video and have been submitted ever since! Thank You! 😄

[@carlosgarciavelez8334]

You Guys are my Therapy am on Depression State of mind and every time I see a Video I laugh a lot and your helping me getting out. So continue with your Videos. They are helping..! congratulations 🎈🍾 on your 517K

[@charlescoffey695]

Love this video. ...well all of them...and when you guys are open and honest it just great. Know that can't be easy.

[@SABOREAME68]

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Guys, I always get excited every time I get a notification of your videos or blogs if you will. This video brought some memories of older videos, and yes I recall Anitta's concert reference. However, in this video you guys allowed the viewers a little more depth regarding your thoughts on those days & years back then. Looking forward to your next video, stay safe & healthy... Abrazos

[@georgescott3652]

Always a delight to see you two. Your videos are always uplifting showing your love and life challenges.🤗🤗

[@marcilenesoares8053]

Por favor, não fiquem muito tempo sem publicar vídeos, amamos vocês. Vocês estão bem. Feliz Páscoa! 👏👏👏🐇🕊️🇧🇷❤️🇺🇸

[@TheGaloof]

I relate to Bernardos childhood a lot. You both had a very positive effect on the people lucky enough to get to be a small part of your lives.

[@EduardoHenrique-nd1ro]

Another amazing video, guys! Thanks for sharing with us and congratulations on your 500.000 subscribers! Cheers from Brazil!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How sweet Eduardo, muito obrigado amigo. Thank you.

[@kevinthompson6540]

Love! Love! Love this! Thanks for sharing. You’re both just beautiful souls.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Awe so sweet Kevin, thank you so so much!

[@MalOuston]

I always remembered the visit to Bernardo's parents house , and the tree under which he would sit with his Mother, it bought back memories of my beautiful grandmother. You are both two beautiful human beings, thank you so much for sharing your life journeys.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

We have to thank you Mal for watching. We are here because of people like you so thank you. Yes, that was a special video for us. We will always remember that trip to his hometown, Belo Horizonte.

[@charleskellim1335]

I enjoy so much watching your videos; you are both so "real" and genuine and I feel your love for each other is true and beautiful. That is how you get through the tough times by remembering your great love (true love) for each other. You are such a joy to watch; you would be a awesome couple to meet over coffee and just talk to you. Please continue these videos; I look forward to each one. You're both so awesome!! Blessings to you both!

[@michaelthompson3157]

Great Video Guys and always a pleasure to see you and giving honest answers to the questions. Its hard to imagine either one of you with any one else and I only hope you live a long life full of memories, joy and happiness and Love! Thanks and looking forward to your next video and adventure!

[@davidsheppard1362]

Your biggest asset is that you have each other. I think that HOME will always be where you happen to be, so long as you are. Together.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

That is so true David. Thanks for that reminder.

[@jameslatour3987]

I haven’t watched you guys in ages. So glad I did. You always make me smile. I love to see two guys so in love. You’ve struggled as we all do. But it has been worth it for you. Look forward to the day when I find my guy. Keep smiling guys. You are appreciated and loved.

[@andrewwakldnz]

Been along for the ride almost from the beginning. Thx, again, for sharing. Looking forward to the next 5 years 🙏👌👊

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow, thanks so much Andrew for sticking with us all these years. We're looking forward to what this KZbin journey will look like in the next 5 years. Big hugs to you.

[@JeremyMYG]

I am so happy for both of you. It is always a pleasure to hear your thoughts. I send you both love and light as you continue your life journey.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Jeremy for watching. We are sending you a lot of love and light your way :)

[@webeto5902]

I always cry when I watch your videos because I realize I don't have anyone to talk about my mental struggles and I wear this happy fasade every day.

[@Hdaran]

GUYS! You ARE helping people! At least half a million people, if not more are finding inspiration from your videos! I know at least I am! You guys give me hope and that is worth its weight in gold. Wait more than gold... What's more valuable than gold? Platinum? ya... it's worth it's weight in platinum....!!!

[@debbieporter6581]

Happy Easter to you both as well. I love your channel and videos. Take care. Congratulations on all your followers.

[@kevinmuur7816]

So good to have you guys back. I envy your relationship but in a good way. Adam kudos on your continuing journey of self improvement. It takes a real man to admit they need help and I hope your therapeutic relationship with Dr. Solomon continues to stretch and challenge you. Bernardo you’re more quiet and reserved but I’m glad to see you getting more comfortable in your own skin too. Blessings on your continuing journey together.

[@treadautomotive4372]

You oaks are so groovy! Had a lot of laughs with the editing and music, thanks for making life a little lighter and sharing wisdom along the way

[@pisces11105]

Guys, I love watching your videos and your Q&A sessions. I have only seen a handful of the videos but really feel connected to you guys and your life experiences. I have been with my husband going on 17 years. I wish you both a long loving life and keep growing.

[@stevehofmaster4292]

Thanks guys loved this video,I have so much love and respect for you both keep happy 😊 and look forward to more Content soon !

[@jasperlawson4292]

I have so enjoyed watching your journey. Thank you for being so open.

[@belizeguy]

Always a pleasure Gentlemen! Thanks for the consistently great content!! You guys always amaze me!! Thanks.

[@AlanSloan88]

Cheers to hitting 1 million soon A+B. Adam I like your hair when it's short. Bernardo you're a gem.

[@GregRBaird]

Great posts my friends. I am happy to be along with your journey and sharing your lives.

[@brendaleach6453]

Always enjoy these little sit down talks with you. You are a joy to know.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hey Brenda, awe thank you. We have to thank you for your support and love... always.

[@jeffe.1586]

Hi guys. Hope you both had a very Happy and Blessed Easter. Always good to see you here. You 2 give me hope for the future and the possibility of finding someone to share my life with. You 2 are truly amazing. Keep up the good work. I love you guys ! 💖🏳️‍🌈😁🌹💖

[@jomccutcheon2173]

So happy to see you two again, you look great, and you sound happy. You two are absolutely wonderful together, please always work on your relationship because it's beautiful and I would be very sad if you weren't together. I loved the video it was perfect.

[@kennethrich6875]

You guys are awesome and loved and have helped so many people with your life journey. Much love and support and appreciation ❤ for you both.

[@donnieharper4735]

Adam and Bernardo, I know how much we mean to you, as loyal viewers. Always remember you mean so much to all of us and our imperfections. Hoping and cheering that you will get to 1,000,000 subscribers! Much Love, Donnie Harper

[@JMLRUSB]

Love to see your videos again, patience love and understanding to make the relationship last forever, I've been married to my husband for 9 years and been together 15 years.

[@dugald56]

I totally understand the hair change. After some serious personal examination during lockdowns, I decided to make changes of my appearance to reflect the realisations I had arrived at. People I know are divided; the close ones like (or tolerate) it; ones I’m not keen on tend not too! Great way of sorting the sheep from the goats! You’re (both) fortunate that being younger and both very good looking men, you could wear pretty much no have your hair anyhow and carry it off! Dogs are hugely helpful friends. I’m wildly allergic to cats from my teen years, but before that we had cats and they are lovely too. You are both such kind, thoughtful, insightful and compassionate men. This video (as all of them) shows this more and more. Your videos are a massive highlight in my week.

[@rosagonzalez1544]

Meus amores que alegria revê-los neste domingo. Adorei a sinceridade das respostas neste vídeo. Realmente vocês além de me encantar com a beleza dos vídeos, das paisagens e de vocês, ainda tem esse dom de abrir o coração de forma a nos fazer refletir em nossas próprias vidas e amar vocês ainda mais por serem tão transparentes. Beijos no coração de vocês. Vibrando muito amor por vcs sempre. Beijos de SP. Com gratidão imensa

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Muito obrigado, Rosa! Quanto mais a gente entende nosso passado e nossos desafios atuais, mais a gente se sente à vontade para falar sobre determinados assuntos. Ficamos felizes que tenha gostado do vídeo. Um grande beijo e uma ótima semana!

[@wayneyboi6291]

Hi Guys! First time commenting. Loved you’re videos and watching your story unfold. Loved the q&a, you’re always open about things. Love you both and look forward to the next one. (Outtakes made laugh…. Adam, look where you’re going lol).

[@platoman214]

Thanks for the honesty through the years.

[@paulblake8903]

Miss you guys. Love this Q&A video. Happy Easter.

[@zoesterreicher]

thank you for your videos from the bottom of my heart. they are so true, impactful, and appreciated

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Zach for this sweet comment. Thank you :)

[@abellancieri6881]

Siempre recuerden que habemos varias personas esperando de su video ,para alegrarnos un rato y disfrutar compartiendo momentos y porque no., ser parte también de su historia ya que por momentos es tanto el entretenimiento frente a la pantalla que siento que estoy allí con ustedes ...hoy ví que estaban más relajados ...y porfi sigue dejando crecer el cabello yo lo tuve diez años ..y te digo por experiencia Adam ,que empezarás a tener cambios buenos en tu persona y Bernardo lo verá mejor ...un abrazo como siempre , muchos cariños desde Uruguay.💯😃

[@4chopchop]

I'm a little late on the comment for this one, but I'd like to say I appreciate hearing your opinion on marital issues and such. I grew up fearing arguments in relationships because I thought a fight meant it was over. But I'm glad to be learning in different ways that that's not the case. Thank you ❤️