WHY NIGERIAN WOMEN LEAVE THEIR HUSBANDS ONCE THEY MOVE ABROAD

[@LateefAlabiOki]

Don't bring your wife to the West period. If you do, you get what you deserve. Also don't marry or have kids in the West. If you want to marry go back home. If you choose to marry in the West make sure you have full legal custody of the kids not your wife. Do a legal prenup, postnup, and marriage contract. Some Western countries allow traditional marriages. Do that instead of a court marriage. Also always do a DNA test for all your kids. It's always going to be your words against hers, and society in the West defaults to believing women without any evidence. It's normal for women to destroy a man's life over false allegations, half truths, and full blown lies, to get money and 75% of their husbands resources. In fact, Western society encourages it because the family court system is a multi-billion dollar industry. It's nothing for a wife to have an affair, claim the husband was abusive(the go to complaint even though stats show women initiate most DV provocations), take most of the man's assets, and wander off with her new boyfriend into the limelight. It's so bad now that men are avoiding marriage and serious relationships in the West. Men don't even want to date women anymore. Go on tiktok and see all the women crying about where all the good men have gone. You chased them away honey. Now men are getting passports to date outside the West. They're called passport bros. Look them up.

[@pamelagold7747]

Another abuser spotted

[@LateefAlabiOki]

@@pamelagold7747 abuser my foot. This woman took her husband's kids away from him, and left him destitute. If you don't see anything wrong in what she's done, you're part of the problem. But don't worry men are getting wiser thanks to the likes of you. My comment is directed at young men to protect themselves from the likes of you. Una go see shege before men go take una seriously again. Well done, keep abusing the system.

[@nothereyetlost]

Everything you described was to cheat women. You come with yourself but think YOU should get her children, children she made with her body? You want prenup postnup and 5million documents so that she gets nothing from being with you and YOU get everything😂😂😂😂 Why would women sign up for that. You creatures are wickedness personified.

[@triggerticker]

@@pamelagold7747 so women destroying men's live's are not abusers, but men trying to protect themselves from what happens in Europe is abusing? okay, I understand

[@explorer3500]

Women are natural incubators, they multiply whatsoever you give to them and return it back to you. Relationships can be sweet and without regrets. A building is only as strong as it’s foundation. The man is the foundation.

[@mrsranciz]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@tomite2001]

The best is to stay single honestly. I have concluded we are not really prepared or groomed for married life. Everyone just behaves how they like.

[@nothereyetlost]

That’s bc that’s ideal for men. They need to trap you so the less you know the better. If you were educated about how to deal with men, you’d NEVER wish to marry them 😅😅

[@JohnMooreBarbados]

Great listening to you on this video. We should pay attention to the examples for eye opening.

[@mrsranciz]

Absolutely!

[@odbrian2]

For the woman to take that decision she must have seen terrible things, we should not blame her

[@mrsranciz]

True that!

[@TheOkems]

My sister I do not blame that woman till I hear her own side of the story. I’ve seen women who have shege promax from men and trust me I can’t tell what I’d do if I were in their shoes. Some men deserve the worst. I have a relative that uses cain to flog his wife, can you imagine that?

[@mrsranciz]

God have mercy… please send her this video🙏🙏🙏 I adviced women that go through such torture

[@mrsranciz]

Some men ehn! God forbid

[@ogomsseries]

Only she knows what she has gone through to have done that.

[@mrsranciz]

Exactly

[@blurblur4568]

This is teaching men to be better husbands and fathers to their family. It show also showing young women how oppressive most marriages are for women in Nigeria. The law doesnt take dv serious, so women have to find a solution, which is to move abroad. In a lot of these stories, the women are abused even pregnancy. Let us not discuss how a lot of these men financially support their sidechicks and neglect their family financially

[@mrsranciz]

Spot on👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@alheri_ebenezer]

You are Right, For her to take such decision, he must have been a bad husband to her and also I love how you explain the pros and cons of her decision Thank you for sharing ❤

[@tonyeffik6781]

or maybe she is just a bad woman in the first place, it doesn’t take being a bad husband for a woman to be evil

[@alheri_ebenezer]

@@tonyeffik6781 You are Right, Only God knows her heart May God help them ooh

[@mrsranciz]

Mama na! Always good to have you here 😘😘 Thanks for watching sweetheart ❤️

[@theresaopokuma-fs3qs]

My dear many of the women dey pay the men back for here too

[@mrsranciz]

That’s the new trend mama

[@ekweobamichael9646]

Action and reaction are equal and opposite. But then, no one knows the full story so make everybody rest.

[@ekweobamichael9646]

Meanwhile en dey possible say the woman don plan on how en go elope with a long time secret lover oooooo. And may even have plans of how to get the blue passport faster.

[@ekweobamichael9646]

Oh, did I forget of the possibility that the kids in question are on their way to meet their real father.😂

[@ekweobamichael9646]

Like I said, no one knows the true story. One thing is certain though For every EFFECT there is a CAUSE. So knowing the Cause is the only way to understand the Effect. Daalu nu

[@michellevibez]

Wow

[@perfectpeterpan]

You're a fair man. Please tell the other men for us oh. Other men just heard that story and started talking without wisdom. Always hear both sides before judging.

[@comesee3]

First today maybe

[@mrsranciz]

💃💃💃 Good to see you😍

[@comesee3]

​@@mrsrancizmy cousin's wife left him, she didn't make him homeless, she moved out with all the furniture

[@mrsranciz]

@@comesee3 wow! Was your cousin a good husband?

[@comesee3]

@@mrsranciz no he was not, he was an alcoholic and he beat her, I stopped him when I seen it

[@mrsranciz]

@@comesee3 it’s really sad. It’s good she left💯

[@chuxyleea1222]

”If na me, before him come back from job. I go carry my children japa”…. E easy to leave man run away from marriage?

[@pamelagold7747]

An abuser spotted

[@mrsranciz]

Chuxylee my Gee this your comment Dey somehow today o! Lol!

[@theresaopokuma-fs3qs]

My dear, observe the man very well before you marry him bcos you can not change him better to have peace alone than to marry and you end your life or you will not have peace for the rest of your life

[@nothereyetlost]

No. Men are master liars and deceivers. You will never be able to observe him enough. The BEST thing is to stop dating them

[@mrsranciz]

@theresaopokuma-fs3qs I totally agree with you on this one 💯👌

[@mrsranciz]

@nothereyetlost I find your name very interesting 😊 I feel you but don’t you think you’re generalising a bit too much? 🤔

[@nothereyetlost]

@@mrsranciz you’re allowed to generalize when it comes to your life and safety. This is literally universal law. It’s why you generalize lions are killers and so are crocs. I mean have you SEEN ALL lions eat a human? Or you’ve seen ONE? Maybe not even that. That’s Also why we generalize to kids about stranger danger. YOU be a stranger to to 1 billion kids but doesn’t mean YOU are going to kidnap any kids. Yet we tell them all strangers are dangerous. Feel free to find other examples, you’ll see every time, when it comes to life and safety, we ALWAYS generalize. It’s this damn patriarchy that made a different rule. But guess who that rule was fir the benefit of??? MEN. I promise you men generalize women ALL the time. This is a universal rule but they carved out a different rule that benefits just them. Women have still not caught on to men’s games. Lol. Miss I promise you you want find a scenario that’s life and safety threatening where generalization doesn’t happen. And if you do I promise you it heavily affects men. So yes I generalize because that is the law of nature.

[@pamelagold7747]

I am about doing this same thing to my husband, I’m SERIOUSLY looking for a visa that’ll enable me move with my kids at once, I can’t leave them behind. As for me the marriage is over, he can stay married in his head for all i care, but the moment my foot steps outside Africa, I’m gone for good. He’s not physically abusive, but he tortures me mentally, and I’m done, this year i have been downloading affirmation videos to keep me in high happy spirit, once i leave, i will NEVER get married to anyone or stay in a committed relationship ever again. I have my kids, and they’re enough for me, sex is cheap, i can always get it, but to sacrifice my life, time and body for a man? NEVER AGAIN!

[@nothereyetlost]

Lol. Once you leave a a man parasite I’ll be surPrised how LITTLE YOU need sex.

[@perfectpeterpan]

Just the wrong man who does not know how to love you baby.

[@mrsranciz]

@pamelagold7747 I’m really sorry you had to go through all that. Also, I’m glad you have a plan but please don’t give up on finding love. Love is a beautiful thing and there are good people out there

[@nothereyetlost]

@@perfectpeterpan there seems to be a lot of you around

[@nothereyetlost]

@@mrsranciz this is bad advice. Women need to give up on live bc it is not the natural way and why it is causing so much problems for women. Women need to leave men all the way alone