Why No Contact Is So Difficult | The Temptation to Reach Out

[@joncarbone]

Have some pride. Don't be around people who don't want to be around you.

[@cliffchampion5501]

Elite advice

[@Dru2maBoii]

Distance forces her to reflect. Your value will be reestablished if you have any.

[@yungefendi6480]

we dont have any. men are cooked.

[@Dru2maBoii]

@@yungefendi6480 not all of us. Just the ones who don't learn

[@davidlee6117]

​@@yungefendi6480 shut up.

[@garyforbes8711]

It's difficult at first, find something to occupy your time. Work on yourself and keep in focus. The pain fades over time.

[@davidwhite206]

I do not find it challenging at all. When you legit do not care after finding out how women really are, it is easy. There will be others. Several others. Keep that in mind, guys.

[@crosoldier2189]

I was this guy 3 years ago. Brotha you must let it go and force yourself to not reach out as long as she is not reaching out to you first. It will be hard, but it will be worth it.

[@mouhebbouameur4863]

There is no reason to force a woman to stay with u will lose ur respect as a man and it's the wrost thing u can do

[@EricSmith-gn7nd]

I make no effort I have no women in my life Life is pretty simple no obligations

[@marcuscoffee6730]

Need this like water and food

[@jardenevenerable490]

Just act like James Bond.

[@theodorusrexicon5760]

Have some discipline fellas. Never show weakness. After you have sex, let her chase. Be strong. Always text less than her. If she's going out with her girl friends - act like you couldn't care less - trust me, it pays. I have a hot gf now and I've employed all these tactics and they work.

[@Tow131]

What if she says you don’t give me attention and finds it elsewhere

[@dylanwilliams2985]

@@Tow131let the other guys mess up and she will be like damn I miss that other guy (you) he didn’t smother me.

[@theodorusrexicon5760]

@@Tow131 This happened recently, I was at work and received a text: "meeting some girlfriends tonight after work for dinner and drinks." - I wrote back "Ok Babe, Have fun." When I got home, she was getting ready and I gave her a peck on the mouth & immediately left for the gym. You know she came home early and banged my brains out? Why? Because I appear to be high value and anything but needy.

[@Tow131]

@@dylanwilliams2985 ok thanks guys. You think the best thing is to jsut sit back and improve your life. I would want her to contact me so I get the last laugh but who knows if she will ever reconnect again it’s been 4 months.

[@omarelsherif4125]

You saved my relationship brother. Appreciate you a ton

[@omarthearab81]

I never chase. My last connection finished with the other saying she has options, I said please explore them as I smiled eating lunch, she looked bemused as I enjoyed my meal and she went into ignoring mould with tears in her eyes. I said Socrates once said a Woman will show you hear tears when she wants her own way. Tried testing no contact for 10 days and it's been bliss. Also: The food was great. 😂

[@G-spot911]

Through the years of both success and failures in dating, the keys to implement no contact efficiently are detachment and indifference. They really work, some in an instant but some takes a bit longer, but most of the time, no contact really works.

[@iown4life911]

You articulated well how the tension and anxiety are also affecting her. Great video as always.

[@afonsodeportugal]

Fantastic thumbnail... you are getting pretty good at using AI for this! 👍

[@harshparmar777]

For me no contact is like used to hobby. Forever no contact is my favorite, i never reach out to anyone once i get disrespect. Focus on ur Goals, u will never even realize that u r doing no contact because u r busy grinding...

[@mouhebbouameur4863]

If you can go no contact forever even better this phrase stiked on my mind from you and im in your word bro 👍❤

[@oscarincazares7219]

Awesome video thanks chris

[@E408David]

Not to brag... but I'm a no contact champ... I know guys who keep texting their exes every day for months after break up. Not me. I admit I initially try to talk her into coming back. But once she says no, then I go into no contact. It is hard. The temptation to reach out is there. The temptation to stalk is there. But I don't do it. I want to prove to her that I'm not like the other weak guys who beg her. No contact does not always work... But it does work some of the time. Stick with it, brothers...

[@GibranEscobell]

It is hard when you have a deep connection with the girl but as soon as you start talking to other girls that connection is not so special anymore, you can have different types of connections with different girl, maybe one is your homie, another is your f#$# buddy, another is your adventure friend, no need to have just 1 girl. The more you make a girl your priority the more emotionally dependant you will be on her. That was my mistake. I put all eggs in one basket hahaha.

[@newyorksbeerreviews1280]

not for me it isn't, I have mastered it! :) Through Chris's Consultations over the years, I have realized that my time is precious, and tomorrow is never promised to anyone! Memento Mori! Never let a women impede you from being happy. Live everyday as if you will die tomorrow. She don't want to talk, oh well. Her problem, not mine!

[@mouhebbouameur4863]

And remember that she's not special you who made her special.

[@miltonpowell9520]

Real talk , pull upp🔥🔥🔥😀😀😀😀

[@StrongBodymindandspirit]

It’s not difficult. Just remember, she’s 1 in a few billion

[@samuelwebster2769]

So true it goes both ways for if she's to needy as well?

[@slydog81]

It's not so hard if you just don't really give a shit.

[@guyhomutezki7230]

In NC. But she seems to have found someone else..

[@JohnBoulding]

Then you have your answer. Move on and be happy you didn't waste anymore time on a woman who didn't want you or wasn't willing to work on the relationship. By more importantly, work on yourself and stop being needy/clingy if you were. This is a recipe for always driving women away. Be secure and aloof and let them chase you .

[@NAMEISBHARATH]

No contact feels like hell to you? If yes, then you're on the wrong track.

[@yungefendi6480]

guys. dont get your hopes up. i „waited“ 2 full years for her to reach out and tell me how immature she was. thats it. its your face that determines how far you go with her. and that decision is made up in 13 ms.

[@rally_chronicles]

Block deleted gone. Done

[@sammysam6522]

Does a man have to provide to a women? Because im not making much money, my gf is expecting things off me when we move together.

[@carlospita6442]

That's what bothers me, women want and want but what do they offer ?

[@GASP3rdStrike]

My girlfriend left me after a three year relationship, her reason was she wants to settle get married and have kids and I don't want that now because, I have goals I want to accomplish first and she doesn't even support me with my goals. she says she will not waste her time with me because I have no future plans. I am trying to turn pro in sports and I want to get my PHD as well it's my dream to have these two. She left me with a text msg, I never begged or followed her or any kind of way to get her attention, I let her go. it's been 6 months since she left me. she never messaged or called me again. Any advice?

[@jamesrebbechi5247]

Yes. Forget her.

[@GASP3rdStrike]

@@jamesrebbechi5247 I am doing that I just need time, thanks.

[@dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk]

but how to start no contact? just don't answer her? it seems rude. For example I know a women who I like who lives far away at the moment, we like each other but know it's not going anywhere. Should I just stop answering her?

[@rally_chronicles]

Yes. Stop. You are wasting your precious time. Think how precious your time is. Really think about it for 2 hours.