WHY OUR HOME RENOVATIONS ARE TAKING SO LONG 😔... & NOT HAVING A NURSERY!!

[@Imogenhorton.]

It's all one big learning curve!! xxx

[@helenacannon356]

You are and will do amazing x

[@freya_e_w]

You never come across as showy, honestly one of the most humble and grateful people I’ve ever known 😇✨

[@karaalaia9125]

Social services may be a good idea to hand some baby stuff over too, when I was pregnant with my first at 14, I didn’t find out till I was 30 weeks. Social services got involved cause I was under 16 and they provided all the baby clothes as I could only afford the furniture and other products. So that’s always an idea. Hopefully it all goes to someone who really needs it as so many people struggle these days 😫🤍

[@starryeyeskg]

Girl you need a medal, doing it so young. Well done you xxx

[@karaalaia9125]

@@starryeyeskg aw thankyou!!xxx

[@rainbyrne691]

@@starryeyeskg well done Kayleigh hats off to you girl 👏

[@chloerudd245]

I was still living with my mum when I had my son and we shared a tiny room! He’s now 15 months old and he’s only had his own room for 3 months! He’s perfect and has so far lived his best life! They don’t know or care whether they have nursery or not! 💛

[@LoretteHughes]

I’m a Mummy to 3 daughters who are 2, 4 & 6 and I remember at times feeling like you whilst pregnant with my 1st. I just wanted to say don’t stress about the small stuff. Most of it isn’t needed... stressing about things like how many sheets you’ll need for the crib for example... as long as you have 2 so 1 on and 1 on whilst the other is washed, it’s all you’ll need lovely. Don’t put pressure on yourself or allow others 2❤️xx

[@katieanne_a]

I love that you spoke about the nursery situation! I agree that there is a big expectation for expectant parents on KZbin to showcase an amazing nursery for their little one but you’re absolutely right.. not all people are fortunate enough to be able to provide a dedicated nursery. Obviously those people who do choose to provide an incredible nursery is absolutely amazing and if you have the money and the space then of course you want the best of the best for your baby! I would probably do the exact same thing, but I love that you addressed this. It will help give some reassurance to those who aren’t in that position, that it’s absolutely perfectly fine. At the end of the day the baby will never remember what their nursery looked like or if the slept in a super expensive crib or a second hand Moses basket. As long as they receive the love and care they need then that’s more than enough 🥰🥰

[@Rosie-hp5jr]

I have four older brothers and we live in a house that's 2 rooms downstairs and 3 bedrooms. I slept downstairs until I was four and 3 of my brothers shared a room until they were 18 and 20 and my oldest moved into an old cheap caravan in the garden so I could have a room. People seem to think children are unable to share rooms and have to have their own or have to have a nursery and playroom. You are amazing and you are doing amazing and everything you do, everything you are is enough💗

[@cloxo1482]

I’m a family safeguarding social worker, honestly I can’t advocate enough that we’re here to support you!! It’s ok to struggle and need support. We aren’t here to just take children away! I know that’s how we are portrayed. But honestly support is out there everywhere!

[@Jen-dm7tl]

When she grows out of clothes. Sell them as a job lot in sizes. I was someone who was definitely appreciative for that. You're still helping people out on lower incomes. And if there's any clothes still with tags on. I did separate bundles of BNWT lot.

[@zayce.]

Show us ALL of the baby content hun!! This is such a magical time in you and Spencer’s life!! That’s what vlogging is for❤️❤️

[@lilianawilson8392]

Your not bad at everything, don’t you dare say that about yourself. You’re a gorgeous learning mum to be, everyone makes mistakes, you’re gonna be a great mum!! I can’t wait for her to be here, love you so much 💕

[@esmerose7691]

Be really careful covering prams in the summer. It’s advised not to do so as it makes the pram reach unbearable heat. An umbrella on the pushchair is more than enough to shade a baby 🤍✨

[@tamzinharris1784]

Honestly I wouldn’t worry about not having a “nursery” I never did and my daughter didn’t go into her own room until she was 1 and had such a personality she picked her own bedroom (Disney princess/peppa pig) rather than me choosing the deco etc which I could of spent hundreds on to have changed it 6 months later to what she wanted. She’s now 7 and changes her mind all the time we’re currently creating her a Harry Potter dorm room style bedroom 😂

[@heatherall4184]

Yes this is such a good idea! People put too much pressure on having a perfect nursery before the baby arrives x

[@kellylouise3545]

I had 2 Moses baskets I had one like the Chicco for the downstairs now she’s uses it as a chair! Made life easier 💕

[@belle6168]

I think it’s impossible for you to come across showy bc you say how grateful you are every day and if people genuinely think you are then they are new to your videos! I love you :)

[@shelahphillipsen7019]

Imogen, you may want to look into your foster care system and see if they take donations. That would be a wonderful way to give back.

[@ditoro1996]

Honestly I soooo relate to when you’re pregnant or have a child you really do appreciate what your parents did for you when you’re younger! My mum was a single mum and I never felt like I went without or anything! Ahh so excited to see your family grow 💓

[@joannademosthenous5893]

Nothing is ever a waste of time, it’s all learning and development 💕

[@kaykaymumof386]

When we moved in my house me dad and baby had to sleep in the living room room for a few months whilst the bedrooms was being done. It wasn’t very practical but we made it work and we’re all fine now. No rush make your house a home it will all fall into place don’t worry 😉 x

[@shaunacowling5208]

Look for a local woman’s/baby shelter. The one I send to is called “pass on preloved items” not sure if it’s is all over the country or just round my area but it’s for mums who can’t afford items or have had to leave home for some reason or another

[@rachelle4961]

The midwife probably won’t show you how to swaddle as it’s not recommended here in the U.K. due to the risk of overheating :) have a little read of the info on the lullaby trust around safe sleep! X

[@jemmamillward2496]

Totally get the renovation difficulties! We bought a house 3 months ago and we have completely gutted it, moved the stairs and moved almost every wall. You do have to go back to a complete shell and it definitely is not liveable. We haven’t been able to move in yet. With your baby on the way it makes total sense to simplify it so you can live in it at the same time. I’m sure it will be a beautiful house anyway and you won’t regret doing the stairs. Best of luck hun! X 💕

[@elliecarrier5081]

Love that you are talking from your heart about fostering, it’s very heart warming as I’m adopted, and my little boy is just 7 weeks. I can’t believe people hurt innocent children neither!

[@shannonx7023]

The nursery videos on KZbin (along with many things) set a high standard for parents that never used to exist and there can be so much pressure because of it. My little one wasn't even in her own room till she was about 6 months old. You are setting your dream home up to make beautiful family memories, baby will have her own room eventually, it's really no big deal atall, she isn't going to care where her clothes and stuff is kept, she's too young to know!! To be fed, loved and have happy, healthy parents who have her best interest at heart is all she needs! X

[@daisywhyte7955]

1000% have one down stairs and leave the snooze pod upstairs it saves so much time was the best thing I did!! Your doing amazing ❤️

[@mummytipsandmemorymakingbe4046]

deffo no need for a nursery anytime soon dont stress my girl was in with me until she was 1 its eaiser to have her clothes with you just create a space in your room huni x and yeah the chico thing sounds great

[@lushlove14]

An electric baby rocker , was life changing for my cousin with there first little one ! Your videos bring me so much joy ! Sending so much love ❤️

[@rubyhooper4946]

You need to do whatever is best for you angels!! Your real huns will watch your reality regardless of a nursery tour, we watch you for YOU🤍 do you boo xxx

[@eimearfarrell1081]

I would be the exact same as you when you started talking about the guilt! Your baby girl is so lucky to have you guys as parents regardless of the beautiful house to come. I’m only 21 so have a long time to wait before I go on a journey like this. Also! if it makes you feel any better, my parents were in the middle of renovating a the kitchen when I came home for the first time! Only a shell and they got on fine! You got this gurl

[@lapitharas]

So excited for you guys watching this video💛 this is all a part of YOUR story! When I was born my family home didn’t have ceilings or a staircase (my aunt who was helping look after me had to use a ladder to go upstairs!!).. I ended up living there for 25 years (until they sold) with nothing but the most beautiful memories💛 your baby won’t remember the renovation times but it’ll be such an exciting story for you guys to tell her when she’s grown! X

[@EM-hc8cj]

I kept a crib down stairs too, it was very handy! X

[@scarlettbartropp5311]

I'm SO with you on how parents can hurt innocent children... its one of the things in life I will NEVER understand! But I am so grateful I am the best mummy I can be to my little girl Sienna and I know you and Spencer are going to be, its the little things in life that really affect us but having family love and support will you get you through parenthood! Your going to smash this Imogen lots of love❤😘

[@lynnberg6663]

Your baby is going to be just fine without a nursery! She will be so loved that the physical location won’t make a difference! Thanks so much for the house update, that is a lot of work and always takes time, don’t stress just enjoy! Hope Spencer is feeling better. 🤗🤗💕💕

[@sarahbedrock]

you are going to be such an amazing mum when your baby is here, you already are! she is going to be so so loved and understood

[@sabrinabrightmore2784]

You’re so so lush babe, I’d recommend giving them to DV survivors with babies. Also, congratulations again beaut. Love you so much. You and spencer are going to be the best parents xxxx

[@julierutter4612]

Who needs a Nursery😏 You will both be holding her in your arms so....much, love & stability is ALL baby Princess will need & she will have...OOOODLES OF THAT!!! Showy Not at all, dont even think it... Pregnancy & Birth is such an Amasing Journey, enjoy it as you both are xx

[@lisafindlay4978]

I love all the baby content, I’m due my first in 9 weeks (baby girl) so excited/nervous! Thank you for sharing your journey it’s made me feel so much better, I was in tears earlier feeling anxious and stressed because we are in a 4th floor flat and don’t have a nursery all set up either. Hopefully be in a bigger house in time for her needing her own room, my partner is the chilled one too, I over think everything haha. I know I’m being silly because she has everything she needs, definitely first time mum nerves but we’ve got this!! 🥰💜

[@hafsahahmed5165]

You are amazing, don’t worry about anything. Keep doing you! You are incredible, learning is part of the process and You are always grateful and inspire me so much! 💕💕

[@charisvalletta4376]

I mogen you are my favourite KZbinr!! Can't wait to meet your baby girl and watch your family grow xxx

[@lisaeaker9064]

I’m here my lovelies so glad I’m up at 4am in tx … gotta love mom life 💕 but it’s always the sweetest way to wake up for sure

[@eljay1980]

Please stop worrying about not having a wardrobe or not having a nursery - your baby princess is surrounded with love and will have everything she needs... I saw something recently where someone said that a baby doesn't know what their nursery, etc looks like, initially it's done for the parents or photographs which I though was quite true when it comes to getting things done as you can. I know your baby girl will never go without and will know how much she is loved, please don't stress about anything which is not within your control... your house will be perfect when it is done, until then it is perfectly in progress. Love you guys and your honestly, humility and kindness xxxxx

[@butterfly-kb4cn]

That’s part of first time motherhood and don’t worry things will come to you as you learn your baby. Every baby is usually different! Unfortunately they don’t come with a manual! Lol you will learn your babies cues and what they like/dislike with time. Just don’t be so hard on yourself or get so overwhelmed your baby will feel your emotions. You will be a wonderful mother just love each moment and cherish it! 💗

[@noleenmitchell3446]

Best way to start my saturday morning you and spencer a truely the bestest couple ever💕xx

[@ellenanorthcott5891]

We had a baby box in the living room for my daughter when she was first born and a crib in our bedroom untill my daughter was 9 months. We moved then into a 3 bed. Don't worry about not having the nursery ready yet xxx

[@Imogenhorton.]

Thanks for being so so kind angel! Xxx

[@gemmalangford1632]

Mills I love this vid soo much you are such angel a glowing one at that 💙💙💙 loved the quote you shared at the start it was so beautiful and empowering 💙💙💙 the hospital gift you got just adorable especially them slippers omg 😍😍😍 Mills please don't worry about the nursery as all that matter is that baby girl has you, Spence, the fam and us huns around her , the nursery will get there in time don't stress focus on your beautiful pregnancy you are doing amazing and everything will come together time 💙💙💙💙 I love you, baby girl and Spence soooooo much 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@angeladixon6221]

I had a moses basket downstairs and one upstairs it was extremely helpful, my daughter didn't go into her own room until 7 months she was with mummy and daddy until then. I would reccomend getting a few bedding sheets for baby, my little girl had colic and was very sicky after every feed so there was lots of sicky accidents, and a few poo explosions so I would get spare bedding for sure. Hope that helps. X

[@carlymae5160]

Your doing amazing none of us know anything at first but it all comes together we learn our own way there is no right or wrong go with ur gut don’t worry about people’s opinions the most important thing a child needs is love stability and routine you’ve got this ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I had to go into a woman’s refuge when I was pregnant I had nothing no home but you get through you get by you always look for the positives and there is always positives ❤️❤️❤️ so defo recommend donating to women’s aid. ❤️❤️

[@ginaabreu9391]

My baby didn’t use his nursery until he was six months sleeping in his crib

[@meganmarriott6512]

Don’t worry about nursery hun. I share a room with my baby girl also a single mum. My daughter hope is nearly two and she sleeps in her cot next to my bed. Don’t worry darling she’ll have all she need xx

[@feliciabourque]

Hope everything goes great soon with the renovations and I am getting so excited for baby girl.

[@zxhra.13]

Can't wait to hear about the renovations 🥰🤍🤍🤍

[@bethbevin6254]

I can’t wait for baby!!! Your going to be amazing parents❤️❤️ you and Spencer are so humble and grateful for everything I love it!!! With the units of pain thing it does hurt but as soon as baby is in your arms you don’t remember all the pain, I still can’t remember what it felt like and I had next to no pain relief❤️ your going to smash it!!!!❤️❤️ there’s so much I want to talk to you about😩

[@DOZGmum]

Anything you're wanting to pass on to someone else , you could try your local social work/ womens aid/ health visitors/ midwives and sometimes the hospitals will take any the tiny baby clothes for NICU babies xx I've gave full packs of nappies and stuff that I've over stocked and my kids have outgrew to my health visitors before and I'm guess they wouldve either took them to their clinics for any kids they see there or maybe passed them on to other parents that might be struggling a bit or something I'm not sure but she took them and was appreciative xxx

[@icbmira2380]

Hun..my baby was with us in our bedroom for 2 y... love that you are real and honest! ❤🤗

[@amandao8543]

Imogen remember all the dust and mess that will Come with the works even if you have a room you can use . X

[@sarfat9155]

Cutest couple everrrrr hope everyone gets partner like spencer🤍so understanding,loyal and caring😘😘seriously guys you both made for each other😘stay blessed you two love you both 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@khay_66m]

I always look forward in you showing us the baby clothes/nursery items....💯💝 Cause your honestly the awesome down to earth kinda gal....God 🙏bless you both and the new bubba on the way 🤰😇 You looks amazing Just can't wait for the little bundle to be in your arms 💋

[@rebecca3361]

You’re not showy! Do what u want it’s you’re channel! I love the baby hauls please keep doing them💛

[@abifairweather7196]

Imogen you have such a golden heart ❤️ your so lucky to be financially stable and have a fantastic husband your so blessed 😩☺️ I’m 19 and having my first child (baby girl) I wish I would be older and be able to give her the world 🌎😢 instead I have to work my butt off being a carer and this heat is killing me off 😂 you make me think positive 🥰

[@karaalaia9125]

Also I love the baby content 😍 don’t ever doubt doing another baby video! This could be your last pregnancy (inshallah not but you never know the future) so do as much as you want and you can look back on! Pregnancy goes so quick. It’s like desi Perkins did all baby videos while she was pregnant. Your daughter will be in the videos and be part of the KZbin so why not.😊💜

[@terriwolstenholme6247]

If baba doesn’t like sleep bags don’t get rid straight away! My 7month hated sleep bags/swaddles etc when born. We tried a 0.5 tog for a while and now she loves her sleep bags and sleeps in all togs. We got rid of loads and then had to rebuy!

[@ri9596]

Love you so much. Your so kind and humble. U deserve all the happiness in the world. 🥰❤️🤲

[@kelseymason9693]

I’m so excited for more videos about the baby!! Xxx

[@CaseyWiggin]

You will make one amazing mother Imogen!

[@Cwtchaholic]

It’s been 2 years since myself, husband and toddler (pregnant with my toddler at the time) had to move in with my parents and sister as we sold our house! Thanks to Covid and our miserable luck, we’re still in the process of buying a house with no chain 9 months later! 😤😤😤😤

[@ellielois3628]

i’m studying interior design at uni and i think that it’s quite extravagant that the architect wanted to move the stairs it seems like it’s put you in a awkward position especially now you’re pregnant too which i know she couldn’t cater for but i don’t know i feel like she should have considered the budget a bit more so you didn’t have all the stress :(( i hope it all goes well imo and we love you so so much! 💖💖

[@kaishax6145]

Me: what a nice outfit!! Imogen: this really isnt a very nice outfit 😍hun you look gorj

[@cleanwithjaimie7586]

I’d definitely donate them to women’s shelters and neonatal units in the hospital 💕 my son was premature and they took good care of him, but they don’t get a lot of supplies for newborns! 💖

[@uxtp29]

Having the bed downstairs will be amazing for you at first. No messing carrying things up and down all the time 🙌🏼.. you do you! Get as much as you want and think youll need, its your first baby its exciting 💗👌🏼 you can always sell what you find out you dont use as you go along.. ive got 3 kids and all 3 were and are all still totally different, liked and used different things completely.. i still feel like everything is trial and error 😅 x

[@Imogenhorton.]

Omg yes so true! And so right! Thank you for being so wonderful I love you so much xxx

[@marneylinsell7499]

Babies don't sleep in there own room until 6+ months anyway so I wouldn't worry too much. Also an idea which will help with safe sleeping is getting the gro thermometer so you can see if it's too hot, too cold or just right for baby girl. These things are so important x

[@dazzlingchick]

💋Sending so much love and good vibes to You, Spencer and Baby Girl. You both are going to be Amazing parents. Btw you are glowing gorgeous. Continued Blessings and Support. ~Love&Light💖Carli

[@alexiaax9291]

Hi Imogen! I don’t know if you already do this but you can attend antenatal groups which are groups for new mums and they teach you about pregnancy, how to care for newborns etc. My mum went to one and she said it was really helpful and she’s still friends with all the mums 16 years later! 💗

[@danidunbar633]

You and spencer are such a beautiful Couple I can’t wait to watch you turn into a small family🥰❤️ ps your glowing xx

[@stephtaylor5243]

My baby girl is almost 7 months and still in size 3-6 months clothes, some of them are currently too big on her. When she was born she was in tiny baby clothes until 3 months and I went 13 days over my due date and she was 7lb8oz. 💕

[@heidijanehatcher9454]

Crying with you hunny tha was an amazing saying xx

[@eviecapp914]

this is the cutest you are glowing

[@emeraldrichardson1490]

so excited for you and Spencer xx all the baby clothes are so cute

[@FluorescentM]

The strongest angel I know 💖💖💖💖

[@donnahigginson7336]

Personally I think as mums we can all give you advice on what’s the best thing to do but believe Imogen your gonna be amazing it will just all come into place when she enters the world ❤️

[@LouLou-bs9cr]

Honestly mum guilt is the absolute worse I'm a single parent of 3 and disabled and feel like a disappointment to them everyday and feel bad at what I've put them through being in n out of hospital its not a nice feeling but it is normal xxx love u guys❤

[@ameerak8058]

You definitely need a mattress protector for your crib.

[@freya_e_w]

The sheep baby slippers 🤍😍

[@stylistfashionboo]

Omgg never been so quick hehe love your videos

[@Jenny-jn1cx]

We lived with my mam when I had my daughter we had a box bedroom for 6 months then we moved and we kept her in with us till she was 1 then her bedroom was done :) don’t worry Imogen you have a beautiful home baby girl is loved and remember she won’t care what her nursery is or will look like she will just want to be with you and Spencer xxx :)

[@Imogenhorton.]

You’re an amazing mother and amazing person thanks so so much! LOVE YOU

[@Jenny-jn1cx]

@@Imogenhorton. thank you my darling love you too ! :) xxxx

[@lf41192]

You are the most humble, grateful and honest person you could never ever come across as showy! Everything is a learning curve and you're already an amazing mum xxxx

[@beinguniquebeingmeeve]

Love Vinted so much also tip be careful with any high chair mum put me in one as a child and the straps were useless I fell out and hit my head on the floor and got rushed to hospital luckily I was fine but such a worry for my mum so take care with them! 👏💖

[@laurenshennan1616]

Oh my goddd💕💕💕

[@jessfullard5480]

What an inspiration!❤️

[@tanyacameron-young6241]

try you local maternity hospital, they would be very grateful your looking amazing xxxx

[@Imogenhorton.]

Good shout! Xxx

[@melissajane9652]

Don't worry about a nursery you've got until 6 months old at earliest. Plus when they go in a separate room you constantly in and out of the bedrooms. My 10 month old is in with us still and I find it easier getting out of bed, putting dummy in and getting back in bed while barely awake. She will probably stay in my room until she's 1 and half. I've an 8 year old son who's got his own room but had autism and I'm worried about moving her into his room because she still wakes up. If I was single I'd just share my room with her until I've got enough savings to move

[@aprildoe3654]

It’s all good you will get it all done 💗🙏🏽🦋 it’s all happening perfectly 💚☀️🌈

[@annathurman]

You are amazing xxx

[@nanacon8318]

How does vinted work when it comes to how people pay you? Would I need to enter my card details on the website? Or does it work with paypal?

[@born_confused]

You will spend the next year washing bibs,vests, sheets and socks so you can't buy too many. They may wet the bed every night multiple times so make sure you have at least 20 sheets.

[@Emilia_young]

You could upload absolutely anything and it would be entertaining. You are the sweetest angel we love you xxx

[@kristensparkle650]

Don't worry about a nursery she will be in with you for a long while xx

[@capricris7672]

I enjoy watching the baby bits, so cute!! 💙

[@r_b8372]

stunning! xoxo

[@catmaguire9199]

Is Vinted only in the UK or is it to use in Ireland

[@donnahigginson7336]

Just a little rant for anyone that judges people. Sometimes comments can do damage to people’s mental health so keep them to yourself. Imogen you are you and you are amazing keep smiling 🙂