Why our relationship isn’t perfect

We talk about some of the stuff that drive us crazy about eachother.
Of course, Brian shares more than Jon.
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[@bradleyf3224]

Successful relationships are built on: flexibility, understanding, forgiveness, acceptance, patience & lots of laughs 😉

[@dlg5485]

You forgot the most important one... open and honest communication!

[@Sport214]

The key isn’t to find someone who is perfect (that person doesn’t exist). You just have to find someone who is perfect for you. I’m glad that you two lovely people have each other.

[@romaneros4583]

You are right.

[@jamiescott5461]

You guys sound like an old married couple lol. Never stress bout the petty stuff like dishes lol, tomorrow is never guaranteed. Love u guys These banters were so funny to watch Happy Holidays 🎄❤️🌈

[@luvcarsgay]

I needed this kind of good humor today. Perfectly timed.

[@johndoyle3514]

Happy Holidays - enjoy Mexico!

[@robertbeining141]

Oh guys, so glad you divulged and enlightened me. I wouldn't put up with either of you. LOL!!!! JUST KIDDING!!! I laughed during most of the conversation because it makes me crazy how we are so troubled and annoyed by the little things. I am guilty of that too. I just hope you guys laughed and had the hottest make up make out session ever!! Wishing you the Happiest of Holidays ever. Stay strong, be well, keep safe, laugh and love and just make happy fun of one another and yourselves.

[@OutLoudJB]

Yes Robert! Happy holidays my friend ☺️

[@brittsaunders4621]

If I hadn't before, I think I just officially fell in love with your relationship. I laughed my ass off watching this, and teared up at the end when Brian made the statement about "If these are the only four things..." SOOO great! I hope to emulate this! PS: Statement from my mother regarding my father's bad habits - when I asked her if she couldn't get "that man" to do "x," she said, "After 40+ years of marriage, YOU try it!" (They were married 54 1/2 years when Dad passed away 2 years ago today.) 🤣

[@zanadu4]

Don't sweat the small stuff. Have a Happy, Healthy New Year! thanks guys for making this past year a little more endurable.

[@berylwhite2983]

You know that's the thing if they're gone the little pet peeves are some of the things that you miss the most! You couldn't have picked a better day for this video all the best from your four-legged friend

[@tonyparisio4021]

Trust me, after he is gone all these issues will be the things you miss. Accept and rejoice in the good and the bad. Love you guys.

[@octhom1]

Thanks for sharing Jon & Brian, I agree those are small items and ALL of us couples have some of the same. I know you two have the different times growing up and I believe sometimes that changes the way we are used to how we do things. My husband and I were born the same year so being the same age we grew up with a lot of the same ways which we are lucky in some points but doesn't make it any easier than other couples. Have a great week! Thom & Eric

[@steveparker2938]

My husband of 21 years died in April 2021. While we loved each other dearly, there were things that drove the other nuts. What drove him nuts about me: never fully shutting doors( Closet, kitchen cabinet, bi-fold), while watching TV I'd go on Google to research / check facts in the show and my driving (grew up in the Boston area - you get it). What drove me nuts about him: when repainting the house or a room, he could never just pick a freaking color, having to watch rom-com movies or vintage TV shows, and commenting on how I fold bath towels.

[@OutLoudJB]

So sorry to hear of your loss and equally thrilled that you shared such fond memories. Thanks, Steve - happy new year to you my friend. Best wishes☺️

[@andyshacks7812]

That made me smile. The dishes in the sink and the sneezing sound oh so familiar!

[@ryanblack2986]

Great way to communicate here and we all know communication is the key to a healthy relationship! 😃

[@rajkumarsanatomba8612]

Brian is such a nice person....looking great...fantastic videos. good caring

[@neilschipper3741]

My lover and I were together almost 18 years before his passing. Not once did we argue, or have a petty snit fit with each other. We both were Libras with OCD! Hope y'all have a fabulous vacation🎄 Merry Christmas🎉 and may your New Year be gay and festive.

[@OutLoudJB]

Likewise, Neil! Cheers☺️

[@jonathanhodgkin6546]

I'm with Brian on the dishwasher we didn't have one when I was growing up either,so it's such a special thing.🤗☕❤❤

[@jasonskirvin6296]

Have a happy Christmas and happy New year. 🌲

[@Hoboelmo23]

You're both right. Daddy is old and set in his ways. Little boy is young and learning. Time to go your separate ways.

[@jonathandunn7576]

Hi Brian and Jonathan. Sending you warm and fuzzy holiday greetings. May your Christmas be festive and may 2022 be a very healthy and happy one. Remember Jonathan..... "Youth Is a Work of Nature..... But Age is a Work of Art!" I have to agree with Brian.... Never leave dishes in the sink! (And ALWAYS close that bathroom door!!!) All the best from across the miles here in NYC. Love your channel. :) Come and visit here in the Big Apple. Got plenty of space and a spare bedroom too.

[@OutLoudJB]

Lol thanks, Jonathan ☺️ Best wishes and Happy Holidays

[@Aelmis]

Love this video. It reminds me of the little things that actually makes the relationships, perfect ;-) Happy Holidays guys! Keep it up.

[@OutLoudJB]

They truly do make the relationship so enjoyable

[@chrislockwood1476]

❤you guys are such a hoot.❤Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you guys.

[@1501715017]

I fully agree Brian - leaving dishes in the sink is a crime :-) Merry Christmas guys!

[@kurtholzmuller2828]

Amen to the refrigerator door being open SOOOOOOOO long........my husband does the same thing! Honestly, the list is practically identical except for the gym.

[@OutLoudJB]

🤣🤣🤣

[@peterwinstonaldredge6927]

Jon, the fridge door left open is one of mine too. I'm with Brian on the dishes. Why do they put bathrooms next to kitchens? That's just WRONG! You guys are so cute! Happy Holidays!

[@johnr.french6499]

Jon does everything. 'Joyfully '..lmfao

[@tjlarson6519]

Brian for the win.

[@OutLoudJB]

Whoa! I see who the favorite is🤣

[@RelusMilark]

I love how Brian tied all his points together to make a full story out of it towards the end 🤣

[@kennethkauzlaric8948]

When I saw the title I thought "what is a perfect relationship"? If these things are the biggest things in your relationship, count yourself as lucky. Love you guys. Happy Holidays!

[@ciel222]

GREAT VIDEO 😊 Merry Christmas

[@peaches3392]

LOVE IT!! LOVE IT!! HAVE FUN BOYS!!

[@horacioclown6665]

Lol not fininshing the text conversations would probabbly kill me and the thing with the fridge also… But I could not imagine you two not being togerther, yes I know you just from youtube, but you just just look perfect together 😂

[@OutLoudJB]

Thanks Horacio☺️ happy new year my friend!

[@horacioclown6665]

Happy new year and rest of hollidays too.

[@TakeTimeToTravel]

If those are the biggest problems that you two have, you're doing great! Mike also likes to stack up those dishes in the sink in our place. I'm sure he has far bigger complaints about me (and he's probably right lol) , but we seem to be able to work them out :) Cheers :)

[@OutLoudJB]

Cheers to you friends ☺️ Power to the sink dish stackers!!!💪🏼

[@GTO20122012]

Use degradable paper plates to minimize using the dishwasher often plus save on water too 😌

[@janewatt683]

I think you two are so well suited! Luckily your complaints are not very substantial, as you two are almost perfect. Brian is older and very mature and Jon is mature beyond his years! I love both of you, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to both of you 🎄💐😘🇨🇦

[@edabrahamson1104]

Brilliant! Love Brian's asides to camera. if we tried this, it would last 12 hours and there would be blood on the screen!

[@OutLoudJB]

🤣🤣🤣

[@johns7868]

Brian's asides I was drawn to the thinning spot on his head. Not a read Brian, I promise. You're one handsome man. We celebrate 31 yrs in 3 weeks - my husband's sneezes are central nervous system shattering

[@danaanderson8435]

You’re so funny! Love you guys :) clean up those dishes !!

[@vaylon1701]

Know what happens after 40 years together? You just don't give a crap about the little stuff. You just smile and say ahuh! Then smile.

[@sajithakumarathunga5546]

Please keep that smile on your faces forever😘😙🤗

[@Tripper111]

Merry Christmas Everybody.

[@OutLoudJB]

And happy new year my man🤙🏼

[@StevenSeven]

You guys are so cute. Merry Christmas! 🎄 🤶 🎄 🎅

[@MrTsnead]

Love this video! Merry Christmas to both of you!!

[@kgs202]

😂 Merry Christmas!

[@OutLoudJB]

And a Happy New Year!

[@fchino-jr.3340]

Now this is true love ♥️

[@wb1385]

It is so funny everytime watching you guys! Happy Christmas time to all

[@paulsheedy4650]

Ah, first world problems. Why is the dish washer such a problem between couples? Jon, what's so difficult about putting the dishes in the machine.🤪 Treat it as part of your excersise regime. Pick up a dish, squat, put it in the machine, stand up. Repeat. You get clean dishes in the end, and a toned rear end. Simple. Love your light hearted shenanigans. Have a fantastic Christmas guys, eat, drink and be very merry. Cheers, Paul.😁🎄🎉🥂🌈👬❤️

[@OutLoudJB]

Happy holidays, Paul!

[@stevebonner5160]

Hi john and brian! I like the videos ya make! Guys your fans love ya.

[@OutLoudJB]

Thanks, Steve! Happy holidays my friend ☺️

[@jonathanhodgkin6546]

Ah the texting grasshopper brain.👌☕

[@chuckvaughn]

Boys, you hit the nail on the head. He uses my tools and then can't remember where he put them after he was done. We are ready to leave, but first vacuum and maybe mop or lint roller the furniture. He remakes the bed an hour before we go to bed. Says that the dogs have gotten hair on the bed, yet again. Even though the bed is too high for them to get on the bed. Last, we are both ocd, but with him, out of sight out of mind. Hide everything. Beautiful for those to see, but open a drawer or closet and it's packed and you can never find anything after it's been put away. Don't ask where it MIGHT be 😆 But I'm sure he can find twice as many things that I do to bug him. Enjoy your holidays 😁

[@OutLoudJB]

Lmao the list goes on and on🤣🤣 Happy new year, Chuck!!

[@chuckvaughn]

@@OutLoudJB ❤️😘

[@chuckvaughn]

@@OutLoudJB happy New year!!!

[@beaux14u]

So cute!

[@jwb52z9]

I am guessing only the older of the two of you will understand this comment, but you both have what I think is an example of the perfect "May to December" relationship.

[@sladersawyer4385]

Jon started off strong with the fridge door situation... but, my scorecard has Brian with the win (sorry Jon 😳)

[@wilma740]

Brian is so manspreading !

[@OutLoudJB]

Thank you!!!

[@roberttrickey2135]

You guys are totally adorable. Good on you and you're an inspiration to an old(er) guy like me who's newly single :)

[@OutLoudJB]

😊

[@atnobhill]

OMG, you both are so funny. This is what happened when you live and share space with another person 🤣❤🌈

[@benjaminvella2736]

Crack me up ! East coast schmuck & schmo arguing about the dishwasher ! Solution.... Take ur butts to McDonalds and get a happy meal. With McCoffee. Problems solved.

[@mhollick63]

Michael and I arrive at the gym together but work out separately. No arguments.

[@ajestlemonde]

I'd love to have someone to argue like this with... just saying.

[@shawnreid7309]

Funny how those things don’t change over time , my partner of 29 years have similar pet peeves !

[@lionelpayette4628]

Funny guys. 👍

[@lindabrown5472]

Wow guys

[@richoneplanet7561]

Omg dropping the conversation in a text - I don't have the patience

[@billligon4005]

I get it how annoying these things are -- but guys they DON"T mean a thing. Go to the bedroom and 'make the bed over' (and I mean do your arguing in bed)!! After 40 years there - we do it with Dignity and Grace. Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year. B&R San Diego (we are 20 years apart).

[@johnr.french6499]

You guys make me laugh...so silly that's all ..

[@aquarius418]

7:04 🥰lovely

[@josephcollins6033]

You don't live together? I wondered about the not texting me till the next day thing. Then you said you are supposed to be moving back in...

[@OutLoudJB]

We currently live together 😊

[@jodieblake7398]

Cutest couple ever!!!!

[@keifers]

So you are a completely normal couple 😁😁😁

[@romaneros4583]

A great partner will not tolerate your idiosyncrasies, they will appreciate them.

[@SimpleWorld08]

How old are they? 😇

[@dramonmaster222]

Perfection is overated.

[@nightowl5475]

I give it 6 more months tops.

[@anonymousyou-hd9ip]

No one’s relationship or marriage is perfect. Also, you need to consider following the people who follow you

[@pseudolus7963]

This is an excuse to start a fight and have hate sex disguised as a KZbin video. 😂

[@OutLoudJB]

Ummmm…. No, but maybe?!🤣🤣

[@lindabrown5472]

You have the same hair style

[@marcelfr90]

What's the age gap? He's younger than 30 and he's older than 55. If I were a poor kid in medieval times, and James I was like "I wanna pop your cherry", even if I ain't no btm, I'd probably let him do me. At least, I'd enjoy high standards of living. My partner was in a 1-year long-distance relationship with a 50+-year-old man when he was 21. Even though it uneases him, the reason he "fell" for a man his dad's age was that he falls short in his own dad's eyes. His dad is a doctor and there was huge pressure put on him to be one. He studied Civil Engineering. His sister became the doctor and that abuser is always talking about her, even in front of us, at her absence. I happen to be a doctor, too. And that f-ing abuser can't stop talking about medical stuff at dinners, every single time. Such an insufferable, incompetent dad. Every time I see him, I just wanna punch him in the face. My point? This is no healthy relationship! Therapy is better, mate.

[@OutLoudJB]

As a doctor yourself, you’ll know that no 2 cases are the same. I say this to highlight that not all age gap relationships are the same.

[@marcelfr90]

@@OutLoudJB Of course, but such a relationship is usually a result of a problematic relationship of the younger partner with his parents. I am not calling your feelings fake. Not at all. My partner was in love with that eldergay. I believe him and I believe you love your older partner, but this is not a healthy relationship. Therapy is the most effective solution, mate. Try CBT.

[@rasferrastfarian739]

lol

[@scott9607]

That beard needs to go or trim it up. 🤔

[@OutLoudJB]

Ughhh, I know. It needs a trim. Yet another thing that drives Brian crazy🤣🤣

[@scott9607]

@@OutLoudJB You are such a cutie pie ❤🏳️‍🌈👍

[@dilldiablo]

we need less Jon and more Brian

[@OutLoudJB]

I simultaneously love this and hate this! Lol