My Secret Past - Gareth Thomas: Coming Out | Sexuality Documentary | Reel Truth

[@johanneshendrikslabbert8185]

Thank you for standing up, to not only make peace with yourself, but also to help others to see their piece of sunlight in our daily living. You seem to be a very honest, a person with feeling for others, and for me, it is highly appreciated. May I wish you joy, happiness, peace, tranquility, blessings and prosperity.

[@ziggy8190]

His book is absolutely astounding , and moved me to tears I won't spoil it all , but at one point he's standing on the edge of a cliff contemplating walking off to end the torment,again absolutely astounding and a must buy

[@vintagelingstitches785]

What a great man. He has done his country proud not just for his accomplishments in the greatest sport there is but also for the amazing things he has done for sports personalities and the general public. Great man and just a plus that he is also Welsh.

[@nigelcox1835]

It's hard I am out and don't care who knows one life live it ! So many men live two lives so sad!

[@butterflyeffect6578]

You are a beautiful man.

[@BruvvaUK]

It took me until my 30s to come out and nobody believed me as I always seemed to “straight” and during that time like Gareth I was always so angry and so ashamed of who I was and in some way I still am.

[@AnnaP-uh3mc]

I know you posted this 6 months ago and I’m just an internet random but I just wanted to say I hope you’re getting nearer a point where you can be happy & totally comfortable with who you are and are kicking off those leftover feelings of shame - there is nothing shameful at all about you being who you are 💕🌈

[@jacovanzyl2480]

YOU are a real hero! Thanks for this video!

[@roddyontheroad7370]

What an affirming and candid reflection to share. Beautifully done. Thanks.

[@TheIkaraCult]

He's such an admirable man. The Highest respect.

[@DongExplorer]

Im brave just like you sir! 27 shades of freed! I’m 28 now, just got out from the dark closet.. I feel freedom, a feeling no word in this world can describe ❤️🌈

[@jeangenie1240]

Second time of watching. It breaks my heart to see such pain. This will help lots of other people, but in 2024 we should be able to just be ourselves.; we may have moved on a bit. Lovely comments below.

[@judyg2197]

Absolutely agree. Ridiculous that anyone should go through such pain. Accept a person for who they are.

[@fckyoumate620]

What a real man . We love you Gareth

[@butterflyeffect6578]

The parallels in your story with my own life, has brought me such comfort, and normalcy.

[@louiseschilt4050]

He's my idol and my hero and I simply love him because he's so genuine and so honest and sometimes brutally honest I was surprised when I found out he'd been suicidal so many times I've been there but I've been there for a different reason a devastating reason I lost my beautiful strong inspirational brother on the 22nd of August 2015 and the man who killed him was aquitted of killing my brother and ten other men. Jacob was my hero my best friend and I miss him everyday I have had so many moments of wanting to just follow Jacob and hug him again one more time....

[@eddiek6660]

That’s so awfully sad to hear. I’m sure your brother Jacob would be super proud of your strength and that you are living for him now too. On your difficult days remember he would want you to be happy and fulfilled and to never give up so stay strong. He’s still with you always. 🕊️ 💛 🕯️

[@robbiejay]

I am sorry for what you have been through. I hope you are better now. You have one life and it is very precious to not listen to what others say about you.

[@rebeccahr1]

Total respect for this amazing man!

[@christineaygin4330]

Friends should be there for you no matter what - if they're not then they're not 'Friends' so you're best rid of them

[@SuperPercy66]

Caught Gareth Thomas on BBC this morning, re homophobic abuse. Total respect to you.

[@coupecruiser]

I can totally relate to this story. Keeping a secret, creating a fake lifestyle and lying to friends and family. I was a professional soldier with rank I in the 80’s, and having tell lies and create deceptions was something I did very well, but emotionally you pay a price for that. In the end enough was enough and I came out as well, and it was actually much easier than I expected.

[@coops9871]

He's got everything in that old room at his parents....100caps for his country.. .

[@louisepetrilli6130]

You are great and wonderful be happy you deserve, you are the example for young man to get out and gives them hope there is hope

[@shaneatkinson8933]

I'm gay and black, I really adore him, thank you for being brave and being the real you, try and ignore the stigma.

[@domnubest]

🤣🤣🤣

[@deadpoolkoa7108]

😂

[@Mcfreddo]

@@domnubestdon't mock.

[@davidbrasier5039]

Who cares if you're black?

[@welshjohn]

Top man Gareth a welsh and British Lions legend

[@sergiodelosriosroma1404]

Brave man:::!!! from Argentina. thank you so much Gareth.

[@suzy5166]

So much respect for him... best wishes in the future 🙏🙏🙏

[@thereverse4452]

My teacher forced me to use my own time to watch this.

[@hmq9052]

Why?

[@roberthughes6919]

Great documentary

[@algiles881]

Since this film was made, Keegan Hirst has "come out" and has made quite an industry for himself, in a way Gareth Thomas has not.

[@muk8804]

Was *just* thinking exactly the same thing myself. There's no way he'd have done so, in my opinion, has Gareth not paved the way .

[@alsationshep1]

What a great man we love you Gareth

[@mspalmboy]

Wonderful documentary about honesty, love, acceptance and equality.

[@gdeec]

Funny part was everyone called me terrible names but no one asked me why, or what made me such a target for the bullies throughout school. Writing my book, A COLOURED IN FULL FLIGHT, THE BOY FROM THE BARRACKS, made it clear I was abused and bullied in the name of teasing.

[@simongoodwin5253]

Literally weeping here! So moving, so very brave.

[@stephanfourie6879]

a mother ALWAYS knows!!

[@gerryward9627]

Brilliant! First time seeing this. It should be shown in every classroom. Thank you!

[@lynnethomas1959]

Well done Gareth, such a lovely man, you have helped so many people

[@wyzolma99]

Defining your whole existence by your sexuality is puzzling. It's nobody's business except those involved in a relationship.

[@aryebognar6663]

That's why straights have engagement parties, have wedding announcements, hold hands in public, etc, etc.

[@louisepetrilli6130]

Respect to a great man

[@williamwhitecloud9020]

Great !!! He used homophobic banter and homophobic bullying to hide his sexuality

[@conniemara1]

brave man...great parents

[@christopherwinstanley1348]

Seems introspective, but its really about being who you are. That's all that matters. I wish it wasn't such an isolated part, from previous times. I know there is more progress for the future against homophobia. Myself I feel more complete as a person and I was really young coming out. So, if anyone is struggling then its a journey to oneself. It take courage to be open. Liked this documentary.

[@teddydavis2339]

The guy in Portsmouth didn't have to tell his best friend. I'm sure she already knew. I don't know why people have to anounce their sexuality.

[@Mcfreddo]

Why not ask? re the dad? People struggle alone. People don't necessarily view themselves as others can- especially in sexuality in ways others can see or recognise. Befriend and ask, but do not betray. Betrayal is a disgrace.

[@jackthomas3613]

gareth is my cousin

[@robbrent]

By acknowledging this means that you’re ok with him and in fact proud of him. Well done and thank you.

[@matsudaseiko]

MY HERO ALWAYS WILL BE ! 😍

[@gringoi1]

Very nice man ..am your fan ..from Brasil for you ..hugs....../

[@jeromelubabalojacobs8872]

Great video

[@DaveSCameron]

Ollie, you are sound!!!

[@clairepapadatos1116]

Bloody brilliant! 👍 👍 👍

[@joebalamoan5784]

Learned each and everyone of us is product of their own environment we can never change the past ever however we can try make our future better one not just for us but for all the future generations that’s my personal believe we all have own challenges.

[@MariaAya]

I loved him from the first phrase

[@TheHitchkick]

It´s sad that this has been out for 8 years and it ONLY has 700 odd views! I am crying from Ollies story and had to pause just to catch my breath. And also; Gareth is so HOT!! 😉. I must google him and see where I can meet him and make him fancy me.....

[@Norfolk250]

Funny... KZbin's close-captioning just can't keep up with those accents!! [Edit]... oh, and.... your dad's hot. Seriously. I gave him a virtual reality pinch through the screen and everything!!

[@jboylan6970]

Beautiful Man

[@jackthomas3613]

he is my cousin

[@jboylan6970]

@@jackthomas3613 His story is uncannily similar to mine. I was diagnosed in 2004. Someone who I once considered a friend and confided in at the lowest point in my life used to hold it over me as a way to manipulate me and control me. I told my friends and family about my diagnoses so that she could no longer terrorise me. I will never forget that very lonely time. I wouldn't wish it on an enemy. And I am a nobody! Can't imagine how it must have been for Gareth being in the public eye. My heart goes out to him. Hope he is doing well.

[@fernandocorreia5096]

I admire you! Love from Portugal ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@leslielenahan2619]

Gareth Thomas Welsh legend 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

[@mikeweston3514]

Top man mr Thomas

[@evangelosperry]

I was abused in the plunge bath at boarding school. Rugger buggers!

[@Onlinesully]

some guy. hope he can help a few people.

[@markgory6847]

gorgeous courageous man

[@stephanfourie6879]

a dream top!!!!😊

[@re7416]

09:39 - "Come on in"....🤷🏻‍♀️😌...😅

[@camillawybrants5757]

Lost interest when he didn't take his shoes off after walking into his parents' house.

[@re7416]

It could be worse.... (He could have been Welsh....)

[@futhark3899]

Wouldn't want him tackling me from behind

[@richlee509]

Lol i bet you would

[@bobjary9382]

Oh i dont know

[@tomtaft9861]

You flatter yourself 😂

[@bernardofitzpatrick5403]

Crass comment.

[@barneymcgintytrousers3116]

🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 he needs his lap top looking in to another jimmy Savile he is

[@Dressagevids]

Irresponsible

[@tomtaft9861]

Huh?

[@alexanderson1193]

what a coward. He wrecked that womans life. Thankfully she miscarried

[@paulyeomans8507]

I think it’s more a result of society sticking their nose into people’s sexuality and making them feel ashamed of themselves. He must have been tormented for years and that’s no way to live a life. Society is to blame for both his and his ex wife’s torment.

[@hdrik66]

You didn’t get anything seeing this docu did you ?

[@Onlinesully]

Rhys Hoffman I honestly don't think that oriole relapse what they say sometimes, or the damage that they do.

[@tomtaft9861]

Wow!! You've obviously been 1000% honest, true and authentic to who you are your whole life?!? And never been afraid or overwhelmed? Lucky you