Why Sigma Males Are Misunderstood By Family

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@achievegreatnessmedia Ай бұрын

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@Ephesians--hm2zv Ай бұрын

Ah! I thaught about this kind of celebration I don't pratice. This year as the last I didn't wish anything to anyone...

@townstunsltd6727 Ай бұрын

Happy New Year to one and all at Achieve Greatness Media, and to all your subscribers! Thank you for another year of insightful and uplifting content! All the very best champs!

@Welder19 Ай бұрын

This is exactly how I feel

@Robert-nz3te Ай бұрын

They dont misunderstand you. They envy your sensibilities, authenticity because they are inauthentic. When they speak to you it is always with a reductive attitude.... Makes you feel sorry for them. Best thing to do is avoid them and associate with peolpe who loves and respect you...

@ITouchGrass673 Ай бұрын

Do u have balkan rage Robert?

@hivicar Ай бұрын

Not if you raise your family far enough away! I'm free of any unwanted attention! lol

@Robert-nz3te 28 күн бұрын

@ITouchGrass673I have no rage sir. Rage is a sign of weakness, lack of control.. what I commented is fact. My life experience...

@FischerFan Ай бұрын

This video presents an intriguing range of characteristics, but point number 4 really hits home for me. I grew up in a dysfunctional household which originates from my mother plunging into marriage to an alcoholic at the age of 19. One of her own sisters did the same thing at age 22. As a last-born, I would watch two older siblings combine for three divorces in their lives. As a result, I know of three children of divorce. Just a few years ago, as I was approaching my 50th birthday, my mother was on the phone with me and asked if there was anything on the horizon in the way of grandkids for her. She was of the very opinion described in point number four. Between her, my father and my siblings, I remain unable to find one example of a successful marriage in my family. In my 20s and 30s, friends tried to involve me in relationships with women I didn't want. I soon came to trust no one, and they eventually realized that they were wasting their time trying to play Cupid with me. My priorities in life are my stability and peace of mind. I'm not going to turn my life upside down just to give my mother a new baby to hold, nor to conform to expectations of past friends who have set the worst examples in their own lives.

@ITouchGrass673 Ай бұрын

WHY SO FEINIUS

@zxarkov 20 күн бұрын

Thank You. Lived all 10 of those points 100%

@SPOCK_TALK Ай бұрын

Absolutely misunderstood by family. They don't understand how I can be so successful and happy. I have friends and women but choose to live alone. They just don't get it.

@zacharydixon7958 18 күн бұрын

Because I haven’t been in your shoes. I’d rather be self-employed and work for someone. I’m gonna work for someone just to validate someone else and abandon my self-worth and my self authenticity.

@RockyTop_BC 20 күн бұрын

As someone that fits the description of a sigma, Communication can be difficult. People either don't believe you or think you are bragging when you talk about the things you do or enjoy or have done. ... Or they don't understand the depth of possibilities. They look at you thinking - "That is just not possible." To fit in you have to create a fake you and pretend to be like everyone else. It is not enjoyable and difficult to keep up with.

@BetterDaysAhead-u8y 18 күн бұрын

The story of my life having being gifted by the GOD/Gods to have multiple talents and to do them rather well such as being a damn-near master of the trades, not to mention being very skilled at problem-solving (a very useful skill-set during innovations/inventions among others)... That's why one avoids saying these things as most will doubt you, but then be jealous/envious of you when they see that you actually are a damn-near GENIOUS, they may try to STEAL your innovation/idea(s), try to take credit for it by making obvious modifications/suggestions that aren't warranted and do not add any useful value to the original innovation/idea(s), and then try to impress you or to compete with you and when they can't, even in groups/multitudes, they simply become hostile and often severe relations etc.

@rizlem8653 6 күн бұрын

you are NOT a sigma

@BetterDaysAhead-u8y 5 күн бұрын

"@rizlem8653"... Not sure whom you directed your comment, but can you explain how they are not a *sigma* ? Everyone has an opinion and after-all, you do not live with them, follow them around, or know what they have to put-up with, so you couldn't know for sure? And if you think that you are a *sigma* , what makes you think so???

@rizlem8653 5 күн бұрын

@ Sorry i don't waste my time with people that aren't sigmas.

@TheKingofHowTos_TKHT Күн бұрын

@@rizlem8653, 😂, that's your opinion. And you are supposed to be a *sigma* ? Not even close 😂. This is because *sigmas* know that there are other archetypes and could really never only associate with *sigmas* as there aren't too many around lol. A *sigma* would associate with any archetype as long as the relationship is genuine and is a deep connection. Sigmas do not discriminate solely based on archetype, so you told on yourself right there (in-fact *sigmas* do not discriminate at all as *fairness* is at the core of *sigmas*). Anywho, I generally consider myself leaning *sigma* vs alpha as pretty all traits about sigmas hit the nail on the head as if they're talking about the story of my life as I do lead a rather independent life, which is completely on my terms and [not very many can live completely independently on their own terms for extended periods such as for years, as many can't even go past a couple of months] lol 😂. This is one key trait of *sigmas* and where many will fail (another trait where many fail is by being jealous of *sigmas* / others for their many talents/knowledge, but a true *sigma* will never be jealous but rather, want everyone to be their best - you apparently do not know much about *sigmas* and need to research further)... .

@JohnGallagher-kp4nd Ай бұрын

I feel the general description is accurate. I really believe if people understood us more accurately, they would eventually become intuitive on our behalf. Perhaps find more merit than what is typical. I've tested it and found I put myself in way more shoes to determine what's overall appropriate in situations. People tend to jump to conclusions rather than discussing these things and assume others would respond to misunderstandings. I try to avoid offending others but somehow do. Thank you for being a voice for me. Wish everyone was as poignant and articulated. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

@BetterDaysAhead-u8y 18 күн бұрын

That's one major problem with society today as they'd expect one simply to fit-it or to do what everyone does; isn't that why we have the 99-ers and the 1-ers? Because if one doesn't blindly follow along with the trends of the 99-ers etal., one is seen as an outcast/odd/loner etc. Just because one refuses to blindly do what everyone is doing doesn't make them any of those afore-said words... However, many will jump to conclusion as if they know you personally, or as if they are in your shoes 24-7 to see what you actually have to go thru/deal with... smdh.

@BetterDaysAhead-u8y Ай бұрын

One could totally relate to the aforesaid/aforementioned/above-said (however, in this case, it surrounds being around very selfish/self-centered certain family members who think that their stuff always take top priority and you must leave whatever projects/other/jobs that you currently are working on and attend to them and them only as it is in-fact a one-way street, but you guessed it, they'd NEVER reciprocate even with very similar/same situations when in the other direction... It becomes extremely draining and forces one to focus on/prioritize their OWN sovereignty/agendas or to become more MGTOW/RED-PILL/SIGMA etc.)... Sometimes, one just has to say no... Yes, others may have important things going on, but they also need to know that [one] also has other imperatives to which one must attend/address... That doesn't mean that one doesn't care about the importance of their event/stuff... Some people find this so hard to comprehend, such as, TG is, or Xmas and/or a BD are just another day... smdh.

@ralstonedwards7375 Ай бұрын

I went to our Christmas party this year and sat at a table by myself, ate and left

@SouLoveReal Ай бұрын

Been there, done that over a dozen times up until the age of 50. Soon I just quit going; I'm 68 now. I love my alone time with small or even NO company - including during the Holidays...

@ITouchGrass673 Ай бұрын

So edgy I'm shivering while drinking still water and listening to fein 🤓

@BrettMartin-jb3zd Ай бұрын

Same

@Pollywhop 22 күн бұрын

Same

@MyDimka1989 13 күн бұрын

The problem is people judge by there own standards but less have good ones

@CilVine Ай бұрын

Problem with relatives, is that they tend to latch on, to any opportunity they get to foist, or impose their insecurities, inadequacies, and burdens onto the empathic, self-sufficient lone wolf.

@moorshound3243 Ай бұрын

I find the opposite

@rabilahaiwas5901 11 күн бұрын

Excellent

@Jay-dh9yt 19 күн бұрын

1000% perfect description

@UnappealingUndesirable Ай бұрын

I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American, male and heterosexual. A Sigma Male! And, my family can't figure me out. I spent Christmas doing voluntary overtime (remote work), where I get a good salary at 150% of my regular rate.

@leobardomunozjr9822 Ай бұрын

🎉 HAPPY NEW YEAR and thank you for the video!

@ITouchGrass673 Ай бұрын

Those who know💀: Still water + adrenaline + noradrenaline + hawk tuah + anger issues + balkan parents + english or Spanish + german stare + Balkan rage + jonkler laugh + phonk +Belgian edging + Baltic farting + bulgarian scratching + aggressive slovakian jelqing + polish footjob + indian respect moment those who know + Opponent uses Jamaican Smile + Russian Frown + Finnish wave + Icelandic blink + Thai grin + Hungarian punch + Swiss climb + Argentinian flex + Chilean dance + Peruvian squat + Kenyan grin + Jamaican jump + Russian slide + Filipino stretch + Balkan climb + Greek dash + Egyptian tilt + Vietnamese sit + American hop + Pakistani stomp + Hungarian march + Italian march + Japanese snap + German slide + Irish dash + Brazilian whistle + Turkish flick + French leap + Korean twist + Canadian clap + Indian bow + Nigerian stare + Italian kick + Chinese lean + Scottish grin + Mexican swing + Swedish dash + Moroccan leap + Ukrainian stretch + Danishwhistle + Finnish kick +Icelandic jump + Thai clap + Hungarian dash + Swiss stretch + Argentinian whistle + Chilean wink + Peruvian hop + Kenyan sprint + Jamaican whistle + Russian clap + Filipino nod + Balkan bend + Greek run + Egyptian squat + Vietnamese smile + American point + Pakistani twist + Japanese wink + German bow + Irish hop + Brazilian cheer + Turkish skip + French flex + Korean dance + Canadian tiptoe + Indian dash + Nigerian hop + Italian leap + Chinese nod + Scottish sprint + Mexican cheer + Swedish stretch + Moroccan bow + Ukrainian flex + Danish leap + Finnish slide + Swiss gaze + Hungarian lean + Swiss tap + Chilean sprint + Peruvian wave + Jamaican knit + Russian eat + Icelandic stare + Thai skip + Hungarian wink + Swiss tiptoe + Argentinian point + Chilean clap + Peruvian lean + Kenyan dash + Indian dash + Dutch wave + Polish work + Scottish lean + Swedish whistle + Moroccan skip + Ukrainian lean + Danish dive + Finnish flex + Icelandic tilt + Thai flick + Indian whistle + Swedish dash

@achievegreatnessmedia Ай бұрын

Happy New Year! Thanks for watching!

@zerolbcool Ай бұрын

Unreal, spot on again as usual!

@achievegreatnessmedia Ай бұрын

👑

@dennisgodaire485 Ай бұрын

Yes, Indeed ... Thank You ...

@jonathankay9957 14 күн бұрын

Yup that's me. Goes for both mine and my wife's side.

@cscf3052 Ай бұрын

No need to waste energy, it's limited

@SurroundedByNonsense Ай бұрын

Bravo and this is what I've been saying all the long.

@chibuzoronu2316 Ай бұрын

100% True .

@joeteevee Ай бұрын

Fantastic vid. You guys really nailed it; also: love the "Walter White"-esque narration :)

@achievegreatnessmedia Ай бұрын

Thank you!

@zakariamosah3607 Ай бұрын

All this are what disturb me when I was growing in my life every places, and now I kwon what is the meaning of thinking, or who I am. Thanks

@JW-zs1pz 18 күн бұрын

Can relate, I too had to walk away from family. It finally came to a head. I'm a middle child of five. 2 above and 2 below. None of them get me, even tho I tell them who I am. They see what they see but don't ask pertinent questions that would probably tell them more about me if they bothered to ask. Lost our little sister in recent years and watched my older brother say things to get a rise out of me because of jealousy. (Worst insult of my life )From my older brother in front of my first real girlfriend I ever had in High school, I'm 58 now. We did not answer him or even act as tho we heard anything. Total blow off. Left him wondering why I said nothing or reacted at all. I figured out later he was jealous of me working the room of my sister's friends at her celebration of life party. I talked to everyone I could, table to table. Something he did not have the ability to do, be a chameleon with people he does not know. Decided enough is enough, no respect, talking trash in front of others and behind my back. I walked away. Have not talked to them for going on 3 yrs now. No more 6 weeks of depression after just cause I saw my brothers. It's been a healthier experience for sure.

@Cobber2023 29 күн бұрын

I used to attend large family gatherings when my Great Grandmother and my Aunt were still alive. I was lucky enough to have my Great Grandmother in my life until i was 27 years old, i am the family member who doesn’t get invited to family things anymore because i am the only person who doesn’t beat around the bush just to keep the peace, if someone is talking 💩 i call them out and ask them to be quiet, family members talk about each other in my presence and i tell them to keep it to themselves because if they are talking about other people who are absent what are they saying about me when i am not around i keep to myself because people are fake and they all love to look down on other people because it makes them forget how 💩 their lives truly are.

@kentjensen4939 Ай бұрын

Better to just ghost them and be alone.

@moorshound3243 Ай бұрын

Not without you actually writing a heartfelt letter to explain what's going on with yourself as it shows respect towards them.

@kentjensen4939 Ай бұрын

@@moorshound3243 Take respect and shove it!

@JeffJapenga Күн бұрын

Decided me to a tee! Thanks

@morrisdennis 27 күн бұрын

Definitely me😮

@McD-j5r 29 күн бұрын

Families are normally collective minded and the sigma is individuated.

@jackel54130 Ай бұрын

I tried explaining this to my Dad when I couldn't be with family for Father's day due to a project. I said, "It's not that you are not important. I just have other things going on. It's not like we never get together."

@ITouchGrass673 Ай бұрын

Why so serious

@BetterDaysAhead-u8y Ай бұрын

One could totally relate to the aforesaid/aforementioned/above-said (however, in this case, it surrounds being around very selfish/self-centered certain female family members who think that their stuff always take top priority and you must leave whatever projects/other/jobs that you currently are working on and attend to them and them only as it is in-fact a one-way street, but you guessed it, they'd NEVER reciprocate even with very similar/same situations when in the other direction... It becomes extremely draining and forces one to focus on/prioritize then OWN sovereignty/agendas or to become more MGTOW/RED-PILL/SIGMA etc.)... Sometimes, one just has to say no... Yes, others may have important things going on, but they also need to know that [one] also has other imperatives to which one must attend/address... That doesn't mean that one doesn't care about the importance of their even/stuff... Some people find this so hard to comprehend, such as, TG is or Xmas or a BD are just another day... smdh.

@marcrodriguez1146 Ай бұрын

As a person who likes being by himself will sit apart, I don't say much and when I do something it's pretty direct but polite, when I get angry they stand away, in my opinion they don't understand me or don't try to figure me out directly