Why The Mother Of The Bride Says She’s Not Going To Her Daughter’s Wedding

[@paigedaniel4300]

Sounds like she's jealous. Jealous of her daughter, her wedding, her sister, everything. She must be a very sad person.

[@sheg1969]

I think it's sad. Apparently, she doesn't work...she just chews on these memories all day long. How much you wanna bet mom doesn't do anything Dr. Phil sets uo?

[@Light-jc3fj]

I think the mum is the victim of narcissistic abuse by the older sister and mum. I think she's very loving but the "over shadowing" thing is a shame because it does give them all an excuse to get away with their more covert abuse. Unless you've lived through years of narc abuse, you cannot see why someone would become that upset...I get it!

[@coffeeaddictexpress5038]

You told your only child to drop dead, then you feel like the victim?!? Lady you don’t deserve her love.

[@heidifoster6755]

I feel so bad for the daughter. I cant imagine my child doing anything that would cause me to say ONE of those things to her EVER!

[@sheg1969]

I pray that this young woman has in laws that are kind and supportive of her and her marriage to her son.

[@kaylaalexis9632]

“By my mother Theresa” mother Theresa lol

[@Cassiehd]

Mother Theresa 😂😂 I laughed too much

[@aaexyz]

Lol, my mom's name is Theresa, but I never refer to her as my Mother Theresa lmfao

[@allys744]

My mother’s name is Theresa too, but I don’t refer to her as Mother Theresa either lol.

[@delanac1809]

Sometimes even though it hurts like crazy, you need to remove toxic people from your life.

[@Madib1001]

“i don’t recall saying you should have been sucked out of my stomach”... okay, but the other stuff is fine, right? 😂 absolutely bonkers this woman

[@kileyhough6369]

I swear anytime somebody, on this show or otherwise, starts with “I don’t recall” they are 100% lying.

[@wendyhardin5259]

I know right?! I was flabbergasted.

[@k.m512]

She didn't tell you about the wedding and she didn't invite you to her wedding shower? Ma'am I'm pretty sure your daughter's glad you're not going to the wedding 🤣🤣🤣

[@DCFAN-lh9kf]

Dude if I had to not invite my mother to my wedding I would still be very sad that she wouldn’t be there

[@Suchwerewolf]

I’m not having a wedding for the simple reason that I do not want to invite my mother to my wedding, and I know it would be expected

[@oouu8470]

She thinks she can make demands like SHE'S the bride instead of her daughter. She thinks she's entitled to tell her daughter that she needs to turn her back on family members just because MOM has an issue with them. Daughter has to take her mom's side and "prove" her loyalty to her mom by going NC with People that didn't even hurt daughter personally. Mom doesn't want a daughter, she wants an ally or allies, she wants to surround herself with people that validate her 100% in being the poor, innocent victim so she can tell herself that she's the victim and that she's 100% right. Even worse: she does all that and she's mad and upset that she's not invited? She's telling her daughter that she can't invite certain People to HER OWN WEDDING and mom is wondering why her daughter doesn't include her? "The mother of the bride should be respected"? Respect is EARNED, not demanded lady.

[@mkg2124]

This is why so many people go no contact with their family these days.

[@mississippimud7046]

Damn how could you say those horrible things to your daughter

[@jewels3596]

This woman is a nut case! Calls herself the scapegoat of the family....right....any woman that will tell their own child you wished they'd die is no mother at all. SHE is the reason her family is 'against' her. They have to be against her for their own safety, sanity and emotional well-being.

[@heynikki.]

“The mother of the bride should be respected.” Ok, well traditionally, the bride’s family pays for the wedding. Did you whip out the checkbook a few months later?

[@mikewebber2637]

Most coup!rs these days pay for their own weddings And even if the mother wrote a check to help, that does not give her say in the guest list.

[@Br0nto5aurus]

"She told me I was psychotic, told me I was a mental case" That's cause you are, in the colloquial vernacular.

[@beckyterra3493]

This woman needs more than dr phil

[@emilythomson418]

“I am not going to my daughters wedding” you weren’t even invited bestie 😂

[@Pattiepies55]

One earns respect lady, it's not automatic .

[@rhiannonredd961]

MY mother emailing Dr. Phil when she's not invited to MY wedding... 😬

[@psychedelic.dreamer]

My mom said something similar to the abortion comment to me when I was a teen and while she denies ever saying it (even telling other family members that I'm a liar), I will always remember.

[@elwampo135]

I am so sorry, you dont deserve this. I hope you know in your heart that you are a great person!

[@maureenandrews4910]

Wow and you expect a wedding invite.

[@keishaizawesome2836]

There's a reason you weren't invited mom.....I'm seeing the reason.

[@Nunu-_985]

That's awful. I am so sorry for your pain and the hurt inflicted upon you. Heal, learn, forgive and move forward 🌱

[@aggieyerex8175]

Sadly, there’s more moms out there like this than anyone would want to know.

[@mirameyer9118]

typical "woah is me" victim mentality

[@pegleg2959]

Woe is me

[@stephaniemc9948]

Look at how her face lights up while he’s reading those statements..she’s a sick woman.

[@allys744]

Mom: *texts daughter telling her she should’ve been aborted * Also mom: “I never said she should’ve been sucked out of my stomach.” Madam, everything is written in ink.

[@miltoncat]

“that’s a laaaah”

[@Moffeliten]

Why doesn't she block her mom from calling and sending txt messages?

[@TashaJohnson-ii3je]

Sounds easy.... but its not. As mean as she is, she still wants her mom to be a mom

[@johnmcmanus2447]

She sounds kinda like that guy, i can't even remember his name, his wife was named Sally, the one that Dr. Phil said catastrophizes everything

[@mika75700]

You mean Charles? I can't remember specifically, but his wife had an affair with a guy who was working at a mosque, right?

[@johnmcmanus2447]

@@mika75700 a synagogue i think

[@mika75700]

@@johnmcmanus2447 oh yeah, that's right. ☺️

[@sheg1969]

I think they got back together...

[@NotIfWhen]

When her daughter stops talking to her forever. When she can’t see her grandkids. When she is all alone. She will regret all this drama and abuse.

[@sheg1969]

I disagree

[@katieboliver5095]

I once dated somebody like this. People like that don't like anybody that sees through them. They always think they're right and never admit or have any remorse for their wrongdoings. That's this woman and my ex is like this too.

[@itscc2004]

I’m so glad you could get out of that. I remember being in a relationship where the guy would say “if you left I wouldn’t know what I would do. You’re my last hope, I would k*ll myself if you leave me.” I’m so glad I could get out of that relationship and he seemed sweet but that’s how those people get to you.

[@lalamakeuprehab]

It’s not about you! You’re the mother and you’re acting like an immature child!!! You’re toxic !!! I feel so sad for this girl! Thankfully she has other family!

[@Snowymae]

If my Mom made me lose my job the way this one did I would tell her she needs to go to counseling with me and if she didn’t go or didn’t change I would write her off

[@marieknight9385]

Reactive abuse is not a real thing, you reacted with abusive behavior

[@sheg1969]

Come on...let her make up.terminology! (Joke)

[@alexradice8163]

Reactive abuse is a genius term imo. I don't think it's necessarily valid but it really shows how these people justify themselves

[@liamina3563]

It is a real thing, but she isn't an example of it. She's definitely abusive.

[@marieknight9385]

@@liamina3563 no it's not a real thing, you are either abusive or you're not, there is not in between, if you think it's real then you are also an enabler or abuser

[@marieknight9385]

@@alexradice8163 definitely, it's the same as thinking that the absence of physical violence means it's not abusive

[@harlanmorris3046]

I know how it feels to have the vast majority of family hating me for my own bad choices.

[@lilys7431]

Hummmmm emotions manipulation so much tougher with grown children. Dear lady, you are allowed to walk away, you owe mom nothing.

[@amyfuchs8306]

The mother is going to be in jail for abusing and bullying lying to her daughter and namecalling.

[@leakolbeck1347]

Love these edits that make people look so evil when they're actually just sitting there looking out a window lol

[@sheg1969]

I have the feeling this lady is not going to take Dr. Phil up on his generosity. Is it possible she's too far gone?

[@msmichelle746]

If you want respect, make decisions that respect others and do things that are respectful to yourself and others.

[@Courtney-pn5lr]

Is this a video about my mother? Lol

[@neighbourhoodwitch18]

Courtney 0531 no! It's about MINE 😂 my future mother in law came with me to choose a dress. Not my own.

[@melvinnclarissamartin3866]

It takes respect to get respect I've been in this situation with my own mom I was at the point that I did not want her at my wedding at all but she decided to come anyhow and put on a show to to make it look like she was fine. But beforehand she was out of control and putting me down. I hope for the sake of this young lady that she can either either fixed the relationship with her mom or move on without her because it's not gonna be an easy road I can tell or tell you that right now from experience experience I actually have had to give up a relationship with my mom. For my own mental health issues.

[@shh5627]

We can pick our friends but not our family. It's probably best if the mom doesn't attend the wedding as mom seems to be unstable and have anger issues.

[@tiffanystidham5329]

Oh man 🙄... -That woman embodies the saying, "Misery loves company."

[@heyLORDitsme]

I wanna fight this lady. Not for anyone else but for myself. She just rinds me the wrong way!!

[@miap6844]

This mother seems like a nightmare!

[@artn2950]

Block your phone!!!!!

[@sheg1969]

Get a new number

[@heatherlee9880]

Look at mom’s eyes. I know she is a narcissist. And very imbalanced.

[@Suchwerewolf]

She says she has vivid childhood memories of this woman being a good mother but here’s the thing people that toxic don’t BECOME toxic overnight. I suspect the daughter is blocking out the toxic memories and focusing on the good ones because when a parent tells the child “I’m a good, caring parent” the child BELIEVES THEM because a child is WIRED TO BELIEVE ANYTHING A PARENT TELLS THEM. And our brains can do this fascinating thing where they disregard data that doesn’t fit within our core beliefs. I think she’s remembering her mother as better than she was

[@Reshme77]

I was a family scape goat but at the same time if I don't like them I just stay away. Don't want to waste time w/fools This lady was possibly a scape goat But her reactions are so explosive its hard to sympathize with her

[@alexradice8163]

Ya I hope you have fun being alone the rest of your life

[@TashaJohnson-ii3je]

OMG! This is exactly my life! My mother is exactly like her. It's like watching my mother on TV 😭😭😭😭

[@jackiegarroutte8970]

No matter WHAT my kids said or did I would NEVER SAY THINGS LIKE THAT TO THEM😢

[@anniewallace3601]

She must have blackout rage for her not to remember some of those comments.

[@CakesbyJai]

Poor baby

[@chronic2023]

I would be so ASHAMED as I am sure many mothers would be to say even 1 of those hurtful things to either of my daughters. If my mother had said anything like that to me, I would have permanently cut ties. Her daughter is an angel to even be able to talk to her horrible mother.

[@haji818721]

You don't recall one statement and that is what you focus on? Yeah.

[@buzzoff666]

Wowzers

[@ronyagpd]

There's a lot more to being a mother than the act of birth. She appears to be incapable of listening and incapable of love.

[@sayit-sayit]

It is possible to cut people out of your life.

[@fraidypan9898]

“I’m innocent she called me a sociopath for no reason!” Then talks about how she told her daughter she wants her dead and insults her...ok

[@miltoncat]

Love how she demands respect when she craps on everyone else.

[@ambrosiamitchell8880]

Reminds me of my mom say and do hurtful things to me then play victim smh

[@missesmommy3160]

Good god mom is nuts. Keep her away

[@ashleyodom4360]

Be done!!

[@angelrodriguez-ru6pj]

A mom who doesnt earn respect is not allowed respect

[@j3pelfrey]

I'm her mother, and I deserve a whole lot more..................................A Mother acts like a mother.

[@torrez-mw5dc]

I feel awful for her 💔 Stay strong

[@merinasingh8014]

My mother told me once that I'm unwanted child ..and that's why she loves my brother more ...she was happy while saying this ..this might be the reason why she treats me horrible ....god knows

[@sheilamadonia-maberry9701]

I'm so sorry.

[@merinasingh8014]

@@sheilamadonia-maberry9701 🥺🥺

[@phyllis9750]

Don't need her. DUMP HER. If she can say those awful things to and about you, you're BETTER OFF going your own way!!!

[@rianamohamed300]

If Mother Theresa told me, i would definitely go.

[@JustMomHere]

What a selfish woman to insist that her daughter do things her way.

[@joeysoprano1335]

If my Mom was like this l wouldn't have a problem to say get lost!! She would just make me miserable and depressed !!

[@angiealexis3717]

She started getting psycho when her daughter grew up cause she wanted to be the center of her daughter's life. Narcissists do that, they also bad mouth their grown children to anyone that would listen. These are so called parents with no life.

[@annarileyloves414]

She is not grateful person and she should be in jail for harassing her daughter and should feel what her daughter feels when she say that to her and than she will see how it feels .

[@jamesr2888]

Oh, I have lists & lists of verbal abuse that would top this from my mother that would make Satan blush.

[@nicoladawson2861]

What kind of mother says these types of things to their child?!?! I don't care what your child says, no mother should EVER say these things!!

[@kscott8528]

I swear my mom acts the exact same way. Words and all!!

[@suzukino1933]

Families.....dont you just love em..

[@yaboijoel517]

Nope 😂😂😂

[@suzukino1933]

Oh c'mon.......just a little bit.....🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NKBobcat]

The mother needs to be successful in one of her facetime threats.

[@sheg1969]

Couldn't she sue her mom?

[@Team1DLP]

My mom is just like this. Like, identical. I was not allowed to get close to any elder female, ESPECIALLY my aunts and grandma or else she acted like this. I now have problems connecting to any elder that could potentially care about me

[@wendyhardin5259]

The mother is not even ashamed or remorseful over the truly horrendous things she has said to her daughter. Even at the point of head exploding anger with my three daughters have I ever said I wish I had them aborted! Or wishing them dead! My god what is wrong with this woman?!

[@The.S.M.Evans.91]

She sounds like Birdman.. "Put some Respeck on my name."

[@oouu8470]

"The mother of the bride should be respected". Lady, respect is EARNED, not demanded. Mom is selfish and entitled to think she can demand that her daughter needs to "prove" her loyalty to her by turning her back on family members just because MOM has beef with those People. That's ridiculous and childish.

[@Lonerstoner0550]

I couldn’t imagine being jealous of my child, I don’t understand why mothers think they’re so important that they get an automatic yes to everything. Maybe be a better person and you wouldn’t be treated like this.

[@cheesecakefan4880]

Like an episode of Jerry springer

[@paulakarwowski]

Sounds like the Aunt wants to replace the girls mother.

[@alexandrahogstrom6235]

Top ten most toxic mothers on dr Phil

[@lalamakeuprehab]

Too bad respect is earned not given ! You have zero insight! Zero ability to take responsibility for one’s actions and the wrongs you’ve done! Can’t see that multiple people are telling you that you are wrong and out of control!

[@namuunbayasgalan6281]

Oh my God. What happens in this family. Grandma and aunt hate my mother. My mom hates me

[@environmentalbuff]

I would just block her number

[@JudyinAL]

She uses that word mother too loosely as it applies to her.

[@lzimm34]

the mother acts like she's entitled karen who thinks the world revolves around her so she has to cause chaos in the family.

[@MrCaelbe1]

My mother told me she didn't want to come to my wedding because it just didn't seem like something she wanted to do. She loves my husband. She is going to my nieces wedding and is excited to go. Can someone explain this to me?

[@Steviemarie502]

There's always one, "that's a lie!" in there that makes no difference whatsoever. Like if she really didn't say on of those things, it makes all the other things she did say better somehow. She does it in all these clips.

[@andregreen4358]

I feel so bad for the daughter, her mother is evil. I woulld cut the lines of communication off after all of what she did.

[@ivydemichael3661]

My daughter did same thing m daughter in narcissist the other daughtervis avoidance personality. Mental illness is very badcon them now

[@carolinegallegos_]

Why do psycho mothers with psychotic behaviors always say someone else “turned their child against them”? My mother is psycho. I hate her. I don’t talk to her. She’s always claimed it’s my ex boyfriends through the years and father who’s been divorced from her for almost two decades who’s turned me against her. My ex boyfriends and father literally never talk about her. She doesn’t exist to them. Her and her behavior alone is what turned me against her. 18 years of dealing with a psycho selfish explosive narcissist is what turned me against her. I hate her. I’ve hated her since as far back as I can remember. I haven’t spoken to her in years. I will never speak to her again for as long as I live. And it’s 100% because of HER and HER BEHAVIOR. No one else.

[@oouu8470]

If this lady can't get over herself and can't find a way to or bring herself to put her daughters' feelings and needs and happiness first instead of only focusing on HER agenda of "proving" that she's the poor, innocent victim and getting validated as being the poor, innocent victim that everyone should feel sorry for.. I'm sorry, but then she has no business attending her daughters' wedding. I can guarantee you that she can and will find a way to steal the attention away and make sure the Day revolves around HER instead of her daughter. I'm pretty sure the truth lies somewhere in the middle. But the last thing this lady needs is someone patting her on the shoulder and telling her that she's 100% right. That will only make things worse.

[@highlandhousestudio6638]

WORST MOTHER EVER

[@wrangler2239]

Look she is a grown woman she makes these decisions whatever she wants to do with her life that is her business if she wants to get married let her get married you can't stop your daughter from getting married and have kids then let her do it you can't stop her you can't stop her from ruining her life darling I mean you cannot ruin somebody else's life I know you're her mother but I know you brought her into this world but but when she comes an adult do you think it's only right that she she decides want to get married that's her decision to make you know she's grown now this is her chance in life to get married it's only fair😊😊😊