He wants her to be a better wife, but what about him being a better husband? I don't understand these women who keep these men. He doesn't respect the marriage, and he doesn't respect you. Just leave. It's not benefiting the kids. This makes no sense.
@perfectlyimperfect9129Күн бұрын
WELL SAID 👏!!!!
@jerrysizzler44Күн бұрын
A lot of women are not raised with self worth and then the closest person to you directly criticizes you so how could you possibly believe anything else without support and intervention and education. Don't be so judgmental.
@SJH301983Күн бұрын
He needs to wipe that pathetic smug smirk off his face. What a jerk face.
@hoangthi7818Күн бұрын
Some woman don’t want to give up marriage only just because she doesn’t want other woman have him, despite he’s a bastard 😂
@katepfrancisКүн бұрын
You’re absolutely right, but it stems down to self esteem and them not wanting to be alone/fear of starting over. It’s enough to keep them in a bad situation, even if it’s selfish to kids involved
@LyndaAmeryКүн бұрын
What woman in her right mind would put up with this creep
@lizzlovio5710Күн бұрын
The wife is beautiful.. she could do so much better!! Not only is he a cheater, he’s nothing to look at…
@Daniela-ChristiansonКүн бұрын
I just hugged my husband. This guy made me appreciate him even more.
@rachaelbendall5958Күн бұрын
What a wonderful comment to make .... and rare to read 😊
@ArranVidКүн бұрын
Cringe
@ArranVidКүн бұрын
Ok fine
@nikstar1313Күн бұрын
@@ArranVidwho hurt you? 😢
@imogennnnnКүн бұрын
Honestly I feel you! I am not married but I have a caring and doting boyfriend. I am very appreciative of him but these videos make me realise how much I adore him haha
@brittanyleblancКүн бұрын
I can't believe how some men treat their wives & families. Sad.
@boogitybear2283Күн бұрын
Women are just as bad if not worse now so it’s basically an even ballfield.
@vela-rn2jzКүн бұрын
If a man is willing to destroy his current relationship for the next.. it’s because he really wants the next… move on.
@tinasmith7630Күн бұрын
Grass ain't greener on da otherside. Mayb 4 a min. Then da cost of adultery sets in, reality isnt easy 2 face, specially wen u lose it ALL.
@danielsmith9500Күн бұрын
Wow. How dare he blame his wife ! I’m so sorry mam for how he’d disrespected you!
@doortjedartel9009Күн бұрын
Narcs do blame you for not being perfect. Red flag. Leave!!!
@RedwarfaКүн бұрын
They change you and then they don't like you,so they can blame you
@ericakennedy2128Күн бұрын
The only thing left to do is for her to leave him. He's despicable, to say the least. This makes me sick and so sad for his wife.
@eh-i1841Күн бұрын
Scott looks 55,but he thinks he looks 35.
@donnalove147Күн бұрын
SHE SHOULD BE UPSET WITH HER HUSBAND>>> HE IS THE ONE CAUSING THE ISSUE
@whynot4Күн бұрын
This other woman has absolutely no business hanging around this dude. He has a family. It’s just gross and wrong
@renaecorrie5675Күн бұрын
He is manipulating both women to get what he wants
@whynot4Күн бұрын
@@renaecorrie5675 one of the women needs to realize this man is already taken and get some self esteem and find someone who is not married and has a family
@eileencoulter1073Күн бұрын
He's not having an affair, he's using you Chrissy and all his fun and money is spent on the other girl!! Get rid of him NOW!!!!
@amc3964Күн бұрын
LEAVE!! He doesn’t love you!
@NinaRogers-om8vbКүн бұрын
What a jerk! Why would either of them want him??
@christine_lovelaceКүн бұрын
Leave him, he'll just find someone else.
@debrap947Күн бұрын
He's already left the marriage...time for Chrissy to go too. It's not as hard as you might think. Believe me, he will cheat on her too it's just a matter of time.
@jerrysizzler44Күн бұрын
Fk I love when Phil makes them pick a chair 😂
@nancymorris995Күн бұрын
One of my favorite things! It’s especially fun on the episodes where he makes a mama’s boy choose between sitting next to his SI or mother!
@LisaMartinez-o8pКүн бұрын
What a selfish,selfish person . He has some nerve. He has no character at all.
@hnoel3130Күн бұрын
The husband is at fault He has to answer to his wife. The mistress wanting to hide her face is hilarious, maybe you shouldn't be sleeping with a married man
@beckynguyen7970Күн бұрын
Omgoodness. Why is the wife still with him🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️? The Tammy woman is the person has no shame, no self respect, no integrity. She must not able to find herself a man, that’s why she snicks out with another’s woman’s husband. That’s shameful 🤷🏻♂️😳🙄👎.
@GotoworkkkКүн бұрын
Honestly, it’s more so of the husband‘s fault. He’s the one that should be committed. He’s the one that decided to marry the lady with the bad perm. He is the one cheating on his marriage and family.
@traceystark90818 сағат бұрын
@@Gotoworkkk not the bad perm lol. Give her some grace her husbands been cheating, she is tolatering it, she has 3 little kids to raise, plus it was 2010 when it first aired. Perms were in then right?? 😂😂
@Gotoworkkk17 сағат бұрын
@@traceystark908 true true…No perms were a thing of the 80’s lol!
@whynot4Күн бұрын
This other woman is just horrible. Leave this man alone and let him focus on his family. Stop entertaining him, he is a taken man! Hanging around for 5 years.. and him too just disgusted. They are so wrong
@kimberleeberry2039Күн бұрын
What a miserable situation,I couldn't do it.
@lauram3129Күн бұрын
I would have divorced him and left him bankrupt.
@elizabethfilby930Күн бұрын
So she does all the work while he has fun.
@kimberleeberry2039Күн бұрын
@@lauram3129 I would have,too. He lied to her for 5 whole years while he was cheating,putting her health at risk,and embarrassing her. I'd take him to the cleaners and divorce him. We'd see how much the mistress wanted him after that,I bet she'd kick him to the curb
@ste9071Күн бұрын
Once a cheat, always a cheat... People like him do not change, not in a million years and will always do it again. You get treated how you allow others to treat you love. Get rid, walk away from him and trust me, one day you'll meet an amazing guy and the ex husband will end up all alone, and rightly so.
@clevelandwilliams5922Күн бұрын
They are all living in a deep delusion. That woman is all about drama, have boundaries and standards. Have some self respect to enforce it unashamedly and unapologetically.
@sue8237Күн бұрын
His kids are going to hate him.
@beverleyjouannet6 сағат бұрын
He won't care about his kids.....
@sue8237Сағат бұрын
@@beverleyjouannet You're right. He doesn't now. She needs to get a positive, decent male figure in their lives.
@kellycampbell6826Күн бұрын
It's hard for the wife because she loved her husband. Plus it's the end of a life with her family. Her life's dream. Now she has to get strong and leave him....which divorce is a horrible process. She has no choice but to leave him because he's not the man she thought he was.....sad.
@ifitdontapplydontyoucryКүн бұрын
The wife wants the mistress to be the bad guy in the situation so bad, instead of her husband.
@perfectlyimperfect9129Күн бұрын
THEY ARE BOTH DISGUSTING
@shinequeramos6628Күн бұрын
Because its easier for her to attack the mistress than her bombass husband. She knows she cant tell him what to do. She wants the weak link to give up.
@StrawberryJam806Күн бұрын
I mean…the mistress IS the bad guy. Along with her husband. Sleeping with a married man, and continuing to choose to do so after knowing about his wife, is despicable. Any woman who does that lacks self respect and integrity. They are both equally to blame.
@whynot4Күн бұрын
They both are the bad guys the mistress and the husband. Both of them. The mistress is a pick me home wrecker and the husband is a sleeze. The wife has no blame. She wants to keep her family together can you blame her?
@whynot4Күн бұрын
@@StrawberryJam806yes!!!!! I see most people talking badly about the wife like wtf?
@taylakenny9905Күн бұрын
Id imagine he has spent the last ten years beating her down terribly so she puts up with this. he didnt honor his vows, he doesnt love you or the kids. get yourself and the kids away from him. learn to love yourself, grow and give your kids an amazing life with all the love in the world.
@breezeh1127Күн бұрын
This is EXACTLY it. Ppl in the comments blaming her, have no ides what narc abuse can do and what manipulation can do and how far down it can push someone.
@conniemalloy8494Күн бұрын
Lady you need to get rid of him how this woman are negotiating and hating each other is disgusting. He's a dirtbag selfish person. He's poor children horrible example of a father
@SJH301983Күн бұрын
Excuse me. But Scott is a grade A slimeball. I mean seriously. Who in their right mind would do that!!!! His wife is gorgeous. I'm sorry but that's just wrong
@rosexavier7883Күн бұрын
Gosh!!!! are women that desperate? If I even suspect that my husband is cheating, he would be gone. I have done it before and I can easily do it again. Have a little be of dignity women !!!!
@jadetaylor2443Күн бұрын
This looks like a few years ago. I wonder, whatever happened in this situation?
@traceystark90818 сағат бұрын
Right it was 15years ago. I have googled and I can't find anything. I'd love to know who if either stayed with him. To be honest I would love to find out that both of the women left him and their glow-up was beautiful. That they both discovered what true love looked like
@cindygiardina3523Күн бұрын
That’s NOT LOVE .. WHY would Chrissy stay with him!!!! He’s a disgrace!!!!! Disgusting😡😡😡😡😡
@formationofwords290Күн бұрын
I don't feel sorry for the WIFE whatsoever she's ALLOWING it to happen! Meanwhile his EGO is loving it.
@nikkibird7394Күн бұрын
Exactly
@perfectlyimperfect9129Күн бұрын
💯 %%%%
@whynot4Күн бұрын
Uhhhh she is the victim in this whole situation.
@formationofwords290Күн бұрын
@whynot4 Uhhhh,she's the "victim" because she ALLOWS herself to be.
@whynot4Күн бұрын
@ no she did not ask for her husband to be so selfish and this woman who is a homewrecker to hang around for 5 years. She wants her family and he has probably beat her down so badly she is just at a loss. Some people can’t just pick up and go. Some people don’t have any support system
@BluebluepoodleКүн бұрын
His brain is not in his head… he’s an arrogant jerk. He is not a good husband and never will be. He’s done it once and will continue to do it - he will never be faithful his only consideration is to himself and his needs.
@beckygraham5041Күн бұрын
Such terrible sinfulness
@eileencoulter1073Күн бұрын
He's NO PRIZE!!! UGH
@eh-i1841Күн бұрын
What a creep.
@SJH301983Күн бұрын
Truer words have never been spoken.
@masfw2012Күн бұрын
9:49 did he really just say that she, the wife, would backslide??? What absolutely disgusting arrogance. He is a selfish man, and he doesn't love either of them and doesn't love his kids either. Both of them should leave this man.
@ellennitКүн бұрын
Why do women do this to each other she hates the other woman I get that But why not have that same hatred for your husband that owes you more respect and loyalty than a stranger
@CraftyComeLatelyКүн бұрын
I don't blame the wife. She's trying to make her marriage work for her kids but the side chick could walk away.
@perfectlyimperfect9129Күн бұрын
Her HUSBAND is the PROBLEM here not the side chick!! He doesn't respect or love her ,fighting isn't helping the kids in any way!! She needs to leave him and find someone that REALLY loves her and respects her ALWAYS !! Being a Side piece and knowing it IS JUST AS HORRIBLE
@KelluyPowell-1985Күн бұрын
@@perfectlyimperfect9129 yeah if blondie walked away after 5 years he would find someone else in a week
@pamelajordan2890Күн бұрын
No way . He doesn’t love his wife. He should be history! The kids will be better off in the long run.
@shinequeramos6628Күн бұрын
To make what marriage work? He will always want more and leave her as a doormat.
@judysgr8332Күн бұрын
Children would be much better off with 2 happy parents living apart; rather than a dysfunctional situation like this, what are they teaching their children? Insecure people always use the kids as a reason to stay, when in fact it’s the parents who are doing it for themselves….quite sad really
@tinasmith7630Күн бұрын
And this mistress is disgustin. Knowin he has a family. Shes gross. Find a single man, not a Father, Husband n a Player 2 boot.
@beverleymoore7675Күн бұрын
Get rid of him,if it’s not this one it will be someone else! Get out of this mess , there are good men out there. He is a jerk!
@winstonperalta7400Күн бұрын
GET RID OFF,HIS NOT GOOD AND FILE CHILD SUPPORT DONE
@BeststateinthelandКүн бұрын
This guy nauseates me. What a narcissist! He really thinks he’s Gods give to women. His wife has a lot going for her. He’s a terrible example to his 4 boys. Leave him!
@doortjedartel9009Күн бұрын
He' s blaming her for not being peferct. Red flag. Leave! I had a boyfriend like that. Awful. I cut him off right away after he went out, openly, with another woman. Narcs do this.
@flogeiser81921 сағат бұрын
I would not stay with a cheater. By staying with him you are giving him permission to keep on cheating cuz he knows you're not going to leave him.
@conniemalloy8494Күн бұрын
Love how dr phil gave it to them😅😅😅
@LenaCenter-hm9byКүн бұрын
don’t use the kids as an excuse!!!
@dahliajohnson2296Күн бұрын
Idc how long ive been with someone or if we have a family. If you cheat on me we're done
@winstonperalta7400Күн бұрын
they are on the wrong SHOW it SHOULD BE ON JERRY SPRINGER,PEACE
@perfectlyimperfect9129Күн бұрын
Hes no longer with us so that can't happen by yes I agree
@lovedaybebe5881Күн бұрын
The wife is beautiful and seems far more intelligent than the husband . I hope she finds love one day from a real man , a good man 🙏🏻
@perfectlyimperfect9129Күн бұрын
5:55 DR.PHIL ,She knows EXACTLY what she's doing is Horrendous , But The husband is a SELISH jerk too!! I hate hearing " I'm staying cuz of the kids?! NOO your hurting your kids and yourself !! People will only treat you the way YOU allow them too!! Wife is ALLOWING him to disrespect her and their kids!! HES LIEING AND THEY ARE BOTH ALLOWING IT !! Get a spine and leave him immediately!! 10:08 GASLIGHTING his wife and will do it to the despicable sidepiece!! He's forcing his wife to be in a open" relationship " SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO HATE HER!!! LEAVE HIM AND BE HAPPY 12:11 WHAT ANOTHER KID !! I can't feel bad for the wife at this point she is staying and allowing him to make her and HER KIDS MISERABLE 14:26 HES AN ACTOR AND NOT GOOD AT IT !! YALL Don't have to be in this situation.YALL CHOOSE to at this point
@sarahchristian5730Күн бұрын
A married man is off limits, but some don't know where to draw the line
@angelpopasmrКүн бұрын
Look, she may look stupid but she has great emotional maturity. She just needs self love and go no contact
@lisaciconte7409Күн бұрын
This couple needs marriage counseling. If not, they should get a divorce.
@estherakinola943222 сағат бұрын
The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and pride of life is not of God but satan
@jaynerichman21Күн бұрын
Wife has zero self esteem, these woman are pitiful , very sad.
@melissabozarth-mn4yqКүн бұрын
This is NOT A man he's a child!
@ToLoveIsToLive89Күн бұрын
If the wife is and has always been a stay at home mom getting a divorce can be really difficult. You have to figure out how to squirrel away some money to hire a lawyer and keep afloat until you get a job and/ alimony and child support start coming in. Often times men like this keep things like bank accounts, houses, cars etc. in their name only to they can control their wife. I really hope she divorced him though, once a cheater always a cheater.
@GotoworkkkКүн бұрын
Oh yeah, these women want a lavish lifestyle of staying at home and not working. They think they’re living the princess life like on Disney. Realistically men cheat on their wives, whether they’re happy at home or not. Now she’s scared to leave with no money and no desire to start over so now she’s stuck there complaining on TV to Dr. Phil.
@jahawalgern8273Күн бұрын
Yall can yell at “husband” yes however- the persons who truly have the power here are the women. Not gonna lie- there is mad power in leaving
@RhondaSmith-e9fКүн бұрын
He wants to be free he said it .he wants the girlfriend
@aishacleveland3605Күн бұрын
Where is the full episode to this 😩
@denisehall4818Күн бұрын
This is why I always have a dollar in my sock.
@Ann-sj4ptКүн бұрын
Better to have a pool ball in a sock,and use ir
@denisehall4818Күн бұрын
@@Ann-sj4pt OK
@Claire-gv7piКүн бұрын
I have no sympathy for the wife! She knows the crack yet she continues to stay in the marriage. You make your bed and all that
@ronitas3958Күн бұрын
This is when self-love has to take over. Self-love will not allow you to let someone treat you that way. People love other people more than they love themselves, and that allows others to mistreat them over and over again. The wife needs to leave with her children and restart her life and feel better about herself for herself and her children. Her husband is a liar and a cheater, and he will never stop, because she has allowed him to do it for 5 years. Let go and let God bring you someone that will love only you, in the meantime love yourself!!
@nikkibird7394Күн бұрын
The wife can leave him and get child support! She is weak to alow this to happen to her
@breezeh1127Күн бұрын
Or manipulated and beat down by 5 years of lies.
@hallenottage7196Күн бұрын
No she is not weak. She’s a victim of narc abuse. This guy has completely sucked the life out of her. He uses their kids as leverage “their sake”…and it would seem that his wife doesn’t have an education/job which means she’s probably staying with him out of survival. I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s DV going on as well. She needs support and resources to aid her in and her children in safely leaving….
@TheSoftGirlLifestyleКүн бұрын
@@hallenottage7196yes he has broken her down so much that he consumes her mind. I’ve been here. She needs to cut all contact from him so the smoke can clear and she can see her worth again.
@DylaneyDayКүн бұрын
The moment a man makes it clear he doesn't want you, get some self-esteem and leave ladies!
@LisaMartinez-o8pКүн бұрын
You use to be able to sue your husbands gf on alienation of affection, thats a real thing.
@JaneNakimbuggweКүн бұрын
If the mistress feels better with destroying someone's marriage y feel ashamed to show her face to show that it's ok
@thelemonvr8747Күн бұрын
He wants to be one of those men that has a bunch of wives. And they all live like one big, happy family.
@renebartis2432Күн бұрын
Oh my goodness what is wrong with the wife? Walk away from this cheater and narcissistic poor excuse of a husband. He has major issues which need addressing. And there is nothing altruistic about him, nor does he care for his kids, when he is disrespecting their mother and lying to them about his whole life. What a poor example of a human being.
@PearlsandRoses13 сағат бұрын
“Saving All My Love For You” by Whitney Houston is the anthem for all the ‘other women’.
@myrtleeallen5311Күн бұрын
Its ridiculous but i have been there with both women he only holds the cards if they allow him
@enaantonovic80397 сағат бұрын
Just divorce him - he is not worth it. Move on. They deserve each other.
@RoryChantel12518 сағат бұрын
Men literally pick wives who they think will allow this behavior. Begged her to stop seeing her husband..🙄. Girl LEAVE HIM!
@sandiemccown1274 сағат бұрын
Not even a full episode,so we as the audience never know what this dog of a husband.. Why this wife would stay with her husband is beyond me!!
@lindafrabizio2910Күн бұрын
His wife won’t leave him
@AotearoaAnge21 сағат бұрын
Oh my word. He is something else. He is the epitome of arrogance. I hope that if he didn’t change, that he is now lonely, on his own and has no one in his life. His attitude disgusts me. He has the gall to say she wasn’t the best wife. He is the shittiest husband ever.
@boogitybear2283Күн бұрын
Modern Women get on my Nerves. They would rather have a Married Guy than a Single Guy.
@lordbyrom100Күн бұрын
It’s just magic watching him explain everything away ,how long before both women wake up and make his life a total misery ….please please wake up NOW !!
@sarahchristian5730Күн бұрын
The girlfriend KNOWS she doesn't REALLY have him.
@LorraineObergefellКүн бұрын
Kick him out now!!!
@Lwen4666621 сағат бұрын
The wife needs to leave him ! She's a beautiful woman. She doesn't deserve an idiot like that. Move on... let him go with that homewrecker. It will never work
@carolokbrblolКүн бұрын
In all this evidence of this. One of the adult parent need to make a very hard decision .
@amberwavs5421Күн бұрын
It's really sad when I see a woman that doesn't know her value. I am forever grateful to my parents because I've always known my value. A man doesn't call for a second date, he must be sick in the head. A man raises his hand to me I'll never be within arms length of that psycho again. A man feels like a caged lion regarding commitment, bags packed and out the door. His bags packed and HE is out MY door because I value myself enough to never put myself in a situation where I'm dependent on anyone. Leases in my name only, mortgage and deed in my name only. I'll welcome a man into my home, love him and treat him like a king but should he ever forget my value he will be gone as soon as I pay for an uber to take him away.
@islandyytКүн бұрын
Where to start? The husband is an immature, selfish manipulative creep. He’s no prize. The wife hates and is angry with the wrong person. Her big betrayer is not the girlfriend, it’s her husband.
@fadumohassan2425Күн бұрын
He is probably telling her what she wants to hear to keep her around
@RhondaSmith-e9fКүн бұрын
I hope she leaves him make him make a choice now
@jokiep65Күн бұрын
He 's open about what he wants. The wife just has to accept or not, as he is not accepting what the wife wants. It is simple, wife. Take it or leave it. (and go on with your life, you can do it!) The fact that the lover wants to be anonymous tells me she knows she is guilty.
@dianaesparza1878Күн бұрын
Lady leave your husband and you’ll eventually find someone who wouldn’t treat you like second fiddle 😤 he is a cheater and will always be a cheater ! Get real ! 😤😤do not use the kids as an excuse either ! 🤬find a job and be independent from this lard ! 😡
@deborahdennehy9937Күн бұрын
So what happened at the end of the programme? He is such an horrific egoistic manipulater. His wife is in turmoil & mistress is lovey dovey with the husband??? Talk about pathetic! The wife shouldn't have spoken more to the mistress than the husband! What happened in the end?????
@donnamiles978018 сағат бұрын
He wants his Cake and eat it, too!!! The wife needs to tell him to pick which one he wants!!!
@acalypso90210Күн бұрын
Run woman, run as fast as you can.
@jahawalgern8273Күн бұрын
Why do people only like one sided Monogamy and “fake pologymy” like why can’t people be honest with one another? Cause what’s the sense of being with a cheater, and trying to force em to not cheat- like they aren’t monogamous let it GO
@angeline7791Күн бұрын
Full episode?
@heathersewell6474Күн бұрын
Ouch, what happened to that wife to allow this from him. As soon as i knew he was cheater he'd be outta there...looking at those kids, some are younger than 5. Why have more if your marriage is rubbish. That wife is clearly only still with him for the kids. Both dump his butt and let HIM work for another lasy
@nikkijj3424Күн бұрын
He is not in love with his wife. He doesn't want her. He doesn't respect her. Why she wants to keep him?
@cherylween4973Күн бұрын
Probably for financial security.
@sarahchristian5730Күн бұрын
The gf doesn't even have a HALF of a husband!!!!
@kayeholcombe8883Күн бұрын
Omgosh get the divorce now!! The mistress will become the wife and he’ll find another mistress..
@aveclasse17Күн бұрын
yes! men like this dont change.
@nancyhamm681Күн бұрын
Wow, dump him and make him pay financially. I think that’s why he wants them to keep doing this. He wants a sister wives, I sure hope she or both women leave him.