Why The Narcissist Is About To Call Out Of The Blue

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Narc ology unscripted

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Why The Narcissist Is About To Call Out Of The Blue Is about how they become offended with ALL supply.
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@heatherwagar5868
@heatherwagar5868 9 ай бұрын
If you don’t fully grasp exactly what spiritual warfare is, you will in the wake of the narcissist relationship
@bonnieromick9397
@bonnieromick9397 3 ай бұрын
Truer words were never spoken. Right on!
@tonyamcmiller-yn9in
@tonyamcmiller-yn9in 9 ай бұрын
I was discarded and a several months later he married the new supply. I’ve learned so much about narcissist. I thank God for where I am in my life. We belong to the same church. The narcs in church are the worst!!! God is continuing to heal me and restore me and I’m very grateful!!! ❤️
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
It's par for the course, they usually leave for another... remember they can't be alone
@ST-cy6we
@ST-cy6we 9 ай бұрын
How on earth do they think that a marriage like that will last? Isn't it contaminated from the beginning?
@manuellaarbeit5481
@manuellaarbeit5481 9 ай бұрын
Me too but we were not in a relationship. He gave me signals and was even jealous when other brothers spoke to me. He saw me as his sexual object. He ended up marrying another woman in the same church. I didn't know about it and heard of it later. I asked myself what I did to experience such a betrayal. Also I was manipulated, ostracized, falsely accused and lied about in that church. I left with severe depression and I was self-harming and had suicidal thoughts. I was never loved and no one cared for me even though I was used as a fixer and I always cared for others. Church narcissists are the worst.
@deannamartinez7233
@deannamartinez7233 9 ай бұрын
@@ST-cy6weSo True💯❤️
@anjijack5392
@anjijack5392 9 ай бұрын
Agreed. And while I don't judge the "church," there are definitely wolves in sheeps clothing there. I know because I got married TWICE to men I met at church. 🚫⬇️
@berniekennedy9793
@berniekennedy9793 9 ай бұрын
THESE PARASITES ARE RELENTLESS STAY CLEAR &STAY SAFE❤️
@user-gg6qj1pn5h
@user-gg6qj1pn5h 4 ай бұрын
parasites....LOL🤣🤣🤣
@Pootietang67
@Pootietang67 9 ай бұрын
After 9 months no contact I woke up today to a text. "My mom had a stroke last week, she doing much better now" no hi how are you, just threw a Hoover attempt right out there. I have no response for him at all! I went and looked at his new supplies Facebook and sure enough she's posting quote after quote about breakups. I feel sad for her, but for him I feel nothing
@WoodenFeather-xm3vl
@WoodenFeather-xm3vl 9 ай бұрын
high five! That was smoooooooth. Good for you.
@JB-sw8db
@JB-sw8db 8 ай бұрын
If a narcissist, accuses you of cheating, they are the ones that are cheating. They are trying to hide. It is shifting the blame to you.
@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552
@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552 9 ай бұрын
You can't call me if you're blocked. Jokes on you, narc 😂🎉
@jrlatina
@jrlatina 9 ай бұрын
Dave my final discard was because I allowed my daughter's boyfriend to park in my backyard 😂😂😂 he got mad, walked out and never came back! Then hoovered me after 7 months and within two weeks I discarded him! @Dave Also FYI since he's blocked I've been receiving unidentified and private calls attempting to get in touch with me , I know it's him, he's in for a rude awakening because I'm never answering his calls! I'm healing nicely thanks to My Lord and Savior ❤
@teresewoltz8627
@teresewoltz8627 6 ай бұрын
same timeframe, called out of the blue, then the mask came off very quickly or I just got more aware of the chaos. I told the N, you are too crazy for me.
@daddy8518
@daddy8518 9 ай бұрын
10:43 When I tried talking to him about trying to figure out what went wrong between us he yelled “I WASNT HAPPY” and I told him You never are!
@craigy691
@craigy691 8 ай бұрын
Wow this is exactly what my wife said to me and I said back to her she never was happy and still won’t be I was all of her problems rolled into one !!!
@DionWynn
@DionWynn 5 ай бұрын
We had deep conversations in the beginning, but as soon as the infatuation wore off the so-called spiritual connection died.
@dtube441
@dtube441 9 ай бұрын
I got chills when you mentioned the dreams of them cheating. Closer to the discard they kept happening and I understood what it meant.
@jrlatina
@jrlatina 9 ай бұрын
I also had dreams of my ex narc cheating, one morning i woke up very angry as he laid beside me! 😤 I told him about the dream, he called me crazy in a joking way and said he's no cheater, boy was that a big fat lie!!!
@sandrajennings3842
@sandrajennings3842 9 ай бұрын
I saw those dreams years ago and I laughed about it with him. Totally ignored the signs. Good grief….
@pioneeringpeppers
@pioneeringpeppers 9 ай бұрын
The dreams stopped once the truth came out. Dreams can be foretelling
@margaretmbinji9909
@margaretmbinji9909 9 ай бұрын
I had dreams of him cheating and just couldn't understand.l can't believe l was discarded 2fays ago after a date.l am lost😢
@craigy691
@craigy691 8 ай бұрын
Yep I always got dreams of my wife cheating and it was always with best friends !!!!!
@dottyjyoung
@dottyjyoung 9 ай бұрын
"I guess I missed the signs." No, you REALLY didnt. Thanks for this line in particular.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
You bet
@isla8718
@isla8718 9 ай бұрын
I remember when he first met me he was infatuated long messages coming through like intense love story’s 😂and this is how they are when they catch a new victim . But this drug wears off so they need a new hit they get of on terrorising there victims it excites them knowing how it’s going to end .
@wealthymo2857
@wealthymo2857 9 ай бұрын
I didn't know that I was dating a narcissist until he gave me the cold shouder. I was so annoyed and wondered if if I did something wrong. What got me on the path to seek your channel, was when he kept calling me names. The names that didn't match my character. I knew the problem was with him not me. I thank God I found your channel and when you spoke about God, I was very much interested. Thankyou so much, for doing Gods work in highlighting these Demons, in human form.
@manuellaarbeit5481
@manuellaarbeit5481 9 ай бұрын
Me too but we were not in a relationship. He gave me signals and was even jealous when other brothers spoke to me. He saw me as his sexual object. He ended up marrying another woman in the same church. I didn't know about it and heard of it later. I asked myself what I did to experience such a betrayal. Also I was manipulated, ostracized, falsely accused and lied about in that church. I left with severe depression and I was self-harming and had suicidal thoughts. I was never loved and no one cared for me even though I was used as a fixer and I always cared for others. Church narcissists are the worst. We the victims blame ourselves when we are not the problem. Take care of yourself dear. Jesus loves you and wants the best for you no matter what.
@wealthymo2857
@wealthymo2857 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for replying to my message. Your journey was overwhelming. We go through a lot as women, but no woman on earth deserves what you endured. Don't ever let a man or a woman cause you to self-harm. They're not worth it! You need to look at it as he did you a favour! The woman he married is silently going through, 'hell.' A lot of us are not shown love, but we give to others that we lacked . If we're able to give to others, what about ourselves? I see the signs with these people, and I am not afraid to call them a narcissist. God has given me the strength to see through their nonsense when I am in contact with them. Thank you, and may God continue blessing you with love and peace.
@chops4986
@chops4986 9 ай бұрын
The only thing I pray for is for her and her new supply to leave me alone forever.
@weaselwacker5462
@weaselwacker5462 9 ай бұрын
Dave listening to your voice will always remind me of the beginning of my healing journey years ago. Thank you. I am calmed listening to your videos to this day.
@annaconcepcion1249
@annaconcepcion1249 9 ай бұрын
His voice calms me also!
@ritadoran5039
@ritadoran5039 4 ай бұрын
I agree I fall asleep listening at times
@user-vc5hd3pp5q
@user-vc5hd3pp5q 9 ай бұрын
I know I was smeared to his friends and co workers from the very beginning. He showed up drunk and verbally attacked me. As soon as I reacted he started recording me and I knew he would show his friends. Our whole situation was based on alcohol and sex but he wanted to move in together and have a baby. His ex wife experienced the same behavior with him. I had a dream about catching him with another woman knowing he was cheating on me. I caught him in so many lies. I couldn't stay with him for one more day. I discarded him without warning and left no way for him to hoover. I wish him safe travels to his harem garage 😂
@BurningFifty
@BurningFifty 9 ай бұрын
I remember the exact night of my final discard.. it's was something I said that was literally nothing serious at All.. 3 days Later I called her one night.. she picked up and said she was with Her Man and Hung up.. thus guy is absolutely right. . She was already involved with him and needed anything to discard me
@georgeengelbrecht1310
@georgeengelbrecht1310 9 ай бұрын
What a powerful video, much appreciated. My ex wife (of the Cluster B kind) didn't want to be intimate the evening of our wedding day. This was after knowing her not to be one who denies the old meaningless and risky sex. That obviously rubbed me the wrong way and the next evening she threw her wedding ring into a fire after I didn't want to have one of her snacks she made for us. I just didn't want a snack at that time, I had no ulterior motive. That was enough for her to send her ring to the pit of fire, the same place where the father of the lost will reside forever and ever. I get chills when I realise how far gone the mind of such an individual must be and the horror that will one day come over them when they bow the knee and confess that Jesus is Lord. By that time it will be too late and that absolutely helpless feeling a person gets when the reality of the discard sets in will be felt by the lost soul, but there will be no turning back for redemption. Just writing this I am convicted to pray for them rather than to act like a fool and harbour resentment against them for they truly do not know what they do. Your videos have been a massive blessing and I cannot give you enough respect and appreciation. This is one of those cases where I think to myself how the Lord must be so proud of you for stepping it up and not only edifying the Body but also reaching those yet to claimed for God. With love from South Africa 🇿🇦
@ST-cy6we
@ST-cy6we 9 ай бұрын
My wife must have taken her ring off hundreds of times...
@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552
@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552 7 ай бұрын
This is one of the most powerful comments I have ever read regarding the narcissist's salvation. Thank you. It too makes me want to pray for their salvation because you are right. It will be too late for them when the time finally comes for them to repent.
@georgeengelbrecht1310
@georgeengelbrecht1310 6 ай бұрын
Much love :) Flattered by your comment. @@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552
@Sofi7.
@Sofi7. 9 ай бұрын
You have save my life in so many ways.. love you sweetie 💚💙💛
@PSA3377
@PSA3377 Ай бұрын
The discard phase ...that's so harsh but so true . After over a decade he just disappeared one day . No explanation. Quit answering my calls . Finally reached him and was told he'd gone on an extended vacation ! -oh - well that's interesting and CRAZY and was the end of everything . He never came back never gt his things . Heard from him 2 years later - my out of the blue 💦phone call asking if I still had his deep fryer ! -I did have the presence of mind to recognize this as him trying to get his foot back in my hearts 💕 door again and I happened to have a friend over at the time listening to the call ( moral support) and I laughed into the phone and told him -I suppose you think I built a shrine to you and saved all your crap and its still here !, hahahaba and turned to my friend still laughing saying -you believe this guy ? and hung up ! Never heard from him again 🙂
@chriscole5990
@chriscole5990 9 ай бұрын
Your such a great person Dave! Helping a friend in need like that we need more people in the world like yourself. Amen too that much love brother. ❤️❤️👍🏾
@shirlspark_stardust
@shirlspark_stardust 9 ай бұрын
Good morning Dave cheers I have my peach tea wow this video is on point ,I got calls last week from the narc I didn't respond back at all no contact and now he is trying to hack into my fb again ,what a miserable life to live I wouldn't want to be in their shoes at all.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
Love my Peach tea too!
@heathermixson1265
@heathermixson1265 9 ай бұрын
I think I speak for those of us who are genuinely grateful for your not sugar~coating this, Dave....it is beyond evil, these diabolical reprobates, and you definitely do not look like Willy Wonka 😊
@rashimasimmons8716
@rashimasimmons8716 9 ай бұрын
Hello DAVE, seeing you out of the BLUE is a BLESSING.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
Seeing your comment is a blessing
@vernondelancy6281
@vernondelancy6281 9 ай бұрын
You are singing to the choir. You are spot on dave .
@weaselwacker5462
@weaselwacker5462 9 ай бұрын
The Holy Ghost showed me in detail what he was doing (cheating). Amazing
@stacyshepherd4086
@stacyshepherd4086 6 ай бұрын
Same .. I was led to see his double life
@daeclipse03
@daeclipse03 9 ай бұрын
My ex approached the new supplies right in front of me. Pretty sure a few weeks in she approached her ex in front of me at her local farmers market. The guy looked so taken aback and nervous talking to her and so did she. Then I saw her looking him up on Facebook a few weeks later when she had his business card. Month later approached a guy all flirty at a pizza shop after we went hiking. We broke up a few weeks later and sure enough I see her and that guy together at the hiking trails we met at. She contacted me later that week wanting to be friends with benefits denying being with a new guy.
@rpm3305
@rpm3305 9 ай бұрын
"I don't know how my family is going to take this. My family loves you." Is verbatim what the narcissist said to me. The narcissist is an expert at manufacturing pain, guilt, and projection.
@narcslayerg2631
@narcslayerg2631 9 ай бұрын
Yes this all happened to me. It was baffling. Thank god I got the knowledge shortly after the discard
@amyteurlife9408
@amyteurlife9408 9 ай бұрын
After 27 years of me thinking he was a great guy he recently became almost grandiose, flirting with 2 different females right in front of me - caregivers to his mom in our home. I thought i was going to have to spray him down with water. I was shocked and then felt betrayed that now im sure this is how hes been doing behind my back for almost 3 decades....
@cajuncrackerranch7990
@cajuncrackerranch7990 9 ай бұрын
Thanks Dave! Thanks 🙏 1,000 percent resonating and accurate content. 🤔 I would have preferred 3 years. Better yet, 3 months, 3 weeks, 3 days, 3 hours, 3 minutes, 3 seconds. “You don’t know what you don’t know, but when you know…you know.” Unfortunately, that only comes after great pain. 20 years. 20 years of marriage unknowingly to a clinically diagnosed Cluster B with FULL spectrum diagnosis including other wonderful labels. 4 children )now adults, married with their own children). First 10 years…not a blip on the radar. No fight. No argument. Nothing. Then out of nowhere…nervous breakdown 2 nights in hospital under suicide watch, then off to a facility for evaluation and treatment for 2 weeks. Then released to a specialized individual therapy and group therapy. I shifted into 80-90 hours work week carrying the weight of the world home, children, and becoming caregiver/chauffeur until pages of her past and history including the evaluation. As I carried all this weight, being the glue, providing, protecting, took on everything she began to destroy everything not by but behind my back in the process and then turned me into an option. I filed for divorce, had all the receipts, and the legal/court system gave her everything leaving me with nothing. She got the house, the property, all materialistic things, stole my Tahoe wrecked it totaled it yet authorized the cancellation of insurance prior to destroying it…all acceptable by the judge. She was out of work and bed ridden for 2 years and I spent over $900k taking care of everything while this C you next Tuesday walked away without zero accountability or responsibility. Absolutely phucking amazing! What they do should be a criminal offense! Starting over with nothing at 52 and every friend, family, professional colleague relationship that was once trusted and true, now obliterated into dust from her destructive trail of trauma with exception to my children. Although I tried to protect them from the unraveling of truth they were aware and each has told me in their own way…”how in the hell did you do what you did by working, taking care of us, taking care of her, and running your two businesses?” My response, “I don’t know. As a man, a friend, a husband, a parent…some people do everything that they can to provide, protect, and build a future for the ones that they love and care about, and some people do not. When events and circumstances are presented to you on your path and journey…I hope that I have led by example and taught you well in knowing when to stand firm and honor, respect, love, and compassion. I have learned some very valuable lessons.” 1. Never put another persons health above your own 2. Trust no one 3. It is always the person who is standing next to you that you believe would never harm you, yet they are the very one holding g the handle of the sword driven into and will stare blankly, void of self, void of soul, out of pure envy, fear, shame, guilt, anger, hate, rage, and resentment. The Cluster B Spectrum is a FULL on ASSAULT! No one mental disorder stands alone under this umbrella. They are all one in the same as they shift pole position for the driver seat at any given moment for the same reason a dog licks his balls, because they can and will do at any time. I’m glad I found your channel. Keep up the good work on breaking the silence and informing others about these mentally ill sick individuals. They are everywhere. Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
@rubymoore2605
@rubymoore2605 9 ай бұрын
They ready to hibernate like polar bears,in from the cold. SPRING ,COME THEY LEAVE AGAIN!!
@uradalic5969
@uradalic5969 6 ай бұрын
Dave, you told the story of my life. It took three full years for time to heal my wounds, and I breathe free again. I never considered another relationship, I am alone. As he became more and more distant, and rejected me as a human, I noticed he was always on line, while yelling at me he was bussy for one phone call - that is when he got another supply. Right after that, he discarded me out of the blue, with a happy smirk on his face, after telling me we had good times, I am a good and pretty woman (othervise he wouldn t be with me), but, he has to leave me, because I sent him too many messages during silent treatments two years ago. He wanted to stay friends, because, he said, no woman has been so good to him. Of course, because I Ieft him bunch of money and stuff he took away from me.
@angelacahill9083
@angelacahill9083 9 ай бұрын
Hi Dave, they never come to their senses. During the discard phase which lasted over three decades, the signs were written on the wall but I was the only one trying, while they took everything and used me. It's hurts having the "family" divided but out 1.9 months and there's peace. I still have hurdles to jump but I'm jumping them holding God's hand now. Thank you for everything. God bless you.
@karenk2409
@karenk2409 9 ай бұрын
Decades for me too. The very sad revelation for me is that you can't be married by yourself. Terrible damage to the family, but I am free and thank God for peace every single morning.
@angelacahill9083
@angelacahill9083 9 ай бұрын
@@karenk2409 yes it is sad Karen. Huge damage to our families. We are walking with God every day. His love and mercy will fill the void and heal us. God bless you and your family. I wish you every blessing 🙏
@karenk2409
@karenk2409 9 ай бұрын
@@angelacahill9083 And also to you!
@SarinaValentinaxo
@SarinaValentinaxo 8 ай бұрын
Literally getting chills from all the flash backs that I experienced in an extreme relationship where I was the supply of an extreme narcissist. You are an intelligent man and I hope you find happiness one day. Your videos keep me grounded so much and keep me from going back to the narcissist that kept me locked up in my home on drugs to control me while he would be cheating on me as well….. when I turned him down for sex he went absolutely crazy it was insane!!!! I hope I can find a guy like you one day after my healing who is aware and healed from the narcissism. You have no idea how many people of all ages and ranges you help. Thank you!
@gloriahornby2457
@gloriahornby2457 9 ай бұрын
Dave, he will never call me. That would mean i won.
@isla8718
@isla8718 9 ай бұрын
Yeh mine ones creepy one liner was shouting aggressively in my face “ you will always want young people a lot younger then you and you no that’s true “ and I thought that’s a confession . Sick individual
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 9 ай бұрын
My son is a hot mess realizing this is very complex 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤now he got wrong momma 😂😂😂😂😂
@emilyberrios4895
@emilyberrios4895 9 ай бұрын
Love your videos now I understand what was going on in my fake marriage the narcissist is so funny he is just a clown
@sunnybajoras4364
@sunnybajoras4364 Ай бұрын
You can't blame everything on the devil. So true, Dave. They made the choice to belong to demons.
@Cyndil_Colby
@Cyndil_Colby 6 ай бұрын
Time heals and going to the throne. So true! Thanks!
@rosatrula
@rosatrula 9 ай бұрын
Yup. You're describing it exactly! Thanks Dave I still need your videos
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
You got it!
@Underrated7777
@Underrated7777 9 ай бұрын
Re introduce yourself to the lost child inside. Boy we really showed them. lol. Got ‘em right where their heart WASNT.
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@annaramirez8084
@annaramirez8084 9 ай бұрын
I finally got a call last night after 5 months & all I heard was breathing. I traced the call back to where he is incarcerated.
@shirlspark_stardust
@shirlspark_stardust 9 ай бұрын
😂 they are sick
@palomahair8616
@palomahair8616 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your videos and for talking also abour God
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
Always
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 9 ай бұрын
My prayers to everyone on here. God is Our HEALER.🙏🙏🙏
@ST-cy6we
@ST-cy6we 9 ай бұрын
12:00 lol.. I had to laugh at this. I made dinner every night, I made her coffee and brought it to her every morning, I'd go out in the snow and scrape it off her car and warm it up for her.
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 9 ай бұрын
Mine used to tell me you need a month off. Meaning discarding me for a month. At the time I had no idea what he was talking about.
@paolacasucci2700
@paolacasucci2700 9 ай бұрын
Im happy you’re back!
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
Thank You for your comment
@cathy_clarinet
@cathy_clarinet 9 ай бұрын
You’re channel is still one of the best. You really get it.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
Where The Heck have You Been? lol
@cathy_clarinet
@cathy_clarinet 9 ай бұрын
@@Narcologyunscripted Busy mostly, but also another round happened. I’m NC again
@djnquire
@djnquire 7 күн бұрын
Going thru it now. Smeared to the point where i can't go out to the store, without someone saying something to me
@chriscole5990
@chriscole5990 9 ай бұрын
Ya Dave I'm prepared for a hoover out of the blue I have my phone on ghost mode ready to go!
@barbann675
@barbann675 9 ай бұрын
"He ain't calling cause he don't have my new number", lol! I have realized that I was raised by both a malignant overt father and a cold, emotionally unavailable, vulnerable martyr covert jealous sabatoging mother(very sneaky and I always felt sorry for her but I am seeing it in my older age and not as a confused vulnerable child)....between me picking the wrong guys and my parents sabatoging and me being clueless trying to work as hard as possible and be the best (people pleaser) for everybody it just ends up being hell, and my loss, and all I did was just want a beautiful life and love. I am healing and relearning many things, AND next time, no rush, if I meet someone I don't think I will involve my toxic parents(I want them out of that part of my life completely). I have seen the same "devil demon spirit" in the eyes of each and every narcissist in my life from family to expouse to exfiance...the same rageful hateful greedy selfish cruel cold eyes! It is very demonic and we need to arm ourselves with Heavenly Father, discernment, knowledge, and trustworthy friends (my church family) that will help decide if the next person is safe because from my upbringing I realize I have a deep subconscious issue with not being able to spot those red flags, but I am blessed with good friends that can. God Bless You :-) Thank you for your videos.
@mickcrovo5238
@mickcrovo5238 9 ай бұрын
Mine told me she got an O every time "because of the connection we have". A week later, she said that if we were living together, we'd be doing it every day. The next day, she ghosted me. This is someone who was texting me a dozen or more times a day for three years. A month later, she took a photo of herself out in another city with the new guy. Then they each posted it online. It was humiliating to me when my friends and family saw it. My mother said two words: "She's trash." Six months later, she was living with the new guy. Six months after that, she was pregnant. Textbook narcissist.
@mikaelapapazyan6411
@mikaelapapazyan6411 9 ай бұрын
She's a trash indeed. Pity for that fella
@lobsterbisque7567
@lobsterbisque7567 5 ай бұрын
God was merciful to me and kept reminding me that my narc ex gf never loved me in any way. She was only using me to fight off her loneliness & boredom. I Thank The Lord for making her red flags & hypocrisy obvious, granting me good counsel from my loved ones, and the wisdom to see her trap that she had set up for me through triangulating me against her ex. He opened my eyes to the truth of who she really was, gave me the strength to think logically, and overcome my feelings for her when I disappeared on her and make my escape. I got away unscathed only b/c God was kind to me. He was with me all throughout my healing, and helped me deal with all the emotional garbage I had to sort through within myself while I was healing from that toxic relationship. He was and is still SO GOOD to me. Thank You, LORD!! He deserves all the glory!
@bjmoore5022
@bjmoore5022 9 ай бұрын
Mine left while I was at work and said I couldn’t tell the truth about anything. I have asked what I did wrong but I really know in my heart I didn’t do anything.
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 9 ай бұрын
They won’t be calling me. I have a new number 😂
@alexistexis721
@alexistexis721 9 ай бұрын
👸🏽Thank you for this Dave. 💕
@stephaniesinsabaugh176
@stephaniesinsabaugh176 8 ай бұрын
He's been gone a week today. And he's already publicly put up on his social media that he's single. Wow just wow!
@In_deine_Staerke
@In_deine_Staerke 9 ай бұрын
2,5 years nc. No deep, heartfelt conversation, right. Sex and flesh, indeed. I got trapped, too . I get christianed next year. The bible helped me a lot.
@PresidentGeraldFord
@PresidentGeraldFord 6 ай бұрын
A video series about the origins of narcissism and why narcissists exist would be very interesting 🤔
@RonicaTravis-ok9cf
@RonicaTravis-ok9cf 9 ай бұрын
Every WORD 💯💯💯💯💯
@KassieP-sf6nz
@KassieP-sf6nz 9 ай бұрын
The Narc supply that he discarded for calling me after 6 years the same woman that thought she won .I hung up didn't wanted to talk to her about the Narc .
@danacooper3646
@danacooper3646 9 ай бұрын
It cracks me up @ the supply that laughs at me and says I won! I'm like yes you did, as a human punching bag 😂✌️.
@TheMoonGlitters
@TheMoonGlitters 8 ай бұрын
Yes, I do believe the day will come …. that one of his supplies will ask me for help, and I dont think I will help. Not because I am mean, maybe I want to help at that point who knows, but I Just dont think Ill want to go back to what Ive lived through - no going back in any way will be better forever
@vernondelancy6281
@vernondelancy6281 9 ай бұрын
Good information Dave thank you .
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
Thank You for being here!
@chanelcocoa6545
@chanelcocoa6545 9 ай бұрын
This is so true I had a dream of him cheating
@claudine516
@claudine516 9 ай бұрын
I had to walk 5 miles through the snow just for a Snow-Cone. They're not very bright.
@1tundra11
@1tundra11 5 ай бұрын
I think they really enjoy shocking you with the creepy things they say and do..I heard and saw so much that I should have thrown them out!!so many times..I was so afraid of calling them out,on some pretty sick things( like talking about my teenage daughters toe's) told me he was into feet..had told me loved mine) because of the gaslighting..I so thankful it was done and blocked thru the Pandemic it would have been an Epic nightmare..thx for all the video's ..i have been Narc free for almost 5 years now..including blocking my narc stepmother
@user-pz4ob5gn6z
@user-pz4ob5gn6z 2 ай бұрын
Oh how thankful I am to have ran across You. You have all the answers to all the questions I have needed for years. Your knowledge is healing. God is really using You to pour into my wounds His oil & wine. Thank You so much. My Mother passed in Nov. of 2021. My Husband and I was having to do repairs on Her house to get it ready for sale. While doing yard work together this airplane kept circling over us. We waved and kept working. Each day we had to do more work. Like rebuild her back deck and again this airplane comes circling. I didn't put two and two together. Grieving over the lost of my Mom and having to put her place on the market and deal with probate court and all the extra expenses. My mind never thought I was being hoovered. This plane was circling day after day. We pasted it off because the small airport wasn't to far away. But after we sold Moms house we are outside at our house doing some gardening and this small plane starts circling over our house. Our house is 30 minutes away from the airport. It would seem my ex narc has gotten a pilots license and a plane. I don't know how he is getting away with circling over and over and flying so low but he is doing it. Looks like air traffic control would do something about it. He is acting like a total nut job. He don't even care how he's flying. He even wants my husband to see him. My husband and I love gardening. We have lots of flowers and we are always outside watering and cutting the grass etc... This ex narc is flying over our house morning, noon and even at night. At times a very loud helicopter has been flying very low over our house its so low it shakes our house... I think it him too. I am concerned he has lost it. I have turned him and his crazy behavior over to the Lord.
@purtykatz
@purtykatz 9 ай бұрын
😂 “. the Dark triad” Awesome description
@bonnieromick9397
@bonnieromick9397 3 ай бұрын
I had to tell my 83 old mom, mom I can't make these supposed social workers become good people. They don't REALLY care until you get physically beat up. The Narcissts outnumber us I like the way you combine love of Jesus Christ with knowledge of Mental Health and especially Narcissism. You are right where I am at. Whew. I'm in a nest of different types of Narcs. Female Covert the worst My discard with a business person was a delight. A hot fudge sundae for me. Now a male Covert Narc that attractive pisses me off because I think Dam what a waste!!!!
@bonnieromick9397
@bonnieromick9397 3 ай бұрын
Oh my alone time brings me back to Jesus and away from. Narc World and all the creepy clowns👽☠️🤡👺☠️😈🤡👺👹🤡
@Brother_Jonah_TOG.
@Brother_Jonah_TOG. 4 ай бұрын
They can’t fool the Holy Ghost in you 👏 ❤️ I’m not crazy and all the dreams all make sense
@ingeborgwisseborn6928
@ingeborgwisseborn6928 3 ай бұрын
My ex husband told me when we were dating Je vous aime. In french. We are dutch. Weeks later he said" listen girl, when you ever cheat on me, it is over. He had no reason to say this. Years later after 12 years of marriage he said during lunch with the kids : "Men are not designed for monogamie" I looked surprised and than he said " its only a joke". I never discovered that he was cheating on me but why did he say this I wondered.
@isla8718
@isla8718 9 ай бұрын
Yes I would hear him constantly ringing the whole family infront of me of a way of tormenting me all lies and twisted distorted versions of reality , he once smashed he’s phone into my mouth and cut my lip over nothing and because I reacted by shouting and chucked my drink bottle at him he rang he’s dad and said I had assaulted him but missed out the whole story it’s not even normal . And then the dad is shouting down the phone about me it’s pure mental abuse and they have all the family fooled . When they started getting very abusive I believe it’s when they have others in there web . You are so right about how the endorphins wear off for them as they are so broken . And they don’t let there victims out of there web until you are very damaged …
@1991windsor
@1991windsor 9 ай бұрын
One of your best videos yet, Dave! All of it is so eerily the truth. That is so true about never having a meaningful conversation with these people when you look back at the time you spent with them. I was actually just telling someone that the other day that I never remember having any type a deep conversation with my ex narcissist. It's even lonelier after sex when they turn their back on you almost immediately afterwards.
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 9 ай бұрын
I’ve had the same dream!! It was so bad, that right after that I found myself moving out.
@delightfuldeb1218
@delightfuldeb1218 9 ай бұрын
I didn't get a call - he knows he's blocked I'm sure. I did get a piece of mail a month ago with my address and his name! He NEVER lived at my address so don't know how that happened. It was his medical insurance cards that I guess he purchased. Never ever had any mail come to my house with his name on it - I thought that was too strange! He also left a piece of HIS mail on my porch about 10 months ago. I didn't respond AT ALL. NO CONTACT MEANS NO CONTACT FOR THE REST OF HIS PATHETIC LIFE!
@Thegamehhh449
@Thegamehhh449 9 ай бұрын
Funny I got a unknown call today, I just got this strange feeling it was her, weird I said “hello “ twice and they just hung up
@ReneeMeadows5150
@ReneeMeadows5150 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your fellowship brother 🎉 I appreciate you 😢
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@user-gg6qj1pn5h
@user-gg6qj1pn5h 4 ай бұрын
snow cone truck, LOL😅...gotta luv ya Dave!!
@amyt7378
@amyt7378 6 ай бұрын
This all happened. Every word you said. Thank you as always for the validation🙏
@stormyharville3096
@stormyharville3096 9 ай бұрын
Praying 🙏
@amyteurlife9408
@amyteurlife9408 9 ай бұрын
I was dicarded by dear family member 287 days ago. They took the dear kids i love with them. Got text asking me for family tree information with health information - of all the nerve, after they removed me from the family, took my future from me, to ask me for family information which i dont have in the first place, so now they can smear me again for withholding something from them. In text, never called me by my name, never said they missed me. Never said lets visit....i did not take the hoover. I suspect text was not from the person they said they were. Never trust a text . And know with calls you are being recorded or someone else is listening in and they are trying to set you up to agree to something or say something negative.
@amyt7378
@amyt7378 6 ай бұрын
Thank Goodness you’re past the sugary sweet❤️ We need real and you’re so refreshing!
@tomshaw1386
@tomshaw1386 9 ай бұрын
This is all TRUE it’s exactly the same !!! 1 million percent!!!!
@doranvee5944
@doranvee5944 6 ай бұрын
"Award-winning emails at 2 AM." Got me laughing so hard. So true! Everything in this video is simply a classic reminder of exactly what happened to me.
@ReneeMeadows5150
@ReneeMeadows5150 9 ай бұрын
I pray for my ex narc everyday bc God is amazing 😻 I know I’m tough on him Dave 😂 bless your heart 💜 I get carried away 😂😂😂😂
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906 9 ай бұрын
Ohhhh that was a really really nice pour Dave … Fantastic !!!!
@loveandhappiness8178
@loveandhappiness8178 7 ай бұрын
Married online then ghosted for 6 months. Now 4 phone calls on Thursday and a happy weekend on Friday. WTH is going on?
@ReneeMeadows5150
@ReneeMeadows5150 9 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
I appreciate this, thank you Renee
@amyt7378
@amyt7378 6 ай бұрын
My goodness you’re so creative. Such a gift from God. Thank you for sharing your gift 🙏
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 9 ай бұрын
USA 🇺🇸 catching up 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤technology gonna be they karma 😂
@fuliviacannady7703
@fuliviacannady7703 7 ай бұрын
So right...they're great at the superficial....you're not really connecting...no intimacy...the flesh warfare...false relationship. So true. When he wasn't drinking, he was a zombie.
@HopeFaithExpect77
@HopeFaithExpect77 2 ай бұрын
She is totally not gonna contact or hoover me. 😂. Ever.
@Tluv_1955
@Tluv_1955 9 ай бұрын
Love ur content bless u man of God , god always shows me dreams of everything going on or when I’m being cheated on. The holy spirit is a blessing 🙏🙏 glad ur back 🙌🙌
@kerwinprescod9612
@kerwinprescod9612 9 ай бұрын
This is powerful ❤
@Tommytwostroke
@Tommytwostroke 9 ай бұрын
Omg this is so true!!
@minajeetjemineetje3002
@minajeetjemineetje3002 Ай бұрын
I also had dreams of him cheating, two days before the discard
@karenk2409
@karenk2409 9 ай бұрын
This was your most powerful presentation to date.
@nickthompson9485
@nickthompson9485 9 ай бұрын
Great 👍 stuff 👏 👌 I went through everything talked about in this video to a t I wish I had not ignored all the red flags I lived in the flesh of course but dave is right time does heal us all but unfortunately the damage was done and does always carry with us but it does get better and I still have hope to meet someone who treats me the right way hopefully God has something good in store for me someday I won't give up stay strong out there these videos really do help us cope thank you
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
Yes Nick, never give up and keep going to the Throne brother.
@Alexandra0108
@Alexandra0108 9 ай бұрын
🤣I love your humor, it’s so true what you say
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