Why The Narcissist Starts To Regret Discarding You

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Narc ology unscripted

7 ай бұрын

Why The Narcissist Starts To Regret Discarding You
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@thaskew01
@thaskew01 7 ай бұрын
Keep in mind, if they discard you it’s a compliment. You were too strong, you rocked the boat, you stood up for yourself, you had standards, or you just got a blessing from God. You will be better off, but it will be hard rewiring your brain from your time being abused, used, and thrown away. Learn from it but move forward with prayer, family, and faith in your own self worth.
@mrmoralman1
@mrmoralman1 6 ай бұрын
True. Initially it's confusing....then a blessing as it makes you aware of a whole dimension of human behaviour. It's the missing 'piece' of life which you are now aware of, and what's been holding you back. Solution to everything? To be thankful, Silent, positive and know when to walk away
@TheFusedplug
@TheFusedplug 6 ай бұрын
It's a pretend discard they still want your next pay day etc but at least it's optional to say no ..which to someone who doesn't know what a narc is doesn't find it easy to do .
@user-ry4hm4ww8d
@user-ry4hm4ww8d 5 ай бұрын
Dave, silently discard me. No marriage. No continued. Goodbye dave to just happen perspective to me.
@justdandy5694
@justdandy5694 7 ай бұрын
I Shall Not Look Back To See The Narcissist & Turn Myself To Salt.
@leveragees
@leveragees 7 ай бұрын
Amen Sis
@Pootietang67
@Pootietang67 7 ай бұрын
"Why can't I have this person back who hates me" 😂😂😂 funny to hear it now, back then I never thought of it that way
@INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
@INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 17 күн бұрын
I could never understand that either. If you know I can’t stand you and want nothing to do with you, why waste your time coming back 😏🤚
@susannegoldmann6491
@susannegoldmann6491 6 ай бұрын
Ones you exposed them, they don't come back.
@cincyfanjunglecity9871
@cincyfanjunglecity9871 2 ай бұрын
Yeah because they know their game and hustle is up. They know they can’t get anything from you anymore . So they just move on to someone else they can take advantage of.
@stephaniewencek6618
@stephaniewencek6618 7 ай бұрын
It’s ok to be alone. 💙🕊🕊💙
@msnj1791
@msnj1791 4 ай бұрын
“I miss this person sitting on the couch trashing me” wow , I felt that, God bless you!
@cincyfanjunglecity9871
@cincyfanjunglecity9871 2 ай бұрын
Right. I miss the person who didn’t give a shit , and completely ignored how I felt , and wanted me to know I didn’t matter to them. I miss the woman who cheated on me 4 times in 18 months.
@heatherwagar5868
@heatherwagar5868 7 ай бұрын
I am spending Thanksgiving with my adult children. The children the narc wanted to isolate me from. I have a lot to be grateful for this holiday season. I can have joy and laughter instead of misery and walking on eggshells. We got this y’all!!!!! It could be so much worse. Don’t forget that! ❤
@deannamartinez7233
@deannamartinez7233 7 ай бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving!!! Have a Blessed Day!!🍁🌾💛🧡💚
@carriebell3566
@carriebell3566 7 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you! 🙌🏼
@loveandhappiness8178
@loveandhappiness8178 7 ай бұрын
Good for You. Same here. 15 year custody battle with narcissist. I enjoyed holiday with all my children
@elinaselene
@elinaselene 7 ай бұрын
Just happened a few days ago, duped again after 8wks of good behavior (love bombing) devalued for a couple of weeks then I got out before he could discard me. I did 6mnths no contact and was halfway through in my recovery and he showed up. He was so depleted and had lost weight but after a few weeks I was looking like him... Soooo when he'd sucked all the energy out of me he was bouncing off the walls full of energy & excitement. I totally regret going back NOW he has a new friend... Learnt the hard way once again😏
@mickcrovo5238
@mickcrovo5238 7 ай бұрын
It's okay. Forgive yourself. We all know how hard it is. That being said, have you had enough yet? 😉Vampires are for no one. Be well. You have everything you need.
@cazza7034
@cazza7034 7 ай бұрын
HelyenS we’ve all done it, been there. You will know next time 🙏🌹💕
@user-xo5lt9ox5q
@user-xo5lt9ox5q 7 ай бұрын
You not alone
@heatherwagar5868
@heatherwagar5868 7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry, Hon. I know for a fact that I would go through the exact same thing you did if I let him back. Almost 9 months NC. Keep going, girl. ❤
@DarkMetaOFFICIAL
@DarkMetaOFFICIAL 7 ай бұрын
wow. i was clapping over here when you said u got out before the discard! 🤣🫡🙏 omgosh i am happy to hear that. i haven't heard anyone describe this yet, since i did the same!! you were like me, went through it, blind, plugged in, had the awakening, the one way exit, went BACK in, but stayed tethered to base reality, could not pull them out, because there is no "them".. and you showed the 'god' how to kill a 'god', that you had the true power all along, and had simply allowed them to think their false reality, the shared fantasy, was all there was. but you shattered the matrix. entered a virus into the system, deprived them of their precious supply, and exited, to live free. i love it. FEELS GOOD, MAN! 😄💯 you're the gem they threw away, for their low hanging fruit i hope u find another gem to match true empathy.
@michaelmorgan7893
@michaelmorgan7893 7 ай бұрын
Trying to hang onto a narcissist in a relationship, is like climbing a telephone pole, and reaching for one of those wires marked "High Voltage" You soon find you can't let go, because that emotional force pulls you back, at the same time they're kicking you away with all they've got. The constant push-pull of the EMF across your heart will eventually kill you if your resistance is low, and if the amperage is high enough. Same principle with a narcissist. Resist them with all you have. The temptation will flee from you!
@sistergoldensunshine4069
@sistergoldensunshine4069 7 ай бұрын
Great analogy! Sad but true
@patriotsdaughter3414
@patriotsdaughter3414 7 ай бұрын
Good comment. That’s exactly how it is.
@pipers-lildogadventures5360
@pipers-lildogadventures5360 Ай бұрын
Put the live wire down.
@anitanash7777
@anitanash7777 4 күн бұрын
🎯💯😢
@georgemyers7980
@georgemyers7980 7 ай бұрын
I not only left the narcissist but I was told by her that she manifested me and then I 99.9 percent certain I was microdosed with ecstasy from day one for almost a year without realizing it.. I would cry uncontrollably and I would have to pull off the road and not even know where I was at like if you dropped me from out of the sky.. after living in a place for most of my life... I left though but cried for an hour every morning and slowly got to my business which thank God was very physical so I could exert the energy out of me... Didn't even realize I was coming off a bunch of crap I had no idea was inside me... Can you imagine someone doing that to someone.... There is much more to it... The good news is I'm still here and they didn't kill me God saved me💪💯
@jackharris4359
@jackharris4359 7 ай бұрын
this is my feelings too
@jeanettehamilton5125
@jeanettehamilton5125 7 ай бұрын
Dang that so wrong
@victorysky1933
@victorysky1933 7 ай бұрын
Needed to hear this , “God doesn’t want you on the dating sites, he wants you at the throne.”
@Boymom515
@Boymom515 7 ай бұрын
I was mrs b several times because I kept going back. I’m mrs a now because I left him this time, five months no contact. It still hurts and I still miss him.
@heatherwagar5868
@heatherwagar5868 7 ай бұрын
Same here 😢
@ainahaga
@ainahaga 7 ай бұрын
I miss mine too but I will never take him back when I know the truth! I hope he stays far away from me! My narsiisst became insane when he started devalue. Full of enteties. I did not recognize him after he was over with lovebombing me! He told me he loved me after our first weekend together and wanted to marry me also have kids with me but he couldnt have more kids though cut the cords. I will keep the good memories from the intense lovebombing in my heart for ever but I know it wasnt real love.
@cynthiabiel7714
@cynthiabiel7714 7 ай бұрын
I am having trouble detaching.......I am doing better but when you love it is hard to unlove even if the person did not deserve that love.
@ainahaga
@ainahaga 7 ай бұрын
@@cynthiabiel7714 yeah you just have to detach to actually really love yourself 100%. I know it is hard. Ive tried to dettach from my twinflame too, that has been even harder to dettach from him than my narsisist. I still love them both both my twinflame and my narsisist. But I will never have another narsisist in my life again. And I know my twinflame will not be back either yet cause I have work to do……. This yourney has been insane!
@gal1885
@gal1885 7 ай бұрын
@@ainahagathat is a very healthy way of looking at it. I’m sorry this narcissist hurt you, I hope you heal and allow yourself to love and trust again in the future, when you’re ready! ❤
@bladeguru6358
@bladeguru6358 7 ай бұрын
I left my ex narc during the devalue stage. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever HAD to do. I saved my own life. Literally! 🙏🏾❤️
@fainitesbarley2245
@fainitesbarley2245 7 ай бұрын
Yep. Saw that smug smirk for the last time. 8 months.
@nicolelouiselucas3996
@nicolelouiselucas3996 7 ай бұрын
So true dave, I get so drained around negative people or energy vampire I have to isolate myself to recharge. I'm 1 year and a half separated from my ex narcissist and a year and 2 months no contact 🙏 your posts are keeping me going and staying strong. Thank you so much your amazing!❤🙏
@arsenelupiniii8040
@arsenelupiniii8040 6 ай бұрын
The more you heal, the more adept monsters you will attract. They can see our light and need to either eat it, or destroy it. Good luck and God Speed!
@bridgettebianca2318
@bridgettebianca2318 7 ай бұрын
Yeah. When they realize there will be no Thanksgiving Spread Served for them tomorrow afternoon 🤣🤣
@mickymichelle-ds1tc
@mickymichelle-ds1tc 6 ай бұрын
I am a mrs A that left the narcissist husband! It’s been 6 months and I’m still in the healing process! Your podcast is so spot on! It is so helpful in the healing phase! Thank you! I’m getting stronger every day! The Lord above in Heaven is the one who helped me to leave him and I’m so grateful to Him!
@chrishinson7081
@chrishinson7081 6 ай бұрын
This is me right now! Please keep me in your prayers.
@sheilaphifer6677
@sheilaphifer6677 7 ай бұрын
Last Thanksgiving, I too was barely breathing. I felt like I had been thrown from a moving car onto the highway and left for dead after what I now know was a discard three weeks prior. His adult children, who are active duty military, were to fly in and our families were going to be under one roof for the first time. He watched me plan, prepare and look forward to it for weeks. Thanksgiving day, my 3 year old grand daughter roamed the house, calling his name, looking for him and tried to reach him all day on her toy cell phone. The pain was unbearable. This year, I’m surrounded by my family, sharing the day in peace. I’m starting to feel like myself again. As hard as the past year has been, I wouldn’t change a thing and I’ll never allow anyone to steal parts of me piece by piece. I’ve ignored or shut down all of the hoover attempts. Mrs A for life. Thanks Dave for all you do.
@daisylove422
@daisylove422 7 ай бұрын
I just watched the Chris Watts documentary again since a few years ago and ppl think he’s a psychopath or sociopath but I saw NPD all through his behavior. Met new supply, devalue (I don’t live you anymore, I don’t want to baby anymore), discard, murdered his family like they were trash. Just horrible! That could have happened to any of us ! Dangerous beings they are! He only knew the new supply for 6 weeks!
@robertswift6101
@robertswift6101 7 ай бұрын
dont pretend he acted alone,,nicole his gf played a huge role in the demise of his family
@barbaragatto2549
@barbaragatto2549 6 ай бұрын
Worse things in life than being alone!
@zulemaflores8796
@zulemaflores8796 7 ай бұрын
A narcissist has “temporary” regrets for leaving you because at the moment they don’t have supply, so they remember you for a while until they find new supply, then they quit focusing on you. A narcissist always looks for new supply. They don’t know what love ❤ is. They have no empathy for others. I lived with a narcissist 35 plus years. Yes it sounds crazy, but it’s true. When I met the narcissist I was only 17 years old, I was grafted to their thinking pattern until I finally realized that something wasn’t right. I ran for it and never looked back. I now live in a different state than where the narcissist lives. I left everything behind. I have zero contact with the narcissist, sadly 😢 I had 2 children with him, but now my kids are grown and they understand. I live at peace and it’s a good life without a narcissist. A narcissist can be your boss, an employee, a sibling, an uncle, etc. I’m glad to say that now I am educated on “narcissism “ and I can quickly discern people with narcissistic traits. I stay-away from them. My circle is quite small and I prefer it this way.
@truhubbard7510
@truhubbard7510 7 ай бұрын
It's been 6 years since my Ex divorced/ discarded Me. Yes, it was Devastating for a couple of Years but I Truly Thank him for That. Better is the End of a Situation than it's Beginning.
@Polarbear22
@Polarbear22 7 ай бұрын
Hi Dave. I left the narcissist last January. The emotional abuse got so much worse over the holidays last year. I was so afraid of him I bought a house behind his back. I left in the early morning while he was still sleeping. I found a house and closed in 10 tens days. That was God getting me out of an abusive situation. He still tries to Hoover me. I am probably going to have to get a pfa. I am dreading it. Towards the end of the relationship I found out he has a prior pfa from an ex girlfriend who later committed suicide. So sad. Glad I am getting stronger every day. Your videos have helped me so much. God bless you.
@jannlewandowski5540
@jannlewandowski5540 7 ай бұрын
Hi Dave. I actually left him, but i never knew what a narcissist was. I told him I'll do anything to get rid of you, then i got into my car and drove away. He was SHOCKED & SURPRISED! I cried all the way home. HAPPY THANKSGIVING ❤
@jannlewandowski5540
@jannlewandowski5540 7 ай бұрын
@@AnnA-tu3ig Happy Thanksgiving, AnnA. Yes. It hurts, but I got over it in about 2 years. Thank God !🙏
@ThimbleFox350
@ThimbleFox350 7 ай бұрын
My narc ex was surprised that I left him too and I was surprised that he was surprised as ofc I told him very plainly that his behavior is not acceptable to be in my life. And then it's so funny to me how he didn't respect my boundaries or wishes in the relationship and still now does not respect my boundaries or wishes to be left alone by texting me from random numbers or adding me on strangers snapchats or following me while im driving and screaming out the window to please unblock him. No!
@katebueno191
@katebueno191 27 күн бұрын
He once spoke for me without my even asking me ! Now I speak for him. He is very happy with what he has done !; and he is going some place far from me. That's that. Period !!
@pocahontas4583
@pocahontas4583 7 ай бұрын
Because they find out the grass isn’t greener on the other side. They think they found better supply. So they start devaluing you and in my case treat you so bad that the reverse discard happens. By the time the mask falls with the new supply, you’re gone. So they want you back.
@ThimbleFox350
@ThimbleFox350 7 ай бұрын
I feel so bad for my narcissist and I will always love him even knowing everything that he is. I see why he is that way and all of the wounds from his childhood that formed him into this monster and I do still love him and I know that I always will. And with that being said he can never know me and he can never be in my life again and for the only reason is that I want to live a long healthy happy life and I know that I can't do that if he is in my life.
@IsabellaPiesch
@IsabellaPiesch 7 ай бұрын
Sure he/she regrets it... Because all of us were great supplies... But we don´t regret it - because no work anymore (only for us now).
@sylviaamodeo7090
@sylviaamodeo7090 7 ай бұрын
They are Jerry Springers! Lol. Great analogy
@shelbywilson1536
@shelbywilson1536 7 ай бұрын
Spot on… My ex narc later on told me after he “discarded me” that he had planned the whole breakup prior. He took me to dinner (he knew I was done at this point and prob wanted to beat me to it) and asked if he could take a picture of me (for his weird creepy trophy photo collection) and then as I was talking and trying to get him to work with me on things but then realizing it was a lost cause and I just said “I can’t do this anymore”, he gets up from the table and just goes “okay fuck it I’m done” 😂😂😂. But yeah the pic he had to take before breaking up with me really weirded me out 😖
@shirlspark_stardust
@shirlspark_stardust 7 ай бұрын
Good evening Dave cheers got my peach tea one of my favorites to drink ,blessed thanksgiving to everyone 😊🙏🏾 I am a Mrs A got rid of the narcissist I'm out and staying out thanking Jesus for making a way for me to leave 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@annenew8220
@annenew8220 7 ай бұрын
Amen. Same here
@jeynjohnston8085
@jeynjohnston8085 7 ай бұрын
I may have to move to reclaim myself.
@leveragees
@leveragees 7 ай бұрын
If you need to, do so. Pray for God’s direction.
@donna1493
@donna1493 7 ай бұрын
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again… Dave, your humor is so delightful to me! “They found a new friend on the playground”describes it perfectly! Thank you for adding humor to make it more bearable, Happy Thanksgiving!
@be-radsurfacademy5998
@be-radsurfacademy5998 7 ай бұрын
“Level 3, level 3 please” Lol!!!
@ironfist859
@ironfist859 6 ай бұрын
I'm a Mrs A. I kicked her out when I got tired of the cheating. She was trying to replace me but he broke up with her before she could discard me. Glory to God!
@paolatrinidad7608
@paolatrinidad7608 7 ай бұрын
Dave, you crack me up 😂 “Let me get you a coffee and a pastry baby” I laughed so hard lol!!! They’re indeed crazy and delusional!
@tresakehl5967
@tresakehl5967 7 ай бұрын
Dave Thanksgiving is my most triggering Day . The first Thanksgiving we spent together , 10 years ago he was in a handsome pink shirt cutting the turkey . He stood sobbing to my family saying I love your mom so much not a dry eye at the table. He knew full well he had got his ex pregnant . It was not till June of the next year that I found out . I took him back only for him to continue running to her .. every thx thereafter he discarded me . I hate the ruminating . 2 years away and still healing. I neve r want to see him or hear his voice again . Its sickening what I accepted.. I have no desire for a man . Thanks everyone .
@msmesha2013
@msmesha2013 7 ай бұрын
I LEFT THE NARCISSIST!! 11 MONTHS FREE!!🎉
@ekobrain3331
@ekobrain3331 7 ай бұрын
Taking my popcorn to the Throne !
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906 7 ай бұрын
Lol it sounded almost like you were pouring iced Tea lol
@arsenelupiniii8040
@arsenelupiniii8040 6 ай бұрын
With anyone in the Cluster b list, regret can be eased with drugs and alcohol. An increase in body count will also help ease regrets. However, that regret will double and and attack them if/when they get some help. I believe that is why they keep doing what doesn't work, all those broken unwanted parts their parents gave them compound and the cycle starts again, with a new generation. Generational curses are real and based in psychology.
@GGSmalls
@GGSmalls 6 ай бұрын
Do they ever love us? Do they always come back? He was cheating. A decade with him. Made promises after promises. Kept none. Worshipped me for 8 years cheated for the last two. I finally left him dated someone else. He lost his mind! I went back to him. He left me again (fake break). We talked every day still. He stopped seeing back burner and wanted us to be forever. I left in September as I knew I would never trust him. He then blamed me for everything ignoring the fact that he cheated for 2 years. Wanted it to all disappear. He is with back burner again always called her a puppet or a filler and didn’t really care about her. Is this true? It’s so confusing all of what I have gone through. The trauma and Heartbreak is so intense.
@beemonroe4330
@beemonroe4330 7 ай бұрын
You used me! You are no longer my number three… 😂😂😂 they are ridiculous
@lizajohnsen4353
@lizajohnsen4353 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for being obedient to God for making these videos!! God is using you mighty it’s like daily medicine for me and a reminder of Gods grace.. ❤️🙏
@tinac6114
@tinac6114 7 ай бұрын
3 times now I've been Mrs. B but now I'm Mrs. A!!! Blocked on everything!!!
@dynahmaranatha2954
@dynahmaranatha2954 7 ай бұрын
Boy.... You have got them pegged.... It's hilarious 😂‼️
@FischerRestoration
@FischerRestoration 7 ай бұрын
Wow.. you nailed it. Exactly what I experienced twelve years ago when I was married to a narcissist. What a nightmare experience I lived through..
@susansipocz67
@susansipocz67 6 ай бұрын
Thank you, you're bringing some light in my soul right now, my Pastor Wayne prayed with me, I'm in so much pain, thank you so much God bless you. Amen
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@micheledenardo2497
@micheledenardo2497 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Dave for all your videos you have made. I have been divorced for 4 years now . I was heart broken Dave and will never forget the day it all came together for me. God opened my eyes to it all. I blocked her from everything but would always try going back to her as just friends and not even able to do that. Now she's hanging around and getting the fuel she needs from somebody that was my friend first and was my mentor and now has blocked me because of my X putting things into her head about me. This drama my X caused and all the lies told to me from her make me so sick to my stomach.. I'm done letting her pull me back in and when she hurts her new supply that she has now?? I'm sorry but the thought of that makes me feel oh so good.
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906 7 ай бұрын
Shut that jerry springer off lol
@georgemyers7980
@georgemyers7980 7 ай бұрын
There's a lot of channels out there but I have to say I believe this one is the best... Great analogies and I believe comes from the heart... Happy Thanksgiving Dave
@annenew8220
@annenew8220 7 ай бұрын
Spot on‼️ past experiences happened just the way you described it. I have distanced myselff with no intentions of getting back into this foolery. Moved on in life
@dynahmaranatha2954
@dynahmaranatha2954 7 ай бұрын
That's what happens to me. When my adult children are hurting and I want to fix the problems but I can't fix their problems but I have to fight for it not to consume me. Hardly anybody that I talked to including my family can even relate to how much somebody else's pain affects me. I can't stand it. It's something where I have to go to the Lord because I actually get sick over problems that aren't my own and my own problems get put on the back burner. This has always been the case and it is very hard to break this. I don't want to entirely break it because I think that it has a purpose but when it gets so bad that I don't take care of my own needs when they're literally is nothing but prayer that I can do...... It takes a lot for me to overcome this. By the way my ex would laugh at horror movies and repeat the lines where the woman in the movie was petrified for some reason or another and he would repeat whatever the threatening person was saying....and laugh. I hated those movies anyway. I've never watched another horror movie or another Gory movie ever since I've been away from him
@lisakay7862
@lisakay7862 7 ай бұрын
Wow!!!! You nailed it!!! You nailed his MO, words he would say, his treatment to me! It’s amazing Narcs are so consistent and predictable! It’s because they are indeed demon possessed with this demon!! Thank you!!!
@cajuncrackerranch7990
@cajuncrackerranch7990 7 ай бұрын
Thanks Dave! Happy thanksgiving! Pray daily and spread the good word, When it comes to the Cluster B just flip that bird! 😂
@taniathomas7353
@taniathomas7353 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for helping me laugh through my pain with these dialogues! Thank you!
@leonnacovey8979
@leonnacovey8979 7 ай бұрын
Love the way you explain everything! I have to keep coming back for more. It's great therapy! Thanks so much Dave!
@michaelmorgan7893
@michaelmorgan7893 7 ай бұрын
Good video as usual Dave. No disagreement from me, because I'm sure it happens in many relationships with narcissists. But in my case, the narcissists I had in my life were biting at the bits to get rid of me, the first chance they got, once they figured my usefulness was over. I don't see (especially my second narc ex) ever regretting discarding me. She knows I've never been a drug addict, and I've never ran in those circles, so it follows I'd never support or condone her behavior. So she left while the getting was good, to run back to her ex, that she was arrested with for manufacturing and distributing drugs, right there in her 89 year old grandmother's garage.
@blueglass1123
@blueglass1123 6 ай бұрын
You’ve said so many truths here, I’m stunned ! You brought back so many heartbreaking memories. It’s been 18 months since the discard, it’s been very hard, I put my whole heart into the relationship and was treated very badly. To make it work, I “ upped” my game to the point where my dignity was compromised. Thankyou for helping me see the real truth.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165
@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165 7 ай бұрын
I Mrs. A pray for the salvation of the narc. I seek God and love my new husband. When I am reminded of good times I rebuke the devil and disembodied spirits I plead the blood of Jesus and then bring to mind horrible episodes 😢 then binge watch Dave...pray for their salvation that's it. That is all we can do.
@susannegoldmann6491
@susannegoldmann6491 6 ай бұрын
Happened to me. I told him I love him but I need to break up with him. He cried at the wrong times watching TV.
@krs1605
@krs1605 29 күн бұрын
Dave I gott praise report coming soon. Im too excited to type right now 😆🤣
@lizajohnsen4353
@lizajohnsen4353 7 ай бұрын
I’m a mrs A I left him 3 month before we were going to get married this year!! His mask slipped and saw and heard a completely different man I was and still am heartbroken but I’m also born again and God showed me before, who he really was before I made a huge mistake.. sooo painful but thank full ❤️🙏
@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165
@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165 7 ай бұрын
I am Mrs. A who loves the Narc. 😢 I left because I knew he couldn't love me. He didn't know what love is. I saw the demons. I was casting demons out of my parents' house and the narc who was sleeping got up to leave. I asked where he was going. He replied,"I don't know." And turned around and came back. I knew them I was married to a demon(s).
@robinlewisart_1997
@robinlewisart_1997 7 ай бұрын
I just love to hear you pour coffee . You're absolutely right
@sandyadkins8195
@sandyadkins8195 6 ай бұрын
I was married to a Narc ( I called him Jackass until I found you) for 30 years and left almost 15 years ago. I can't believe I am alone with my dog and super happy!! I prefer my life this way, thank you God. I don't look over my shoulder anymore. I love my freedom and our God!! He's makes the way. Thank you for all your videos which I found a few weeks ago. It's giving me words and answers to what happened. God bless you and I love your sense of humor..............I love laughing!!
@christinaholtzclaw2738
@christinaholtzclaw2738 7 ай бұрын
Don’t do it. That Thanksgiving hoover is possibly close or even imminent. Happy Thanksgiving. Grateful that the narc is gone and I’ve moved on. Hugs.
@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165
@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165 7 ай бұрын
Psalm 143 A Psalm of David. 1 Hear my prayer, O Lord, give ear to my supplications: in thy faithfulness answer me, and in thy righteousness. 2 And enter not into judgment with thy servant: for in thy sight shall no man living be justified. 3 For the enemy hath persecuted my soul; he hath smitten my life down to the ground; he hath made me to dwell in darkness, as those that have been long dead. 4 Therefore is my spirit overwhelmed within me; my heart within me is desolate. 5 I remember the days of old; I meditate on all thy works; I muse on the work of thy hands. 6 I stretch forth my hands unto thee: my soul thirsteth after thee, as a thirsty land. Selah. 7 Hear me speedily, O Lord: my spirit faileth: hide not thy face from me, lest I be like unto them that go down into the pit. 8 Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee. 9 Deliver me, O Lord, from mine enemies: I flee unto thee to hide me. 10 Teach me to do thy will; for thou art my God: thy spirit is good; lead me into the land of uprightness. 11 Quicken me, O Lord, for thy name’s sake: for thy righteousness’ sake bring my soul out of trouble. 12 And of thy mercy cut off mine enemies, and destroy all them that afflict my soul: for I am thy servant.
@leveragees
@leveragees 7 ай бұрын
Amen
@tinajones5548
@tinajones5548 7 ай бұрын
He threatened me with divorce ( 31 yrs married ) then did nothing about it, i guess he wanted me to beg. I DIDN'T, something told me to get out. I served him the papers, yes i was severely punished. Still standing and thriving, thank GOD. My adult son was with me all the way, thank GOD. That was 5 years ago. If he dares to speak to me in public i will tell him that i have nothing to say and that he has nothing i wish to hear. Be patient, be kind to yourself, it will get easier. Pray hard, cry hard then move on. There is so much more abundance to come than you'll ever know. Thank you Dave for making sense of this madness.
@Rys12.3-4_5
@Rys12.3-4_5 4 ай бұрын
Thank you narcology
@user-um5wn8ri7s
@user-um5wn8ri7s Ай бұрын
The battle belongs to the Lord-Trust in Christ ❤
@narcslayerg2631
@narcslayerg2631 7 ай бұрын
Just got my very predictable thanksgiving Hoover. His favorite past time is bothering me on this day. I was ready for it, logged the call for the probation officer and didn’t answer. I Love being FREE finally
@susansipocz67
@susansipocz67 6 ай бұрын
I don't what to do, I need to get him out of my head, he's taking control of my emotions and mental health, it's really bad, I need help and I have no support from my kids or friends, nobody ,I'm so alone, I just want this feeling to go away
@taniathomas7353
@taniathomas7353 3 ай бұрын
Same here.
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906 7 ай бұрын
And Happy Thanksgiving Dave .. God Bless you for helping all of us ..
@amyt7378
@amyt7378 6 ай бұрын
Yes!!! I LOVE that you have no filter and don’t beat around the bush!!! That is huge!! Thank you 🙏
@nanski36
@nanski36 4 ай бұрын
Dave your message is right on your so accurate about these narcs. When my husband suddenly asked for a divorce and moved out,he said he wants to come back once a week and take me to dinner so I don't commit suicide but only as long as I understand he is exploring new relationships at the same time. I saw the emails In his secret phone of a new supply as well. Are these people insane? 17:13
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906
@kidrosskidrossproductions2906 7 ай бұрын
First comment dave GreatPour Dave … Fantastic !!!
@loripocock9561
@loripocock9561 7 ай бұрын
Best one yet Dave! 😂It just keeps getting better and better. Thank you for your service to humanity. Keepin it real….👏
@DarkMetaOFFICIAL
@DarkMetaOFFICIAL 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words, i felt like i was in the room with you when you spoke to me. that hit the feels so hard. Happy Thanksgiving buddy
@djw8504
@djw8504 7 ай бұрын
I live in Florida and when the hurricane was heading right for me, I heard from him after 4months no contact. He said please let me know that you’re ok, and when I thanked him, it was like I had opened the door to him and he tried for 2weeks to get to see me again, but I didn’t allow it. His last message was a 👍. Lol!! I don’t think I will hear from him again. I feel like he knows now that I’m onto him and done like my Thanksgiving turkey! 😅💪🤩
@emmamonroe3311
@emmamonroe3311 7 ай бұрын
The empty meat suits are exactly what they are. It’s bizarre. I had no idea this even existed. It’s so messed up.👈🏻
@loveandhappiness8178
@loveandhappiness8178 7 ай бұрын
Dave thiese videos make me laugh when im feeling sad. Thank God for you...
@everett552
@everett552 7 ай бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Dave! This Mrs. A has been narc free since 2019. I came across your channel in the summer of that year and haven't looked back since. No sequels, part 2's or 2nd chances. When you know, you go and grow. Many blessings to you!
@stevea6330
@stevea6330 7 ай бұрын
Great content as usual Dave! Hope you have a Happy narc-free Thanksgiving 🦃... God bless brother.
@nicselectronics81
@nicselectronics81 7 ай бұрын
I walked away but was subsequently discarded 🤷
@EliLemke-ft3fs
@EliLemke-ft3fs 7 ай бұрын
Just wanted to say thank you for everything. You've really helped me get through some hard times Many blessings to you
@mariamanta2123
@mariamanta2123 7 ай бұрын
I loved this one .Thank you Dave you help me so much. Amen 🙏
@dustincswift
@dustincswift 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for all the work you do Dave
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@christiannilsen2835
@christiannilsen2835 7 ай бұрын
I enjoy your channel, it helps me through this. I still love her even if it hurts and all the bad treatments
@Wonderland518
@Wonderland518 7 ай бұрын
I discovered your channel at the start of covid and you honestly saves my life, if I hadn't learnt then I'd have been Mrs B for longer, I wanted rid and knew all his games but didn't know his behaviour all came under one umbrella and more so that he was irreparable and to be Mrs B means you think they are, its futile, I was gettin rid but this saved me in the recovery of trying to work out what the hell just happened. I can't thank you enough for the work tou do here and the way you do it and I agree with everything tou say about the narc and also about the devil, its so true, the truth with a narcissist is always far far worse than you could ever imagine, some people will never have the capacity to understand its a war of good and evil. Love to you Dave, please dont stop the videos, I listen to you even though I know about the narc, it's like chatting to an old friend ❤
@Michael_Arguello
@Michael_Arguello 7 ай бұрын
26:54 - I was a Mr. A. And I gloat about it sometimes. Maybe it’s just pride that I was able to do it. Maybe it’s because she wrote me a long letter about how me leaving her destroyed her. This was after me trying and suffering for so long and finally giving up. Been enjoying narc free living for over a decade. It just never stops getting better.
@miak6859
@miak6859 7 ай бұрын
Thank you Dave you truly are a Blessing to me
@prayalways
@prayalways 7 ай бұрын
Love it! New kid on the playground ❤😂 nice one 🎉🎉🎉🎉👍🏽
@egansegal3476
@egansegal3476 6 ай бұрын
Your videos have been very insightful. I’m now realizing that this past relationship I recently got broken out of, we both had narcissistic tendencies. I know what I must do to change.
@HappyLyfe4ever
@HappyLyfe4ever 7 ай бұрын
Amen!!!🙏🏾 Thank you!!!
@richardmaropoulos9827
@richardmaropoulos9827 7 ай бұрын
Just found your channel, glad I did you put into words what I've only been feeling lately. I've had to let go of my anger with myself for being duped and thinking I could help them.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 7 ай бұрын
Welcome!
@hussalena
@hussalena 6 ай бұрын
I laughed this brought me peace and happiness ty❤
@corinnecolon6439
@corinnecolon6439 7 ай бұрын
First red flag. He left me on the side of the road for real and never came back, so what do I do. I spent almost 5 yrs with him until he finally Blackened my eyes bloody nose. Discard all that bullshit. They are the devil. 😮
@flavioaraujo-lk4oj
@flavioaraujo-lk4oj 6 ай бұрын
Thanks Dave, you help me a lot in my healing journay
@mike.uk..maranatha
@mike.uk..maranatha 7 ай бұрын
Amen dave...glory to ABBA...
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