Why We Choose Not to Have Kids

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@davidb2059 Ай бұрын

These conversations are so so useful - they're Chinese in its most natural form!. Thank you for publishing them with Suqing

@sabrinusglaucomys 3 ай бұрын

I really love these videos that are conversations between the two of you. I don't understand all the words but when I stop, most the time I recognize the word or at least one of the characters as one I recently saw somewhere else so it's a really good level while also teaching how to have conversations.

@书歆 3 ай бұрын

谢谢你们发布了这个视频！我有两个孩子，可是我同意你们的原因。当妈妈不适合所有的女人的生命，而且是并不必须做的事情。最重要是你们选择什么让你们最快乐！

@yeroca 3 ай бұрын

This video is just slightly above my level, so it's kinda perfect! Thanks!

@xiaoguachinese 3 ай бұрын

Glad it helped!

@大龙Spencer 3 ай бұрын

I appreciate your collaboration and discussion of more in depth and mature topics.

@YouLi-kq2si 3 ай бұрын

在中国不是要不要生，是要不要润。在中国值得讨论的是要生韭菜还是人矿和怎么做个没人性的人上人。

@MaximKud 3 ай бұрын

Modern situation about children is quite interesting, on one side we have tendention where you dont want to have child if you can not afford it, on the other side a people in power structures kinda want poor folks to give birth cause they needed as a labour resource. So we can see that trend as form of protest, regular people will have more money and time, and rich ones will get a big crisis and their children will be forced to go to work, if this trend continues. Yeah my conception sounds crazy, but i think have sense in a modern world. 但无论如何很高兴再次看到这个collab，总高兴看到你们的讨论的视频

@jeffreytaipei7907 3 ай бұрын

Thank for the conversation. I enjoyed the more difficult topic!

@xiaoguachinese 3 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@stonemanfits6911 3 ай бұрын

Thank you laoshi, ive learned alot of new words and how to use it correctly on this video. 🙏 please make more vids like this.

@xiaoguachinese 2 ай бұрын

More to come!

@maxshilo4452 4 күн бұрын

I use a Blue Yeti, I think you use a rode mic now:) I had two children before I was 30 , maybe that's why I started to learn Chinese at the age of 60! Thank you so much , you videos are great , even with a rubbish mike!!

@cenysungkono1182 Ай бұрын

我也同意，生孩子不是一个人必须做到的事情。但是，这个世界需要更多的好人。如果你们有适合生孩子的条件，就是比如说经济方面稳定，有理想怎么养优秀的孩子，那就生吧。对这个世界会带来好处。生孩子，养孩子虽然会带来烦恼，但是也会改善你的人生。

@sumayah8823 2 ай бұрын

I love this video! Your conversations are always so interesting

@xiaoguachinese 2 ай бұрын

❤️💜

@vavaglot-cb1jn Ай бұрын

Really appreciated this topic, as a woman in my thirties who also doesn't want kids (but is afraid to regret the choice later). I think both choices can lead to regret.... but if you are a woman with a lot of passion for learning, professional growth, and creative hobbies, I think having a kid might cause the most regret, since you would lose time/energy for those things for ~20 years -- or even the rest of your life if your child is disabled. Anyway, language acquisition is so much faster when you're very engaged in the topic, so 謝謝！

@xiaoguachinese 22 күн бұрын

It’s a hard topic to talk about, but I’m happy to be able to help.

@kuncahyomoenasir7816 3 ай бұрын

Even though I do not agree with your idea about not having children, but I enjoy learning the language, Love it, ❤❤❤❤❤

@xiaoguachinese 3 ай бұрын

🤗

@Reflekt0r Ай бұрын

Topics that make me want to respond are the best for language learning! Not that I strongly disagree, I just have a different perspective. But what's more important: Could you invest a little in your microphones? That's like your main tool and makes language learning so much more enjoyable. 😌

@xiaoguachinese 22 күн бұрын

Just got a new mic 😁

@Reflekt0r 22 күн бұрын

@xiaoguachinese 😍🎤

@Artemusicstring 24 күн бұрын

Because is the mainstream tendency now everywhere

@davidarnaud 3 ай бұрын

Please have KZbin automatically add English language subtitles when you upload the video. It's super easy to do, they just translate your transcript into English. Language Reactor doesn't work on mobile and isn't always very reliable. If you want to reach a larger audience you NEED an option for English language subs. And since KZbin does the work for you it's a no brainer to add.

@yeroca 3 ай бұрын

You can choose "Auto-translate" in the subtitles options.

@zhifei7119 3 ай бұрын

did you see the option: Chinese >> English? Will that solve your problem? That's just the one under the Chinese subtitles. Please let me know

@veemon Ай бұрын

#childfree is the way to go.

@Alltherage9496 3 ай бұрын

100% respect your opinions. 謝謝你們啊! 很好的話題. Although my aunt used to think just like this about it and many many older women wish they had kids in their 30s now because they have not much else to do at the older age with nobody to take care of them and nobody they can really be involved with.