why we don't hang out with Allison (adressing the comments)

[@graciehadlich]

I get what people mean when they are worried when they don’t see Allison. We do associate Fitness Marshall with all the members together. But I also COMPLETELY understand that yall have separate lives and the only thing that you come together for that we SEE is fitness Marshall. And I trust that if that were to ever change, you’d address that when you’re ready. I think that people are just freaking out because they care but also people need to understand you have a life outside of the fitness Marshall ❤

[@cayley8218]

this video was chaotic and so fun cannot believe you had to explain that everyone of you guys are your own person and that yall all hang out together and seperately , we love you guys❤ , it is always hard balancing you life but you do it so well

[@joarou3385]

Caleb, sweetie, you don’t have to listen to the haters. Just be you!

[@debbiesmith5820]

I was in a friendship group of three. Sometimes you are closer to one particular friend than the other or sometimes one of you has other plans. You can hang out with just one of you from the group. You shouldn’t have to constantly be linked to all 3 of you all the time. People need to chill out 😂. As you said it’s just a snippet of your lives. One of my friends ended up getting controlling over me and my other friend hanging out together if she wasn’t there and it ended up being so toxic. You are free to hang out with whoever you want to. You shouldn’t have to answer people explaining why you aren’t hanging out with Allison. If Haley is your closer friend then that’s fine and shouldn’t even be questioned. Dislike that people are trying to call you out for that. ❤ grow up everyone. I love all of you guys and keep doing you ✨

[@trishapaytaskitchenfloor]

fr, you can have a friendship of 3 if the dynamics are healthy, and from what they all present, it seems like healthy dynamics amongst all of them. i get people worrying about friendships of 3 people, especially since so many people have horror stories of those, myself included. i think it’s a little excessive that people are quick to jump to the conclusion of they don’t like allison or theyre not really friends, when that arguably uses more brain power than to think “hey, people have their own lives and do their own things”

[@Bexy]

Thank you for addressing this, it has been irritating me IMMENSELY that people demand that you three do exactly EVERYTHING together and that you are not allowed to hang out individually! Like what grown up people hang out like that? Is it children writing those things? I definitely do not hang out with my colleagues and friends 100 percent equally, AND THAT IS NORMAL!!

[@heathermiller5765]

Lol I also saw Allison's vlog of what appears to be that same cancellation

[@ashwult7315]

10:40 is where he talks about for the ones just want to know where

[@peachxtaehyung]

Thank you!

[@Everbody-is-here]

Nothings worse than waking up early in the morning and just getting rushed but then I takes forever to get to the place.

[@Justlov4]

I understand why people get worried or have questions when they don't see Allison because it's coming from a good place of not wanting anyone especially a core member like Alison to be left out or feel left out. You all aren't 3 heads on one body. You are 3 individuals who have their own lives. That's ok and like you said, it is healthy to have your own lives and not be so dependent on each other. But I'm glad you all are in a good spot with each other and have found that balance between work and friendship

[@RedRetreiver]

You should do a 6 hour dance marathon of just Cheap Thrills

[@StitchD626]

❤❤❤ i enjoy the vlogs. Cant wait to see the new house done. Hope yall vlog some more. Maybe do vlogmas again!!

[@angelamartin3421]

People just LOVE to try and start drama between people! Caleb, you know what you guys have and the strength of your individual relationships. If these certain type of people want drama, point them towards their own lives ❤

[@Positiffity_Vibes]

I’m waiting for the Toad tattoo to make an appearance 😂🥰

[@ayeshaaijaz3377]

It's sad at this even at this point you've to explain yourself... Its been 10 years yet people assume you to have the same life outside the camera No one can dictate who you hang out with, who you post about online, and all that. It's totally fine. You don't owe any explanation to anyone.

[@heatherstewart7926]

Allison's scream at 9.05

[@meernam.3570]

2:55 My new favourite storytime session.

[@xEllieRose]

I respect that you put explanation at the end but it shouldn't be necessary. Life has so much nuance to it and the internet tends to forget that. Do the people commenting this just hangout with the same two people at any moment? Also knowing it's up to the three of you to communicate if something is wrong but that's non of our business. People are weird.

[@kellys2909]

For tattoo placement: Above the elbow (on back of arm) will peek out in some shirts and movements but isn't constantly seen

[@Rentheflower]

I honestly just love the jokes about where Allison is 😂

[@hairnedez9126]

I get it, my heart goes out to u guys cuz this will alwayz be ur battle. Stop assuming

[@peachxtaehyung]

Im sorry you get these questions so much. People need to really mind their business. Being hounded by questions like this can ruin friendships/relationships of any kind

[@daniellemalave91]

I think Toad matches Caleb’s entire being and so that should be the tattoo choice 🤣

[@bt4582]

I know it is hard and totally get what you are saying (I try not to make comments like that about things that I know nothing about based on para social relationships) but please do what you want to do without being concerned about these comments. If you want to make videos like this explaining things you can, but it is not something that I hope you feel the need to do regularly (just live your lives the way you want and deserve). Love all you guys and hope you do what makes you happy!

[@SomeOne-zw6kh]

I'm with Caleb and Allison on the pixilated tattoos. I think his idea would be cuter. I feel like Caleb's idea also fits with Haley's esthetic more, but I suppose I get that she wants to get one that'll match the one her bf is getting, and maybe she doesn't wana fight for the better idea. It's just a little tattoo anyway.

[@hmadden321]

Hey guys, I just want you to know I love you all! I live in Indiana, I actually live 35 miles north of Louisville and I am 1.5 hours away from Indianapolis. I would love to meet up and meet you guys since you’re from my home state!! You guys rock and I would love to come to one of your workouts soon or in 2025. I will keep in touch and hope to see you all at a venue soon!

[@lovisaborgstrom6882]

Hahahaha i live for this vlog!! 😂❤ i was so much kaos and i am here for it!!! Hahaha. I laugh so much and that what i needed! Thank you ❤ Love your vlogs and looking forward to the next one 😁❤ And oh thats with allison, makes me so oh.. ofcurse you have your own lifes! Your 3 different people.. and you do different things outside your work. That is Such self-evident. I dont understand why so many comment that.. acually. 🤦‍♀️ Your friendship is real and you guys always been friends ❤

[@aandeg-kwe]

Idk you remind of how adorable the Pokémon shinx is ahaha

[@12emilykate]

We missed you in Cincy!

[@AvronChristopher]

Isn't this The Fitness Marshall Vlog? You are the Marshall of the Vlog. I personally only watch it for that and not the girls in the back. I honestly wouldn't know who was who in a police line up. They are your backup dancers, and they aren't the main focus, at least to me. People will always misunderstand situations. That isn't your problem. Just keep being you and do what you're doing.

[@lisamariebasile2685]

What???? It's all three of them.

[@emilyyruretagoyena777]

very much enjoyed this vlog

[@shanichild1577]

i love watching your vlogs and videos your such an amazing fun people and you shouldn't have to explain everything to everyone everyone has there own life's to live keep doing what your doing i love all 3 of you ❤

[@cyb3rsavag33]

Hi Caleb!! 🤗

[@punkinbean]

I am dying at you thinking Cincinnati is in Connecticut when you're from Indiana. 🤣

[@azsakamoto4582]

Lmao i always wondered too😅 love from another Midwesternerrrrr (Wisconsin). Haley r u wearing gelx🎉 Lmfaoooo amazing with the yoga stuff #showchoir 😅

[@Rentheflower]

Also pixelated Snorlax of course

[@jenniferhart6136]

Love your vlogs! Y’all just seem like normal friends who work together and also have outside private lives and relationships with others. Sometimes it seems like viewers project the worst parts of themselves and their own relationships onto people they see online. The people who see nonexistent drama when they watch youbers, need a hug from their own friends/family. And they should probably go outside and touch some grass, too. Just saying - it might do them some good. 🤷‍♀️😄

[@Oakecj_47]

You guys are too much!!!! 💙 💙 💙 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍🌈💙 💙 💙

[@Remmysage]

You had to fly to Atlanta to get to Ohio? Damn! fly United!

[@heatherhenson943]

As we say in Georgia…. You can’t get to hell without going through ATL! 😂

[@allyszyndlar3602]

❤ you

[@finclec]

I know it’s not really their fault because of the weather, but the festival really should’ve just canceled the whole thing instead of wasting peoples time and money and energy to get out to the festival that didn’t even happen. Actually feel so bad and think it’s so ridiculous that you guys had to fly All day to not get anywhere, and then have to fly back home. Really done poorly by the festival, honestly. As soon as there is bad weather, you canceled the whole thing not cancel day of.💀💀 that really pisses me off

[@pandrea36]

I think you should get a pokie ball on your wrist

[@LogCabinNick]

Ok but, since you brought it up, as a fan, you do occasionally give off peacocking vibes. I imagine competing for views in LA does that to you. Sometimes, there will be something you say/do that doesn’t feel genuine at all and it feels like it’s done either as a vague coverup or purely for the camera but not for the sake of entertainment. Of course, everything a vlogger does is for the camera but it should always come off as genuine, funny, interesting, or some flavor of entertaining, which you are! Every so often, I just get rubbed the wrong way and I could see why people would think that you and Haley would intentionally leave out Allison. Particularly Haley if I’m being brutally honest. I can totally see myself being friends with Caleb and Allison in real life but I don’t think Haley and I would get along very well. I may be totally wrong! I didn’t like one of my very best friends at all when I first met her and I was just the man of honor at her wedding after 10 years! 😂 We only see a very small fraction of your lives so most critiques are down to the edit, as they say! :)

[@thejessicagoodenough]

Oh sit down.

[@LogCabinNick]

@ I’m good. Thank you, though.

[@lisamariebasile2685]

Wow. Haley is so nice to her. And this just feels super parasocial.

[@LogCabinNick]

@ Obviously. All of social media is a parasocial relationship if you don’t actually know them in real life. I’m just calling it like I see it. :)

[@cayley8218]

I am soooo earlyy 😂

[@redleather9222]

yep

[@starrspoter]

its weird that u only see her when u go somewere for a show. i remember u wernt talking then u were and she was back to being a back up booty cause u need a new person. she is the one who has to travel all the time as the rest of u live near each other

[@epoch13]

These comments are why he felt the need to explain anything at all. Unless you know these people personally, we don't know what has happened, the feelings attached, or their relationships to one another. They seem like friends, all friendships have ups and downs. This video was chaotic and fun though 🙃

[@mdna1846]

Allison lives in Los Angeles, same as Caleb and Haley, so not sure if you have just not caught up in the last few years. And if you watched Instagram or KZbin with Allison, Haley and/or Caleb, you would see that they sometimes do things together and at other times they all do their own separate things. That is normal and that is how life works if you are having good, healthy relationships with your friends/coworkers.