Why We Don't Talk About Their Birth Parents ❤️

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[@tianawynn5337]

“We don’t want too” Exactly. 👏🏾 I’m adopted myself and I also choose not to talk about why and how I ended up getting adopted. All everyone needs to know is I’m safe, happy, and thriving with my new family! As are your beautiful kids. Thanks for being understanding of their situations. This is why I watch you guys. Too many people put their fame/views first and their children second. You don’t do this and that is why you’re the only family vloggers I will ever watch. ❤️

[@themillerfam]

❤️❤️❤️

[@411w44]

🤸‍♀️🤸‍♂️🙏👌😘🌹

[@jaesosa4660]

Most definitely not OUR business to know! Such strong kids.

[@barkai2928]

👍👍👍🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇹🙏🙏🙏💓💞❤❤🕊🕊🕊

[@ChiefsGirlSince1989]

Totally agree

[@blackbird8797]

I really respect that you publicly acknowledge the trauma that goes with adoption at the same time as keeping your children’s individual journeys private. Thank you for sharing resources to support families and communities. I also just wanted to tell you that your videos deeply comforts and nourishes me. I feel so inspired by how you honor your family.

[@carriekennedy5334]

My husband and I fostered and adopted all of our 6 children. We don't discuss most of their birth parents or tell their stories to everyone either. It is a personal thing that we all have to go through. Thank you for loving all of your children alike ❤️

[@KathyM-uu5yx]

I love how you respect the privacy of your adopted children. My husband was adopted and he couldn't have had better adoptive parents and that's how I feel about the two of you

[@kyo5732]

I think it’s important and special that Jude, and Liam have each other and that Penny and Lincoln have each other, as well as the rest of the family. It never feels good to feel different or like the odd one out, so I love that they have someone in their family from the same place as them to always feel connected to. You guys are doing an amazing job.

[@niequicaff5764]

I'm here because you honor you kids. Such great parents you are. Beautiful kids! Liam at his 3rd year, so cute ! HAPPY DATING ANIVERSARY!! Enjoy, "original" beautiful people!

[@ruthblair3136]

Off topic, but I just love how Stephen looks at you, Amanda!!! You can just see how much he loves you when he looks at you!!

[@nurizzaty4150]

All your kids are so greatful to had a loving and understanding daddy and mummy... I agreed not everything we have to share to public....it's the kids life privacy... When the time comes they will tell their own stories.... Anywhere I loves all your kids so much... So happy on Linky progressed... Liam changed and grown up alots... Take care ..and love you guys always... God bless all of you...

[@thebusybee7080]

Little Liam what a total sweetheart. It is such a delight to see how each of your children has developed their own personality and how thoughtful of each other they are.

[@PattyJonas]

You always put your kids needs first and that is the most important thing if all.

[@H_K08]

I know sometimes it’s really hard to talk about it. I’m just so happy that both of you guys took in those kids as your own. I just love watching this Channel. ❤ best parents

[@subhashinireddy9955]

Happy to listen about Lincoln development.,TQ Miller's for taking care of that cute kid.,U people are awesome 👍👍👍

[@NiaG34]

I believe Penelope has mentioned her birth parents before on her channel but I’m happy they all have good parents looking out for them now 😊

[@lizzievi272]

I don't think i expected anything less from you guys!! Congratulations on your beautiful and amazing family!!

[@guenetgirma8941]

The tie with birth parents is undeniable. It is a story and history. So is undeniable of the parents who adopted and shouldered great responsibilities in all aspect of the child upbringing. I am brought up by my grandmother. I have a lot of characters that resembles her. She has been my everything and continues to be, though she is not alive. Even my husband who doesn't know her often tells me that he loves her. He sees her through me. When, I watched your children, I am able to see you both. Witness the energy, time and dedication you have invested on them to be who they are now and will be in the future. They will surely be proud of you so will you be in them. Remain blessed.

[@celesteessel4500]

This was truly health to my bones to read. Such a sweet message to share. God bless

[@nicolepapole]

Bawled my eyes out with Lincoln's first birthday on Instagram and here again. Seriously such a precious gift.

[@abigailmateo611]

I admire how you guys protect your family and your kids! 🥰❤️ Liam is so cute! 🥺

[@tinashea7790]

Respect to you for respecting your children 👍 The pain you have just thinking about their past is clear to see. They have a whole lot to smile about now 😊

[@shelleymalone4427]

I think it is wonderful that you honour your children’s past and present. Your love for them and for each other shines in every video.

[@mamadee2k]

I have an adopted daughter from China. She is 22 now and the light of my life. She’s completed her Masters in Biomedical Engineering. Such a loving and kind woman now.

[@claudettethompson-grant6648]

Wonderful

[@lisav834]

Wow 💕 you two are blessed to have each other 🥰

[@themillerfam]

Wow!! That is amazing!

[@suedoyle4526]

I love how you both wrap your beautiful children tightly in this big warm loving security blanket that’s called “family” ❤️❤️❤️ You are both amazing parents 🥰☘️🇮🇪

[@desteni1992]

Thank you for always respecting and protecting your kids, especially about something sensitive like their birth families. I know they will respect and appreciate that decision in the future especially because the internet can be a not so nice and judgmental place. Thank you for always being a breath of fresh air when I watch your videos and being a family that I know is genuine and amazing. I learn so much from you guys. I'm a single mom of 3 young boys and I get so much encouragement and uplifting from your videos. I love your family ❤

[@kirstylfc28]

Miller family video, yes, seeing the beautiful family, yes..... Such an raw topic to discuss with everyone.... Yes! Your stand point on their birth parents is amazing, let them tell their story when they're ready. Honestly such awe inspiring people, I'm so glad those children can call you their parents! It literally warms my heart x

[@kim-rz3fp]

I love your family-the values you’re instilling in them and the care you take in keeping the private things private♥️I have to say that compassion has been a part of my life for 9 years now and my heart swells with every letter I get from my 3! Blessings to you all…

[@mariamalnuaimi8973]

What a beautiful family. It warms my heart thanks for sharing. I was little tears warm 🥰

[@Loislee_]

You owe us no explanation. You are great parents and that’s what matters ❣️

[@aquanettagardner9722]

Watching them to dig for worms it was so heartwarming those two are so adventurous I love to see what else they going to get into LOL I can't wait to see them go fishing I know tears going to roll down my face may God continue blessing you and your beautiful family always well good health and good fortune God bless🙏❤

[@shirleysousa9739]

That’s so amazing that you take the children feelings to heart

[@lilpancake3199]

Your channel and videos bring me so much joy. I truly don’t think I’ve seen a couple that LOVES each other as deeply as you two, and I don’t think I’ve ever seen a family who adores and celebrates their children more. Thank you for blessing all of us with your videos and sharing your lives with us.

[@juliebradshaw1158]

Just the most beautiful family. Lincoln has come a long way and its all down to you. He is an inspiration. Love you guys. Lots of love& hugs from Julie in the UK.❤️

[@themillerfam]

Good morning, beautiful people! You’re gonna wanna make sure to watch to the end for the cutest clip ever. 😍 Love you all so much!

[@foreverstriving4u]

Lobe you all too!😁😜

[@lisav834]

Love you all too 💕

[@sharijones113]

Why did I cry at the end?!? Lol.... I just worked my 3rd night in a row.... so I'm going to say I'm tired. Ha! Whom am I kidding??!! Liam was, and still is, just precious. I adore yalls family.

[@scrappingscootergirl]

Lincoln is doing so good! Lincoln and mirrors are so sweet!! I can't imagine conducting "business" in an RV with so many kids! Maybe fresh air naps would be a great idea for him! Stephen took the words right out of my mouth, it amazes being being so small to see Amanda carry Lincoln-Strong mama! I have to give a shout out to Stephen-I think its super sweet that you remembered your dating anniversary date-most guys wouldn't! It really speaks to the love that the two of you share! I really respect you guys for the fact that you don't discuss your children's birth families and back stories. I am always stunned at the lack of respect and boundaries that people who only know you as an online presence, would expect you to talk about such personal things or they ask way to personal questions! I also feel like in today's world and social media that people OVERSHARE! I love that in Lincoln's adoption process you were able to see photos of him enjoying his first birthday! I have previously volunteered full time at our Childrens Aid (your dcfs) making life story scrapbooks (called Lifebooks) for foster kids and kids that were being adopted so that they know their life story! It was such a blessing and rewarding experience to get to watch the kids reaction to seeing/hearing about their stories! That clip at the end of Liam was precious!!

[@julieetheridge9066]

Thank you for choosing to keep your beautiful blessings life private, it is their story to tell if and when they're ready and for loving them so much! I know we only see a small snippet of your life but you can tell that your genuine and caring. God bless Miller Fam!!

[@savedbyjesus2145]

I respect your heart to protect your children!!! Thats so good!!! God bless you all!! This moved me to tears . I dont even know what they been through but makes me sad but also makes me so happy to see how you guys are being used of God to love them and protect them now!!! And how your also helping so many other children to be helped too!!!

[@lindasmith1921]

Stephen/Amanda, I couldn't agree with you more on not sharing your kids birth parents, it's their story to tell, if they choose. I L❤VE how you guys put your kids first and protect them! 👏🏾Thank you for sharing BetterHelp and ALL they provide!👍🏾

[@themillerfam]

❤️❤️

[@mariekastigar2294]

I love your honesty. Sitting down and explains how you feel. Bravo! When your children are ready they may or may not share. Totally up to them. Great job Stephen and Amanda! ❤️🙏🏻 to you all.

[@gracekuangyl]

i really respect how you guys respect your kids' feelings & always seeking permission. honestly, i dont even know why are people even asking about it. C'mon, no matter who, its their privacy and not obliged to tell you every single detail. So kudos to yall! We dont hv to know really...=) jus keep it to yourself until one day they decided to share their stories.

[@camarojai6832]

Definitely your business and your right to do what feels right for your babies. I think it's our job to be supportive followers and just put the love and positivity into the universe 💜

[@marieboutin9054]

You are such good people, awesome parents. What you have done is wonderful. To have adopted several children from Asia and Africa . You already have three children of your own and you did that. You are so loving, caring towards your children. Lincoln is loved , taken care so much of. He can thank God to have you. This almost brings tears to my eyes. I wish there were more people like you .

[@carlim6356]

Love your videos! I really appreciate how much you respect your childrens' stories!!

[@TedJamesLytle790]

Wonderful heartfelt video. Thank you for sharing . . . Lincoln makes me smile. 'Wee' is a word my toddler son used a lot. "I wanna go to the Wee," he would say. We discovered that is the sound he would make going down the slide at the 'Park.' My son is 32 now. Thank you, Linky for that wonderful trip down memory lane. ❤

[@renyalik4043]

You guys are the best parents anyone could ask for. ❤️❤️❤️

[@ahhhbeee3673]

Omg 20:41 I thought Stephen was calling for Lincoln to come closer 😂 You guys are amazing! So much respect for you guys on how you’re raising your incredible kids! Thank you for sharing & opening your home to us! God has truly blessed you guys 🙏🏼

[@zongvang703]

You guys are amazing! So glad they have you as parents. May God continue to bless you and your family ❤️ Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us.

[@lisagardner9798]

I respect both of you so much for protecting your kids and including them on the content you share. You share a lot about your family and the things you choose to share or NOT share is no one’s business. Love your videos.

[@emp556]

Personally coming from being adopted myself I can truly respect your decision on making it their choice when they get older if they so choose to share it than they can. It's a true blessing to be chosen by loving people. There are so many parents who have their kids and don't treat them well. Your kids are loved without a doubt. It's so beautiful!!!!

[@Rhododendrondimmek]

I am happy that Linki progresses some words... He is blessed to have parents like you...

[@hafsahashram]

You both are so amazing the only thing we see is the strong love you give all your children, that's really all we need to know rest is your privacy. Bless you all

[@melissamoeller9608]

Lots of respect for choosing to keep your kids’ stories private.

[@annaraeellison3417]

How is Liam's growth coming along? I remember you posted a video of a visit to his doctor (a few months ago?). They were pleased with his progress. I hope he is encouraged and doesn't struggle with any feelings of being different. He is such a good hearted young man. I love his smile!

[@alyssangoc]

I always love me a Lincoln update 🥰🥰 thank you so so much for sharing all his mile stones. I agree that it’s their own personal story & it’s up to them if they want to share with the world or not. Much love ❤️ ❤️

[@amandacampos12]

You are amazing parents!! Love to see Linky making so much progress.

[@georgiecampbell5949]

So much respect for you both for protecting your children as you are. Their past is for them to tell, I agree with you. Thank you for sharing your family with us. You are such awesome parents. ❤

[@bellaliqueone2666]

I love your family and admire your respect and care ćoncerning their birth families. May God's will be done in all of your lives and may He guide and bless your steps🙏🏽❤️

[@positivevibes8986]

I respect your decision. Eagerly waiting kayaking & tubing in the backyard river.. Lincoln & Ethan are sweetest & adorable kiddos..Liam is brave he is kind cute with insects..Loving God has wonderful planning for your family.

[@stephaniedonovan2605]

You are hands down doing the right thing! It's there story to share. You love your children and that's why you made this decision. Some that don't understand this do not understand how hard it would be for them later in life if you shared it. My husband was in foster care. We have been together for 20 years. Through the years he's shared about his parents but it was only recently that he shared the worst of it. He struggled only telling me. He would never want anyone else to know it. You see he is an amazing person and loved by many but he's still worried that he will be judged for his parents mistakes. You are doing the right thing. Love you guys

[@audeancibure1528]

You are absolutely right this is private life , it belongs to your children ! You are doing such a fantastic work on your family, your kids and yourselves are happy and that make us happy to follow you. God bless all of you. We love you guys. 🥰

[@yanickdorsaint3781]

As long as they are loved, happy and safe the rest is none of our business. Blessed family. God bless.

[@darleneharris2070]

Yes great you respect their privacy. They are so well loved and linky especially is thriving in this bless loving home.

[@shalininursab7316]

You know I just can't wait to see your your vlogs daily coz I love you all especially Stephen and Amanda the way they take care of their kids seeing linkys naughtiness touches me the most the way he clings on to his Dad and his bros that I love of him the most

[@Kitana1599]

My fave KZbin family, you both are amazing and the children have a beautiful upbringing, kind and loving parents evident in your children and their behavior.

[@susiewelchman8658]

Loved this ! Thank you for your comments on why you don’t talk about it ! “ it is their story to tell if and when they are ready “ 💕💕💕💕💕💕🥰

[@peggylowery8062]

Y'all are amazing. Love how y'all love each other. Beautiful family 💕 Much love from West Virginia ❤️🙏 Look forward to hearing from them about their journey ☺️ Only share what you're comfortable sharing. 💞

[@scrollinYT]

my sister adopted my niece as a new born baby. im not sure she even knows she is adopted and she is 4 going on 5 years old now. thank you for being so open about it with your children.

[@themillerfam]

❤️❤️❤️

[@sherylgorla9355]

Much respect letting the kids tell their own stories when or if they choose too! ❤️ Lil Liam’s ending clip is ADORABLE!! Kids grow up too darn quick. And my grandkids seem to be growing up even faster… not fair! 😓

[@sweetafr7820]

I'm so pleased that you got your honoring not talking about their birth parents because there's something personal and private people that are asking should And if the kids wanna talk about it in the future is up to them but I'm so happy to know that they're loved and they're going really fast too

[@carolcato8750]

It’s no one else’s place to know anything,when they grow older if they wanna talk about it then it’s up to them. They’re such sweetheart I love you all💕

[@peaceoa2]

Thank you so much Stephen & Amanda for looking out for your kids! You’re both awesome parents. I pray that God will continue to give you more wisdom.❤️

[@maryannty2044]

Reason why I follow you guys is because you love your kids so much and respect their own privacy. Blessed you more❤️💕❤️

[@Dwerb]

first thing first, HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO YOU GUYS!!!💖 i'm 1000% agree with you guys, it's not our business and it's their story to tell. thank you for honoring your children, this is why i love you guys so much.

[@erilee]

What a beautiful family. It warm my heart thanks for sharing. I was little tears warm 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@sammyhickey9]

Its super duper nice to see a family vlogging channel who values their children's privacy for once. Lots of love from New Zealand, the lil country that either gets mistaken for part of Australia or gets cut off maps 😊❤️🌏

[@lynnmarsh1227]

You handle that beautifully and your children will appreciate that so much! Sending you blessings from Newfoundland, Canada!

[@chihuahualife4260]

You guys are just great, great parents, great partners, sending lots of love and prayers. Great vlog on adoption Miller Fam, most ppl dont realize the trauma that adoption springs from.

[@lesliepang491]

so much respect for your family. hard to imagine how you guys do it. I've three kids of my own and they're a handful at times. you're great parents! ❤❤❤

[@notjustdeb4327]

I have nothing but complete respect for you both for not telling their story!!! It truly is their story to tell and when they’re old enough they’ll make their own informed decision on if they choose to share it or not…May God continue to bless your family!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@margaretimukuka3326]

God bless you Stephen and Amanda for loving your adoptive children like your own. I love your diverse family. If there is a country that adopts on earth, its the USA. God bless the USA. I love the Miller fam

[@rubygsap9245]

..Yes I agree, it has to be at their own time and choice..though each of your kids are blessed to have you both as parents; to belong to a loving and Christ-centered family..Btw, Liam is sooo cute and adorable on the last clip..time flies..wish to see more clips of Jude and Liam as toddlers...❤😍🤗..Linky is so adorable as always, 💕💕🤗...as well as Ethan, the sweetest..🤗😍😊❤

[@whatsthestorymorningglory61]

The parents are blessed too, as well as the family as a whole! Everyone is blessed when people are tied together with love and respect.

[@coco-yf9ck]

I appreciate your honesty and that you protect your children.

[@debbiegaley2331]

Honestly, the thought never entered my mind. The way you both raised your children, I don’t see adoption? I see a beautiful family who makes me laugh, cry and truly appreciate God’s love! I can’t wait til Stephen ‘s book is out! I pre ordered and patiently waiting! It will be my beach vacation book read.

[@kathylezcano8793]

Stephen and Amanda I enjoyed watching this video it touch my heart y'all are awesome parents beautiful children a beautiful family out of all the families I watch on KZbin y'all is the best genuine love you guys have a awesome weekend can't wait to see your next video God bless

[@amandaradforth6810]

I’ve only recently found you after watching another large family where you met up with them for a meal. You seem a really lovely genuine family. I fully respect you’re decision to keep some things private. It is you’re childrens stories to tell. People who aren’t involved don’t need to know.xx.

[@michellebrooks424]

I absolutely love your family and how much you care every time I see your videos I can't help but smile thank you for being such wonderful people

[@jajaazmi4441]

Great chat Amanda and Stephen! Enjoy the things you want to share. Your hair look amazing Amanda!!! Hi Liam!

[@maryliao7875]

You both are great parent and the kids is so lucky to have you both all the kids are great kids too Lots of blessings to the beautiful family always.

[@luiza5211]

Your videos are always so inspiring and I always take a lesson with me, even if it’s just gratitude 🙏🏻

[@barbibutton9619]

Your doing right thing. If the kids want to talk privately to u guys or amongst family about their parents - sure but it's not for us to know. You guys are the best parents for all the children, collectively and individually

[@umutoni1657]

Thanks guys for caring for your kids enough and respecting their stories❤️ May the Lord bless you and keep your family!!!!!

[@majachenmolhamo6140]

Your family is so healing for my adoptee heart. I stuffed away my feelings about being adopted for years. Trying only to be positive and then recently in my 30’s I started acknowledging what happened in a real way. I was carrying so much I had know idea. I read the book The Primal Wound and it blew me away. Unfortunately, my adoptive family mainly wanted to act like nothing happened and like I wasn’t different, but I am and it doesn’t have to be a negative thing. The differences need compasión and acknowledgement. You’re right adoption is both beautiful and traumatic. Everyone’s grieving process is so different. I love witnessing how much acknowledgement you give to each of your children’s complex growing identities. I cannot even imagine what it would have been like if my dad had tried to learn my native language. It is so healing ❤️‍🩹. Thanks again.

[@themillerfam]

❤️❤️❤️

[@vivstevens9525]

Stephen and Amanda you are the best parents, love you all. All the children are beautiful and precious ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@rachelsirett8809]

It's no one else's business but yours,I certainly wouldn't pry. You're wonderful parents 🥰

[@debbiewoods4232]

You two are an excellent example of what great parenting looks like. Continuing to pray for you and your sweet family.❤🙏

[@rebeccalunsford8071]

Yeah Linky so exciting you’re getting there. So proud of you little guy.🥰

[@amesale-workb9877]

Happy Anniversary what a passionate and incredible parents God bless.

[@wandak1934]

Y'all are the best Beautiful Family. Your all so lucky to have each other. Thanks so much for sharing with us. Nana, Wanda

[@tonifitz6831]

Aww it's nothing to do with anyone else.. As much as people may be intrigued, it's the kids that matter.. Like you say it's private and personal to each child. You guys are amazing parents.. xx

[@sarahnasri428]

I can't wait to watch this vlog ❤❤ god bless Miller Fam

[@divahc1]

I'm so surprised that this is your number one question, but maybe I shouldn't be. It's definitely not our business, nor our place to ask. The fact that you share so much of your family life is incredible.

[@anniecoutinho9303]

God bless you Stephen and Amanda for showering your love on all your children.