Why we get angry? | urdu| |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal|

The background of anger. How and when, this prime emotion develops?
#anger #angermanagement

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Best lecture ever

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Gusa halat se hota Hai... Gareebo ki zindagi me a Kar yeh baat Kar dekho janab...

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

so we are just environment dependent not able to think logical animals...........?..........nop

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نہایت با وزن انداز بیاں جزاک اللہ ماشا اللہ

[@Qari_Arqam]

ASSALAMUALAIKUM ALLAH Pak hamare saron pe ap jese ustaad ka Saya hamesha rakhe Or hamen bhi ap jesa banne ki tofeeq ata farmae.Ameen🤲

[@Ilm-o-irfan]

ایک امریکی ماہر تعلیم کا کہنا تھا کہ (پرانا کوٹ پہنو اور نئی کتاب خریدو) اس مقولے کے بعد دنیا کو دوسرے زاوئے سے دیکھنے کا موقع ملا۔ اچھے لباس کا شوق ہمیں بھی ہے اور آج بھی برقرار ہے لیکن اس شوق سے کہیں بڑا لطف اب کتاب پڑھنے میں آتا ہے! اور یقین جانئے جتنا ضروری تن ڈھانپنے کے لئے لباس ہے اتنی ہی ضروری دماغ کھولنے کے لئے کتاب ہے!

[@AlviSultan]

There is lots of depth and logic in what this American is saying. I agree with him.

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

DAmagh ko kitaabe kese khol deti hai kia kitabe damagh ko bandh nahi kr deti.....apni rae di jiye........?

[@Nazriz5234]

Sir susral acha na ho to phir ghusy pr kysy control krain ?

[@asifali-kp7zh]

sister! control karein, sabr karein , dua karein aur akhlaq se sabko apna bana lein. ye kehna bahut aasan hai lekin karna mushkil hai. Lekin Allah koshis karnewale ko mayus nahi karte.

[@Nazriz5234]

@@asifali-kp7zh yeh u right thank u

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[@samreenkhan5595]

A.o.a M under graduate d.r or apko dekh kar hamesha mera dil krtha hey k mai kbh apkey jesii humble or expert persnality wali docter banugi 😊😊

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[@Qari_Arqam]

ASSALAMUALAIKUM ALLAH Pak hamare saron pe ap jese ustaad ka Saya hamesha rakhe Or hamen bhi ap jesa banne ki tofeeq ata farmae.Ameen🤲

[@khaleeluddinmohd8154]

Ghussa fear ki wajha se aata hai..... bt Mai to uncheezon ko karna bhi nai chati .... incapacity to nahi Mai unlogo ko chahti bhi nai

[@babajaani2800]

امام غزالی رح کی کتاب احیاء العلوم میں غصہ و تکبر والا باب مطالعہ کیا جائے ۔۔۔ بہت ہی مفید ہے ۔۔

[@AlviSultan]

Work on understanding yourself. Lakh bemarion ka aik elaaj!

[@ahsanulhaque1092]

This topic I searched by your name I was thinking about it and found it here... thanks a million sir 👍

[@atiyarajouri565]

Sir mojhey shared ghossa at a ha k mein boltey hue sochti nahi boh at pareshaan hoon

[@harpalbihala]

Sir, I v been watching your many episodes on different issues which I found very useful education to solve them. This one is also marvelous. Can you or anybody else , can send me the lesson on issue about reasons of "STREES" , I ll be thankful

[@TheRider..]

Do you regularly clean your belly button or belly button stinks ?

[@sriwrites9010]

Sir plz as topice pa baat krn sir ma question ya h ka Ma study krta hun or time b dy ta but mjy wo result ni mil ty kia kmi h mjy smj nhi ati kindly plz mri rqst h mjy kuch btyn !!

[@mahnoortariq7212]

Wao well explained 👏❤️

[@Anatomy522]

سبحان اللہ۔ ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ جیسے افراد کسی بھی مہذب معاشرے کے ماتھے کا جھومر ھوتے ھیں۔ کاش آپ کے ارشادات کو انٹر تک کے نصاب میں درجہ بدرجہ سمویا جا سکے تاکہ یہ باتیں ھوا ھی تحلیل ھو کے نہ رہ جائیں، بلکہ کتنا ھی اچھا ھو کہ آپ What Life Has Taught Me قسم کی کوئی کتاب جس میں اس قسم کے اشد و اھم موضوعات پر اسی قسم کے خیالات کا گفتگو ھی کے پیراے میں بیان ھو؛ کیونکہ ان چیزوں کو نصاب میں شامل کرنا وہ بھی ایسے کہ ھر باب کے بعد طالب علموں سے مختلف سوالات کرکے زیر بحث موضوع کو ان کے ذھن نشیں کرایا جاسکے، یہ عملا میرے اور آپ کے بس کی بات نہیں۔

[@amirulbasar5269]

Love from Kashmir sir!!!!🍁🍁🍁

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[@sairashakir4311]

کیا ڈاکٹر صاحب سے بات کرنا ممکن ہے ؟ کسی کو بہت آس ہے ان سے کہ وہ اسکا بہت بڑا مسئلہ حل کرسکتے ہیں۔

[@drshoaibakhtar]

Aoa . Jazak Allah khair sir. Such a great and beneficial lecture . It’s an eye opener about every angry person who wants to control his or her anger.

[@sriwrites9010]

You are great sir !! ❤

[@loheqalam6181]

سر جو غصہ دوسروں کے برے سلوک پر آئے، بہتان یا الزام لگا کر یا غلط کہہ کر صفائی میں کچھ بولنے نہ دیا جائے، تو ایسی سچویشن میں غصے کو کیا کہیں گے، ان کے پیچھے تو کوئی خوف یا فرسٹریشن موجود نہیں

[@HannanTayyab]

MashAllah such a nice video Sir :)

[@ShanzyRajput]

*_میری یہ کوشش رہتی ہے کہ مجھ سے جڑے لوگ ہمیشہ خود کو خاص سمجھیں اور میں ان کی موجودگی کو خاص سے خاص تر بنا دُوں ،لیکن جب وہ خاص بن جاتے ہیں تو مجھے عام سے عام تر بنا دیتے ہیں ...!!!_*🙂💔🥀🍂

[@samreenkhan5595]

Balance rakey janab har chiz ki ik limit hothi hey kisi ko has bnnana buri bath nahi apni self respect pey cmpromise krna ghalath hey

[@aneelabano9913]

1 jasy aktear hun to koi khas nai ho ga khas bne ya bnane k ley kise ko aam hona ho ga .bus ip har 1ko khas na bnehe ga andaa

[@lawschool6295]

same effort

[@TheRider..]

Do you regularly clean your belly button or belly button stinks ?

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[@abdulsamadbacha6393]

اسلام علیکم صاحب اپ کے باتہں بہت اچی ہے لیکن انگلش کے ذیادہ الفاظ بولنے کی وجہ ہے کہ ہمیں سہی سمج نہ سکے شکریہ

[@MrDuja69]

السلام علیکم! ڈاکٹر صاحب ۔ ان 4 فیکٹرز کا علاج کیا ہے ۔

[@meenukandhari247]

I am amazed how well he explained 🙌

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

than please explain to me whaat you have learned new things in his speech.......😅

[@sajid2017]

Sir aslamo alykom mn sialkot sy hn or bimar rhti hn apsy ap a elaj krvana chahti hn boht madecn kha choki hn koi khas frq ni prta ap ky progam dakhti hn or mjy esa lgta hy k ap sy hi mn theek hn g plz mujy apna cell nombr dy dyn taky ap sy rbta kr k apky pas elaj k ly aa skn plez

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V good professor logical batein werna her koee allah per her cheez day data hai

[@MdMeraj-sc1oc]

سلام علیکم سر آپ کا بات کرنے کا طریقہ اور سمجھانے کا طریقہ بھوت اچھا انداز ہی سر ماشااللہ۔۔

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Masha Allah How beautifully professor sahaB explained ...❤️

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[@TheRider..]

@@lifebyuzma4681 Do you regularly clean your belly button or belly button stinks ?

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

@@TheRider.. wtf.......what the friend this is even mean..........?..this question of your don't make any good sense .......? .......does anger is related to belly button or person asking contact is related to your belly button...........😅

[@TheRider..]

@@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything سب سے پہلے تو اپنی انگریزی امپروو کریں۔ 🤣😂🤪🤣😂🤪🤣😂🤪 ایک چیز ہوتی ہے جس کو نفس کی سائینس کہتے ہیں۔ بلکہ لطیفہِ نفس کہتے ہیں۔ اس شیطانی جرثومے کا ٹھکانہ ناف میں ہوتا ہے۔ اور ناف کی گندگی بدبو اس کی عذا ہوتی ہے۔ اور اس کی پہنچ ماتھے تک ہوتی ہے۔ غصے کا اظہار ماتھے پہ ہوتا ہے ناں؟ ناف کی صفائی رکھنے سے اور ناف میں روزانہ تیل لگانے سے قبض غصہ ٹینشن اینگزائٹی ڈیپریشن جوانی میں شیطانی عادات گیس ایسڈٹی سے نجات ملتی ہے۔ آج سے شروع کر دیں ایک آدھ دن میں ہی فرق واضع محسوس ہو گا اور تین ہفتے بعد بہترین نتائج۔ 👍🏽آج سے شروع کر دیں۔ *Anything else you need to know?*

[@aqsanajam174]

A sy z tk parenting mai problem hai kisy theek kerain 90,% Pakistan society mai anger issues hud tu calm ho Jain agla charhai kr daita hai what to do

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

my point 1 : Gussaa bewakufo ko nahi aye ga to aur kis ko aae ga .....my point 2 : kiun ke gussa bewakufo ko hi ata hai aur gussa humme bewakuf banata hai nah ke aqalmand zara sa bhi kr sakta hai ............my point no.3 : aur na keh hum gusse ko lane ki koshish zara si bhi krte hai wo khud ba khud ajata hai to natural nahi hai waqi me......? jo khud ba khud ajae wo kia har chez natural nahi hoti......?kiun ke humne khud se krne ki koshish krte nahi krte agr wo krte to wo to phir natural nahi hota......!....😆 aur sawaal krne ka waqt : nakhush kion rahe .....khush rehne ke bajae.......? 🤔 me samajta rehta tha keh gussa krne/ane me maza ata hai na keh bora mesoos hota hai thank you for my clearifying my wrong understanding............😅 mujhe khud se sochna pharre ga........gussa na krne se bohot waqi me acha mesoos hota hai....nah ke krne/nikalne me maza ata hai....

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[@abdulkareem-yo2jq]

As per i can see, Anger has indicators before it comes out to us 1. Incapablity or incapacity of anything to do or achieve. 2. Fear than as per anger arrives. Anger is extreme level of emotion. Happiness distance between anger and happiness is more, if people always extravigant in happiness they get angry. Rest, emotion fear, sad are close to anger. Factors determines anger: 1. Mother nurturing child wirh fullfilling all demands by child, instead of saying no and explaining reason. - mother do all works instead of child. 2. Being attached to something more than it should like my bike, my pen. 3. Not able change mindset or belief 4. Jealousy, being jealous of others gain or happiness

[@arfarani4669]

Assalamualaikum! Kindly mujhy guide karain k joint family system mein bachon ko Kaisy control kia jae

[@letslisten3531]

Meri maa padhi likhi nhi hai. Or wo apne aulado me differenciate krti ha.. unhone jb bhi mujhse baat ki sirf nafrat see baat ki. unke dil me mere liye kbhi mohabbat nhi raha.. mai 23 saal se apne ghr ki nafart or tashadud ko jhel rahi hu.. ab mere andar or himaat nhi bacha. Bs mai zindagi thak gai hu.. Ap sb mere liye dua kare ki Allah mujhe haram maut se dur rakhe. Or mere haq me behar kre😭😭

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ماشاء اللہ بہت ذبرداست بیان غصے کے بارے میں۔ میں آئس لینڈ مُلک سے آپ کا ہر بیان سنتا ہوں۔

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Mery SAS 24ghanty main s23ghanty bott rhaty hai muj ko ab bhut gusa ata hai main kud par bhut control Karna chaty hun lakin phir b ajata hai

[@mansoorabbas]

Sir ager ik Bhair walla ya Koi fruit bechnay walla aver Koi galat bat kr dy ya gali dy dy to us Pe Kasy react krna hoga q k shopkeeper ko to awareness ni hy k konse bat Kasy krni hy to us ko Kasy samjayen gy.

[@trollfrost3463]

Sir mere husband ko b unki mother se pamper kiya gya h Bachpan me unki sari bat mani gayi h but ye mujhe bhut bother kar rha h mere husband aur me 11sal se yehi jhel ri hu me apne bete ko unki tarah se bda ni kar ri hu lekin me apne husband ke रेवेये se bhut preshan hu pls help🙏🏻 unko bhut lad milta h ma se meri har bat pe mase shikayat kar dete h mujhe insult feel hota h unki ma , bhai unko pamper kar dete h Mera sab kiyadhra bekar ho jata h

[@abbasikhizar4982]

Dekhain ap ki bat bilkul theek kafi had tk,lekin agr koi banda ap sy batmizi kr rha ha ya manners ka kuch b khiyal nhi rakhta tou tou ap ko gussa tou aye ga wo elada bat ha k ap pee jain gussy ko ya wahan sy bhr chaly jain, for example agr ap ka koi important fone call pa hain aur office main ap k sath bethy dousry log Zor zor sy batain krna shoro ho jain ap k mana krny k bawajood b na manain, well ap na ignore kya lekin ap ko bilkul b acha nhi lga , kya yeh acha na lgna ya us ki es herkat sy nafrat hona gussa ki aik form hA ?agr ha tou it’s means gussa does exist

[@talhamushtaq3303]

Docter Sahab mujhe bohat ziyada gusa ata tha ab nai a raha Chezon ko Comman lena start kar dia hai Agr koi mujhe khy dy k main Bura hon to main maan leta hon ye Chezain jo Change hoe hain mere andar ye Natural hai ya Age k sath sath mera mind change ho raha hai Kindly Docter Sahab is bt par Naraz dalain Thanks

[@abdurrahman6483]

when wife pressurize you to buy an expensive gift for an event in her a relatives. And if you did n't honor her choice, then her persistent humilating behavior will make me anger. No In capacity, no fear.

[@Alaska_wow]

Possessiveness my money why shud i give my wife's relative n other cud b rigidness I'm right her relatives don't deserve expensive gifts

[@TheRider..]

You must not be giving her enuf pocket money. Be generous please.

[@sumerajabeen449]

OMG mujhay gussa buhat ata hi my kia karon my adat badalna chahti hon mager ghar my gussa ata kion k my kam sab k Waqt p or manage ker k kerti hon but baki sab lazy hi 😞 suntay hi nahi aik kam ko 10 dafa bolon tab bhi nahi kety but my sab k waqt p ready rakhti hon😥

[@mohdabdulzameer8212]

Assalam alaikum sir, gussa ka bahut acha explanation diya apne lekin jalan aur hasad se bhi gusse ki halat mein insan chala jata hai, hosakta hai is kaifiat mein bhi inability shamil hoti hai am I right sir

[@sahabkhan2581]

Mashallah sir ' you doing great job .may Allah give u happiness always . Ameen

[@talhamushtaq3303]

A.O.A Sir mainy bohat Goor sy suna or samjha or real life may bhi dekha.Sir main ye kahna chahta hon k Bohat he a6y insan jihon nay bohat sy darama likhy hain to on ko gusa bohat ziyada ata hai or wo kahty hain mujhe gusa nai ata or bt par Ar jaty hain on k Minds may asi kn c batain hain jo on ko khud ko galat mahsoos nai hone deti Regards: Talha Mushtaq

[@areebajameel3468]

i dont agree dr sahab i think anger dusre logon ki baten sun kr frustration k bad ata h anger hard time k bad ata jab situation hamary control men nhi rehti eventhough hum sitation ko smhalne k capable b hon lekn depend krta h society me ghussa kon dila rh abaz dafa hamari apni koi ghalati na koi fear hota h ghussa agla bnda dilata h mahol khrab kr k provoke kr k

[@aizazalhussainy4418]

Doctor sb buhat achi bate karrahe ho Lekin aksar alfaz English ka he jis ko ham ni samajte

[@naheedn5294]

😷✈️😷🛫😷🛩️😷✈️😷🛫😷🛩️😷 DR JEE SAB UPER SE GUZAR GAYA BHOT GUSSA A RAHA HAI KIYA KARON 😷😡😷😡😷😡😷😡😷😡😷😡😷

[@NATURELIFE-810]

Dr sb ma bohat angry man hoon. Aap na jo research ki hay wo right hay.

[@talhamushtaq3303]

Main ye nai khy raha k wo A6y nai hain wo bohat A6y hain or mujhe bhi pasand hain lakin wo apni bt ko Bilkul thek kahty hain

[@farizma]

Threshold Factors: 1. Childhood parenting 2. Possessiveness 3. Rigidity of thought 4. Jealousy

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

i agree on these different points but these factors are arrive because of ...........thinking of highly of oneself .........which always leads to .... not able to forgive others....... not able to let go of possessen..... not able to self aware of own unconcious thoghts....... not able to give free things to poor and relatives.........leads to greediness and jealousy....... by not thinking of highly of oneself instead of being humble/frank/soft than no one can have anger inside them........

[@muhammadisa314]

Sir bht umda baten hn ap ki mgr is ko thora or brhaen ye topic bht vseeh hy. Shukria

[@talhamushtaq3303]

or 1 bt kia kisi jagha Gusa karna thek hai ya nai jese agr koi bacha mera Laptop otha kar tor dy or laptop may mera Data ho jo mere kam ka ho to kia Gusa karna thek rahy ga

[@faisaltasleemft]

Excellent deep dive analysis. Seen the examples given by Dr Javed sahab by myself

[@ulfatzeshan6642]

Ooo mery Allah ,mjy phly q nh pta tha inka ,he is such an amazing person. Woww Xxx

[@AlviSultan]

Khushi ka muqaam yeh hai ke Dr Sahib aap ki zindagi mein aa gaye, dair aayed, durust aayed!

[@syedqammarmohammad6993]

Dear Sir, this is excellent talk. I have been watching your videos for some time and I have found you very knowledgeable and useful person. I am also learning many things from your videos. Lots of love for you.

[@bordermarks]

Thank you for a valuable talk on human relations. As you said, "love has to be cultivated". Therefore desirous to know more about some tips to plant love on a different soil from me. May bless you for your services to humanity. Amin

[@ayeshamariyam1418]

السلام علیکم سر زندگی کے بہت سارے مسئلے مسائل و سے بھی انسان غصے میں رہتا ہے

[@liaqatnadeem2670]

Valkam🔰💄

[@Beholder31]

Great 👌 Sir l have found solution to my problems . Thanks 😊 a lot

[@abihaatif9757]

Thank you for the lecture 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

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Dr sahab mujy ap say contect krni hy koi tareeqa?

[@babur729]

Doctor sab, you are really an amazing personality, you are very special.

[@mahaarshad4683]

Anger due to possessiveness kese control ho skti hai?

[@dollyrathod5188]

Shukriya 🙏💞🏡 Thanks Very Much Sir 🙏

[@mohdabduljaleel01]

mothering 2possessive 3rigidity4jealousy

[@kanwalali9028]

Sir i want to ask some questions. Would u help me plz..?

[@asmaroshan1023]

Asssalmoalikum sir , bilkul theek frmaya aap ne 👍

[@SairaKhan-official]

Thanks

[@hinababoo8780]

Sir mn nai control krr sakti gussa Kuch b ho bohat mushkil hai mera gussa control krna ...... But mn abb koshish krn gi Kai zaida gussa nai krn....Thanks for video on this topic ...

[@malikshabraiz7364]

Assalam o alaikum Meri dawat hy mera channel visit kary JazakAllah

[@AH-le3py]

U r at work and making videos. Hataam money earning. Government paying u.

[@NATURELIFE-810]

Dr sb aap bulkul right bool rehay han

[@chirpythoughts3000]

Allah apki Umar daraz kre sir Bht hi accha kaam kr rhe h aap Masha Allah

[@__-fk7ol]

sir. i am a professional and want to discuss some problems. plz let me know how can i share my issues in details and u can tell me the solution. please do reply sir. i am really in need.

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

we are here.........why not share with us openly...what you are hiding inside of you.....😅

[@mhanifnazir5689]

Gussa k baad jo Amal hai oh control hona chahiye

[@tmr.mohsin8020]

Plz.keep the time threshold of ur videos not more than 10 mnts

[@javaidmanzoor4215]

Sir i have learnt lot from you ...i salute to yourself...

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

what are those things share with me....i think i have not learned enough........

[@uroojfatima6727]

Kisi ke jhote or galat ilzam par gusa ae to kya karen

[@mahnoortariq7212]

Our legend ❤️

[@NATURELIFE-810]

Dr sb iss ki koi medicin bhe bata dan.

[@ashokraje7337]

गुस्सा आने के फेक्टर को बहुत अच्छे तरीकों से डिस्क्राइब किया है

[@AlviSultan]

Please write in English or Roman Urdu, so we can all understand your comment, Sir! Thank you.

[@belalhossain6969]

Qawm is angry at your lengthy....why make qawm angry

[@jeyashahid816]

SAS or bhu k bary main Kya btayin ge k Kun gusa ata hai

[@fatimamunir000]

Please advise a therapy for anger issues how to over come.

[@aizazalhussainy4418]

Bihtar yahi he k asan se asan alfaz me samjhaya jai

[@infoentertainment2527]

Dr sahb plz aap ocd ka b psychlogical ilaj btain .

[@faizantahir5808]

utube pey bar bar ads ki wajha sy mjy ghussa aa gya ha

[@T.anwar2857]

Great thought sir..... Thanx for sharing your knowledge

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

Thank you for being thankful not being ungrateful......or ignoring

[@parshotumpanwar3419]

very very nice......

[@abdulrahimkhan8412]

ya to urdu bolo ya English😂😢😮

[@MalikMalik-f8e]

sr ap bught achay hain jiiiiiiiiiii

[@majidhafiza8262]

main ap ki video focus karta hun i get great result

[@talhamushtaq3303]

Age with Gussa Ye Explan kar dain