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[@travelradiocoza]

I have been following your travels on KZbin. I am a sailor and a father. Ten years ago my wife and I had a similar experience with our IVF second child. I am happy to say, she not only made it, but at 9, she is a women's open national gymnastics champion. She is preparing for the World Championships next year. She made it through so much and it has made her the strongest person I know. I know your son will grow big and strong because of and in spite of all he has lived through. Boats are nice. Travels and adventures are nice, but this adventure will change your life. All the best, and thank you for sharing.

[@Dayofthetriffids]

That was wonderful Dom. Our first son was born totally unexpectedly at six months through. He too had collapsing lungs and other issues to navigate. Thankfully we all came through as a family and he has gone on to succeed academically and work wise. Interestingly, at the time we had taken time off work to build our own wee Grand Design in the New Zealand bush. We were living in a garage and were completely unprepared for this event. You’re right, at the end of the day there was, only one priority for the challenging three months that followed. Go you guys!

[@richardpinder3985]

Great to see you all fit & well, take care of your priorities and we will await your return.

[@susanwhitehouse7305]

So glad everything has worked out well for Carly and Hudson, don't be afraid to show your emotions, it was a very difficult time for you all, Hank will soon be Hudson's best friend, he's not sure yet, which is understandable, enjoy your time together, the channel can wait, we all understand, stay safe and give Carly, Hudson and Hank plenty of love and cuddles

[@grahamovenden9007]

in 1919 my Grandparents gave birth to a very premature little girl . They were warned not to become to attached as she was a " sickly " child . Well 96 years later the doctors predictions came true and she passed away . but in that very brief 96 years she grew up , raised a family of her owne and became my favourite aunt .

[@houghi3826]

A doctor once said about my great-aunt (She was the oldest person in the world at one point): She has become this old not thanks to us doctors, but despite us.

[@exae352]

As an 83 year old man and someone who found great pleasure in watching your adventures, I felt so sorry to here what happened. You are such nice people.

[@mndad2201]

No Way! I was a mess the longer you were telling the story all the way up until 20:15 when I finally got the hint that at least one of your precious family were ok. Not sure of your religious views, but i stopped the video and prayed for your family righ there. What a relief when you opened the door to see mom and baby sitting comfortable by the fire! I am sure you are all not completely out of the woods, but so thankful for the progress thus far.

[@peterpierson6703]

Carly, Dom, Hank and Son. Many thanks for sharing this journey with your larger family. Prayers and love, Peter

[@peterbrett7000]

It doesn't matter what anyone does in life, family always comes first. Great to see you all are doing well.

[@SailingFinnack]

Not going to lie you broke two grown ass adults to tears in the first half of this video. Amazing to see a happy ending and wishing you the best to you guys. ❤

[@MattRootsTube]

My heart goes out to you both after that story, but so glad, and relieved, it was a happy ending. I can't see anyone complaining if you need to get things off your chest, and need to take a walk in the woods. It's good to talk and you've got thousands of ears here willing to listen. Take care of yourself, Carly, Hank and your new arrival, and take the time to enjoy them.

[@Sailing_Antrice]

Wow! Thank god you are all ok. Ok now I have to say something - I was very very premature 70 years ago. St Mary’s Hospital in Portsmouth had just taken delivery of some new fangled incubator things when I arrived so early my mum didn’t know she was even pregnant. Thanks to the amazing NHS, and parents as wonderful as I know you will be, I am here 70 years later and I am still fighting fit. In short so take it from me because I have lived it. Your little boy will be fine, you will all be fine. Thank you for the update I appreciate how difficult it was for you to tell.

[@brianjones5915]

I a wizened ex traffic cop and you’ve just had me in bits. Having seen misery in the flesh so to speak, I am so glad this has turned out well for you. I wish you three all the best in the months and years to come.

[@paulclarke8184]

Wonderful to see you all again - and thank God everyone is good!

[@rickdoner5181]

HE IS ADORABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No worries on time away. Priorities are important. Hugs to all 3 of you, and ear scritches to Hank!

[@bradcraig495]

Thank God for miracles.very happy for your family. Cheers and support from Canada

[@faraway5828]

Just astonishing. We had an early 1.2kg baby, nowhere near what you experienced, but he's now a fine 31 yr old. I wish all 3 of you the very best (and yes, we naturally took him on the boat when he was 7 or 8 months old...)

[@nick.caffrey]

Carly looks so beautiful. Nice to hear Hudson's voice - looks like he's inherited his Dad's hair - at 21:07! Sending you all the best from Ireland. There is another 'boat' channel, 'Sailing Soulianis' where there was a baby scare too, but that all ended up just fine. You are new people now, all three of you. You will be the best for each other.

[@HowToRenovateAChateau]

Congratulations, so happy to see Carly and Hudson doing well now! This must have been a tough video to make but so relieved for the happy ending.

[@robertadamsmetaldetecting6324]

Damn Dom, I'm a man in his mid 40's now sitting in my ⛵️ crying. I've got my three sons here with me and couldn't help but mentally put myself in your spot. What a heart breaking beginning to an absolutely beautiful beginning! You four will do great!

[@floathi]

Heart goes out to you all. All the best going forward . Thank you

[@jonathanwetherell3609]

An emotional roller coaster. You had me in tears when I saw Mum and son in that chair. I remember the birth of my kids, especially the first. Not straight forward but no where near as traumatic. The most intensely emotional experience of my life. You three have your priorities and we will be here when life calms down a little. Enjoy the baby, they grow so fast.

[@iansandford5529]

Exactly my reaction- so relieved you’re all okay! Good old NHS! 😊🥰

[@francollingborn4606]

Just watched your vlog and so glad it was a happy ending. Hudson's lovely. Must have such an emotional time for you and Carly. Take care and love to you all. ❤

[@trustmeiknow1]

Thank goodness😅 this is only the second video I’ve seen of yours but the story had me glued. I’m glad there was a big happy twist at the end.

[@SustainableSailing]

We are delighted to see you altogether. You are very brave to share the story. Of course supporting each other had to be the only priority. Thanks to our wonderful NHS, overstretched and underfunded but still there when we need them. We will still be here when you are good and ready with no pressure.

[@tomlpdx]

I'm just glad to hear that you are all on the mend. My heart was in my throat as I watched this. Thank God Carly and your baby boy are doing better.

[@jondavey8054]

Thanks

[@CadohaAdventures]

Wowzers, thanking you kindly ☺️🙏🏻

[@elektrischunterwegscom]

All the best to you three. Nobody cares about what happens to the boat, as long as all of you are fine! Congrats to the young man for fighting through!

[@2i0ber]

It's so cool to hear Carly's laugh again. It's so lovely. C'mon people! Everything will be fine :) Greets!

[@docdurdin]

NO apologies needed from you both. What a heart-felt story and recovery from a dangerous situation. You both handled it better than most.

[@heinrichderlowe9888]

You had me going there for a wile. i can say am so happy for you, while i am in the process off tearing up. i am a dad, i know what you go throu. enjoy, an rejoice!!!! well done the tree of you

[@SailingMayhem]

Oh guys! This was the thing that got me falling tears. Last time was when my firstborn saw the day. I am so glad all 3 of you are sitting there with eachother. It just got me very emotional. My heavy metal heart just vent fluffy :) Thanks for sharing! Lots of good vibes to your little family from Norway :)

[@janecolman-mx5ru]

Im so sorry for what you went through guys. Can’t wait to see you back, love to you all xx

[@stephenprouty8728]

... my own mind went immediately to dark places as you related your story ... my joy and elation were boundless when you opened the door and saw your wife and son sitting there ... thank you for sharing ... much love, many hugs and lottsa prayers ... please give your little one a kiss on the head for me if you would ...

[@bdphourde]

We all love the boat and especially your channel, but we love the family more! We are so grateful things have progressed for the better and that your loving hearts have rated this blessing. Take all the time you need and we, of course, will welcome all of you back with open arms. We noticed how much time Carly spent with Hank and he misses that attention, but with understanding. Dogs are more aware than we realize. Dom, you will just have to fill in for her and give Hank all the personal attention he misses. We should get a lottery going on who can guess the month & year that Hudson starts walking!

[@CaptWho]

When you first started speaking, I was thinking the worst and it was such a relief to see that shot with Carly and the baby. I'm so happy and thankful to see that everyone is okay. I believe that congratulations are in order. What's the baby's name?

[@andrewafrican]

Hudson 18:32

[@CaptWho]

@@andrewafrican guess I missed that if it was in the vid. Apologies and thanks.

[@FatherMarty]

On December 31, 2000, my wife, seven months pregnant, went into preterm labor, and gave birth four days later. Our son wasn't quite as premature as yours, but was 8 weeks early. He spent 23 days in the Neonatal Intensive Care. My wife had a placental abruption, and lost a lot of blood as well. Last December, he graduated college, and starts his career as a teacher in August. I'm so, so glad this has had this end of the beginning! My prayers and best wishes for a long and healthy life for both your wife and your son. I pray you can be as blessed as I have been!

[@Louise-i8p]

Massive love and hugs to you all ❤ so glad you are all doing well, we've missed you guys

[@BonnieVolkle]

I am so thankful y’all are together❤ what a beautiful child & momma.

[@danielvoon2154]

May the Cadoha team continues to be blessed with good health and abundance in life ❤

[@stanleydenning]

I have never seen your channel in my life. This is the first I have ever seen your channel. Considering your story and finally seeing your beautiful wife and child together, alive and well, at the end. You are a lucky man. Blessed. I envy you. My child was still borne. I never had another. Many years later... My Wife passed away. I'm alone now Widowed. I envy you.

[@trustmeiknow1]

Sorry to hear that. May you be blessed with unexpected happiness in the future

[@mikemcauliffe4786]

Thank you for sharing this! You don’t know who you could help by this story of your family! He is beautiful and mum looking as radiant as ever! Know that you are all loved! God Bless you all!

[@donalroche5666]

I normally watch your videos for their superb sailing content. This was on another altogether more human level. I was close to tears watching and so relieved at the end. Congratulations to you, to Carly and to your baby son. Well done. Hank will just have to sort out the new reality. Congratulations.

[@Seacracker1]

All the Best for you and thank you for sharing

[@lorraineandbriantaylor7779]

Thanks so much for the touching update. As a retired paramedic I've witnessed everything you described, and felt deeply for you through it all. So glad to watch the denouement at the end, with all well and good! Look after yourselves; that's the most important thing. Take care!

[@05stones]

Cady is so pretty. 😊😊😊. It’s nice to see everyone is fine after this new adventure in your life 😊

[@TPfeiffer4153]

Hi, 31 years ago my wife and I went through the exactly same experience. Watching the video brought back all those memories of that tiny child of 800 grams and the things happening during those month. So our son is about your age and doing well. And you know now what this means. It means everything. Congratulations!

[@uponthepegs]

An extraordinary period for you both. Difficult doesn’t begin to describe it. Strength of character shines through and testament to you both and the good and very remarkable and skilled people caring for both Carly and Hudson. A moving and empowering recount Dom. best wishes. P

[@listerthat]

Thanks for sharing. Wishing you pair and your new child all the best health and happy memories coming your way. Raw real heart felt and touching. Much love x

[@thomaspaccione8237]

I have not watched in a while, and I was not sure where this was going, but I'm glad to see everything is well. I can't even imagine what that was like, you almost lost them both in the same 5 minutes. Glad you guys are well, Hank too. I have 2 Vizslas, he will adapt just fine, they are a great breed. Oh, and Congratulations to the both of you on the birth of your son!!!

[@cathytodd3996]

I'm glad there was a happy ending to your video! It was so good to see you all looking well. Much love and best wishes xxx

[@johnandbernadette]

Very brave young man! Glad to see it all turned out well.

[@howardstaple1043]

I am so so glad there is a happy ending to this vid, had me in bits for most of it. What a roller coaster. I am so very happy for you all

[@thecivvie]

Congratulations to you all. It was a tear jerker of a tale. Went through similar 23 years ago but different result. I almost turned off as I was in tears. The boat and sailing can wait, just build his strength and that of your wife and yourself. Ye are in my thoughts

[@Trk09dr]

Prayers for you and your 23 year old story

[@thecivvie]

@@Trk09dr thank you. ❤️❤️

[@francojoaquim569]

I WISH TO BOTH OF YOU ALL THE BEST .... I REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU PASS TROUGH.... I SEND TO YOU MY FRIENDLY AND KIND REGARDS..... FAIR WINDS.... 🌷✌️❤️

[@Bakin]

My heart ached when I imagined the range of possible results that could have been, the natural fear I felt as a father myself was almost overwhelming. When you finally moved ahead in the video to the presence of Carley with your baby boy, the smile she had was all I needed to know everything was as it needed to be as it had to be for this family. Thanks for sharing.

[@kirstybuckley443]

So much love to you all, I'm so glad Carly and Hudson are getting stronger all the time x

[@anncrome1202]

So glad to hear that Carly, Hudson and you are all doing well. A difficult video to make, however very well done.

[@martinexporting7024]

Bardzo, ale to bardzo dawno temu nie obejrzałem czegoś tak emocjonalnego. Był moment że łzy cisnęły mi się do oczu. Zasługujecie na szczęśliwe zakończenie. Kocham Was. Trzymajcie się ciepło. Mam nadzieję że szybko wrócicie na łódkę. Pozdrawiam

[@harrisonandrew]

OMG, you guys have been through hell. I really was scared there was not going to be a happy ending, so you can imagine how delighted I was to see your beautiful wife Carly and your absolutely gorgeous baby. I have some idea of what you went through, as a couple of years ago I thought I was going to lose my wife due to blood clots on her lungs. My brother gave me advice, that I am sure you can relate to, he said “when you are in hell, the only thing you can do is to keep going”. I am so sorry you went through all of that and delighted you are out the other side of Hell.

[@karenfarr1335]

Omg what a worry such scary times so glad both are doing well ,the baby looks so much better sending lots and lots of love ❤xx

[@duffyjas1]

Warmest greetings from Germany. God bless this beautiful family.

[@juliazentner681]

Ii just watched his video. I just subscribed in full tears.. I want to see your future and see more of baby Hank! I pray for all 3 your futures!

[@rod7373]

You are a very impressive man with an equally impressive family. Thank you for sharing.

[@deemacvee1]

August 1988 it happened to us. Yeah. Totally relate. Don't know how you managed to articulate that. 2 mths premy 3lbs. They didn't have the amazing drugs they do now. 36 this year a marine engineer. That time never leaves you. It took me right back. 😢

[@paulchurch01]

Really good to see you all well. A heartwarming episode - onwards and upwards.

[@chuckymcchuckface8768]

Well said!

[@seanfarrell5471]

Wishing all the very best watching your video 05.00 in tears wife up stairs waiting for her tea . Hang tough you have so much to look forward to enjoy I am sure you will make a perfect family .

[@hyime69]

The Love a Father has for his child is Unconditional, and no matter what! You will do anything to Love and protect them and their Mother which you have done I had a similar episode with my daughter who is going to be 28 yrs old this year. I feel for you 3 and I am so glad things are improving and you were right to be away for the channel and keep it Private as it is All our love to you all

[@alexanderworms8463]

Welcome to this world little pirate! I feel you guys. Doesn´t always end up with a new member of the crew, sometimes they just stay out at sea. So, enjoy your time together as a family. So nice to see you together.

[@stuarthartley6824]

I’m so pleased you are all safe and well and hope that it’s a smooth journey with regards to everyone’s health from now on.

[@adaraagardner]

What a lovely ending you really scared me for a second there!!!

[@stephenwebb9167]

Thank God, I'm so glad they both are doing well. Oh and congratulations, beautiful family

[@martinbowskill5511]

My heart feels for you three when you opened that door I was elated to say the least. How blessed are we a huge thank you to the meddical staff. Kylie and babs please get well, so I can ñow say it cheers n beers guys Yahoo! Marty Australia 😂😂😂❤

[@davidressler4292]

I went through this in 1987. 28 week preemie, lost his twin brother. Wife close to dying from losing blood. you just took me back there. After we got through it, I counseled parents for about 2 years. It helps to tell the story. You are a fantastic storyteller, thanks for sharing. You also have a list of challenges with long medical descriptions that you need to observe every day, things that hide well behind "we're getting stronger". I pray that you have the happiest journey going forward please know there is a large community of us here who have run this gauntlet and will gladly support you as you go. Each journey is unique. Feel free to reach out

[@followyourbliss101]

you guys seem like good people. Many blessings and happiness to your future.

[@dougjacksonart]

Love to you all. Just talking about it helps with that trauma. Don't underestimate how, when things settle down, the stress of it all can catch up with you. Be kind to yourselves. ❤

[@boracykmando1642]

Congratulations!!!!!! Thank God everyone is healthy. Best wishes!

[@jameshampton8730]

Thank you so much for sharing. You're the best couple on KZbin. Keep us in the loop. So happy you came through this dark patch

[@JokerXL]

Big, rufty-tufty trucker here. In tears. Both my sons (now 32 & 30) were premature - not as premature as your son, but I kind of know the procedure. Wishing you all the very best. xx

[@landlockedsailor]

He's absolutely precious. Wishing you all the best as you recover from this ordeal and adjust to life with your beautiful boy.

[@user-rg2kk7fv4m]

Awww….. geeezz what a story ! All the best you guys you deserve it….upwards and onwards eh? Look forward to you next adventures. 👍🇦🇺🇳🇿

[@danieloliver20]

So glad to hear Carly and baby boy are doing so well now! My wife and i went through something similar with our daughter. Clearly a sobering experience to say the least! Dom, I definitely know the feeling of helplessness when watching a loved one in distress, haha, its not for the faint at heart... once again congrats to the addition to your crew, and oh, hang in there Hank!

[@koborkutya7338]

Man you scared me shitless with that lead up. These kinds of things set the records straight in terms of important things in life. My heart is out for you, she has a wonderful smile and the kid looks great. All the best for you all.

[@malckersley5061]

Looking forward to sharing a beer with you !! Congratulations on Hudson !!! Glad mum and baby are doing well !!! if yer need owt Shout !!! All the very best Malc

[@ThatBeardedGuy39]

You sir should be so proud, you both have been incredibly strong and if this is anything to go by you will both be incredible parents, I'm so glad you all are doing ok, love and prayers to you all ❤️

[@flibbertigibbet6324]

What a saga! Told like a man, husband and father. England (or Scotland?) expected and Dom you delivered, well not the hand sized bundle of joy but so much else.

[@paulgomm3157]

This video has shown everyone who follow you both that sharing your true feelings is so difficult and a pure sign of bravery. Congratulations on the start of your new family adventures

[@xux636]

Thanks!

[@andypennybrown6848]

Thanks for sharing this emotional roller coaster ride with us, the same thing happened to my daughter when she was born, she's now 25 and I have a grandson, slowly the event eases over time although the emotions of that time are always remembered.... stay strong, there's no harm in showing emotions, that's how we are made...enjoy every moment together, God bless you are in my prayers, we will wait for the next vlog when you are ready however long that needs to be, lovely to see you all together as a family, fair winds....

[@Emergency785]

Man... What a story! Had tears in my eyes. Thanks to all Gods that everything went for the best. Now I have a new mission in life; Watch all your videos from the start! BTW, I'm the new kid on the block! Wishing you four (yep, four, I love dogs!), from the very bottom of my heart, all the very best luck for many, MANY years to come. Best regards from Nisa, Portugal.

[@CawffeeTyme]

Congrats Dom and Car on the birth of your son. May he bring you much joy for years to come. Glad to hear both Car and child made it thru all the trials and tribulations of premature birth.

[@OspreySailingAdventures-ch1mj]

We have been sailing down the south coast this last few weeks using your anchorages and videos as we settle into our new life. Your videos have never been far from our thoughts and we missed your updates. I went through something very similar with one of my sons 27 years ago, your life is suddenly not your own and your days are wildly out of control. When sailing you have some level of control over your life and your vessel but a very sick child is a superhighway roller coaster. I’m so glad to see you all doing so much better and now you can start to get that roller coaster back under control. My son is now a 6ft 4 super hero, he played rugby at school to a national level and left University 3 years ago. You probably will have lots more sleepless nights and a few extra speed bumps to negotiate so take your rest and don’t worry too much about the videos we will still be here waiting for you and wishing you all well. Looking forward to meeting Hudson in the videos one day. Give Hank a big hug . Dogs are very aware of what is happening too

[@Bruin4Life]

Dom, so glad that you, Carly and your son are all doing well after goig through that episode. My wife and I underwent a similar episode many years ago, and all worked out well. I look forward to seeing our future videos and pray that all continues to go very well for the three of you and Hank.

[@rosehammond2118]

So sorry you have had to go thru this, but VERY happy both Carly and baby ? What’s his name? are both at home and doing better. Yes we missed you, but I figured since I wasn’t sure when the baby was due, you had your hands full, now your hearts can be full too! Enjoy ! 🥰🙋‍♀️🌹

[@shawnl6959]

I've been following your adventures since day 1 -- you've been incredibly generous by letting us have a glimpse into your lives. Best wishes to everyone. Have no doubt we'll all be here when you come back.

[@garybaris139]

This is only your second video I've watched and found you while researching wet exhausts.... but oh man, I was crying half way through this video. It reminded me so much of the birth of my son and it was so close that I almost lost my wife and my son. I'm so happy to see that you guys are doing better. This must have been such a hard video to make.

[@andytaylor97]

What an amazing story and so beautifully told. I am thrilled for you all that it has all turned out ok. I know from experience that Hank will learn to love his ‘brother’ and that they will be inseparable in due course xx

[@Ghost_Recon_Actual]

I feel your concerns and understand completely. Our first child went full term but had developed "Potters Syndrom" a condition in which the child's kidneys had not developed correctly. He lived long enough to meet his mother before he died in my arms. I am so happy for you both that Hudson is apparently well and finally at home with his mom and dad. Good fortunes to you both.

[@lydiapaleschi]

Dom! So sorry you all went through this, but so happy you are all well and together now. Sending love to you and your family x

[@DiscusRussell]

I was getting extremely worried when you were in the woods talking. It brought me to tears when i saw mum and baby doing well. Its very unusual for me to show emotions. Life is just a rollercoaster

[@iainhunneybell]

Not “a bunch of strangers for entertainment”, but a strange kind of asymmetric friends, who all know you, but you have never met any of them 😊. This must have been a terribly difficult video to record, and some of the breaks were evident and very understandable. I can assure you, this was not entertainment, but a desperately sad yet welcome update on some ‘very special sailing friends’. So lovely to see that wonderful smile and hear Carly’s laugh again. Mutual swipe right as you once said to me ❤. And wonderful to see them both now home with you and well. I am finding it hard to contain tears. Wonderful to hear all is getting better. Good enough for you to consider Cadhoa again 😊 Congratulations on the new family, if a little earlier than you expected. And thank you for sharing such a very personal experience in such a lovely way ❤❤

[@ConCoa]

You have told a terrible and wonderful story that will resonate with many families, sailing or not, who experienced a similar life changing event. It is so important to see how these moments shake everyone including you. So thank you for this. It will help others to hear your story. I hope that people are generous enough to continue supporting you, no matter how much or little you post. Enjoy your time together and although the boat is a wonderful project make sure you have time to think. Walks in the country with our dog are the best moments for me to do this. Another point, please make sure Hank gets enough attention and cuddles, specially if he is near your little one; being able to sniff and being close him is very important for them to bond. Focus on Hank so he still feels as the number one in your life and is not replaced by the new arrival in the family. Enjoy every single day.

[@FromTheHeartOfRose]

Congratulations to you all! So happy everyone is healthy and well. And the world needs more men to share honest vulnerability. You guys are great!

[@jameskahl9546]

Family always come first.Your family will be your strength