Why Women Cause Men To Lose Their Cool

What it means and why women cause some men to lose their cool and get upset so easily.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss 2 different emails from 2 different viewers. The 1st email is from a viewer who just broke up with his girlfriend of 5 months. Things were great until she lost her job 2 months ago. He tried to become her therapist and got frustrated and angry when she stonewalled and pushed him away. The 2nd email is from a timid guy who got angry after he got rejected by a woman he thought he was making progress with. I explain why a lack of leadership, masculinity and a needy and insecure demeanor was the downfall of both men that led to their rejection.
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[@terrodar19]

I have vowed to NEVER lose my frame around women. no matter what behavior, it will never move me. Never again

[@steveenczi8967]

Yea I lost my center with a girl and started reading the book and must say I love it definitely going for the 15 Times

[@BridgeAtArcole]

@@steveenczi8967 Goof for both you guys. This has been the hardest part for me… I’ve also dated a fair share of mentally ill ladies 😂

[@Una2Cold]

@@BridgeAtArcole that’s the exact issue. When you’re dating someone who is mentally ill, it’ll make you feel mentally ill trying to deal with it. When you are dealing with someone who I mentally sound, thats when they principles all come in and work best. When you are dealing with a crazy it just ups the ante and makes it so much harder. I’ve learned this lesson and still find myself holding back some days dealing with the craziness. Like Corey says, practice infinite patience but boy is it hard

[@Una2Cold]

@@Junoj101 such a great point. The social cues of today have made it much harder for men in general. The world has changed but men are supposed to remain the same. It is very difficult. But I guess only the strong survive lol

[@johnbingaman3645]

Good for you man from glad everything's working out great

[@jakecappelluti]

“You can’t make good wine with bad grapes” was the whole truth, slipped in there oh so smoothly😂

[@Shayne.Donohue]

The jack-in-the-box impression had me in tears. I’ve watched it about a dozen times already. Please incorporate this into more of your videos!

[@mikehydrusko3744]

The 1st guy's email is so relatable. Having dated a girl who has depression/anxiety issues, I know how hard it can be. It's a powerless feeling knowing there's only so much you can do. Ultimately, you can offer your help and be their to support her, but it's still on her to do what she has to do. You can be there to support someone, but it's not your job to fix them. Thank you, coach.

[@jarhar007]

The robot impersonation always makes my day!

[@illinoisgreg]

I’d say more impressions is definitely my request

[@VoiceOfThe]

Likewise 😂 Coach’s new jack-in-the-box is a worthy rival too 😂

[@Tookode1]

@@VoiceOfTheAh yes! The Jack in the box had me rollin here at work lmboooo #RaawahhhWaaaahRuuuhhhrr

[@jarhar007]

No way I would call someone after they hung up on me.

[@TheSpacefish2]

My wife refuses to improve… no matter the approach. Money is tight- but she wont stick to a budget, she wont look for a job , won’t take care of herself ( complains about being overweight or health problems then eats a bag of chips), wont keep house, does the bare Minimum for the kids ( doesnt play with them or plan activities ) . Soo stressed out and I hate that my kids have this person to look up to.

[@terrodar19]

Something HAS to be done. start exercising together or something. its a mental issue

[@ryanvandy1615]

She needs an allowance

[@kflashcarr1992]

Hey coach, I just wanted to let you know that your work really helped me in hard times. Thanks.

[@revolutionaryfrog]

LOL as a computer science student, i agree. You HAVE to read the book 10-15 times and really understand the nuances of each topic.

[@CoachSteveJandS]

Being angry is like drinking poison in an attempt to punish the wrongdoers....

[@rik-keymusic160]

I know! But i have to work at that !!

[@thomesgomes6613]

Exactly once you show the wrongdoer your angry or hurt and that you care it’s a lot worse for you best to assertively express your unhappiness about something and be willing to give them a chance to apologise and get inline if they don’t walk away. never show anger, fear or the fact that your hurt to a woman or even men but in relationships with women if you show this she knows your weak mentally and you will feel a lot worse off

[@SP-dx7em]

I dated a girl yrs ago who was on bipolar meds. It was a Rollercoaster half the time and the sex was fire, which was the only reason I messed with her. Other than that, when she wasn't taking her meds,, she was an absolute headache.

[@the_bogeyman.]

Messed with few chicks like that in my 20s. Freaks under the sheets as you say, but the false accusations are a real risk nowadays more than ever.

[@XoXo475]

My girl probably IS bi-polar and isn’t even on meds or recognizes her problems… she goes wonky every few weeks lol

[@socol76]

@@XoXo475 dude she’s probably just PMSing every few weeks

[@pierrechambon2965]

Hi Corey, I just want to thank you for your great work. I've read the book ten times, watched countless videos... and you made me take a decision I would have never imagined taking in a million years : walk away from the woman who by far knocked my socks off more than anyone in my entire life, but who ended up friendzoning me after some back and forth. It may be the hardest decision I made, it hurts A LOT, but I know deep inside it's the right thing to do. You taught me how to be a better man, how to stand for myself, and more things that are invaluable. Much love and gratitude from the bottom of my heart.

[@steveenczi8967]

Just finished how to be 3%man twice 13 more to go thanks coach Corey!!

[@tonykoz]

Corey’s “Think like James Bond” is great advice for this topic.

[@BrijanbMentalIron]

😅😅 coach you’re on one today! But totally right about this like always. If you already know your girl is perpetual depressed become the positive part of their life, not someone who keeps reminding her about all the issues

[@KaydahYT]

I am the second guy. I am half way my first reading and I honestly start to see what I was doing wrong. Thanks for the constructive criticism.

[@tonykoz]

That’s what helped me. Making mistakes, using Corey’s book to identify what I did wrong, and correcting the problems.

[@Tyler-gv8ev]

Come on man

[@TomP-nw4wu]

Gulp! All of them are on medication, 2 attempts at contact and move on.

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

I won't open up if I don’t feel safe. My ex-husband would either get mad or "logical" when I tried opening up so I stopped. Then we got divorced. Now I'm looking for a man who makes me feel heard and understood.

[@miryanski]

Coach, I really love your videos. My favorite is when you do The Robot! 😂

[@aaronlang2764]

Yep.. sex is great but the headaches are not fun. Done the same. Started with a fun all the time mindset and turns into a save them mentality. If you hear the "I'm not good for you" time to run don't be a savior..

[@jacobsnak81]

I take subtle hints like a brick to the Head thanks coach for helping me understand women that much better, all women say the same things! I absolutely love it when coach bust balls!!

[@Madmok128]

Thatz the second time in my entire life ive heard that phrase “hott beef injection” 🤮 once was here, and the other was a line from the breakfast club a million years ago lmfao

[@MattCassCook]

So what you’re saying is: guys can’t get annoyed with women for anything?

[@theevolutionofthebear3093]

You can get annoyed but you have to learn to hold it in a masculine way. Getting angry has never solved anything. Feel your feelings and learn to manage your emotions around said feelings. Once you learn to do that the woman will follow. If she doesn't, let her go. This goes for friends too.

[@AndrewSun15]

I absolutely love the voices 🤣

[@ryandaniel1179]

So if a woman says you never take her on a date four days after you did, you then have to do it again? Sounds like a slippery slope that she will take advantage of.

[@mariqua5507]

If all she wants is an expensive date, maybe she's not the type of girl for you? Plenty of girls who'd love to be taken on a walk or a hike. Free and plenty of attention to shower on her

[@gedbookings2328]

Fast food in the care can be a date…she just want to be out with you

[@TriadTradingOfficial]

Literally at the perfect time. Thank you coach!

[@johnmooney4983]

Reading your book. Preach it.

[@brego12317]

You gotta know when ta hold em. Know when ta fold em. Know when to walk away. Know when ta run.

[@zachwells4677]

I have a buddy who is Extremely handsome, but he has OCD, depression, and Borderline personality disorder. Consequentially he can't hold down a relationship even though many women stare at him and like what they see. Like he's so handsome that straight MEN will give him flirtatious compliments. What can I do to help him? He's not one of those guys who's frothing at the mouth to have a girlfriend but I can tell it's definitely weighing on him.

[@adana7788]

Advice him to Start DBT therapy. It works best for people who have BPD. It wil give him the tools to regulate the inner chaos BPD is causing him. First thing is, if he wants to help himself, he should start by going to therapist and psychiatrist. Hopefully this helps. Cheers!

[@rik-keymusic160]

I have similar issues. instead, woman tend to not like me because of my looks. They think that i think that i'm beter then them and confuse confidence with arrogance. I can spot it in their behavior. Believe it or not but there are many chicks out there looking for an easy target they can control and manipulate.

[@allday2772]

YOUR THE MAN COREY! DAD WE NEVER HAD! #GURU #3%MAN

[@alfredbornemann792]

The transcript when you said verbally butt hurt said buttered This problem with the transcript happens frequently

[@TheColtonStreeter]

Hang out, have fun and hook up seems like such a shallow relationship

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

Women treat men like an ATM, so why shouldn’t we treat them like a Bank and make small deposits then take and withdraw our money to a new one when the bank fails?

[@joecoolberry911]

Relationships without Christ are doomed to fail. We are all naturally selfish and a long term relationship will only work when God is put first and dying to yourself

[@keydabeastgamingg]

He’s not just telling his viewers to only be doing that in their relationships. He’s just saying it should be that simple. No muss no fuss, just a good time.

[@andrebaxter4023]

Colton. Read the book sir.

[@TheColtonStreeter]

@@andrebaxter4023I'm celibate

[@sdickinson5234]

Not every single girl has mental health issues but almost every girl with mental health issues is single.

[@christopher-yi3rm]

if you show the girl nothing.she just thinks your acting masculine for her and when things get really close you will fall apart.

[@XoXo475]

I’ve got a gf of 3 years who still likes ME to chase her . She’s stubborn as hell and sometimes hours will go by with neither of us making that move to find the other one by way of a message. I’ve read Corey’s book at least 20 times and this chick is still walking all over me lol. So I definitely did stuff wrong early on in the relationship, and now she plays me like a frickin fiddle. Dance monkey dance!!!

[@christophervanzetta]

Sump her dude. She’s toxic

[@Lonewolf-vb8dn]

Men lead women follow

[@margaretc5679]

She is stubborn because she doesnt contact you every few hours? So wait a day. Find something to do that interests and excites you and focus on that for a day. She will eventually contact you.

[@brianwaller7383]

She toys with you because you allow it. I’d dismiss her immediately once she started her bs. But too many guys too afraid to lose the girl calling her out. Women are like car dealerships never be afraid to walk away if the deal isn’t right

[@WillHoward2002]

If its been like that for 3 years it's not going to change. Better finding someone else sounds like she's playing games with you and doesn't respect or take you seriously.

[@johnbingaman3645]

I dated a girl with all them issues, check please, Elvis has left the building oh, it's a fixer upper, the only Fixer-Upper you get is a house you'll definitely make money

[@nunka34ify]

So like Jada causing Will to lose his cool?

[@SwaggyE212]

I think that’s one of the things I’ve been working on most when I’m on a date with a women. A simple question ends up feeling like they need to drop all of their baggage on me. I have to become the driver of the fun bus. But yeah, definitely need to be more observant.

[@earthpart3]

i always laugh when people tell me they were arguing and fighting with their significant others cause now i know it just means the guy is clueless and thinks yelling is gonna fix it lol

[@realtalk6720]

It can depends on the women.

[@VoiceOfThe]

Coach’s robot makes a welcome return 🤣

[@KaraRocknRoll]

Slacker? Did Coach Corey Wayne’s principal by any chance happened to be Mr. Strickland from Back to the Future?

[@jroll5858]

If the second guy doesn't read the book & recalibrate himself he'll end up in the Red pill/MGTOW community

[@1970broncoman]

I read “why women cause men to lose their hair” lol

[@Hanashi_mma]

Great vid as always coach

[@rik-keymusic160]

yeah, i got angry with a female bar tender. she refused to serve me another drink just for the sake of it she excluded me that night. Everyone else got drinks but me... i gave her te finger and left. I know, i have anger issues when it comes to nasty mind games but i don't know who to stay calm in that moment. i don't know why i give that woman so much controle over my inner state. it's ridiculous.

[@kvs7876]

Corey Robot!!!! I love it !!

[@emiLydad]

robot Corey never miss 😭

[@danielmeans9539]

Coach Corey you cracked me up in this one haha 😂😂😂!

[@howtosnatch]

12:30 Robot Corey, never change.

[@MrRahlo42]

You always talk about the vetting process. Does your book talk about how to bett women? Thanks

[@BloodyHeck]

Like most dating/relationship coaches, the only things you hear are overly simplistic advice that might work on some women sometimes somewhere, but doesn’t apply to the majority of women in the real world. The idea of the masculine remaining calm and not losing frame control is something discussed by most men’s coaches. Great. Sounds simple and easy, at least in a quick video or as a chapter in a book. Now how do you handle real women in the real world? A friend once told me “not only does she know how to push my buttons, it’s like she enjoys doing it”. Most men’s coaches will tell you that she’s testing you to see if you overreact and lose your cool and that you must maintain frame control. Sounds easy. But what do you do when she doesn’t stop? What his wife, my wife and so many other women that so many men have known aren’t just testing to see how you react, they keep going UNTIL you react. They don’t want to see if you crack, they want to see how much it takes to make you crack. So once it starts, a man remaining calm and maintaining his frame, all that does is piss her off more. Whatever she was first upset about is now behind her and what she’s now upset about is that she hasn’t gotten you to be upset. Sometimes the worst thing you could do is to keep calm but we’re not going to see a video as to what to do then.

[@jshowy7053]

Walk away from her and never look back.

[@TheGreatSalsaMan]

Bro a woman like that is toxic af and NOT high value at all. You walk away from people like that…women are supposed to make your d**k hard not your life. Tests are tests but constantly trying to get a rise out of someone just because…that is borderline abusive right there that leads to physical domestic violence. Any woman pulls that the only proper response is calmly say “Are you ok?” Then walk away/drop her if she continues to be a crazy ***t. No matter how hot she is or how good the sex is nothing is worth that level of headache.

[@keydabeastgamingg]

Bro if you listened to his videos and read his book 10-15 times you would understand. If you are not applying the knowledge or tricks no amount of listening is going to do anything. Idk what other coaches you listen to but coach Corey Wayne’s advice actually works if you apply what he is teaching. It sounds like you just watch and listen to videos and expect shit to just go your way instead of actually working hard to hone the info you are taking in. He says love is supposed to be fun and you are in relationships to give and not for what you can get out of it, but if she isn’t giving to you what want or treating you how you want to be treated then go find someone else. It’s not going to be that easy but real men would rather be single and alone than be with someone who treats them like shit. His advice applies to all women, not some, that just sounds like an excuse to justify your situation. If she has a high level of interest in you or if you were being in your masculine (which no offense you don’t seem like you are), they wouldn’t be testing you or trying to get a rise out of you. If she has low interest or you are not doing what you should be doing, of course they are going to test you, why would you even want to deal that someone that makes your life harder?

[@starseed855]

@@keydabeastgamingg Well spoken bro👏🏼

[@lomane5327]

You have a lot to learn young grasshopper

[@SH0WPECE]

This translating womaniese is exhausting, communicating one thing while meaning another means they have a communication issue. Why is the onus on us to decipher this bullshit?

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

It’s called being a Man, a leader. The word lead means to go first.

[@Phil-bv4dh]

I hear you man. But women will always be this way

[@zacharywallace2243]

Ooof!

[@SH0WPECE]

@@CoachCoreyWayne I'm not sure how that correlates, masculinity isn't about tolerating nonsense. Women move mountains for the right guy, correct her communication issue or move on.

[@WillHoward2002]

​@omartageddi4987 You don't have to be a redpill incel to complain dude. It's like saying a woman is a radical feminist because she complaints about certain male behaviours.

[@RenaissanceMan29]

That was pretty funny....

[@farthead43]

I brought out the hour clock

[@topdog5252]

Perfect.

[@Piznick64]

4:41 lmfao

[@ralfj.1740]

Very gladly gave Like No. 1K :)

[@giovanniabraham7653]

All that Is too tiring 😂

[@russellsaffa3062]

Bc if they didn’t have sex appeal and we weren’t lustful we wouldn’t need them. Unless you’re weak and need emotional support

[@joegonzales4749]

Never use paturd as a word ever again Cory

[@ramirofernandez3986]

Hahahahahahah jack in the box 😂

[@Revolt4newlife]

26:09 😅🎉

[@OzoneSports777]

Beef injection 😂😂

[@mimimi5140]

Hi coach. Can you reverse getting friendzoned? For women. Btw I find you funny!

[@jackLoveX]

Yeah it’s easy. Just be hot

[@TheGreatPower365]

Show him your feminine side. Be warm and show him he is safe with you. It might not change anything, but it might be worth a try.

[@dozoneil1253]

If you’re a woman getting friendzone you’re probably aiming out of your league, no man would friendzone you if he didn’t have other options, it’s too hard out there for man to get the benefit of rejecting women, even ugly ones. A man will at least get in a relationship with you, but never take you serious, but if he doesn’t even do that, be ready to get played, he doesn’t see you that way at all.

[@carloscabrera5311]

When a guy doesn't like a woman, he makes her a "friend with benefit." When a woman doesn't like a guy, she friend zones him. So. Men don't friend zone. Women do...🤣

[@drvofoka7033]

@@carloscabrera5311 They do if the chick is ugly. A chick getting friendzoned is just ugly, plain and simple.

[@davittjess]

I don't understand why more men don't realize an orgasm makes the world right

[@stevis78]

I don't understand why more women don't understand that

[@eddiewalker6866]

Corey i wonder if you can help me imgoing to the philippines in september for 1 month holiday what i need from you is there is a group called passport btos there givig info like you but here is the problem they are all mummys boys and as such unlike you do not give good advoce iwould be interested in your thoughts

[@joshwilliams6517]

Meat injection

[@ralfj.1740]

SSRIs made a good friend of mine develop erectile dysfunction 🙈

[@russellheyns1846]

Check your stats. I was married for 20 years. I can tell you that NO married couple I knew was having sex 2-3 times per week. You are very knowledgeable about female nature and dating and short-term relationships but I don’t think you should talk outside your knowledge base, i.e. long term relationships/marriage.

[@Sisco14]

Why do you sound hurt? Have you read the book?

[@faekz]

Deer ing. Defend explain excuse rationalize Don't do it

[@recommens-comedy-central9761]

Robinson Danger Danger

[@sarifuchs]

Boyfriend hat 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[@miguelfloriano9039]

Damn coach you still look the same from 10 years ago.

[@rickghai6839]

Lollllll

[@TheADRIANOVALENTINO]

With this first emailer's girlfriend, regardless if he told her" lets get together and have some fun" she still wouldnt have come out. She seems very difficult all over the place type of person. A girl thats super interested in you will communicate all her dramas with you. Dude, let her go..... Plenty of chicks out there.. 👍👍👍

[@avcyberactive538]

I've spotted so many red flags just by following Corey's work 30 Miles awaya. Just ... Hangout HaveFun Hook Up Thats it!