Why Women Cheat, Why faithful guys are boring, "Big D energy" & more - Open Chats Podcast Eps 23

Open chats podcast South Africa episode 23 - We asked the ladies what causes a women to cheat on their partner in relationships, what are the causes, is it lack of happiness, is it intimacy is it last, what are the causes the gents were curious.
The ladies also told us about characters and traits that they look for in a man, is it money, charisma, provision ? what is it exactly
The podcast conversation then took an unexpected turn when the ladies mentioned they can too cheat as much as guys do if they wanted to as well, a phrase the gents didn't take too well !
This was a very lengthy South African, African podcast conversation.
We also spoke about the effects of pregnancy in a women amongst many other things in this very very funny conversation
Topics
Dating, girlfriend, boyfriend, dates, cheating, partner, love, relationships, intimacy South Africa infidelity, umjolo,
#Openchatspodcast #podcast
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Ya nor 🤣🔥🔥🤌highly educational yho 😭now everything makes sense why huns do what they do

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

😂😂😂 now you must act in accordance chief 😂

[@FireBrand777]

Or even HIV

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[@bobbyrevenge]

This podcast is like that one song you skipped always , but when you actually listen to the song it slaps!!!!

[@sanelegoodenough258]

One thing I forgot to mention at the end, Women being polygamist is an on goal though. Imagine a goal keeper bragging about having goals scored on him. Women really need protection from themselves. And to directly correlate this with what she said thats the reason we have a lot of them complaining about not being not marriageable is because the cookie is easily gotten, what was sacred is now publicised. Lot of them complaining about revealing their age let alone their body count, none of them can say “I’m a polygamist” outspokenly and be proud. Great episode again 🎉🎉

[@decent9710]

I love the energy here. The gents don't fold they stand their ground very rare to see such a podcast in eMzantsi. Looking forward to being a constant consumer of a great show. ❤

[@sanelegoodenough258]

From this episode we can fully deduce what has been written since beginning of time, that woman don’t know what they want hence arranged marriages worked now that there’s freedom they can’t sustain anything except careers. Great episode guys always refreshing seeing Sino & Thobile welcome Thuto 🎉🎉

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Why do y’all keep on saying they don’t know what they want 😂🤷‍♂️ Did I miss something 😂

[@omphemetsechake2839]

They can't even sustain relationships, cause they all want to be housewives.

[@dekhampani]

"Can't sustain anything except careers" Out of all the languages, my broer chose to speak facts.

[@B_xrnie]

Can someone pin this😂

[@boirampai7404]

Can they even sustain those careers chief, I doubt; modern woman can’t commit to anything for more than 5min.

[@MR.Ben_254]

I love the energy,the podcast is awesome 👌 watching from kenya🇰🇪

[@samkelesithole2728]

The guy laughing in the background always gets me😂😂😂

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Camera man 😂😂😂😂

[@Zikhona_mpayipheli]

😂😂

[@tshepisomputle3554]

The greatest quote 🤣🤣🤣🤣"Date someone that likes you until u find the person you like"🤣🤣

[@Sterre2van...]

Then they find the one they like

[@Dido_Mashot]

I love this podcast ❤️ this is what people need ✊🏽

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

And the people shall get what they want !

[@MfundoTheFellow]

😂😂😂 loyal guys are boring untill she has three kids from diffrent fathers and she is a dead beat yako kasi😂

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

😂😂😂 Ay you chief !!

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

🎉Hey guys lets remember to press the like button please that’s all we ask for ❤😊

[@zefaniakooks1659]

Nothing stays the same, even the guys aren’t steel strong forever! Balls shrink and turn to raisins, hard things become flaccid. It’s life😂

[@keabetswe1200]

Absolutely love this show.. this is the 10th episode I've watched in the last 2 weeks. Can't get enough of the energy😆❤ Please do a past 2 with Lebo and Tee

[@shirneilboltman5794]

This Mtho and Sino combo 😂😂 !!!!

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Dangerous combination 😂😂🔥

[@Zikhona_mpayipheli]

😂❤💆‍♀️🫶🫶love them

[@simphiwekenneth5958]

If Mtho was lightskinned like sino they would literally look like twins actually they are different complexion look alikes 😂🔥 content though

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Nah it’s just the almost similar hair fooling u 😂😂😂

[@mt-hq7tx]

Yo I can't unsee it

[@jayricksonmusic8906]

Cheating is doing whatever your partner wouldn't approve or u do secretly

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

That’s so vague though

[@phathutshedzomudau1695]

Yebo short and simple 👌

[@theinsidertraderfx_]

​@@OpenChatsPodcastit's not, different people find different things as cheating

[@zefaniakooks1659]

I agree that it’s anything you do in secret…and don’t want your partner to know about. Even if the relation isn’t s#xual

[@jayricksonmusic8906]

@@zefaniakooks1659 💯✔️

[@simthembilegarane7880]

I think I would agree with the guy who says cheating to us men is sleeping with a man. Because my first question when I find out I've been cheated on is, "did you sleep with him?" If a girl answers yes: then we are definitely not going to stay in that relationship. Then question 2, how often ? If its more than two times then you enjoy that guy, so as a man I have to make a decision. But contrally it all starts with those flirty chats. Flirting is the basis of cheating.

[@kamoboaz3637]

@mtho has a good emotional intelligence and he can read alot of no verbal cues. Socially he is good

[@naledisesing7163]

"piano hub" ,"beans" 😂😂😂 chiiile , y'all wild asf!🙌😂, Ho shota Reece mo where the hell is he, he would've chowed this podcast🤞😩. The girls CHOWED this episode ❤👏👏I like mtho's mindset 🙌

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Love and appreciate you ❤️❤️❤️

[@ian_sambo04]

54:14 "never give a guy that you've made him wait for too long a chance" that's a fact.😂

[@ChriseldahSambo]

Good episode 👏🏽Well from my perspective women cheat because they are not satisfied either with sex or with love . We all know that when a woman is satisfied with what she got "the partner" it is never easy to even make a move on her . For instance most of the guys have came across this for sure, when you start by greeting the girl and her respond is gonna be "I have a boyfriend" or when you ask for her numbers she'll say " I have a boyfriend" . They try not to give a guy attention because obviously it's gonna lead to cheating so satisfaction it is.

[@luckyradebe]

Sino should be your co host, he kills me 🤣😂🤣🔥

[@siyatheservant]

I would have ended this conversation in 10 minutes... both the gents and ladies were confused as hell. The conversation was lit though... i enjoyed it.

[@Aminamodhir]

Love you guy's going to share this much love from Nairobi KE

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Oh wow ! All the way from Niarobi… thank you so much, how did u stumble upon the podcast in Namibia

[@Andre-eo4xe]

The Real G’s know post your girl every once in a while post yourselves somewhere fun doing something fun and you will see how many women will be interested in you

[@MUSIC--EDITZ]

Faithful guys are BOORING....yhoo and u wonder why some guys cheat😒

[@MathildaMokhobo]

Talking from experience, at times you genuinly and with time fall out of love with a person and it takes a girl to having eyes out there and tasting waters. They might then break up with you or cheat.

[@yurenjordan8781]

Yeah kumnandi la.. Guys continue with your work is very very enternteining ♥️

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Thank you 😊

[@yurithechamp]

Eversince I discovered this podcast I've been enjoyin' the chats here @OpenChatsPodcast ❤🔥💯

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Thank you bro … love and appreciate you man How did u discover the podcast ?

[@yurithechamp]

@@OpenChatsPodcast I discovered it through KZbin shorts

[@SheUnknown]

When yall were talking about confidence I was thinking of how there is a big difference between having confidence and having a big ego.... But anyway loved the podcast😊

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

What’s the difference bro 🤔

[@mbxngz]

what’s da difference mfana?

[@princemompati1278]

That big D energy conversation 😭😭🔥. They were basically describing me 😂❤

[@katlegomontle450]

Binge watching on these podcasts on a Saturday has to be the best.

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Oh wow this is a nice comment Thank you ❤😊

[@ot7093]

New on the channel and stuff... dope content, very informative but one thing I think me and other subscribers would appreciate is less interruptions when another person is speaking. Give each other enough time before wanting to answer because there's alot of info not being conversed that is also crucial

[@phumilindi5310]

U guys talk about things that nobody has the guts to talk about in public and for that i love u gents 😂😂😂MR "light skinned" kills me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ayandabrian4125]

As for "Izo drip njani if nirevenge kayona"😅😅💔

[@takudzwamagomo_]

THESE 2 GENTS ARE MY GOATS

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[@OpenChatsPodcast]

😂😂😂

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[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Thank you so much ❤

[@pinkyshozi6967]

These girls are not telling the truth on most of the stuff they talk of, they acting all innocent hle, they are very defensive. I feel like they are in committed relationships so they are scared of opening up. Just my view though. Ncaa podcast guys always enjoying your topics❤️🔥🔥🔥

[@lufunonemakonde3993]

This platform is very educational to youth and old people. Im older but i have learned a lot..Guy's keep it up

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Shout out Lufono 🙌🔥

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About wat??

[@blitzkriegentertainment9879]

Good Content guys, keep it up. if the hosts could open up more about personal stuff , it would be more engaging and relatable to us watching

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Open up about more stuff like what bro ?

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One of the best podcasts I've come across😂👌👌

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Thank you 😂😂 new episode drops tomorrow

[@innocenttatenda5826]

Sino well come back 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤

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podcast for me🏋🙏🔥ive watched every epi where theres sino bro kills🤣🤣✌️

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discovered this channel few days ago im tapped in

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I am from Namibia 🇳🇦 i love this podcast.. you guys are the best 👌

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first time seeing you guys..mare le good i just subscribed

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Thanks for subbing!

[@SpheAuf-qx5mu]

Nic show bafethu and you need to give more time to your guest after possing a question.... Keep it up🎉

[@MancobaJMotsa]

Keeping cooking Mtho and crew...another great episode

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Thank you

[@nganekwane2295]

It doesn't go back to the original state 🤞🏾😢it might not be "loose" but it definitely is not as "tight"

[@mzwakhempofu9254]

One of the best episodes......absolutely loved it!!!!!!

[@Thee_Gratitude]

The "like button" squad let's goooo!!!...talk about consistency.

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

The most consistent podcast in the country 😂🔥🔥🔥

[@princemonareng5584]

😂😂😂😂SINO IS OPEN ABOUT HIS LIFE BUT MTHO HE IS ALWAYS RUN 🏃‍♀️ AWAY TO ANSWER QUESTIONS WHEN IS DIRECTED TO HIM...LOL BORN WITH IT MR...😂😂😂😂

[@welcomemasilela700]

37:13 😭bro found a hack in the system

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Bro huge life hack !! 😂😂🤞

[@mphombedzi9810]

FAITHFUL BLACK MAN ASSOCIATION....DANKIE MEMBER

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

😂😂😂✊✊

[@mphombedzi9810]

Dankie bafwethu

[@innocenttatenda5826]

🤣🤣🤣🤣MThokozis the way you sounding "you see typeless woman" 😂😂😂😂......

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

They are typeless chief 😂

[@innocenttatenda5826]

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[@rorisangmoale978]

I'm here for Thobile😭😭😭....Great discussion nonetheless!

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Hahah Thobile is the one for u chief ?

[@rorisangmoale978]

@@OpenChatsPodcast lalela, I even followed her on instagram, such a lovely lady😮‍💨

[@gamingwithastranger3358]

Gripa ka yona Episodes 😂😂😂 Bro you k*lled me there

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

😂😂😂

[@alwandebrian5284]

" I like the way you treat me, but not you..."💀😭

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Imagine 😂

[@tebogomotsamai3501]

Plz get another panel of ladies to answer the question.they really did not answer

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

If you paid attention in btw the jokes and everything the answers were all over 🧠 😎✨✨🤘

[@MOTV8APEX0294]

There's no reason for a person to cheat,if you're a cheater you're cheater. If he/she boring then leave instead of cheating.

[@kabelomashabela8421]

Fulfilment of the fantasy... is the reason, gents let's just operate waya-waya 😂😂

[@zodidikhumalo2214]

I don't see a lot of ads on this show compared to other shows. Did you block them or still waiting to get to a certain number of subscribers?

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Ads have been blocked

[@thabisohlongwane9194]

GOD SPEED AMEN BLESS THE CHANNEL

[@WandileMthembu-xp1bc]

The first 5 seconds 😭.... They compared it to soccer socks , njani 😂😂😂

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

It’s hectic 😂

[@glenmatjee6274]

a good episode. just work on giving each other a chance to speak

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Can’t you tell these people were drunk ? 😂 check the other episodes they normally give each other time to talk

[@thando_tlng]

Loyal guys are not boring wtf I LOVE LOYAL MEN❤

[@innocenttatenda5826]

Sino 🤣🤣🤣ama2k you notice by the walk🤣😭

[@tlotlisanglekhoabalekhoaba8537]

Guys - women are dreamers. They have to settle for their own sake. We gents can reach our targets coz they exist...in abundance

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🥺🥺 Thuto is Mad Cute yerrrr 💥💥🙆💯🤞

[@andilentobekomadlala5227]

Love the content but Mthokozisi asks questions and cuts off the person answering the question before they finish responding than tops it off by diverting to another question

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Guys baby mommas are fire😭😭😭

[@kamaalthewanza]

Ya'll got a good program, keep rocking

[@mistybeatsproductionchanne4434]

I love this podcast so much,, at Uni we used to argue so much about these topics. i Love it and learnt alot. On the last statement , the ladies are not considering that after birth it takes time and they dont give birth frequently which is unlike having sex frequently with jellof league.Sine is very important for this podcast. shout out to the ladies too.big shout out to you too brother, keep it up. The fact about ladies making their ideal guy wait compared to fuckboys it so very real.But,most gents gets mad when they realize that and end up making the hun pay like Thobile said. if youre a hun a theres this broer patiently waiting and complying with you just run.Orherwise dope content. love it soo much i be sitting here arguing with yall on my own😂😂😅.

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Haha thank you for tuning in brother. Love the insight Glad you are learning chief … we also learning from the crew 😂🔥🔥😎

[@karisian1472]

❤ aii y'all got to leave Thobile she's on another level 😅😍😍 Queen that one🏆 MaBhelekazi Dope episode ❤❤🙏🏾🔥 Sino the president 😂😂

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

We call her uBeyonce 😂❤

[@mokheledaniel8989]

The late Pro Kid once said cute boyz get access to best chicks...seing this solidifies his statement.

[@MbalenhleNdlovu-bf8gb]

Mtho and Sino🎉😂❤

[@boipelomakinta1813]

I can't wait for the next episode.

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Hahah I take u it enjoyed this

[@romeoblack_rsa]

it goes back to its original state there are cells that repair the damage for woman sake

[@Zikhona_mpayipheli]

I love Mtho ❤😻💸💆‍♀️🫶🤍great guy

[@innocenttatenda5826]

I'm in love with this podcast eish ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Love you too brodie 😎

[@takatsothage]

Cheating simply means when you start entertaining someone else when you are in a relationship

[@thabisonkomo7613]

Doing anything that you have to hide from your partner. Regardless of whether your man approves or not.

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

True… this makes sense

[@KamogeloMabena-n4h]

Khuphuka lapho brother mtho on the definition of cheating😭😭

[@TshegofatsoTjiane]

I love this podcast ❤

[@katlegomontle450]

Women do fantasize differently though I agree with Thobile😂 Loved this episode ❤

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Glad you liked it Katlego 😊❤

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Love the content, I'm hooked❤️

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Thank you for watching 😊

[@sia_sang_n]

There's this topic : ' Why men choose suicide ' i think this needs to be addressed 🥺🙁

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Do u think they do ? 🤔 doubt it man .. I know the rate is higher for men than women but I doubt it’s a thing

[@sia_sang_n]

@@OpenChatsPodcast i think they do since like they are taught to be strong and man up . They suffer in silence. I feel like this is a crisis men needs to open up . a podcast about this topic can really help I've been thinking about this for quite a while .

[@thebeselefa6642]

Damn this one is deep and I think it would need a psychology student or expert to balance out opinions of panelists.

[@siyandantozonkesibiya8139]

sino celebrating a rare light skin W🤣🤣

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Let the man shine ✨ A win is a win 😂😂🔥

[@NJABULO2023]

Too much operators🔥🔥🙏

[@OurHope17]

Dope content... I usually asked ama2000 about a soapie ( soul city ) or an old song .. to check their age

[@Alakhe-maqakamba-sihlahla]

Im late but im here😩❤great episode as always

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Better late than never 😎 Hope u enjoyed it

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I love this podcast

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i dont thing i will ever be able to watch any podcast expect mac g one

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

😂😂😂

[@gamingwithastranger3358]

Nice episode once again An Episode with Sino and the girl's never fails to impress i really enjoyed this one

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Haha glad you liked it brother

[@user-yl6lt5qy5z]

Let's go!!! 🎉

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@sonwabilemnguni694]

"Not Hundred , One Brazilian Girl"😹😹

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Just one ! Not a lot 😂😂

[@kiid.mystikofficial5089]

this the type of content i love to see😭✨

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

What about it do you like ? 😂

[@kiid.mystikofficial5089]

the editing, clean sound, crisp visuals, lit set design, funny hosts, relevant topics, engaged guests 🙌🏽😤 the combos are communicating chief🔥

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

@@kiid.mystikofficial5089 thank you Chief 🤝🤝🤝😎❤️

[@mlungisibongwe8085]

Truth here why woman cheat: once they settled they do flings, can be resulted by some problems in a relationship but they won't let go of their partners, they just want to try something new or different. But they will won't let go of their gents. Bafuna that vibe engekho serious lol coz once u asked them bayaxolisa🤣 n Gents leave them

[@mabuccado]

Yo wassup? I think cheating is simply doing something secretly with someone else... Mtho there isn't any faithful guy😅😅 we always fuck around. Lastly😂 vele opening the fridge frequently will make it lose at some point

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

Hawu why isn’t he faithful now 😂😂 ?

[@mabuccado]

@@OpenChatsPodcast what im saying is that "Us" (broes) we always fuck around.😂you know it. Hence I'm saying there's no bruh who's faithful out there