Don’t forget to pick up my new book MAGNETIC which will transform your dating life: www.trippadvice.com/book
@hanzohattori7555 жыл бұрын
And yet here you are watching his video. Get rejected much?
@EmilyGloeggler79843 жыл бұрын
@@hanzohattori755 People can comment on whatever videos either way.
@erikpeltomaa98732 ай бұрын
I dont know why im watching this since im gay and not into women...but the reason maybe is that gay men are ecactly like women ,they uaualy only are attracted to men who are physical shape or having an ideal thougth in their damn heads how a man should look like or act like and if they cant have or get that...they don't give a damn about that man. And also since im gay why do I care so much what women thinking about me if im not even interrested...mabye because if women think im not attractive enough maybe gay men think the same🤔🏳️🌈
@edwarddavenport98812 жыл бұрын
Reason 4. She’s just using you for validation. It makes her feel good to know you’re into her. This isn’t most women but it does exist.
@raypist59382 жыл бұрын
no this is most women
@rudhra5957 Жыл бұрын
Damn that hurts
@gamerscraft5477 Жыл бұрын
90% women breh
@carlosbigbrain4866 Жыл бұрын
Bro, that's most probably what's happening to me now
@moosehaokip2360 Жыл бұрын
So true. So what is the solution?
@theoneandonlykyle9800 Жыл бұрын
I'm always getting rejected doesn't matter what I do or say or what I wear. Even working out does do jack and the truth is some guys got it other guys don't. Some men we're meant to be loved and desired by women others are not. Least I can do is keep my money and peace of mind I got that going for me.
@fuzzypanda1684 Жыл бұрын
Lol, yep. I was a skinny, shy, insecure nerd all through school, watching the girls falling for strong, confident guys who hit the gym. Finally, I decided to stop feeling sorry for myself and become one of those guys. I hit the gym, took improv classes and went out, forcing myself to talk with people until eventually, many years and thousands of hours later, I not only had a physique that drew double takes and stares wherever I went, but had become an outgoing, confident, charismatic guy who could approach and get along with almost anyone. And...I still got rejection and disinterest from any girl that I was interested in, and many that I wasn't interested in. I couldn't understand it and kept trying for a long time. Finally, I just accepted that my lot in life is to have put in the time and energy to have completely reinvented myself into a guy who looks like he's auditioning for the next Baywatch film, with the presence and confidence to back it up, yet somehow still get nothing but turned down. At this point, it's just funny to me and the sheer hilarity of having 6 pack abs and looking like an upside down Dorito, while being fun, funny and playful, yet getting treated the same as I did back then, is just hilarious to me. Of course, everyday on the way to the gym I pray to get T-boned by a semi-truck.
@jamesowen493811 ай бұрын
@@fuzzypanda1684 There's no gym for your face.
@Avareee.10 ай бұрын
Excuses, I was ugly af. Years of gym changed that.@@jamesowen4938
@greganderson22398 ай бұрын
You’re right. Most important part is genes and if she’s not attracted to your genetic features, game over .. sad but true
@theoneandonlykyle98008 ай бұрын
@@fuzzypanda1684 dang bro just like me pretty much least you have a piece of mind
@Lamp11263 жыл бұрын
Step four: Be yourself and love yourself. Don't ever compromise yourself for another person. They will never support or help you( so.... why live your life by their standards)
@wezzsimple6612 Жыл бұрын
Can’t tell you how many times I heard this advice and it’s the most bland answer you could possibly give.
@Matanumi2 ай бұрын
You cannot I repeat CANNOT TELL A MAN TO LOVE HIMSELF that's fucking bullshit. Self respect? That's probably better wording but that's still very difficult.
@FocusMrbjarke5 жыл бұрын
I bet she rejected me because she thought i didn't watch enough tripp advice videos
@Olafemi965 жыл бұрын
@Jonathan SASUKE
@clementekpo76065 жыл бұрын
Loooool
@allenwong75075 жыл бұрын
FocusMrbjarke lol
@ronaksaxena89134 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@verveblack5 жыл бұрын
I found out too late a girl rejected me cause she thought I'm too good for her. Christ, women stop that shit.
@AliasTekTV5 жыл бұрын
She said that to avoid hurting your feelings, but in fact the inverse is true. She rejected you because she can do better in her eyes. Just keep looking elsewhere.
@verveblack5 жыл бұрын
Nicholas Dorsey She never told me this...her friend confided in me. She actually was in love with me, but when she tried to have to the "talk" with me I refused to call her "my girlfriend" so she felt bad. I have never called a girl my girlfriend yet, so she felt like a fucktoy so she "dumped" me. But my point is I never knew she thought she wasn't good enough till 2 years after we stopped seeing each other. Found out too late she had self esteem issues.
@timmytimster75542 жыл бұрын
@@verveblack virgin
@bronzemv44402 жыл бұрын
@@timmytimster7554 E bad ass, lol.
@ItIsMeeko2 жыл бұрын
@@timmytimster7554 virgin
@el-hp1lj2 жыл бұрын
all this rejection and friendzone stuff starts early on and as we age into our 20s 30s 40s and 50s people collect more a more damaging expereinces with relationships and it gets more difficult to connect with anymore. Throw in the whole dating app dynamic and relationships are exhausting and a complete mind fuck
@GaryFowler29065 жыл бұрын
A woman rejects a guy because she thinks she can do BETTER than him . It’s no more complicated than that
@sashimi8795 жыл бұрын
No grandpa
@adamadid58612 жыл бұрын
Damn that's harsh 😂 but makes sense
@Namadakun2 жыл бұрын
@@sashimi879 😂😂😂
@lnaph2 жыл бұрын
There is something he has exhibited that is a deal breaker. Simple, and it doesn't have to be one thing.
@superinquisitor2 жыл бұрын
Knows*
@MsPriyaLal5 жыл бұрын
Notice how he keeps saying STOP BEING REJECTED using that fear based marketing to get people to get the book. He didn't mention that women reject men many times because of not in the mood, Outside circumstances with other people. It just depends. Many have nothing to do with the guy.
@watitduful3 жыл бұрын
Right. This is a means of the hustle to get these dudes dollars.
@samfatima44262 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@bellamagpie2 жыл бұрын
As a woman, from my experience and that of all my female friends, he's hit the nail on the head.
@factsondeck15522 жыл бұрын
@@bellamagpie If women are saying he’s right he is definitely wrong.
@Cockneyartist7 ай бұрын
Totally, there’s no such thing as ‘stop being rejected’ based on what you said, life is random
@juanalvarez35075 жыл бұрын
1. You're not Physically Attractive to her. 2. She is not Emotionally Attracted to you. 3. You are being Re-active instead of Pro-active.
@ShadowCatGambit5 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty reactive. Not much of a turn on
@hanzohattori24925 жыл бұрын
because I'm ugly.
@o_poky93594 жыл бұрын
@@hanzohattori2492 same as me
@swagpug78914 жыл бұрын
Juan Alvarez this makes sense im so fucking ugly
@rodreiquezattakhan17103 жыл бұрын
If you got money …none of this shit matters!!
@magnetman3t7255 жыл бұрын
She has options your not the only one.
@VR-oy3fu2 жыл бұрын
You're
@reckless86342 жыл бұрын
Apparently girls are also an option. Not just men.
@luminouskiwi11042 жыл бұрын
Have those other options been there for her at her lowest points and taken care of her all the time? Or is it just a random guy from tinder who she just met?
@sweet28632 жыл бұрын
Yup. Ever seen a woman's FB or insta inbox in passing? Hundreds if not thousands of mostly unread conversation threads, and a varitable shitload of dick picks, maybe two or three active & read & responded to convos. if youre trying to text a bitch, you need to understand, every other hard on creep is too.
@originalman38432 жыл бұрын
Options to pump and dump her
@Ant-speakingfacts2 жыл бұрын
Giving women no attention is the greatest tool and it never fails
@RAWALITY5 ай бұрын
Yep you will never have to be with a girl or get rejected just ignore women lol and be alone forever incel
@monaural2.9885 жыл бұрын
I kicked the whole concept of "finding a match" to the curb in January of 2007, after so many years of rejections. Fact of the matter here is that life simply isn't about every last man "getting the cup" and winning the prize. You have to realize this or simply lose your sense of self....plus your sanity. And from what I'm hearing from the set that got taken to the cleaners in divorce, I realize I wound up with a very nice prize indeed, one that the media at large wants no spotlight on; Freedom. Cowboys or Clowns, you pay in one wretched form or another......
@mehdi.z.95573 жыл бұрын
Last night I said to her that I like her and she said i cant even think about being with you in a relationship this badly broke my heart...i cried a lot and I don't know why exactly she replied like this.I did not deserve this bad answer we had good times together. she even didn't tell me what was wrong with me and why she can't be with me... omg the entire world sucks
@oriabureosemudiamen84283 жыл бұрын
Love is sweet, love is life, true love never die don't give up someone you love all hope is not lost okay
@oriabureosemudiamen84283 жыл бұрын
I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay
@oriabureosemudiamen84283 жыл бұрын
Text him up in whatsap
@oriabureosemudiamen84283 жыл бұрын
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@mehdi.z.95573 жыл бұрын
@@oriabureosemudiamen8428 oh thank you i will text him
@anderstermansen1303 жыл бұрын
I litterally dont care anymore. I gave up on women and accept a life Of solitude.
@rockymvvrcianu68462 жыл бұрын
Why accept that shit, though?
@Diamondshiesty9992 жыл бұрын
@@rockymvvrcianu6846 easy dude tired of that shii after awhile I just naturally dont fw females I'm really attractive and got tons of charisma but they all act the same and always want you to be sum u not I see where u coming from though but ppl get tired of bs after awhile.
@TopGCJ2 жыл бұрын
Never give up. Stay focused on your dream the right girl will come at the right time.
@brat48122 жыл бұрын
Kudos to you!
@Forgiveiolord2 жыл бұрын
@@TopGCJ stop feeding him false hopes 4 years now still getting rejected 💀 Waiting for the devil too bring me too hell
@wargreysama3 жыл бұрын
I never got rejected because I never confessed, it's not a self-esteem issue but rather - what would I do now that I date my crush... I don't like walking in a shadow valley.
@MegaEminemX Жыл бұрын
Let me say this to you guys and let it sink in: I had more women when I was a drug dealer compared to now as a programner.
@whitebathroomguy2 жыл бұрын
A blind woman said to me once, I was handsome
@Cockneyartist7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@thomasmaughan10164 ай бұрын
That's a good one
@peterechnaton52Ай бұрын
Hmm, but not all of them are blind. I have to figure out something to solve the problem ... 😂
@Raj-cl7he9 ай бұрын
Ive learned theres no real way just keep putting yourself out there.rejection does not always mean your doing something wrong it can be but not always .you have to be conscious that your dealing with another human being that has emotions and can be in a totally different chapter of their life than you. Trying and working on yourself is probably 70% of the battle ,but the other 30% is really out of your control sometimes.
@goatmoonwarmaster46413 жыл бұрын
She said to someone that she used to like me but I was too nice.
@vegas6263 жыл бұрын
Lol
@BlackHawk39273 жыл бұрын
Brutal, but you're not alone. It's hard but I've come to realize a lot of women like being degraded sexually.
@coltblanton63443 жыл бұрын
:((((
@KB1983.3 жыл бұрын
they are pathetic
@Coyote-wm5op3 жыл бұрын
That happens to almost every guy at one point or another. Then we stop taking any of them seriously
@Official_Suave5 жыл бұрын
If she rejected me then That's okay because she's not the one to be my wife
@honestfella8364 жыл бұрын
That's cool saying.
@khazikshafiq16423 жыл бұрын
Flowers are still plentiful, Beetle are still plentiful, don't worried about it
@eduardmanecuta53502 жыл бұрын
That's right my brother.
@eduardmanecuta53502 жыл бұрын
Who loves you should love you for you not what they think you are.
@solidwisdom87493 жыл бұрын
I got rejected by a coworker and now I feel sad. I keep getting rejected it’s so hard to get a gf
@mariolouro97643 жыл бұрын
I had exactly the same problem. I was confident that it was guaranteed. Once I've left (anonymously) a box of chocolats on her desk. It was too obvious it was me and she has returned it fo me. Now we stopped talking to each other. I really love her to bits but lately she is avoiding me and every time I try to speak to her she just treats me like garbage
@leedlbagginshield84923 ай бұрын
never date co workers
@davidsmith98733 жыл бұрын
I hope a lot of women who get off on rejecting men grow old and ugly unwanted and suffer in some seniors home one day alone
@sowhat6162 жыл бұрын
@David Smith as a very handsome kind hearted man that I am I agree with you forget these dumb broads of all races
@rickydickydoodogrhimes1 Жыл бұрын
Hella true man. One girl has suffered from it here.
@papjin6069 Жыл бұрын
😆😂 TRUE MAN, THEFRUSTRATIONS
@jacksmith-ez6kj Жыл бұрын
I just wish they suffer now, pay for their actions now INSTEAD OF LATER WHEN THEY'VE HAD ALL THE FUN IN THE WORLD AND HAVE NOTHING TO LIVE FOR
@greganderson22398 ай бұрын
Hell yeah 🤟
@DUBS3SS10N2 жыл бұрын
What if you are addicted to getting rejected to make sure you don't have false hope?
@Cahden5 жыл бұрын
A lot of getting rejected can be fixed by just bridging your knowledge gap and learning what not to do and how not to appear, the fundamentals are everything honestly
@timguccione20095 жыл бұрын
Cahden Alpha Nerd Or just don’t appear. Lol
@Cahden5 жыл бұрын
Tim Guccione 😂😂😂 that’s an option I suppose
@TruthTriumphs7862 жыл бұрын
Better to speak less and be stoic around her
@belivuk2526 Жыл бұрын
@@Cahden if you're not attractive, it's better to not even appear. You don't get anything but rejection
@Cahden Жыл бұрын
@@belivuk2526 😂 that an opinion I suppose
@javiersantos36275 жыл бұрын
It's kind of difficult to keep up a ralationship....🤔
@maddoxkindafunny41213 жыл бұрын
she told me she liked me... than rejected me
@jamesowen493811 ай бұрын
It's looks. Period. Everything else is either excuses, or copium.
@dididisun2 ай бұрын
That’s not true Women rejects men due to many reasons, one being men being indecisive too
@vincentheadrush90855 жыл бұрын
There is a girl at my job who accepted a date with me or to meet up but wasn't into me. It hurt so much it's crazy. I wish she said no to my invitation.
@gevorkbabayan4 жыл бұрын
Did u get the girl?
@anirudhjain88742 жыл бұрын
Dude I know it's crazy .... But the same thing happened to me now , I don't know what to do If you read this please message me really need your help on this
@harrisonjohn43012 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me. Surprised how much it’s hurting me too man. Shit sucks.
@FDDFGGSHORTS2 жыл бұрын
First time, huh? I work as delivery guy and when i tell this information on my first date with a girl (from university, gym or something), they reject me. There can be also plenty of reasons, maybe she was intersted in you and you she changed her mind after first date, it happens. Girls today are too demanding and we can do nothing about it
@raypist59382 жыл бұрын
i hate this for you man i feel that 😔
@CraigMcfly19852 жыл бұрын
To be honest rejection makes me feel a whole lot better. Last time it happen it was a couple of months ago, she told me the truth that she was seeing someone.
@NiggletFarm2 жыл бұрын
Lol she lied to be nice. That’s how little she respects you. She didn’t think you could handle real rejection because you’re not a real man.
@bulldozer3582 Жыл бұрын
@@NiggletFarm Good 😊
@jacksmith-ez6kj Жыл бұрын
@I crap on........damn💯😪
@mikecheatham61765 жыл бұрын
I’m glad he didn’t mention the word CONFIDENT. People say that’s the 1st thing that women look for in a man. Which as absolutely nothing to do with getting a woman.
@ghafranhaque71614 жыл бұрын
You wrong. Is part of your manhood... We have to feel you...
@ZERO-nc7td3 жыл бұрын
Being confident isnt actually the whole act of displaying or saying assertiveness Its being confident inside mentally of what u say and do, being dominant is actually a masculine confident trait that women are attracted to If ur not better than her at the stuff u attracted her for, like not being confident than her at ur life philosophy which doesnt make sense or when ur not confident enough at sports or aesthetics or stuff u do she gonna ghost u when she realises that
@mikecheatham61763 жыл бұрын
@@ZERO-nc7td look confidents is good to have, but it doesn’t guarantee that a girl is going to like you. I think confidence works when the girl is already attracted to the man. And she doesn’t know a damn thing about him. If a ugly girl was talking me no matter how confident she is or what she says, none of that can’t convince me to like her and that’s the bottomline. Confidence doesn’t mean shit!! Stop giving me false hope and stupid advice!
@ZERO-nc7td3 жыл бұрын
@@mikecheatham6176 what the F are talking about bro? U think confidence works when the girl is already attracted to the man based on looks and she doesn't know thing about him what are u talking about bro? That's stuff that's based on movies
@mikecheatham61763 жыл бұрын
@@ZERO-nc7td dude I’ve seen this happen in real life and I’ve witnessed it myself. When a girl would approach me, what made her want to approach me? Because she was attracted to me and she doesn’t know a thing about me. Doesn’t even know my name. So no it’s not in movies 🎥 it happens in real life.
@BaneDNS Жыл бұрын
Guys the mindset should be I DON'T CARE WHY ! You rejected to give me your phone number ? I don't care. You rejected the second date ? I don't care. You rejected to come to my house after the third date ? I DON'T FUCKING CARE ! The second a girl rejects me on any of the these steps to sex I forgot about her ! I go to another girl in my phone, or next cold aproach within minutes. Abundance mindset !!!
@chrisclayton5845 жыл бұрын
Looks matter guys. I'm a ugly SOB but Ive been with a handful of hot girls. Why? I make the most of what I've got. I get rejected a lot but I pull one that is hot. Women do care about looks just work with what you have and learn game. Get your shit together and go somewhere in life. Most of all above anything else get use to being rejected.
@FocusMrbjarke5 жыл бұрын
looks don't matter. Body language does.
@chrisclayton5845 жыл бұрын
@@FocusMrbjarke looks do matter. Body language does help but it's a fraction of the overall picture. If you think your body language will beat Brad Pitt walking in the room then you bought into a pua's BS.
@FocusMrbjarke5 жыл бұрын
@@chrisclayton584 No idea who or what pua is
@FocusMrbjarke5 жыл бұрын
@@chrisclayton584 I think body langauge and emotional impact a far more important than looks. Also if you are masculine.
@chrisclayton5845 жыл бұрын
Pua's...pick up artist. Think about it. Which is gonna get women Johnny Depp or average Joe with body language. Body language is important but you need more than that.
@EmilyGloeggler79845 жыл бұрын
There’s another option - a girl can like a guy physically and emotionally but reject him because she never was prepared to like the guy and she feels it’s real, when it’s not. Basically, if she’s unsure and messed up, even if she wants a relationship, she still will turn the guy down saying - Bad idea for both parties.
@swagsukeuchiha75993 жыл бұрын
Oh god. Just let shit happen and stop overthinking.
@adelasimon27243 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@iceblack27743 жыл бұрын
Why would a girl still pay attention to a guy whom she's rejected & be nice and polite in a way that I'm sensing she's sending the signal that I want you and love you ?! , she never ignores me and all the time she cares so much that something doesn't happen which makes me uncomfortable that might make me feel bad about myself , like endearment of a mother to her child and Everytime I do her a favor she returns it back asap and Everytime I appreciate her in a way to show that I love her she would appreciate me back later in other situations exactly in my own way
@BlackHawk39273 жыл бұрын
And then she'll say yes to another guy who ends up damaging her even more.
@EmilyGloeggler79842 жыл бұрын
Just being honest, because I rejected the ex I loved because of that belief my love for him was real. In reality, it was racist and superficiality.
@dpstrial5 жыл бұрын
I never lower myself to engage emotionally with women. I am a free spirit and could not care less whether I get one or not. It is a satisfying place to be.
@papa20143 жыл бұрын
Same
@drewr4353 Жыл бұрын
Then why you here????
@heaty0074 ай бұрын
@@drewr4353curious to see what bs men say to each other
@SadlySorrowful2 жыл бұрын
IF she is not attracted to you in the first place, she will not go out with you to get to know your personality.
@dididisun2 ай бұрын
Not true
@Coyote-wm5op3 жыл бұрын
These are good points but it doesn’t factor in the big red herring. Social media attention. When they get validation for every photo they post and dm’s come from that she may reject you because you’re just lost in the shuffle of the card deck.
@JoshuaAssanowicz8 ай бұрын
Happen To Me I Was Reject Dozen Time And One Time Friendzone In My Option I Don’t Trust Them I Am 30 Year Old And Single I Want Woman Who Treat Me Right
@JoshuaAssanowicz8 ай бұрын
I Only Date Woman If They Treat Me Don’t Reject Me
@TheShospitali11 ай бұрын
Everyone seems to want what they can't have if they can have it then they don't want it no more. You wish you could read their mind but you can't. Where did I go wrong what did I do wrong? Don't give any of them a chance to build up their ego.
@MosesEmmet5 жыл бұрын
Great tips.. women are def complex and it’s not ALL about looks with them. You have to KNOW you’re attractive and be confident enough to put yourself out there and take chances...
@rayaan33955 жыл бұрын
Moses Emmet It's kinda l'ile us except that we're way more on the look and give a least importance to personality but finally, it seems logic, you of course are attracted to someone bc she is pretty/hot whatsoever, but if she's depressive, it'll be less exciting than if she's a crazy girl with who you can have a blast
@unleashingpotential-psycho94335 жыл бұрын
Women love to send mixed signals T_T
@TheDestroyer735 жыл бұрын
then give them mixed signals back
@aaaStar3005 жыл бұрын
Mixed Signals are signs of low attraction level
@Barbarian6465 жыл бұрын
Yep. I approached a girl Sat night at a bar I work at and she seemed happy, was smiling and asking me questions. I then said I had to crack on with the job but suggested we swap numbers and meet up another time. She said her sister had her phone and askrd if we could swap numbers later...i just said ok and left it.
@EmilyGloeggler79843 жыл бұрын
That’s not true for all women.
@MisterB2eternity2 жыл бұрын
A lot of times when a woman rejects you has nothing to do with you personally. You may not be her type. For example if she likes short and brown skinned men and you're a tall light skinned man, guess what. She will not be the girl you'll be getting.
@novadhd Жыл бұрын
sure that goes the same with men rejecting women
@chuckcollins2349 Жыл бұрын
How's rejection not personal?... makes absolutely no sense.
@MisterB2eternity Жыл бұрын
@@chuckcollins2349 This is quite simple let's say you meet a woman who is into short and dark brown skinned men. Then a tall and light skinned man comes along and tries to date her. She turns him down. Why? Because the tall and light skinned guy is not her type. That's what makes it not personal.
@chuckcollins2349 Жыл бұрын
@@MisterB2eternity When I've gotten rejected they reject me,their say I'm not enough...thats pretty personal.
@MisterB2eternity Жыл бұрын
@@chuckcollins2349 In most cases it's them. If a woman tells you you're not enough to hell with her. That's her problem not yours.
@israelcunha6215 жыл бұрын
Makes sense Tripp! I've been having this experience with some girls. Everything you are saying matches the reality and what I have been experiencing.
@absb.59785 жыл бұрын
Interesting video, Tripp. And definitely true! I've spent 6 years with a guy who I wasn't physically attracted to in the beginning. But we connected so perfectly on an emotional level, that I fell for him anyway. What ultimately broke us up, was his reactive nature. He wasn't a leader in any way. He avoided discussions and conflict at all cost. And I could NOT live with that. I definitely need a guy who can walk with me, instead of just following along.
@jasonsturgeon12524 жыл бұрын
I lost a girl because I tripped to much I said I'd hey my shit together . She stopped talking to me and seen I was getting my shit together on social media sure enough she messages me this happened twice now she said I'm full of shit and I lost her lesson learned
@reactionpk34752 жыл бұрын
I think your ex bf has adhd.
@eduardmanecuta53502 жыл бұрын
And did you understood why he was like that or just asume things about him?
@eduardmanecuta53502 жыл бұрын
A lot of his advice work if you go for toxic woman's/girls. If she loves you, she doesn't play games. Like everytime you need to prove yourself or something. My value is not given by someone else perception of me. Because sometiems they are wrong. A lot of people and in toxic relationships because they are in a hurry to hook up. And that's another subject why... They don't even know each other, but they are in a hurry to go nowhere. Before I go in a relationship with you I wait. He is advising to go ahead. I don't agree. I want to know who are you before I invest my feelings and time in you. Are you good for my mental health? Are you pleased to be around? What are your values? What can you afor to this relationship? Are you kind? Are you narcissistic, entitled? Do you want a family, children? Do we have similar hobbies? How do you treat someone who you deem inferior to you? Do you give what you ask? Are you religious?... And after I see what pro and cons are for me to enter in the relationship I take a decision. A lot of people don't even think before they enter a relationship or why they want one. And they are surprise why it didn't work. In reality a lot of them shouldn't even start a relationship... Avoid to waste my time and I yours.
@kyfresh2death2 жыл бұрын
This is no place for you get out of the manisphere lol
@nandu1770 Жыл бұрын
Man, I was so obsessed with her. She always acted like she liked me. I finally took the courage to sent her a confession. And I expressed it through a letter. She respectfully said she sees me just as a friend. Man it hurts so bad. Now i dont know how I will face her.
@gunnymoney336910 ай бұрын
I’ve been there bro. It’s never a good feeling!
@oblivious1082 жыл бұрын
As far as I can tell, I'll always be rejected by women. I may as well give up since I'm just going to be alone for the rest of my life.
@SunglassesatKnight88Ай бұрын
What about if everytime I am “proactive”, I am still being rejected and friend zoned?
@jameshumphries50595 жыл бұрын
I don’t want one night stands I only want a relationship at this point in my life. When on a date how can I tell if the girl is on the same page as me? Can I just ask are you looking for a relationship or is that something I shouldn’t bring up? I want to ask early so I don’t waste my time and money.
@Michaeltison73 жыл бұрын
show her u like her don’t tell her,whatever way she reacts is how she feels
@laughtherapey3 жыл бұрын
Cap. Girls don't even wanna talk to you if you ain't hot enough for them. If you are hot than they might give you a chance.
@UnknownUnknown-eq5bj3 жыл бұрын
EXATCLY IM PROB GONNA DIE A VIRGIN
@fflori64293 жыл бұрын
If you’re hot you might give her a chance mate , not her give you a chance
@bobrew4615 жыл бұрын
sometimes women reject a guy that they think is BETTER than they are. because they are intimidated by him. That's not mentioned here...
@halo0914 жыл бұрын
Could you give an example where that really happened
@samfatima44262 жыл бұрын
Thats what I'm going through as a woman 👩
@greganderson22398 ай бұрын
Not really unless she’s a weirdo
@sonofmeagherofthesword19035 жыл бұрын
Because of your face, even if you're 6'2 225lbs muscular at 10% body fat. Give it up, looks matter, especially face. PERIOD.
@Barbarian6465 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@allenwong75075 жыл бұрын
Son of Meagher of the Sword true
@Barbarian6465 жыл бұрын
TRIPP - admit the FACE is initially the most important thing...
@sonofmeagherofthesword19035 жыл бұрын
@@Barbarian646 Like why doesn't he tell men to improve themselves in the most important way over a couple years of so called self improvement. Sure you'll get money and confidence, but that won't matter when women don't find you sexually attractive. Working up and being over 6ft can help, but that's not going to bring you from a 5 to an 8. Maybe 5 to 6, but your upper limit is your face. Working out and losing body fat can help define and shape your face, but it won't help for guys who have say recessed chins, poor jawline structure, no jawline or weakly formed jawlines. Working out and getting a good body and having good height will only get you attractive women if your face is at least average looking like a 5/10. If you're below that, you can get surgery or find natural remedies for whatever facial flaws you have. I for instance don't have a strong chin but it is not a recessed chin, just kinda weak looking, I let my facial hair grow only around my chin to cover it up, but shaved my sideburns because I have a good jawline to show my attractive features, and try to hide my unattractive features. That can help you as well.
@kayondothomas73435 жыл бұрын
Look at these amateurs...Women LUST for LOOKS but fall in LOVE with PERSONALITY. So pick which you want, Lust or Love, then attract her based on that. goodluck side note: looks dont last, personality lasts.
@grandlethal18133 жыл бұрын
I get rejected cause I'm fat and ugly
@Elchupa_Nebrea2 ай бұрын
25yrs ago I was deeply hurt by a woman that stole my child away from me. So I didn't approach women ever since until recently. I have had a crush on a girl that showed some love back then, so I gathered up my courage and went and told her that. I told her she is my fantasy! She told me Fantasy's and reality are two different things. Crushed again, Its a cold world out there guys, don't be a idiot like me
@kyfresh2death2 жыл бұрын
I don't even bother approaching anymore all they do is say they have a man. If it was chad or tyrone she'd say yes in a heartbeat and would clear her schedule for you lol.
@v4l3nt1nn Жыл бұрын
even as a Chad or Tyrone dating life can be complicated. Look at Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt, or even Will Smith. If you are really powerful, you must be like Leo di Caprio
@ryantherock76645 жыл бұрын
How is the book different to your online course?
@Nightmare_-ix7dk3 ай бұрын
Women will reject you even if you are her best option , it feeds their shallow ego so as soon as you accept her rejection and go no contact she starts to hate you (posting stories to hopefully hurt you) that means she liked you but shot herself in the foot. Now her only option is to come back and text you 1week to a month later.
@SumSock415 жыл бұрын
i lost a huge oportunity with a gorgeous girl cause i take too long to try something! its a fraction of time that opens up for u to act! IF this fracation time was opened! once closed, hardly opened again!
@jamescollett262510 ай бұрын
What exactly happened if you don’t mind me asking
@SumSock4110 ай бұрын
@@jamescollett2625 when a Girl looked at you on the street, maybe you have only 30 secconds to approach her or she loses interesting
@abraradib63533 жыл бұрын
This video is 100 times educative than my 15 years study life
@johnmivule-novabow81435 жыл бұрын
What is thy secret technique of FRACTIONATION?
@Cahden5 жыл бұрын
Fractionation...I’ve done a video on it, but it’s basically using techniques like push pull to send women on an emotional rollercoaster to get her addicted to you
@adecentyoutuber7407 Жыл бұрын
I had a few very close friends that friendzoned me(I heard through the grape vine and one confirmed directly that she didn't reciprocate the same feelings for me). I had to create distance and not hang with them after being like the "mayor" of the group. I boiled it down to they either thought they could do better, didn't find me that attractive, saw some other flaws, or had their own insecurities or weird preferences(I base this off some of the other guys they had gone out with). Based on this, I figured why hang with them and they could go hang out with "better" guys. Some said I came across as a friend and didn't make intentions clear. I get that to a degree, but People don't understand that in these cases feelings may grow over time and guys like myself also may want to fully vet the person, the vibe, and the connection before going in that deep, especially if it is a friend and you're in a friend group. In fact, one girl I had some interest in I eventually pulled out because of certain factors and it was definitely the right choice- I avoided the problems I could have had in a relationship with her. End of the day, I think it comes down to the The factors listed in this video and what I stated. If say Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling was their friend for a bit, they'd jump at the chance of dating him if he expressed interest down the line or became single/available.
@GSE14803 жыл бұрын
That is true..if you are not tall with nice body and handsome with big pines .You will have only 2% of women .How you going to get a women if you are not working somewhere or studying with ladies together..to find women only on the road or parks or bards or gym is so difficult to have good result after approaching Her as she doesn’t know you well specially if you are below average looking guy.
@tomaespham5 жыл бұрын
copped it in audible
@dailmcdavid69433 жыл бұрын
Well being nice gentlemanlike pleasant got me NOWHERE to romance my qualities didn't apply to them I was a fly who kept getting squatted it doesn't matter about a man's personality if women don't find you attractive you will not be Respected and Be despised FACTS
@UnknownUnknown-eq5bj3 жыл бұрын
I strongly agree. I'm gonna keep getting rejected and die a virgin
@MikeHersnt5 жыл бұрын
What's up bro! Physical attraction is definitely a significant factor to get girls. Creating attraction without this might take you sometime or even get rejected. Great tips bro! Thanks for sharing them. Keep it up.🙏
@chuckcollins2349 Жыл бұрын
You can't create attraction.
@jamesowen493811 ай бұрын
Physical attraction is the only factor. Period.
@chuckcollins234911 ай бұрын
@@jamesowen4938 Physical attraction is the table setter.
@rustyshackleford24633 жыл бұрын
I got drunk and poured my heart out to her. Thought we were further than what we actually are. She hasn't said anything back. Fucking hurts guys.
@jacobpetty94273 жыл бұрын
I feel you man. I did the same thing but sober. I just told her how I felt calmly and told her I just wanted to be friends and if she liked me back we could move to a relationship. But last night I went to the bar and her friends were there and told me everything that she wasn't telling me and it kinda hurt. Just gotta pick myself back up and move on.
@rustyshackleford24633 жыл бұрын
@@jacobpetty9427 we'll make it bro
@bigneiltoo10 ай бұрын
4) She knows you can have other women like the waitress and bartender and it's a power play.
@allenwong75075 жыл бұрын
Who else get the "I wish I could meet someone like you" from girls?
@timguccione20095 жыл бұрын
lit weed That pisses me off immensely! Or if they say you’re a “Great Guy” but have no follow up. Yeah, I know I am. Every one has told me that. I don’t need that assurance. I just want the chance to show a woman that on another level.
@bonbonl79075 жыл бұрын
Lol never
@bonbonl79075 жыл бұрын
@@timguccione2009 yea it happens a lot
@absb.59785 жыл бұрын
That is brutal. I apologize on behalf of all females!
@thenonpoliticalpterodactyl79333 жыл бұрын
@@timguccione2009 I think the reason they say that is because they already formed a friend/sibling relationship with you and they can't think of you in any other way, but they still appreciate your good qualities (caring, strong ect.) so in the term "I hope I find someone like you" they are really just saying that they care about your relationship too much to risk ruining it, but they still care about you and think you're cool... but idk I've never had a male friend so I wouldn't know if that was the real reason. (I'm a girl)
@phumudzotshithavhana3875 жыл бұрын
I need some advice I'm in a situation where 2 girls in my class like me but I like the 1 more than the other so I don't know what to do.
@jgthriller07995 жыл бұрын
Phumudzo Tshithavhana go with the one you like😂
@privxete40895 жыл бұрын
The girl who can cook and clean and is the woman and not the boss
@phumudzotshithavhana3875 жыл бұрын
@@jgthriller0799 it's not as easy as you think I don't want them fighting over me
@phumudzotshithavhana3875 жыл бұрын
@@privxete4089 I'm still in high school buddy
@privxete40895 жыл бұрын
@@phumudzotshithavhana387 get them both
@joemcelveen61133 жыл бұрын
Ive had women to give me there number and afterwards i call them and they act like they dont want to talk, and another time a girl sent me a picture of a weird bald guy and said thats what i think you look like, and thats after she gave me her number. Can you help me?
@ExtremeFader5 жыл бұрын
Every video man. You kill it.
@ShinobiDreads2 ай бұрын
I got the worst rejection ever about 30 minutes ago. I asked a female for the first time is she from here. She told me don't ask her that and first of all don't ever ask her no f##### question like that. I am never asking that question again in my life.
@JohnSmith-ij4xe2 ай бұрын
Yup #3 but I look at it as it wasn’t meant to be as it goes on my timeline not hers. Getting women emotionally attached to me is super easy for me. If she rejects me I just respect it and walk away and give her 0 air or free rent-in my head. Often times they regret it as they don’t get a second chance as I don’t play games. I just go find someone else
@Someguywithalotoftism3 жыл бұрын
I think I was too fast, I always go fast in everything with my life. So it's never "the right time". It sucks. I'm very physically attractive
@josephcioe46975 жыл бұрын
Hey Tripp give me a genuine honest answer. So the videos I've have watched lately were you explaining how to be less boring. This is where I fall behind. Now I have very unusual interests. I don't watch sports I don't play video games I don't watch movies, I educate myself in philosophical subjects such as epistemology or political science. Is there anything I can do with this when it comes to women? Or do I need to find something more normal
@spctr_.5 жыл бұрын
Honestly Jospeh. Just be yourself around the girl. If you interesting or not. It does not matter. Just work on yourself. Work on yourself physically and mentally. Build confidence. Show a women what you want in your life. Show confidence. Talk with pride. If a girl likes you or not. Dose not matter. In order to love someone. You got to love yourself. Also a good tip would be. If text a girl you are interested. Don’t get mad. Just move on with your life. Go hangout with friends. Keep learning. She will either A message you back or B she doesn’t. There are many women out there. Why should you waste your one life on one girl who doesn’t care.
@josephcioe46975 жыл бұрын
@@spctr_. thanks
@JK-np8dr5 жыл бұрын
I'm suffering from #3... but at the same time, when I get proactive, I appear too keen... goddamit!!
@Muslim_israeli2 жыл бұрын
I was rejected by someone who told me she was ultra-Orthodox and I was "only religious". It sucks, but we'll move on
@khayil11 ай бұрын
As a woman I agree with what you said in the video. I just want to add another reason why I reject men. If a man doesn’t meet my standards, expectations, or respect my boundaries then I reject them. And when I say standard or expectations I mean I require a man to be financially stable, mature..etc it’s different things that I’m looking for along with physical attraction, and if it’s not there then no need to waste time. Everybody’s different. When I find someone that can meet my standards and expectations and respect my boundaries I’m all for it until then I’ll remain single
@pooptricks79067 ай бұрын
Yeah well you better have money and skills and work hard too you phattie
@noluvchanties62123 жыл бұрын
The past is the past. But currently i dont like you. So accept rejection. As i accept you getting me fired. Accept that we'll never be anything but hated enemies just like i accept that ill never speak to my mom again. Accept the now as the now it is. I sure have.
@user-op8ww7zk5b7 ай бұрын
I had a weird rejection at the gym in my mind I thought she was giving me choosing signals she would put herself in my vicinity so I went for it she said she is married but I don’t believe her
@ianbetts44352 жыл бұрын
Anything other than yes is no.
@Chickenpesto2468 Жыл бұрын
So a girl in my Spanish class flirts with me goes put of my way to talk to me laughs at my jokes like every single one. She finds me Instagram dms me we hit it off again shoot my shot says yes. Fast forward she ghosts me and it says she is dating someone but she down to be friends
@BisonNews1 Жыл бұрын
same shit...laughs at all my jokes, shoot my shot and get no reply back
@fuzzypanda16846 ай бұрын
As a guy who, over the course of many years, went from a skinny, shy, insecure, unconfident guy who did terribly with women, to a man with a physique like Thor, who's outgoing, charismatic and confident...who still does terribly with women, I can assure you that it's not your looks, attractiveness, level of confidence, personality or anything else that's responsible for your success of lack thereof with women. It all comes down to what difficulty setting your life has been set to. All the short, out of shape, introverted, insecure guys out there who somehow are with insanely hot girls are living life on "Easy" mode, while the guys who are the opposite of all of those who can't get interest from any girl they're interested in are living on "Nightmare" mode. That's it.
@rcmcguyver7561 Жыл бұрын
On dating sites and apps i always get comments saying that I'm nice handsom or cute make me feel unattractive and I've had 2 ladies say they just wanted to be friends before we even met face to face
@user-yv1fh3fc8y2 жыл бұрын
Rejecting is a test, if you come crawling back again, you’re just her type.
@SunshineSuperstar Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@andyc9902 Жыл бұрын
Really?
@accountnotfound12_67 Жыл бұрын
"Rejecting is a test"🤣BULLSHIT
@oscarsaucedo13102 жыл бұрын
I will tell women if all u wanna do is reject me then you go right ahead do what you gotta do I hate rejection but we all go through it me 3 times my brother twice
@TikiFoamy382 жыл бұрын
I'm down 60 pounds (so far) and I noticed women are approaching me more often now
@brynx243 жыл бұрын
shes always staring at me in class but idk how to just tell her
@dozenflame42473 жыл бұрын
Ask her out my guy or just approach her
@johnpolese6575 Жыл бұрын
She is either into you or not. It is that simple. You can do everything "right" and she can still reject you for whatever reason. Just need to find someone who is into you as you are in her. There are so many women in the world it will happen eventually.
@manosijroy8282 Жыл бұрын
But what if literally every women reject me? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. I got rejected by 3 girls very recently(I got rejected by 7 girls so far in total). I got blocked by 2 of them on Instagram after I asked them out and they were in the same school as me too and one of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but blocked me after few days. Today I tried asking out another girl who is 20 and she too was in the same school as me and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she too rejected me saying that I am nice but she isn't comfortable with meeting up with me so we can't meet up and she unfollowed me on Instagram. I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her too but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I am still waiting for her reply and I am honestly expecting a positive reply but idk.
@chuckcollins234911 ай бұрын
@@manosijroy8282Apparently your not attractive in the eyes of women.
@_classic-pd9pn2 жыл бұрын
All of three are true in my case ... And i don't want girl anymore... Focus on making money 💰💰💸💸 boom you'll get 100 girls
@edmoncruz21775 жыл бұрын
Do you know fractionation? Can you explain it?
@mustaphadoaa10245 жыл бұрын
Fractionation is about the alternation between positive and negative emotions generated in a woman, and repeating it all over again.
@Cahden5 жыл бұрын
It’s essentially the use of something called the push pull to send her on and emotional roller coaster while creating addiction in her
@sir.confident Жыл бұрын
Reason 4: It's not your calling to be in a relationship. If only incels understood that, they'd be happier and they wouldn't be incels.
@richardsuero25503 жыл бұрын
Well I'm three out of three. Great
@macaroni1853 жыл бұрын
lol
@dididisun2 ай бұрын
You are so right about this!!!
@toteslakots955 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know Andrew Garfield is making dating videos
@3xitt5 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video - looks like I finally found a trustworthy source of dating advices...
@savingcpr54503 жыл бұрын
Instructions unclear; ended up with a broken nose, not just heart
@terrencemilton50885 ай бұрын
If she blocks you that means rejection. Understand..bye Felicia
@LeoTheToonBoy5 ай бұрын
Or,it could be I’m just as ugly as I think..
@maahirlokhandwala67395 жыл бұрын
Good video Tripp. Love from Mumbai city brother.
@zainakbar3158 Жыл бұрын
I am seeing this girl for more than a year in my university because she is beautiful like roses for me.She is totally strange and I never met her before but i used to see her everyday and i am damn sure she also used to look at me while i was looking to her. So whatever, one day after so much courage i got to her without knowing anything and asked her semester in shaky voice as i was nervous af and she told me her semester after i asked her twice😂 and then i told her that YOU ALSO KNOW THAT I LIKE YOU and she was like I KNOW THAT? I AM SEEING YOU FIRST TIME. 😂 She was lying for real. And i came back smiling without saying anything. Now its been almost 3 months i told her. I am seeing her everyday and she also does the same thing. I wait for her every hour like when will she come and say to me " I WAS NOT FAIR TO YOU THAT DAY I SHOULD HAVE UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH STRENGTH IT TAKES WHILE SOMEONE DOES THIS THING" but my hope just vanishes everyday like sunset🙂. I am just nervous as should i talk to her again or just let her go? Because my self respect gets hurt if i go back and it also hurts when i think she is not with me.....