7 Reasons Why She Comes Back After Rejecting You (Must Know)🔥

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[@a.b5625]

1- the guy she really wanted has made it clear he doesn't want her. 2- the other guys she really wanted ain't making time for her after getting what they wanted from her 3- she needs an ego boost to feel good again and you do that well with the attention you give her. 4-all her previous options have moved on and you're the best out of a crap bunch of options she has remaining. 5- she's had enough fun and games and wants to see what she can get from you if she gives you a chance. 6- she's just bored currently she will reject you again once someone else who excites her shows interest. 7- she has well and truly hit the wall and no longer attracts her ideal type or balanced men, she doesn't like you but you're the safest option left and the only one willing to take her seriously.

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for those other options that can absolutely be true!

[@frankt.1391]

​@CREATIVE MINDSET Get yourself a woman from another country no matter the religion or country. Trans women are also a good option if you don't plan children. People's minds will change in regard to that. If a a woman can't have a child, what is a trans woman different than? I've seen a lot of trans women that look 50 times better than your average woman. If you're not wanting to have children don't die alone. Women have no mercy, they will pay for their behavior karma is coming don't worry, but you don't have to be the looser in these times of trouble. This advice is coming from a young white european (straight guy - hate men how they look, love female body) Do the right thing don't fall into depression buddy.

[@valentin.98]

The seventh sentence is brutal

[@paolopellegrino9915]

Raw and spot on

[@D-A-N-]

@@frankt.1391 trans?? Disgusting

[@MrLaCubanisima]

This is so accurate Maritza. If she doesn’t appreciate your presence, bless her with your absence.

[@Soulbooklet]

Yes, my love right on❤️

[@chrisperrins8082]

Absolutely dead right

[@drewstevens5771]

She not right your just a simp her target audience 😂😂

[@pepi1966]

​@SoulBooklet With Maritza, I would marry you in Australia ❤

[@Npc1488-wc1kf]

Im being taken for granted was a phrase that keot popping into my mind Im gonna more strict in myself and demanding of others

[@ellesartelcontar153]

Women often think that "the grass is greener on the other side" but once they find out that there is NO grass on the other side to begin with, then they start to rethink their choices and maybe think about that they had made a mistake. Dont make it easy for them. Because you are worth no matter what she, or anyone else thinks. You are valued :)

[@Soulbooklet]

Ellesar, those are powerful words you said, thank you for sharing them🌸

[@Moonless6491]

It's simple guys: She thought she had other options, but came back to ol' reliable because she's lonely. She'll leave again as soon as a "better" option presents itself. She probably desires a bad boy, but will come crawling back when bad boy leaves her a single mother. All of a sudden, stability and kindness looks great for baby.

[@Soulbooklet]

Any option is possible, but it’s best to weigh out your own options and benefits before taking someone back

[@bjb2309]

These people who do this are personality disordered. They will do the push pull thing to anyone who allows it. They're never happy for long and constantly need to find the greener grass only to burn the whole garden. Leave it and work on yourself. You don't want these people in your life bringing chaos to your peace. And for those who can't, who find themselves going back to this game, you're probably codependent or personality disordered yourself and need to work on yourself big time and get to the root cause of it. If you don't, you'll continue attracting these people into your life. Hope these harsh truths help someone who needs to hear it. It needs to be called out for what it is.

[@stephens4175]

this applies to even if there is no pregnancy, they realize they were used and want real love suddenly, but don't kid yourself, once they see something else they like they won't care again

[@inspektorsx683]

It's a trap my friends, she didn't catch the Chad Vader so she gets back at you as a last option, never accept that, stay strong and never lose your dignity.

[@Soulbooklet]

Yes that's a valid possibility 🥂

[@paulweston285]

@@Soulbooklet Its a probability

[@raxxtango]

you loved her face, her body, her laugh, the scent of her neck, the taste of her lips...when she tuned cold and indifferent, mean and bitter and projected all of her daddy issues on you and expected you to take care of everything and she had zero expectation of herself to be a decent human being or show compassion, love attention or affection...it was over and you walk away. you never return, because that magical person you met is never going to be the the person you originally met.

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much for sharing this, this sounds like you fell in love with a complete lie, the only good thing is that you live in learn this experience has taught you a lot💕 thank you for watching

[@edwardmylnychuk5774]

GET A REALITY CHECK YOU ARE BEING PLAYED TILL THE NEX T TIME

[@JazG.-po5mv]

So true

[@joedrummond946]

She doesn't come back for you she comes back to save herself because it didnt work out with the new guy do not kid yourselves they only return to save themselves from the destruction they caused themselves by leaving your protection. Never forget your worth kings and stay toxic!

[@Soulbooklet]

Hi Jose, thank you for your thoughts, you are right, that could be a high probability🌸

[@YieldOfDreamz]

Because even though she does not want you and never will, it pains her to see you are no longer paying her any attention and giving it to someone else. Do not fall for it, the minute you give her attention again, you will be dropped like a brick.

[@MrLaCubanisima]

💯

[@Soulbooklet]

Every situation is different but yes, we have to analyze all outcomes❤️

[@wayneshawlinski4898]

An ex is an ex for a reason. Next

[@trainingwithben]

Truest comment here. Attention has always been currency for most women. Which is fine if it's genuine, *and* reciprocated, appreciated. However, social media has categorically created more and more narcissists and narcissistic behavior, And conditioned Women primarily to see others as a source of attention, weather in the forms of likes and hearts or dms. And men, being statistically more visually driven, take the bait, and "simp" far too easily. Just look at the average growth rate of an Instagram or TikTok account of girls posting sensual content. We have created the equivalent of an entire nation of spoiled and self indulgent "child stars" - Or people who have contributed little or nothing of worth, yet have thousands of people pedestalyzing them. It's also rewired our brains incentive reward system in a terrible way. Adolescent and young adult girls rates of self-deleting has seen yet another uptick this last year. At some point we need to recognize that attention doesn't equal intention, and not everyone praising you actually cares about you.

[@Tonytayloring]

Not all women are born to be run over. Else you will give love & attention to no one even the good women

[@jerrycarney1209]

And when she tries to Slingback you look her right in the eye and say "You didn't want me then What makes you think I need you now."

[@Soulbooklet]

My dear Jerry, those are wise words you said💝 maybe you can listen to her and see what she has to say, but for the most part, it's best to be strong.

[@oscargonza2748]

I like to one more to your list, most women come back after rejecting a guy is because they test the guy to see how much he wants her by playing hard to get and force the guy to desperately chase her, but the guy does not give in to her test and just ignores her, but thats when the tables are turned and she begins to chase him, but by then he's moved on and she's left wonderiing why he keeps ignoring her

[@Soulbooklet]

Ok that's a great one too ❤️ thank you for adding it

[@a.b5625]

If she's playing hard to get she does NOT like you..and it's more a game to her where she thrives of the attention and chasing you do ..women do not reject men they like, they go above and beyond for such men..cancel plans with friends, cancel dates with other men, cancel work ,call in sick to spend more time, spend her money to see him, treat and impress him and most importantly they try to be in his physical presence asap!!! With a good 75% chance of creating a physical sexual interaction

[@oscargonza2748]

I agree with everything you said, bruh, thanks for the reminder, women will indeed make it clear that they are attracted to you by their actions, Amen

[@emanuelfer456]

There's no test involved, that's bs! While she "test" she is rotating dicks and see if any of them stick, if not she goes back.

[@AmJusSaiyan]

@@a.b5625 wrong. sometimes, the guy that she likes the most, is the guy she plays hard to get with, because she wants you to respect her because she wants it all with you. the other guys, she doesn't care what they think about her, so she'll get drunk and sleep with them.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

The best way to find out if she's serious about coming back is to make her make the first move to come back and make sure she's genuine about it. I'm going through this now. I don't think she's a game player she just didn't see my that way and now maybe she does. I'll pursue on my own time but I'm not asking her out again. She'll have to come to me.

[@Soulbooklet]

Oh, thank you for sharing that, as long as you have clarity of why she didn’t want you before and honesty is on the table, then you act as your mind and heart, tell you to act🌸

[@jalalelyas1057]

I am going thru the same situation with one girl at the gym. She always gets on my way, takes quick glances at me, acts weird in my presence in hopes I catch her staring at me. It’s annoying situation but I would really appreciate a feedback on what I need to do

[@birhanjommy]

She told the truth, excellent video. If a man was innocent in a relationship, and the woman unfairly rejected him, sooner or later she will definitely be punished with guilt. I was rejected by my ex-wife despite my true love for her and my dedication to keeping the family alive. Now, 8 years later, I'm still single but have managed to move on with a contented attitude toward life and healing from my battered self-esteem.

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much, you're a great example of coming out better and stronger. I hope you don't give up on love and wish it comes soon to you again.🫶 I invite you to subscribe❤️

[@JAYSMOOTHism]

It took you 8 years later😮

[@Mannin_Watch_Time]

A down to earth lady is rare these days. Well said everyone should find someone who’s willing to stick through the good and bad, ride or die. You don’t find loyalty in the pound or the dollar, as you say money comes and goes.

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for adding such valuable words to the video ❤️ I invite you to subscribe

[@piotrs.7189]

Money and my fitness are my priorities. They never disappointed me unlike some women :) Congrats on 2k subs!

[@Soulbooklet]

Good priorities . But also my love , find your self a nice humble honest lady . 🥂😘thx for the congrats

[@JazG.-po5mv]

$100 will always be $100

[@markh4926]

My wife left one morning and never returned, this after 22 years. If you want to play these games don't do it with a man or woman who has been so severely rejected, he may never allow you within a hundred yards of himself. This girl I liked a lot did that to me even though she knew my wife left like that. She tried to come back and I told her to go away. She spent the next year trying to get close to me but I can't take that shit.

[@Soulbooklet]

You are one strong man Mark. Strong for opening up with us., and strong for proving you don’t allow anyone to step on you.💕

[@supernotnatural]

If your wife left then this means you did something stupid, insecure and she was just done with you. If we only saw your life, how feminine or insecure you pretended and let her rule over you and she was done with you. Women dont dump men they are in love with and it didn't happen in 1 sec. It was a whole process.

[@Npc1488-wc1kf]

I have no respect for cold people It shows how worthless their inner self really is

[@ronmichaels9761]

Your positive attitude is infectious. Thanks!!!!

[@Soulbooklet]

Those are very sweet words. Thank you, Ron.

[@southwind73]

Never be anyone second choice!

[@Soulbooklet]

Very smart thinking southwind 💗

[@kylefng]

Good one! If someone wants space, give them the universe. When they circle back it will be the same or worse.

[@Soulbooklet]

There you go ! Saying good things 😁🥂

[@believe3402]

You are absolutely right! It's too late to realized. It's her loss not mine! She's not worth it to live for.

[@Soulbooklet]

That’s a good outlook, though it can happen that they realize they did. Love you., but then you have to realize if they are what you need in your life.

[@a.b5625]

Fellas pick a start date and dedicate 6 -18 months to self improvement.. financial, mental health and physical health.. start an additional job, read books socialise privately only with those friends that are successful,smart, motivating and humble .. save money!!!, ignore women, bars, clubs, social media etc hibernate and develop yourself and naturally you'll become more confident, attractive, and have more money when the 6-18 months are ove, go buy new clothes a new car, decorate or move house and you'll be much more vibrant, upbeat and enthusiastic especially when you go out / start socialising again rejoin social media etc and you'll attract much better in all aspects of life...women included, multiple women..and you won't ever care about rejection again you'll be to busy

[@Soulbooklet]

My God! You drew me into your message as if I was reading a story, amazing advice💗 thank you for sharing those words of wisdom for all the gentleman out there!

[@jcart5731]

But no matter what you do, NEVER disrespect the girl who rejected you. act like nothin happens, act like the rejection didn't even bother you. don't ever planning on taking revenge to them especially if it's a violent one. Be kind to them always even if it hurts you inside. always show them respect and wish them have a great life and that's how being a MAN really is.

[@ranjanudayashankar1569]

Do you recommend I block them on social media and whatsapp if they rejected me but did it in a lying way?

[@Soulbooklet]

You are a gentleman. Thank you for that response.🌸

[@Soulbooklet]

Yes, I recommend you not giving space in your mind to think of someone who wasn’t honest with you and who used you for any advantage, and then blocking them stops you from reaching out I absolutely recommend it❤️

[@ranjanudayashankar1569]

@@Soulbooklet thank you so much for your advice

[@TheFeezy777]

Man WTF you being kind to her for? She rejected you. She dont care about your feelings. Thats not kind of her. So why the fuckk would you be kind to her? Man Fuckk that.

[@jossell911]

Great vid!!! Quick and understandable!!! Bless💯

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for watching. I appreciate that.

[@timledbetter1781]

If she rejects me, I'm older and past games, I won't bother anymore, I'm gone

[@Soulbooklet]

That's great ! That's what maturity does , it teaches us !

[@Jarr25395]

Thank you so much ❤ this made me stronger.

[@Soulbooklet]

hello Jarrel. Believe me when I tell you, that those beautiful words you tell me ,melt my heart. 💕 have a wonderful week ahead.

[@sonnymoon9721]

I like this video ! Thank you Maritza !

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for enjoying them in for your nice comments

[@johnnycorn7225]

I will take this type, immediately notice their deep need for ego gratification, play along well, and then say u have to earn my time, energy, and effort now, priceless.

[@Soulbooklet]

Good one 🫶👌🏻

[@rickcanencia5762]

Great video! Thank you 💙🙏

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much for watching. I am glad you enjoyed.

[@MadeInTheStruggleProgram]

Like how she mixes that latin flavor - SOMETHING KZbin IS DEFINITELY MISSING. Good Job, Homegirl 🎉🎉🎉

[@Soulbooklet]

Wow Jay, what a special compliment, Thank you.🌸 I’m glad you enjoyed.

[@jerry2968]

No thanks once you reject me I have to move on because, I don't trust that you won't do it again.

[@Soulbooklet]

OK Jeffrey, you have a right to stand in your ground and having respect for yourself❤️

[@streetshark6735]

Thank you for this, I realize it is true and it takes time. I am in no contact and it is very rough but she needs to feel to realize. Hearing this video I see she took me for granted.

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for the nice message, and I’m happy this can help you in anyway💕

[@gertwallen]

Very smart advice, always strive for the best, never settle for being the 2nd option

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much ! I'm glad you appreciate ❤️

[@tejuscoulagi9427]

I'm in this EXACT situation right now. 18 days after refusing to see me before I went abroad, maintaining radio silence, ending our relationship with each other on Facebook and changing herself to single. I went no contact, deleted her pics off my social media and MOVED ON...now she's messaging my best friend saying how much she misses me, sent me a message asking if I'm okay...I'm being curt...that door is closed and "Ridin Solo" is playing in my mind 😂❤

[@Soulbooklet]

Sounds to me like she regrets her fast and absurd actions . Analyze why the breakup took place . And see if she can mature up! Because her actions were all out of anger and not well based ❤️

[@jermainepatterson3213]

Making these videos give reminds us to keep passionate but remember our worth

[@Soulbooklet]

That's it my jeramaine, always smart ❤️

[@joseabad2552]

Thanks for the advice have a fantastic day ❤

[@Soulbooklet]

You are very kind thank you for watching and enjoying the videos.💕

[@stanbogdanovecz1300]

You are such a sweetheart and thank you for your help through a tough time 😍

[@Soulbooklet]

You are so welcome . Thank yuh so much for these nice words 😘

[@user-qs6jf1wf5n]

This sounded like a motivation🔥

[@Soulbooklet]

hey Nhlanha, first time I see you in the chats, thanks for watching great unique name you have.💕

[@sd-cf8vr]

Your words are so true... you are Excellent... ❤

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much for those meaningful words❤️

[@ellistang6731]

I really like the way she presented this video , i just agree with all the things she said

[@Soulbooklet]

thank you so much Eli's. I am glad you enjoyed it.❤️

[@philipskrusso1153]

Well presented our dear Maritza

[@Soulbooklet]

thank you my Philipsk 💕

[@user-tj2ws1ri4p]

Great, balanced advice!!!

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for watching, I am glad you found it balanced, and useful🥂

[@pjdavis4420]

Ty I needed this 💯

[@Soulbooklet]

Your very welcome Pj 🌸 makes me happy you found it useful

[@arifashraf8569]

Beautiful video!

[@Soulbooklet]

thank you so much❤️ glad you enjoyed it

[@crow3696]

finally a smart talking woman nice video

[@Soulbooklet]

Those are some special words. Thank you sir.💕

[@learnpianofastonline]

I am new to your channel, and I definitely appreciate this video!

[@Soulbooklet]

That is so special thank you so much and welcome to the channel Kris.💕

[@devilsadvocacy]

She thought she was going to get with a hotter guy, and crashed/burned instead. You’re just the backup plan

[@Soulbooklet]

It’s all a possibility my dear George ❤️

[@josephisaacs4172]

Thank you Maritza, right now it hurts but I don't think I will want her back if she trys to come back.

[@Soulbooklet]

Good for you my love it's your decision

[@dejenebeyene6572]

No words to appreciate you !!!

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much, I appreciate and value your kindness towards me❤️

[@IntrusiveVirgo212]

I like that she actually gives it to you accurately from a women's standpoint, don't get me wrong the guys giving their version of it in the comments have truth but some is a bit more on the side of unresolved emotions from past experiences

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you G for enjoying and appreciating ❤️

[@exploreglobe5318]

Wonderful words ❤ this is my first video of yours appreciate your words keep up your good work

[@Soulbooklet]

You are so sweet thank you very much, I invite you to subscribe to the channel❤️

[@exploreglobe5318]

@@Soulbooklet 👍done

[@Soulbooklet]

@@exploreglobe5318 wonderful 💗

[@jh230377]

This is sooo true. Gracias Mi Amor ❤❤👍

[@Soulbooklet]

You are so welcome💝thanks for watching

[@rob3oy658]

Yes, it happened to me, but never gave a second chance to anyone.

[@Soulbooklet]

It’s OK to listen and see peoples responses, but for the most part, it’s best to move on

[@christian94stefon]

Nice this really help me a lot good video u guys way to go

[@Soulbooklet]

Very sweet I am glad it helped😘

[@christian94stefon]

@@Soulbooklet yeah I been rejected most of my whole life from age 10 all the way age 17 at the age of 18 when I was going to high school and had a girlfriend but she use me I'm now 29 now and still single growing strong until this day waiting for my soulmate my dream women

[@Soulbooklet]

Christian if you want my honest opinion on you after I see you , I will gladly have a video call with you . Find email I’m the description 🤝

[@christian94stefon]

what,s your gmail?

[@andressosa2153]

wow Maritza , This was happening to me . She was rejecting me, coming back , rejecting again. I a high valuable man that I need to respect myself. Thank you

[@Soulbooklet]

Andres ! We live and learn and only experiences teach us what we need and we deserve !

[@andressosa2153]

@@Soulbooklet it is hard because I love her so much but I need to respect myself in order to give love . Thank you 🙏🏻

[@Soulbooklet]

Be strong ! We are born alone , and we will leave this world alone. No one is indispensable !

[@driver3025]

AND THE TRUTH SHALL SET ME FREE.....!!!!!

[@Soulbooklet]

yes sir just like that! 🥂

[@bruthanextdoor1]

This is facts!

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for watching and for appreciating🌸

[@kyotosal]

Thank you sweetheart for this. I love you so much........Sal : )

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much for those sweet words for watching Kyotosal.🌸

[@stevenpatriquin3188]

her new guy turned out to be a looser,,,cut her loose,but make sure she knows you are doing great and keep her around in the friend zone just to rub it in, like woman do

[@Soulbooklet]

oh my 👀

[@nickblackman1992]

Someone who is Perfect does not exist!

[@Soulbooklet]

You are correct 100%

[@jdnrotterdam2150]

Exactly what my wife did to me. And know i’m done. We’re going to divorce. First i was destroyed now she’s the one crying

[@Soulbooklet]

Hello ! Thx for sharing that private story with us, I like happy endings, so I'm sorry this ended up like this❤️

[@jdnrotterdam2150]

@@Soulbooklet no this is very bad sad and painful ending. Because we have also a child . A household. A safe bubble. And all that is destroyed. I all started with a break that she wanted because she lost her feelings for me. And she started to acting cold to me. And sometimes she gave me the feelings that there was hope than pushing me away like acting cold again and rejecting me. A week later again she showed some love. I felt insecure needy and desperate. And it ended up that she cheated when i was at home with our child she slept with someone else. A day later she told me that she made a big mistake. And that she’s scared she screwed everything up. But now I’m done. This was to much for me. And what she didn’t said to me last month I said to her. I don’t want you anymore. Your disgusting. I want a divorce. I’m still in pain but that’s not because i lost her. It’s because my daughters safe bubble is destroyed our family life

[@Soulbooklet]

@@jdnrotterdam2150 I’m so sorry you are going through this. Do you really want a divorce or do you think there is any space for healing and reconciliation? The human is a complex creature, sometimes we need to find ourselves again in order to be the best of us in a relationship. If you need to talk, you can send me an email. Have a wonderful weekend., and if you decide not to take her back, then, that is what the world wanted for you, because everything in life happens for a reason❤️

[@jdnrotterdam2150]

@@Soulbooklet i believe that 2! No she had sex with someone else. That’s exit for me. It’s very painful but how can you do this to your family? I’m in allot of pain and don’t know how to handle it. Also dor my daughter it’s a big nightmare. Every morning when i wake up than i’m hoping that it’s a bad dream. But it’s not. I wish a nice sweet woman. That accepts me who i am. Who’s next to me also in bad and good times. And that i can trust that she won’t leave

[@Soulbooklet]

@@jdnrotterdam2150 im here if you need to talk ! 🙏🏻

[@rc2487]

A lot of times these type of girls are talking to other men that pedestalize them. She is not emotionally attached to you because she is exploring her options. She will test you to see what she can get away with or if you are going to be a pushover. Best thing to do is to let her know in the beginning of what expectations you have and that you do not tolerate nonsense. I understand that men are attracted to youth and beauty. However they need to realize that they can't treat women special if they are not reciprocating the same energy. If a woman disrespects you, try not to block her. Just ignore her like she doesn't exist. Find something to keep you distracted or do something that's going to benefit you, because she will know if you are playing games with her. Especially if you continue to talk to a mutual friend. Women don't value attention from men that they are already receive it from. They want attention from the guy that doesn't give it to her. Don't waste your time, money, energy or resources on these type of girls, because they won't appreciate it. They think that the Grass is greener on the other side. Once they start getting older. They won't receive the same amount of attention, because there is always going to be a new generation of younger girls that will receive more attention.

[@Soulbooklet]

RC. I am so proud of the man you are.❤️ so many can learn a lot from you🥂 Hope You Find Yourself an amazing woman, who appreciates such a wonderful person like you

[@rc2487]

Thank you so much, but I think that I had already given up on true love. I learned from bad experiences from previous relationships and I value your opinion on your videos on female nature. Not all women are going to be honest about how the female mind works.

[@eden6992]

I have watch more then 80 videos in couple of days but I only liked & feel like commenting here.. you are the best

[@Soulbooklet]

Your very special , thanks for saying so 🌸

[@guntertorfs6486]

Bandana lady ! Yes , some people don't realize what they have until it's gone. Exactly what you say. One thing though : between some people / couples it does last. So it is possible. Whether people want to stay with one person forever is another matter. You should use your Spanish more in your videos ; it sounds lovely with your natural accent. Adiós chica guapa !

[@Soulbooklet]

Hola mi Gunter . Gracias por tu lindo mensaje ❤️

[@guntertorfs6486]

@@Soulbooklet De nada !

[@inspektorsx683]

I try to watch other women talking about relationships sometimes Maritza, but they all lie, only you speak the truth.

[@Soulbooklet]

My Wellington you always go missing ! Good to know your there ❤️

[@inspektorsx683]

@@Soulbooklet My mind is a little bit "airy" this month Maritza, but I'll be back on track, I promise!

[@paulweston285]

Jessica J is probably the worst

[@owenbutcher1954]

Totally Agree Maritza 💎✨️

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for watching 💝

[@Ray-tf6yp]

Thanks buddy 🥰

[@Soulbooklet]

Your welcome Ray. thank you So much for appreciating❤️

[@TomFox1]

Let’s go!! 🙏👌

[@Soulbooklet]

im Glad your enjoying the videos ❤️

[@owenbutcher1954]

Maritza AWESOME 👌 👏 👍

[@Soulbooklet]

So sweet 💝

[@GRATEFULLY.MrJones]

Well done.

[@Soulbooklet]

well thank you mr Jones❤️

[@MrPapisucio]

I was ghosted this past week from a girl I had been dating for the past couple of months. It hurts even more because I already suffer from depression. She told me everything from "I made her feel safe," "she is not used to a respectable, kind, fun guy. I tried to be mysterious and fun with this girl, but I think she just got irritated with me. It's my fault. I kind of wish she would come back. Thank you Maritza

[@oscargonza2748]

It's ok bruh, if she likes you she's going to miss you and will come back to you, stay strong and don't worry too much about her not coming back, she just wanted space, let her have her space and don't worry too much about losing her, just focus on your wellbeing, and accupy your time staying busy working or fitness hobbies, your path and purpose, keep in mind when one door closes another one opens, bruh

[@Soulbooklet]

No, my sweetheart no, if it was meant to be then she would be there, she didn't appreciate you, now go and be better and work on you and find yourself a great lady, and in the meantime, enjoy the ride. I invite you to subscribe ! ❤️

[@MrPapisucio]

@@oscargonza2748 thank you so much man

[@MrPapisucio]

@SoulBooklet With Maritza thank you Maritza. It means a lot. I am subscribed. I like your videos

[@oscargonza2748]

No problem, bruh, God bless

[@socal2384]

Just remember fellow gentlemen there are 3.8 billion women in this world. So don't chase mentally damaged goods. There ARE still good women left in this world who are genuinely good n clear hearted and get it. Those are the ones we have to find and teach to the younger generation. God bless

[@Soulbooklet]

Amazing and very truthful words ! thx for sharing them

[@sizenmass6777]

Although my ex girlfriend didn't reject me when we first met she left me for another guy but after It not Working out she tried to come back ,no chance I value myself to much her ship has sailed .

[@Soulbooklet]

Wow . You have your worth well self valued 💕good for you

[@sizenmass6777]

@@Soulbooklet thank you hun

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

Love is an illusion. It’s a word used to mask the truth behind our actual motivation which is our desire to feel valued by people whose opinion matters to us at the moment. Once people gain your appreciation they look for someone else more valuable than you to see if they can gain their appreciation. Once they fail they will come back to you. It’s called narcissism and everyone has a degree of it in them.

[@Soulbooklet]

Very profound words and unique point of you. Thank you for sharing it with all of us 💕

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

I’m not looking for appreciation. I’m looking for feedback so I can ground my awareness of my own human nature and motivation in reality instead of being blinded by idealistic thinking and language games.

[@wyattmorris8768]

Hell no there’s no take back. Damn right stay gone. Honestly never take a person back because thing’s will only be worse if you do. Honestly I look at it this way if a person truly love are cares they aren’t going to do anything that could ruin a relationship they have. Maybe that’s just me??????

[@Soulbooklet]

The best is to hear someone out, but if you have moved on, that is probably a better option for you, thank you for watching and for giving us your good opinion💕

[@samsamo7286]

Great ....👌👌👌

[@Soulbooklet]

I’m glad you enjoyed it Sam thank you for watching🌸

[@ethan7009]

"The grass wasn't greener on the otherside" after she left (to late)

[@Soulbooklet]

it never usually is. but things happen alwasy for a reason. though at times we may not know the reason ❤️

[@jaihirzinhoebecilio7765]

I agree 100%❤

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much for watching Jaihir 💝

[@andrewgage6942]

Never happened to me, but in all honesty, I think I was as much to blame for relationship break ups, as the one common denominator, there's a reason why all of my partners cheated. I'm no prince charming, I used to feel sorry for myself, I have since grown to learn, not everyone is meant to be in a relationship.

[@Soulbooklet]

Yes you are correct Andrew! Happiness comes within , and that is whatever makes you happy 💝

[@georgemubanga1878]

Regardless there's no reason for someone to cheat. They should have just broken up with you

[@chrisperrins8082]

Oh! Maritza, if only women can behave as you explained, there will be more love, marriages and kids. It's a shame the useless games some women play that causes men like me not to bother but to concentrate on his business and on himself.

[@Soulbooklet]

Hello, Chris, believe me a good woman are out there looking for a kind man, when you find one, just tell her and teach her how you want to be loved🌸

[@anilgopaul8279]

Thank you my love

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you Anil for watching🌸

[@andrzejwasielewski1644]

Amen sister

[@Soulbooklet]

Thanks Andrze for watching 💝

[@MusicLvr81281]

Going through this now. Had a gym crush on a girl who showed interest. I was working on my self-confidence when I approached, I was a little weak. She rejected me for another guy. I'm now more fit and outgoing, and she stares and glances at me and stays when her bf leaves.. no thanks

[@Soulbooklet]

Good for you …confident , in good shape, and with good self esteem ♥️♥️

[@moki0525]

Rule number one gentlemen, never take her back!

[@Soulbooklet]

We can never say never, but usually you are correct

[@sparshrastogi2646]

My fiancé and I broke up on the morning of our wedding day. I did all I could for her, but it was not enough. She hasn’t looked back and come back but I know she won’t find someone who cared about her as much as I did.

[@Soulbooklet]

Oh dear Sparsh, things always do happen for a reason , but what happen if you mind sharing ?

[@sparshrastogi2646]

@@Soulbooklet won’t get into too much detail but she could not get along with my parents, she thought they were too much, even though they live away from me and wouldn’t be that big a part of my lives. She basically asked me to choose between her or them. Also, she took for granted things I did for her. She didn’t respect me so I let it go.

[@Soulbooklet]

Families are not easy , it’s up to us to balance it out and to be the middle union between them all, sad to know 1 fight can end all the good times , but life does happen how it needs to , I hope your doing better , hope you have moved on and healed , maybe a good lady friend can help you overcome any issue much faster 😇 thanks for opening up

[@sparshrastogi2646]

@@Soulbooklet thank you Maritza, I can sense the sincerity in your response just as I can see it in your videos. I am on the path to healing. And I agree, she should have been mature enough to understand that it’s me and her together as a team against the issue.

[@Soulbooklet]

@@sparshrastogi2646 thanks for those words ! Time does surely cure the heart from any pain ! 🥂 have a good day

[@francescobertoli179]

Has happened to us all, hasn’t it?

[@Soulbooklet]

Yes, my love to both men and women💓

[@hughjanis6439]

Who's the girl in the video? So innovative.....You look like your ready to go to a Grateful Dead concert. Way to keep it fresh. 🤣👍

[@Soulbooklet]

My Phil , that's me your friend 🥂

[@hughjanis6439]

@@Soulbooklet You are a good friend. Isn't the internet great?😉

[@hughjanis6439]

Maritza says to get better, not bitter. Tonight was my first night in the gym in years. You inspired me.

[@Soulbooklet]

@@hughjanis6439 your very sweet ❤️

[@mariovuksanovic5077]

I dated a girl and discovered she had other lovers she is very beautiful yet she is a narcissist, bipolar, addicted to zanax , alcohol and sex... She is 40 yrs old and last month suffered 3 heart attacks in the same month.....but now she drinks more alcohol and is even more rebellious and wild...as if she wants to die She has never been a true girlfriend dating only me....she has always had lots of lovers behind my back ..one guy she dated tried to kill her by throwing her from a 6 story window...he went to prison...she dropped the charges he is out and seeing her again. another guy broke her ribs and hit her in the head now she is deaf out of one ear...she is still seeing him.. She treats those guys nicely....and treats me like dirt...although she was very sweet to me in the beginning...and made me feel like I found the woman of my dreams. I was always a gentleman to her....and after a while, she rejected me.....I tried to take her to a doctor to help her detox naturally.....and to church to get close to God...I tried to get her s nice job...and tried to help her get her degree online. These things didn't appeal to her....she wanted the wild life with others who had the same addictions as she has.... I don't fit in.....I go to church to pray for her....this is a spiritual war....she has demonic spirits that have control over her...I have the holy spirit in my heart....her spirits want to drive me away because I represent a life plan for her.....the so called bad boys she associates are also demon possessed...they encourage her to get drunk and high and use and abuse her... They could care less for her as a human being. In at first wanted to marry her buy a house and have children.....until I saw how she really is. However, I love her and care for her as a human being....I have some neighbors who have been convincing her to go to church....as a little girl, she used to go to church....so it is in her upbringing. I don't want her to die... She is showing signs that she may want to go to church... .if I see her trying to turn her life around...I will be there for her only as a friend.....and if she is truly repented and gives up 100% all her bad addictions and no good friends.....and starts new friendships with clean and decent church going people, I may consider dating her again....if God wants this to happen. In the meantime, she is a sick woman...and it would be so easy to walk away....eve though I am in love with her... she right now doesn't know what love is...and cannot maintain a committed relationship....if God sends me a woman that is right for me, I will date her.....and I will still try and help the sick woman.

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much for sharing this with us, this sounds like a big love dilemma . Always remember you have to be very well in order to help someone else, and only love who is willing to love you the same way back💕

[@RealTalk-mq2ug]

I am submerged under an ocean of grief. No air; I cannot, do not: breathe. I want to die. I can't bear the pain. Terror and horror live inside me. No safe space. I am raped. He left me. And all I see is him and her together; all over social media. He raped me. He raped my soul. HOW THE FUCK COULD HE DO THIS TO ME? HOW? HOW DOES HE NOT MISS ME? HOW COULD HE JUST THROW AWAY OUR CONECCTION? HOW HOW HOW HOW HOW??? the waves of grief come crushing me. CONSUMING ME!! leaving me unable to breathe. drowning in darkness. one moment I'm okay. the next I'm in panicked despair. how could my best friend do this to me? abandon and betray me, and discard me like garbage? how? how could he so easily replace me with another? my heart is shattered; my soul is raped. rage and grief: torment and torture me, leaving me breathless... I desperately want to escape the pain that I'm in: debilitating paralyzing all-consuming hyperventilating panic and grief... His name is Bryan and he raped my soul. Viciously maliciously brutally violently. I thought he was my best friend. He betrayed and abandoned me and left me alone to die. Replaced me. Discarded me. So... Now... I must: Release all chords, hooks, ties, and attachments to him specifically, and also generally: to any person, place, or thing, on any time continuum, that is no longer for my highest and best good, and healing... I release all of these things now, and forevermore, and I watch them dissolve into the nothingness, from which they came... Thank you, thank you, thank you - IT IS DONE! 🙏 And here are 14 gentle and urgent reminders I must always remember: 1. You're ALWAYS exactly where you are supposed to be 2. Self-esteem is measured by you (nobody else gets to decide your worth) 3. Get rid of fear: FOREVER 4. When things are tough, change the way you see things 5. Don't dwell on/in the past (come back to this present moment) 6. It's only temporary (all of it!) 7. You have what it takes 8. You don't need to change 9. Release your need for control 10. Accept. Allow. Breathe. Deep. 11. Remember where you came from 12. Remember that you are not alone (not ever!) 13. Remember who you are 14. What they did/do to you has nothing to do with you Now I am taking my power back. Stepping out of the prison. By remembering: I am the manifestation of Divine Life. I call upon my truest highest self to step forth to (re)claim my power: as a beautiful manifestation of God! I affirm peace and comfort and joy and magic and bliss. AFFIRMATIVE PRAYER: I am one with the Divine. I experience, peace, BLISS, love, and joy: CONSTANTLY AND CONSISTENTLY. I experience everything as grace AND AS LOVE. I am at peace. I honor the Divine within me.

[@Soulbooklet]

Dear very profound words , thank you for sharing . You need to find happiness in yourself even if your without him, he is not your life , he was a part of it at one point, but your life continues . Be strong and be thankful for the opportunity you get every day .

[@AchillesRage501]

I have a story it was the first girl in high school i had a crush on the girl rejected me and she eventually left and got a bf in university 5 years after no contact she came to my martial arts with her friend and tried to come back with me her face was priceless that i walked by her

[@Soulbooklet]

Achiles, people can change! But ultimately you do what is right for you 💝

[@deehall47sdadjokes]

Why on earth let her come back??? She missed her chance the 1st time. A man MUST move on in this situation

[@Soulbooklet]

Good strong man 👍

[@deehall47sdadjokes]

@@Soulbooklet Cheers

[@m_jay5]

She comes back in hopes you'll simp and be the backup boyfriend! A self respecting guy will know better to not accept the friendzone and move on with his life

[@Soulbooklet]

🙀

[@StrettonRutherford]

great video! Thank you!

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you so much Stretton, I appreciate you watching 🌞

[@Kabaselefh]

One narcissist witch I know 8 years after I left her she’s still trying to control, destroy, or kill me.

[@Soulbooklet]

Oh my! Sounds like a scary woman, sorry !

[@user-xb3uo2kq7i]

Yés my dear ,, móvé heavy rock❤❤❤

[@Soulbooklet]

Thank you for watching 😘

[@giloises]

Gracias, Maritza. Dios te oiga.

[@Soulbooklet]

Buenos dias, cuenteme que me la paso?

[@giloises]

@@Soulbooklet Cinco meses de pura pasión, sin peleas ni discusiones. Nos cuidabamos super bien y me porté súper bien con ella, generoso y detallista dentro de mis posibilidades, pero sin ser un trapo que trataba de comprarla, nada de eso, simplemente porque la amaba y siempre lo hacía con buen humor y alegría. En el quinto mes ella empezó a dudar de la relación. Me decía que ya no se sentía 'tan enamorada', y yo agarré mis cosas y me fui de una. En la primera semana después de la ruptura todavía la escribí un par de veces para medir la temperatura, pero nunca rogando. Pero se quedó en el mismo sentimiento. Después dejé de contactarla para también proteger mi orgullo y no demostrar desesperación. Ya pasaron 3,5 meses ahora, y ya no tengo esperanzas, lo que es mejor. Continúo con mi vida. Pero como sigue doliendo el corazón. Como es posible que no sentía suficiente amor para mi después de 5 meses de pasión, risas, salidas, buenas conversaciones y horas super cheveres en la cama? Para mi seguirá siendo un misterio. Parece que todo fue una actuación, pero sé que no es así. Risas y pasión no se pueden fingir durante tanto tiempo. Solo he aprendido que las emociones pueden cambiar como el viento. Saludos.

[@Soulbooklet]

Mi amor, solo el tiempo y las palabras sinceras de ellas te podran decir que fue lo que paso, quizas no viste las senales de quien era ella en realidad, pero no es una mujer leal y sincera. quizas tenia a otro hombre en su mente que volvio del pasado, o tantas otras cosas, pero todo pasa por algo, nadie es indispensable en la vida de uno, se van los seres que mas amamos, una persona de la calle tambien se puede ir, pero tu sigue asi, y buscate un clavo bueno y fuerte que te ayude a scar eso, dedicate a pasar bueno, hacer ejercicio, y a trabajar, no pienses mas en esa mujer. mucha suerte ❤️

[@giloises]

@@Soulbooklet Gracias por tu respuesta.

[@bernibeckmann9753]

My side of the story makes me look like the innocent party. Even tho she love bombed me and was crazy for me and acted like the world would end if we weren't together she never thought to engage with me "properly". She had no interest in knowing me, she just wanted me to play the dutiful role.....in serving her desires du jour complete with the option of bailing out for whatever flaky reason. You don't build a house on quicksand. Not sure where that kind of entitlement comes from.

[@Soulbooklet]

Hello, you have the right to act on your instinct and thoughts, if this is how you feel, and she didn’t show you are tell you otherwise when you are in your right, thank you for sharing 💕

[@KentPetersonmoney]

Could also be the person she rejected was'nt the person she thought he was and was actually better. Maybe she thought he was just going to use her for sex and run away but after getting to know the guy actually a good person who treats women good. Pretty sure if some of the women who rejected me seen me with a girlfriend and actually treated her good it could make them realized they made a mistake rejecting me.

[@Soulbooklet]

Hello Kent, that is a great possibility also 💕 thank you for taking your time to share it with us

[@quanlinglingdingle5969]

Got rejected twice by my old crush so I blocked her and moved on. 5 months later I got into a new relationship that I am happy with but one day my old crush's friend reached out to me and told me that she's been trying to get back in contact with me and I told her no that I am in a new relationship and moved on

[@Soulbooklet]

Good for you ! You're being honest with yourself with the person who you're with now and you have given your heart another chance good for you ❤️

[@christian7561]

Move on!! women that want you wont reject you period.

[@Soulbooklet]

That’s a very probable statement you have shared 🌸 thx Christian

[@paulweston285]

She only comes back when it didnt work out with Chad

[@Soulbooklet]

Oh my Paul! That can be 1 of many possibilities 💗

[@paulweston285]

@@Soulbooklet But a very high probability

[@SunshineSuperstar]

Reject me once and it's over for you!

[@Soulbooklet]

My dear Sam. We don't always have to be radical , but it all depends on what your heart tells you and how you feel

[@SunshineSuperstar]

@@Soulbooklet There's nothing radical about it! Women invented the game. Don't hate me for playing it better than them!