Why WOMEN stop talking to men who let 1st dates run TOO LONG!

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[@joshuabouillion4974]

Well alright, so no hugs, no kissing her and cutting the date short. So what about the 2nd date @CaseyZander ? What's your approach for the 2nd date?

[@mindofawarrior1971]

I disagree I'm not one of this lames here. I have a lot of experience I been on a lot of dates and I would spend hours with them and yes I got them In bed the first date or the 2nd date. When a woman likes u. Time doesn't matter. Check this out I never have spend money on a first date or a 2nd date or 3rd. Women would pay for everything they would come to pick me up in nice cars buy me food and give me sex. I have it that easy. What your saying is when woman doesn't like u enough for a 2nd date so u gotta do all of that . When a girls likes you it doesn't matter. I have had girls naked in my bed for hours and hours.

[@___spiritofadventure___]

How about not giving a shit how long a date runs for. How about you'll let it run as long as your enjoying it? What does that signal?

[@adamkuestner2961]

Apparently that you're weak and desperate, the same kind of guys who are somehow getting these girls preggo out here lol

[@Hugh_G_Rection69-f8f]

You don’t understand, do you? The logic behind his message is that the more you invest, the less interested she becomes. If you’re spending 3-4 hours on a date, especially if she’s not really important, let’s be real, that’s pathetic. Especially when as a man you ought to have other priorities and obligations before a woman. And, if you end it early, she’s going to be under the impression that there’s another chick in the picture that you’re going to visit, and that’s going to increase your value and interest. She will work harder to obtain you.

[@___spiritofadventure___]

@@Hugh_G_Rection69-f8f But this comes from a place of insecurity. You should not be caring and calculating what this woman thinks. There are plenty other women around and you will live on your own terms.

[@Hugh_G_Rection69-f8f]

@@___spiritofadventure___ It’s not about insecurity. It’s about getting her to think that you’re seeing someone else so that she can be more interested in you since guys who get a lot of chicks = more attractive.

[@askohirvonen5066]

I have a theory : if the first date/meet doesn't end with sex, all of it is not natural and there is no point for second date. It mean,that the needed conditions for reproduction are not met and you can carrie on looking for nextone. In fact, all of these conditions should be there the very first second, when a man and woman meet. Well, as I said, this is very primal point of view and things are a bit different in year 2024 but at least, this is how you could feel.

[@migueltello4874]

If she likes you , you’ll get a second date . It doesn’t matter how long the first date was. All the advice this BOZO gives is when you are dealing with some toxic, modern women

[@thevoid5503]

And that's all that's on the market.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@thevoid5503isn’t that men’s fault for ruining an entire generation of women and rewarding the things they swear they hate?

[@metihoseini906]

He used to make more sense when he was younger 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@TheTrueTrinity888]

Dude looks stressed out, he aged 10 years in 1 year.

[@fedfed96]

Roids

[@davidlouis2354]

On the grind.

[@asparrow9876]

That's what concerning yourself with women and revolving your entire life around what they do does to a man. It ages you fast. They are stressful, even when succeeding with them.

[@davidlouis2354]

@President_Joe_Biden If your a liberal much, much longer.

[@Steph-DM]

A lot of us guilty on this one and we didn’t even have to watch the video to understand 💀

[@isaiahexile]

It sucks because even finding a woman who can give you experience is difficult. Sure I could date 10,000 fat women and learn how to be perfect for dates. But even getting an elderly women to go on a date with you is fkin hard. I KNOW I’m an attractive guy too, it does NOT make a difference yall I have never had a sexual experience with a women yet I know I’m attractive. So to those of you who can’t figure girls out, it has nothing to do with your looks I’m practically certain. Too bad idk what it is that actually works. Seems to me after years of studying is that being an actual jackass is the only way, throw bricks at girls and call them fat n ugly, only thing I havent tried yet.

[@geoeconomics5629]

Or just get a 2025 Ford Mustang GTD

[@TheMicahwitz]

That will just make you simp with a nice car.

[@Gunny221]

This works with narcissistic toxic women but then why would you want them

[@petrisoralin2850]

"I don't care you haven't been on a date in 6 months...". Bro, I've never been to a date my whole life. 😅

[@ColzStudy]

Bro no way over half of your videos are serious. It’s just not possible 😂😂😂 This is just insecurity at its finest like most of your videos. I’ll be with a woman for however long I want to be and idgaf if she doesn’t like me after

[@LorenElara]

Bingo. Obsessive game playing covering up insecurity.

[@Tommy06289]

Casey, how about if you show us videos of your dates to show us how it is done. You talk about what to do so let us see it in action.

[@TheMicahwitz]

His advice is very easy to put into action. Have you applied any of his advice when you’re out with women?

[@Tommy06289]

@@TheMicahwitz have you?

[@TheMicahwitz]

@@Tommy06289 yessir. But I didn’t learn from Casey. I learned from the OG, David Deangelo of Double Your Dating. You can still find his stuff on KZbin, I highly recommend it.

[@TheMicahwitz]

@@Tommy06289 I learned game in the early 2000’s my son. If you need help lemme know.

[@TheMicahwitz]

@@jeansollot6419 are you a woman?

[@ttkdre7389]

Fuck all that run up yo money be a better u every day and stop chasing women nun of that really matter to me

[@SwankyCops]

Bro this woman I was talking to took her to the movies for 3 hours we were there and she didn’t leave me alone she stayed in my car didn’t want to leave we went to get food after she paid for it

[@petrisoralin2850]

A keeper, what happened?

[@musothreads9069]

Be very fucken careful man. She could be acting like the girl of your dreams now. But watch out for signs of manipulative behaviour. If she starts trying to boss you around or make sublte remarks about how you dont quite stack up to some other guy(s) I suggest you stay nonchalant about it til you KNOW about her upbringing. Look up attachment styles and find out if her dad was in the picture. Meet her mum SEVERAL times in different setting to find out her character. Also see how your girl behaves around other men who you rate as more attractive than yourself. If she prefers to ignore your conversations in favour of theirs or starts treating you like a fool and a child at ANY point..... make sure you got the balls to tell her youre not down with that and you WALK THE FUCK AWAY. Women who show too much interest right away are up to no good.

[@SwankyCops]

@@petrisoralin2850 she ghosted me

[@SwankyCops]

@@musothreads9069 she ghosted me I started to lust after her instead taking things slow

[@Kingg4453]

Yes, same happened to me first date she didnt wanna leave me, 😂😂 2 months in bitch started acting like a bitch, left it right there

[@rafikooo1]

courtney ryan had the longest first date with a guy according to her story and now they're married so i'm not sure about that

[@raygrenade1697]

she married the guy who invested the most into her, the provider guy usually qualifies as a husband

[@rafikooo1]

@@raygrenade1697 good for him, she’s hot af

[@poolhall9632]

lmao. this guy is on the hamster wheel and he thinks it's his choice.

[@meneliksolomon7984]

but you dont need to cut the date too short to conceal your interest level. The seduction happens on the date so you need to take this opportunity to do so. Meet up and have banter, talk while being nonchalant and holdi g masculine frame, change locations, do some activity, it can even be going for a walk and drop her home. Try to end it before her. You should let her experience you so give it 2 or 3 hours. And on the date dont be needy, dont touch her unless she touches you first, unless u have a good excuse for a quick simple touch, while talking have good comebacks, flirt a bit, be mysterious and be funny only a little bit, dont talk about yourself, ask about her and make her talk, dont ask for 2nd date while your on the date, if she brings it up say its a good idea but dont make definite plans yet. .. And ofcource dont initiate contact for 4 to 5 days after the date and drag it a bit. If she contacts you in any way like saying "hey" talk only a bit and set the next date. And note "i made ot home or i had a good time" text the day off or the day after dont count as initiating contact after the date

[@LorenElara]

This is the real advice

[@ronniepratt8710]

I've never had problems getting women... and like your videos and even some other guy's vids...but I've gotta to admit it's gotten exhausting listening to men and women putting out vids day to day. Just be yourself, show confidence in yourself and if she wants to walk away let her. All these vids being put out just to try and get an insecure over inflated ego woman. She's not all that, seriously. if she likes you and you just play it cool. Things will work out.

[@vinceking7878]

Tbh I’m not into this game stuff much, but I would find it annoying to hang around some woman I didn’t know well aimlessly anyway 🤣

[@porcupinethree]

Always show people that your time is valuable and make things short,,women lie and say that they need u all the time

[@jeremyking5309]

Here’s why you should never breath the same air as a woman let me explain. The moment a woman catches you breathing the same air as her, she feels either of these two things, number one, you are equal to her or number two, that she is even better than you and the moment she feels all these thing, it dissatisfies hypergamy which therefore plummets her attraction for you.

[@michellehoward1034]

This man is so wounded. So much projection & assumption. You know what they say about assumption.. 🤣 You're a grown man and if you're dating a grown woman and you're both enjoying each other's company, you stay on that date as long as you want to because you're both grown ups & bc you can. If you're enjoying each other's company and truly making a good emotional connection, why would you want to end it early? Most couples that I know of that have dates that go on for hours usually end up getting married a few months later bc they found their person & things just grew from there .. Imagine that 😅 These are childish games he wants to play. It's not strategy that wins emotionally secure women, it's honesty and authenticity. Just be yourself 👍🙏

[@Kennedy1op]

Kinda sorta. I've been ghosted after having 3-4 hour dates. Even after laughing, talking, smiling and getting along fine. Including mentioning a 2nd date. Lol this was even after she literally got home, messaged me saying she was home, and then just ghosted me. People do what they want. There's no rhyme or reason for some ppl's behavior.

[@yu-yo7737]

Yeez what a hastle to follow all these stupid rules. How about just do things based on feel?

[@frederickcraft1772]

What if she tells you she doesn't want you to leave?

[@brianclark4454]

You are caving in to her desires, reduces your value.

[@chrisnorwood903]

8 hr date God i suck

[@nathanscharf5116]

Ive done 2 7 hour first dates. I guess I’m a down bad simp according to these bums

[@puertoricanprince7690]

​@@nathanscharf5116 Simp ah

[@hihang4294]

Casey : dates only, yes, ....... But not spontaneous, ....... When ur both high on xtc

[@loctone6184]

Why even bother dating someone that you have to play psychological head games with in the first place? No I couldn’t stoop that low, because I’m better than that. 🎉🎉🎉

[@jaysalamone2531]

I think if u guys are vibing the Date should go as long as it can. Ive been on dates where i cut it short because it felt forced. And ive been on dates where it ended with us having sex. 90% of my first dates ended in sex. So what do i kmow😂

[@neeru7298]

This gotta be one of the dumbest advices. I've been in many first dates and they were all very different from each other. All these rules are pure autism, just enjoy your life

[@wouter4052]

Nonsense. Put in your charm and you can let it last. They will like you. But it is exhausting some first dates

[@Kennedy1op]

Or she'll just think you're not interested

[@asr20nl]

This guy is overthinking too much haha

[@meneliksolomon7984]

45 min thing would work if your 1st date is for lunch or something. But if the date is at the end of the day it doesnt make sense. And having a 1st date for lunch is a bad idea, and if you must do it i would even cut it short in 30 mins

[@anderecontent]

Lmao wish I seen this before lmao

[@casualgaming7000]

Bro this is so confusing have some mercy

[@Tommy06289]

nothing he said was confusing

[@Reese_Pantera]

😂😂😂 Only the strong survive. survival of the fittis pal

[@Reese_Pantera]

He's relentless 😂

[@casualgaming7000]

@@Reese_Pantera these days you need phd in quantum rizzics to get some women 😂

[@Reese_Pantera]

@@casualgaming7000 😸😹

[@zackgallagher3613]

Easier said than done, ngl

[@lightvox6152]

Ehh.. I'd say 90 minutes max. 45 minutes is definitely a minimum

[@Tommy06289]

wth, 90 min way too long. 45 is definitely the max for first date

[@lightvox6152]

@Tommy06289 it's pretty difficult to go out to dinner in just 45 minutes... even for drinks that's pretty quick

[@nyahhbinghi]

he is right

[@kazdnn5949]

So many dudes in here missing the point. Yes of course if she likes you enough then you get a 2nd date regardless of if your 1st went 4 hours. The point is, you want to maximize your chances. Let that 1st date run too long and you run the risk of her interest level decreasing prematurely. She might like you but start feeling like you’re clingy, etc. She’ll experience it as “he was nice but something was just off.” Your goal at the first date is to test if you even want to pursue this further. As soon as you have an idea then mission accomplished, move on. You can’t lose this way. Run longer and your risk increases.

[@d.l4055]

His general advice is aimed at wide spread social issues instead of female personal issues. If You're not vibing, then you cut the date short.

[@thomesgomes6613]

If your gonna have that bottle of wine at your place afterwards it may have to go longer than 45 minuites 👍

[@Worldview9958]

What kind of dates should i have coffie dates? is it bad to invite them over or go to the river on fishing Trip?

[@The_inner_ascent]

I only do dates that are within walking distance of my apt. I always try and invite them back

[@gauravbhalerao5722]

What to do now i did this mistake

[@Aotearoa.]

True haha

[@LaisCordiolli]

That’s ridiculous