Why Women Will Check Up On An Ex

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[@RinzoAceSpade]

I'm 23 and can relate. Every female that I have dealt with always coincidently wanted another man or had a guy on the side. And Every time that I see them they always want to conversant with me or they're with their female friends who compliment me on how I dress casually or how attractive that I am and they feel regret. I have never been the one to think that I am better than anyone because I am not. I am humble chasing dreams ,spiritually, and physically, mentally and emotionally I am strong ! I had women leave me because I wasn't in the streets or didn't have money. I had regular jobs and I was a good guy that they considered boring but now I been working out , traveling, praying and just being humble. I'm relocating in a few months to focus on my dreams. Let's say success is the best revenge.💯

[@RomWills]

It really is the best revenge.

[@RinzoAceSpade]

Rom Wills ,,,, Most definitely 💯💯

[@brentontaylor4977]

Larinzo Collins, brother, reading that you're working hard, building something, chasing your dreams put a smile on my face. Good luck with your life, man.

[@3Bdotcom]

Success is THE Science, young bruh. Keep going. ✊✊

[@ancientastronauttheoristss9345]

bless up get that money

[@djmichaeltimex4511]

I have little to no interaction with them (especially intimate), i don't block them though......they need to see this comeup and hopefully learn from their fuckup :)

[@RomWills]

Smart move.

[@Stoneybv]

A women once told me, there are two types of men after a break up 1. The man who blames the women and says she messed up his whole life and makes her satisfied that she did. 2. A man who becomes the best version of himself and makes the girl regret her decision. These women know exactly what they do. It's in their nature. It's in a man's nature to choose what's best

[@The_Equalizer23]

Cut off all contact including her friends/family forever! You most likely improved but they normally haven't. Which automatically means she's less valuable (Would you buy back an already used car with additional mileage/damage for more than what you originally paid?). Love yourself and respect yourself...

[@The_Equalizer23]

Perverted Alchemist My social media accounts are set on private. I unfriend them then add them to the block list (social media, email, cellphone #). If we had mutual friends/acquaintances prior to the relationship. I don't inform them about my relationship status when they ask. And if they bring up the woman I had relations with. I change the subject. I also tell the women we can't/won't be friends. I've learned my lesson. Love is war... I'll lose some battles but not the war!

[@RomWills]

Salchih, Bruh you're hardcore. These women better not play with you.

[@The_Equalizer23]

Rom Wills All I ask is to be respected, not lied to, and not to waste my time. I understand we exist in a time where women don't value character, integrity, wisdom, and hard work in a man.

[@assaa5069]

Exactly

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

salchih exactly what happened!

[@djmichaeltimex4511]

"I need to be able to demonstrate that i can have my feelings hurt be wounded and still be a man and remain consistent" - Gorgeous Dre

[@RomWills]

Good quote.

[@fhfs]

They are calling about nothing I guarantee it fellas. Like you said Mr.Wills women wanna feel they made the right decision on dumping dude and it should be our initiative to make them regret that choice. Get your money up fellas, Hit the gym , focus on being the best you .

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@thelongtrader4642]

Hah story of my life... The woman i truly loved , took here everywhere, treat her real good, like i was told by my parents growing up...well she dumped me,just like that, one day she just doesnt feel the same way, classic excuse. I wasnt a full time SIMP but ive shown her that i cared about her. Was Really hard, and after that ive just said fuck it and within a year focused on my business bought a bike and a very nice car, money really started rolling in. I've even had my shit together when she was with me, but now its even better. Fast forward that year when i've made upgrades on myself, she texted me, never answered. One day FULL YEAR after that text, i parked my sport bike, lookin all jacked up and in serious shape, in front of a coffe shop and she went by... The look on her face was like... one of the angriest looks ive ever seen in a person, like i killed her whole family or done her some serious damage. It just amazes me that they think they can just pause and resume the relationship whenever they want. I really cant respect ANY MAN that takes back a chick like that.

[@RomWills]

Trust me I understand.

[@Lonersquare]

I remember a chick who I was messing with pretty much told me many years ago back in my late teens: "If you were to ever achieve major success and upgrade to someone much better in life, then I wouldn't be too happy about that because I had you first." It can be really amazing at times what women will admit about themselves, when they speak their real emotions with no logic whatsoever. The last time she ever tried to speak to me, I simply told her that I had moved on with my life, and hung up on her. She tried to call a few more times, but soon moved on. Regardless of me achieving success or not, I sincerely hope to never see or hear from her ever again in life. Good topic as usual, Brother.

[@RomWills]

Women know when they blew it with a good man.

[@Lonersquare]

Rom Wills And then they come up with that "The One Who Got Away" conclusion. Isn't that nonsense?! We never hear any Men use that type of wording/labeling concerning the women that we reject. That saying must actually mean "He managed to get away from having my crazy azz emotions messing up his future & killing his dreams."

[@premehpbm4096]

They all check up. Thy ALL check up. LMAO And what drives then bat shit is when they see you doing better.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@owen3937]

@@RomWills How do these women check up Rom? I am thinking of asking my ex's friend out to celebrate my birthday with me and some friends,I do like her but I dont know if it's a good idea thinking she might mention to my ex that I invited her out! What's your thoughts on this?

[@raceaddict3212]

Reminds me of how little kids act when they have a new toy and play with it for a while and then get bored with it and stash it in the closet in the corner somewhere. Then when another kid finds that toy and start playing with it now the original kid get all jealous and wanna steal it back just because someone else is enjoying that toy that they discarded in the first place.

[@TheRealJPhillips]

When men move on to new women, and the relationship lasts longer than that of when they were with the ex, Women question the worth and importance the man felt for her to begin with. Females hate that shit

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@TM-dm8zx]

They just need to do what I want, it’s simple. If she ain’t following my rules I have to kick her to the curb man.

[@SubwayFan83]

9 times out of 10 a woman checks up on an ex to see if he's doing miserable. And those times that fails. He'll do ok or better depending on the situation.

[@SubwayFan83]

Perverted Alchemist They sure need to learn that. Lol

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@rickimcfarland2269]

Or boredom. I have checked up on an ex because I was bored with my other options.

[@rmac8012]

Moral of the story, don't give them your positive energy, but it defeats the purpose of being with them. Acquire this skill and you will win every time.

[@errol1]

Great video Rom. I think a lot of it comes down to those old sayings. ( I thought the grass was greener on the other side) ( You don't miss the water until the well runs dry)

[@RomWills]

Those old saying convey a lot of wisdom.

[@bonfacemacharia8712]

These girls say that such a good man is boring naive n wen the dude moves on life becomes successful in his career the girl is like damn maybe I shd hv stuck it out with these dude n by the time she realizes it its too late the dude is gone to another relationship where he is treated with respect n she is left to regret her decisions To all the good men continue being a good men focus on urself ur career ur health n u will find someone who treats u with dignity and respect

[@theshield1613]

My wife left me I've been loyal to my wife but it's really sad she doesn't see it how rich my love is for her I know she will met and go out with cheaters or worse maybe she will regret it leaving me leaving a true love, loyal ,honest guy and I'm planning my business plan and study politics.

[@theshield1613]

@Dark Meteorite two years ? are you crazy

[@theshield1613]

@Dark Meteorite I've been saying this for the past 2 months not 2 years.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

my ex had an abortion . we broke up not to long after. well she broke it off. within a week she was with a new guy. he was a 2nd option i truly belive and it happend to be a friend of mine. i never once went back to her or tried to get her back. i was like fuck that you wanna go GO! sure i went through a rough period. but i let it go. it hurt me but i never reached out. years later iam different now just LAST YEAR she requested to follow me in IG. i let her follow me. i did NOT follow back. shes with her new LOVE. yet she is liking my pictures, commenting on them at 1:13 AM in the moring. lol. smh. all while being so IN LOVE with her new bf. then i upload a pic of me and a girl i was banging. she deletes me.

[@mrluis9456]

Rom wills consistently putting out those videos like it's going out of style👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@RomWills]

I gotta feed my sons.

[@D.Anderson]

Funny bro my ex whose been married 11years. Sent me a message yesterday saying im just checking on you.

[@gtharo]

David RUDEBOI Anderson: Bro a married woman "checking in" is merely scoping out the scene to see if you would bite! She wants you to slip her the ol' kielbasa!

[@RomWills]

Dang fam, she straight up said she checking on you. She trying to go back.

[@therealflamelit]

David RUDEBOI Anderson she wants to be baptized at her old church..lets the church say hey man

[@mustanggang5.0]

David RUDEBOI Anderson she wanna fuck bra. More than likely her marriage isn't looking good. Don't take the bait tho. Cause then you'll give her all the power...

[@joseborrero2402]

Bro don't go backwards ur past is history forget it the future is a mystery unexpected today's a gift so it gets called the present stay up

[@rashb3994]

Just subscribed to about that business. At this very point in my life I need to be thinking about making money way more than women. Uncle Rom always bringing just what the doctor ordered.

[@RomWills]

All men need to at least get a side hustle.

[@marshallkelly5769]

rash b Money is the number one priority later for these emotional clown ass women

[@TheMackone66]

That's Game😁😁!! Once I bought a new ride and bought a mini Mansion and posted how I was doing it on Social Media..They were sending friends request, showing up at my favorite spots..Naw you aient a down type of chick, I don't even want to hit it, loyalty goes along way with me..Amen😁😎

[@therealflamelit]

I have recently had a ex get at me..the same ex that dissed me for her no good baby daddy 15 yrs ago and had another baby by him lol..now im doing well and she wanna holla back..I aint trying to be no holla safety net fallback nigga !!espically when i just got rid of a no good wife of 10 plus yrs...possible pump n dump coming in 3...2...1....

[@RomWills]

That's what's up.

[@torpedoe1936]

Rom deeply knows how the female psychology works. I doff my hat to you, sir.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mikewilson9236]

The main miss on this ROM is "they check back because their hurt in their current relationship, so they do what's called " a reach back"

[@RomWills]

Some check even when their current man is treating them right.

[@mikewilson9236]

Rom Wills fact

[@mikerobinson4092]

if he was thugging she will check up on him for sure she is always waiting on that call or connection from him to get her to come back she's missing the drama.

[@RomWills]

That's true.

[@devohnmitchell]

Uncle Rom keep doing what you're doing These Topics are much needed. Reading the comments helps me you understand that many Men go thru same stuff I've went thru. The Truth is Women know when A Man was Good to Them and Treated them Right. And When they Leave and go on to the next Man they Often Try to "Find You" and your Characteristics in Other Men..But they Soon find out that whatever Attracted them to You cannot Be easily replaced.

[@mrigue56]

I dated a Nigerian girl & was getting played w every trick in the book. I went red pilled & woke up to the game, guarantee she’ll hit me up eventually. Getting my masters won’t hurt either

[@hsamzsd]

experience with a naija babes is the shortcut to your playerhood. The paternity fraud is estimated to be about 30% in Nigeria. Everyone doggin everyone out there.

[@Laoriginal718]

I don't check up on my ex's. Once the relationship is done everybody get cut off. Him and his family. I learned that a long time ago. That shit isn't good for your new relationship. I don't deal with dudes that still have anything to do with their ex.

[@RomWills]

That's very wise. Respect.

[@manweller1]

My ex phoned my sister just to have a chat 4real. Weird but true

[@RomWills]

That's another way they do it.

[@livelife5947]

When I'm done with a man he doesn't ever hear from me or see me again, ex's are dead to me. I get really irritated when they try to stay in touch like I'm some kind of side chick or back up plan.

[@RomWills]

That's fair.

[@grandoldsoul4691]

same but with my ex gf's. once we are done we done. why feel the need to contact me? your SO HAPPY with my replacment right? lol nope. because no one is like me

[@MegaPsycho84]

Thank you for these gems you are dropping bruh. I'am definitely listening, studying, and making proper application.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@ONLYALEXISOMAR]

The best revenge is a life well lived

[@austinmiller3785]

Binge watching your videos this morning. Wisdom for us youngins.

[@thephoenix2176]

The attitude is wishing them well and keep it moving. . .the reason he is called "ex" No reason for Unrequited energy on any level

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@damonm.]

I had an ex said she'll block me from social media not because we broke up but because she doesn't want to see me doing well without her...I was like "Alrighty then" LOL Great video Brotha Rom!

[@RomWills]

Dang.

[@carlosotero772]

This is actually really good ish man thank you ...its nice to hear some GOOD game

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@HisTrueName]

Because of Ego

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@darrickbrisco5016]

Chuuuch good shit I never thought about it til now how u said a woman says nice but it makes sense that's wisdom u putting out

[@RomWills]

It's all in the tone and context.

[@Happy-Me.]

Men rarely have the issue with "the one that got away" syndrome because weve made our mind up to dump a woman months before we actually do!

[@bwebmasta1]

Let women know whenever they come back around you are on to their bullshit. Be self-sufficient, don't give any information, and make no effort to contact her.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

Yea. Thought as much. If I bump into her again (first time I walked passed her like a stranger.)I'll keep the convo short if she attempts to chat. I know she'd get very nosey. Have a feeling we will caught each other again.

[@RomWills]

It may happen.

[@jyoung904]

Rom, what do you think about women who put children against the father

[@rmac8012]

Prime example of a women being the horse that came in last place at the Kentucky Derby 🐎 and then try to justify that by explaining why she was the better horse 🐴 .

[@Cryoniczz11]

That's exactly what happened. But I kept it moving lol, not worth it.

[@RomWills]

Cool.

[@robthomas3956]

Bruh !! Described my situation with my exes to the T smh... especially my ex wife. Lmao !! Trust me, it only gets better fellas.

[@nessnevermiss]

This is some game

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@MrROCKMUZK]

Checkin up on a ex hummm!....i was never a person to go in my mind to convince myself to physically check up on a ex personally....it always sends a wrong message: It shows the ex your either (care enough) waiting or you miss them or if the red carpet is still yours in a return & most importantly your available to interrupt there present realtionship..you dont have to be enemies but no contact is best i believe...and its better for your growth.. to me thats not the make of a dom man...a dom man know what he knows about a ex.. and besides you become a perminate place in there mind which either promote change in there life hopefully but especially yours...besides they are a ex for a reason...not for re-run/view/visit/wind/play/peat/store/do/or re-check....but they are a reject lmao....a dom man to me embraces the room for better & new options and reminiscent over good memories of the nice ones(lol) my opinion

[@cd.cd.cd.cd-cd]

I'm actually the dude (because of my low tolerance for BS) that ended all but one of my relationships. I get the same "check in" from most of my exes, even when they have a boyfriend. Sometimes it's obvious they miss me, but other times I can't tell why she reaching out. Can you weigh in Rom on what this means if the man ended things and you hear from her when she has a boyfriend? In my experience it could be a number of things but curious what you think the most common explanation is.

[@RomWills]

Women don't take rejection well. They probably just want you back.

[@tallchief22]

You speak the Word. Just subscribed.

[@RomWills]

Thank you

[@rkrim2008]

if my EX contact me , I just say : it's simple I want just sex yes or no ? ! 😂

[@kennethyoung4892]

Yep women are crazy like that

[@trap_lord_johnnytrap_lord956]

You speak nothing but truth !!!

[@MackeyDeez]

I usually stay in contact with my exes and add them to my harem of sex partners. Just because it's over between us doesn't mean that we still can't fuck around every now and then. Might of fact I have one that I been fooling with for years every time her new boyfriend start cutting up. Another is actually engage to be married and she will give me a booty call once in awhile so, I don't check on them it's them who check on me.

[@RomWills]

Women never quite leave a man.

[@Health_Is_Wealth_Media]

You are dropping jewels

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@patrickmartin2689]

Lmao not on social media so she can't check up on shit...😂😂😂😂😋😎

[@RomWills]

Not bad.

[@valarieford8417]

I don't check on a ex I delete Facebook messenger and phone numbers when it is over let it go somebody else will come

[@skinfanjay]

Real. Talk. Rom.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mrrealtalk4901]

Good one Uncle Rom

[@RomWills]

Thank you fam.

[@nappyscribe1987]

Men go through something too. 🤔

[@raykingtv2351]

Egypt Ra Facts

[@moviestarjodi7729]

Great points of view....Excellent vid.....

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mrj9224]

Preach Preach bro!!!

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@jowaynechistopher5276]

Yardy man live in the comments lol 😂😂😂 facts straight facts

[@RomWills]

I'm keeping away from you fam. LOL. I know about those yardie men.

[@loricrockett-owens5117]

why do exs check up on each other? because they are too much of a coward to ask the ex personally.

[@loricrockett-owens5117]

Why would my ex care if he told me to kill myself. Why would he check up on me. Men and their double contradictive standards

[@loricrockett-owens5117]

Personally I feel if my ex checked up on me He is a coward. He didn't care anyway or wouldn't have wanted me to kill myself. If anything he is IGNORANT for wanting that for me.

[@loricrockett-owens5117]

Because u know what? U don't divorce someone after twenty years of marriage like my ex did to me. Get married to someone else 6 months later. Leave your ex broke financially then through the grapevine ask about your ex like u care. Especially if u told that person to kill themself. Sorry. I just find it difficult to believe that my ex would care.

[@loricrockett-owens5117]

If he cares? Instead of going behind my back? Why doesn't he ask me personally?

[@loricrockett-owens5117]

He would have to get permission from his new wife to speak to me though. Lol and my family. Lol

[@lashomotors5092]

Thanks master teacher. I really appreciate what you do. #goodgametips

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@KurtisStryker2015]

good stuff brother

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mroie]

I lift but crazy want leave me alone!

[@aaronjones5943]

What about women that reject you, do you think the same rules apply?

[@RomWills]

They the main ones who do it.

[@zeikz]

Absolutely

[@fields1336]

Is that a flip phone? Dam, a clam shell....thumb nail from 2003

[@pedrojello8983]

bro dont expose us of course I want her cz the head is good

[@RomWills]

LOL!

[@mauricedavis1740]

i know this comment is old but that’s what i struggled with for the longest. I didn’t even really care about the girls, it was the sex that kept me hooked. It took me awhile to realize even in those situations women have so much control over you because she has something you want. Once i got control over my lust it was one of the most empowering feelings ever. It’s hilarious seeing how frustrated women get when they figure out they can’t leverage you with sex because they know that’s their only go to move..

[@rockfresh5359]

do former sex buddies count too

[@RomWills]

You know people go back for good sex.

[@glennsmith6071]

I deleted them off all social media😐. Only thing they'll see is my ugly ass face on my profile😊.

[@RomWills]

I feel you.

[@acharonim4659]

rom wheres the thumbnail from?

[@RomWills]

I just found it google images.

[@christopherjameswright9614]

Yo my brother. Imma need your help my ex said she still can't stand me after years we broke up ok? Now mind you I was minding my own business I wasn't even thinking about her frfr. She texted me first. Then she gonna cuss me out and say don't write back. I don't understand females. Do you have any wise words

[@RomWills]

She still hasn't healed. Tell her to get counseling.

[@rally_chronicles]

She's nuts

[@c.albrow9161]

Block her

[@christrucker4882]

Rom and warren are the OGs when comes to this ism bruh smh

[@RomWills]

I'm honored to mentioned in the same sentence as Warren B.

[@Physicalfitnessandbeyond]

What advice would you give for that if I may ask?

[@Physicalfitnessandbeyond]

Can you do a video on how to stand up for yourself when a girl or woman tries to tear you down or disrespect you.

[@RomWills]

Just stand your ground.

[@acharonim4659]

C'mon uncle rom tell us story

[@RomWills]

LOL!

[@lochofmceo]

notification gang.

[@RomWills]

That's what's up fam.

[@MultiKingvegeta]

Is it good to take exes back? Even If there humble

[@RomWills]

With caution.

[@MultiKingvegeta]

@@RomWills ok I appreciate that.

[@LostOneOmega]

#truestatement

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@edgarflint5371]

Damn!!!

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@deandrejohnson5349]

Solid game

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Smart.

[@RomWills]

Thanks Bro. Sniper.

[@aychmorgan21]

I feel like it’s a lot of game and wisdom on this video, so I gotta question for y’all... Does a man or woman who’s married need to have a friend of the opposite sex? Especially if the man is working and providing and the woman is feeling neglected... Thanks in advance.

[@RomWills]

The couple needs to discuss their boundaries.

[@jehoramisrael7374]

Realtalk

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@OMONEY09]

Jewels

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@triniqueentx]

amen!

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

i did this twice . they weren't exes but guys that i had gotten to know. i was like 22 though i didn't know better.

[@glennsmith6071]

bronzed beauty its natural to check imo

[@RomWills]

Nice pic sis.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

glenn + true BUT i don't feel the need to. if we over we are over!

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

rom wills+ it's old hair loll but they people keep asking me where is my icon pic on bgs live stream on the female channel and i told them it's cause i'm fat and ugly and they refuse to believe me lmaooooo

[@mustanggang5.0]

if you didnt date the guys or have sex with them then its diffrent. unless they tried to get to know you, but you didnt really respond to their text/calls

[@sammiesmith6690]

Great video.

[@assaa5069]

What if the man broke up with her.

[@Mrs.704]

Samuel Akiwumi that alone would make her more suspicious as to what you're doing bcus she probably wanted it to last. She wants to keep tabs to make sure she can get back in where she could fit in.

[@RomWills]

Ms. Jackson is speaking the truth.

[@assaa5069]

Ms Jackson thank you

[@assaa5069]

Ms Jackson nothing but the truth

[@sammiesmith6690]

@@Mrs.704 So true.

[@doreengartrell5428]

I am in contact with just about all my exes because they are cool dudes. They all married but we still go to lunch sometimes, etc. I am sure they would screw around if I wanted to but we don't. They my buddies and for whatever reason we broke up it don't matter no more. There are just a few I couldn't ever be friends with again but I have forgiven them. Just can't mess with them no more on any level.

[@RomWills]

I respect that. It's means you're a grown woman.

[@Montrell1225]

3:28

[@terrycollinsify]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@wendellkirton3694]

It's true boss

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@wendellkirton3694]

Ur welcome

[@justdoit5890]

Wendell Kirton onlife

[@Thadon33]

What chu got against Yardies tho?

[@RomWills]

Listen to what I say in my videos. I have nothing against them. I simply speak what is.

[@Thadon33]

Rom Wills You don’t get the point. Don’t be calling out Yawdies because all of us men face the same struggles.

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

I don't keep score, I keep scoring! Let them watch that come up from the sidelines! ⛹🏿‍♂️💪