Why You HATE Hearing Your Own Voice…🤯🎤

Embrace It. 🙌
Vinh Giang reveals why we often hate listening to our own voice by explaining how bone conduction differs from air vibrations, resulting in a higher-pitched recording. He ends the speech by reminding us that the reality is “when you hear yourself, that’s how you sound”-encouraging the audience to embrace their individuality.
#motivation #publicspeaking #mindsetshift #lifelessons
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[@melodyflute2999]

"that is YOU" really hit hard

[@johnmanuel332]

I’m you, majuro.

[@ibrahimalkhars2041]

Im ur 1000th like

[@tyuniversal]

@@johnmanuel332 what

[@idioticbrooke]

@@tyuniversalorange

[@melodyflute2999]

@@ibrahimalkhars2041 that is crazy...yk this comment got so many likes in like 2 dayss

[@excelsabubun]

"You can't be like others, but you can be better" ~ wise man

[@Nanda_Khant]

My name is "Better". So, you can't be me, bro.

[@RoXhit07]

@Nanda_Khant😭

[@UncIeFred]

wow

[@MalayChessTalk]

My name is "Others". He's right, you can't be me

[@DarthFate]

My name is wise man, you can’t steal my quotes

[@Mirandaitzel-ie8zm]

“Be you, Do you.” Is a quote I will never forget

[@Dave-v2w]

Tbh, when i heard my voice in a recording, i couldnt believe it because when i yalk, my voice is high, but when i heard it, it was really deep

[@TheRaineWitch]

I do myself all the time 😏

[@wolf0220]

@@TheRaineWitchbro get out like-

[@Its_Me_Ayshah]

@@TheRaineWitch LOLL-REAL

[@akolove1423]

Lmaooo

[@Justmysterytwo]

My confidence before: 📈 My confidence now: 📉

[@colemartin1168]

Fr the mirror one is soul crushing 2 hear EVERYTIME 😅

[@LYCHlWl]

​@@colemartin1168 nah fr

[@yurisajakul7848]

same i wanna kms now i only didnt like my voice before now i have two problems to worry about

[@000ELLIE]

bro i sound so bad on video😭😭😭

[@Justmysterytwo]

@@colemartin1168 yeah every time I listen to this video it gets worse

[@Khaltazar-2024]

I like my voice when I hear it come out, but hate it when I hear a recording. That is why I hate when the phone echos.

[@hyeinxi]

frr

[@Art_is_Fire.]

So real

[@nobodyyoushouldcare00]

Fr...

[@trippstudios12]

Exactly, I think I sound pretty good and then as soon as I hear a recording or a video, I'm just like okay I'm never talking again.

[@Shinobi5]

You have a nice voice my friend 😊

[@yassenhosam17]

Bro just destroyed my self confidence bc my voice when I talk and me in the mirror is much better than the reality😭😭😭

[@LizMcC82]

Same

[@Nicario8]

Well that’s only cause your not used to it rly there isn’t much difference

[@blaugrana47]

Ong bro 😭🙏

[@TheOneAboveAll723]

Same bro

[@LocksVid]

No bro you didn't understand it, you look better in the mirror and sound better because that's what you're used to, others are used to the opposite so it's actually exactly how you look to others as well

[@Elie-di9nr]

My mom told me that it’s the same as taking a picture of something really beautiful, like a sunset. It never turns out as well on camera, does it? That’s how it is when you see yourself. You might see flaws, but others would see the beauty that you don’t.

[@Dheerii]

❤

[@Beproductivetodayyall]

Thank you, I needed to hear that today. ❤

[@Marie_Jensen]

Thank you. I really needed to read that.

[@UhKimboze]

Unless you’re solid photographer then it might turn out pretty good! 😂 I appreciate your comment I just had to get that in there.

[@Elie-di9nr]

@@UhKimbozeoh yeah I guess I didnt think of that!

[@Insertap]

Your voice is unique and you are a beautiful person. Keep your head up kings and queens!

[@ZeviJacobs-b6s]

Are you assuming my gender

[@guy-k7n]

​@@ZeviJacobs-b6s😂

[@RsntiArnprnwn]

And king :)

[@AchieveYourGreatness-01]

​@@ZeviJacobs-b6syou're dumb

[@gegamed681]

Bro didn't recover our self-confidence, he destroyed it more than it actually was 😂😂😂😂😂

[@minleemil]

Exactly lol

[@aleksandarnedeljkovic8104]

Exactly

[@XPGamingXPDK]

Yeah lmao

[@Emothing123]

Brother my confidence has just been boosted 10 billion %

[@SnowFlightVA]

I'm a voice actor, I have been for almost 5 years now and yet only last year did I ever accept what my voice was, I wish I did so long ago because I couldn't appreciate just how amazing my instrument was. I know what my voice is and I never want to be disappointed or dislike my voice ever again because I missed out years of appreciating the beauty of it. This goes to anyone, your voice is beautiful, it's an expression of yourself in the best way. Listen to that gem of a voice, I love your voice the way it is, you should too!

[@yacinechikivara4700]

Bro can you give me some tips for better projecting my voice or getting it way lower .

[@JarendFromVietNam]

​@@yacinechikivara4700 Make your voice sounds better to the others? One thing to mind is that not all people have "golden" voice, so how you talk will determine how good of your speech. I have a quite nice voice, I know since I always mimic the voice of TV broadcaster and everyone loves it, but despite that I still have to give a good speech rather than giving just a nice voice with no emotion at all. Surely if you want to be a voice actor or anything requires you to express for a specific characteristic, you need to have a proper voice to do that, I think the only advice any people could give you is to practice 😂

[@Tad-For-Global-Peace]

You are a very kind person to write all that. Thank you for being kind.

[@Neeko_-]

Sorry for being delusional but could you be the voice actor of Sylus from Love and Deepspace?

[@sussyimpostr]

I dont really hate my voice but this video is still cool

[@ZER-mn6rf]

I thought only recordings sounded different, but if that's how everyone hear me I'm gonna stop talking 💀

[@Thunderbear8995]

Fr LOL 😢😢😢

[@Justmysterytwo]

Same this doesn’t help this ruined my confidence

[@who.is.nani3]

No cause actually

[@MinishMilly]

If you record yourself often enough you get used to it. We're just oberthinking it, because it feels weird to us, bc there is such a big difference between that and the way we hear ourselves. Most people sound completely normal. Only very very few people have an uncomfortable sounding voice.

[@tillyfnrox8124]

I hate my voice but my friends like it so I guess that's enough..

[@Zoulgm268]

Bro called me ugly in every way possible😭🤣

[@chitaranjan8067]

Fr 😭😭😭

[@Rebrethen]

👍🏻

[@Mieww85]

😂😂samee

[@dedewdedew2349]

Fr

[@chihuahuaboi8698]

No

[@KamuiS]

I've seen maybe 20 or so clips of this guy but this is the first one that has resonated with me and made me actually think for a second. Wow!

[@mannusagar348]

I would could listen to his speeches all day He's so good and into the explanation of how to be ourselves

[@Valerievnl]

It is very hard to love yourself, everyone just says it but doesn’t understand how hard it is, I can proudly say I’m finally at a point in my life where I know my value and it feels so good. I’m sending love to anyone who is struggling with loving themselves fully ❤️ you are worth so much more than what you know right now.

[@Surge_vr975]

Is it just me or do I like how I sound and don’t like the way others hear me

[@aru6727]

Omfg... The last sentences from this video already hit me hard.. And now reading your comment made my eyes flooding 😭 I'm in a phase where i feel disgusted, hate, and mad at myself, i want to end me... I want to change, i want to be someone else, i don't like me, i don't like every single thing in me, inside and outside. "Love yourself" is something i can't relate at all, i don't even know how to do that and how to feel that. I just want me to end. Dead. And i believe no one will even cry for me. But listend to the last sentences in this video and your comment ignites something in me... Im typing this with tears in my eyes, im sorry if express too much, i just want to say thank you... 😭

[@General-Brisbane]

Vinh is one of the best youtuber for learning communication right now i guess

[@spootis]

you guess

[@BirdeyeChilli-fz3wv]

"I guess"

[@aswinsarvanakumar6220]

Do you ​know any other better person?@@spootis

[@shihab2024-b1x]

You’re right, he is the best right now

[@AnonymousDub]

@@aswinsarvanakumar6220my dad

[@aepxen]

him explaining that when u hear urself thats the bine vibration and thats why when u hear yourself in a recording its different just gave me a new perspective

[@chizack6259]

So which is the real one

[@1BiG_HEAD]

​@chizack6259 ᏴϴͲᎻ

[@gamingislife3332]

@@chizack6259both

[@hugomendoza5665]

yep it's acoustics! your voice is actually in a higher pitch than how it sounds to yourself

[@Messi-AFL]

Bro I saw this guy on so many ads and he seemed genuine, glad he made it to these heights

[@fancy_potat]

I like my voice in my head better than the voice everyone else hears lol, it’s okay though

[@Ryan-dy6lh]

Same here

[@alex-n8l3z]

same

[@husseinahme3484]

The good thing is they will never hear what u hear so to them your voice is good

[@fancy_potat]

@ haha yeah

[@PapaFranoo]

Same nruh

[@aeydra]

This did the exact OPPOSITE of boosting anyone's confidence 😂😂😂

[@FF2demons]

or just didn’t boost yours.

[@iRyuzen]

Should've said that how you perceive your own voice is better than how it actually is, and because youre so used to it being this way - when you finally do listen to your own actual voice, you compare it to the better voice you perceived it to be and feel that it's bad. Sure it's worse but it's just you who notices it

[@God_Milk4398]

@@FF2demonsif this boosted your confidence then you are weak

[@legofight5058]

​@@God_Milk4398 who gave you the authority to call someone week first look at yourself that your here being rude to someone in the comments so I would first check myself then look at others

[@God_Milk4398]

@@legofight5058 okay so check yourself then?😂😂and yes I do have authority as I’m higher up than you

[@Camden-v1k]

Bro i am so lucky to be surrounded by people like this guy❤

[@musicimpact7120]

What do you mean?

[@colindenzer9551]

So I love how I sound to myself, and hate how I sound in recordings 😢.

[@Dezzi277]

This hit so hard because this is so me. I don't like hearing my own voice, so I'm glad I saw this.

[@hyunjins_missinghair]

This is so true! When I talk I think that my voice is much deeper because that’s how I hear myself (I’m a girl) but when my friend and I had to do a video project my voice was much more higher 😂!

[@chillmatoes7125]

This is so true, i used to like to sing but once i heard how i sound i just stop ever since😭

[@easymasta]

Start over again I still rap but I stopped in a moment but i started again

[@Redsun156]

The explanation is super brilliant!

[@maxwinter621]

Have never hear something that is so inspired and strong. Impressive, very impressive.

[@MollyLee-c5r]

That is so true, sometimes people see u of who u truly are, but u don’t see u u! You can’t look deep down inside within your heart and ask yourself who you truly are, because sometimes you don’t see you so go look in the mirror and give yourself a recording of your voice and see who you really sound. You will always be you and that is special and unique never doubt yourself and never think that you have to be somebody you’re not. God made you for a reason in that reason will come soon I believe in you.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@gameingwithredhead2944]

I love how this man encourages

[@hindalshammari7388]

So he's saying I look ugly and sound ugly in the video of my camera Thanks man that really boosted my confidence 😊👍

[@MinishMilly]

No, that's not what he said. It's just very different from the way we thought we seemed. You can get used to your recorded voice and your video self. It's just weird to you, because you're not used to it. You're most likely pretty average looking and sounding or maybe even better. It's just all very subjective.

[@hindalshammari7388]

@@MinishMilly ohh okay ( btw) I wasn't trying to sound mean, but I really thought he meant that I looked ugly and sounded ugly

[@AndrewMaestes]

This just changed my whole perspective on my voice I didn’t like my voice but now I can be myself

[@musicimpact7120]

How did this change anything?

[@Creativeadventures-u2t]

"that is YOU" really hit hard it is so true

[@oleolk_WTF]

What a great video. KZbin, I'm begging you to recommend more of that

[@freddy_footbear]

There are something called camera distortions, so recording yourself is now how you look, how you look in the mirror is how people see you, Because light reflects on the mirror, and light also reflects on the eyes (sorry for the bad explanation I am non english, and if there are any mistakes tell me)

[@potqtoe]

Fax

[@Xhaka_-8]

Yeah mirror is just inverted

[@chaosjack2385]

Thank you, now I found out I should hate myself instead of just my voice ❤

[@Thunderbear8995]

Fr lol

[@bootyjig921]

SAME OMG 💀💀💀

[@ElijahTrudell]

Bros a vocal coach and just dropped some of the best quotes I’ve ever heard

[@juleell3876]

Be you Do you ❤short but meaningful❤

[@Stywalker]

I call this guy, a hero.

[@target-precisely]

Thank you. I always had a problem. Your videos help me a lot. Thank you.

[@target-precisely]

Always had a problem with my voice*

[@malili933]

I also hate my own voice on videos but it helps a little bit that I remember that every person hears me that way all the time so it’s only me who thinks it sounds awful the others are used to it 😅😂

[@seraph6189]

What's it mean when my voice don't sound the same as my recorded voice 😅

[@haddigameryt]

Same​@@seraph6189

[@Roadtovarsity-j4s]

Bolt is himmmmm!!! Love the video Grind!! You’re my favorite motivational KZbin channel!!!

[@BoltMotivationYT]

Making me blush man… thank you🙌

[@adrians2767]

I want to give you a big hug thank you. I lose myself everyday I work hard and nobody appreciate that I think I should I appreciate myself more. 😔😔😔

[@DozBiscuits]

I have full respect for this guy 😇

[@revata3335]

His name is Vinh Giang, his KZbin contents are very good

[@malvi616]

Thank you bro

[@brigewhy]

Thank you, was trying to find this in the comments!!

[@Cheershappyday]

Me who likes how i hear it and hate what others have to hear:PAIN

[@My_Name_Is_Anas_Shaji]

I Have The Opposite Condition I Hate My Voice In Videos But Love My Voice When I Hear It The Moment I Say It

[@climbo23]

"You cant look down on yourself when looking in a mirror. You are always eye level, respect yourself like you respect your peers at eye level." - my dad

[@lawgx9819]

"you is you" absolutely inspiring

[@sharkfinsoupThanks]

Soulja boy tell em

[@rathernot6660]

So much for motivational speak. The introvert not only went back into her shell, she placed a hard rock at its exit

[@ClutchDustKid]

I got unique rhymes, i drop em like dimes in a jukebox, they fit good as they should like new socks, i know i should and if i could i would not stop.

[@TreyJ-v4w]

Bro I was confident before watching this I thought how I here my voice is how it sounds and recordings make it sound higher but turns out I everyone else here’s my talking with the same pitch as a female 😢😢

[@TheOneAboveAll723]

Same

[@Thunderbear8995]

Same 😢😔

[@Thunderbear8995]

W comment 😢😭

[@ispeakmovie]

A few years ago, a few of my friends and I started a podcast. At the time, I wasn’t the biggest fan of hearing my own voice in recordings. But we recorded over 60 episodes. And over time, I got pretty used to hearing my own voice, to the point where, just like he said, I began to accept it and even admire it. Since then, I’ve actually started taking an interest in voice acting. So far I haven’t done much professionally, but I’ve helped friends out with their various projects, and it’s been really fun : ) …Admittedly still working on the body image though. Cuz I’ll be so real. I like how I look in the mirror a LOT more than how I look when people take photos or videos of me. I kinda hate having photos or video taken of me tbh. 😬

[@subinpark386]

His explanation is what I read in a pre-SAT passage and in my finals… memories❤

[@Buudgie]

bruh thats why when i listen to my voicemail i sound like a three year old even tho i thought i sounded tuff 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Thunderbear8995]

😢😢😢😢😢

[@Melody-d4m]

This just made me more insecure

[@ByzasTT]

Hello holy beauty

[@mohamedfr6456]

Same lmao

[@LizMcC82]

Same

[@Jannat-hw5qf]

That that touch my heart.Thank you so much. I'm a little bit emotional❤

[@colleenkelly7905]

That is so true My confidence was this 📉 Now it’s this 📈

[@chanda06]

I’m very soft spoken. Always have been. All my life I’ve been accused of this, always been asked to repeat myself multiple times. I’ve never understood cause to me, I’m loud enough to hear everything I say. Until I heard myself on a recording. Now I know I’m very soft spoken

[@highvoltage2696]

Embrace urself ❤️ this is the key to confidence ❤️

[@SaudiArabian0]

He came to saudi once and I visited his talk ❤

[@Queen-Alishah]

Always be grateful for everything (i repeat) "EVERYTHING" Bcoz disliking your voice just bcoz how you sound is nothing when you realize so many people cant even speak 💔 Be Grateful for how you look bcoz so many people cant even see how they look like 💔

[@fruittree1670]

I know its obvious but confidence really does destroy insecurity, and for a lot of people it can be as easy as just turning it on. Be you, do you, and live as you unapologetically so. You will love you more, and the people who love you will love the raw version of you

[@ImNotYanfei]

Vinh is one of the best vocal coaches i know

[@felixdom9693]

Thank god im grateful human being and loving everything about myself especially my health 😊

[@DaspienofEpitaph]

I’ve known about the whole bone vibration thing for a while, but the whole seeing and hearing recordings of yourself is the real you threw me off. 🤯 never thought of it like that.

[@mahithaLOL]

be yourself, embrace it, and be proud of it

[@voidmarvin]

Great to see that boltmotivation also watches vinh giang.

[@Themystery-c7n]

You know this really make me think different sometime and it kinda made me tear up 😢

[@michaelgoodman9508]

There is no one like the "SUPER YOU" before, nor will be in the future. 🤔🙏❤️

[@JesusIsLord828]

Wow!This blew my mind!Amazing 🤯

[@avdeshk3553]

Bro tried his best to motivate us 🥲

[@uchikara5103]

I love talking, I have this organization at school that always interact with people. I talk to them amazingly, people even complement me. But this evening, I asked this girl that I really like to have a dinner with me on Feb 14. Im so dissapointed to myself, I stutter a lot, my hands were shaking, my mind is a complete blank and I don't know what to say. In the end she said that she will think about it. This feeling is so new to me, its so heavy. I don't know what to expect. Will she say yes, no, or will she ignore me and not answer (which i believe the worst). I don't really know my feeling right now. After all the experience that I had in talking to different people, I messed up to a single person.

[@AaradhanaEyeCare]

His voice- 😵🤌🏻✨

[@yukinoyukinoshita9]

I did have this problem during covid when I was depressed I tried recording to my own voice a few times and it wasn't as bad as I thought it would so please do not get depressed over this small thing 👍

[@maricapassley9079]

Bro is telling the truth

[@subhajitmajumder1742]

I always thought that my voice changed in recordings or calls....now I know😊 I started to love it

[@adrians2767]

Give a big thumbs up for this guy because he tell how to love yourself😊

[@anvitanair]

Be you cause everyone else is already taken❤

[@AmyArutla]

Wow, up until this point, I loved my voice, how I hear myself, but hated how I sound in recordings and videos, thank you, I hate my voice now.

[@annspirit24]

Our vouce is a gift of god and our beauty is forever ❤ god makes us all beautiful

[@Reverse-r2v]

I'm girl and it's unfamiliar in society that girl's voice changes after age of 18. But my voice changed completely with low pitch. I felt very down to myself in life, after years the voice is so so normal as compared to changed voice. But still today I lack of confidence in myself when speaking in public as an introvert. But I observed that many times, people really admire to my way of speaking like adults does in a disciplined way. After listening to this I felt very confident today and felt good that anyone exists to speak about this type of insecurity as well.❤

[@sachinthanimsara7625]

Well said 🔥 very good motivation

[@Honored_one-9]

"remember you are you and you are unique cause everyone have their own beauty" ❤️‍🩹🥺

[@derekyoungs2507]

Wow never thought bout it like that. I'm glad this came across my feed kinda what I needed at the moment thank u

[@meliodas5800]

God created us all unique to praise him❤❤❤

[@PepperPug123]

it said that he would boost my confidence but he actually just made me even sadder bc I thought he would explain that mirrors are more what we look like and that hearing your own voice isn’t what you actually sound like😭

[@DaYoungHeFe]

Really needed this

[@Patrick20119]

thanks man needed that

[@chetrex]

"Despite everything, It's still you"

[@SuperFocusYT]

I don't like motivational speeches because most of the time they're really basic, but this guy gave me chills.

[@divyanshichauhan9367]

I love listening my voice, recorded or otherwise.

[@redknight2562]

When I got in VA my confidence in my voice and listening to it went way up.

[@gilnahnu]

his voice is beautiful

[@koweeaboo]

I like hearing myself through me, and seeing myself in a mirror. I don't like hearing myself in a recording or seeing myself in pictures/videos. Think this clip did the opposite effect on me than intended 😧

[@Dante_la]

People say my voice is really high so my confidence stayed the same

[@Taquavion-i3v]

Random quote of the day “I am happy when I choose to be happy.”

[@tiny..introvert]

Already knew the others hear you differently and thats what i hate about my voice. I wish people would hear me the way I hear myself

[@itsalondonthingchris]

Bro is a legend 👍

[@drhaseenap]

This brightened my day 🥹🥹